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  1. The Backrooms

    They say good art changes how you perceive - whether it be of yourself or the world it adds something. Or perhaps it takes something away from your perception that allows you to see something more clearly. One way or another, art allows you to recognize things that you might not otherwise recognize through mundane life. I've been exploring the backrooms of my mind lately, revisiting memories and past decisions. Memory is a fickle thing according to experts, it is well known that eye witness […]

    joshua404c.wordpress.com/2026/

  2. CW: Arizona's Supreme Court guts mandatory reporting law, harming children (child abuse, sexual abuse of a minor, religious abuse, abuse cover up)
  3. Jessica Ellis about making films with AI:
    "Idk so far I haven’t been remotely surprised in who is excited to use this job-destroying, resource-decimating tech; there is a certain spiritual emptiness to much of their work that seems to slot right in with the idea that people don’t matter."

    Using AI to write or produce "art" is embarrassing and i wish more people will feel more shame.
    As society shows its scorn of AI more, Would you think AI schemers will be more shamed?

    #AIShame #validation #AIRisks #technoCriticism #ai #shame

  4. The Places in My Dreams

    The world within, the world of my dreams, is similar to the one I walk through every day. But it is different.

    The streets bend strangely. The rooms open where they should not. The people and places are often indifferent to me, and sometimes, they are even antagonistic.

    They are not merely people and places. They are representations of emotions I have not yet worked through from the previous day. Sixteen waking hours are not enough to fully grasp all that I have experienced, endured, feared, desired, regretted, or misunderstood.

    And so, in the night, these things come alive.

    They take on faces. They become houses, roads, crowds, locked doors, ruined landscapes, familiar rooms made unfamiliar. They guide me through the shadow lands—not always kindly, but truthfully. They show me what I could not see while awake.

    My dreams are not escapes from the day.

    They are the day returning in another form, asking to be understood.

    Some nights I find myself back in places I have never been, and yet they feel older than memory. A school that was never my school. A church with hallways that keep multiplying. A childhood home rearranged by grief. A city I know by instinct, though no map has ever held it.

    In these places, I am often trying to get somewhere.

    I am late. I am lost. I am looking for someone. I am trying to explain myself to people who will not listen. I am searching for a room, a door, a vehicle, a path, a way home. Sometimes I am carrying something fragile. Sometimes I have forgotten what I was supposed to carry. Sometimes I am responsible for a task I do not understand, surrounded by people who seem to know the rules but refuse to tell me.

    This is the cruelty of the dream world: everyone else seems initiated.

    They move through the strange landscape as if it is ordinary. They know which hallway leads out, which road is safe, which bus to board, which door not to open. I am the stranger in a world that somehow belongs to me. I am the dreamer, and yet I am not in control.

    Perhaps this is why the places feel antagonistic. They do not hate me. They are simply unwilling to flatter me. They will not pretend I am finished with what I have not faced. They will not comfort me with easy explanations. They turn my emotions into architecture and ask me to walk through them.

    Fear becomes a narrow bridge.

    Regret becomes a house with too many locked rooms.

    Anger becomes a storm on the edge of town.

    Shame becomes a crowd that sees me before I am ready to be seen.

    Grief becomes a road that always returns to the same place.

    And longing—longing becomes a light in a window I can never quite reach.

    I wake from these dreams with the feeling that I have traveled farther than my body could have gone. I have crossed cities, fields, stairways, basements, sanctuaries, ruins, and train stations. I have spoken with the dead and avoided the living. I have been judged by strangers and ignored by friends. I have wandered through the unfinished weather of my own soul.

    Then morning comes, and the ordinary world returns.

    The walls are where I left them. The floor is solid. The dog needs to go out. The coffee waits. The phone glows with its small demands. The day begins again, pretending to be separate from the night.

    But I know better.

    The dream has left its residue. A feeling follows me, sometimes faint, sometimes heavy. A hallway from the dream lingers inside the hallway of the house. A face from the night appears behind the face of someone I know. A mood clings to the morning like fog.

    The shadow lands do not vanish when I wake.

    They retreat.

    They wait beneath the visible world, beneath errands and conversations, beneath sermons and chores, beneath the version of myself that knows how to answer when someone asks, “How are you?”

    I say, “I’m fine.”

    But somewhere beneath that answer, an entire city is still burning, or flooding, or rebuilding itself in the dark.

