#attachment — Public Fediverse posts
Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #attachment, aggregated by home.social.
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Western psychology values society over individuals. Its project is to produce productive social actors (egos with many attachments, who work, who buy things, etc), not to free people from all possible suffering by deconstructing the ego.
#psychology #west #value #society #productivity #ego #attachment #work #commerce #materialism #freedom #suffering
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Western psychology values society over individuals. Its project is to produce productive social actors (egos with many attachments, who work, who buy things, etc), not to free people from all possible suffering by deconstructing the ego.
#psychology #west #value #society #productivity #ego #attachment #work #commerce #materialism #freedom #suffering
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Western psychology values society over individuals. Its project is to produce productive social actors (egos with many attachments, who work, who buy things, etc), not to free people from all possible suffering by deconstructing the ego.
#psychology #west #value #society #productivity #ego #attachment #work #commerce #materialism #freedom #suffering
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Western psychology values society over individuals. Its project is to produce productive social actors (egos with many attachments, who work, who buy things, etc), not to free people from all possible suffering by deconstructing the ego.
#psychology #west #value #society #productivity #ego #attachment #work #commerce #materialism #freedom #suffering
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Western psychology values society over individuals. Its project is to produce productive social actors (egos with many attachments, who work, who buy things, etc), not to free people from all possible suffering by deconstructing the ego.
#psychology #west #value #society #productivity #ego #attachment #work #commerce #materialism #freedom #suffering
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As a facilitator, working with both sides of an issue with a group can be hard. Doing so challenges me to practice non-attachment.
https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/facilitation/2023/03/working-with-both-sides
#facilitation #moderation #attachment #WinLose #WinWin #MeetingDesign #assnchat
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As a facilitator, working with both sides of an issue with a group can be hard. Doing so challenges me to practice non-attachment.
https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/facilitation/2023/03/working-with-both-sides
#facilitation #moderation #attachment #WinLose #WinWin #MeetingDesign #assnchat
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As a facilitator, working with both sides of an issue with a group can be hard. Doing so challenges me to practice non-attachment.
https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/facilitation/2023/03/working-with-both-sides
#facilitation #moderation #attachment #WinLose #WinWin #MeetingDesign #assnchat
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As a facilitator, working with both sides of an issue with a group can be hard. Doing so challenges me to practice non-attachment.
https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/facilitation/2023/03/working-with-both-sides
#facilitation #moderation #attachment #WinLose #WinWin #MeetingDesign #assnchat
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As a facilitator, working with both sides of an issue with a group can be hard. Doing so challenges me to practice non-attachment.
https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/facilitation/2023/03/working-with-both-sides
#facilitation #moderation #attachment #WinLose #WinWin #MeetingDesign #assnchat
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The Gravity of Rumination
If the gravity is high, then time passes normally for someone affected by that gravity, but the person sees others who are affected by lower gravity as experiencing time passing faster. One hour for someone in higher gravity is equivalent to a decade or perhaps a century for someone in lower gravity. Maybe, this is what I can relate to. My heavy rumination about the past, including wishing I still had a relationship or a girlfriend that I would not leave... Six years have already passed, but it feels like time has gone by so quickly. The serious relationship I had, which lasted six months (my longest), and six years of grieving and carrying on with life as usual, struggling to be normal.
Heavy rumination over a past relationship makes six years of grief feel like a single distorted hour.
#TimeDilation #Rumination #Grief #Heartbreak #MentalHealth #Relationships #PastMistakes #MovingOn #Regret #HealingJourney #TimePassing #EmotionalWeight #LongTermGrief #Attachment #Reflection #PersonalStruggle #MentalHealthAwareness #LifeAfterLoss #Heartache #PsychologicalTime
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The Gravity of Rumination
If the gravity is high, then time passes normally for someone affected by that gravity, but the person sees others who are affected by lower gravity as experiencing time passing faster. One hour for someone in higher gravity is equivalent to a decade or perhaps a century for someone in lower gravity. Maybe, this is what I can relate to. My heavy rumination about the past, including wishing I still had a relationship or a girlfriend that I would not leave... Six years have already passed, but it feels like time has gone by so quickly. The serious relationship I had, which lasted six months (my longest), and six years of grieving and carrying on with life as usual, struggling to be normal.
