#discomfort — Public Fediverse posts
Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #discomfort, aggregated by home.social.
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What You Think You Want vs. What You Actually Need
https://wp.me/p84YjG-aQA
#wants #needs #personality #relationships #whoareyou #alone #friends #discomfort #zsoltzsembahttps://zsoltzsemba.com/know-who-you-are-before-relationships/
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We'd like to think rights are inviolable, but they are fragile and borne of stability and surplus. When those are threatened, people get more casual with what they'll do for others.
Also, the very notion of annual meetings has an inappropriate stability baked in. Climate is accelerating, which means the pace of its wrath is not synchronized to budget cycles or the Earth's leisurely path around the sun.
At this point, the very notion of an annual meeting about climate is a statement of denial. It is essential to meet as often and for as long as is needed to get serious action. It may be uncomfortable for representatives to ask there host nation or company for resources or calendar time, itself the most precious resource, but if those entities are not up to feeling uncomfortable in service of something larger, then THAT is the key obstacle and the smoking gun of denialism.
Climate change should be making us uncomfortable. It promises much worse than that, and soon. Discomfort helps to set priorities properly. Smoothing over discomfort admits the acceptability of status quo priorities.
Ask for semi-annual meetings or the right to variable lengths of time to get real points across and obtain serious commitment.
Survival of the species is on the line, and too many places in the world are hierarchically arranged so that that will be managed by herd thinning in vain hope that's enough to let our most affluent survive at the expense of others. In other words, kindness and human rights will be the first casualties of a society structured to preserve its sociopathic leaders at all costs.
And, saddest of all, when the rest are gone, the sociopaths will realize they haven't the skill to do much of anything necessary even for survival, and then they will be gone, too. If I thought we were focused on preserving at least our kindest, or smartest, or hardest working people, I might have hope in this regard. But the ones with the bunkers are none of these things, nor will they be able to keep those bunkers in working order long enough for the planet to recover and humanity to thrive again.
#climate #ClimateDenial #HumanRights #AnnualMeeting #AnnualMeetings #collapse #extinction #budgets #civilization #civilisation #society #discomfort #surplus #stability
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"In terms of finding ways to feel better in the short term, there are interventions that are relatively nonharming or completely nonharming. They’re going to help the #body feel a little bit more comfortable. They’re going to help the #nervous system get recalibrated. But other interventions are going to cause a whole other set of problems. Which doesn’t mean that we can never do them. So if it’s watching TV, because that feels like it’s helping us chill out, fine.
But when that becomes the go-to mechanism for self-soothing, it interrupts the opportunity to stay with the initial #discomfort and begin to investigate it. And that’s basically a setup for #addiction."
https://tricyclemag.substack.com/p/anxiety-is-a-message-from-your-psyche
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Sometimes people are not comfortable receiving compliments
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"Never let your fear be the barrier to your future!" - Futurist Jim Carroll
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Futurist Jim Carroll is writing a series, The Art of the Infinite Pivot, based on 36 lessons from his 36 years as a solo entrepreneur, working as a nomadic worker in the global freelance economy. The series is unfolding here, and at pivot.jimcarroll.com.
--When I walked out of my corporate job 36 years ago, I was terrified.
I didn’t yet have a mortgage, but my wife and I were newly married and planned to get one soon! I had no certainty that my idea of going freelance would work, and I was pretty scared I might fail. All the while, I was reminding myself that while my career path inside a big global firm was “stable” on paper, I was miserable every single moment.
I had to get out, but my fear told me to stay.
Looking back, I now realize that confronting my fear is a natural part of my career pivot.
Throughout this time, I also learned that fear was often a guiding and prevalent issue within my client base when my solo career pivoted from a pure technology focus to innovation & the future.
Innovation? I’ve regularly seen that the biggest obstacle to innovation isn’t a lack of budget or lack of ideas; it’s the collective fear of the unknown.
Trends? When it comes to the future, I’ve learned that vast numbers of people live in fear of what it represents.
