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No matter your age, you can always enjoy a rave | Letters
By Guardian Staff

Brian F Nattrass went to a festival to celebrate his 80th birthday, started dancing and suddenly felt ageless. Plus a letter from John Parry

https://www.theguardian.com/music/2026/jul/23/no-matter-your-age-you-can-always-enjoy-a-rave

#Clubbing #Ageing #Middleage #Women #Mentalhealth #Psychology #Music #Culture #TheBeatles #ElvisPresley #Healthwellbeing #TheGuardian #GuardianStaff

The rave secret: why middle-aged women are larging it – and seeing big health benefits
By Amy Fleming

For those who are burned out, perimenopausal, or both, dancing all night can be a panacea. It’s great exercise, lowers stress, boosts energy and provides connection. No wonder so many are doing it

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2026/jul/20/the-rave-secret-why-middle-aged-women-are-larging-it-and-seeing-big-health-benefits

#Women #Women #Middleage #Lifeandstyle #Music #Society #Psychology #Clubbing #Electronicmusic #Mentalhealth #TheGuardian #AmyFleming

Long carried, or: At last, a form

A Bussokusekika

I long carried this
through doubt, return, loss, learning
now I trace my steps
and see the road beneath them
the way now winds less sharply
my feet now choose firmer ground

Tanka Tuesday

For Tanka Tuesday, we are encouraged to compose a Bussokusekika verse.

Bussokusekika?

Bussokusekika, or “Buddha’s Footprint Poems,” are an early Japanese poetic form associated with inscriptions beside a carved Buddha footprint at Yakushi-ji Temple in Nara. Each poem follows a six-line syllabic pattern of 5-7-5-7-7-7. The sixth line often repeats or rephrases the fifth, reflecting an older song tradition in which the closing line was sung again. The surviving poems largely praise the Buddha or reflect on impermanence, suffering, and the need for spiritual understanding.

Let’s write poetry together!

When it comes to partnership, some humans can make their lives alone – it’s possible. But creatively, it’s more like painting: you can’t just use the same colours in every painting. It’s just not an option. You can’t take the same photograph every time and live with art forms with no differences.

–Ben Harper (b. 1969)

Would you like to create poetry with me and have a completed poem of yours featured here at the Skeptic’s Kaddish? I am very excited to have launched the ‘Poetry Partners’ initiative and am looking forward to meeting and creating with you… Check it out!

Long carried, or: At last, a form

A Bussokusekika

I long carried this
through doubt, return, loss, learning
now I trace my steps
and see the road beneath them
the way now winds less sharply
my feet now choose firmer ground

Tanka Tuesday

For Tanka Tuesday, we are encouraged to compose a Bussokusekika verse.

Bussokusekika?

Bussokusekika, or “Buddha’s Footprint Poems,” are an early Japanese poetic form associated with inscriptions beside a carved Buddha footprint at Yakushi-ji Temple in Nara. Each poem follows a six-line syllabic pattern of 5-7-5-7-7-7. The sixth line often repeats or rephrases the fifth, reflecting an older song tradition in which the closing line was sung again. The surviving poems largely praise the Buddha or reflect on impermanence, suffering, and the need for spiritual understanding.

Let’s write poetry together!

When it comes to partnership, some humans can make their lives alone – it’s possible. But creatively, it’s more like painting: you can’t just use the same colours in every painting. It’s just not an option. You can’t take the same photograph every time and live with art forms with no differences.

–Ben Harper (b. 1969)

Would you like to create poetry with me and have a completed poem of yours featured here at the Skeptic’s Kaddish? I am very excited to have launched the ‘Poetry Partners’ initiative and am looking forward to meeting and creating with you… Check it out!

I walk, or: Carrying less

A Sijo

sandals, Middle Eastern tan lines
earbuds playing Billy Joel;
the old words sound and sound right
yet their teenage listener has blurred;
midlife's now loosening its grip
I walk on, carrying less

Sijo?

