#demiromantic — Public Fediverse posts

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#Panromantic #Pansexual #Bisexual #Lesbian #Gay #Bear #Polyamorous #Asexual #AroAce #Demisexual #Leather #Pony #Polysexual #Omnisexual #Aromantic #Demiromantic #Greyromantic #Greysexual #LGBTQ

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#Panromantic #Pansexual #Bisexual #Lesbian #Gay #Bear #Polyamorous #Asexual #AroAce #Demisexual #Leather #Pony #Polysexual #Omnisexual #Aromantic #Demiromantic #Greyromantic #Greysexual #LGBTQ

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#Panromantic #Pansexual #Bisexual #Lesbian #Gay #Bear #Polyamorous #Asexual #AroAce #Demisexual #Leather #Pony #Polysexual #Omnisexual #Aromantic #Demiromantic #Greyromantic #Greysexual #LGBTQ

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#Panromantic #Pansexual #Bisexual #Lesbian #Gay #Bear #Polyamorous #Asexual #AroAce #Demisexual #Leather #Pony #Polysexual #Omnisexual #Aromantic #Demiromantic #Greyromantic #Greysexual #LGBTQ

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#Panromantic #Pansexual #Bisexual #Lesbian #Gay #Bear #Polyamorous #Asexual #AroAce #Demisexual #Leather #Pony #Polysexual #Omnisexual #Aromantic #Demiromantic #Greyromantic #Greysexual #LGBTQ

Made some GIF about my beautiful wife 💖🫶⚙️✨ #splatoon #pearl #GIF #demi-girl #demisexual #demiromantic #lesbian

Hashtags that introduce me and my interests 💖

Me: #Cis #Demisexual #demiromantic #adhd #comicartist #cartoonist #digitalartist #zombiegamer #huskyowner #disabled #YAwriter

Interests: #zombies #gaming #huskies #maggiestiefvater #yaoi #boyslove #roleplay #kink #bdsm #YAbooks #2000sMovies #ravenboys

Hashtags that introduce me and my interests 💖

Me: #Cis #Demisexual #demiromantic #adhd #comicartist #cartoonist #digitalartist #zombiegamer #huskyowner #disabled #YAwriter

Interests: #zombies #gaming #huskies #maggiestiefvater #yaoi #boyslove #roleplay #kink #bdsm #YAbooks #2000sMovies #ravenboys

Hashtags that introduce me and my interests 💖

Me: #Cis #Demisexual #demiromantic #adhd #comicartist #cartoonist #digitalartist #zombiegamer #huskyowner #disabled #YAwriter

Interests: #zombies #gaming #huskies #maggiestiefvater #yaoi #boyslove #roleplay #kink #bdsm #YAbooks #2000sMovies #ravenboys

Hashtags that introduce me and my interests 💖

Me: #Cis #Demisexual #demiromantic #adhd #comicartist #cartoonist #digitalartist #zombiegamer #huskyowner #disabled #YAwriter

Interests: #zombies #gaming #huskies #maggiestiefvater #yaoi #boyslove #roleplay #kink #bdsm #YAbooks #2000sMovies #ravenboys

Hashtags that introduce me and my interests 💖

Me: #Cis #Demisexual #demiromantic #adhd #comicartist #cartoonist #digitalartist #zombiegamer #huskyowner #disabled #YAwriter

Interests: #zombies #gaming #huskies #maggiestiefvater #yaoi #boyslove #roleplay #kink #bdsm #YAbooks #2000sMovies #ravenboys

I just enjoy the arospec label way more because there's no expectation to give, but if it was a specific label it would be between demi and gray on the arospec, so yeah I enjoy arospec more.

I just enjoy the arospec label way more because there's no expectation to give, but if it was a specific label it would be between demi and gray on the arospec, so yeah I enjoy arospec more.

I have aversion with being kissed on the mouth (tongue), but I enjoy headpats and hugs, however it's a very rare thing for me to ever be interested in doing that with someone… It's like I need a deeper connec— (demiromantic)

I have aversion with being kissed on the mouth (tongue), but I enjoy headpats and hugs, however it's a very rare thing for me to ever be interested in doing that with someone… It's like I need a deeper connec— (demiromantic)

testing tag colors

testing tag colors

testing tag colors

testing tag colors

Also bin ich 50 #AMAB #Agender #Pansexual und #Demiromantic und zudem ein wunderbares #Einhorn

Also bin ich 50 #AMAB #Agender #Pansexual und #Demiromantic und zudem ein wunderbares #Einhorn

Also bin ich 50 #AMAB #Agender #Pansexual und #Demiromantic und zudem ein wunderbares #Einhorn

Also bin ich 50 #AMAB #Agender #Pansexual und #Demiromantic und zudem ein wunderbares #Einhorn

Also bin ich 50 #AMAB #Agender #Pansexual und #Demiromantic und zudem ein wunderbares #Einhorn