But here’s what I also know: the Infinite Pivot requires you to acknowledge the fear, but refuse to let it take hold of your future.---
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Futurist Jim Carroll knows that too many people see the future as a threat, not as an opportunity - because of their fear of what it represents.#Fear #Courage #Barrier #Future #Pivot #Breakthrough #Risk #Discomfort #Innovation
Original post: https://jimcarroll.com/2026/03/decoding-tomorrow-the-infinite-pivot-series-5-never-let-your-fear-be-the-barrier-to-your-future/
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A quotation from Madeleine L'Engle
When I find myself hotly defending something, when I am, in fact, zealous, it is time for me to step back and examine whatever it is that has me so hot under the collar. Do I think it’s going to threaten my comfortable rut? Make me change and grow? — and growing always causes growing pains. Am I afraid to ask questions?
Madeleine L'Engle (1918-2007) American writer
Speech (1983-11-16), “Dare To Be Creative,” Lecture, Library of Congress, Washington, DCMore about this quote: wist.info/lengle-madeleine/828…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #madeleinelengle #change #discomfort #growth #questioning #rut #selfawareness #selfexamination #selfquestioning #statusquo #threat #zeal #zealotry
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A quotation from Madeleine L'Engle
When I find myself hotly defending something, when I am, in fact, zealous, it is time for me to step back and examine whatever it is that has me so hot under the collar. Do I think it’s going to threaten my comfortable rut? Make me change and grow? — and growing always causes growing pains. Am I afraid to ask questions?
Madeleine L'Engle (1918-2007) American writer
Speech (1983-11-16), “Dare To Be Creative,” Lecture, Library of Congress, Washington, DCMore about this quote: wist.info/lengle-madeleine/828…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #madeleinelengle #change #discomfort #growth #questioning #rut #selfawareness #selfexamination #selfquestioning #statusquo #threat #zeal #zealotry
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A quotation from Madeleine L'Engle
When I find myself hotly defending something, when I am, in fact, zealous, it is time for me to step back and examine whatever it is that has me so hot under the collar. Do I think it’s going to threaten my comfortable rut? Make me change and grow? — and growing always causes growing pains. Am I afraid to ask questions?
Madeleine L'Engle (1918-2007) American writer
Speech (1983-11-16), “Dare To Be Creative,” Lecture, Library of Congress, Washington, DCMore about this quote: wist.info/lengle-madeleine/828…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #madeleinelengle #change #discomfort #growth #questioning #rut #selfawareness #selfexamination #selfquestioning #statusquo #threat #zeal #zealotry
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A quotation from Madeleine L'Engle
When I find myself hotly defending something, when I am, in fact, zealous, it is time for me to step back and examine whatever it is that has me so hot under the collar. Do I think it’s going to threaten my comfortable rut? Make me change and grow? — and growing always causes growing pains. Am I afraid to ask questions?
Madeleine L'Engle (1918-2007) American writer
Speech (1983-11-16), “Dare To Be Creative,” Lecture, Library of Congress, Washington, DCMore about this quote: wist.info/lengle-madeleine/828…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #madeleinelengle #change #discomfort #growth #questioning #rut #selfawareness #selfexamination #selfquestioning #statusquo #threat #zeal #zealotry
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"Consistency is only a virtue if the path is still relevant." - Futurist Jim Carroll
Here's something you already know: doing the same old thing puts you on the road to the same old destination.
Keeping that in mind, here are some simple rules to avoid consistency:
Don’t wait for clarity because speed is the only certainty (we don't know where we're going, but we're making great time)
Don’t fear the pivot because the straight path is extinct (volatility is the new normal!)
Don’t ignore the rebels because they see what you’re missing (think about that one - you know it's true!)
Don’t rely on your history because it won’t write your future (legacy is a death sentence)
Don’t prioritize your process because the world prioritizes your progress (be creatively disorganized)
Don’t mistake activity for achievement because movement isn't always forward (invest in free time)
Don’t wait for clarity because speed is the only certainty (jump without knowing!)
Don’t fear the pivot because the straight path is extinct (change yourself already!)
Don’t seek the 'perfect' plan because agility beats perfection every time (you can't plan in a fast future)
Don’t build for today because tomorrow is already here (live forward...)
Don’t settle for the comfortable because growth only happens in discomfort (comfort zone stuff)
How do you do that?
Abandon the roadmap - it was made for a different time
Abandon your assumptions - because they are already anchors
Abandon the tried and true for new things
Abandon perfection because mistakes are your new knowledge opportunities
Abandon yesterday’s logic since it is now basically tomorrow's illogical foundation
Abandon the status quo because it's already obsolete
Abandon what you know to find what you don't know
Abandon the safe plan for the risky unknown
Abandon the analysis and go with your gut
Abandon what you've already done to find what you need to do next
What's the phrase we often hear? I heard it in a song yesterday while driving: "Today is only yesterday's tomorrow.' It's from Uriah Heep, a great 70s band.
