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  1. Grief is the Thing with Feathers. Max Porter.

    The recent death of your wife has made you a single father, so you turn to a crow for help, but the crow’s advice is hard to follow.

    4 of 5 library cats 🐦‍⬛ 🐦‍⬛ 🐦‍⬛ 🐦‍⬛.

    @bookstodon #bookstodon #books #fiction #poetry #grief #crows #reading #therapy #death

  2. Grief is the Thing with Feathers. Max Porter.

    The recent death of your wife has made you a single father, so you turn to a crow for help, but the crow’s advice is hard to follow.

    4 of 5 library cats 🐦‍⬛ 🐦‍⬛ 🐦‍⬛ 🐦‍⬛.

    @bookstodon #bookstodon #books #fiction #poetry #grief #crows #reading #therapy #death

  3. I just realised, my Nephew never talks about "My house" or "Home".

    The place he lives he calls "Aunty [Name]'s house".

    His house no longer exists. It burnt down, taking his dad and little brother.

    He is such an amazing young man, there is such pain there but he still laughs easily, is full of the same mischief his dad had, and has such a beautiful presence about him - just like his dad did.

    #Grief #GriefAndHealing #Family

  4. I just realised, my Nephew never talks about "My house" or "Home".

    The place he lives he calls "Aunty [Name]'s house".

    His house no longer exists. It burnt down, taking his dad and little brother.

    He is such an amazing young man, there is such pain there but he still laughs easily, is full of the same mischief his dad had, and has such a beautiful presence about him - just like his dad did.

    #Grief #GriefAndHealing #Family

  5. A quotation from The Talmud

    When the Egyptians were drowning in the Red Sea, the angels in heaven began to break forth in songs of jubilation, but the Holy One, blessed be He, silenced them: “My creatures are perishing — and ye are ready to sing!”
     
    בִּקְּשׁוּ מַלְאֲכֵי הַשָּׁרֵת לוֹמַר שִׁירָה, אָמַר הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא: מַעֲשֵׂה יָדַי טוֹבְעִין בַּיָּם, וְאַתֶּם אוֹמְרִים שִׁירָה

    The Talmud (AD 200-500) Collection of Jewish rabbinical writings
    Babylonian Talmud, Seder Moed, Megillah 10b.26 [Rosten (1972)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/talmud/4579/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #talmud #callousness #celebration #compassion #creation #creator #divineintervention #divinelove #divinewrath #God #grief #inappropriateness #mercy #sorrow #tragedy #war

  6. Grief

    ••⋅☾ #俳句 ☽⋅••

    Candle vigil
    Freezing a frame
    Perpetual grief

    ••⋅☾ #Haiku ☽⋅••

    Photo: Yulia Sherstick
    Poem: Nara Moore

    #Poetry # #NMPoetry #DailyHaikuPrompt 22nd & 23rd #Grief

  7. Grief

    ••⋅☾ #俳句 ☽⋅••

    Candle vigil
    Freezing a frame
    Perpetual grief

    ••⋅☾ #Haiku ☽⋅••

    Photo: Yulia Sherstick
    Poem: Nara Moore

    #Poetry # #NMPoetry #DailyHaikuPrompt 22nd & 23rd #Grief

  8. Manga box sets of the deceased used as squat weights.

    Bereaved families perform squats with the box sets, but fear next-day soreness is a spiritual haunting.

    alt.andpaper.net/en/articles/2

    #AltAndPaperEN #Manga #Grief

  9. 𝑭𝒓𝒐𝒎 𝑾𝒂𝒚𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒅𝒔: “𝑹𝒐𝒈𝒖𝒆 𝑾𝒂𝒗𝒆” -

    We waited for “beloved”
    and forgot our street number

    When you died, grandfather,
    your lips pursed around a “ku-” . . .

    waywordsstudio.com/verse/rogue

    #poetry #poetrycommunity #originalpoetry #writingcommunity #grief #weather #tsunami

