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  1. CW: PhotoArt SFW

    #π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•€β„™π•šπ•”π•œπ•€
    #π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•’π•Ÿπ•šπ•’
    #π•Šπ•₯𝕖𝕗
    𝔽𝕠𝕣
    #π”Όπ•Ÿπ•›π• π•ͺπ•žπ•–π•Ÿπ•₯
    𝕠𝕗
    #𝕄𝕦π•₯𝕦𝕒𝕝
    #𝔽𝕠𝕝𝕝𝕠𝕨𝕀
    +
    𝕆π•₯𝕙𝕖𝕣
    #β„•π•Šπ”½π•Ž-𝕖𝕣𝕀
    π•šπ•Ÿ 𝕀𝕙𝕠𝕣π•₯
    #β„•π•Šπ”½π•Žπ•€

    #β„‚π• π•žπ•‘π•π•–π•₯𝕖
    #𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕕
    #π•Šπ•–π•₯
    #β„™π• π•£π•Ÿπ•€π•₯𝕒𝕣
    #𝕋𝕒π•₯π•₯𝕠𝕠𝕀

    #β„™π• π•£π•Ÿπ•€π•₯𝕒𝕣𝕀
    πŸ›πŸœ
    #ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠𝕀
    πŸŸπŸ›

    #ℂ𝕠𝕝𝕝𝕖𝕔π•₯π•šπ• π•Ÿ
    𝕠𝕗
    #ℙ𝕠𝕀π•₯𝕀
    π•₯𝕠
    #ℕ𝕖𝕨
    #𝕄𝕦π•₯𝕦𝕒𝕝𝕀
    𝕆𝕣
    π•Žπ•™π•–π•Ÿ
    π•Ÿπ• π•₯
    π•‹π•™π•–π•Ÿ
    𝕨𝕒𝕀
    #𝕄𝕠π•₯π•šπ•§π•’π•₯π•šπ• π•Ÿ
    ℙ𝕠𝕀π•₯

    #π•‹π•™π•£π•–π•’π••π•Šπ•–π•₯
    #π”½π•šπ•£π•€π•₯
    #ℙ𝕠𝕀π•₯
    #𝔹𝕖𝕀π•₯
    π•₯𝕠
    #π”»π•šπ•€π•‘π•π•’π•ͺ
    #𝔼𝕧𝕖𝕣π•ͺ
    #β„™π•šπ•”
    π•šπ•Ÿ π•₯𝕙𝕖 π•Šπ•–π•₯
    π•€π•Ÿ #𝕆𝕣𝕕𝕖𝕣
    π•§π•šπ•’
    𝕦𝕀𝕦𝕒𝕝
    π•Šπ•”π•£π• π•π•π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜
    π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿ.

    #π”Ήπ• π•Ÿπ•¦π•€
    π•Žπ•™π•–π•Ÿ 𝕦𝕀𝕖 π•₯𝕙𝕖
    #𝕄𝕒𝕀π•₯π• π••π• π•Ÿ #π•ƒπ•šπ•Ÿπ•œ
    𝔸𝕦π•₯𝕠
    #π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿπ•π• π•’π••π•€
    π•₯𝕙𝕖 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕕 #β„™π•šπ•”π•€

    mastodon.social/@StefsPicks/11

    #π”Όπ•Ÿπ•›π• π•ͺ
    𝕄π•ͺ
    #β„™π•£π• π•—π•šπ•π•– β„™π•šπ•”
    π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•’π•Ÿπ•šπ•’
    #ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠 #𝔸𝕣π•₯ πŸ›πŸ™

  2. CW: PhotoArt SFW

    #π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•€β„™π•šπ•”π•œπ•€
    #π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•’π•Ÿπ•šπ•’
    #π•Šπ•₯𝕖𝕗
    𝔽𝕠𝕣
    #π”Όπ•Ÿπ•›π• π•ͺπ•žπ•–π•Ÿπ•₯
    𝕠𝕗
    #𝕄𝕦π•₯𝕦𝕒𝕝
    #𝔽𝕠𝕝𝕝𝕠𝕨𝕀
    +
    𝕆π•₯𝕙𝕖𝕣
    #β„•π•Šπ”½π•Ž-𝕖𝕣𝕀
    π•šπ•Ÿ 𝕀𝕙𝕠𝕣π•₯
    #β„•π•Šπ”½π•Žπ•€

    #β„‚π• π•žπ•‘π•π•–π•₯𝕖
    #𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕕
    #π•Šπ•–π•₯
    #β„™π• π•£π•Ÿπ•€π•₯𝕒𝕣
    #𝕋𝕒π•₯π•₯𝕠𝕠𝕀

    #β„™π• π•£π•Ÿπ•€π•₯𝕒𝕣𝕀
    πŸ›πŸœ
    #ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠𝕀
    πŸŸπŸ›

    #ℂ𝕠𝕝𝕝𝕖𝕔π•₯π•šπ• π•Ÿ
    𝕠𝕗
    #ℙ𝕠𝕀π•₯𝕀
    π•₯𝕠
    #ℕ𝕖𝕨
    #𝕄𝕦π•₯𝕦𝕒𝕝𝕀
    𝕆𝕣
    π•Žπ•™π•–π•Ÿ
    π•Ÿπ• π•₯
    π•‹π•™π•–π•Ÿ
    𝕨𝕒𝕀
    #𝕄𝕠π•₯π•šπ•§π•’π•₯π•šπ• π•Ÿ
    ℙ𝕠𝕀π•₯

    #π•‹π•™π•£π•–π•’π••π•Šπ•–π•₯
    #π”½π•šπ•£π•€π•₯
    #ℙ𝕠𝕀π•₯
    #𝔹𝕖𝕀π•₯
    π•₯𝕠
    #π”»π•šπ•€π•‘π•π•’π•ͺ
    #𝔼𝕧𝕖𝕣π•ͺ
    #β„™π•šπ•”
    π•šπ•Ÿ π•₯𝕙𝕖 π•Šπ•–π•₯
    π•€π•Ÿ #𝕆𝕣𝕕𝕖𝕣
    π•§π•šπ•’
    𝕦𝕀𝕦𝕒𝕝
    π•Šπ•”π•£π• π•π•π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜
    π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿ.

    #π”Ήπ• π•Ÿπ•¦π•€
    π•Žπ•™π•–π•Ÿ 𝕦𝕀𝕖 π•₯𝕙𝕖
    #𝕄𝕒𝕀π•₯π• π••π• π•Ÿ #π•ƒπ•šπ•Ÿπ•œ
    𝔸𝕦π•₯𝕠
    #π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿπ•π• π•’π••π•€
    π•₯𝕙𝕖 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕕 #β„™π•šπ•”π•€

    mastodon.social/@StefsPicks/11

    #π”Όπ•Ÿπ•›π• π•ͺ
    𝕄π•ͺ
    #β„™π•£π• π•—π•šπ•π•– β„™π•šπ•”
    π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•’π•Ÿπ•šπ•’
    #ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠 #𝔸𝕣π•₯ πŸ›πŸ™

  3. I've noticed that listening to music just isn't what it used to be since I started to use streaming. It's very nice to have all the music in the world (well, within reason) at your fingertips, but I think the process of selecting a CD from a limited, curated collection, putting it in the player and playing it somehow was more satisfying. It's all too easy with streaming.

    #music #Streaming #CD #enjoyment

  4. I've noticed that listening to music just isn't what it used to be since I started to use streaming. It's very nice to have all the music in the world (well, within reason) at your fingertips, but I think the process of selecting a CD from a limited, curated collection, putting it in the player and playing it somehow was more satisfying. It's all too easy with streaming.

