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  1. #MondayMourning: Louise the Unfortunate

    No one knows Louise's real story. Legend has it that she traveled to Natchez sometime after the Civil War in search of her fiancé. For reasons unknown, she found herself stranded and husbandless.

    Too proud to return home, she became a seamstress, maid, then "woman of the night." After dying in her mid-20s, a mysterious benefactor paid for her funeral and this headstone, more than what most paupers received.

    #HisAndHearsePress #Cemetery #Monument #Memorial #Gravestone #Headstone #ReconstructionEra #Natchez #Louise #LouiseTheUnfortunate #Epitaph #WomenOfTheNight

  2. #WordyWednesday: Bleb

    (used in a mortuary context)

    A blister on a dead body, filled with stinky liquid, which usually turns into an area of skin slip (moist peeling skin) after it's been drained. Not fun at all.

    #HisAndHearsePress #Embalming #Embalmer #DeadBody #MortuaryScience #Bleb #Blister #Gross #Ew #Stinky #Vocabulary #WordOfTheDay

  3. #MondayMourning: It’s YOUR Grief

    Grief is a very individual experience. There are so many factors that affect it, like your personality, support network, beliefs, previous losses, and the security you feel in other aspects of your life (financial, housing, relationships, work).

    Don't use the grief experiences of others as a gauge for your own. Grieve in the way that feels comfortable to you, and don't worry if others think you're doing it too much or too little.

    #HisAndHearsePress #Grief #Mourning #GriefAndLoss #GriefSupport #GrieveYourWay

  4. Happy 4th of July! Do your local mortician a favor and party responsibly. We can wait.

    Fun fact: Uber surge pricing is cheaper than a funeral. Make plans to avoid driving drunk.

    #HisAndHearsePress #Happy4thOfJuly #4thOfJuly #IndependenceDay #USA #Freedom #RedWhiteAndBlue #FireworksSafety #DrunkDriving #DontDrinkAndDrive #BuzzedDrivingIsDrunkDriving #PartyResponsibly

  5. I accidentally discovered a newly opened indie bookstore close to home! I bought two books that ought to be useful for future projects (wink wink).

    Happy Opening, Sunken City Books!

    Reader, YOU can support this store from a distance through www.Bookshop.org

    My book haul:

    Rough Medicine: Surgeons At Sea in the Age of Sail, by Joan Druett

    How to Be a Victorian: A Dawn-to-Dusk Guide to Victorian Life, by Ruth Goodman

    #HisAndHearsePress #IndieBookstore #IndieBookshop #Bookstodon #Bookwyrm #SupportSmallBusiness #IndependentBookstore #SunkenCityBooks #SanPedro #SanPedroCA #BookHaul #Nonfiction #HistFic #VictorianEra #HistoryOfMedicine #HistoryOfSurgery

  6. #FuneralFactFriday: Hell Money

    The colloquial name for a form of Joss paper (incense paper), printed to resemble legal tender bank notes.

    Rooted in Asian culture, the fake currency is burned as an offering to the deceased in hopes of prosperity in the afterlife. Loose bundles are often placed inside caskets prior to cremation.

    In this context, Hell represents the afterlife in general and does not have the unpleasant connotation that Western culture associates with it.

    #HisAndHearsePress #FuneralCustoms #Funeral #MortuaryScience #Joss #JossPaper #HellMoney #HellBankNote #AsianTradition #Afterlife #Burial #Cremation #Incense #FunFacts

  7. People: "I hope I go to heaven after I die"

    Me: "I hope the most diverse little ecosystem grows from the soil of my decomposed body - just the coolest plants, fungi, little insects, birds, animals, microbes just thriving on my remains…”

    Words: @wokescientist
    Artist: @emossillustrates

    #HisAndHearsePress #NaturalBurial #GreenBurial #HumanComposting #AlkalineHydrolysis #EcoFriendlyFuneral #DeathPositive #MortuaryScience #SustainableFuneral

  8. #WordyWednesday: Ptomaine 💨🤢🤮

    Pronounced: toe-MAIN.

    The unholy gang of nitrogenous stink compounds responsible for the indescribable stench of decomposing bodies. Found in decaying vegetable and animal matter and formed by the action of putrefactive bacteria.

    Includes cadaverine and putrescine (the smell of putrefying flesh or rotting fish), indole (smells like mothballs), and skatole (smells like poop).

    Other chemical compounds produce smells akin to rotting cabbage, nasty garlic, and rotten eggs. Ptomaine was originally thought to cause food poisoning but has been disproven.

    Raise your hand if you've had this smell cling to your nose hairs after a long day at work! Semi-related, death workers deserve a raise.

    #HisAndHearsePress #Ptomaine #Decomposition #Cadaverine #Putrescine #Indole #Skatole #Putrefaction #Funeral #MortuaryScience #DeathCare #Embalming #Vocabulary #Stinky #Decomp

  9. Pulse Night of Remembrance ~ In memory of the 49 lost to the violence of bigotry and terrorism on June 12, 2016 at the Pulse Nightclub.