A Korean verse form related to haiku and tanka and comprised of three lines of 14-16 syllables each, for a total of 44-46 syllables. Each line contains a pause near the middle, similar to a caesura, though the break need not be metrical. The first half of the line contains six to nine syllables; the second half should contain no fewer than five. Originally intended as songs, sijo can treat romantic, metaphysical, or spiritual themes. Whatever the subject, the first line introduces an idea or story, the second supplies a “turn,” and the third provides closure. Modern sijo are sometimes printed in six lines.

Let’s write poetry together!

When it comes to partnership, some humans can make their lives alone – it’s possible. But creatively, it’s more like painting: you can’t just use the same colours in every painting. It’s just not an option. You can’t take the same photograph every time and live with art forms with no differences.

–Ben Harper (b. 1969)

Would you like to create poetry with me and have a completed poem of yours featured here at the Skeptic’s Kaddish? I am very excited to have launched the ‘Poetry Partners’ initiative and am looking forward to meeting and creating with you… Check it out!

I walk, or: Carrying less

A Sijo

sandals, Middle Eastern tan lines
earbuds playing Billy Joel;
the old words sound and sound right
yet their teenage listener has blurred;
midlife's now loosening its grip
I walk on, carrying less

Sijo?

A Korean verse form related to haiku and tanka and comprised of three lines of 14-16 syllables each, for a total of 44-46 syllables. Each line contains a pause near the middle, similar to a caesura, though the break need not be metrical. The first half of the line contains six to nine syllables; the second half should contain no fewer than five. Originally intended as songs, sijo can treat romantic, metaphysical, or spiritual themes. Whatever the subject, the first line introduces an idea or story, the second supplies a “turn,” and the third provides closure. Modern sijo are sometimes printed in six lines.

Let’s write poetry together!

When it comes to partnership, some humans can make their lives alone – it’s possible. But creatively, it’s more like painting: you can’t just use the same colours in every painting. It’s just not an option. You can’t take the same photograph every time and live with art forms with no differences.

–Ben Harper (b. 1969)

Would you like to create poetry with me and have a completed poem of yours featured here at the Skeptic’s Kaddish? I am very excited to have launched the ‘Poetry Partners’ initiative and am looking forward to meeting and creating with you… Check it out!

Timm Radt: Men in Blech

Eine #rezension:
https://www.findosbuecher.com/?p=9407

#sachbuch #buchbubble #reading #iamreading #books #literatur #middleage #mittelalter

Crossposted with @openvibe

Timm Radt: Men in Blech

Eine #rezension:
https://www.findosbuecher.com/?p=9407

#sachbuch #buchbubble #reading #iamreading #books #literatur #middleage #mittelalter

Crossposted with @openvibe

I did two nonconsecutive hours of weeding and pruning today so I suspect I may not be able to move tomorrow 😅

#gardening #MiddleAge

I did two nonconsecutive hours of weeding and pruning today so I suspect I may not be able to move tomorrow 😅

#gardening #MiddleAge

Why middle age is becoming a breaking point in the U.S. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2026/06/260613215430.htm

#UnitedStates #USA #US #environment #health #wellbeing #MiddleAge

Why middle age is becoming a breaking point in the U.S. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2026/06/260613215430.htm

#UnitedStates #USA #US #environment #health #wellbeing #MiddleAge

The first thing I thought was, "Oh shit, back when my eyes were good enough that I didn't need prescription sunglasses." #middleage

The first thing I thought was, "Oh shit, back when my eyes were good enough that I didn't need prescription sunglasses." #middleage

What would you say is the starting age for "middle-aged"?

#opinion #middleAged #middleAge #whatAge

What would you say is the starting age for "middle-aged"?

#opinion #middleAged #middleAge #whatAge

You know I went to the doctor
Said I'm feelin kinda rough
"Let me break it to you, son
Your shit's fucked up"

I said My shit's fucked up?
I don't see how! He said
"The shit that used to work
Won't work now"

#warrenzevon #enjoyeverysandwich #middleage

You know I went to the doctor
Said I'm feelin kinda rough
"Let me break it to you, son
Your shit's fucked up"

I said My shit's fucked up?
I don't see how! He said
"The shit that used to work
Won't work now"

#warrenzevon #enjoyeverysandwich #middleage

I’ve never been to a #Costco, but _so many_ of my Indian #NRI friends & acquaintances swear by it:

“I Want To Live Like Costco People”, Taste (https://tastecooking.com/i-want-to-live-like-costco-people/).