    #music #Streaming #CD #enjoyment

  5. I've noticed that listening to music just isn't what it used to be since I started to use streaming. It's very nice to have all the music in the world (well, within reason) at your fingertips, but I think the process of selecting a CD from a limited, curated collection, putting it in the player and playing it somehow was more satisfying. It's all too easy with streaming.

    #music #Streaming #CD #enjoyment

  6. I've noticed that listening to music just isn't what it used to be since I started to use streaming. It's very nice to have all the music in the world (well, within reason) at your fingertips, but I think the process of selecting a CD from a limited, curated collection, putting it in the player and playing it somehow was more satisfying. It's all too easy with streaming.

    #music #Streaming #CD #enjoyment

  7. I've noticed that listening to music just isn't what it used to be since I started to use streaming. It's very nice to have all the music in the world (well, within reason) at your fingertips, but I think the process of selecting a CD from a limited, curated collection, putting it in the player and playing it somehow was more satisfying. It's all too easy with streaming.

    #music #Streaming #CD #enjoyment

  8. The jouissance of writing

    From Mari Ruti’s The Creative Self: Beyond Individualism, loc 1781:

    Its intensity is such that I cannot exactly call it pleasurable. The sheer volume of sentences pouring out, and the rapidity with which they form, can feel overwhelming. This is an experience of jouissance in as pure a form as I am able to experience it, which is why it is the kind of pleasure that borders on pain. I know that others experience it differently, sometimes even as an erotic event.118 But for me it is mostly agonizing. Fortunately, things shift when I reach the editorial stage which, by comparison, is calm and calming. That is when the process slows down and writing becomes a more straightforward pleasure.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QwjzJKCZWYc

    Nothing is more entertaining
    Than fuckin’ with words and their arrangement

    I really identify with what Ruti is describing here, even if in my case it’s unambiguously pleasurable. There is nonetheless an excess to the pleasure which means it needs to be described as jouissance. It feels to me like there’s a continuous stream of reactions and associations forming just beneath the surface of my awareness which I tune into when I’m writing. The writing process is little more than just deliberately tuning in so that stream starts flowing out of me and onto the page, until either it feels exhausted or I do at which point I stop.

    It’s a process which I’ve learned to steer by being vaguely purposeful with what I read, who I talk to, what I think about. I suspect if I stopped reading, stopped having interesting conversations, the stream wouldn’t exactly dry up but it would lose force and momentum in a way that would make writing far more difficult. At present it’s just a case of finding time to tune into that inner process, which at the moment is proving extremely difficulty. But it’s still relatively easy to write every day in at least one small burst.

    The problem I experience is editing. Firstly, it’s something I struggle with cognitively. I know how to write over my own words in a way that gradually refines them. I know how to reach a point where I’m able and willing to hack away at the manuscript. There’s a certain pleasure in killing your darlings once you reach a vivid sense of the finished work underlying them. But I can only restructure in an intuitive way. I find it hard to cognitively map a text which is why I increasingly rely on LLMs to help me plan this process.

    Perhaps more importantly I get bored at this stage. It’s not that I don’t care about the finished work but the jouissance described above has largely gone. Ruti has a lovely image about jouissance and words on loc 1225:

    Sometimes I even picture tiny morsels of jouissance latching themselves onto the underbellies of select signifiers so as to give them the kind of boost that enables them to resuscitate the domain of signification

    When I’m editing I can still stumble across these little barnacles of jouissance attached to my words. But they’ve washed up on the beach and the jouissance has now died. I can see they were there, but the energy is gone. It means I find editing a slightly depressing process as well as a boring one. It’s the mirror image of the liveness and lightness which characterises writing for me. A sort of turgid death march because I know I have to engage in before anyone will be willing or interesting in the outgrowths of this strangely energetic and ultimately slightly solipsistic process of how I write.

    #creativity #editing #enjoyment #Jouissance #MariRuti #pleasure #writing
  9. The jouissance of writing

    From Mari Ruti’s The Creative Self: Beyond Individualism, loc 1781:

    Its intensity is such that I cannot exactly call it pleasurable. The sheer volume of sentences pouring out, and the rapidity with which they form, can feel overwhelming. This is an experience of jouissance in as pure a form as I am able to experience it, which is why it is the kind of pleasure that borders on pain. I know that others experience it differently, sometimes even as an erotic event.118 But for me it is mostly agonizing. Fortunately, things shift when I reach the editorial stage which, by comparison, is calm and calming. That is when the process slows down and writing becomes a more straightforward pleasure.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QwjzJKCZWYc

    Nothing is more entertaining
    Than fuckin’ with words and their arrangement

    I really identify with what Ruti is describing here, even if in my case it’s unambiguously pleasurable. There is nonetheless an excess to the pleasure which means it needs to be described as jouissance. It feels to me like there’s a continuous stream of reactions and associations forming just beneath the surface of my awareness which I tune into when I’m writing. The writing process is little more than just deliberately tuning in so that stream starts flowing out of me and onto the page, until either it feels exhausted or I do at which point I stop.

    It’s a process which I’ve learned to steer by being vaguely purposeful with what I read, who I talk to, what I think about. I suspect if I stopped reading, stopped having interesting conversations, the stream wouldn’t exactly dry up but it would lose force and momentum in a way that would make writing far more difficult. At present it’s just a case of finding time to tune into that inner process, which at the moment is proving extremely difficulty. But it’s still relatively easy to write every day in at least one small burst.

    The problem I experience is editing. Firstly, it’s something I struggle with cognitively. I know how to write over my own words in a way that gradually refines them. I know how to reach a point where I’m able and willing to hack away at the manuscript. There’s a certain pleasure in killing your darlings once you reach a vivid sense of the finished work underlying them. But I can only restructure in an intuitive way. I find it hard to cognitively map a text which is why I increasingly rely on LLMs to help me plan this process.

    Perhaps more importantly I get bored at this stage. It’s not that I don’t care about the finished work but the jouissance described above has largely gone. Ruti has a lovely image about jouissance and words on loc 1225:

    Sometimes I even picture tiny morsels of jouissance latching themselves onto the underbellies of select signifiers so as to give them the kind of boost that enables them to resuscitate the domain of signification

    When I’m editing I can still stumble across these little barnacles of jouissance attached to my words. But they’ve washed up on the beach and the jouissance has now died. I can see they were there, but the energy is gone. It means I find editing a slightly depressing process as well as a boring one. It’s the mirror image of the liveness and lightness which characterises writing for me. A sort of turgid death march because I know I have to engage in before anyone will be willing or interesting in the outgrowths of this strangely energetic and ultimately slightly solipsistic process of how I write.

    #creativity #editing #enjoyment #Jouissance #MariRuti #pleasure #writing
  10. The jouissance of writing

    From Mari Ruti’s The Creative Self: Beyond Individualism, loc 1781:

    Its intensity is such that I cannot exactly call it pleasurable. The sheer volume of sentences pouring out, and the rapidity with which they form, can feel overwhelming. This is an experience of jouissance in as pure a form as I am able to experience it, which is why it is the kind of pleasure that borders on pain. I know that others experience it differently, sometimes even as an erotic event.118 But for me it is mostly agonizing. Fortunately, things shift when I reach the editorial stage which, by comparison, is calm and calming. That is when the process slows down and writing becomes a more straightforward pleasure.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QwjzJKCZWYc

    Nothing is more entertaining
    Than fuckin’ with words and their arrangement

    I really identify with what Ruti is describing here, even if in my case it’s unambiguously pleasurable. There is nonetheless an excess to the pleasure which means it needs to be described as jouissance. It feels to me like there’s a continuous stream of reactions and associations forming just beneath the surface of my awareness which I tune into when I’m writing. The writing process is little more than just deliberately tuning in so that stream starts flowing out of me and onto the page, until either it feels exhausted or I do at which point I stop.

