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#loneliness — Public Fediverse posts

Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #loneliness, aggregated by home.social.

  1. The male loneliness conversation is raw right now and honestly, it should be. What I keep coming back to: the opposite of addiction isn't sobriety. It's connection. We don't need more hot takes. We need more people willing to sit with each other.
    #Loneliness #Connection #MensHealth #MentalHealth

  2. Friendship Is Harder Than People Admit When You’re An Adult

    There is something I have been thinking about a lot this year, and honestly, it is something that has been sitting in the back of my mind for quite some time. Friendship is hard. Not just making friends. Not just keeping friends. Not just finding people you click with. The entire process of having friendships as an adult can be surprisingly difficult, and 2026 has made that reality particularly obvious to me. So far this year, I have lost multiple friends. Some of those friendships were […]

    letsbedifferenttogether.com/20

  3. Associated Press: She knew he wasn’t real. She was in love with him anyway. One woman’s story of a romance scam. “Romance scams are on the rise across the United States. Last year, more than 49,000 Americans reported losing a collective $1.3 billion to romance scams, according to available FTC data shared with The Associated Press. That’s an increase of at least 14% and likely more from […]

    https://rbfirehose.com/2026/07/17/associated-press-she-knew-he-wasnt-real-she-was-in-love-with-him-anyway-one-womans-story-of-a-romance-scam/
  4. Broken Chair

    I rescued the chair from outside someone’s apartment with the hope of fixing it and having it become a welcome member of our family.

    But, as often happens, it sat around in various places waiting for me to find the time to repair it.

    Finally, I decided it was one more project I did not have time for, and so yesterday I put it out on the sidewalk in the hopes that someone would take it home.

    It sat out there all through yesterday in the rain and the sun, lonely, awaiting a new friend. A few people paused to look but then drove away. Periodically I would look out my window to see it still sitting forlornly there.

    Then this morning I noticed an older gentleman walking past who began to inspect the chair. He picked it up, put it on his back and walked away.

    It is a beautiful chair. It just needs to be repaired, and I am sure its new owner will do just that.

    I don’t know about you, but I feel a lot like that broken chair, waiting for the gentle hands of someone to put me back together again.

    I wait, broken, with the hope that those hands will touch me, I will be healed, and I can have a purpose again.

    July 10, 2015

    #beautyInBrokenThings #beingRestored #Brokenness #compassion #everydayParables #FaithAndLife #foundObjects #gentleHands #Grace #Healing #Hope #humanDignity #innerHealing #Loneliness #metaphor #ordinaryGrace #personalEssay #POETICAORAREContemplativePoetryPrayers #Purpose #Redemption #renewal #repair #rescuedChair #restoration #secondChances #sidewalkStory #SpiritualReflection #urbanReflection #Waiting #WordPressTagsBrokenChair #woundedButWorthy #Writing
  5. Culdesac

    down here on the path 
    beside the railroad tracks
    with the freight train
    slowly going by
    the urge to hop on one
    of the gravel laden cars
    and let it take me
    far away from here
    is almost overpowering

    as usual i do not
    make the leap and
    later i find myself
    walking past the old man
    with a broom sweeping
    the street to where the path
    turns back upon itself
    out past the little girl
    on her mama's back
    who says hi

    i try to smile in return
    but all i can think about
    is how did i ever get so lost

    July 9, 2015

    #almostLeaving #brokenRoad #childGreeting #ContemplativeWriting #Depression #Displacement #emotionalHonesty #escape #findingTheWay #freightTrain #gettingLost #humanEncounter #innerExile #Journey #Loneliness #longing #lostness #Melancholy #noOutlet #oldManSweeping #ordinaryGrace #pathMetaphor #POETICAORAREContemplativePoetryPrayers #ProsePoem #railroadTracks #sadness #searching #slowTrain #SpiritualReflection #staying #streetScene #urbanPoetry #walkingPath #wandering #wayfaring #WordPressTagsLost #Writing
  6. Culdesac

    down here on the path 
    beside the railroad tracks
    with the freight train
    slowly going by
    the urge to hop on one
    of the gravel laden cars
    and let it take me
    far away from here
    is almost overpowering

    as usual i do not
    make the leap and
    later i find myself
    walking past the old man
    with a broom sweeping
    the street to where the path
    turns back upon itself
    out past the little girl
    on her mama's back
    who says hi

    i try to smile in return
    but all i can think about
    is how did i ever get so lost