  10. 𝑭𝒓𝒐𝒎 𝑾𝒂𝒚𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒅𝒔: “𝑹𝒐𝒈𝒖𝒆 𝑾𝒂𝒗𝒆” -

    We waited for “beloved”
    and forgot our street number

    When you died, grandfather,
    your lips pursed around a “ku-” . . .

    waywordsstudio.com/verse/rogue

    #poetry #poetrycommunity #originalpoetry #writingcommunity #grief #weather #tsunami

  11. I Thought I Was Shopping at Dior. I Was Really Looking for Baby Lux.

    From the outside, it looked like a family enjoying a beautiful afternoon at Dior—champagne, chocolates, laughter, and a husband buying his wife a ring. But what no one could see was everything that was happening inside me. I thought I was shopping for jewelry. Looking back, I realize I was searching for something far deeper.

    momtraneur.com/2026/07/21/i-th

  12. I Thought I Was Shopping at Dior. I Was Really Looking for Baby Lux.

    From the outside, it looked like a family enjoying a beautiful afternoon at Dior—champagne, chocolates, laughter, and a husband buying his wife a ring. But what no one could see was everything that was happening inside me. I thought I was shopping for jewelry. Looking back, I realize I was searching for something far deeper.

    momtraneur.com/2026/07/21/i-th

  13. We Live In The Shadowlands

    Shadow Carress, Rolling Ridge

    Several years ago, I watched Shadowlands and was deeply touched. The movie tells the true story of the author C.S. Lewis (Jack), who though an award-winning author, leads a relatively passionless life until he meets an American divorcee, Joy Gresham. It is the beginning of a deep love, a love that changes both of them in a powerful way, and deepens their faith in God. But their time together is short as Joy becomes terminally ill with cancer.

    Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night afraid that something horrible has happened to someone that I love. So I pray for everyone I can think of. I reach my hand over and draw comfort from the warmth and breath of my wife who still sleeps beside me. Slowly my fear ebbs away because for another night the Angel of Death has passed over the doors of those who are closest to me. (Though I do not think it has very much to do with my prayers).

    I want to pray as hard for everyone in the world as I pray for my family and friends. The Angel of Death does not always pass over. I do not want to live my life in fear. I do not want to be afraid of the pain that comes with being close to people and thereby miss the happiness that comes from their presence.

    In the movie, Joy, in pushing Jack to be present to ALL of life, states: “We can’t have the happiness of yesterday without the pain of today. That’s the deal.”

    We live in the Shadowlands, between the sunrise and sunset. But the sun is always present and as long as I cast a shadow, it means that I am alive. Alive to live and love and care and hurt to the fullest of my being.

    That’s the deal.

    (November 2007)

    #cSLewis #cancer #ChristianHope #ChristianReflection #compassionForTheWorld #courageToLove #deathAndDying #Faith #Family #familyAndFriends #Fear #fearOfLoss #GodAndSuffering #grief #Happiness #Hope #JackAndJoy #JoyDavidman #JoyGresham #lifeAndLove #livingFully #LoveAndLoss #lovingFully #marriage #Mortality #Movies #Pain #painAndHappiness #PassoverImagery #Prayer #presence #ShadowlandsQuote #SpiritualReflection #sunriseAndSunset #terminalIllness #ThatSTheDeal #theAngelOfDeath #vulnerability #WordPressTagsShadowlands #Writing
  14. We Live In The Shadowlands

    Shadow Carress, Rolling Ridge

    Several years ago, I watched Shadowlands and was deeply touched. The movie tells the true story of the author C.S. Lewis (Jack), who though an award-winning author, leads a relatively passionless life until he meets an American divorcee, Joy Gresham. It is the beginning of a deep love, a love that changes both of them in a powerful way, and deepens their faith in God. But their time together is short as Joy becomes terminally ill with cancer.

    Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night afraid that something horrible has happened to someone that I love. So I pray for everyone I can think of. I reach my hand over and draw comfort from the warmth and breath of my wife who still sleeps beside me. Slowly my fear ebbs away because for another night the Angel of Death has passed over the doors of those who are closest to me. (Though I do not think it has very much to do with my prayers).

    I want to pray as hard for everyone in the world as I pray for my family and friends. The Angel of Death does not always pass over. I do not want to live my life in fear. I do not want to be afraid of the pain that comes with being close to people and thereby miss the happiness that comes from their presence.

    In the movie, Joy, in pushing Jack to be present to ALL of life, states: “We can’t have the happiness of yesterday without the pain of today. That’s the deal.”

    We live in the Shadowlands, between the sunrise and sunset. But the sun is always present and as long as I cast a shadow, it means that I am alive. Alive to live and love and care and hurt to the fullest of my being.

    That’s the deal.

    (November 2007)

    #cSLewis #cancer #ChristianHope #ChristianReflection #compassionForTheWorld #courageToLove #deathAndDying #Faith #Family #familyAndFriends #Fear #fearOfLoss #GodAndSuffering #grief #Happiness #Hope #JackAndJoy #JoyDavidman #JoyGresham #lifeAndLove #livingFully #LoveAndLoss #lovingFully #marriage #Mortality #Movies #Pain #painAndHappiness #PassoverImagery #Prayer #presence #ShadowlandsQuote #SpiritualReflection #sunriseAndSunset #terminalIllness #ThatSTheDeal #theAngelOfDeath #vulnerability #WordPressTagsShadowlands #Writing
  15. This is my friend Cricket. She's been my best friend for 11 years, my constant companion.
    She got sick, and today was her last day. I miss her terribly.
    I just wanted people to know about her. Thank you for looking.

    #CatsOfMastadon #Cat #Gato #Grief #Loss

  16. This is my friend Cricket. She's been my best friend for 11 years, my constant companion.
    She got sick, and today was her last day. I miss her terribly.
    I just wanted people to know about her. Thank you for looking.

    #CatsOfMastadon #Cat #Gato #Grief #Loss

  17. Son's dying wish to see mum play soccer now helps her cope with loss
    By Sarah Forster

    After Spencer Farley was diagnosed with terminal cancer, he asked his mum to start playing soccer. In the 12 months since his death, the game has kept her going.

    abc.net.au/news/2026-07-22/cen

    #Grief #Soccer #ClubsandAssociations #SarahForster

  18. Son's dying wish to see mum play soccer now helps her cope with loss
    By Sarah Forster

    After Spencer Farley was diagnosed with terminal cancer, he asked his mum to start playing soccer. In the 12 months since his death, the game has kept her going.

    abc.net.au/news/2026-07-22/cen

    #Grief #Soccer #ClubsandAssociations #SarahForster

  19. A Question of Conscience

    Are you dead, my guide?
    Or have you simply sunk into the muck
    that creeps upon these inner corridors,
    drowning in helpless demise?

    The glass is obscured and the
    bright moon has faded into the mist
    while I, like a blind hand groping,
    stand trembling in this night,

    waiting.

    October 28, 1988, Curridabat, Costa Rica

    Part of the continuing Respectful American series, a selection of writings from my travel journals from Central America in 1988

    #1988Poem #CentralAmerica #conscience #CostaRica #CreativeWriting #darknessAndLight #ExistentialPoetry #fadedMoon #grief #guide #hauntedCorridor #helplessness #innerCorridors #introspectivePoetry #LatinAmericanArt #lostGuide #memory #moonInMist #moralStruggle #mudAndMuck #mysticalPoetry #nightImagery #obscuredGlass #originalPoetry #POETICAORAREContemplativePoetryPrayers #Poetry #shadowWork #soulJourney #spiritualCrisis #spiritualDarkness #SpiritualReflection #surrealMural #surrealPoetry #symbolicPoetry #TravelAndTourism #tremblingInTheNight #uncertainty #Waiting #WordPressTagsAQuestionOfConscience #Writing
  20. A Question of Conscience

    Are you dead, my guide?
    Or have you simply sunk into the muck
    that creeps upon these inner corridors,
    drowning in helpless demise?