    It’s a process which I’ve learned to steer by being vaguely purposeful with what I read, who I talk to, what I think about. I suspect if I stopped reading, stopped having interesting conversations, the stream wouldn’t exactly dry up but it would lose force and momentum in a way that would make writing far more difficult. At present it’s just a case of finding time to tune into that inner process, which at the moment is proving extremely difficulty. But it’s still relatively easy to write every day in at least one small burst.

    The problem I experience is editing. Firstly, it’s something I struggle with cognitively. I know how to write over my own words in a way that gradually refines them. I know how to reach a point where I’m able and willing to hack away at the manuscript. There’s a certain pleasure in killing your darlings once you reach a vivid sense of the finished work underlying them. But I can only restructure in an intuitive way. I find it hard to cognitively map a text which is why I increasingly rely on LLMs to help me plan this process.

    Perhaps more importantly I get bored at this stage. It’s not that I don’t care about the finished work but the jouissance described above has largely gone. Ruti has a lovely image about jouissance and words on loc 1225:

    Sometimes I even picture tiny morsels of jouissance latching themselves onto the underbellies of select signifiers so as to give them the kind of boost that enables them to resuscitate the domain of signification

    When I’m editing I can still stumble across these little barnacles of jouissance attached to my words. But they’ve washed up on the beach and the jouissance has now died. I can see they were there, but the energy is gone. It means I find editing a slightly depressing process as well as a boring one. It’s the mirror image of the liveness and lightness which characterises writing for me. A sort of turgid death march because I know I have to engage in before anyone will be willing or interesting in the outgrowths of this strangely energetic and ultimately slightly solipsistic process of how I write.

    #creativity #editing #enjoyment #Jouissance #MariRuti #pleasure #writing
  11. The jouissance of writing

    From Mari Ruti’s The Creative Self: Beyond Individualism, loc 1781:

    Its intensity is such that I cannot exactly call it pleasurable. The sheer volume of sentences pouring out, and the rapidity with which they form, can feel overwhelming. This is an experience of jouissance in as pure a form as I am able to experience it, which is why it is the kind of pleasure that borders on pain. I know that others experience it differently, sometimes even as an erotic event.118 But for me it is mostly agonizing. Fortunately, things shift when I reach the editorial stage which, by comparison, is calm and calming. That is when the process slows down and writing becomes a more straightforward pleasure.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QwjzJKCZWYc

    Nothing is more entertaining
    Than fuckin’ with words and their arrangement

    I really identify with what Ruti is describing here, even if in my case it’s unambiguously pleasurable. There is nonetheless an excess to the pleasure which means it needs to be described as jouissance. It feels to me like there’s a continuous stream of reactions and associations forming just beneath the surface of my awareness which I tune into when I’m writing. The writing process is little more than just deliberately tuning in so that stream starts flowing out of me and onto the page, until either it feels exhausted or I do at which point I stop.

    It’s a process which I’ve learned to steer by being vaguely purposeful with what I read, who I talk to, what I think about. I suspect if I stopped reading, stopped having interesting conversations, the stream wouldn’t exactly dry up but it would lose force and momentum in a way that would make writing far more difficult. At present it’s just a case of finding time to tune into that inner process, which at the moment is proving extremely difficulty. But it’s still relatively easy to write every day in at least one small burst.

    The problem I experience is editing. Firstly, it’s something I struggle with cognitively. I know how to write over my own words in a way that gradually refines them. I know how to reach a point where I’m able and willing to hack away at the manuscript. There’s a certain pleasure in killing your darlings once you reach a vivid sense of the finished work underlying them. But I can only restructure in an intuitive way. I find it hard to cognitively map a text which is why I increasingly rely on LLMs to help me plan this process.

    Perhaps more importantly I get bored at this stage. It’s not that I don’t care about the finished work but the jouissance described above has largely gone. Ruti has a lovely image about jouissance and words on loc 1225:

    Sometimes I even picture tiny morsels of jouissance latching themselves onto the underbellies of select signifiers so as to give them the kind of boost that enables them to resuscitate the domain of signification

    When I’m editing I can still stumble across these little barnacles of jouissance attached to my words. But they’ve washed up on the beach and the jouissance has now died. I can see they were there, but the energy is gone. It means I find editing a slightly depressing process as well as a boring one. It’s the mirror image of the liveness and lightness which characterises writing for me. A sort of turgid death march because I know I have to engage in before anyone will be willing or interesting in the outgrowths of this strangely energetic and ultimately slightly solipsistic process of how I write.

    #creativity #editing #enjoyment #Jouissance #MariRuti #pleasure #writing
  12. CW: PhotoArt SFW

    #π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•€β„™π•šπ•”π•œπ•€
    #π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•’π•Ÿπ•šπ•’
    #π•Šπ•₯𝕖𝕗

    𝔽𝕠𝕣
    #π•π•šπ•€π•¦π•’π•
    #ℙ𝕝𝕖𝕒𝕀𝕦𝕣𝕖
    #π”Όπ•Ÿπ•›π• π•ͺπ•žπ•–π•Ÿπ•₯
    𝕠𝕗
    #𝕄𝕦π•₯𝕦𝕒𝕝
    #𝔽𝕠𝕝𝕝𝕠𝕨𝕀
    +
    𝕆π•₯𝕙𝕖𝕣
    #β„•π•Šπ”½π•Ž-𝕖𝕣𝕀
    π•šπ•Ÿ 𝕀𝕙𝕠𝕣π•₯
    #β„•π•Šπ”½π•Žπ•€

    #𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕕
    #π•Šπ•–π•₯
    𝟟

    #β„™π• π•£π•Ÿπ•€π•₯𝕒𝕣
    #π•π•’π•£π•šπ•–π•₯π•ͺ
    #β„‚π• π•π•π•’π•˜π•–
    #ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠𝕀

    #ℙ𝕠𝕀π•₯𝕖𝕕
    #𝔸𝕝𝕝

    #β„™π• π•£π•Ÿπ•€π•₯𝕒𝕣𝕀
    𝟠
    β„‚π• π•π•π•’π•˜π•–
    ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠𝕀
    πŸ™πŸ›
    #ℕ𝕦𝕕𝕖
    #β„™π•šπ•”π•€
    𝟜
    #π•Šπ•–π•©
    β„™π•šπ•”π•€
    𝟑

    #π•‹π•™π•£π•–π•’π••π•Šπ•–π•₯
    #π”½π•šπ•£π•€π•₯
    #ℙ𝕠𝕀π•₯
    π•šπ•€
    #𝔹𝕖𝕀π•₯
    π•₯𝕠
    #π”»π•šπ•€π•‘π•π•’π•ͺ
    #𝔼𝕧𝕖𝕣π•ͺ
    #β„™π•šπ•”
    π•šπ•Ÿ π•₯𝕙𝕖 π•Šπ•–π•₯
    π•€π•Ÿ #𝕆𝕣𝕕𝕖𝕣
    π•§π•šπ•’ 𝕦𝕀𝕦𝕒𝕝
    π•Šπ•”π•£π• π•π•π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜
    π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿ.

    #π”Ήπ• π•Ÿπ•¦π•€
    π•Žπ•™π•–π•Ÿ 𝕦𝕀𝕖 π•₯𝕙𝕖
    #𝕄𝕒𝕀π•₯π• π••π• π•Ÿ #π•ƒπ•šπ•Ÿπ•œ
    𝔸𝕦π•₯𝕠
    #π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿπ•π• π•’π••π•€
    π•₯𝕙𝕖 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕕 β„™π•šπ•”π•€.

