#help-please — Public Fediverse posts

You know when a person who has had difficult relationships tells my partner that our relationship style (which is a poly throuple) will fail because no member of our poly has #Autonomy , means the relationship is doomed to fail, can someone:

1. explain to me why this bothers me?
2. explain to me why this is right or wrong?

#polyam #throuple #triad #relationship #emotions #helpplease #guidance

It has been 15 years since I completed my Masters research. I’m trying to remember if there’s a strategy that helps you construct survey questions in a way that is not leading. Does that make sense? Also, are you allowed to ask hypothetical or nonsensical questions? #helpplease #research #aonz

It's a tea-saster! A catastroph-tea! Atha, whose vessel origin is British, is left without a working electric kettle after the Vulpibus kettle was damaged by fire, by chemicals and by falling. Seriously, that kettle has seen some things.

Can we get a new one? The cheap plastic ones start from like $14, a metal one that might last longer is probably a bit pricier.

And maybe a pizza? It's been months since the Vulpibus folks enjoyed one.

In better news though, all the solar panels are up on the Vulpibus now! Yay!

Cashapp $Athamanatha
https://paypal.me/athamanatha
Venmo @Athamanatha
Visa+ +athamanatha.paypal
Liberapay.com and Patreon are currently not an option for us due to loss of access to the associated email address.
Ko-fi.com/athakitsune

#mutualaid #helpfolkssurvive #tea #Moneyhelp #fedihelp #lgbtea #lgbtq #queer #lgbtqia #queerrights #currency #fuckcapitalism #fucktrump #homeless #buslife #vanlife #digitalnomads #Vulpibus #mutualhelp #helpplease #donate #fundraising #funds #crowdfunding #foodaid #food #sendhelp #pizza #trans #queermutualaid #transmutualaid

For Atha and Inamruzui:

Alright, we need to start this new year with a big bang of funds.
We're now at least $4k behind on debts and insurance and basic needs from tyres to food to vehicle license updates.
We can't realistically use Patreon because of a multi layered account login problem and high fees.
We need help via https://Ko-Fi.com/athakitsune
And
https://PayPal.me/athamanatha
And
Venmo @Athamanatha
And
https://liberapay.com/athamanatha
And
Cashapp $athamanatha

Zelle, Wise, IBAN and ACH may also be possible, please be in touch!

If you can't send thousands, send hundreds, tens or units. It's all better than nothing and it all helps.
If you want to send us more than thousands so as to properly sort us out for the long term, please DM.

Also, does anyone have advice on what a loan company would likely do if told you are homeless and living out of the vehicle they still have the title for?

#mutualaid #Emergencycrowdfund #EMERGENCYMUTUALAID
#currencyhelp #fedihelp #sendmoney #donate #begpost #crowdfund #trans #lgbtq #lgbtqia #homeless #disabled #help #helpplease #donations #sendessentials #tyres #tires #mobility #buslife #carlife #nofixedaddress #queercrowdfund #queermutualaid #transmutualaid #helpfolkssurvive2026 #helpfolkslive2026 #helpfolkssurvive #helpfolkslive #winter #survival
#insulation #insurance #keepwarm
#fuckcapitalism #fucktrump #tuckfrump #solar #solarpunk

#rstats #data.table :data.table: #lazyweb #helpPlease I’m trying to create a new column from a dynamic set of existing columns where I paste, collapse the columns into a new string. I’ve tried passing a vector of columns to the paste function and using the `env =` programming interface. I can’t get it to work though. I’d love some tips if someone has a spare moment.

#MUTUALAID #URGENTMUTUALAID #URGENT #EMERGENCYMUTUALAID

$0/$2000

Atha and Inara are out of HRT, need more batteries and insulation before winter really starts to get super cold, and also fast running out of time to pay for their car loan and credit card bills. Please help!

This week we need to raise at least $2000, and we know most of you don't have any money to give and of those who remain, very few have anything in four figures or more spare. What can you give to help us keep these otherkin, trans, non-binary beans alive and well?

They live in a half-converted school bus to RV project known as the #Vulpibus and are building their lives back up after being forced into #homelessness last year.

You can help make their situation more liveable and safe!

You can help them resume their transitions!

