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  1. Wenn man einer Person unabsichtlich auf die Füße tritt, wird sie vielleicht aufschreien oder sogar fluchen, weil es weh tut. Insbesondere, wenn die Zehen noch blau sind, weil ihr das sehr oft passiert und manche sogar absichtlich zutreten.

    Die impulsive Reaktion hat nichts mit dir persönlich zu tun, die Person wird dir genau das auch zeigen, wenn du ihren Schmerz anerkennst, den du ungewollt ausgelöst hast.

    Alles lässt sich dann schnell klären und wird positiv enden.
    #TonePolicing #Inklusion

  2. Wenn man einer Person unabsichtlich auf die Füße tritt, wird sie vielleicht aufschreien oder sogar fluchen, weil es weh tut. Insbesondere, wenn die Zehen noch blau sind, weil ihr das sehr oft passiert und manche sogar absichtlich zutreten.

    Die impulsive Reaktion hat nichts mit dir persönlich zu tun, die Person wird dir genau das auch zeigen, wenn du ihren Schmerz anerkennst, den du ungewollt ausgelöst hast.

    Alles lässt sich dann schnell klären und wird positiv enden.
    #TonePolicing #Inklusion

  3. Wenn man einer Person unabsichtlich auf die Füße tritt, wird sie vielleicht aufschreien oder sogar fluchen, weil es weh tut. Insbesondere, wenn die Zehen noch blau sind, weil ihr das sehr oft passiert und manche sogar absichtlich zutreten.

    Die impulsive Reaktion hat nichts mit dir persönlich zu tun, die Person wird dir genau das auch zeigen, wenn du ihren Schmerz anerkennst, den du ungewollt ausgelöst hast.

    Alles lässt sich dann schnell klären und wird positiv enden.
    #TonePolicing #Inklusion

  4. Wenn man einer Person unabsichtlich auf die Füße tritt, wird sie vielleicht aufschreien oder sogar fluchen, weil es weh tut. Insbesondere, wenn die Zehen noch blau sind, weil ihr das sehr oft passiert und manche sogar absichtlich zutreten.

    Die impulsive Reaktion hat nichts mit dir persönlich zu tun, die Person wird dir genau das auch zeigen, wenn du ihren Schmerz anerkennst, den du ungewollt ausgelöst hast.

    Alles lässt sich dann schnell klären und wird positiv enden.
    #TonePolicing #Inklusion

  5. Wenn man einer Person unabsichtlich auf die Füße tritt, wird sie vielleicht aufschreien oder sogar fluchen, weil es weh tut. Insbesondere, wenn die Zehen noch blau sind, weil ihr das sehr oft passiert und manche sogar absichtlich zutreten.

    Die impulsive Reaktion hat nichts mit dir persönlich zu tun, die Person wird dir genau das auch zeigen, wenn du ihren Schmerz anerkennst, den du ungewollt ausgelöst hast.

    Alles lässt sich dann schnell klären und wird positiv enden.
    #TonePolicing #Inklusion

  6. :autism: :NeuroDiversity: :feminism:
    1LIVE Intimbereich:
    Weibliche Wut: Zu laut, zu emotional, zu viel? (45 Minuten)

    In dieser Folge spricht Catrin mit Pädagogin Danijela Klich über weibliche Wut - und warum sie Frauen oft schon früh abtrainiert wird. Warum gelten wütende Frauen schnell als 'zu emotional', 'anstrengend' oder 'unangemessen'? Und was passiert, wenn man lernt, die eigene Wut NICHT immer runterzuschlucken?
    www1.wdr.de/mediathek/audio/1l

    #Podcast #1live #1liveIntumbereich #WeiblicheWut #Emotionen #PeoplePleasing #TonePolicing #Neurodivergenz #Impulskontrolle #Autismus #ADHS

  7. :autism: :NeuroDiversity: :feminism:
    1LIVE Intimbereich:
    Weibliche Wut: Zu laut, zu emotional, zu viel? (45 Minuten)