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    #π”Όπ•Ÿπ•›π• π•ͺ
    𝕄π•ͺ
    #β„™π•£π• π•—π•šπ•π•– β„™π•šπ•”
    π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•’π•Ÿπ•šπ•’
    #ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠 #𝔸𝕣π•₯ πŸ›πŸ˜

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    #π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•€β„™π•šπ•”π•œπ•€
    #π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•’π•Ÿπ•šπ•’
    #π•Šπ•₯𝕖𝕗

    𝔽𝕠𝕣
    #π•π•šπ•€π•¦π•’π•
    #ℙ𝕝𝕖𝕒𝕀𝕦𝕣𝕖
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    𝕠𝕗
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    #𝔽𝕠𝕝𝕝𝕠𝕨𝕀
    +
    𝕆π•₯𝕙𝕖𝕣
    #β„•π•Šπ”½π•Ž-𝕖𝕣𝕀
    π•šπ•Ÿ 𝕀𝕙𝕠𝕣π•₯
    #β„•π•Šπ”½π•Žπ•€

    #𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕕
    #π•Šπ•–π•₯
    𝟟

    #β„™π• π•£π•Ÿπ•€π•₯𝕒𝕣
    #π•π•’π•£π•šπ•–π•₯π•ͺ
    #β„‚π• π•π•π•’π•˜π•–
    #ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠𝕀

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    #𝔸𝕝𝕝

    #β„™π• π•£π•Ÿπ•€π•₯𝕒𝕣𝕀
    𝟠
    β„‚π• π•π•π•’π•˜π•–
    ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠𝕀
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    #ℕ𝕦𝕕𝕖
    #β„™π•šπ•”π•€
    𝟜
    #π•Šπ•–π•©
    β„™π•šπ•”π•€
    𝟑

    #π•‹π•™π•£π•–π•’π••π•Šπ•–π•₯
    #π”½π•šπ•£π•€π•₯
    #ℙ𝕠𝕀π•₯
    π•šπ•€
    #𝔹𝕖𝕀π•₯
    π•₯𝕠
    #π”»π•šπ•€π•‘π•π•’π•ͺ
    #𝔼𝕧𝕖𝕣π•ͺ
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    π•šπ•Ÿ π•₯𝕙𝕖 π•Šπ•–π•₯
    π•€π•Ÿ #𝕆𝕣𝕕𝕖𝕣
    π•§π•šπ•’ 𝕦𝕀𝕦𝕒𝕝
    π•Šπ•”π•£π• π•π•π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜
    π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿ.

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    π•Žπ•™π•–π•Ÿ 𝕦𝕀𝕖 π•₯𝕙𝕖
    #𝕄𝕒𝕀π•₯π• π••π• π•Ÿ #π•ƒπ•šπ•Ÿπ•œ
    𝔸𝕦π•₯𝕠
    #π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿπ•π• π•’π••π•€
    π•₯𝕙𝕖 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕕 β„™π•šπ•”π•€.

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    #π”Όπ•Ÿπ•›π• π•ͺ
    𝕄π•ͺ
    #β„™π•£π• π•—π•šπ•π•– β„™π•šπ•”
    π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•’π•Ÿπ•šπ•’
    #ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠 #𝔸𝕣π•₯ πŸ›πŸ˜

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    #π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•’π•Ÿπ•šπ•’
    #π•Šπ•₯𝕖𝕗

    𝔽𝕠𝕣
    #π•π•šπ•€π•¦π•’π•
    #ℙ𝕝𝕖𝕒𝕀𝕦𝕣𝕖
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    𝕠𝕗
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    #𝔽𝕠𝕝𝕝𝕠𝕨𝕀
    𝕑𝕝𝕦𝕀
    𝕆π•₯𝕙𝕖𝕣
    #β„•π•Šπ”½π•Ž-𝕖𝕣𝕀
    π•šπ•Ÿ 𝕀𝕙𝕠𝕣π•₯
    #β„•π•Šπ”½π•Žπ•€

    #𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕕
    #π•Šπ•–π•₯
    𝟞

    #π•Šπ•–π•£π•šπ•–π•€
    #β„™π• π•£π•Ÿπ•€π•₯𝕒𝕣
    #π•Šπ•šπ•€π•₯𝕖𝕣𝕀

    #ℙ𝕠𝕀π•₯𝕖𝕕
    #𝔸𝕝𝕝

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    𝟜𝟘
    𝕒𝕀
    #π•Šπ•šπ•€π•₯𝕖𝕣
    #β„™π•’π•šπ•£π•€
    𝟚𝟘
    π•šπ•Ÿ
    #β„‚π• π•π•π•’π•˜π•–
    #ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠𝕀
    𝟚𝟘
    +
    #𝔻𝕒π•₯𝕒

    #π•‹π•™π•£π•–π•’π••π•Šπ•–π•₯
    #π”½π•šπ•£π•€π•₯
    #ℙ𝕠𝕀π•₯
    #𝔹𝕖𝕀π•₯
    𝕋𝕠
    #π”»π•šπ•€π•‘π•π•’π•ͺ
    #𝔼𝕧𝕖𝕣π•ͺ
    #β„™π•šπ•”
    π•šπ•Ÿ π•₯𝕙𝕖 π•Šπ•–π•₯
    π•€π•Ÿ #𝕆𝕣𝕕𝕖𝕣
    π•§π•šπ•’ 𝕦𝕀𝕦𝕒𝕝
    π•Šπ•”π•£π• π•π•π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜
    π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿ.

    #π”Ήπ• π•Ÿπ•¦π•€
    π•Žπ•™π•–π•Ÿ 𝕦𝕀𝕖 π•₯𝕙𝕖
    #𝕄𝕒𝕀π•₯π• π••π• π•Ÿ #π•ƒπ•šπ•Ÿπ•œ
    𝔸𝕦π•₯𝕠
    #π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿπ•π• π•’π••π•€
    π•₯𝕙𝕖 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕕 #β„™π•šπ•”π•€

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    #π”Όπ•Ÿπ•›π• π•ͺ
    𝕄π•ͺ
    #β„™π•£π• π•—π•šπ•π•– β„™π•šπ•”
    π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•’π•Ÿπ•šπ•’
    #ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠 #𝔸𝕣π•₯ 𝟚𝟑

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    #π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•’π•Ÿπ•šπ•’
    #π•Šπ•₯𝕖𝕗

    𝔽𝕠𝕣
    #π•π•šπ•€π•¦π•’π•
    #ℙ𝕝𝕖𝕒𝕀𝕦𝕣𝕖
    #π”Όπ•Ÿπ•›π• π•ͺπ•žπ•–π•Ÿπ•₯
    𝕠𝕗
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    #𝔽𝕠𝕝𝕝𝕠𝕨𝕀
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    𝕆π•₯𝕙𝕖𝕣
    #β„•π•Šπ”½π•Ž-𝕖𝕣𝕀
    π•šπ•Ÿ 𝕀𝕙𝕠𝕣π•₯
    #β„•π•Šπ”½π•Žπ•€

    #𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕕
    #π•Šπ•–π•₯
    𝟞

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    #β„™π• π•£π•Ÿπ•€π•₯𝕒𝕣
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    #ℙ𝕠𝕀π•₯𝕖𝕕
    #𝔸𝕝𝕝

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    𝟜𝟘
    𝕒𝕀
    #π•Šπ•šπ•€π•₯𝕖𝕣
    #β„™π•’π•šπ•£π•€
    𝟚𝟘
    π•šπ•Ÿ
    #β„‚π• π•π•π•’π•˜π•–
    #ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠𝕀
    𝟚𝟘
    +
    #𝔻𝕒π•₯𝕒

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    #π”½π•šπ•£π•€π•₯
    #ℙ𝕠𝕀π•₯
    #𝔹𝕖𝕀π•₯
    𝕋𝕠
    #π”»π•šπ•€π•‘π•π•’π•ͺ
    #𝔼𝕧𝕖𝕣π•ͺ
    #β„™π•šπ•”
    π•šπ•Ÿ π•₯𝕙𝕖 π•Šπ•–π•₯
    π•€π•Ÿ #𝕆𝕣𝕕𝕖𝕣
    π•§π•šπ•’ 𝕦𝕀𝕦𝕒𝕝
    π•Šπ•”π•£π• π•π•π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜
    π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿ.

