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  1. Agir par respect

    La Terre se porterait mieux si nous appliquions une idée bien simple. Les personnes que nous voulons dans notre vie ne souhaitent pas nécessairement la même chose que nous. C’est dans l’ordre des choses que des personnes que l’on aime ne nous aiment pas. C’est dans l’ordre des choses que certaines personnes qui nous ont aimés ne nous aiment plus. C’est dans l’ordre des choses que certains membres de notre famille ne soient pas en phase avec nous. Et c’est bien ainsi.

    Accepter cette simple réalité est parfois un effort important pour notre ego. Ce qui complique la vie, c’est de refuser le choix des autres ou de nous refuser de faire des choix.

    Tolérer ce qui fait mal ne peut mener qu’à la violence, ou la souffrance.

    La guerre est l’un des phénomènes humains les plus constants et les plus complexes. L’histoire nous démontre qu’elle est l’expression paroxystique de tensions qui existent à l’état latent dans toute organisation humaine : la peur de manquer, la méfiance de l’autre, la compétition pour la reconnaissance. La paix durable exige non seulement l’absence de conflit armé, mais la transformation de ces conditions de fond. Prendre une distance afin de ne pas alimenter les tensions est une saine approche.

    Une chanson de Roxanne Filion – Le monde est fou/ L’hymne à la beauté du monde

    Les paroles sur https://fox-infographie.com/wblog_le_monde_est_fou_et_hymne_beaute_du_monde.php et https://genius.com/Isabelle-boulay-lhymne-a-la-beaute-du-monde-lyrics

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2BkAwJK3PZc

    Par Daniel Jean dans Voies (x) de passage

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    #VoieDePassage #acceptation #agir #Aimer #amour #attention #être #compassion #compliquerLaVie #condition #conflitArmé #conscience #ego #enPhase #exister #Famille #guerre #interdépendance #lucidité #organisationHumaine #paix #paixDurable #phénomèneHumain #réalité #reconnaissance #refuser #Respect #saineApproche #tension #Terre #transformation #tuer #Vivre
  2. El presidente #DonaldTrump ha ordenado el restablecimiento de un #bloqueo en el #EstrechoDeOrmuz para #Irán, exigiendo el pago por tránsito tras un nuevo intercambio de #ataques militares entre ambos países, elevando la #tensión en la región del #GolfoPérsico

    Más info: france24.com/en/us-strikes-in-

  3. El presidente #DonaldTrump ha ordenado el restablecimiento de un #bloqueo en el #EstrechoDeOrmuz para #Irán, exigiendo el pago por tránsito tras un nuevo intercambio de #ataques militares entre ambos países, elevando la #tensión en la región del #GolfoPérsico

    Más info: france24.com/en/us-strikes-in-

  4. Shiiiii-

    Oh My God, you guys. When the pieces fall into place…
    Me: [having a witty, flirty conversation in my IMAGINATION 'cause that's all I got right now] "The planning is part of the experience."
    [stops cold] WAIIIIT FUCK IT'S ALL CONNECTED

    1. My AD(H)D brain: "We wrote it on a to do list and that somehow ticks a DONE box in my brain so now I'm going to EXTRA forget about or procrastinate on this task."
      OR
      "I spent too much time in the planning phase of this fun creative project I dreamt up and now I'm bored with it."

    2. My autistic brain: looks up directions and menus and hours and nearby attractions and- before going pretty much anywhere new. But like - YES preparedness but also I don't know it makes me feel like an explorer or pirate or heist-er (heister??) with all my maps and timelines and plans… (like, that's how I played as a kid - funny how things float to the surface - like I was always packing "supplies" and "kits" for little "adventures"… Going through catalogs and making lists of "new puppy supplies" was honestly enough to scratch my "new puppy" itch… and I was PREPARED just in case I should acquire a puppy…)

    3. I've realized in my kinda horrid mostly bland and mundane recent adult years that I MISS looking forward to things. We don't get summer vacation as adults. Christmas is more exhausting than exciting. I am historically the BIGGEST DIVA about my birthday - it's literally my favorite holiday - but it's in less than two weeks, and… I'm taking time off work (because that's another rule, I NEVER work ON my birthday) but I don't have any plans yet really. Just getting more meh every year. (As people who once cared and celebrated with me slowly drop out of my life…)
      AND- I don't mind waiting if I know I have something to look forward to. So, like, in relationships… I understand if you're busy, we can't see each other every weekend or whatever - but if the soonest you KNOW you have time in three weeks then I WANT you to WANT to make plans with me - if they change, they change - but I am a grown-ass woman and I am not going to WAIT THREE WEEKS IN SUSPENSE only to get a "wyd?" text Friday night. And don't tell me I don't "have to" wait around in suspense, I can make my own plans, blah blah… I'm not doing anything anyway. And if I WANT to do something, I damn well will. It would be nice to include The Person I Was Seeing but I'm not going to NOT go to a concert or something if they're busy. It's just a big empty ??? unchecked box in my brain and I need some kind of defined expectation or plan to stop the alert beeping like a smoke detector battery. They all get mad at me eventually for being "needy" and "clingy" and "anxious" and it's like CAN YOU JUST KEEP ME IN THE LOOP ON THE SCHEDULE SO I CAN BE PREPARED?!?! (It's like - the more I know in advance - the better I can pace myself both in terms of energy AND patience.)(It's not even about "keeping a day open" - it's about KNOWING Activity A is on Tuesday and Activity B is on Saturday so I don't have to keep myself on emotional high-vigilance against the upset of spontaneous plans or changes the OTHER days because I already know when A and B are happening SO I CAN CLOSE THAT TAB and let myself go deep in other activities without fearing interruption. Again, this isn't about my TIME, it's about not giving me hyperfocus whiplash.)
      Annnnd I think I may be the odd one out here but especially early days I kinda like "building tension" re: physical intimacy. Trust issues / trauma aside, I'm certainly NOT reluctant to get physical. But it's HOTTTT to deny yourselves and build that anticipation and ache… But how do you ask for that without sounding like you ARE "teasing" and playing games… "I really want to fuck you but can we pretend WE MUST RESTRAIN OURSELVES and get a real steamy slow burn going here??" 🙄 [sigh]