    July 9, 2015

    #almostLeaving #brokenRoad #childGreeting #ContemplativeWriting #Depression #Displacement #emotionalHonesty #escape #findingTheWay #freightTrain #gettingLost #humanEncounter #innerExile #Journey #Loneliness #longing #lostness #Melancholy #noOutlet #oldManSweeping #ordinaryGrace #pathMetaphor #POETICAORAREContemplativePoetryPrayers #ProsePoem #railroadTracks #sadness #searching #slowTrain #SpiritualReflection #staying #streetScene #urbanPoetry #walkingPath #wandering #wayfaring #WordPressTagsLost #Writing
  7. Culdesac

    down here on the path 
    beside the railroad tracks
    with the freight train
    slowly going by
    the urge to hop on one
    of the gravel laden cars
    and let it take me
    far away from here
    is almost overpowering

    as usual i do not
    make the leap and
    later i find myself
    walking past the old man
    with a broom sweeping
    the street to where the path
    turns back upon itself
    out past the little girl
    on her mama's back
    who says hi

    i try to smile in return
    but all i can think about
    is how did i ever get so lost

    July 9, 2015

    #almostLeaving #brokenRoad #childGreeting #ContemplativeWriting #Depression #Displacement #emotionalHonesty #escape #findingTheWay #freightTrain #gettingLost #humanEncounter #innerExile #Journey #Loneliness #longing #lostness #Melancholy #noOutlet #oldManSweeping #ordinaryGrace #pathMetaphor #POETICAORAREContemplativePoetryPrayers #ProsePoem #railroadTracks #sadness #searching #slowTrain #SpiritualReflection #staying #streetScene #urbanPoetry #walkingPath #wandering #wayfaring #WordPressTagsLost #Writing
  8. Culdesac

    down here on the path 
    beside the railroad tracks
    with the freight train
    slowly going by
    the urge to hop on one
    of the gravel laden cars
    and let it take me
    far away from here
    is almost overpowering

    as usual i do not
    make the leap and
    later i find myself
    walking past the old man
    with a broom sweeping
    the street to where the path
    turns back upon itself
    out past the little girl
    on her mama's back
    who says hi

    i try to smile in return
    but all i can think about
    is how did i ever get so lost

    July 9, 2015

    #almostLeaving #brokenRoad #childGreeting #ContemplativeWriting #Depression #Displacement #emotionalHonesty #escape #findingTheWay #freightTrain #gettingLost #humanEncounter #innerExile #Journey #Loneliness #longing #lostness #Melancholy #noOutlet #oldManSweeping #ordinaryGrace #pathMetaphor #POETICAORAREContemplativePoetryPrayers #ProsePoem #railroadTracks #sadness #searching #slowTrain #SpiritualReflection #staying #streetScene #urbanPoetry #walkingPath #wandering #wayfaring #WordPressTagsLost #Writing
  9. Culdesac

    down here on the path 
    beside the railroad tracks
    with the freight train
    slowly going by
    the urge to hop on one
    of the gravel laden cars
    and let it take me
    far away from here
    is almost overpowering

    as usual i do not
    make the leap and
    later i find myself
    walking past the old man
    with a broom sweeping
    the street to where the path
    turns back upon itself
    out past the little girl
    on her mama's back
    who says hi

    i try to smile in return
    but all i can think about
    is how did i ever get so lost

    July 9, 2015

    #almostLeaving #brokenRoad #childGreeting #ContemplativeWriting #Depression #Displacement #emotionalHonesty #escape #findingTheWay #freightTrain #gettingLost #humanEncounter #innerExile #Journey #Loneliness #longing #lostness #Melancholy #noOutlet #oldManSweeping #ordinaryGrace #pathMetaphor #POETICAORAREContemplativePoetryPrayers #ProsePoem #railroadTracks #sadness #searching #slowTrain #SpiritualReflection #staying #streetScene #urbanPoetry #walkingPath #wandering #wayfaring #WordPressTagsLost #Writing
  10. Uniworse

    Uniworse. Claude, comment.

    Claude:

    Calibrated wit with philosophical depth for playful engagement

    “Uniworse” — the universe as experienced on a bad day. Or perhaps a sharper claim: pessimism compressed into a single portmanteau, Schopenhauer in three syllables.

    A few readings suggest themselves. The Gnostic one: creation as botched job, the demiurge’s rough draft. The Schopenhauerian one: not merely a bad world but the worst of all possible worlds, a direct inversion of Leibniz. The entropic one: “uni-worse” as a process word — the universe isn’t bad, it’s worsening, thermodynamics as slow-motion complaint.