    #ContemplativeWriting #creativeNonfiction #daVinci #dali #dreamCity #dreamJournal #dreams #dreamscape #emotionalGeography #Escher #Fear #gothicReflection #grief #Healing #Imagination #impossibleArchitecture #innerLandscape #innerWorld #KeithLyndaker #labyrinth #longing #MentalHealth #nightVisions #ProsePoem #regret #sacredImagination #selfReflection #shadowLands #shame #SpiritualReflection #subconscious #surrealArt #surrealism #symbolicLandscape #visionaryArt
  5. A quotation from Eric Hoffer

    Self-righteousness is a loud din raised to drown the voice of guilt within us.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    True Believer: Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements, Part 3, ch. 14, § 69 (3.14.69) (1951)

    More about this quote: wist.info/hoffer-eric/11001/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #erichoffer #truebeliever #conscience #guilt #guiltyconscience #selfhatred #selfloathing #selfrighteousness #shame #selfcontempt

  6. A quotation from Eric Hoffer

    Self-righteousness is a loud din raised to drown the voice of guilt within us.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    True Believer: Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements, Part 3, ch. 14, § 69 (3.14.69) (1951)

    More about this quote: wist.info/hoffer-eric/11001/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #erichoffer #truebeliever #conscience #guilt #guiltyconscience #selfhatred #selfloathing #selfrighteousness #shame #selfcontempt

  7. A quotation from Eric Hoffer

    Self-righteousness is a loud din raised to drown the voice of guilt within us.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    True Believer: Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements, Part 3, ch. 14, § 69 (3.14.69) (1951)

    More about this quote: wist.info/hoffer-eric/11001/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #erichoffer #truebeliever #conscience #guilt #guiltyconscience #selfhatred #selfloathing #selfrighteousness #shame #selfcontempt

  8. A quotation from Eric Hoffer

    Self-righteousness is a loud din raised to drown the voice of guilt within us.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    True Believer: Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements, Part 3, ch. 14, § 69 (3.14.69) (1951)

    More about this quote: wist.info/hoffer-eric/11001/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #erichoffer #truebeliever #conscience #guilt #guiltyconscience #selfhatred #selfloathing #selfrighteousness #shame #selfcontempt

  9. A quotation from Hoffer

    Self-contempt, however vague, sharpens our eyes for the imperfections of others. We usually strive to reveal in others the blemishes we hide in ourselves.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    True Believer: Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements, Part 3, ch. 14, § 100 (3.14.100) (1951)

    More about this quote: wist.info/hoffer-eric/11352/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #hoffer #erichoffer #accusation #error #flaws #guilt #imperfections #projection #selfcontempt #selfcriticism #selfdoubt #selfhatred #selfimage #selfloathing #sensitivity #shame #shortcomings #weaknesses

  10. A quotation from Hoffer

    Self-contempt, however vague, sharpens our eyes for the imperfections of others. We usually strive to reveal in others the blemishes we hide in ourselves.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    True Believer: Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements, Part 3, ch. 14, § 100 (3.14.100) (1951)

    More about this quote: wist.info/hoffer-eric/11352/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #hoffer #erichoffer #accusation #error #flaws #guilt #imperfections #projection #selfcontempt #selfcriticism #selfdoubt #selfhatred #selfimage #selfloathing #sensitivity #shame #shortcomings #weaknesses

  11. A quotation from Hoffer

    Self-contempt, however vague, sharpens our eyes for the imperfections of others. We usually strive to reveal in others the blemishes we hide in ourselves.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    True Believer: Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements, Part 3, ch. 14, § 100 (3.14.100) (1951)

    More about this quote: wist.info/hoffer-eric/11352/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #hoffer #erichoffer #accusation #error #flaws #guilt #imperfections #projection #selfcontempt #selfcriticism #selfdoubt #selfhatred #selfimage #selfloathing #sensitivity #shame #shortcomings #weaknesses

  12. A quotation from Hoffer

    Self-contempt, however vague, sharpens our eyes for the imperfections of others. We usually strive to reveal in others the blemishes we hide in ourselves.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    True Believer: Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements, Part 3, ch. 14, § 100 (3.14.100) (1951)

    More about this quote: wist.info/hoffer-eric/11352/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #hoffer #erichoffer #accusation #error #flaws #guilt #imperfections #projection #selfcontempt #selfcriticism #selfdoubt #selfhatred #selfimage #selfloathing #sensitivity #shame #shortcomings #weaknesses