    #autistic #autism #planning #making-lists #routine #add #adhd #audd #audhd #structured-play #dating #tension #anticipation #promises #expectations #slow-burn #nothing-is-EXCITING-anymore #make-me-ACHE-with-anticipation #happy-fucking-birthday-to-me #anyway-that's-my-brain
  5. With an #acting #coaching client we discovered underlying sadness in the scene on one rehearsal. So had them play opposite: envision a joyful future for the character, and go again. We saw a matter-of-fact optimism wrap around that sadness in a really cool counterpoint.

    #ActingCoach #ActingCoaching #actors #rehearsal #tension

  6. With an #acting #coaching client we discovered underlying sadness in the scene on one rehearsal. So had them play opposite: envision a joyful future for the character, and go again. We saw a matter-of-fact optimism wrap around that sadness in a really cool counterpoint.

    #ActingCoach #ActingCoaching #actors #rehearsal #tension

  7. With an #acting #coaching client we discovered underlying sadness in the scene on one rehearsal. So had them play opposite: envision a joyful future for the character, and go again. We saw a matter-of-fact optimism wrap around that sadness in a really cool counterpoint.

    #ActingCoach #ActingCoaching #actors #rehearsal #tension

  8. With an #acting #coaching client we discovered underlying sadness in the scene on one rehearsal. So had them play opposite: envision a joyful future for the character, and go again. We saw a matter-of-fact optimism wrap around that sadness in a really cool counterpoint.

    #ActingCoach #ActingCoaching #actors #rehearsal #tension

  9. With an #acting #coaching client we discovered underlying sadness in the scene on one rehearsal. So had them play opposite: envision a joyful future for the character, and go again. We saw a matter-of-fact optimism wrap around that sadness in a really cool counterpoint.

    #ActingCoach #ActingCoaching #actors #rehearsal #tension

  10. With an #acting #coaching client we discovered underlying sadness in the scene on one rehearsal. So had them play opposite: envision a joyful future for the character, and go again. We saw a matter-of-fact optimism wrap around that sadness in a really cool counterpoint.

    #ActingCoach #tension #act

  11. With an #acting #coaching client we discovered underlying sadness in the scene on one rehearsal. So had them play opposite: envision a joyful future for the character, and go again. We saw a matter-of-fact optimism wrap around that sadness in a really cool counterpoint.

    #ActingCoach #tension #act

  12. With an #acting #coaching client we discovered underlying sadness in the scene on one rehearsal. So had them play opposite: envision a joyful future for the character, and go again. We saw a matter-of-fact optimism wrap around that sadness in a really cool counterpoint.

    #ActingCoach #tension #act

  13. With an #acting #coaching client we discovered underlying sadness in the scene on one rehearsal. So had them play opposite: envision a joyful future for the character, and go again. We saw a matter-of-fact optimism wrap around that sadness in a really cool counterpoint.

    #ActingCoach #tension #act

  14. Las fuerzas de #Pakistán ejecutaron ataques en #Afganistán que resultaron en 36 civiles muertos y 160 heridos. Esta incursión agudiza la #tensión fronteriza, complicando la #seguridad regional y la diplomacia bilateral entre #Islamabad y #Kabul bajo creciente #inestabilidad

    Más info: nbes.blog/ataques-aereos-paqui

  15. El gobierno de #Pakistán lanzó ataques aéreos en #Afganistán contra presuntos escondites de insurgentes, provocando 36 bajas civiles. El incidente eleva la #tensión fronteriza mientras las autoridades afganas denuncian una violación a su #soberanía nacional y #seguridad

    Más info: nbes.blog/ataques-aereos-paqui

  16. Las #FuerzasArmadas de #Israel mantienen sus operaciones en el sur del #Líbano, lo que pone a prueba el reciente acuerdo de #altoelfuego con #Hezbolá, grupo que califica los términos pactados como una capitulación en medio de la creciente #tensión regional

    Más info: nbes.blog/israel-ataca-libano-

  17. Fermetures et pannes de clim à Marseille : un été sous tension pour les bibliothèques municipales

    Décidément, l’été 2026 ne sied pas aux bibliothèques municipales de Marseille. Il y a d’abord eu l’annonce de la…
    #Marseille #FR #France #Actu #News #Europe #EU #2026 #actu #Actualités #clim #Culture #été #europe #fermetures #pannes #Provence-Alpes-Côted'Azur #Républiquefrançaise #sous #tension
    europesays.com/fr/1028146/