    In dieser Folge spricht Catrin mit Pädagogin Danijela Klich über weibliche Wut - und warum sie Frauen oft schon früh abtrainiert wird. Warum gelten wütende Frauen schnell als 'zu emotional', 'anstrengend' oder 'unangemessen'? Und was passiert, wenn man lernt, die eigene Wut NICHT immer runterzuschlucken?
    www1.wdr.de/mediathek/audio/1l

    #Podcast #1live #1liveIntumbereich #WeiblicheWut #Emotionen #PeoplePleasing #TonePolicing #Neurodivergenz #Impulskontrolle #Autismus #ADHS

  8. :autism: :NeuroDiversity: :feminism:
    1LIVE Intimbereich:
    Weibliche Wut: Zu laut, zu emotional, zu viel? (45 Minuten)

    In dieser Folge spricht Catrin mit Pädagogin Danijela Klich über weibliche Wut - und warum sie Frauen oft schon früh abtrainiert wird. Warum gelten wütende Frauen schnell als 'zu emotional', 'anstrengend' oder 'unangemessen'? Und was passiert, wenn man lernt, die eigene Wut NICHT immer runterzuschlucken?
    www1.wdr.de/mediathek/audio/1l

    #Podcast #1live #1liveIntumbereich #WeiblicheWut #Emotionen #PeoplePleasing #TonePolicing #Neurodivergenz #Impulskontrolle #Autismus #ADHS

  9. :autism: :NeuroDiversity: :feminism:
    1LIVE Intimbereich:
    Weibliche Wut: Zu laut, zu emotional, zu viel? (45 Minuten)

    In dieser Folge spricht Catrin mit Pädagogin Danijela Klich über weibliche Wut - und warum sie Frauen oft schon früh abtrainiert wird. Warum gelten wütende Frauen schnell als 'zu emotional', 'anstrengend' oder 'unangemessen'? Und was passiert, wenn man lernt, die eigene Wut NICHT immer runterzuschlucken?
    www1.wdr.de/mediathek/audio/1l

    #Podcast #1live #1liveIntumbereich #WeiblicheWut #Emotionen #PeoplePleasing #TonePolicing #Neurodivergenz #Impulskontrolle #Autismus #ADHS

  10. :autism: :NeuroDiversity: :feminism:
    1LIVE Intimbereich:
    Weibliche Wut: Zu laut, zu emotional, zu viel? (45 Minuten)

    In dieser Folge spricht Catrin mit Pädagogin Danijela Klich über weibliche Wut - und warum sie Frauen oft schon früh abtrainiert wird. Warum gelten wütende Frauen schnell als 'zu emotional', 'anstrengend' oder 'unangemessen'? Und was passiert, wenn man lernt, die eigene Wut NICHT immer runterzuschlucken?
    www1.wdr.de/mediathek/audio/1l

    #Podcast #1live #1liveIntumbereich #WeiblicheWut #Emotionen #PeoplePleasing #TonePolicing #Neurodivergenz #Impulskontrolle #Autismus #ADHS

  11. Leute mit Privilegien: Nicht so schnell, wir müssen das erst gesellschaftlich ausdiskutieren! Ihr müsst die normalen Leute da schon mitnehmen! Ach ja, "normal", das sind nur wir.

    die Benachteiligten: Ähm wir diskutieren das schon seit Jahrhunderten? Aber ok, hier sind noch mal Studien A bis Z und persönliche Erfahrungen 1 bis 50 Millionen

    Leute mit Privilegien 5 Minuten später: Jetzt haben mir hier schon 2 bis 3 Leute widersprochen, ich werde hier also ganz schlimm angegangen und gecancelt. So ist eine rationale Diskussion leider nicht möglich. Ihr müsst da schon freundlicher und höflicher vorgehen, sonst schadet ihr eurer Sache. Keinesfalls darf in euren Posts irgendeine Emotion durchklingen nach Jahrhunderten der Benachteiligung!
    Was höflich und freundlich genug ist, bestimmen übrigens wir. Haha, ist nur ein Trick, ihr seid nie freundlich genug!

    jedes. verdammte. Mal.