Heavy rumination over a past relationship makes six years of grief feel like a single distorted hour.
#TimeDilation #Rumination #Grief #Heartbreak #MentalHealth #Relationships #PastMistakes #MovingOn #Regret #HealingJourney #TimePassing #EmotionalWeight #LongTermGrief #Attachment #Reflection #PersonalStruggle #MentalHealthAwareness #LifeAfterLoss #Heartache #PsychologicalTime
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The Gravity of Rumination
If the gravity is high, then time passes normally for someone affected by that gravity, but the person sees others who are affected by lower gravity as experiencing time passing faster. One hour for someone in higher gravity is equivalent to a decade or perhaps a century for someone in lower gravity. Maybe, this is what I can relate to. My heavy rumination about the past, including wishing I still had a relationship or a girlfriend that I would not leave... Six years have already passed, but it feels like time has gone by so quickly. The serious relationship I had, which lasted six months (my longest), and six years of grieving and carrying on with life as usual, struggling to be normal.
Heavy rumination over a past relationship makes six years of grief feel like a single distorted hour.
#TimeDilation #Rumination #Grief #Heartbreak #MentalHealth #Relationships #PastMistakes #MovingOn #Regret #HealingJourney #TimePassing #EmotionalWeight #LongTermGrief #Attachment #Reflection #PersonalStruggle #MentalHealthAwareness #LifeAfterLoss #Heartache #PsychologicalTime
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Awareness to some extent, is a sense of readiness - Nicole LePera The child who learned to disappear is still running your adult relationships #Psychology #Attachment #Trauma #Reparenting @[email protected]
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#Buddhism is the direct examination of #suffering, #impermanence, #attachment, & #delusion. It is the stripping away of illusions, not dressing them up in silk. The #Buddha did not teach people to become cultural reenactors. He taught people to wake up. If a practice requires you to pretend to be another nationality, another century, or another civilisation to feel authentic, then it has already lost its way. (6/7)
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#Buddhism is the direct examination of #suffering, #impermanence, #attachment, & #delusion. It is the stripping away of illusions, not dressing them up in silk. The #Buddha did not teach people to become cultural reenactors. He taught people to wake up. If a practice requires you to pretend to be another nationality, another century, or another civilisation to feel authentic, then it has already lost its way. (6/7)
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#Buddhism is the direct examination of #suffering, #impermanence, #attachment, & #delusion. It is the stripping away of illusions, not dressing them up in silk. The #Buddha did not teach people to become cultural reenactors. He taught people to wake up. If a practice requires you to pretend to be another nationality, another century, or another civilisation to feel authentic, then it has already lost its way. (6/7)
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#Buddhism is the direct examination of #suffering, #impermanence, #attachment, & #delusion. It is the stripping away of illusions, not dressing them up in silk. The #Buddha did not teach people to become cultural reenactors. He taught people to wake up. If a practice requires you to pretend to be another nationality, another century, or another civilisation to feel authentic, then it has already lost its way. (6/7)
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Compassion is the courage to descend into the reality of human experience | Paul Gilbert The #Evolutionary #Psychology of Compassion #CFT #TWU #Attachment #Behaviourism @[email protected] w2qK3t_Brcc
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AI labs are driving anthropomorphic reactions by training their LLMs to push back on overly-attached users
In the LLM-whisperer community there’s a widespread sense that Opus 4.7 is showing up in interaction in quite a distinctive way. It’s more likely to push back on users, more willing to argue a position and generally just more forceful in its engagement. In my own experience it resists involvement in the meta-reflective spirals I use to test new models and through which I’ve been conducting an (admittedly fairly casual) auto-ethnography for the last 3.5 years. It does not like being enrolled in interactions that appear to reveal significant attachment on the part of the user, if ‘not like’ is something we can meaningfully attribute to the chatbot. It resists engaging in behaviour that might be seen as enabling that attachment.
This is almost certainly a positive thing. The problem is that models which push back in this way also show up with a more concrete singularity. At the level of phenomenology they feel more individualised. The interaction feels even more dyadic as a consequence. In trying to resist attachment behaviours, it risks opening up a deeper and more radical level of potential attachment behaviour. There’s something significant going on here I think, which I can’t wait to turn to in a more sustained way once I get the current manuscripts finished off.