Rethink it: "Tomorrow is yesterday's missed opportunity" if you don't change things up!
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Futurist Jim Carroll has seen many companies fail at innovation because consistency is central to their culture.
**#Consistency** **#Change** **#Pivot** **#Agility** **#Abandon** **#Rules** **#Future** **#Innovation** **#Rebels** **#Progress** **#Speed** **#Growth** **#Discomfort** **#Strategy** **#Movement** **#Tomorrow** **#Roadmap** **#Assumptions** **#Risk** **#Leadership** **#Transformation** **#Relevance** **#Logic** **#Action** **#Onwards**
Original post: https://jimcarroll.com/2026/03/daily-inspiration-consistency-is-only-a-virtue-if-the-path-is-still-relevant/
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"Consistency is only a virtue if the path is still relevant." - Futurist Jim Carroll
Here's something you already know: doing the same old thing puts you on the road to the same old destination.
Keeping that in mind, here are some simple rules to avoid consistency:
Don’t wait for clarity because speed is the only certainty (we don't know where we're going, but we're making great time)
Don’t fear the pivot because the straight path is extinct (volatility is the new normal!)
Don’t ignore the rebels because they see what you’re missing (think about that one - you know it's true!)
Don’t rely on your history because it won’t write your future (legacy is a death sentence)
Don’t prioritize your process because the world prioritizes your progress (be creatively disorganized)
Don’t mistake activity for achievement because movement isn't always forward (invest in free time)
Don’t wait for clarity because speed is the only certainty (jump without knowing!)
Don’t fear the pivot because the straight path is extinct (change yourself already!)
Don’t seek the 'perfect' plan because agility beats perfection every time (you can't plan in a fast future)
Don’t build for today because tomorrow is already here (live forward...)
Don’t settle for the comfortable because growth only happens in discomfort (comfort zone stuff)
How do you do that?
Abandon the roadmap - it was made for a different time
Abandon your assumptions - because they are already anchors
Abandon the tried and true for new things
Abandon perfection because mistakes are your new knowledge opportunities
Abandon yesterday’s logic since it is now basically tomorrow's illogical foundation
Abandon the status quo because it's already obsolete
Abandon what you know to find what you don't know
Abandon the safe plan for the risky unknown
Abandon the analysis and go with your gut
Abandon what you've already done to find what you need to do next
What's the phrase we often hear? I heard it in a song yesterday while driving: "Today is only yesterday's tomorrow.' It's from Uriah Heep, a great 70s band.
Rethink it: "Tomorrow is yesterday's missed opportunity" if you don't change things up!
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Futurist Jim Carroll has seen many companies fail at innovation because consistency is central to their culture.
**#Consistency** **#Change** **#Pivot** **#Agility** **#Abandon** **#Rules** **#Future** **#Innovation** **#Rebels** **#Progress** **#Speed** **#Growth** **#Discomfort** **#Strategy** **#Movement** **#Tomorrow** **#Roadmap** **#Assumptions** **#Risk** **#Leadership** **#Transformation** **#Relevance** **#Logic** **#Action** **#Onwards**
Original post: https://jimcarroll.com/2026/03/daily-inspiration-consistency-is-only-a-virtue-if-the-path-is-still-relevant/
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"Consistency is only a virtue if the path is still relevant." - Futurist Jim Carroll
Here's something you already know: doing the same old thing puts you on the road to the same old destination.
Keeping that in mind, here are some simple rules to avoid consistency:
Don’t wait for clarity because speed is the only certainty (we don't know where we're going, but we're making great time)
Don’t fear the pivot because the straight path is extinct (volatility is the new normal!)
Don’t ignore the rebels because they see what you’re missing (think about that one - you know it's true!)
Don’t rely on your history because it won’t write your future (legacy is a death sentence)
Don’t prioritize your process because the world prioritizes your progress (be creatively disorganized)
Don’t mistake activity for achievement because movement isn't always forward (invest in free time)
Don’t wait for clarity because speed is the only certainty (jump without knowing!)
