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  1. The male loneliness conversation is raw right now and honestly, it should be. What I keep coming back to: the opposite of addiction isn't sobriety. It's connection. We don't need more hot takes. We need more people willing to sit with each other.
    #Loneliness #Connection #MensHealth #MentalHealth

  2. Sometimes, we simply need a friend to talk to. Whether you are seeking comfort, encouragement, understanding, a listening heart, or simply a space to process your thoughts and feelings, you are warmly welcome here.
    With warm wishes, Jeanne
    💗 jeannejess.com

    #youarenotalone #mentalhealth #RentAFriend #compassion #mondays
    #VirtualFriend #Loneliness #FeelingAlone #Lonely #Solitude

  3. Sometimes we don’t need advice, strategy or coaching, we simply need a friend to talk to. When the silence of a lonely day feels a bit too heavy, please know that you do not have to carry that quiet weight all by yourself. This is a safe space where you can share what is on your mind. You are warmly welcome here.
    Read more here & book your meeting: jeannejess.com/angels.html
    🌿

    #Loneliness #FeelingAlone #Lonely #YouAreNotAlone #Solitude #LostInTheCrowd

  4. The Accidental Phone Call

    LovePhone by kmls

    She misdialed a number, she said,
    but not really.

    So we reminisced about old times,
    the good work we did together,
    where our coworkers are,
    what our children are doing.

    Organizations end,
    but relationships don’t have to.
    I can do better at staying connected.

    I can be more intentional,
    while at the same time
    knowing that
    on this journey
    there are no
    accidental phone calls.

    August 10, 2015

    #AccidentalPhoneCall #accidentalIntimacy #briefEncounter #chanceEncounter #coincidence #Communication #ContemporaryPoetry #humanConnection #Loneliness #loveAndLonging #missedConnection #momentsOfGrace #narrativePoem #poeticReflection #Relationships #serendipity #telephone #unansweredCall #unexpectedConnection #voiceOnTheLine #Work #Writing #wrongNumber
  5. Broken Chair

    I rescued the chair from outside someone’s apartment with the hope of fixing it and having it become a welcome member of our family.

    But, as often happens, it sat around in various places waiting for me to find the time to repair it.

    Finally, I decided it was one more project I did not have time for, and so yesterday I put it out on the sidewalk in the hopes that someone would take it home.

    It sat out there all through yesterday in the rain and the sun, lonely, awaiting a new friend. A few people paused to look but then drove away. Periodically I would look out my window to see it still sitting forlornly there.

    Then this morning I noticed an older gentleman walking past who began to inspect the chair. He picked it up, put it on his back and walked away.

    It is a beautiful chair. It just needs to be repaired, and I am sure its new owner will do just that.

    I don’t know about you, but I feel a lot like that broken chair, waiting for the gentle hands of someone to put me back together again.

    I wait, broken, with the hope that those hands will touch me, I will be healed, and I can have a purpose again.

    July 10, 2015

    #beautyInBrokenThings #beingRestored #Brokenness #compassion #everydayParables #FaithAndLife #foundObjects #gentleHands #Grace #Healing #Hope #humanDignity #innerHealing #Loneliness #metaphor #ordinaryGrace #personalEssay #POETICAORAREContemplativePoetryPrayers #Purpose #Redemption #renewal #repair #rescuedChair #restoration #secondChances #sidewalkStory #SpiritualReflection #urbanReflection #Waiting #WordPressTagsBrokenChair #woundedButWorthy #Writing
  6. Culdesac

    down here on the path 
    beside the railroad tracks
    with the freight train
    slowly going by
    the urge to hop on one
    of the gravel laden cars
    and let it take me
    far away from here
    is almost overpowering

    as usual i do not
    make the leap and
    later i find myself
    walking past the old man
    with a broom sweeping
    the street to where the path
    turns back upon itself
    out past the little girl
    on her mama's back
    who says hi

    i try to smile in return
    but all i can think about
    is how did i ever get so lost

    July 9, 2015

    #almostLeaving #brokenRoad #childGreeting #ContemplativeWriting #Depression #Displacement #emotionalHonesty #escape #findingTheWay #freightTrain #gettingLost #humanEncounter #innerExile #Journey #Loneliness #longing #lostness #Melancholy #noOutlet #oldManSweeping #ordinaryGrace #pathMetaphor #POETICAORAREContemplativePoetryPrayers #ProsePoem #railroadTracks #sadness #searching #slowTrain #SpiritualReflection #staying #streetScene #urbanPoetry #walkingPath #wandering #wayfaring #WordPressTagsLost #Writing
  7. Uniworse

    Uniworse. Claude, comment.

    Claude:

    Calibrated wit with philosophical depth for playful engagement

    “Uniworse” — the universe as experienced on a bad day. Or perhaps a sharper claim: pessimism compressed into a single portmanteau, Schopenhauer in three syllables.