    #TonePolicing

  12. Leute mit Privilegien: Nicht so schnell, wir müssen das erst gesellschaftlich ausdiskutieren! Ihr müsst die normalen Leute da schon mitnehmen! Ach ja, "normal", das sind nur wir.

    die Benachteiligten: Ähm wir diskutieren das schon seit Jahrhunderten? Aber ok, hier sind noch mal Studien A bis Z und persönliche Erfahrungen 1 bis 50 Millionen

    Leute mit Privilegien 5 Minuten später: Jetzt haben mir hier schon 2 bis 3 Leute widersprochen, ich werde hier also ganz schlimm angegangen und gecancelt. So ist eine rationale Diskussion leider nicht möglich. Ihr müsst da schon freundlicher und höflicher vorgehen, sonst schadet ihr eurer Sache. Keinesfalls darf in euren Posts irgendeine Emotion durchklingen nach Jahrhunderten der Benachteiligung!
    Was höflich und freundlich genug ist, bestimmen übrigens wir. Haha, ist nur ein Trick, ihr seid nie freundlich genug!

    jedes. verdammte. Mal.

    #TonePolicing

  13. Leute mit Privilegien: Nicht so schnell, wir müssen das erst gesellschaftlich ausdiskutieren! Ihr müsst die normalen Leute da schon mitnehmen! Ach ja, "normal", das sind nur wir.

    die Benachteiligten: Ähm wir diskutieren das schon seit Jahrhunderten? Aber ok, hier sind noch mal Studien A bis Z und persönliche Erfahrungen 1 bis 50 Millionen

    Leute mit Privilegien 5 Minuten später: Jetzt haben mir hier schon 2 bis 3 Leute widersprochen, ich werde hier also ganz schlimm angegangen und gecancelt. So ist eine rationale Diskussion leider nicht möglich. Ihr müsst da schon freundlicher und höflicher vorgehen, sonst schadet ihr eurer Sache. Keinesfalls darf in euren Posts irgendeine Emotion durchklingen nach Jahrhunderten der Benachteiligung!
    Was höflich und freundlich genug ist, bestimmen übrigens wir. Haha, ist nur ein Trick, ihr seid nie freundlich genug!

    jedes. verdammte. Mal.

    #TonePolicing

  14. Leute mit Privilegien: Nicht so schnell, wir müssen das erst gesellschaftlich ausdiskutieren! Ihr müsst die normalen Leute da schon mitnehmen! Ach ja, "normal", das sind nur wir.

    die Benachteiligten: Ähm wir diskutieren das schon seit Jahrhunderten? Aber ok, hier sind noch mal Studien A bis Z und persönliche Erfahrungen 1 bis 50 Millionen

    Leute mit Privilegien 5 Minuten später: Jetzt haben mir hier schon 2 bis 3 Leute widersprochen, ich werde hier also ganz schlimm angegangen und gecancelt. So ist eine rationale Diskussion leider nicht möglich. Ihr müsst da schon freundlicher und höflicher vorgehen, sonst schadet ihr eurer Sache. Keinesfalls darf in euren Posts irgendeine Emotion durchklingen nach Jahrhunderten der Benachteiligung!
    Was höflich und freundlich genug ist, bestimmen übrigens wir. Haha, ist nur ein Trick, ihr seid nie freundlich genug!

    jedes. verdammte. Mal.

    #TonePolicing

  15. Leute mit Privilegien: Nicht so schnell, wir müssen das erst gesellschaftlich ausdiskutieren! Ihr müsst die normalen Leute da schon mitnehmen! Ach ja, "normal", das sind nur wir.

    die Benachteiligten: Ähm wir diskutieren das schon seit Jahrhunderten? Aber ok, hier sind noch mal Studien A bis Z und persönliche Erfahrungen 1 bis 50 Millionen

    Leute mit Privilegien 5 Minuten später: Jetzt haben mir hier schon 2 bis 3 Leute widersprochen, ich werde hier also ganz schlimm angegangen und gecancelt. So ist eine rationale Diskussion leider nicht möglich. Ihr müsst da schon freundlicher und höflicher vorgehen, sonst schadet ihr eurer Sache. Keinesfalls darf in euren Posts irgendeine Emotion durchklingen nach Jahrhunderten der Benachteiligung!
    Was höflich und freundlich genug ist, bestimmen übrigens wir. Haha, ist nur ein Trick, ihr seid nie freundlich genug!

    jedes. verdammte. Mal.