Don’t fear the pivot because the straight path is extinct (change yourself already!)
Don’t seek the 'perfect' plan because agility beats perfection every time (you can't plan in a fast future)
Don’t build for today because tomorrow is already here (live forward...)
Don’t settle for the comfortable because growth only happens in discomfort (comfort zone stuff)
How do you do that?
Abandon the roadmap - it was made for a different time
Abandon your assumptions - because they are already anchors
Abandon the tried and true for new things
Abandon perfection because mistakes are your new knowledge opportunities
Abandon yesterday’s logic since it is now basically tomorrow's illogical foundation
Abandon the status quo because it's already obsolete
Abandon what you know to find what you don't know
Abandon the safe plan for the risky unknown
Abandon the analysis and go with your gut
Abandon what you've already done to find what you need to do next
What's the phrase we often hear? I heard it in a song yesterday while driving: "Today is only yesterday's tomorrow.' It's from Uriah Heep, a great 70s band.
Rethink it: "Tomorrow is yesterday's missed opportunity" if you don't change things up!
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Futurist Jim Carroll has seen many companies fail at innovation because consistency is central to their culture.
**#Consistency** **#Change** **#Pivot** **#Agility** **#Abandon** **#Rules** **#Future** **#Innovation** **#Rebels** **#Progress** **#Speed** **#Growth** **#Discomfort** **#Strategy** **#Movement** **#Tomorrow** **#Roadmap** **#Assumptions** **#Risk** **#Leadership** **#Transformation** **#Relevance** **#Logic** **#Action** **#Onwards**
Original post: https://jimcarroll.com/2026/03/daily-inspiration-consistency-is-only-a-virtue-if-the-path-is-still-relevant/
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"Consistency is only a virtue if the path is still relevant." - Futurist Jim Carroll
Here's something you already know: doing the same old thing puts you on the road to the same old destination.
Keeping that in mind, here are some simple rules to avoid consistency:
Don’t wait for clarity because speed is the only certainty (we don't know where we're going, but we're making great time)
Don’t fear the pivot because the straight path is extinct (volatility is the new normal!)
Don’t ignore the rebels because they see what you’re missing (think about that one - you know it's true!)
Don’t rely on your history because it won’t write your future (legacy is a death sentence)
Don’t prioritize your process because the world prioritizes your progress (be creatively disorganized)
Don’t mistake activity for achievement because movement isn't always forward (invest in free time)
Don’t wait for clarity because speed is the only certainty (jump without knowing!)
Don’t fear the pivot because the straight path is extinct (change yourself already!)
Don’t seek the 'perfect' plan because agility beats perfection every time (you can't plan in a fast future)
Don’t build for today because tomorrow is already here (live forward...)
Don’t settle for the comfortable because growth only happens in discomfort (comfort zone stuff)
How do you do that?
Abandon the roadmap - it was made for a different time
Abandon your assumptions - because they are already anchors
Abandon the tried and true for new things
Abandon perfection because mistakes are your new knowledge opportunities
Abandon yesterday’s logic since it is now basically tomorrow's illogical foundation
Abandon the status quo because it's already obsolete
Abandon what you know to find what you don't know
Abandon the safe plan for the risky unknown
Abandon the analysis and go with your gut
Abandon what you've already done to find what you need to do next
What's the phrase we often hear? I heard it in a song yesterday while driving: "Today is only yesterday's tomorrow.' It's from Uriah Heep, a great 70s band.
Rethink it: "Tomorrow is yesterday's missed opportunity" if you don't change things up!
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Futurist Jim Carroll has seen many companies fail at innovation because consistency is central to their culture.
**#Consistency** **#Change** **#Pivot** **#Agility** **#Abandon** **#Rules** **#Future** **#Innovation** **#Rebels** **#Progress** **#Speed** **#Growth** **#Discomfort** **#Strategy** **#Movement** **#Tomorrow** **#Roadmap** **#Assumptions** **#Risk** **#Leadership** **#Transformation** **#Relevance** **#Logic** **#Action** **#Onwards**
Original post: https://jimcarroll.com/2026/03/daily-inspiration-consistency-is-only-a-virtue-if-the-path-is-still-relevant/
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71% Desk Workers Say Screen-Related Visual Discomfort Is Reducing Productivity
#HackerNews #screenhealth #productivity #discomfort #eyehealth #deskworkers
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If your enemies are starving, feed them some bread;
if they are thirsty, give them water to drink.