Share, boost, talk about them and the work they are doing for #geneediting systems development and maybe spare some coin, or some connections to free stuff or unofficial part time online jobs!

https://PayPal.me/athamanatha
https://liberapay.com/athamanatha
Cashapp $athamanatha
Venmo @Athamanatha
Visa+ +athamanatha.paypal
https://ko-fi.com/athakitsune (fees)
https://patreon.com/vulpinedesigns (more fees)
Zelle, Xoom, Wise, IBAN, ACH, bank transfer and Throne on request by DM.

#mutualaidrequest
#fundraiser
#crowdfunding
#homeless
#helppls
#fedihelp
#getfedihired
#lgbtqia2S
#translivesmatter
#transcrowdfund
#transmutualaid
#lgbtq
#queer
#queerinneed
#queercrowdfund
#queermutualaid
#HRT
#mutualaidsaveslives
#moneyhelp
#capitalismsucks
#fuckcapitalism
#fucktrump
#currency
#debtactivists
#debt
#debtcollection
#repo
#labsonwheels
#buslife
#mobility
#disabled
#POTS
#ADHD
#nonhuman
#disabledcrowdfund
#insulate
#insulation
#winteriscoming
#helpfolkssurvive
#helpfolkssurvive2025
#helpfolkslive
#helpfolkslive2025
#survival
#offgrid
#solar
#solarpower
#batteries
#helpplease
#begpost

Hello Fedi
Who has some currency to spare for keeping homeless trans queer folks warm this winter?

#URGENTMUTUALAID #EMERGENCYMUTUALAID

Atha and Inara need BATTERIES and INSULATION, FUEL AND FOOD.

BATTERIES: $0/260
INSULATION: $0/???? (DEPENDS)
FUEL: $0/125
FOOD: $0/150 (for winter stock up)

Let's #fundraise #transcrowdfund for them today!

If you also want to help with their DEBTS, please let us know!

@thoughtpunks
@mutual_aid
@mutual_ayyde
@mutualaid

LIBERAPAY https://liberapay.com/athamanatha

PAYPAL
https://paypal.me/athamanatha

VENMO
@Athamanatha

CASHAPP
$athamanatha

KO-FI
https://ko-fi.com/athakitsune

PATREON
https://patreon.com/vulpinedesigns

VISA+
+athamanatha.paypal

WISE
Please ask

IBAN
Please ask

ACH
Please ask

BANK TRANSFER
Please ask

ZELLE
Please ask

XOOM
Please ask

THRONE
Please ask

#mutualaid
#trans
#queer
#solarpunk
#homeless
#buslife
#schoolie
#skoolie
#busconversion
#solar
#batteries
#winter
#winteriscoming
#prepare
#keepwarm
#helpfolkslive2025
#helpfolkssurvive2025
#resources
#sendmoney
#donate
#moneyhelp
#help
#helpplease
#helppls
#fedihelp
#transmutualaid
#queermutualaid
#lgbtq
#lgbtqia
#lgbtqia2S
#lgbtqia2plus
#food
#feedthepoor
#eattherich
#fuckcapitalism
#anarchy
#genderfuckedlife
#disabled
#POTS
#otherkin
#furry
#therian
#DIY
#powersupply
#heating
#insulation
#insulate
#safety
#labsonwheels
#communesandconvoys
#revolution

Edit: some help received, more needed!

Can I ask nicely for like $25 towards food and drinks for Atha and Inara today please?

And if you are feeling more generous than that, they have MANY overdue bills run up in the course of trying to survive.

Check out their wide range of skills and offer them jobs!

#MUTUALAID #URGENT #URGENTMUTUALAID #EMERGENCYMUTUALAID matters!
It saves lives!

$470/$2025

https://paypal.me/athamanatha
https://liberapay.com/athamanatha
Cashapp $athamanatha
Venmo @Athamanatha
And more methods on DM!

#transinneed #translivesmatter #lgbtqia2S #lgbt #lgbtqia #lgbtq #queer #queermutualaid #transmutualaid #transcrowdfund #queercrowdfund #crowdfunding #moneyhelp
#mutualaidmonday #urgentmutualaidrequest #homeless #endhomelessness #lendahelpinghand #helpplease #plshelp #pleasedonate #donate #donations #fedihelp #getfedihired

We have a very urgent need to help Atha and @Kuniti_shino at @vulpinelabs make car loan and credit card payments that are well past due before the repo people catch up.

The car is needed for day to day runabout and safety. We need to find around $2000 to cover these needs ASAP for two beans who are stuck in cracks in the system and their health.