Via HN: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=48050499

#Shopping #Retail #USA #America #DiscountShopping #MidLife #MiddleAge

I’ve never been to a #Costco, but _so many_ of my Indian #NRI friends & acquaintances swear by it:

“I Want To Live Like Costco People”, Taste (https://tastecooking.com/i-want-to-live-like-costco-people/).

Via HN: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=48050499

#Shopping #Retail #USA #America #DiscountShopping #MidLife #MiddleAge

Most middle aged injury ever: I hurt my back KNITTING.

I used to mosh, man.

#meirl #middleage #genx

Most middle aged injury ever: I hurt my back KNITTING.

I used to mosh, man.

#meirl #middleage #genx

Oh man! 😓

“Overcoming The Friendship Recession”, Joe Previte (https://joeprevite.com/friendship-recession/).

Via HN: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=47453737

#Friends #Loneliness #Friendship #Life #MiddleAge #Initiative #SelfHelp #Advice

Oh man! 😓

“Overcoming The Friendship Recession”, Joe Previte (https://joeprevite.com/friendship-recession/).

Via HN: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=47453737

#Friends #Loneliness #Friendship #Life #MiddleAge #Initiative #SelfHelp #Advice

#sissybitch #kinkgw #trans #middleage #mixtishoo #bizarre #tatsLife #tr4mpst4mps

Eradication Horny Chill Pills

me: but if I wear a tank top, I'll be showing my chubby arms

her: lol, girl nobody is gonna be looking at your *arms*!

Okay, fair point. 😆

#WomanInMiddleAge
#insecurities
#MiddleAge
#MiddleAgedHotness

me: but if I wear a tank top, I'll be showing my chubby arms

her: lol, girl nobody is gonna be looking at your *arms*!

Okay, fair point. 😆

#WomanInMiddleAge
#insecurities
#MiddleAge
#MiddleAgedHotness

Marriage over, €100,000 down the drain: the AI users whose lives were wrecked by delusion https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2026/mar/26/ai-chatbot-users-lives-wrecked-by-delusion #HealthWellbeing #AiArtificialIntelligence #Chatbots #Computing #Technology #MentalHealth #Psychiatry #Psychology #Health #Science #Society #Business #Divorce #Family #MiddleAge

Marriage over, €100,000 down the drain: the AI users whose lives were wrecked by delusion https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2026/mar/26/ai-chatbot-users-lives-wrecked-by-delusion #HealthWellbeing #AiArtificialIntelligence #Chatbots #Computing #Technology #MentalHealth #Psychiatry #Psychology #Health #Science #Society #Business #Divorce #Family #MiddleAge

Gửi những người đang chông chênh ở ngưỡng tuổi 40-50: Đừng coi thường những cơn đau mỏi vai gáy hay nhịp tim đập nhanh bất thường!

Tuổi trung niên là giai đoạn bản lề. Bạn không còn ở cái tuổi bẻ gãy sừng trâu, nhưng cũng chưa già đến mức rệu rã. Đây là "thời điểm vàng" để thiết lập lại kỷ luật ăn uống và vận động. Khám phá ngay các bí quyết duy trì sức khỏe người trung niên để vững bước trên chặng đường dài phía trước nhé!
https://songdepkhoe.com/suc-khoe-nguoi-trung-nien.html
#MiddleAge #SucKhoeNguoiTrungNien #LifeStyle

Good Morning! Beige blessings be.

Today I think we might see about going out somewhere. Maybe to an English Heritage site nearby. It has a wonderful sense of peace and I feel like I need some of that right now. I will see how I feel in a little while.

I also need to do some laundry, and we need to do a food shop so I must think about what foods we need.

Maybe I will do some crocheting later too.

Honestly, I have no idea how you manage hearing about my high-octane rock and roll lifestyle each day!