By doing this, you will heap burning coals on their heads,
and the Lord will reward you.The Bible (The Old Testament) (14th - 2nd C BC) Judeo-Christian sacred scripture [Tanakh, Hebrew Bible], incl. the Apocrypha (Deuterocanonicals)
Book 20. Proverbs 25:21ff (Prov 25:21-22) [CEB (2011)]More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/bible-ot/82472/
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bible #oldtestament #proverbs #charity #discomfort #embarrassment #giving #hunger #loveyourenemy #passiveaggression #philanthropy #shame #thirst
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A quotation from Josh Billings
Whenever a minister haz preached a sermon that pleazes the whole congregashun, he probably haz preached one that the Lord wont endorse.
[Whenever a minister has preached a sermon that pleases the whole congregation, he probably haz preached one that the Lord won’t endorse.]Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
Josh Billings’ Farmer’s Allminax, 1871-06 (1871 ed.)More about this quote: wist.info/billings-josh/82236/
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #audience #challenge #congregation #discomfort #enjoyment #homily #pleasing #preacher #sermon #crowdpleaser
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A quotation from Josh Billings
Whenever a minister haz preached a sermon that pleazes the whole congregashun, he probably haz preached one that the Lord wont endorse.
[Whenever a minister has preached a sermon that pleases the whole congregation, he probably haz preached one that the Lord won’t endorse.]Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
Josh Billings’ Farmer’s Allminax, 1871-06 (1871 ed.)More about this quote: wist.info/billings-josh/82236/
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #audience #challenge #congregation #discomfort #enjoyment #homily #pleasing #preacher #sermon #crowdpleaser
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A quotation from Josh Billings
Whenever a minister haz preached a sermon that pleazes the whole congregashun, he probably haz preached one that the Lord wont endorse.
[Whenever a minister has preached a sermon that pleases the whole congregation, he probably haz preached one that the Lord won’t endorse.]Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
Josh Billings’ Farmer’s Allminax, 1871-06 (1871 ed.)More about this quote: wist.info/billings-josh/82236/
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #audience #challenge #congregation #discomfort #enjoyment #homily #pleasing #preacher #sermon #crowdpleaser
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A quotation from Josh Billings
Whenever a minister haz preached a sermon that pleazes the whole congregashun, he probably haz preached one that the Lord wont endorse.
[Whenever a minister has preached a sermon that pleases the whole congregation, he probably haz preached one that the Lord won’t endorse.]Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
Josh Billings’ Farmer’s Allminax, 1871-06 (1871 ed.)More about this quote: wist.info/billings-josh/82236/
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #audience #challenge #congregation #discomfort #enjoyment #homily #pleasing #preacher #sermon #crowdpleaser
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Nothing is so painful to the human mind as a great and sudden change.
Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley (1797-1851) English novelist
Frankenstein, Vol. 3, ch. 6 (1818)More about this quote: wist.info/shelley-mary-wallsto…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #maryshelley #marywollstonecraftshelley #frankenstein #disruption #statusquo #change #discomfort #expectations #humannature #overthrowing #revolution
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Personal development isn’t adding habits.
It’s removing the lies you told yourself to stay comfortable.
#Truth #Discomfort #SelfGrowth #MentalStrength -
Personal development isn’t adding habits.
It’s removing the lies you told yourself to stay comfortable.
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Personal development isn’t adding habits.
It’s removing the lies you told yourself to stay comfortable.
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another superb Benn Jordan video has dropped on the subject of Infrasound
Infrasound: What You Can't Hear CAN Hurt You
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The least pain in our little finger gives more concern and uneasiness than the destruction of millions of our fellow beings.
William Hazlitt (1778-1830) English writer
Essay (1829-10), “American Literature — Dr. Channing,” Edinburgh Review, Vol. 50, No. 99, Art. 7More info about this quote: wist.info/hazlitt-william/1423…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #hazlitt #williamhazlitt #compassion #concern #discomfort #pain #perspective #pity #scale #selfabsorption #selfcenteredness #selffocus #selfimportance #selfpity #selfishness
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The least pain in our little finger gives more concern and uneasiness than the destruction of millions of our fellow beings.