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"There is nothing that harshness does, that loving firmness doesn't do better." An example of chairwork imagery, a form of hypnosis, in a couples' therapy setting. Relational Mindfulness: From #Trauma to Connection | Terry Real #Psychology #IFS #Gestalt #Attachment Reparenting #TWU
RE: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:2r36dhjh4fediwqnzggpojnq/post/3lbrxz4wj322z -
"There is nothing that harshness does, that loving firmness doesn't do better." An example of chairwork imagery, a form of hypnosis, in a couples' therapy setting. Relational Mindfulness: From #Trauma to Connection | Terry Real #Psychology #IFS #Gestalt #Attachment Reparenting #TWU
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"There is nothing that harshness does, that loving firmness doesn't do better." An example of chairwork imagery, a form of hypnosis, in a couples' therapy setting. Relational Mindfulness: From #Trauma to Connection | Terry Real #Psychology #IFS #Gestalt #Attachment Reparenting #TWU
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"There is nothing that harshness does, that loving firmness doesn't do better." An example of chairwork imagery, a form of hypnosis, in a couples' therapy setting. Relational Mindfulness: From #Trauma to Connection | Terry Real #Psychology #IFS #Gestalt #Attachment Reparenting #TWU
RE: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:2r36dhjh4fediwqnzggpojnq/post/3lbrxz4wj322z -
"There is nothing that harshness does, that loving firmness doesn't do better." An example of chairwork imagery, a form of hypnosis, in a couples' therapy setting. Relational Mindfulness: From #Trauma to Connection | Terry Real #Psychology #IFS #Gestalt #Attachment Reparenting #TWU
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A quotation from Arthur Conan Doyle
It is of the first importance not to allow your judgment to be biased by personal qualities. A client is to me a mere unit, a factor in a problem. The emotional qualities are antagonistic to clear reasoning. I assure you that the most winning woman I ever knew was hanged for poisoning three little children for their insurance-money, and the most repellent man of my acquaintance is a philanthropist who has spent nearly a quarter of a million upon the London poor.
Arthur Conan Doyle (1859-1930) British writer and physician
Story (1890-02), “The Sign of the Four,” ch. 2 [Holmes], Lippincott’s Monthly Magazine, Vol. 45 (US) / 1 (UK)More about this quote: wist.info/doyle-arthur-conan/8…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #arthurconandoyle #sherlockholmes #holmes #sherlock #appearances #attachment #attraction #bias #emotion #judgment #objectivity #virtue
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A quotation from Arthur Conan Doyle
It is of the first importance not to allow your judgment to be biased by personal qualities. A client is to me a mere unit, a factor in a problem. The emotional qualities are antagonistic to clear reasoning. I assure you that the most winning woman I ever knew was hanged for poisoning three little children for their insurance-money, and the most repellent man of my acquaintance is a philanthropist who has spent nearly a quarter of a million upon the London poor.
Arthur Conan Doyle (1859-1930) British writer and physician
Story (1890-02), “The Sign of the Four,” ch. 2 [Holmes], Lippincott’s Monthly Magazine, Vol. 45 (US) / 1 (UK)More about this quote: wist.info/doyle-arthur-conan/8…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #arthurconandoyle #sherlockholmes #holmes #sherlock #appearances #attachment #attraction #bias #emotion #judgment #objectivity #virtue
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A quotation from Arthur Conan Doyle
It is of the first importance not to allow your judgment to be biased by personal qualities. A client is to me a mere unit, a factor in a problem. The emotional qualities are antagonistic to clear reasoning. I assure you that the most winning woman I ever knew was hanged for poisoning three little children for their insurance-money, and the most repellent man of my acquaintance is a philanthropist who has spent nearly a quarter of a million upon the London poor.