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    π•Žπ•™π•–π•Ÿ 𝕦𝕀𝕖 π•₯𝕙𝕖
    #𝕄𝕒𝕀π•₯π• π••π• π•Ÿ #π•ƒπ•šπ•Ÿπ•œ
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    #π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿπ•π• π•’π••π•€
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    𝕄π•ͺ
    #β„™π•£π• π•—π•šπ•π•– β„™π•šπ•”
    π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•’π•Ÿπ•šπ•’
    #ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠 #𝔸𝕣π•₯ 𝟚𝟑

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    𝟝

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    𝟝

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    π”½π•šπ•£π•€π•₯
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    π•šπ•Ÿ π•₯𝕙𝕖 π•Šπ•–π•₯
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    π•§π•šπ•’ 𝕦𝕀𝕦𝕒𝕝
    π•Šπ•”π•£π• π•π•π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜
    π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿ.

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    #π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿπ•π• π•’π••π•€ β„™π•šπ•”π•€.

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    #ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠 #𝔸𝕣π•₯ 𝟚𝟠

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    π•šπ•Ÿ 𝕀𝕙𝕠𝕣π•₯
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    𝟝

    #π•Šπ•–π•£π•šπ•–π•€
    #β„™π• π•£π•Ÿπ•€π•₯𝕒𝕣
    #π•‹π•¨π•šπ•Ÿπ•€

    #ℙ𝕠𝕀π•₯𝕖𝕕
    #𝔸𝕝𝕝
    #β„™π•’π•šπ•£π•€
    πŸ™πŸ™
    #ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠𝕀
    πŸ™πŸ™
    #π•„π•šπ••π•€π•šπ•«π•–
    #β„™π•šπ•”π•€
    #π”½π•šπ•£π•€π•₯
    𝟞
    #π”½π•¦π•π•π•€π•šπ•«π•–
    β„™π•šπ•”π•€
    #𝕃𝕒𝕀π•₯
    𝟝

    #π•‹π•™π•£π•–π•’π••π•Šπ•–π•₯
    π”½π•šπ•£π•€π•₯
    #ℙ𝕠𝕀π•₯
    π•šπ•€
    #𝔹𝕖𝕀π•₯
    π•₯𝕠
    #π”»π•šπ•€π•‘π•π•’π•ͺ
    #𝔼𝕧𝕖𝕣π•ͺ
    #β„™π•šπ•”
    π•šπ•Ÿ π•₯𝕙𝕖 π•Šπ•–π•₯
    π•€π•Ÿ #𝕆𝕣𝕕𝕖𝕣
    π•§π•šπ•’ 𝕦𝕀𝕦𝕒𝕝
    π•Šπ•”π•£π• π•π•π•šπ•Ÿπ•˜
    π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿ.

    #π”Ήπ• π•Ÿπ•¦π•€
    π•Žπ•™π•–π•Ÿ 𝕦𝕀𝕖 π•₯𝕙𝕖
    #𝕄𝕒𝕀π•₯π• π••π• π•Ÿ #π•ƒπ•šπ•Ÿπ•œ
    𝔸𝕦π•₯𝕠
    #π”»π• π•¨π•Ÿπ•π• π•’π••π•€ β„™π•šπ•”π•€.

    mastodon.social/@StefsPicks/11

    #π”Όπ•Ÿπ•›π• π•ͺ
    𝕄π•ͺ
    #β„™π•£π• π•—π•šπ•π•– β„™π•šπ•”
    π•Šπ•₯π•–π•—π•’π•Ÿπ•šπ•’
    #ℙ𝕙𝕠π•₯𝕠 #𝔸𝕣π•₯ 𝟚𝟠

  18. Who we are arises from how we have been hurt

    From Mari Ruti’s The Call of Character pg 18:

    Likewise, there is perhaps nothing that contributes to the uniqueness of our character more than our suffering. In so many ways, who we are arises from how we have been hurt. This does not mean that we cannot find our way past our injuries or that they determine our future. But it does suggest that our sense of authenticity cannot be divorced from the hardships and disappointments we have endured.

    From pg 21:

    It may, for example, turn out that something that causes us suffering will eventually grow into a nugget of wisdom that guides us to a valuable course adjustment. And a breakdown that leaves us gasping for air can eventually lead to an important breakthrough that reconfigures our lives for the better. This is why Nietzsche believes that we should choose to love our fateβ€”that instead of struggling against the constraints of our situation, we should actively welcome these constraints because they are the foundation of our ability to elaborate our character.

    This is exactly what I found so powerful in Hans Loewald’s notion of transforming ghosts into ancestors. There’s a particular mode through which we metabolise suffering, the deep and profound ontological injuries which mean we can’t continue as we were, which makes a particular mode of growth possible. From Thoughts Without a Thinker by Mark Epstein pg 200-201:

    The psychoanalyst Hans Loewald wrote of transforming the ghosts that haunt patients into ancestors, through tasting what he called the β€œblood of recognition” in the relationship with the therapist. He asserted that the ghosts must be led out of the unconscious, reawakened through the intensity of the therapeutic relationship, and then laid to rest, relegated to history, thus allowing the person more flexibility and intensity in present relations.

    There are things we can be lost within which these wounds, or rather the process of moving through them, can lead us out of. We don’t become someone who wasn’t hurt in this way but rather become someone who can live well despite being hurt in that way. In Lacanian terms we see a reconfiguration of the relationship to our own enjoyment, as we reclaim it through a movement of traversing a (now shattered) fantasy. But Mari Ruti expresses it so much more beautifully and concretely than any of the Lacanians do.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=29rCU1H1oo0&list=RDGMEMBhrNM15bN0pM50WECpic-AVMRa8gSw7Djvo&index=2

    I keep having dreams of things I need to do
    And waking up but not following through
    But it feels like I haven't slept at all
    When I wake to a silence and she's facing the wall
    Posters of Dylan and of Hemingway
    An antique compass for a sailor's escape
    She says, "You just can't live this way"
    And I close my eyes and I never say
    I'm still having dreams
    #desire #enjoyment #fantasy #HansLoewald #Lacan #MariRuti #MarkEpstein #suffering #trauma
  19. Who we are arises from how we have been hurt

    From Mari Ruti’s The Call of Character pg 18:

    Likewise, there is perhaps nothing that contributes to the uniqueness of our character more than our suffering. In so many ways, who we are arises from how we have been hurt. This does not mean that we cannot find our way past our injuries or that they determine our future. But it does suggest that our sense of authenticity cannot be divorced from the hardships and disappointments we have endured.

    From pg 21:

    It may, for example, turn out that something that causes us suffering will eventually grow into a nugget of wisdom that guides us to a valuable course adjustment. And a breakdown that leaves us gasping for air can eventually lead to an important breakthrough that reconfigures our lives for the better. This is why Nietzsche believes that we should choose to love our fateβ€”that instead of struggling against the constraints of our situation, we should actively welcome these constraints because they are the foundation of our ability to elaborate our character.

    This is exactly what I found so powerful in Hans Loewald’s notion of transforming ghosts into ancestors. There’s a particular mode through which we metabolise suffering, the deep and profound ontological injuries which mean we can’t continue as we were, which makes a particular mode of growth possible. From Thoughts Without a Thinker by Mark Epstein pg 200-201:

    The psychoanalyst Hans Loewald wrote of transforming the ghosts that haunt patients into ancestors, through tasting what he called the β€œblood of recognition” in the relationship with the therapist. He asserted that the ghosts must be led out of the unconscious, reawakened through the intensity of the therapeutic relationship, and then laid to rest, relegated to history, thus allowing the person more flexibility and intensity in present relations.