    The glass is obscured and the
    bright moon has faded into the mist
    while I, like a blind hand groping,
    stand trembling in this night,

    waiting.

    October 28, 1988, Curridabat, Costa Rica

    Part of the continuing Respectful American series, a selection of writings from my travel journals from Central America in 1988

    #1988Poem #CentralAmerica #conscience #CostaRica #CreativeWriting #darknessAndLight #ExistentialPoetry #fadedMoon #grief #guide #hauntedCorridor #helplessness #innerCorridors #introspectivePoetry #LatinAmericanArt #lostGuide #memory #moonInMist #moralStruggle #mudAndMuck #mysticalPoetry #nightImagery #obscuredGlass #originalPoetry #POETICAORAREContemplativePoetryPrayers #Poetry #shadowWork #soulJourney #spiritualCrisis #spiritualDarkness #SpiritualReflection #surrealMural #surrealPoetry #symbolicPoetry #TravelAndTourism #tremblingInTheNight #uncertainty #Waiting #WordPressTagsAQuestionOfConscience #Writing
  21. AI 'ghosts' comfort the grieving — even when the bots get the facts wrong

    If this matters to you, share it.

    1ban.news/ai-ghosts-grief-mour

    #1ban #ghosts #grief #mourners #science #research

  22. AI 'ghosts' comfort the grieving — even when the bots get the facts wrong

    If this matters to you, share it.

    1ban.news/ai-ghosts-grief-mour

    #1ban #ghosts #grief #mourners #science #research

  23. Between the Lines #1

    I wrote this before this blog ever existed. It was tucked away in one of my notebooks, waiting for the right place to live. I think it found that place here. Scars The gods always asked for sacrifices. Some were given lambs. Some were given daughters. I was given myself. No temple stood above me, no choir sang my name, yet something holy was taken all the same. Every pale line is another language my body learned instead of peace. The ones across my legs look like rivers on […]

    destinylaharris.wordpress.com/

  24. Between the Lines #1

    I wrote this before this blog ever existed. It was tucked away in one of my notebooks, waiting for the right place to live. I think it found that place here. Scars The gods always asked for sacrifices. Some were given lambs. Some were given daughters. I was given myself. No temple stood above me, no choir sang my name, yet something holy was taken all the same. Every pale line is another language my body learned instead of peace. The ones across my legs look like rivers on […]

    destinylaharris.wordpress.com/

  25. Make the Hurt Go Away by Michael T Worden now live on Amazon

    https://www.youtube.com/shorts/WpKbcmekkuE https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0H84452L8 Still missing them every day? That’s love.Still wondering if you’re “allowed” to have fun again? That’s human.In Make The Hurt Go Away, Michael T Worden shares how new companionship can ease the hurt—not replace your spouse but help you carry their memory with a lighter heart.Kids may push back at first. God’s design is still companionship. Your late spouse would want you happy.

    midnight-publishing.org/2026/0

  26. Make the Hurt Go Away by Michael T Worden now live on Amazon

    https://www.youtube.com/shorts/WpKbcmekkuE https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0H84452L8 Still missing them every day? That’s love.Still wondering if you’re “allowed” to have fun again? That’s human.In Make The Hurt Go Away, Michael T Worden shares how new companionship can ease the hurt—not replace your spouse but help you carry their memory with a lighter heart.Kids may push back at first. God’s design is still companionship. Your late spouse would want you happy.

    midnight-publishing.org/2026/0

  27. By the time we reach our senior years, we've encountered many types of grief. In a new book, author Kate Doerge offers action steps for moving through the grieving process. #wellness #grief #aging

    psychologytoday.com/us/blog/th

    Posted into FLIPBOARD EXCHANGE FEED 🗞️ @flipboard-exchange-feed-Econopass

  28. Today should be my nephew's 7th birthday.

    Instead he will be forever 4 years old.