    #TonePolicing

  16. @scheichsbeutel Ich verbuche das hier mal unter "fragile Männlichkeit" ☺️
    PIus #tonepolicing 🙄
    Plus *Frau ist mit meinen 'klugen' Ergüssen intellektuell überfordert*🙄

    Für mehr ist mir meine Zeit zu schade.

    @rebootdeluxe @AnyaKarl

  17. @scheichsbeutel Ich verbuche das hier mal unter "fragile Männlichkeit" ☺️
    PIus #tonepolicing 🙄
    Plus *Frau ist mit meinen 'klugen' Ergüssen intellektuell überfordert*🙄

    Für mehr ist mir meine Zeit zu schade.

    @rebootdeluxe @AnyaKarl

  18. @scheichsbeutel Ich verbuche das hier mal unter "fragile Männlichkeit" ☺️
    PIus #tonepolicing 🙄
    Plus *Frau ist mit meinen 'klugen' Ergüssen intellektuell überfordert*🙄

    Für mehr ist mir meine Zeit zu schade.

    @rebootdeluxe @AnyaKarl

  19. @scheichsbeutel Ich verbuche das hier mal unter "fragile Männlichkeit" ☺️
    PIus #tonepolicing 🙄
    Plus *Frau ist mit meinen 'klugen' Ergüssen intellektuell überfordert*🙄

    Für mehr ist mir meine Zeit zu schade.

    @rebootdeluxe @AnyaKarl

  20. "/s" tone indicator should just intuitively stand only for "sarcasm", because it taking less effort than being serious correlates to indicator's length. "ar" part that comprises "/sar" is simply redundant. /ser

    #ToneIndicator #ToneIndicators #TonePolice #TonePolicing #SeriousTone #serious #sarcasm

  21. "/s" tone indicator should just intuitively stand only for "sarcasm", because it taking less effort than being serious correlates to indicator's length. "ar" part that comprises "/sar" is simply redundant. /ser

    #ToneIndicator #ToneIndicators #TonePolice #TonePolicing #SeriousTone #serious #sarcasm

  22. "/s" tone indicator should just intuitively stand only for "sarcasm", because it taking less effort than being serious correlates to indicator's length. "ar" part that comprises "/sar" is simply redundant. /ser

    #ToneIndicator #ToneIndicators #TonePolice #TonePolicing #SeriousTone #serious #sarcasm

  23. "/s" tone indicator should just intuitively stand only for "sarcasm", because it taking less effort than being serious correlates to indicator's length. "ar" part that comprises "/sar" is simply redundant. /ser

    #ToneIndicator #ToneIndicators #TonePolice #TonePolicing #SeriousTone #serious #sarcasm

  24. "/s" tone indicator should just intuitively stand only for "sarcasm", because it taking less effort than being serious correlates to indicator's length. "ar" part that comprises "/sar" is simply redundant. /ser

  25. @victorhck Hombre, "nadie" "nadie"...
    ("nadie con el poder suficiente" ok)
    (Que entiendo el toot y comparto la rabia, perdón por el #tonepolicing :bloblewd: pero el lenguaje absolutista nadie/todos siempre/nunca puede llevar a un derrotismo mayor del necesario a veces #imho)

  26. @victorhck Hombre, "nadie" "nadie"...
    ("nadie con el poder suficiente" ok)
    (Que entiendo el toot y comparto la rabia, perdón por el #tonepolicing :bloblewd: pero el lenguaje absolutista nadie/todos siempre/nunca puede llevar a un derrotismo mayor del necesario a veces #imho)