William Hazlitt (1778-1830) English writer
Essay (1829-10), “American Literature — Dr. Channing,” Edinburgh Review, Vol. 50, No. 99, Art. 7More info about this quote: wist.info/hazlitt-william/1423…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #hazlitt #williamhazlitt #compassion #concern #discomfort #pain #perspective #pity #scale #selfabsorption #selfcenteredness #selffocus #selfimportance #selfpity #selfishness
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The least pain in our little finger gives more concern and uneasiness than the destruction of millions of our fellow beings.
William Hazlitt (1778-1830) English writer
Essay (1829-10), “American Literature — Dr. Channing,” Edinburgh Review, Vol. 50, No. 99, Art. 7More info about this quote: wist.info/hazlitt-william/1423…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #hazlitt #williamhazlitt #compassion #concern #discomfort #pain #perspective #pity #scale #selfabsorption #selfcenteredness #selffocus #selfimportance #selfpity #selfishness
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The least pain in our little finger gives more concern and uneasiness than the destruction of millions of our fellow beings.
William Hazlitt (1778-1830) English writer
Essay (1829-10), “American Literature — Dr. Channing,” Edinburgh Review, Vol. 50, No. 99, Art. 7More info about this quote: wist.info/hazlitt-william/1423…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #hazlitt #williamhazlitt #compassion #concern #discomfort #pain #perspective #pity #scale #selfabsorption #selfcenteredness #selffocus #selfimportance #selfpity #selfishness
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https://www.europesays.com/uk/382577/ Dear Abby: Husband’s depression increases with each rejection letter, following restructuring layoff #30s #ache #caucasian #discomfort #Health #Healthcare #male #man #medical #MentalHealth #migraine #painful #sad #sinus #sinuses #sore #Stress #stressed #thirties #UK #unhappy #UnitedKingdom #upset
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People wish to be settled; only as far as they are unsettled is there any hope for them. Life is a series of surprises.
Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882) American essayist, lecturer, poet
Essay (1841), “Circles,” Essays: First Series, No. 10Sourcing, notes: wist.info/emerson-ralph-waldo/…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #ralphwaldoemerson #sloth #calm #challenge #change #comfortzone #complaisance #discomfort #life #living #normalcy #settle #statusquo #surprise #unsettling
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CORPORAL: [trying to copy Lawrence’s snuffing a match with his fingers] Ow! It damn well ‘urts!
LAWRENCE: Certainly it hurts.
CORPORAL: Well what’s the trick then?
LAWRENCE: The trick, William Potter, is not minding if it hurts.Robert Bolt (1924-1995) English dramatist
Lawrence of Arabia, Part 1, sc. 18 (1962) [with Michael Wilson]Sourcing, notes: wist.info/bolt-robert/77145/
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #lawrenceofarabia #robertbolt #acceptance #discomfort #hurting #minding #pain #regarding
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When..? 😢
Time is slowly, or quickly, depending how how you look at it, running out. Arwen is getting older. She's struggling more with her health. Some moments, she acts like all is OK and she's having the time of her life. Other moments, she seems in distress, and I slip her some extra painkillers to manage it. I know she's getting closer to the point of saying goodbye. Some of you may remember that I feared losing her a few months ago, when I even had a GoFundMe for the upcoming cremation costs. But... She got some new meds and she's still with me... For now... […]https://cynnisblog.wordpress.com/2025/06/09/when-%f0%9f%98%a2/
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To the nice lady in the pharmacy I ducked into who told me "stay as long as you like, we look out for eachother" Thank you for not minimising the discomfort of someone finding a safe space. And I'm sorry that this is so common an occurrence that I knew you'd probably understand when I said there was a creepy guy outside.
To the people of Worthing (and everywhere in fact), be careful out there. People be weird.
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"This is a confession. I love daytime TV. I smoke, even though I officially gave up years ago. I’m often late, and usually lie about why. And sometimes I feel good when others feel bad.
"The Japanese have a saying: “The misfortunes of others taste like honey.” […] In Hebrew enjoying other people’s catastrophes is 'simcha la‑ed'."