    Please, make sure you know what to do in case of a fire. Know which adult is going for which child. Practice your escape routes.

    Does the plan change if you have young grandkids staying over?

    #FireSafety #Fire #Grief #Safety

  29. Today should be my nephew's 7th birthday.

    Instead he will be forever 4 years old.

    Please, make sure you know what to do in case of a fire. Know which adult is going for which child. Practice your escape routes.

    Does the plan change if you have young grandkids staying over?

    #FireSafety #Fire #Grief #Safety

  30. Abscond: A Short Story

    "If there’s such a thing as destiny, is there such a thing as changing it?"

    Sale: $1.99 to $0.99

    by Abraham Verghese
    Rating: 4.3/5 (27,072 Reviews)

    #books #booksky #historical #fiction #shortstory #kindle #literature #family #grief #destiny

    Abscond: A Short Story

  31. Abscond: A Short Story

    "If there’s such a thing as destiny, is there such a thing as changing it?"

    Sale: $1.99 to $0.99

    by Abraham Verghese
    Rating: 4.3/5 (27,072 Reviews)

    #books #booksky #historical #fiction #shortstory #kindle #literature #family #grief #destiny

    Abscond: A Short Story

  32. Free download codes:

    Ultimate Rick Jones - The Senseless Waste of a Beautiful Thing

    "A toe tapper about memory and the weird algebra of grief."

    getmusic.fm/l/GTc1zX

    #acoustic #piano #americana #country #saxophone #50s #grief #doowop #musclecars #music

  33. Free download codes:

    Ultimate Rick Jones - The Senseless Waste of a Beautiful Thing

    "A toe tapper about memory and the weird algebra of grief."

    getmusic.fm/l/GTc1zX

    #acoustic #piano #americana #country #saxophone #50s #grief #doowop #musclecars #music

  34. I just realised that Nephew is no longer packing all his things into bags as he goes to bed. For a while he did this in case there was a fire so that he could get all his stuff out the house easier.

    I am hoping the fact that he has stopped means that he is healing from what he went through.

    He is such an amazing young man. I am so damned proud of him and wish his dad could see him now.

    #grief #GriefAndHealing

  35. Bloomberg: Beijing edict leaves Chinese with virtual lovers heartbroken. “Alongside Beijing-based ByteDance, major Chinese technology companies like Alibaba Group Holding Ltd are also disabling functionality that lets users customise artificial intelligence (AI) companions, effective July 15…. The sudden shutdown of the AI personas leaves users facing the loss of relationships that they’d […]

    https://rbfirehose.com/2026/07/15/bloomberg-beijing-edict-leaves-chinese-with-virtual-lovers-heartbroken/
  36. Bloomberg: Beijing edict leaves Chinese with virtual lovers heartbroken. “Alongside Beijing-based ByteDance, major Chinese technology companies like Alibaba Group Holding Ltd are also disabling functionality that lets users customise artificial intelligence (AI) companions, effective July 15…. The sudden shutdown of the AI personas leaves users facing the loss of relationships that they’d […]

    https://rbfirehose.com/2026/07/15/bloomberg-beijing-edict-leaves-chinese-with-virtual-lovers-heartbroken/
  37. “Some - not all but some - situations elicit grief alongside feelings of inspiration or uplift. Try to ignore your feelings about one, then you risk avoiding or distorting the other.”
    My piece about #grief as a space of complexity. And why that is a good thing.
    dangerousmeredith.substack.com

  38. “Some - not all but some - situations elicit grief alongside feelings of inspiration or uplift. Try to ignore your feelings about one, then you risk avoiding or distorting the other.”
    My piece about #grief as a space of complexity. And why that is a good thing.
    dangerousmeredith.substack.com