  13. A quotation from Hoffer

    Self-contempt, however vague, sharpens our eyes for the imperfections of others. We usually strive to reveal in others the blemishes we hide in ourselves.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    True Believer: Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements, Part 3, ch. 14, § 100 (3.14.100) (1951)

    More about this quote: wist.info/hoffer-eric/11352/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #hoffer #erichoffer #accusation #error #flaws #guilt #imperfections #projection #selfcontempt #selfcriticism #selfdoubt #selfhatred #selfimage #selfloathing #sensitivity #shame #shortcomings #weaknesses

  14. Ukraine update from Giorgio Provincialli:

    Russia commits act of nuclear terror with latest attack on Chornobyl.

    Beyond the real danger of a dirty nuke attack, the psychological weight of Chornobyl weighs heavily upon the rest of the world.

    Share the friend link to bypass the paywall and help the world learn what corporate media won't report: medium.com/@giorgioprovinciali

    #ukraine #jounralism #nuclear #terror #war #russia #russiaisATerroristState #warcrimes #chornobyl #complicit #USA #TRUMP #MAGA #shame #dirtyBomb #nuclearTerror

  15. The Register: Dutch cops’ shame game works wonders as most wanted scammers now turned in . “Netherlands police’s scheme to unmask and shame scammers into submission is proving highly successful, with 74 of its 100 most wanted now known to investigators. The country’s ‘Game Over?!’ campaign involved releasing the blurred images of fraudsters into the public domain and threatening to unmask […]

    https://rbfirehose.com/2026/05/19/the-register-dutch-cops-shame-game-works-wonders-as-most-wanted-scammers-now-turned-in/
  16. 1/ Ich mach jetzt mal was, was man nicht machen soll: #PublicShaming.

    Ich sollte eigentlich laufen gehen, aber ich bin zu faul und außerdem will ich noch dieses Gutachten fertig machen und dieses Paper lesen, damit ich dann dieses andere Paper fertig schreiben kann.

    Dabei wäre ich wahrscheinlich nach dem Laufen viel produktiver. #ShameOnMe

    Ihr könnt jetzt das Video von #HerbstInPeking mit dem Titel #Shame gucken:

    youtube.com/watch?v=dZDfWC0AwxM

    Ihr könnt aber auch rausgehen und laufen. Das Video ist 16 Minuten lang. Da seid Ihr schon dreimal um den Block gelaufen.

    #ShameOnYou

    Ich gehe morgen laufen. Versprochen!

  17. A quotation from Montesquieu

    I suffer from the disease of writing books and being ashamed of them when they are finished.
     
    [J’ai la maladie de faire des livres et d’en être honteux quand je les ai faits.]

    Charles-Lewis de Secondat, Baron de Montesquieu (1689-1755) French political philosopher
    Pensées Diverses [Assorted Thoughts], # 83 / 837 (1720-1755)

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/montesquieu/83690/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #montesquieu #author #dissatisfaction #selfcontempt #selfcriticism #selfdeprecation #selfdoubt #selfjudgment #selfloathing #selfperception #shame #writer #writing

  18. A quotation from Montesquieu

    I suffer from the disease of writing books and being ashamed of them when they are finished.
     
    [J’ai la maladie de faire des livres et d’en être honteux quand je les ai faits.]

    Charles-Lewis de Secondat, Baron de Montesquieu (1689-1755) French political philosopher
    Pensées Diverses [Assorted Thoughts], # 83 / 837 (1720-1755)

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/montesquieu/83690/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #montesquieu #author #dissatisfaction #selfcontempt #selfcriticism #selfdeprecation #selfdoubt #selfjudgment #selfloathing #selfperception #shame #writer #writing

  19. A quotation from Montesquieu

    I suffer from the disease of writing books and being ashamed of them when they are finished.
     
    [J’ai la maladie de faire des livres et d’en être honteux quand je les ai faits.]

    Charles-Lewis de Secondat, Baron de Montesquieu (1689-1755) French political philosopher
    Pensées Diverses [Assorted Thoughts], # 83 / 837 (1720-1755)

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/montesquieu/83690/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #montesquieu #author #dissatisfaction #selfcontempt #selfcriticism #selfdeprecation #selfdoubt #selfjudgment #selfloathing #selfperception #shame #writer #writing

  20. A quotation from Montesquieu

    I suffer from the disease of writing books and being ashamed of them when they are finished.
     