Https://Paypal.me/athamanatha
Cashapp $Athamanatha
Venmo @Athamanatha
Visa+ +athamanatha.paypal
Https://Ko-Fi.com/athakitsune
Https://patreon.com/vulpinedesigns
Https://liberapay.com/athamanatha
Zelle, Wise, IBAN, ACH, Throne and more on request.

Capitalism sucks ass and we need to take it down. In the meantime, it has this held over our heads. Also if you can help them get hired in Colorado or online, please be in touch.

@thoughtpunks @dirtwizard666 @anarchismhub
@mutualaid

#mutualaid #queermutualaid #fuckcapitalism #loanpayments #debts #moneyhelp #mutualaidrequest #helpplease #help #begpost #fundraiser #crowdfund #transcrowdfund #trans #transmutualaid #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtqia2plus #lgbtqia2S #fundraising #crowdfunding #financialaid #currency #car #mobility #disabled #DIY #schoolie #skoolie #getfedihired

Today's food mutual aid request has been fulfilled (yay!)

Now let's see how much of Atha's debts run up trying to survive we can pay off...

The total debts are in the region of $50-60k if you include student loans.
But the immediate needs (to avoid car repo and excessive credit card and overdraft fees) are more like $2000.

What can we do to put a dent in that today?

Paypal https://paypal.me/athamanatha
Cashapp $athamanatha
Venmo @Athamanatha
Visa+ +Athamanatha.paypal
Ko-Fi https://ko-fi.com/athakitsune
Patreon (high fees) https://patreon.com/vulpinedesigns
Multiple other methods on request by DM including Zelle, IBAN, Wise, ACH

@mutualaid @thoughtpunks @anarchismhub

#mutualaidrequest #mutualaid #queermutualaid #repo #car #loanpayments #overdraft #creditcard #helpplease #homeless #essentials #fuckcapitalism #debtrepayment #debts #currency #moneyhelp #unemployed #communesandconvoys #banks #paypal #fundraiser #fundraising #transcrowdfund #crowdfund #money #lgbt #queer #trans #transinneed #transmutualaid #lgbtqia2plus #lgbtq #lgbtqia #recovering #internallydisplaced #usa #help #fedihelp #helpplease #begpost #debtspiral #transrights #fucktrump #debtamnesty #debtactivists #donation #donations #donate #pleasedonate

I don't understand ... I thought my home feed was just accounts I followed, maybe local to my server accounts too. My home feed has been full of trash that I'm like, why did I ever follow this account? But then I click to look at the account page, and I'm not following them ... and they aren't a newsie.social either.

Did something change? Or have I just always been wrong and confused about my "home" feed?

#mastodon #HelpPlease #MastodonQuestions

If we want to keep our #vulpibus folks fed and watered, they will need more $$$ fast. This journey seems to keep bringing limited shopping options and high prices.

Needed today:
Drinking water
Tortillas
Ground beef
Bell pepper
Sandwichable cooked chicken
Mayonnaise

Not needed today:
More bills

Received anyway today:
A letter from the IRS reminding that a payment was past due and the fees for the payment bouncing are as much as the payment itself.

Atha is in a position where the government is preventing hir from getting a job in multiple ways, and is then penalising hir for not having money.

#helpplease #URGENT #emergencymutualaid #urgentmutualaid #mutualaid

Please send to:
https://paypal.me/athamanatha
https://ko-fi.com/athakitsune
https://patreon.com/vulpinedesigns
Cashapp $Athamanatha
Venmo @Athamanatha
Visa+ +athamanatha.paypal
https://liberapay.com/athamanatha
Or DM to use Wise, ACH, IBAN, Zelle etc.

#queer
#queermutualaid
#trans #lgbt #transmutualaid #lgbtq #lgbtqia2plus
#financialhelp #fedihelp
#moneyplease #donations #fuckcapitalism #fucktrump #tuckfrump

OMG, our next door neighbor just sent a video taken from her kitchen window of a rat climbing up the side of our house. Looks like we are *definitely* part of the Great Reno Rat Boom of 2025!! 🐀 🐀 🐀 #HelpPlease

The #Vulpibus folks are now just past the halfway point of their journey, which is only possible thanks to your #fedihelp #mutualaid!

But to get all the way there #gtfomystate, hundreds of dollars are still needed for the cost of fuel and food in this capitalist nightmare, and a few hundred more for preventing their car from being towed away for non payment of loans and insurance.

Let's call the goal $1000 over this next few days. This will help with a couple of maintenance things too hopefully.

