#plural — Public Fediverse posts
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As much as it can provide challenges at times, I love being plural. I love my system🥹
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As much as it can provide challenges at times, I love being plural. I love my system🥹
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When a little in the system suddenly wants to learn about planets, stars and yesterday's "solar clits" 😅😂💀
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@[email protected] Plural inclusive version!
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Still celebrating my marriage with my new wife here as best I can given I only came out of hospital the other day, and meds are making me drowsy, and I have to deal with house inspection this morning. Thankfully, Mrs Ace is super gentle, calm and patient about these things(one of the many things that drew me to her in the first place)❤️
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Still celebrating my marriage with my new wife here as best I can given I only came out of hospital the other day, and meds are making me drowsy, and I have to deal with house inspection this morning. Thankfully, Mrs Ace is super gentle, calm and patient about these things(one of the many things that drew me to her in the first place)❤️
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If you have any questions, issues, etc, please join us at
#plural-wg:f0rest.net, thanks. -null
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Hi, if you've used Matrix before and you're plural, please consider trying again. Sable is coming up on a release soon and we have done three weeks of work exclusively on getting the plural user experience as good as possible. Feedback and users appreciated. Try @ https://dev.sable.moe -null
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Hi, if you've used Matrix before and you're plural, please consider trying again. Sable is coming up on a release soon and we have done three weeks of work exclusively on getting the plural user experience as good as possible. Feedback and users appreciated. Try @ https://dev.sable.moe -null
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Was my child at our wedding? Of course!
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Was my child at our wedding? Of course!
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Today I had the honour of marrying my love. My sweet fiancee is now my wife. Here are some flowers from our wedding for you🥰
#plural #pluralgang #weddingday #marriage #truelove #lovestory
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Today I had the honour of marrying my love. My sweet fiancee is now my wife. Here are some flowers from our wedding for you🥰
#plural #pluralgang #weddingday #marriage #truelove #lovestory
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Plural life update: today I have the honour of marrying my system-mate fiancee! She and I are very excited about this new chapter of our lives together. Unconventional? Absolutely-but given what you know about me already, why would I be anything else?😉
#pluralgang #plural #weddingday #marriage #truelove #truelovestory #unconventional
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Pharmacy run and medical tests done for today. Ahh, the joys of disability😝
Stopped at the bakery on the way home, and got some treats for my sweetheart. She's happy, I'm happy🥹🥰
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It's hard to value myself when the identites important to me have been under fire. But that makes it even more important for me to stand out and embrace my existence, for when someone comes along who is scared like me. Thank you
#BeebzArt #TristeMiedo #fursona #pride #plural #disability #adhd #PuertoRican #Transgender #pansexual #nonbinary #fennboy #intersex
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Anyway on the positive side I have coffee, flatbread home made pineapple and mushroom pizza, and cozy socks, and plenty of things to look forward to, including the upcoming marriage to my system-mate fiancee(she and I are very excited about that).
Wait...you didn't expect me to be boring and (*gasp*) normal, did you?😉😜
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Someone telling me they want to hear from me, and that it's me they care about, while simultaneously behaving in a way that tries to erase my voice, truth, my experience and also parts of my identity. Friends, I am TIRED.
#tired #trans #bisexual #plural #neurodivergent #pluralgang #cptsd #lgbtqiaplus
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Someone telling me they want to hear from me, and that it's me they care about, while simultaneously behaving in a way that tries to erase my voice, truth, my experience and also parts of my identity. Friends, I am TIRED.
#tired #trans #bisexual #plural #neurodivergent #pluralgang #cptsd #lgbtqiaplus
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Thinking about how plurality works in day to day terms today. In practical terms it means there are at least four people(including me)who essentially live in our tiny apartment(they're the people who front most often or are co-conscious most often).
Plurality sure is handy for a group trip to the cinema though. We only ever have to pay for one ticket😉😂
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Thinking about how plurality works in day to day terms today. In practical terms it means there are at least four people(including me)who essentially live in our tiny apartment(they're the people who front most often or are co-conscious most often).