    [J’ai la maladie de faire des livres et d’en être honteux quand je les ai faits.]

    Charles-Lewis de Secondat, Baron de Montesquieu (1689-1755) French political philosopher
    Pensées Diverses [Assorted Thoughts], # 83 / 837 (1720-1755)

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/montesquieu/83690/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #montesquieu #author #dissatisfaction #selfcontempt #selfcriticism #selfdeprecation #selfdoubt #selfjudgment #selfloathing #selfperception #shame #writer #writing

  21. A quotation from Montesquieu

    I suffer from the disease of writing books and being ashamed of them when they are finished.
     
    [J’ai la maladie de faire des livres et d’en être honteux quand je les ai faits.]

    Charles-Lewis de Secondat, Baron de Montesquieu (1689-1755) French political philosopher
    Pensées Diverses [Assorted Thoughts], # 83 / 837 (1720-1755)

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/montesquieu/83690/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #montesquieu #author #dissatisfaction #selfcontempt #selfcriticism #selfdeprecation #selfdoubt #selfjudgment #selfloathing #selfperception #shame #writer #writing

  22. A sad day for Ontario! This is why Ontarians need to take it to the streets in order to resist Doug Ford's destructive agenda! #shame #ONpoli #ONDP #OLP #PCPO #GPO

    RE: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:ldznw4mcxo6n5fdkaokanemm/post/3mk6gecyo7k2k

  23. Doug Ford is wrong to accuse the privacy commissioner of politicizing his undemocratic FOI changes when he's the one politicizing them. It should also be noted 60% of respondents oppose those changes per a recent Abacus Data poll. #shame #ONpoli #ONDP #OLP #GPO #PCPO www.thestar.com/politics/pro...

    Doug Ford accuses privacy comm...

  24. A quotation from Thomas Fuller

    Dare not to be guilty of ill Things, tho’ thou wert sure to be secret and unpunished. Conscience will sit upon it, and that is Witness, Jury, Judge, and Executioner.

    Thomas Fuller (1654-1734) English physician, preacher, aphorist, writer
    Introductio ad Prudentiam, Vol. 2, # 2216 (1727)

    More info about this quote: wist.info/ivins-molly/79900/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #thomasfuller #conscience #guilt #guiltyconscience #selfawareness #selfcondemnation #selfconsciousness #selfcriticism #selfdeprecation #selfesteem #selfinflictedwound #selfjudgment #selfregard #shame #wrongdoing

  25. A quotation from Hoffer, Eric:

    «
    That hatred springs more from self-contempt than from a legitimate grievance is seen in the intimate connection between hatred and a guilty conscience. There is perhaps no surer way of infecting ourselves with virulent hatred toward a person than by doing him a grave injustice. That others have a…
    »

    Full quote, sourcing, notes:
    wist.info/hoffer-eric/31573/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #ego #guilt #hatred #injustice #offense #pride #selfcontempt #selfhatred #shame

  26. A quotation from Hoffer, Eric:

    «
    That hatred springs more from self-contempt than from a legitimate grievance is seen in the intimate connection between hatred and a guilty conscience. There is perhaps no surer way of infecting ourselves with virulent hatred toward a person than by doing him a grave injustice. That others have a…
    »

    Full quote, sourcing, notes:
    wist.info/hoffer-eric/31573/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #ego #guilt #hatred #injustice #offense #pride #selfcontempt #selfhatred #shame

  27. A quotation from Hoffer, Eric:

    «
    That hatred springs more from self-contempt than from a legitimate grievance is seen in the intimate connection between hatred and a guilty conscience. There is perhaps no surer way of infecting ourselves with virulent hatred toward a person than by doing him a grave injustice. That others have a…
    »

    Full quote, sourcing, notes:
    wist.info/hoffer-eric/31573/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #ego #guilt #hatred #injustice #offense #pride #selfcontempt #selfhatred #shame

  28. #IT's a #Shame that the #RacistHomophobes at #SSG couldn't "permit" a #EuroPrideSmurf to exist; not for one whole month. That would be #Absurd... But, #Yule in #Junuary; that's #JustFine... Happy #FictionalChristmas...!