  27. @victorhck Hombre, "nadie" "nadie"...
    ("nadie con el poder suficiente" ok)
    (Que entiendo el toot y comparto la rabia, perdón por el #tonepolicing :bloblewd: pero el lenguaje absolutista nadie/todos siempre/nunca puede llevar a un derrotismo mayor del necesario a veces #imho)

  28. @victorhck Hombre, "nadie" "nadie"...
    ("nadie con el poder suficiente" ok)
    (Que entiendo el toot y comparto la rabia, perdón por el #tonepolicing :bloblewd: pero el lenguaje absolutista nadie/todos siempre/nunca puede llevar a un derrotismo mayor del necesario a veces #imho)

  29. @victorhck Hombre, "nadie" "nadie"...
    ("nadie con el poder suficiente" ok)
    (Que entiendo el toot y comparto la rabia, perdón por el #tonepolicing :bloblewd: pero el lenguaje absolutista nadie/todos siempre/nunca puede llevar a un derrotismo mayor del necesario a veces #imho)

  30. #TonePolicing #fascism #fascists

    "The Weaponization of Civility

    How 'respectful discourse' silences dissent and prepares the ground for fascism

    The first warning sign is not a shouted threat. It is a polite correction.

    It sounds reasonable. Calm down. Choose better words. Let’s keep this civil. The message is framed as maturity, as responsibility, as a necessary condition for dialogue. But what it really does is shift the conversation away from what is being said and toward how it is being said. And once that shift happens, power rarely has to answer for itself.

    Most people have encountered this move, whether in a workplace meeting, a school board forum, or a public comment thread. A difficult truth is raised. Someone becomes visibly upset. Instead of engaging the issue, the room focuses on tone. The critique is no longer evaluated on its merits. It is evaluated on whether it made anyone uncomfortable.

    This is not just a social habit. It is a political mechanism.

    Fascism does not begin with violence. It begins with behavioral standards that quietly redefine legitimacy. Before dissent is outlawed, it is discredited. Before opposition is crushed, it is framed as unreasonable, unstable, or dangerous. The language of civility is one of the most effective tools in this process because it disguises exclusion as virtue."

    davisvanguard.org/2026/01/fasc

  31. #TonePolicing #fascism #fascists

    "The Weaponization of Civility

    How 'respectful discourse' silences dissent and prepares the ground for fascism

    The first warning sign is not a shouted threat. It is a polite correction.

    It sounds reasonable. Calm down. Choose better words. Let’s keep this civil. The message is framed as maturity, as responsibility, as a necessary condition for dialogue. But what it really does is shift the conversation away from what is being said and toward how it is being said. And once that shift happens, power rarely has to answer for itself.

    Most people have encountered this move, whether in a workplace meeting, a school board forum, or a public comment thread. A difficult truth is raised. Someone becomes visibly upset. Instead of engaging the issue, the room focuses on tone. The critique is no longer evaluated on its merits. It is evaluated on whether it made anyone uncomfortable.

    This is not just a social habit. It is a political mechanism.

    Fascism does not begin with violence. It begins with behavioral standards that quietly redefine legitimacy. Before dissent is outlawed, it is discredited. Before opposition is crushed, it is framed as unreasonable, unstable, or dangerous. The language of civility is one of the most effective tools in this process because it disguises exclusion as virtue."

    davisvanguard.org/2026/01/fasc

  32. #TonePolicing #fascism #fascists

    "The Weaponization of Civility

    How 'respectful discourse' silences dissent and prepares the ground for fascism

    The first warning sign is not a shouted threat. It is a polite correction.

    It sounds reasonable. Calm down. Choose better words. Let’s keep this civil. The message is framed as maturity, as responsibility, as a necessary condition for dialogue. But what it really does is shift the conversation away from what is being said and toward how it is being said. And once that shift happens, power rarely has to answer for itself.