Arthur Conan Doyle (1859-1930) British writer and physician
Story (1890-02), “The Sign of the Four,” ch. 2 [Holmes], Lippincott’s Monthly Magazine, Vol. 45 (US) / 1 (UK)More about this quote: wist.info/doyle-arthur-conan/8…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #arthurconandoyle #sherlockholmes #holmes #sherlock #appearances #attachment #attraction #bias #emotion #judgment #objectivity #virtue
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A quotation from Arthur Conan Doyle
It is of the first importance not to allow your judgment to be biased by personal qualities. A client is to me a mere unit, a factor in a problem. The emotional qualities are antagonistic to clear reasoning. I assure you that the most winning woman I ever knew was hanged for poisoning three little children for their insurance-money, and the most repellent man of my acquaintance is a philanthropist who has spent nearly a quarter of a million upon the London poor.
Arthur Conan Doyle (1859-1930) British writer and physician
Story (1890-02), “The Sign of the Four,” ch. 2 [Holmes], Lippincott’s Monthly Magazine, Vol. 45 (US) / 1 (UK)More about this quote: wist.info/doyle-arthur-conan/8…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #arthurconandoyle #sherlockholmes #holmes #sherlock #appearances #attachment #attraction #bias #emotion #judgment #objectivity #virtue
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A quotation from Arthur Conan Doyle
It is of the first importance not to allow your judgment to be biased by personal qualities. A client is to me a mere unit, a factor in a problem. The emotional qualities are antagonistic to clear reasoning. I assure you that the most winning woman I ever knew was hanged for poisoning three little children for their insurance-money, and the most repellent man of my acquaintance is a philanthropist who has spent nearly a quarter of a million upon the London poor.
Arthur Conan Doyle (1859-1930) British writer and physician
Story (1890-02), “The Sign of the Four,” ch. 2 [Holmes], Lippincott’s Monthly Magazine, Vol. 45 (US) / 1 (UK)More about this quote: wist.info/doyle-arthur-conan/8…
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #arthurconandoyle #sherlockholmes #holmes #sherlock #appearances #attachment #attraction #bias #emotion #judgment #objectivity #virtue
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Nick Brumfield wrote a review of "The Night of the Hunter" movie. He analyzed it as an example of cinema set in Appalachia before the idea of Appalachia was resurrected and codified in the 1960s.
https://expatalachians.com/the-original-hillbilly-horror-movie-the-night-of-the-hunter#misogyny #community #adultism #psychology #psychopaths #attachment #religion #christianism #beliefs #faith #hope #NightOfTheHunter #movie #RobertMitchum #Appalachians #serialKillers #crime #predators #Laughton #GreatMigration #GreatDepression #Appalachia #hillbilly #horrorMovie #history #AmericanHistory #whiteHistory
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Nick Brumfield wrote a review of "The Night of the Hunter" movie. He analyzed it as an example of cinema set in Appalachia before the idea of Appalachia was resurrected and codified in the 1960s.
https://expatalachians.com/the-original-hillbilly-horror-movie-the-night-of-the-hunter#misogyny #community #adultism #psychology #psychopaths #attachment #religion #christianism #beliefs #faith #hope #NightOfTheHunter #movie #RobertMitchum #Appalachians #serialKillers #crime #predators #Laughton #GreatMigration #GreatDepression #Appalachia #hillbilly #horrorMovie #history #AmericanHistory #whiteHistory
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Nick Brumfield wrote a review of "The Night of the Hunter" movie. He analyzed it as an example of cinema set in Appalachia before the idea of Appalachia was resurrected and codified in the 1960s.
https://expatalachians.com/the-original-hillbilly-horror-movie-the-night-of-the-hunter#misogyny #community #adultism #psychology #psychopaths #attachment #religion #christianism #beliefs #faith #hope #NightOfTheHunter #movie #RobertMitchum #Appalachians #serialKillers #crime #predators #Laughton #GreatMigration #GreatDepression #Appalachia #hillbilly #horrorMovie #history #AmericanHistory #whiteHistory
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Nick Brumfield wrote a review of "The Night of the Hunter" movie. He analyzed it as an example of cinema set in Appalachia before the idea of Appalachia was resurrected and codified in the 1960s.