Excerpts from the #book #Schadenfreude by Tiffany Watt Smith: https://web.archive.org/web/20190606171225/https://lithub.com/not-just-a-german-word-a-brief-history-of-schadenfreude/ @psychology @bookstodon
#pity #failures #empathy #envy #emotionality #frustration #discomfort #tonePolicing #languagePolice #conversations #debates #blameTheVictim #grievability #mentalHealth #sadism #bondage #failures #joy #psychology #TiffanyWattSmith #bookStodon #wickedness
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"This is a confession. I love daytime TV. I smoke, even though I officially gave up years ago. I’m often late, and usually lie about why. And sometimes I feel good when others feel bad.
"The Japanese have a saying: “The misfortunes of others taste like honey.” […] In Hebrew enjoying other people’s catastrophes is 'simcha la‑ed'."
Excerpts from the #book #Schadenfreude by Tiffany Watt Smith: https://web.archive.org/web/20190606171225/https://lithub.com/not-just-a-german-word-a-brief-history-of-schadenfreude/ @psychology @bookstodon
#pity #failures #empathy #envy #emotionality #frustration #discomfort #tonePolicing #languagePolice #conversations #debates #blameTheVictim #grievability #mentalHealth #sadism #bondage #failures #joy #psychology #TiffanyWattSmith #bookStodon #wickedness
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"This is a confession. I love daytime TV. I smoke, even though I officially gave up years ago. I’m often late, and usually lie about why. And sometimes I feel good when others feel bad.
"The Japanese have a saying: “The misfortunes of others taste like honey.” […] In Hebrew enjoying other people’s catastrophes is 'simcha la‑ed'."
Excerpts from the #book #Schadenfreude by Tiffany Watt Smith: https://web.archive.org/web/20190606171225/https://lithub.com/not-just-a-german-word-a-brief-history-of-schadenfreude/ @psychology @bookstodon
#pity #failures #empathy #envy #emotionality #frustration #discomfort #tonePolicing #languagePolice #conversations #debates #blameTheVictim #grievability #mentalHealth #sadism #bondage #failures #joy #psychology #TiffanyWattSmith #bookStodon #wickedness
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"This is a confession. I love daytime TV. I smoke, even though I officially gave up years ago. I’m often late, and usually lie about why. And sometimes I feel good when others feel bad.
"The Japanese have a saying: “The misfortunes of others taste like honey.” […] In Hebrew enjoying other people’s catastrophes is 'simcha la‑ed'."
Excerpts from the #book #Schadenfreude by Tiffany Watt Smith: https://web.archive.org/web/20190606171225/https://lithub.com/not-just-a-german-word-a-brief-history-of-schadenfreude/ @psychology @bookstodon
#pity #failures #empathy #envy #emotionality #frustration #discomfort #tonePolicing #languagePolice #conversations #debates #blameTheVictim #grievability #mentalHealth #sadism #bondage #failures #joy #psychology #TiffanyWattSmith #bookStodon #wickedness
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"This is a confession. I love daytime TV. I smoke, even though I officially gave up years ago. I’m often late, and usually lie about why. And sometimes I feel good when others feel bad.
"The Japanese have a saying: “The misfortunes of others taste like honey.” […] In Hebrew enjoying other people’s catastrophes is 'simcha la‑ed'."
Excerpts from the #book #Schadenfreude by Tiffany Watt Smith: https://web.archive.org/web/20190606171225/https://lithub.com/not-just-a-german-word-a-brief-history-of-schadenfreude/ @psychology @bookstodon
#pity #failures #empathy #envy #emotionality #frustration #discomfort #tonePolicing #languagePolice #conversations #debates #blameTheVictim #grievability #mentalHealth #sadism #bondage #failures #joy #psychology #TiffanyWattSmith #bookStodon #wickedness
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This from Harvard Business Review rings true about #ImposterSyndrome: “Imposter syndrome took a fairly universal feeling of #discomfort, second-guessing, and mild #anxiety in the #workplace and #pathologized it, especially for #women. https://tinyurl.com/bdf3msbe H/T to Allyson E. Machate #AmEditing
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Asking people to calm down protects privilege – and silences people who are hurting.
Tone policing: https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/12/tone-policing-and-privilege/
#emotionality #frustration #discomfort #tonePolicing #RobotHugs #languagePolice #conversations #debates #blameTheVictim #adultSupremacy #manliness #humor #humour #feminism #empathy #grievability #mentalHealth #school #adultDomination #adultism #maleSupremacy #adults #patriarchy #whiteSupremacy #JKRowling #transGender #trans #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #transPhobia #transLaw
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Asking people to calm down protects privilege – and silences people who are hurting.