    There are things we can be lost within which these wounds, or rather the process of moving through them, can lead us out of. We don’t become someone who wasn’t hurt in this way but rather become someone who can live well despite being hurt in that way. In Lacanian terms we see a reconfiguration of the relationship to our own enjoyment, as we reclaim it through a movement of traversing a (now shattered) fantasy. But Mari Ruti expresses it so much more beautifully and concretely than any of the Lacanians do.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=29rCU1H1oo0&list=RDGMEMBhrNM15bN0pM50WECpic-AVMRa8gSw7Djvo&index=2

    I keep having dreams of things I need to do
    And waking up but not following through
    But it feels like I haven't slept at all
    When I wake to a silence and she's facing the wall
    Posters of Dylan and of Hemingway
    An antique compass for a sailor's escape
    She says, "You just can't live this way"
    And I close my eyes and I never say
    I'm still having dreams
    #desire #enjoyment #fantasy #HansLoewald #Lacan #MariRuti #MarkEpstein #suffering #trauma
  20. Who we are arises from how we have been hurt

    From Mari Ruti’s The Call of Character pg 18:

    Likewise, there is perhaps nothing that contributes to the uniqueness of our character more than our suffering. In so many ways, who we are arises from how we have been hurt. This does not mean that we cannot find our way past our injuries or that they determine our future. But it does suggest that our sense of authenticity cannot be divorced from the hardships and disappointments we have endured.

    From pg 21:

    It may, for example, turn out that something that causes us suffering will eventually grow into a nugget of wisdom that guides us to a valuable course adjustment. And a breakdown that leaves us gasping for air can eventually lead to an important breakthrough that reconfigures our lives for the better. This is why Nietzsche believes that we should choose to love our fateβ€”that instead of struggling against the constraints of our situation, we should actively welcome these constraints because they are the foundation of our ability to elaborate our character.

    This is exactly what I found so powerful in Hans Loewald’s notion of transforming ghosts into ancestors. There’s a particular mode through which we metabolise suffering, the deep and profound ontological injuries which mean we can’t continue as we were, which makes a particular mode of growth possible. From Thoughts Without a Thinker by Mark Epstein pg 200-201:

    The psychoanalyst Hans Loewald wrote of transforming the ghosts that haunt patients into ancestors, through tasting what he called the β€œblood of recognition” in the relationship with the therapist. He asserted that the ghosts must be led out of the unconscious, reawakened through the intensity of the therapeutic relationship, and then laid to rest, relegated to history, thus allowing the person more flexibility and intensity in present relations.

    There are things we can be lost within which these wounds, or rather the process of moving through them, can lead us out of. We don’t become someone who wasn’t hurt in this way but rather become someone who can live well despite being hurt in that way. In Lacanian terms we see a reconfiguration of the relationship to our own enjoyment, as we reclaim it through a movement of traversing a (now shattered) fantasy. But Mari Ruti expresses it so much more beautifully and concretely than any of the Lacanians do.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=29rCU1H1oo0&list=RDGMEMBhrNM15bN0pM50WECpic-AVMRa8gSw7Djvo&index=2

    I keep having dreams of things I need to do
    And waking up but not following through
    But it feels like I haven't slept at all
    When I wake to a silence and she's facing the wall
    Posters of Dylan and of Hemingway
    An antique compass for a sailor's escape
    She says, "You just can't live this way"
    And I close my eyes and I never say
    I'm still having dreams
    #desire #enjoyment #fantasy #HansLoewald #Lacan #MariRuti #MarkEpstein #suffering #trauma
  21. Who we are arises from how we have been hurt

    From Mari Ruti’s The Call of Character pg 18:

    Likewise, there is perhaps nothing that contributes to the uniqueness of our character more than our suffering. In so many ways, who we are arises from how we have been hurt. This does not mean that we cannot find our way past our injuries or that they determine our future. But it does suggest that our sense of authenticity cannot be divorced from the hardships and disappointments we have endured.

    From pg 21:

    It may, for example, turn out that something that causes us suffering will eventually grow into a nugget of wisdom that guides us to a valuable course adjustment. And a breakdown that leaves us gasping for air can eventually lead to an important breakthrough that reconfigures our lives for the better. This is why Nietzsche believes that we should choose to love our fateβ€”that instead of struggling against the constraints of our situation, we should actively welcome these constraints because they are the foundation of our ability to elaborate our character.

    This is exactly what I found so powerful in Hans Loewald’s notion of transforming ghosts into ancestors. There’s a particular mode through which we metabolise suffering, the deep and profound ontological injuries which mean we can’t continue as we were, which makes a particular mode of growth possible. From Thoughts Without a Thinker by Mark Epstein pg 200-201:

    The psychoanalyst Hans Loewald wrote of transforming the ghosts that haunt patients into ancestors, through tasting what he called the β€œblood of recognition” in the relationship with the therapist. He asserted that the ghosts must be led out of the unconscious, reawakened through the intensity of the therapeutic relationship, and then laid to rest, relegated to history, thus allowing the person more flexibility and intensity in present relations.

    There are things we can be lost within which these wounds, or rather the process of moving through them, can lead us out of. We don’t become someone who wasn’t hurt in this way but rather become someone who can live well despite being hurt in that way. In Lacanian terms we see a reconfiguration of the relationship to our own enjoyment, as we reclaim it through a movement of traversing a (now shattered) fantasy. But Mari Ruti expresses it so much more beautifully and concretely than any of the Lacanians do.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=29rCU1H1oo0&list=RDGMEMBhrNM15bN0pM50WECpic-AVMRa8gSw7Djvo&index=2

    I keep having dreams of things I need to do
    And waking up but not following through
    But it feels like I haven't slept at all
    When I wake to a silence and she's facing the wall
    Posters of Dylan and of Hemingway
    An antique compass for a sailor's escape
    She says, "You just can't live this way"
    And I close my eyes and I never say
    I'm still having dreams
    #desire #enjoyment #fantasy #HansLoewald #Lacan #MariRuti #MarkEpstein #suffering #trauma
  22. The anti-woke and the fash are clearly on a winning streak, and have been so for a while. And yet they seem just as angry and just as victim complexy as ever.

    Do they even enjoy their victory at all? Never have I seen a social movement that everyone knew about be crushed so thoroughly and so quickly as woke was – so why aren't they cheering?

    What's the point of destroying so many peoples lives if they can't even feel happy about it?

    #woke #antiwoke #fascism #enjoyment #QualityOfLife

  23. The anti-woke and the fash are clearly on a winning streak, and have been so for a while. And yet they seem just as angry and just as victim complexy as ever.

    Do they even enjoy their victory at all? Never have I seen a social movement that everyone knew about be crushed so thoroughly and so quickly as woke was – so why aren't they cheering?

    What's the point of destroying so many peoples lives if they can't even feel happy about it?

    #woke #antiwoke #fascism #enjoyment #QualityOfLife

  24. The anti-woke and the fash are clearly on a winning streak, and have been so for a while. And yet they seem just as angry and just as victim complexy as ever.

    Do they even enjoy their victory at all? Never have I seen a social movement that everyone knew about be crushed so thoroughly and so quickly as woke was – so why aren't they cheering?

    What's the point of destroying so many peoples lives if they can't even feel happy about it?

    #woke #antiwoke #fascism #enjoyment #QualityOfLife

  25. The anti-woke and the fash are clearly on a winning streak, and have been so for a while. And yet they seem just as angry and just as victim complexy as ever.

    Do they even enjoy their victory at all? Never have I seen a social movement that everyone knew about be crushed so thoroughly and so quickly as woke was – so why aren't they cheering?

    What's the point of destroying so many peoples lives if they can't even feel happy about it?

