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  1. Great paper by #PrasetiaUtamaPutra and #FumihiroKano published in #CommunicationsPsychology: successful #coordination was most strongly associated with #anticipation of one’s own action outcomes, outperforming physiological #synchrony, motor behavior, demographic characteristics, and social #closeness. Partners whose #predictions of their own action outcomes were more closely aligned coordinated better, likely because each behaved in ways the other implicitly expected.

    "Successful coordination emerges from aligned #SelfPredictions in a #dynamic #motor #interaction"

    #OpenAccess
    #BayesianStatistics
    #XGBoost
    #TableTennis

    nature.com/articles/s44271-026

  2. Ornament, or: Architecture

    From a distance, all these beams
    may look like ornament:
    each question polished,
    each distinction raised too high.
      
    Come closer.
    I build this carefully,
    testing every joint and word,
    not to tower above you,
      
    but to make a place
    where you can feel safe.

    d’Verse Quadrille

    The above poem is my take on d’Verse’s Quadrille challenge.

    The Quadrille is simply a poem of 44 words (excluding the title), and it can take any form. This week’s challenge was to use the word “care” in a Quadrille.

    Let’s write poetry together!

    When it comes to partnership, some humans can make their lives alone – it’s possible. But creatively, it’s more like painting: you can’t just use the same colours in every painting. It’s just not an option. You can’t take the same photograph every time and live with art forms with no differences.

    –Ben Harper (b. 1969)

    Would you like to create poetry with me and have a completed poem of yours featured here at the Skeptic’s Kaddish? I am very excited to have launched the ‘Poetry Partners’ initiative and am looking forward to meeting and creating with you… Check it out!

    #Attention #Care #Closeness #Poem #Poetry #Quadrille #Safety #Shelter #Structure #Tenderness #Trust
  3. Let's reduce on the closeness and physicality of connection.

    And get quantum physical.

    Visible physics anyway imply quantum physics

    but if the nature of quantum physics is not considered than general physicality is just a game of pretending or really believing to want superficiality and the opposite playing with that supposed need.

    In clear words: to want bodily closeness just opens the door for manipulation along that physical need.

    #quantumphysics #physics #relationships #closeness

  4. A quotation from Ouida

    The longest absence is less perilous to love than the terrible trials of incessant proximity.

    Ouida (1839-1908) English novelist [pseud. of Maria Louise Ramé]
    Friendship, ch. 11 (1878)

    More info about this quote: wist.info/ouida/37905/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #ouida #absence #closeness #conflict #love #proximity #relationship #staleness #togetherness #separation

  5. The closest form of closeness is no distance at all.

    When the veil of "me" and "you" collapses, what remains isn’t connection — it is sameness.

    Presence recognizing itself, without gap, without bridge, without need.

    #Presence #Closeness #Sameness

  6. Sex is physical communication.
    I need to know that [the person I want to communicate intimate things with] knows: possible outcomes (lol tho), possible risks, and is enthusiastic to continue.

    To feel sure that they know it (and feel comfortable saying no to me), I need them to demonstrate key details and confidence to relay their desires.

    But you can still *talk* to people you don't want to fuck, right? Like... cis het people aren't really going around only spending time on people they want to fuck... RIGHT?!

    #SexEd #sex #sexual #fuck #bang #intimacy #DisabilityIntimacy #couple #couples #threesome #foursome #orgy #partner #partners #closeness #dating #date #marriage #romance #EroticRomance #Ero #Erotic #Sensual #genital #genitals

  7. This is What #Avoidant People Wish You Knew

    youtube.com/watch?v=qdwhmZx6DW

    You want to let people in—truly, you do—but every time #closeness feels too real, something inside whispers, be careful. For those who feel avoidant, #connection is both the thing they crave and the thing that terrifies them most. It’s not #coldness; it’s #selfprotection shaped by fear of #rejection, #pastwounds, and #emotions that sometimes feel too big to carry.

  8. CW: Basic needs = Food, Connection, Affection, Attention, Closeness, Freedom...

    Basic needs - not just rewards or incentives...

    Food, Connection, Affection, Attention, Closeness, Freedom...

    ...are not just rewards.

    They are human needs, and the birthright of every child.

    B. Heller #Quote

    #Food, #Connection, #Affection, #Attention, #Closeness, #Freedom...

  9. A quotation from Johnson, Lyndon:

    «
    We hope that the world will not narrow into a neighborhood before it has broadened into a brotherhood.
    »

    Full quote, sourcing, notes:
    wist.info/johnson-lyndon/21102

    #quote #quotes #quotation #brotherhood #closeness #community #humanity #proximity #travel #world

  10. Wisdom for the night:

    Many people fail at #love because their #fear of opening up to the other person is greater than their longing for #closeness and #trust, and their bad experiences are stronger than their best hopes.

    #relationship

  11. ❤️ I was recently reminded about the project I created for #SexTechHack 2017: Touch Pairing
    🧡 The project explored closeness and intimacy for people at a distance, without speech or contact
    💛 Touch Pairing offers a shared screen where gestures and motions are visible and shared with your partner.
    💚 I've rustled up the old code, slides, and video... and backdated a new post
    💙 instantiator.dev/post/touch-pa 🙌
    #Hackathon #App #Android #AndroidDev #AndroidNearby #Closeness #Intimacy #Loneliness #SexTech

  12. "Good times are always mutual; that is what makes good times." — Emily Dickinson — — — #EmilyDickinson #quote #quotes #goodtimes #good #times #mutual #enjoyment #reciprocal #shared #closeness

  13. "They tried to arrest him again, but he eluded their grasp. He went back across the Jordan" (Jn 10:39-40).

    "Jesus distances himself from those who want to kill him, without running away from his mission. Sometimes physical absence isn't a matter of distancing; it's another way of being present."
    -Bishop Silvio José Báez, OCD

    #gospel #GospelOfTheDay #Jesus #absence #distance #closeness #lejanía #cercanía #catholic #Carmelite #quote #Lent

  14. CW: Adult language and themes

    I cannot shake the impression that there is. Speaking from personal experience, in my #relationships I often found my partners more open to wild #sex and #explicit acts than moments of silence and emotional #closeness. While sexual experimentation creates #trust and a feeling of closeness all of its own, what I mean is a deeper, vulnerable, #spiritual #connection. This happened across several relationships with entirely different #women, so it was quite noticeable.

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