#selfdiscovery — Public Fediverse posts

What Happens When Tension Has Nowhere to Go

Some clients come to me with a very specific expectation They are not particularly interested in the entire philosophy of tantra They do not necessarily want to spend hours talking about presence, meditation, breath, awareness, changing the pace of life or looking at the body differently They want one thing They want to feel more More deeply More intensely They want their sexuality to feel more alive, more sensitive, more powerful And I understand that Sexuality can be an enormous […]

https://sensualtouchthejournal.wordpress.com/2026/10/05/what-happens-when-tension-has-nowhere-to-go/

Why Do People Eroticize Safety?

Safety should not be erotic And yet, sometimes it is Not in an obvious way. The word “safety” itself does not sound particularly sensual. We associate safety with calm, predictability, boundaries and the feeling that nothing bad is going to happen And still, there is a very particular kind of tension that appears only when fear begins to disappear When the body no longer has to remain alert When we do not have to monitor every gesture When we can say “no” and know that our no […]

https://sensualtouchthejournal.wordpress.com/2026/10/04/why-do-people-eroticize-safety/