#rsd — Public Fediverse posts
Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #rsd, aggregated by home.social.
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Je cherche des ressources sur la gestion du rejet en contexte familial, professionnel ou amical — en particulier pour les personnes neurodivergentes et/ou souffrant de dysphorie sensible au rejet. Quelqu’un aurait des pistes ?
Le boost stabilise la régulation émotionnelle.
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someone the other day posted about their RSD being triggered by losing followers and tbh, I felt that. especially because we seem to lose a whole bunch of people whenever we post about certain topics that are personal and close to our heart, for example our plurality. I try not to let it to get me but I can't really help it. it's a difficult experience. just wondering if anyone else in the ADHD, autistic, and/or plural communities can relate?
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"What RSD [Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria] is, is an exquisite sensitivity to the *perception* - it doesn't have to be real - the perception that someone has withdrawn their love, approval, or respect. Nobody likes being criticized, nobody likes being rejected, but for people who have an ADHD-style nervous system, it is catastrophic."
#DrBillDodson, 2026
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RxJjV9t_0mI
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Anxiety. Guilt. Shame. Rejection. A constant sense of unfairness that's hard to explain to anyone who hasn't felt it.
These aren't personality traits. They're what ADHD feels like from the inside — invisibly, every day, often without anyone around you knowing it's happening.
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RSD isn't oversensitivity.
Your brain processes rejection the same way it processes physical pain.
That's not a personality flaw. That's neuroscience.
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The Loneliness of Being A Neurodivergent Author
Sitting in a writing group meeting, knowing that you have years, decades even, more experience than the people in the room, and yet feeling as passed over as dried old turkey a week after Thanksgiving hurts. It creates grief. The never-ending spiral of "what if?"
https://authoryogi.eponaauthorsolutions.com/the-loneliness-of-being-a-neurodivergent-author/
#NeurodivergentAuthors #ActuallyAutistic #ADHD #grief #loneliness #neurodivergent #RSD -
#PeoplePleasing when you're #neurodivergent...
Sometimes a response to complex, prolonged trauma. Sometimes part of #masking in an attempt to reduce #RSD or #autistic #anxiety "in the moment". It's essentially a panic reaction (or so it seems to me), and is probably the result of years of harsh judgement from NTs.
I did it my whole life but didn't realise until I read Pete Walker's book on #CPTSD (I have other issues with that book but it helped me at the time).
It's insidious and damaging. You often don't realise you're doing it. You risk losing your own identity and becoming just a reflection of others. And, of course, attempting to please everyone is simply impossible and you end up making even fewer people happy than before - and you'll almost certainly be unhappy yourself.
It's good to sense the currents (if *everyone* seems to have the same view of your actions, you should perhaps at least try to work out why), but reacting to every rock dropped in the water is just playing whack-a-mole with yourself - or letting others play whack-a-mole with you.
Long post... but I see people trying to change tack as a result of one instance of negative feedback, making themselves miserable in the process, and all my years of pain make it a massive trigger for me so I can't keep quiet.
In summary:
"To thine own self be true"
- Someone, I forget who. Shakespeare? Obi-wan Kenobi? I'm sure someone will know.
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Listened to this just now. #SamanthanHiew talking about #AuDHD as experienced by women. It found me at a good time. It also got me to crycrycry—this was listening to someone speak my own inner sentiments and experiences aloud at a time when I feel like I can't get anyone in my life to fucking HEAR me. I needed that cry; the internal pressure has been dangerously high today.
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The Modern Lovers (BMG 964216351, 2026)
Couldn’t resist. Found this #RSD release on ebay for what I would’ve paid in the store so I snatched it up. One of my favorite albums of all time (although I consider the 1989 Rhino CD release my definitive track listing). This sounds really good though. So fun.
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Record Store Day 2026’s Top Sellers: Taylor Swift, Pink Floyd, Bruno Mars & More
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This is the new Seventh Star remaster. It has one of my favorite Black Sabbath covers. I've always enjoyed this album.
Some trivia:
- This was the debut album of Eric Singer's (from Kiss).
- It was the first of several collaboratios between Glenn Hughes and Tony Iommi
- Originally intended to be an Iommi solo album.Artist: Black Sabbath
Album: Seventh Star (1986)
Release: 2026 RSD remaster
Region: US
Label: Warner Records – RCV1 253371 -
MARK LANEGAN BAND
Bubblegum (Original Draft)
2026 Worldwide 2xLP RSD pressing
Ltd. Edition White VinylI went down to my local shop today and saw that they had the rest of their RSD shipment delivered to them (better late than never I guess), and grabbed a few more titles while I could.
THIS is for hardcore Lanegan fans only.
This is essentially “work in progress” versions of what would become Bubblegum; mostly Lanegan’s original demos, alternate mixes, scaled back instrumentations, and mostly without guest appearance overdubs.It’s an interesting companion to an already weird album. If you love Mark’s music, particularly Bubblegum, this is a fascinating listening experience of a captivating artist at work.
#vinyl #vinylrecords #vinylcommunity #vinylcollection #retro #vintage #art #music #marklanegan #bubblegum #rsd #recordstoreday #indie #alternative #grunge
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Die Ausreden - Die Insel live @ Dodoa Beach Record Store
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#TwoferTuesday — Lemmy's 50th birthday was celebrated in 1995 at the Whisky A Go Go, and it produced some great music. Metallica performed dressed as Lemmy!
Artist: Motörhead
Album: The Löst Tapes – Vol. 7 (2026)
Release: Original 2026 RSD pressing
Region: Europe
Label: BMG – 964212110Artist: Metallica
Album: The Whole Motörhead-ache Mess (2025)
Release: Load Super Deluxe (2025)
Region: US
Label: Blackened – BLCKND0011RD-1