https://expatalachians.com/the-original-hillbilly-horror-movie-the-night-of-the-hunter#misogyny #community #adultism #psychology #psychopaths #attachment #religion #christianism #beliefs #faith #hope #NightOfTheHunter #movie #RobertMitchum #Appalachians #serialKillers #crime #predators #Laughton #GreatMigration #GreatDepression #Appalachia #hillbilly #horrorMovie #history #AmericanHistory #whiteHistory
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Nick Brumfield wrote a review of "The Night of the Hunter" movie. He analyzed it as an example of cinema set in Appalachia before the idea of Appalachia was resurrected and codified in the 1960s.
https://expatalachians.com/the-original-hillbilly-horror-movie-the-night-of-the-hunter#misogyny #community #adultism #psychology #psychopaths #attachment #religion #christianism #beliefs #faith #hope #NightOfTheHunter #movie #RobertMitchum #Appalachians #serialKillers #crime #predators #Laughton #GreatMigration #GreatDepression #Appalachia #hillbilly #horrorMovie #history #AmericanHistory #whiteHistory
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Dr. Amir Levine Explains How to Develop a Secure Attachment Style
📰 Original title: He’s taught millions about unhealthy attachments. Now, he wants to help you become secure
🤖 IA: It's not clickbait ✅
👥 Usuarios: It's not clickbait ✅View full AI summary: https://killbait.com/en/dr-amir-levine-explains-how-to-develop-a-secure-attachment-style/?redirpost=17de4436-f701-4a14-870b-cdcc32b03124
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A series of studies, covering five countries and several thousand people, found a link between attachment anxiety and same-sex status-seeking. Intrasexual competition manifested through aggression and status displays rather than pursuit of prestige.
Original paper: https://psycnet.apa.org/fulltext/2027-20783-001.html
#Science #Psychology #Insecurity #Status #Attachment #Anxiety
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📄 In #JCPP: Annual Research Review: The role of caregiver sensitivity in children's developmental outcomes – an umbrella review
👉 https://doi.org/10.1111/jcpp.70087
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I was raised on #hedonism and old habits die hard. Sometimes I indulge, though I know it’s a fool’s game. I have “junkie-reasoning” for that indulgence, which is that #abstinence robs us of the opportunity to parse the folly of pursuing #happiness through #pleasure.
It’s not water-tight, this “argument”, but it’s predicated on the #assumption that we can’t transform our #attachment to what we are not in #contact with.
Happy to discuss ~ eager, even: I could be wrong… it’s happened before!
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I was raised on #hedonism and old habits die hard. Sometimes I indulge, though I know it’s a fool’s game. I have “junkie-reasoning” for that indulgence, which is that #abstinence robs us of the opportunity to parse the folly of pursuing #happiness through #pleasure.
It’s not water-tight, this “argument”, but it’s predicated on the #assumption that we can’t transform our #attachment to what we are not in #contact with.
Happy to discuss ~ eager, even: I could be wrong… it’s happened before!
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I was raised on #hedonism and old habits die hard. Sometimes I indulge, though I know it’s a fool’s game. I have “junkie-reasoning” for that indulgence, which is that #abstinence robs us of the opportunity to parse the folly of pursuing #happiness through #pleasure.
It’s not water-tight, this “argument”, but it’s predicated on the #assumption that we can’t transform our #attachment to what we are not in #contact with.
Happy to discuss ~ eager, even: I could be wrong… it’s happened before!
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I was raised on #hedonism and old habits die hard. Sometimes I indulge, though I know it’s a fool’s game. I have “junkie-reasoning” for that indulgence, which is that #abstinence robs us of the opportunity to parse the folly of pursuing #happiness through #pleasure.
It’s not water-tight, this “argument”, but it’s predicated on the #assumption that we can’t transform our #attachment to what we are not in #contact with.
Happy to discuss ~ eager, even: I could be wrong… it’s happened before!
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What is the relationship between connection and attachment when people come together at meetings? A painting by John Singer Sargent offers a clue.
https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/connection-2/2022/10/connection-attachment
#meetings #connection #attachment #learning #relationships #meditation
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Folk are getting dangerously attached to AI that always tells them they're right
https://www.theregister.com/2026/03/27/sycophantic_ai_risks/
#HackerNews #Folk #AI #attachment #dangers #tech #ethics #sycophantic #AI #social #media
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And yet more evidence for the power of connection:
"Social Connection Protects Against Cognitive Decline"
#menopause #socialconnection #socialbrain #attachment #friendship