    #EuroPrideSmurf | #EuroSmurfing #SmellMyCheese

    #WeStandWithPSiReN | #LotROStillDown

    🧙⚔️​🤖🐺🤖⚔️​🧙 | 💀​​🦹🧟​🦄​​​​🧟​🦹💀

  29. #IT's a #Shame that the #RacistHomophobes at #SSG couldn't "permit" a #EuroPrideSmurf to exist; not for one whole month. That would be #Absurd... But, #Yule in #Junuary; that's #JustFine... Happy #FictionalChristmas...!

    #EuroPrideSmurf | #EuroSmurfing #SmellMyCheese

    #WeStandWithPSiReN | #LotROStillDown

    🧙⚔️​🤖🐺🤖⚔️​🧙 | 💀​​🦹🧟​🦄​​​​🧟​🦹💀

  30. #AlsoNotice: #TheCompleteAbsence of #LotRO...

    #IT's a #Shame that #SSG couldn't find a #CompetentPerson to #Manage their #RacistHomophobes; but, that's #WhatHappens when you #Employ #MiserableMorons and #LetThem #RunRampant on your #ShoddyGame while #CommittingFraud...

    #ToldYouSo, and I'll #KeepTellingYou... #BecauseICan...

    #SucksToBeThem...

    🧙⚔️​​🤖🐺🤖⚔️​​🧙 | :fediverse:​🦹🚀​🦄​🚀​🦹:fediverse:

  31. #IT's a #Shame, really...

    We've #JustCancelled our #NetflixSub after 8-years; #TheBFF will #HardlyNotice, #MyLittleBigBuddy is #NotThatHappy about #IT...

    We shall just have to #FindAnotherWay to #EntertainOurselves...

    That won't be #TooHard...

    #IT'll #Soon be #WinterTime, #Anyways...

    🧙:fediverse:​🤖:wolfparty:​🤖:fediverse:​🧙 | 🛫​🦹:loading:​🐻​:loading:​🦹🛬​

  32. How many scandals will it take for DOJ to investigate Clarence Thomas?

    Let’s get this straight: If a state legislator accepts so much as a sandwich, they must disclose it.

    So it’s been very difficult to understand how Supreme Court Justice #Clarence #Thomas has gotten away with accepting free trips on superyachts and private jets belonging to a billionaire, #Harlan #Crow, not to mention a sweetheart real estate deal with that same billionaire, without disclosing them. For years.

    As unsavory as all this is, it’s also not out of character. Thomas and his wife have been at the center of all kinds of ethics scandals for years.

    It has gotten very disheartening, even disgusting, to watch the never-ending Thomas carnival of #corruption bring #shame on the Supreme Court. It’s time for it to stop.

    Now that it’s come to light, the party should be over for Thomas. I say "should" because while there is a lot of #talk about #accountability, it’s been less clear how that will come to pass.

    Thomas has resisted calls to #resign. #Impeachment seems highly unlikely given the Republican leadership of the House. Senate #hearings may happen, and that’s a positive step.

    Fortunately, there are also other options, including one very good one with solid legal underpinnings: a Department of Justice (DOJ) #investigation under federal statutes that require disclosure of the kind of perks Thomas has enjoyed, and also authorize #penalties for violators.

    The #DOJ should investigate Thomas’s unethical and possibly illegal violations #without #delay.
    thehill.com/opinion/judiciary/

  33. It's "funny" how a few words can seemingly undo months and years of work on your #self-esteem, #self-worth, and #BodyImage. Writing this blog post was hard and I cried a lot as I wrote it. But I want to share it with the world anyway, hoping that maybe other people feel a little less alone because of it.

    roadtomytrueself.wordpress.com

    #ed #EatingDisorders #DisorderedEating #Shame #Guilt #ChronicIllness #MentalHealth

  34. #TheWhale: "...… a tender and frequently overwhelming character #drama, albeit carrying Aronofsky’s love-it-or-hate-it penchant for directness and preoccupation with metaphysics."

    Aronofsky is one of my all-time favourite filmmakers, so yeah, I'm on the 'love it' side of things here.

    Full review at FilmInk: filmink.com.au/reviews/the-wha #film #movies #filmreview #moviereview #brendanfraser #darrenaronofsky #sadiesink #hongchau #tysimpkins #guilt #shame #excommunication #divisive #LGBTQ