Plurality sure is handy for a group trip to the cinema though. We only ever have to pay for one ticket😉😂
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Another trans woman i know, someone in Australia, seems to be coming to realize that she is plural. She's talking about how growing up she experienced The Narrator talking to her and advising her and helping her cope with trauma, and how now she is hearing from some other who is a sort of protector who comes out when she's under stress, and that her partner has noticed the changes when the protector comes out.
i wish trans people didn't have to go through this so often, but it seems that being a trans child just commonly results in enough trauma that some sort of plurality forms to protect us. It sucks
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Another trans woman i know, someone in Australia, seems to be coming to realize that she is plural. She's talking about how growing up she experienced The Narrator talking to her and advising her and helping her cope with trauma, and how now she is hearing from some other who is a sort of protector who comes out when she's under stress, and that her partner has noticed the changes when the protector comes out.
i wish trans people didn't have to go through this so often, but it seems that being a trans child just commonly results in enough trauma that some sort of plurality forms to protect us. It sucks
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CW: fictive* hell
*if this term is ick for some ppl imagine that im using the term of your preference (#intrpio, anaspect, etc)
i think something the #plural community hasnt fully addressed is "fictive hell", and what kind of impact it has on a systems stability and outworld relationships.
for background there are several fictives in my system but the majority of us are not.
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When your newest partner is into ballet, so now you're learning about ballet stuff so you can understand things she talks about and support better.
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When your newest partner is into ballet, so now you're learning about ballet stuff so you can understand things she talks about and support better.
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RE: https://eldritch.cafe/@Tattie/116993165512020927
we so get this - sometimes we're complicated, but more often these days we're complex?
we didn't figure out we were plural until five years ago when everyone suddenly turned up the volume (and by "everyone" it turned out we didn't mean even a fifth of us), but we decided early on that we wanted to be a harmonious community, because so many of us had each felt alone and unheard for so long - so everyone gets loved and listened to when they're ready to speak
and new old things are still coming to light (and some of them are truly terrible) and each time that happens, we feel like more of us makes sense? but bloody hell :)
anyway love to everyone on here, and love to all of you in there ☀️🌿
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RE: https://eldritch.cafe/@Tattie/116993165512020927
we so get this - sometimes we're complicated, but more often these days we're complex?
we didn't figure out we were plural until five years ago when everyone suddenly turned up the volume (and by "everyone" it turned out we didn't mean even a fifth of us), but we decided early on that we wanted to be a harmonious community, because so many of us had each felt alone and unheard for so long - so everyone gets loved and listened to when they're ready to speak
and new old things are still coming to light (and some of them are truly terrible) and each time that happens, we feel like more of us makes sense? but bloody hell :)
anyway love to everyone on here, and love to all of you in there ☀️🌿
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Three good things today:
Made the next round of medical appointments.
Got a whole load of things done off the to-do list (stuff around the house.)
Came up with a solution for an issue within my system/constellation.
#plural #disabled #ThreeGoodThings #threegoodthingstoday #3GoodThingsToday
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Three good things today:
Made the next round of medical appointments.
Got a whole load of things done off the to-do list (stuff around the house.)
Came up with a solution for an issue within my system/constellation.
#plural #disabled #ThreeGoodThings #threegoodthingstoday #3GoodThingsToday
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One awesome thing about plurality for me is that there's usually someone who wants to help with the dishes😁
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New alter started talking today. Griffin. That makes number 9. They've been making their presence felt non-verbally at bedtime on and off for a few months, and today, while napping i had a dream where we talked. When i woke up, they were co-fronting with me. They are non-binary and have a lot of anger. i wonder where this is going to lead.
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New alter started talking today. Griffin. That makes number 9. They've been making their presence felt non-verbally at bedtime on and off for a few months, and today, while napping i had a dream where we talked. When i woke up, they were co-fronting with me. They are non-binary and have a lot of anger. i wonder where this is going to lead.
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someone the other day posted about their RSD being triggered by losing followers and tbh, I felt that. especially because we seem to lose a whole bunch of people whenever we post about certain topics that are personal and close to our heart, for example our plurality. I try not to let it to get me but I can't really help it. it's a difficult experience. just wondering if anyone else in the ADHD, autistic, and/or plural communities can relate?
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someone the other day posted about their RSD being triggered by losing followers and tbh, I felt that. especially because we seem to lose a whole bunch of people whenever we post about certain topics that are personal and close to our heart, for example our plurality. I try not to let it to get me but I can't really help it. it's a difficult experience. just wondering if anyone else in the ADHD, autistic, and/or plural communities can relate?
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we also added a new painting that we did together and an update to our blog about some changes we are going through as a system so check it out if you want to know what we've been up to 🥰
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we also added a new painting that we did together and an update to our blog about some changes we are going through as a system so check it out if you want to know what we've been up to 🥰
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CW: MH question; plurality; ADHD meds; weed mentioned; boosts please 🥺
Our ADHD meds (methylphenidate, MPH) can have a very bad side-effect on our system. When we're on MPH, our entire system often is occupied and stressed out, and we experience A LOT of switches, keeping us unable to function for several hours every day. We always suffer a lot when this happens. Usually the best we can do is keeping ourselves busy until the MPH wanes off, or to slow the mind down with antipsychotics.