    Most people have encountered this move, whether in a workplace meeting, a school board forum, or a public comment thread. A difficult truth is raised. Someone becomes visibly upset. Instead of engaging the issue, the room focuses on tone. The critique is no longer evaluated on its merits. It is evaluated on whether it made anyone uncomfortable.

    This is not just a social habit. It is a political mechanism.

    Fascism does not begin with violence. It begins with behavioral standards that quietly redefine legitimacy. Before dissent is outlawed, it is discredited. Before opposition is crushed, it is framed as unreasonable, unstable, or dangerous. The language of civility is one of the most effective tools in this process because it disguises exclusion as virtue."

    davisvanguard.org/2026/01/fasc

  33. #TonePolicing #fascism #fascists

    "The Weaponization of Civility

    How 'respectful discourse' silences dissent and prepares the ground for fascism

    The first warning sign is not a shouted threat. It is a polite correction.

    It sounds reasonable. Calm down. Choose better words. Let’s keep this civil. The message is framed as maturity, as responsibility, as a necessary condition for dialogue. But what it really does is shift the conversation away from what is being said and toward how it is being said. And once that shift happens, power rarely has to answer for itself.

    Most people have encountered this move, whether in a workplace meeting, a school board forum, or a public comment thread. A difficult truth is raised. Someone becomes visibly upset. Instead of engaging the issue, the room focuses on tone. The critique is no longer evaluated on its merits. It is evaluated on whether it made anyone uncomfortable.

    This is not just a social habit. It is a political mechanism.

    Fascism does not begin with violence. It begins with behavioral standards that quietly redefine legitimacy. Before dissent is outlawed, it is discredited. Before opposition is crushed, it is framed as unreasonable, unstable, or dangerous. The language of civility is one of the most effective tools in this process because it disguises exclusion as virtue."

    davisvanguard.org/2026/01/fasc

  34. No, your very 'nice' country does not get to pretend it is any better than the United States just because you have a centrist PM. You are just as bad. You are a part of the problem. Rather than confronting your incredibly racist and genocidal past and present you pretend that your version of Biden is saving you from fascist leadership while your PM continues to bend over backwards to appease Trump and the far right.

    Your historic refusal to confront fascists on your own soil despite laws clearly permitting you to, turning of a blind eye to the hate they export across your only national border, the terrorists you harbor who cross that border freely whenever the heat in your southern neighbor gets too hot for them, and unwillingness to hold your ultra wealthy who help fund these movements on both sides of the border make you complicit.

    Do not fucking pretend you aren't as bad as us Americans, do not police us for calling out your own fascism as much as we do our own, and do not pretend you are appreciably in a better place than we are.

    You are lying to yourself. If you didn't root out your far right 20 years ago when your government was far more to the left than it is today you will NOT stop those fascists now, their takeover is inevitable and you are being complicit by not listening to the warnings from your southern border and acting accordingly.

    #canada #fascism #tonepolicing

  35. No, your very 'nice' country does not get to pretend it is any better than the United States just because you have a centrist PM. You are just as bad. You are a part of the problem. Rather than confronting your incredibly racist and genocidal past and present you pretend that your version of Biden is saving you from fascist leadership while your PM continues to bend over backwards to appease Trump and the far right.

    Your historic refusal to confront fascists on your own soil despite laws clearly permitting you to, turning of a blind eye to the hate they export across your only national border, the terrorists you harbor who cross that border freely whenever the heat in your southern neighbor gets too hot for them, and unwillingness to hold your ultra wealthy who help fund these movements on both sides of the border make you complicit.

    Do not fucking pretend you aren't as bad as us Americans, do not police us for calling out your own fascism as much as we do our own, and do not pretend you are appreciably in a better place than we are.

    You are lying to yourself. If you didn't root out your far right 20 years ago when your government was far more to the left than it is today you will NOT stop those fascists now, their takeover is inevitable and you are being complicit by not listening to the warnings from your southern border and acting accordingly.

    #canada #fascism #tonepolicing

  36. No, your very 'nice' country does not get to pretend it is any better than the United States just because you have a centrist PM. You are just as bad. You are a part of the problem. Rather than confronting your incredibly racist and genocidal past and present you pretend that your version of Biden is saving you from fascist leadership while your PM continues to bend over backwards to appease Trump and the far right.