#GoodMorning #BeigeBlessings #MiddleAge

Good Morning! Beige blessings be.

Today I think we might see about going out somewhere. Maybe to an English Heritage site nearby. It has a wonderful sense of peace and I feel like I need some of that right now. I will see how I feel in a little while.

I also need to do some laundry, and we need to do a food shop so I must think about what foods we need.

Maybe I will do some crocheting later too.

Honestly, I have no idea how you manage hearing about my high-octane rock and roll lifestyle each day!

#GoodMorning #BeigeBlessings #MiddleAge

We've had some warm temperatures here on the prairies the last couple of days, and it's mostly looking like above-freezing during the day for the foreseeable future [1]. So today I pulled the snow tires off the cars and put the "all-season" [2] ones on.

Please join me tomorrow in celebrating the semi-annual festival of Oh My Gawd Why Are My Knees On Fire And I Didn't Even Know I Had Muscles In That Part Of My Thigh.

[1] To be fair, this is about 5-6 days max. They don't bother to even try forecasting further out than that here.

[2] Really "three-season", if you live anywhere where it gets more than a handful of degrees below freezing.

#Canada #prairies #SK #YQR #weather #warm #spring #snow #tires #SnowTires #AllSeason #knees #thighs #pain #sore #MiddleAge

We've had some warm temperatures here on the prairies the last couple of days, and it's mostly looking like above-freezing during the day for the foreseeable future [1]. So today I pulled the snow tires off the cars and put the "all-season" [2] ones on.

Please join me tomorrow in celebrating the semi-annual festival of Oh My Gawd Why Are My Knees On Fire And I Didn't Even Know I Had Muscles In That Part Of My Thigh.

[1] To be fair, this is about 5-6 days max. They don't bother to even try forecasting further out than that here.

[2] Really "three-season", if you live anywhere where it gets more than a handful of degrees below freezing.

#Canada #prairies #SK #YQR #weather #warm #spring #snow #tires #SnowTires #AllSeason #knees #thighs #pain #sore #MiddleAge

This is a fascinating analysis on the gradual development of medieval thought focusing on particular on the rise of the ascending theory of governance and how mediaeval thought far from being fossilised and an antiquarian provides the genetic link modern notions of democracy and civic rights.

#books #reading #history #middleage #politicalhistory

This is a fascinating analysis on the gradual development of medieval thought focusing on particular on the rise of the ascending theory of governance and how mediaeval thought far from being fossilised and an antiquarian provides the genetic link modern notions of democracy and civic rights.

#books #reading #history #middleage #politicalhistory

True Middle Age: when you can tell the weather is changing because *different* parts of your body hurt.

#MiddleAge

True Middle Age: when you can tell the weather is changing because *different* parts of your body hurt.

#MiddleAge

Why the fightback against Reform must involve the middle-aged, fed-up workers of Britain | Gaby Hinsliff https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/mar/02/reform-middle-aged-britain-workers-benefits-labour #MiddleAge #WorkCareers #Unemployment #Benefits #Money #Society #ReformUk #Labour #Politics #UkNews

One thing nobody prepares you for in mid-life is just how bland things become.

You’ve heard your favorite song a billion times. Know every word of your favorite movie. You’ve fought every battle a thousand times.

Everything is as it has been and little is novel.

#aging #middleAge #midLife #genX

If I’m being honest, I don’t really care about going to movies unless I can pause it to pee half way through. #middleage

If I’m being honest, I don’t really care about going to movies unless I can pause it to pee half way through. #middleage

Middle age is when you've met so many people that every new person you meet reminds you of someone else.
-- Ogden Nash

⬆ #Wisdom #Quotes #OgdenNash #MiddleAge

⬇ #Photography #Panorama #ChacoCanyon #Panopainting #NewMexico

Middle age is when you've met so many people that every new person you meet reminds you of someone else.
-- Ogden Nash

⬆ #Wisdom #Quotes #OgdenNash #MiddleAge

⬇ #Photography #Panorama #ChacoCanyon #Panopainting #NewMexico