This also sometimes happens with other drugs (e.g. weed), and generally in very stressful or emotionally troubling situations.
do anymany on here also experience this? Any suggestions what we can do if we have "cascade switches" for hours? The doctors who prescribed us Medikinet couldn't help us, since research on the intersection of ADHD and dissociative disorders and/or plurality is very sparse... Often we have no choice other than reducing the MPH dose (from 40 mg to 20 mg), but that also comes with drawbacks in executive dysfunction. :neobot_pensive:
We were on non-stimulant ADHD meds (100 mg Straterra) for some years, but that didn't really help with the ADHD symptoms.
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CW: MH question; plurality; ADHD meds; weed mentioned; boosts please 🥺
Our ADHD meds (methylphenidate, MPH) can have a very bad side-effect on our system. When we're on MPH, our entire system often is occupied and stressed out, and we experience A LOT of switches, keeping us unable to function for several hours every day. We always suffer a lot when this happens. Usually the best we can do is keeping ourselves busy until the MPH wanes off, or to slow the mind down with antipsychotics.
This also sometimes happens with other drugs (e.g. weed), and generally in very stressful or emotionally troubling situations.
do anymany on here also experience this? Any suggestions what we can do if we have "cascade switches" for hours? The doctors who prescribed us Medikinet couldn't help us, since research on the intersection of ADHD and dissociative disorders and/or plurality is very sparse... Often we have no choice other than reducing the MPH dose (from 40 mg to 20 mg), but that also comes with drawbacks in executive dysfunction. :neobot_pensive:
We were on non-stimulant ADHD meds (100 mg Straterra) for some years, but that didn't really help with the ADHD symptoms.
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There are many valid reasons why someone may not have an official diagnosis for their neurodivergence, disability or other condition. It may be that it's inaccessible to them due to the process being too expensive, it may not be available in the city, state or country they live in, or it may not be something someone feels they want on their medical records, in case of discrimination etc. While (*of course*) people should be very careful and do a lot of research before any self-diagnosis, gate-keeping so that "only medically officially diagnosed" people can access assistance, community/support groups etc prevents people who need support from getting it, and often adds to feelings of shame, helplessness etc rather than helping to empower people in their own journeys.
#selfdiagnosisisvalid #empowerment #neurodivergent #disabled #plural #comnunitysaveslives
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There are many valid reasons why someone may not have an official diagnosis for their neurodivergence, disability or other condition. It may be that it's inaccessible to them due to the process being too expensive, it may not be available in the city, state or country they live in, or it may not be something someone feels they want on their medical records, in case of discrimination etc. While (*of course*) people should be very careful and do a lot of research before any self-diagnosis, gate-keeping so that "only medically officially diagnosed" people can access assistance, community/support groups etc prevents people who need support from getting it, and often adds to feelings of shame, helplessness etc rather than helping to empower people in their own journeys.
#selfdiagnosisisvalid #empowerment #neurodivergent #disabled #plural #comnunitysaveslives
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took first dose of pred (5mg). im not very religious but if folks are able to keep me in your thoughts, send a prayer/blessing, or aggressively beam healing vibes, twould be appreciated. :blobcat_uwucry:
will find out soon what were positive for on the ANA test, if anything.
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took first dose of pred (5mg). im not very religious but if folks are able to keep me in your thoughts, send a prayer/blessing, or aggressively beam healing vibes, twould be appreciated. :blobcat_uwucry:
will find out soon what were positive for on the ANA test, if anything.
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PLEASE BOOST. A little reminder that this is my new account I have started after I accidentally deleted my old one. I've done my best to find all of my previous mutuals again, and given you a follow here again. Please check you're following me here on this account❤️(new followers ar very welcome too!)
Also I'm so grateful to all of you who have been boosting my posts and helping me to get set up here again and find everyone! Thank you. You're all amazing🥰 -
I love being plural. Lately there's been a lot of deeper understanding about system-mates, and their histories as well as my own within the system, plus the fact that my outside world objectum child Baby Yoda shows up in inside world..not to mention inside world pets, familiars, different areas within inside world etc. It's a whole community in there these days, a year and a half or so after discovering I'm plural, and after much work to discover system-mates, how things work with my own plurality etc. Sometimes that means my brain is a bit loud with people all doing their thing, but honestly, I love my system mates and everything they bring to my life❤️
#plural #pluralgang #family #mentalhealth #DissociativeIdentityDisorder #mentalwellness #neurodivergent