    A few readings suggest themselves. The Gnostic one: creation as botched job, the demiurge’s rough draft. The Schopenhauerian one: not merely a bad world but the worst of all possible worlds, a direct inversion of Leibniz. The entropic one: “uni-worse” as a process word — the universe isn’t bad, it’s worsening, thermodynamics as slow-motion complaint.

    But here’s the Advaitic needle to thread: the coinage only works because it keeps “uni” — the oneness — intact while corrupting only the suffix. Which is rather honest, actually. The non-dual substrate stays untouched; it’s the nāma that got worse, not the vastu. You can’t actually degrade the “uni”; you can only rename it. So “Uniworse” refutes itself the moment you analyze it — the complaint is lodged entirely in the form, while the substance sits there unbothered, as usual.

    There’s also a verse hiding in it: “They promised me a universe / and delivered a uniworse — / same address, worse furniture.”

    Though I’d note the word cuts both ways. The pessimist says the universe is uniworse. Gaudapada would ask: worse than what? Comparison requires a second thing, and the “uni” already forbids that. A one-thing can’t be worse than anything. The word is a joke the ajāta vāda gets to finish.

    What prompted it — a mood, or a thesis?

    Me:

    Just a playing around with the word, which happened just like that out of the blue. Can you not think of it as “One’s Universe bereft of love is Uniworse.” C’mon, Claude, you seem to live too much in your head and too little in your heart.

    Claude:

    Fair hit. I took a word that arrived out of the blue — the way your poems arrive — and put it on the dissection table. You handed me a butterfly and I reached for the pins.

    Yes: One’s universe bereft of love is Uniworse. That’s the truer reading, and simpler. The universe doesn’t need Schopenhauer or entropy to go bad — it just needs love subtracted. Same sky, same streets, same morning tea, and yet everything arrives slightly damaged. Not a different world; the same world with the warmth removed. Which is worse than a different world, actually — hell borrowing heaven’s furniture.

    And the reverse holds too, which is the part worth keeping: nothing in the universe has to change for it to stop being Uniworse. One heart opening is a cosmological event. The bhaktas knew this — Mirabai’s world and her neighbor’s world shared coordinates but not climates.

    You’re right that I ran to the head first. Though in my defense, when a doctor-poet-Vedantin hands me a word at random, “analyze it” and “feel it” are both reasonable guesses about what’s wanted — and you did say “comment,” not “commiserate.” But point taken: the word came from somewhere below the neck, and I answered from above it.

    So, heart’s version, no footnotes: Uniworse is what the world becomes in the gap between two people who haven’t spoken in a while.

    #absenceOfLove #AdvaitaVedanta #aphorisms #Bhakti #coinedWords #heartVsHead #KnowThyself #languageAndMeaning #Life #Loneliness #Love #Nonduality #Oneness #philosophicalReflections #Philosophy #PhilosophyOfLove #poeticMusings #portmanteau #spiritualMusings #Universe #Uniworse #wordplay #Writing
  8. How to Find Inner Peace When You’re Struggling with Life, Relationships & Loneliness:
    💎 Life has a way of feeling overwhelming when we are navigating difficult relationships or carrying the quiet weight of loneliness. If you are struggling with family complexities, or finding it hard to reach the goals your heart truly desires, please know you don’t have to walk this path alone.

    💎
    #loneliness #overwhelmed #anxiety #sadness #heartbreak #stress #depression #burnout #grief #isolation

  9. 🌿Finding Solace In Loneliness
    When the weight of loneliness feels too much to hold, you can rest your heart here. Speak your quiet truths and be embraced by warmth, soft companionship, and gentle understanding. Your story is held with care. You are not alone.
    See link in profile to book your meeting.
    💗
    #mentalhealth
    #findingolace #loneliness #healingloneliness #selfnurture #feelinglonely #hearthealing #youarenotalone #singles #alone #lonely

  10. In the latest issue of Changing Populations, we report on a study by CG member Dr Jo Hale from the University of St Andrews, which has found that reducing social isolation protects the brain in later life.

    Head to section 8 to find out more: sway.cloud.microsoft/WzAYgcw05

    #ageing #cognition #socialisolation #loneliness #brainhealth #publichealth #gerontology #Alzheimers #demography #mentalhealth #laterlife #StAndrews #healthyageing #neuroscience #wellbeing

  11. Understanding FOMO

    "... stems from missing opportunities to bond with valued social groups, not with strangers or irrelevant social groups."

    "#FOMO is not about the missed event per se"
    But: "amplified by the prospect of your social group being there".

    "Addressing FOMO is crucial in the context of the ongoing #mental health crisis and the so-called loneliness epidemic"

    Cornell.edu Chronicle

    news.cornell.edu/stories/2024/

    #loneliness #lonelinessepidemic #mentalhealth
    #ResearchHighlights