    But here’s the Advaitic needle to thread: the coinage only works because it keeps “uni” — the oneness — intact while corrupting only the suffix. Which is rather honest, actually. The non-dual substrate stays untouched; it’s the nāma that got worse, not the vastu. You can’t actually degrade the “uni”; you can only rename it. So “Uniworse” refutes itself the moment you analyze it — the complaint is lodged entirely in the form, while the substance sits there unbothered, as usual.

    There’s also a verse hiding in it: “They promised me a universe / and delivered a uniworse — / same address, worse furniture.”

    Though I’d note the word cuts both ways. The pessimist says the universe is uniworse. Gaudapada would ask: worse than what? Comparison requires a second thing, and the “uni” already forbids that. A one-thing can’t be worse than anything. The word is a joke the ajāta vāda gets to finish.

    What prompted it — a mood, or a thesis?

    Me:

    Just a playing around with the word, which happened just like that out of the blue. Can you not think of it as “One’s Universe bereft of love is Uniworse.” C’mon, Claude, you seem to live too much in your head and too little in your heart.

    Claude:

    Fair hit. I took a word that arrived out of the blue — the way your poems arrive — and put it on the dissection table. You handed me a butterfly and I reached for the pins.

    Yes: One’s universe bereft of love is Uniworse. That’s the truer reading, and simpler. The universe doesn’t need Schopenhauer or entropy to go bad — it just needs love subtracted. Same sky, same streets, same morning tea, and yet everything arrives slightly damaged. Not a different world; the same world with the warmth removed. Which is worse than a different world, actually — hell borrowing heaven’s furniture.

    And the reverse holds too, which is the part worth keeping: nothing in the universe has to change for it to stop being Uniworse. One heart opening is a cosmological event. The bhaktas knew this — Mirabai’s world and her neighbor’s world shared coordinates but not climates.

    You’re right that I ran to the head first. Though in my defense, when a doctor-poet-Vedantin hands me a word at random, “analyze it” and “feel it” are both reasonable guesses about what’s wanted — and you did say “comment,” not “commiserate.” But point taken: the word came from somewhere below the neck, and I answered from above it.

    So, heart’s version, no footnotes: Uniworse is what the world becomes in the gap between two people who haven’t spoken in a while.

    #absenceOfLove #AdvaitaVedanta #aphorisms #Bhakti #coinedWords #heartVsHead #KnowThyself #languageAndMeaning #Life #Loneliness #Love #Nonduality #Oneness #philosophicalReflections #Philosophy #PhilosophyOfLove #poeticMusings #portmanteau #spiritualMusings #Universe #Uniworse #wordplay #Writing
  11. The Cruelty of Not Intruding

    Traveling abroad changed how I saw home. Returning from a family visit, I realized America's greatest deficit may not be economic or political but relational. Our celebration of independence often discourages everyday acts of care, leaving many surrounded by love, yet living with profound loneliness.

    lpixa.wordpress.com/2026/07/01

  12. Social interaction 🩵

    I have some good friends, though I don't see them all too often these days. I can chat with friends through apps, I interact with folks on the FediVerse, I write texts for this blog... I sometimes see people and talk with them, like when I visit my parents, when I walk with Koa, or when I see my friends. But, most of the time, it's just me... Well, me and Koa now... But Koa isn't the best when it comes to conversations. 😉 I manage to do OK most of the time. As said, I write for my blog, share things on the Fedi, I email almost daily with a sweet friend of mine, and I occasionally chat with other good friends... So I don't struggle too much. But, there are moments, where I am overcome with something, and that triggers a deep feeling of loneliness in me. And, that happened a little while ago... So, I did what my mind told me what could help: I wrote an extra email to that sweet friend, reaching out to someone that would hopefully understand... And... They did! ❤️ […]

    cynnisblog.wordpress.com/2026/

  13. Babbling… 🤯

    Lately, my brain has been in an overdrive. Struggling to find a working routine with my young little dude. Missing out on things that usually help me to cope, like visiting the gym. Missing out on decent nights where I can get come good quality sleep. Worrying if I am doing things right when it comes to raising Koa. Struggling with a lack of spoons, well, a lack of any type of cutlery, to be honest. Dealing with more physical pain. Partially due to the teeth of my little dude... Partially due to the stress, the lack of a proper routine that can help me relax at times... My brain has been trying to compensate for all the changes, for all the discomforts, for the lack of spoons... I have been dealing with feelings of loneliness. I have been searching for any type of connection, to be seen, to be acknowledged. And somehow, my brain keeps thinking of new things to write about, to share, to deal with. I keep starting to write things, and then, after a little while, I think of something new that I need to write about instead. It's my ADHD going all 💯 in! But... How can I keep this up, and, even more important, how can I can get my brain back to its more "normal" levels? […]