Progress was made this last few days on the #electrical breaker box, on sewing of a lovely cloak for Inara, and on the gene editing system ( https://gitlab.vulpinedesigns.com and be sure to familiarise yourself with Qt Creator if you want to see the concepts being laid out first paw).

You are all amazing people living in this same messed up world as us. You know what you can and cannot manage to do. Be strong. Be loved. Receive the tolerance you give.

#safety #transport #trans #transresistance #transmutualaid #selfsufficiency #solarpunk #electricvehicles #electriccar #solarpanels #offgrid #labsonwheels #communesandconvoys #polymutualaid #genderqueer #queermutualaid #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbt #lgbtqia2plus #buslife #homeless #endhomelessness #homestead #roadtrip #software #development #programmers #volunteers #genetics #geneediting #financialhelp #fuckcapitalism #financialaid #assistance #helpplease #begpost #busconversion #freeeconomy

https://PayPal.me/Athamanatha
https://ko-fi.com/athakitsune
Cashapp $Athamanatha
Venmo @Athamanatha
https://patreon.com/vulpinedesigns
https://liberapay.com/athamanatha

Wise, ACH, IBAN, Zelle, Throne and more on DM request due to need to provide more sensitive info or to set addresses for specific timings of arrival.

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#Freestuff along the route always appreciated and considered.

One thing currently on the to get list is a clothes washing machine, preferably front load as a single or small unit sized combo machine with tumble dryer.

Another is a countertop sized dishwasher.

And a three quarters height, narrow width fridge-freezer.

If you have any of these spare in IA, NE or CO in working or easy-repair condition, please let us know.

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When the bus reaches its destination, a commune is to be established with its own off grid systems and food growing. The lab is to be expanded. We intend to help people escape and learn and transform into what they truly want to be.

When I say we, I mean a broad loose-knit network of agents across the world who are a decentralised, unstoppable force for good. The Vulpibus is a catalyst and a tool, the people know how to use it.

Atha is to me a being with great potential focussing on survival when hir real impact should be felt from hir work on gene editing tools for freedom of form.

I fight for hir and everyone to get a fair chance at making that happen. I fight with nice words, sharp words and blunt words, and if needed I will fight with weapons.

A good Nazi is one remembered in history as the discarded husk of our disgraceful mistakes gone by, long since eroded to dust. That starts not just with brute force, but by confounding their efforts in sheer fucking spite.

Join with us now to do just that.

I'm bummed out I'm not going to get my vacation payout in time for l.a Comic-con. So that means I need some spending money;for when I'm not at my table.
So if anyone wants to help out, how about buying a last minut commission? I think I have enough time to complete 2-3.

#commisionsopen #comicart #artcommission #opencommission #mastoart #helpplease #LACC #LosAngelesComicCon

I'm helping the #Vulpibus folks get their shit together by raising awareness and (while capitalism is still ruling the roost and we are not ready to take it down) funds, so they can get on with surviving and building and travelling.

Today they are working on aerodynamic cowls for the solar panels and trying to raise funds for fuel and a tyre.

Can we do it?

$30/$400 for the tyre
$60/$1600 for fuel to cross the country
$0/$150/week for food

And there is a need to get an engine diagnostic device too, we will talk more about that soon.

https://Paypal.me/athamanatha or https://PayPal.me/inaraclocks (for the fuel budget)
https://ko-fi.com/athakitsune
https://patreon.com/vulpinedesigns
https://liberapay.com/athamanatha
Cashapp $Athamanatha
Venmo, IBAN, ACH, Wise, Zelle and more available if you drop a DM and let me get you in touch with them.

If anyone has any remote jobs available online which are agnostic to nationality and living situation, please let me know and I will pass the info on.

#buslife #queermutualaid #mutualaid #solidarity #helpplease #moneyhelp #lgbtqia #tuckfrump #financialhelp #thoughtpunk #solarpunk #solarpanels #schoolie #skoolie #mechanical #maintenance #labsonwheels #communesandconvoys #DIY #resistance #endhomelessness #ohmsweetohm #lgbtq #queer #trans #transinneed #genderqueer #polymutualaid #polyamory #plural #pluralmutualaid #otherkin #otherkinmutualaid #furry #furrymutualaid #transmutualaid #transrescue #sos #survival #helpfolkslive2025 #helpfolkssurvive2025 #helpfolkssurvive #helpfolkslive #lendahand #food #roadtrip #fuel #travel #homeless #fedihelp #getfedihired