Tone policing: https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/12/tone-policing-and-privilege/
#emotionality #frustration #discomfort #tonePolicing #RobotHugs #languagePolice #conversations #debates #blameTheVictim #adultSupremacy #manliness #humor #humour #feminism #empathy #grievability #mentalHealth #school #adultDomination #adultism #maleSupremacy #adults #patriarchy #whiteSupremacy #JKRowling #transGender #trans #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #transPhobia #transLaw
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Asking people to calm down protects privilege – and silences people who are hurting.
Tone policing: https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/12/tone-policing-and-privilege/
#emotionality #frustration #discomfort #tonePolicing #RobotHugs #languagePolice #conversations #debates #blameTheVictim #adultSupremacy #manliness #humor #humour #feminism #empathy #grievability #mentalHealth #school #adultDomination #adultism #maleSupremacy #adults #patriarchy #whiteSupremacy #JKRowling #transGender #trans #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #transPhobia #transLaw
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Asking people to calm down protects privilege – and silences people who are hurting.
Tone policing: https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/12/tone-policing-and-privilege/
#emotionality #frustration #discomfort #tonePolicing #RobotHugs #languagePolice #conversations #debates #blameTheVictim #adultSupremacy #manliness #humor #humour #feminism #empathy #grievability #mentalHealth #school #adultDomination #adultism #maleSupremacy #adults #patriarchy #whiteSupremacy #JKRowling #transGender #trans #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #transPhobia #transLaw
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Asking people to calm down protects privilege – and silences people who are hurting.
Tone policing: https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/12/tone-policing-and-privilege/
#emotionality #frustration #discomfort #tonePolicing #RobotHugs #languagePolice #conversations #debates #blameTheVictim #adultSupremacy #manliness #humor #humour #feminism #empathy #grievability #mentalHealth #school #adultDomination #adultism #maleSupremacy #adults #patriarchy #whiteSupremacy #JKRowling #transGender #trans #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #transPhobia #transLaw
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Dear Friends of slight pain,
Latest #podcast of using slight #discomfort to #focus the #mind back into #attentive #awareness
https://audio.com/lobster/audio/ascetic-attention
The speaker discusses #ascetic #practice, which involves deprivation or slight pain. They describe two methods: one involves sharpening fingernails and pressing them into the hand as a #reminder, and the other involves squeezing a #mala bead or coin to bring attention back to the present moment. These methods aim to bring #awareness and relaxation. The speaker also mentions using a #meditation #bell as a reminder. These practices are simple but #effective in #refocusing attention.
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Dear Friends of slight pain,
Latest #podcast of using slight #discomfort to #focus the #mind back into #attentive #awareness
https://audio.com/lobster/audio/ascetic-attention
The speaker discusses #ascetic #practice, which involves deprivation or slight pain. They describe two methods: one involves sharpening fingernails and pressing them into the hand as a #reminder, and the other involves squeezing a #mala bead or coin to bring attention back to the present moment. These methods aim to bring #awareness and relaxation. The speaker also mentions using a #meditation #bell as a reminder. These practices are simple but #effective in #refocusing attention.
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#California #Citycouncil #removes #plussign from #LGBTQ+ #Pride #proclamation after deciding it #promotes #BDSM
One #councilmember said the plus sign had to be removed due to his #personal #discomfort.
#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #California #Conservatives #Extremism #Fascism #RepublicanParty #Hate #Bigotry #Violence #Genocide #Discrimination #Homophobia #Transphobia #ThePartyOfHate
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#California #Citycouncil #removes #plussign from #LGBTQ+ #Pride #proclamation after deciding it #promotes #BDSM
One #councilmember said the plus sign had to be removed due to his #personal #discomfort.
#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #California #Conservatives #Extremism #Fascism #RepublicanParty #Hate #Bigotry #Violence #Genocide #Discrimination #Homophobia #Transphobia #ThePartyOfHate
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#California #Citycouncil #removes #plussign from #LGBTQ+ #Pride #proclamation after deciding it #promotes #BDSM
One #councilmember said the plus sign had to be removed due to his #personal #discomfort.
#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #California #Conservatives #Extremism #Fascism #RepublicanParty #Hate #Bigotry #Violence #Genocide #Discrimination #Homophobia #Transphobia #ThePartyOfHate