    A community grieves together and pledges to enact change by organizing the onePULSE Foundation. Their vision: "Establishing a sanctuary of healing and a beacon of hope by memorializing the lives taken, the lives saved and all the lives affected by the Pulse nightclub tragedy of June 12, 2016 – ensuring Pulse’s legacy of love lives on forever."

    Their mission: "To create and support a memorial that opens hearts, a museum that opens minds, educational programs that open eyes and legacy scholarships that open doors."

    Learn more about the memorial and the foundation at onepulsefoundation.org/

    #HisAndHearsePress #onePULSE #PulseNightOfRemembrance #PulseNightclub #Pride #Memorial #LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #TransLivesMatter #LoveIsLove #WeWillNotLetHateWin

  10. #MondayMourning: Wind Phone

    An unconnected phone, sometimes in a booth, designed as a place to hold one-way conversations with lost loved ones. A notebook beside the phone allows visitors to write messages of remembrance.

    The first public wind phone was created after the 2011 earthquake and tsunami in Otsuchi, Japan, and has been visited 30,000 times. Since then, replicas have appeared worldwide and enabled grieving people to reflect, connect, and speak their messages for the wind to carry.

    What do you think? Would this be a helpful grief tool for you?

    #HisAndHearsePress #Grief #GriefAndLoss #GriefSupport #GriefTools #WindPhone #Funeral #Memorial #Mourning #Bereavement

  11. *Last Words: A Glossary for Death and Funerals* is available FREE on my website! This 80 page resource defines 460 words found in death care professions, including funeral lingo, embalming equipment, grief, religious customs, funeral options, and death/dying terminology. Perfect for:

    Authors/writers, mortuary science students, apprentices, potential future morticians, medical/hospice caregivers, and curious people!

    www.LouisePachella.com/glossary

    #HisAndHearsePress #WritingCommunity #MortuaryScience #FutureMortician #HospiceNurse #FutureCorpse #WritersResource #VocabularyWords #Glossary #FreeDownload #MortuaryScienceStudent #MortuarySchool

  12. 🪦 Cemetery Saturday 💐
    Valley of the Temples Memorial Park, Oahu, Hawaii

    Fast facts:

    - Founded in 1963
    - 240 acres
    - Wild peacocks and koi carp
    - Zen garden
    - Award winning Byodo-In Temple, a replica of a 900-year-old Buddhist temple in Japan that was built to commemorate the 100th anniversary of the first Japanese immigrants to Hawaii
    - The location has featured in episodes of Hawaii Five-O, Magnum P.I., Lost, seaQuest DSV, and the movie Pearl Harbor

    I was prompted to share this magnificent cemetery after it was brought to my attention by an internet buddy (thanks Shyenne!) I'm thinking of making this a regular feature, bringing you a gorgeous cemetery with some fun facts every week or so. What do you think? Feel free to tell me about a location you've been amazed by and maybe I'll share it!

    #HisAndHearsePress #CemeterySaturday #ValleyOfTheTemples #MemorialPark #Cemetery #Funeral #Hawaii #Oahu #Kaneohe #ByodoInTemple #FilmLocation #FastFacts

  13. Look at my new treasure! I’m still looking into it, but it *might* be a 1949 Underwood Universal typewriter. Depending what’s involved, it’ll either be decor or a functional piece. Either way, my kids can’t wait to play Wednesday with it. 🖤

    #HisAndHearsePress #Typewriter #Underwood #UnderwoodTypewriter #UnderwoodUniversal #OldSchool #WriterAesthetic #Vintage #Wednesday #WednesdayVibes

  14. Come on down! 🪦

    By the way, graves cost a lot more than you think. If you want to be buried someday, it’s worth looking into it now (while you can shop around and make payments) rather than waiting until it’s an urgent need.

    Different cemeteries offer differ things. Some allow caskets to be stacked within a grave like eternal bunk beds. If you think you *might* want to do that to save space and money while keeping family together, it’s much easier to arrange when the FIRST occupant is buried. They dig the grave deeper to leave space for the second person above. If that isn’t done, then it’s a slightly more difficult and expensive process later (when Body 2 dies, Body 1 must be dug up, then the grave is dug deeper, then they replant Body 1 before the funeral for Body 2).

    There are also options to consider, like mausoleum crypts, columbariums for urns, or urns buried above caskets in the ground.

    When you buy your cemetery property, you don’t actually *own* the land. What you own is the right to bury in that space. Be sure to read the cemeteries rules and restrictions before purchasing. Then you won’t be surprised about what headstones they allow or what decorations are permitted.

    Another thing! When you buy your cemetery property, there will be extra costs. Buying the grave doesn’t mean your funeral is taken care of. There are fees to open and close the grave and some cemeteries require the use of a vault (outer burial container). You need to pay for that AND a setting fee because they’re super heavy. Headstones, markers, vases etc are extra.

    You’ll usually have to pay a fee called Endowment Care or Perpetual Care. That money is collected into a fund and the interest is used for cemetery maintenance after they’ve stopped making money.

    It adds up! Do your homework NOW!

    #HisAndHearsePress #Cemetery #Graveyard #Comic #JimShoenbill #SaleSaleSale #WackyWavingInflatableArmFlailingTubeMan #ComeOnDown #FridayFunny #GrimReaper #PreneedFuneralPlanning

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