    Your historic refusal to confront fascists on your own soil despite laws clearly permitting you to, turning of a blind eye to the hate they export across your only national border, the terrorists you harbor who cross that border freely whenever the heat in your southern neighbor gets too hot for them, and unwillingness to hold your ultra wealthy who help fund these movements on both sides of the border make you complicit.

    Do not fucking pretend you aren't as bad as us Americans, do not police us for calling out your own fascism as much as we do our own, and do not pretend you are appreciably in a better place than we are.

    You are lying to yourself. If you didn't root out your far right 20 years ago when your government was far more to the left than it is today you will NOT stop those fascists now, their takeover is inevitable and you are being complicit by not listening to the warnings from your southern border and acting accordingly.

    #canada #fascism #tonepolicing

  37. Watching liberals like #TimChambers lecture people directly impacted by #CharlieKirk and his ilk as to how they 'should' react to his death has been a good refresher that #liberals & #progressives are not real allies to the marginalized. Even people who had been directly targeted have attempted to tell them the horrific impact on their lives but there is a refusal to permit people the right to their own feelings and reactions.

    Charlie Kirk intentionally terrorized broad swaths of society, ranging from the LGBTQ community, to black, indigenous and people of color, to higher education professors (for whom he maintained a hit list) and many, many more.

    It is utterly rational, and requires no defense that those on those lists or those who have any empathy for them would celebrate the fact that someone took him out. That does not mean they are calling for violence, it means they have had to live under threat for years, more than a decade in many cases, never knowing when one of his crazed followers would try to harass, assault or murder them and now that person is no longer there to incite such violence.

    #TonePolicing those who have to live under such oppression is wrong, it is the opposite of ally-ship and makes clear that as we sink into further oppression they will NOT have anyone's back.

  38. Watching liberals like #TimChambers lecture people directly impacted by #CharlieKirk and his ilk as to how they 'should' react to his death has been a good refresher that #liberals & #progressives are not real allies to the marginalized. Even people who had been directly targeted have attempted to tell them the horrific impact on their lives but there is a refusal to permit people the right to their own feelings and reactions.

    Charlie Kirk intentionally terrorized broad swaths of society, ranging from the LGBTQ community, to black, indigenous and people of color, to higher education professors (for whom he maintained a hit list) and many, many more.

    It is utterly rational, and requires no defense that those on those lists or those who have any empathy for them would celebrate the fact that someone took him out. That does not mean they are calling for violence, it means they have had to live under threat for years, more than a decade in many cases, never knowing when one of his crazed followers would try to harass, assault or murder them and now that person is no longer there to incite such violence.

    #TonePolicing those who have to live under such oppression is wrong, it is the opposite of ally-ship and makes clear that as we sink into further oppression they will NOT have anyone's back.

  39. Watching liberals like #TimChambers lecture people directly impacted by #CharlieKirk and his ilk as to how they 'should' react to his death has been a good refresher that #liberals & #progressives are not real allies to the marginalized. Even people who had been directly targeted have attempted to tell them the horrific impact on their lives but there is a refusal to permit people the right to their own feelings and reactions.

    Charlie Kirk intentionally terrorized broad swaths of society, ranging from the LGBTQ community, to black, indigenous and people of color, to higher education professors (for whom he maintained a hit list) and many, many more.

    It is utterly rational, and requires no defense that those on those lists or those who have any empathy for them would celebrate the fact that someone took him out. That does not mean they are calling for violence, it means they have had to live under threat for years, more than a decade in many cases, never knowing when one of his crazed followers would try to harass, assault or murder them and now that person is no longer there to incite such violence.

    #TonePolicing those who have to live under such oppression is wrong, it is the opposite of ally-ship and makes clear that as we sink into further oppression they will NOT have anyone's back.