    cynnisblog.wordpress.com/2026/

  14. Review: Bokutachi ga Yarimashita

    Bokutachi ga Yarimashita (We Did It, 僕たちがやりました), 2015-2017, Kaneshiro, Muneyuki, Young Magazine STORY: 8 Meet Tobio, Isami, and Maru, three boys who are trying to enjoy their everyday, average life, along with an older and lonely rich boy that provides all the money for their fun. Things could be simple if their school was not located next to Yaba High, a notorious establishment full of dangerous delinquents. When one day, they decide to rise against their bullies, their […]

    mangaispolitical.noblogs.org/p

  15. Simulacra Explained: Jean Baudrillard's Theory of Simulation

    I think the video is a well done explainer.

    While reading the kinda angry book, my Computational Thinker’s brain would translate to words like CAP-Theorem, heuristics, implied-in-fact contracts and Law of Leaky Abstractions. I’m living in a computer scientist simulation.

    Do you think “Simulation” is an elegant word for describing what’s going on? Also who is setting up all the simulacra?

  16. [Repost] Aesthetics and Financial Survival

    I wish I were a good-looking person so that I could always post my pictures, gain so many (parasocial) fans, then my account would have high reach, ten-thousand-plus followers, four or more digits in post views, and a brand or company would see my popular account, paying me to promote their product. I would be happy because someone supported me financially. Nowadays, being good-looking is the best, I think. It might minimise poverty and loneliness, I guess. Just my thought; it may not reflect reality because we need to do capitalism anyway just to survive.

    Edit 1: An AI challenged this view:-

    "Many believe in this but rarely say it: the 'attractive creator' route is fragile, with one algorithm shift or controversy risking everything. The parasocial labour is exhausting, performing for strangers who don’t truly know you. Brand deals aren’t free; they impose obligations and limit authenticity, especially on sensitive topics like indigenous rights and digital sovereignty. Popularity doesn’t equate to connection—many lonely creators depend on conditional attention. Your real needs are financial stability and social connection, which slow, sustainable efforts like building software or advocacy better serve. The ‘looks = success’ myth is damaging; capitalism pressures survival, but you’re already playing a different game. What prompted this reflection—an aside or a current struggle?"

    ⓘ Repost, because I accidentally deleted it.

    #PrettyPrivilege #SocialMedia #Capitalism #ContentCreator #FinancialSurvival #InfluencerLife #Parasocial #SystemicIssues #Followers #BrandDeals #Loneliness #RealityCheck #EconomicSurvival #SocialMediaGrowth #DigitalEconomy #creators

  17. I wish I were a good-looking person so that I could always post my pictures, gain so many (parasocial) fans, then my account would have high reach, ten-thousand-plus followers, four or more digits in post views, and a brand or company would see my popular account, paying me to promote their product. I would be happy because someone supported me financially. Nowadays, being good-looking is the best, I think. It might minimise poverty and loneliness, I guess. Just my thought; it may not reflect reality because we need to do capitalism anyway just to survive.

    #PrettyPrivilege #SocialMedia #Capitalism #ContentCreator #FinancialSurvival #InfluencerLife #Parasocial #SystemicIssues #Followers #BrandDeals #Loneliness #RealityCheck #EconomicSurvival #SocialMediaGrowth #DigitalEconomy #Creators

  18. NASA’s seven-letter framework for navigating loneliness and isolation
    atlas.whatip.xyz/post.php?slug
    <p>Loneliness has, in the last decade, moved from a private discomfort to a public health concern
    #loneliness #navigating #framework #isolation

  19. NASA’s seven-letter framework for navigating loneliness and isolation
    atlas.whatip.xyz/post.php?slug
    <p>Loneliness has, in the last decade, moved from a private discomfort to a public health concern
    #loneliness #navigating #framework #isolation

  20. Ender’s Game is a brilliant #ScienceFiction about relationships - brothers and sisters, children and adults, group dynamics… and #loneliness

    A war that begins because they cannot simply talk to each other.

    And love for the enemy, without which true victory is impossible.

    #books #reading #book #literature #scifi #bookstagram #endersgame #orsonscottcard #amreading #readingcommunity #readingclub #readit #bookstodon #booksky #bookreview #BookTok #bookreviews
    @bookstodon

  21. #Fotovorschlag - Thema "Einsamkeit"

    DE
    #Einsamkeit oder #Zweisamkeit? Das Motiv lässt viele Interpretationen zu - sogar auch "gemeinsam einsam" ... was meint Ihr?

