Why Do People Eroticize Safety?
Safety should not be erotic
And yet, sometimes it is
Not in an obvious way. The word “safety” itself does not sound particularly sensual. We associate safety with calm, predictability, boundaries and the feeling that nothing bad is going to happen
And still, there is a very particular kind of tension that appears only when fear begins to disappear
When the body no longer has to remain alert
When we do not have to monitor every gesture
When we can say “no” and know that our no […]
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