  40. Watching liberals like #TimChambers lecture people directly impacted by #CharlieKirk and his ilk as to how they 'should' react to his death has been a good refresher that #liberals & #progressives are not real allies to the marginalized. Even people who had been directly targeted have attempted to tell them the horrific impact on their lives but there is a refusal to permit people the right to their own feelings and reactions.

    Charlie Kirk intentionally terrorized broad swaths of society, ranging from the LGBTQ community, to black, indigenous and people of color, to higher education professors (for whom he maintained a hit list) and many, many more.

    It is utterly rational, and requires no defense that those on those lists or those who have any empathy for them would celebrate the fact that someone took him out. That does not mean they are calling for violence, it means they have had to live under threat for years, more than a decade in many cases, never knowing when one of his crazed followers would try to harass, assault or murder them and now that person is no longer there to incite such violence.

    #TonePolicing those who have to live under such oppression is wrong, it is the opposite of ally-ship and makes clear that as we sink into further oppression they will NOT have anyone's back.

  41. 11 year old meme still true today.

    Proof is in the pearl clutching...

    They challenge your tone because they want to ignore the content.

    #ShitIFind #tonepolicing

  42. 11 year old meme still true today.

    Proof is in the pearl clutching...

    They challenge your tone because they want to ignore the content.

    #ShitIFind #tonepolicing

  43. 11 year old meme still true today.

    Proof is in the pearl clutching...

    They challenge your tone because they want to ignore the content.

    #ShitIFind #tonepolicing

  44. 11 year old meme still true today.

    Proof is in the pearl clutching...

    They challenge your tone because they want to ignore the content.

    #ShitIFind #tonepolicing

  45. 11 year old meme still true today.

    Proof is in the pearl clutching...

    They challenge your tone because they want to ignore the content.

    #ShitIFind #tonepolicing

  46. @metaning
    Would have liked something in stark contrast to the Trump morass.

    Instead, swap some details around and it could have been Jnr and Scaramucci.

    (Does this count as #TonePolicing?)

    Can see that having dad doing world-stage "across the aisle" while living as "Joe's son" would bias heavily towards feeling depersonalised.
    Running away and changing his name might have made things better. But instead he kept sucking on the family tit.

  47. @metaning
    Would have liked something in stark contrast to the Trump morass.

    Instead, swap some details around and it could have been Jnr and Scaramucci.

    (Does this count as #TonePolicing?)

    Can see that having dad doing world-stage "across the aisle" while living as "Joe's son" would bias heavily towards feeling depersonalised.
    Running away and changing his name might have made things better. But instead he kept sucking on the family tit.

  48. @metaning
    Would have liked something in stark contrast to the Trump morass.

    Instead, swap some details around and it could have been Jnr and Scaramucci.

    (Does this count as #TonePolicing?)

    Can see that having dad doing world-stage "across the aisle" while living as "Joe's son" would bias heavily towards feeling depersonalised.
    Running away and changing his name might have made things better. But instead he kept sucking on the family tit.

  49. @metaning
    Would have liked something in stark contrast to the Trump morass.

    Instead, swap some details around and it could have been Jnr and Scaramucci.

    (Does this count as #TonePolicing?)

    Can see that having dad doing world-stage "across the aisle" while living as "Joe's son" would bias heavily towards feeling depersonalised.
    Running away and changing his name might have made things better. But instead he kept sucking on the family tit.

  50. @metaning
    Would have liked something in stark contrast to the Trump morass.

    Instead, swap some details around and it could have been Jnr and Scaramucci.

    (Does this count as #TonePolicing?)

    Can see that having dad doing world-stage "across the aisle" while living as "Joe's son" would bias heavily towards feeling depersonalised.
    Running away and changing his name might have made things better. But instead he kept sucking on the family tit.

  51. @qwertziop Und es setzt voraus, dass noch genügend Löffel für Freundlichkeit da sind. Es ist auch gefährlich nahe am #tonepolicing

  52. @qwertziop Und es setzt voraus, dass noch genügend Löffel für Freundlichkeit da sind. Es ist auch gefährlich nahe am #tonepolicing