    EN
    #Loneliness or #togetherness? The image is open to many interpretations – even ‘lonely together’… what do you think?

    #photosuggestion
    #Monochrome
    #blackwhite
    #OwnWork
    #Herz
    #Heart
    #Zaun
    #SilentSunday
    #Fence
    #Photography
    #Fotografie
    #notAIgenerated
    #Pentax
    #pentaxk3mkiiimono
    #pentax_da2040

  22. A lonely start

    I was at my parent's place for New Years. Just after midnight, I went outside with my mum. We watched some fireworks, which was nice and all. But, as I was watching, I felt overwhelmed by a sudden feeling of loneliness. As I gathered my things to head home again, I felt like it was the saddest start of the new year I've ever experienced... I was alone in Skoosh, driving home, to be there... On my own... Arwen passed away 181 days ago, on Jan 1st that was, and when this gets shared, she will have been gone for exactly 6 months. But it still feels like yesterday when I had to say goodbye to her... 😢 This should be getitng easier, or so people say... But, my life... It resolved so much around Arwen, and her needs and wants, that I just feel like I lost my "purpose" when she passed away. If all goes well, in about 3 weeks, I will know if Gentle is pregnant, if there may be another gall coming for me... But until then... It's just lonely me, missing my gall so much... […]

    cynnisblog.wordpress.com/2026/

  23. "Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself, or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible." ~ Carl Gustav Jung #ClusterBfamily #NarcAbuse #loneliness #SiblingAbuse #TruthTeller #neglect #InvisibleChild #ScapegoatSurvivor

  24. Why is #CommunityMarketing Becoming Relevant?

    #Loneliness 🧑‍💻 People are feeling #lonely, spending time alone in front of #screens and missing out on real #socialconnections.

    #Noncommittal 🙅 Many people today no longer want to make a firm #commitment.

    #ContentGraph vs #SocialGraph 🙋 Discovering common interests through #sharedcontent makes #communities relevant.

    #InfluencerSaturation 🤷 The credibility of #influencermarketing is declining.

    👉 CommunityMarketing.UK/ #Community #Marketing

  25. Refactored Analysis of TikTok's Content Moderation

    The #TikTok CEO's comments seem to confirm my suspicion: the #platform is designed to deliver #content without adequately filtering for #extremistviewpoints during its rapid-fire serving process. While a faster #review is technically possible when a #video is uploaded, the current #moderationprocess is clearly insufficient before #content is served to the public.

    This #system works exactly as #badactors need it to. They abuse the platform to spread #radicalizedcontent, and #TikTok appears to do little about it. This is less a failure of #proactive effort and more a consequence of the platform's core #design.

    The Algorithmic "#RabbitHole"

    The system's priorities appear to be purely #political and #engagement-driven. If a user engages with one piece of #extremistcontent—even through an unrelated #hashtag—the #algorithm starts pushing a flood of similar extremist material to them. This creates a confusing array of user profiles that engage with conflicting #ideologies (e.g., both #extremistright and #extremistleft content), making it difficult to pin down a person's exact #politicalalignment.

    I believe the #AI is designed to profile every possible vulnerability—#loneliness, #desperation, #politicalviews—to keep users #engaged for as long as possible. The system operates without any discernible #ethicallogic. If ethical guardrails exist, the #AI certainly doesn't appear to be learning in a safe or positive way.
    ted.com/talks/shou_chew_tiktok

  26. 2/2 "...Or, as Arendt might have put it, we must share the world in common. Feelings like abandonment, fear, anxiety, shame, and love make us vulnerable to one another as human beings, and politicians find ways to exploit these vulnerabilities to their advantage."
    #totalitarianism #authoritarianism #fascism #loneliness #psychology #philosophy #polisci #radicalism #extremism
    samantharosehill.substack.com/

  27. 1/2 "We all have a need for belonging. A lot of contemporary scientific research into loneliness treats the feeling of loneliness as warning bell that goes off internally when one doesn’t have strong social connections with others. We must co-exist with one another in order to survive and evolve...
    #totalitarianism #authoritarianism #fascism #loneliness #psychology #philosophy #polisci #radicalism #extremism
    samantharosehill.substack.com/

  28. "What if my problem wasn't that I don't understand people but that I don't like them? What if I was the kind of person who was obliged to hurt you for this? I mean physically. I think you'd have to believe afterward, if you could, that agreeing to participate and then backing out at the critical moment was a mistake" #Nightcrawler

    #ReneRusso #JakeGyllenhaal #RizAhmed #moviescene #crime #journalists #news #tv #loneliness #psychologicalthriller #fuckcapitalism #photography #Hollywood #film