    #woke #antiwoke #fascism #enjoyment #QualityOfLife

  26. The anti-woke and the fash are clearly on a winning streak, and have been so for a while. And yet they seem just as angry and just as victim complexy as ever.

    Do they even enjoy their victory at all? Never have I seen a social movement that everyone knew about be crushed so thoroughly and so quickly as woke was – so why aren't they cheering?

    What's the point of destroying so many peoples lives if they can't even feel happy about it?

    #woke #antiwoke #fascism #enjoyment #QualityOfLife

  27. A quotation from Robert Louis Stevenson

    In the life of the artist there need be no hour without its pleasure. I take the author, with whose career I am best acquainted; and it is true he works in a rebellious material, and that the act of writing is cramped and trying both to the eyes and the temper; but remark him in his study, when matter crowds upon him and words are not wanting β€” in what a continual series of small successes time flows by; with what a sense of power as of one moving mountains, he marshals his petty characters; with what pleasures, both of the ear and eye, he sees his airy structure growing on the page; and how he labours in a craft to which the whole material of his life is tributary, and which opens a door to all his tastes, his loves, his hatreds, and his convictions, so that what he writes is only what he longed to utter. He may have enjoyed many things in this big, tragic playground of the world; but what shall he have enjoyed more fully than a morning of successful work? Suppose it ill paid: the wonder is it should be paid at all. Other men pay, and pay dearly, for pleasures less desirable.

    Robert Louis Stevenson (1850-1894) Scottish essayist, novelist, poet
    Essay (1888-09), β€œA Letter to a Young Gentleman Who Proposes to Embrace the Career of Art,” Scribner’s Magazine, Vol. 4, No. 3

    More about this quote: wist.info/stevenson-robert-lou…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #robertlouisstevenson #accomplishment #art #artist #author #creativity #creator #enjoyment #hardwork #inthezone #pleasure #satisfaction #writer #writing

  28. A quotation from Mark Twain

    How little a thing can make us happy when we feel that we have earned it!

    Mark Twain (1835-1910) American writer [pseud. of Samuel Clemens]
    Story (1905-12), β€œEve’s Diary,” Harper’s Magazine, Vol. 112, No. 1

    More about this quote: wist.info/twain-mark/28734/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #twain #marktwain #eve #contentment #credit #deserve #deserving #earn #enjoyment #fulfillment #gratification #happiness #pleasure #result #satisfaction #work

  29. A quotation from Horace

    Fortune nor home not more the man can cheer,
    Who lives a prey to covetise or fear,
    Than may a picture’s richest hues delight
    Eyes that with dropping rheum are thick of sight,
    Or warm soft lotions soothe a gout-racked foot,
    Or aching ears be charmed by twangling lute.
    On minds unquiet joy has lost its power;
    In a foul vessel everything turns sour.
     
    [Qui cupit aut metuit, iuvat ilium sic domus et res,
    Ut lippum pictae tabulae, fomenta podagrum,
    Auriculas citbarae collecta sorde dolentes.
    Sincerumst nisi vas, quodcumque infundis acescit
    Sperne voluptate.]

    Horace (65–8 BC) Roman poet, satirist, soldier, politician [Quintus Horatius Flaccus]
    Epistles [Epistularum, Letters], Book 1, ep. 2 β€œTo Lollius,” l. 51ff (1.2.51-54) (14 BC) [tr. Martin (1881)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/horace/82248/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #horace #avarice #dissatisfaction #dysphoria #enjoyment #fear #greed #joylessness #loss #money #perspective #pleasure #property #unease #unhappiness #wealth

  30. A quotation from Horace

    Fortune nor home not more the man can cheer,
    Who lives a prey to covetise or fear,
    Than may a picture’s richest hues delight
    Eyes that with dropping rheum are thick of sight,
    Or warm soft lotions soothe a gout-racked foot,
    Or aching ears be charmed by twangling lute.
    On minds unquiet joy has lost its power;
    In a foul vessel everything turns sour.
     
    [Qui cupit aut metuit, iuvat ilium sic domus et res,
    Ut lippum pictae tabulae, fomenta podagrum,
    Auriculas citbarae collecta sorde dolentes.
    Sincerumst nisi vas, quodcumque infundis acescit
    Sperne voluptate.]

    Horace (65–8 BC) Roman poet, satirist, soldier, politician [Quintus Horatius Flaccus]
    Epistles [Epistularum, Letters], Book 1, ep. 2 β€œTo Lollius,” l. 51ff (1.2.51-54) (14 BC) [tr. Martin (1881)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/horace/82248/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #horace #avarice #dissatisfaction #dysphoria #enjoyment #fear #greed #joylessness #loss #money #perspective #pleasure #property #unease #unhappiness #wealth

  31. A quotation from Horace

    Fortune nor home not more the man can cheer,
    Who lives a prey to covetise or fear,
    Than may a picture’s richest hues delight
    Eyes that with dropping rheum are thick of sight,
    Or warm soft lotions soothe a gout-racked foot,
    Or aching ears be charmed by twangling lute.
    On minds unquiet joy has lost its power;
    In a foul vessel everything turns sour.
     
    [Qui cupit aut metuit, iuvat ilium sic domus et res,
    Ut lippum pictae tabulae, fomenta podagrum,
    Auriculas citbarae collecta sorde dolentes.
    Sincerumst nisi vas, quodcumque infundis acescit
    Sperne voluptate.]

    Horace (65–8 BC) Roman poet, satirist, soldier, politician [Quintus Horatius Flaccus]
    Epistles [Epistularum, Letters], Book 1, ep. 2 β€œTo Lollius,” l. 51ff (1.2.51-54) (14 BC) [tr. Martin (1881)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/horace/82248/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #horace #avarice #dissatisfaction #dysphoria #enjoyment #fear #greed #joylessness #loss #money #perspective #pleasure #property #unease #unhappiness #wealth

  32. A quotation from Horace

    Fortune nor home not more the man can cheer,
    Who lives a prey to covetise or fear,
    Than may a picture’s richest hues delight
    Eyes that with dropping rheum are thick of sight,
    Or warm soft lotions soothe a gout-racked foot,
    Or aching ears be charmed by twangling lute.
    On minds unquiet joy has lost its power;
    In a foul vessel everything turns sour.
     
    [Qui cupit aut metuit, iuvat ilium sic domus et res,
    Ut lippum pictae tabulae, fomenta podagrum,
    Auriculas citbarae collecta sorde dolentes.
    Sincerumst nisi vas, quodcumque infundis acescit
    Sperne voluptate.]

    Horace (65–8 BC) Roman poet, satirist, soldier, politician [Quintus Horatius Flaccus]
    Epistles [Epistularum, Letters], Book 1, ep. 2 β€œTo Lollius,” l. 51ff (1.2.51-54) (14 BC) [tr. Martin (1881)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/horace/82248/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #horace #avarice #dissatisfaction #dysphoria #enjoyment #fear #greed #joylessness #loss #money #perspective #pleasure #property #unease #unhappiness #wealth

  33. A quotation from Horace

    Fortune nor home not more the man can cheer,
    Who lives a prey to covetise or fear,
    Than may a picture’s richest hues delight
    Eyes that with dropping rheum are thick of sight,
    Or warm soft lotions soothe a gout-racked foot,
    Or aching ears be charmed by twangling lute.
    On minds unquiet joy has lost its power;
    In a foul vessel everything turns sour.
     
    [Qui cupit aut metuit, iuvat ilium sic domus et res,
    Ut lippum pictae tabulae, fomenta podagrum,
    Auriculas citbarae collecta sorde dolentes.
    Sincerumst nisi vas, quodcumque infundis acescit
    Sperne voluptate.]

    Horace (65–8 BC) Roman poet, satirist, soldier, politician [Quintus Horatius Flaccus]
    Epistles [Epistularum, Letters], Book 1, ep. 2 β€œTo Lollius,” l. 51ff (1.2.51-54) (14 BC) [tr. Martin (1881)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/horace/82248/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #horace #avarice #dissatisfaction #dysphoria #enjoyment #fear #greed #joylessness #loss #money #perspective #pleasure #property #unease #unhappiness #wealth

  34. A quotation from Santayana

    There is no cure for birth and death save to enjoy the interval.

    George Santayana (1863-1952) Spanish-American poet and philosopher [Jorge AgustΓ­n NicolΓ‘s RuΓ­z de Santayana y BorrΓ‘s]
    Essay (1916 ca.), β€œWar Shrines,” Soliloquies in England, ch. 24 (1922)

    More about this quote: wist.info/santayana-george/344…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #santayana #georgesantayana #death #enjoyment #fun #life #lifespan #mortality

  35. A quotation from The Epic of Gilgamesh

    Gilgamesh, where are you roaming?
    You will never find the eternal life
    that you seek. When the gods created mankind,
    they also created death, and they held back
    eternal life for themselves alone.
    Humans are born, they live, and then they die,
    this is the order that the gods have decreed.
    But until the end comes, enjoy your life,
    spend it in happiness, not despair.
    Savor your food, make each of your days
    a delight, bathe and anoint yourself,
    wear bright clothes that are sparkling clean,
    let music and dancing fill your house,
    love the child who holds you by the hand,
    and give your wife pleasure in your embrace.
    That is the best way for a man to live.

    Epic of Gilgamesh (c. 2100–1200 BC) Sumerian myth
    Tablet 10, col. 3 [Siduri] [tr. Mitchell (2004)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/gilgamesh/81779/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #gilgamesh #carpediem #doom #enjoyment #goodlife #happiness #humancondition #humanity #joy #living #mortality #seizetheday #gusto

  36. A quotation from The Epic of Gilgamesh

    Gilgamesh, where are you roaming?
    You will never find the eternal life
    that you seek. When the gods created mankind,
    they also created death, and they held back
    eternal life for themselves alone.
    Humans are born, they live, and then they die,
    this is the order that the gods have decreed.
    But until the end comes, enjoy your life,
    spend it in happiness, not despair.
    Savor your food, make each of your days
    a delight, bathe and anoint yourself,
    wear bright clothes that are sparkling clean,
    let music and dancing fill your house,
    love the child who holds you by the hand,
    and give your wife pleasure in your embrace.
    That is the best way for a man to live.

    Epic of Gilgamesh (c. 2100–1200 BC) Sumerian myth
    Tablet 10, col. 3 [Siduri] [tr. Mitchell (2004)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/gilgamesh/81779/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #gilgamesh #carpediem #doom #enjoyment #goodlife #happiness #humancondition #humanity #joy #living #mortality #seizetheday #gusto

  37. A quotation from The Epic of Gilgamesh

    Gilgamesh, where are you roaming?
    You will never find the eternal life
    that you seek. When the gods created mankind,
    they also created death, and they held back
    eternal life for themselves alone.
    Humans are born, they live, and then they die,
    this is the order that the gods have decreed.
    But until the end comes, enjoy your life,
    spend it in happiness, not despair.
    Savor your food, make each of your days
    a delight, bathe and anoint yourself,
    wear bright clothes that are sparkling clean,
    let music and dancing fill your house,
    love the child who holds you by the hand,
    and give your wife pleasure in your embrace.
    That is the best way for a man to live.

    Epic of Gilgamesh (c. 2100–1200 BC) Sumerian myth
    Tablet 10, col. 3 [Siduri] [tr. Mitchell (2004)]

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  38. A quotation from The Epic of Gilgamesh

    Gilgamesh, where are you roaming?
    You will never find the eternal life
    that you seek. When the gods created mankind,
    they also created death, and they held back
    eternal life for themselves alone.
    Humans are born, they live, and then they die,
    this is the order that the gods have decreed.
    But until the end comes, enjoy your life,
    spend it in happiness, not despair.
    Savor your food, make each of your days
    a delight, bathe and anoint yourself,
    wear bright clothes that are sparkling clean,
    let music and dancing fill your house,
    love the child who holds you by the hand,
    and give your wife pleasure in your embrace.
    That is the best way for a man to live.

    Epic of Gilgamesh (c. 2100–1200 BC) Sumerian myth
    Tablet 10, col. 3 [Siduri] [tr. Mitchell (2004)]

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  39. A quotation from C. C. Colton

    A prodigal starts with ten thousand pounds, and dies worth nothing; a miser starts with nothing, and does worth ten thousand pounds. It has been asked which has had the best of it? I should presume the prodigal; he has spent a fortune β€” but the miser has only left one; β€” he has lived rich, to die poor; the miser has lived poor, to die rich; and if the prodigal quits life in debt to others, the miser quits it, still deeper in debt to himself.

    Charles Caleb "C. C." Colton (1780-1832) English cleric, writer, aphorist
    Lacon: Or, Many Things in Few Words, Vol. 2, Β§ 131 (1822)

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  40. A quotation from C. C. Colton

    A prodigal starts with ten thousand pounds, and dies worth nothing; a miser starts with nothing, and does worth ten thousand pounds. It has been asked which has had the best of it? I should presume the prodigal; he has spent a fortune β€” but the miser has only left one; β€” he has lived rich, to die poor; the miser has lived poor, to die rich; and if the prodigal quits life in debt to others, the miser quits it, still deeper in debt to himself.

    Charles Caleb "C. C." Colton (1780-1832) English cleric, writer, aphorist
    Lacon: Or, Many Things in Few Words, Vol. 2, Β§ 131 (1822)

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  41. A quotation from C. C. Colton

    A prodigal starts with ten thousand pounds, and dies worth nothing; a miser starts with nothing, and does worth ten thousand pounds. It has been asked which has had the best of it? I should presume the prodigal; he has spent a fortune β€” but the miser has only left one; β€” he has lived rich, to die poor; the miser has lived poor, to die rich; and if the prodigal quits life in debt to others, the miser quits it, still deeper in debt to himself.

    Charles Caleb "C. C." Colton (1780-1832) English cleric, writer, aphorist
    Lacon: Or, Many Things in Few Words, Vol. 2, Β§ 131 (1822)

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  42. A quotation from C. C. Colton

    A prodigal starts with ten thousand pounds, and dies worth nothing; a miser starts with nothing, and does worth ten thousand pounds. It has been asked which has had the best of it? I should presume the prodigal; he has spent a fortune β€” but the miser has only left one; β€” he has lived rich, to die poor; the miser has lived poor, to die rich; and if the prodigal quits life in debt to others, the miser quits it, still deeper in debt to himself.

    Charles Caleb "C. C." Colton (1780-1832) English cleric, writer, aphorist
    Lacon: Or, Many Things in Few Words, Vol. 2, Β§ 131 (1822)

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  43. A quotation from Samuel Johnson

    The evils inseparably annexed to the present condition of man, are so numerous and afflictive, that it has been, from age to age, the task of some to bewail, and of others to solace them; and he, therefore, will be in danger of seeing a common enemy, who shall attempt to depreciate the few pleasures and felicities which nature has allowed us.

    Samuel Johnson (1709-1784) English writer, lexicographer, critic
    Essay (1753-11-27), The Adventurer, No. 111

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  44. A quotation from Samuel Johnson

    The evils inseparably annexed to the present condition of man, are so numerous and afflictive, that it has been, from age to age, the task of some to bewail, and of others to solace them; and he, therefore, will be in danger of seeing a common enemy, who shall attempt to depreciate the few pleasures and felicities which nature has allowed us.

    Samuel Johnson (1709-1784) English writer, lexicographer, critic
    Essay (1753-11-27), The Adventurer, No. 111

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