Happy pride month! I slowed down on this one and kept at it even when I thought it looked bad, and I ended up loving how this turned out! I added a ring since I got an ace ring recently :3
#fursona #furryart #asexual #demiromantic #polyamorous #prideart #commsopen

Happy pride month! I slowed down on this one and kept at it even when I thought it looked bad, and I ended up loving how this turned out! I added a ring since I got an ace ring recently :3
#fursona #furryart #asexual #demiromantic #polyamorous #prideart #commsopen

Happy pride month! I slowed down on this one and kept at it even when I thought it looked bad, and I ended up loving how this turned out! I added a ring since I got an ace ring recently :3
#fursona #furryart #asexual #demiromantic #polyamorous #prideart #commsopen

Happy International Asexuality Day!
🖤🩶🤍💜💚

#InternationalAsexualityDay #Ace #Demisexual #Demiromantic #Aromantic #Asexual

Arospecs of the Fediverse, what are you doing this Valentine's Day?

#aro #aromantic #greyromantic #demiromantic #arospec

Arospecs of the Fediverse, what are you doing this Valentine's Day?

#aro #aromantic #greyromantic #demiromantic #arospec

Arospecs of the Fediverse, what are you doing this Valentine's Day?

#aro #aromantic #greyromantic #demiromantic #arospec

Arospecs of the Fediverse, what are you doing this Valentine's Day?

#aro #aromantic #greyromantic #demiromantic #arospec

Arospecs of the Fediverse, what are you doing this Valentine's Day?

#aro #aromantic #greyromantic #demiromantic #arospec

So I Think I May Be More Aroace Than Originally Estimated??

I’ve been doing some Thinking about how my brain works, and it would seem that my particular DICK HEAD COMBINATION OF AUDHD gives me the worst traits of both autism AND ADHD. Like, if given enough stimulants and time, I can hyperfocus forever on something I’m fascinated with to the point where I learn an ungodly amount of information about it and retain nearly all of it. Not just that, but I make creations with that knowledge, too. This fucking blog, for example. It’s linked in with the Fediverse via ActivityPub and Alex Kirk’s masterful Friends plugins, etc.. My numerous special interests have been combining, reshuffling and making unholy bastard children in my mental Back 40 on this tiny hell site since May because of the way my cracked brainhole works.

Conversely, in order to socialize, I have to focus on whatever social thing is going on around me completely and let myself dissolve into it. Switching between whatever the fuck project has taken hold of my mind and going into a social activity of any form is a multistep process that requires me ACTUALLY MANUALLY SHIFTING MY BRAIN AWAY from the project rabbit hole and into the social one. And there is a grouchy hell to pay if I’m interrupted mid project.

However, I thought about it a step further. I have pretty much always been able to discern the difference between the feelings I get when the various happy chemicals, dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin, are triggered in my brain, body, etc., and upon further contemplation, I began to wonder if that’s why my particular bastard flavor of AuDHD is such a bastard to begin with. Because what I noticed from years of combing back through my system’s memories both pre and most massive integration is that my happy chemicals seem to be fucking heavily partitioned, and perhaps that’s why I can discern the difference between the feelings they give me in the first place. Hence that’s probably why I have to manually shift between projects (dopamine) and socializing (oxytocin).

Serotonin is a whole other can of worms for me and I have to manually induce that bitch, too. It often takes days and that’s a whole OTHER post. I might write about that bastard chemical later, lol. She is a cruel mistress 🤣

Last night, a long time aroace friend dropped me into a Facebook group called [aroace confusion intensifies]. I’ve identified as demi-aromantic/demi-asexual for some time, but as I kept relating to more and more posts, I thought more and more about the happy chemical partition theory I have going and all of my relationships, both current and past, and how my batshit brain might play into ALLLL of that.

Now, I do experience attraction to SOME people. But with the whole “having to shift my brain manually into a state where it won’t scream when I need to socialize” thing, the frequency in which I fall into random projects, and the fact that I experience a near complete lack of linear time and object permanence, said attraction takes a VERY LONG TIME to form, if it ever forms at all. Deep, genuine, romantic attachment to a person takes EVEN FUCKING LONGER. Because what the ENTIRE fuck is a “romance” as society has established it, anyway? So it takes my crippled ass YEARS sometimes to get a damned clue. And I think my cracked brainhole is why, lmao. Polyamory has been a lifesaver in that regard because in order to have a healthy polyamorous relationship, the people involved HAVE TO ENGAGE IN A HEFTY AMOUNT OF NEGOTIATION FROM THE OUTSET about expectations and things about the relationship, which my clueless ass can DEFINITELY get behind. 🤣

So unfortunately, when person number ten billion comes up to me is like “LAZARUS. I LOVE YOUR WORK. I AM IN LOVE WITH YOU. PLEASEEEEEE DATE ME, ETC”, more often than not, I have just emerged from my mental Laz Cave, haven’t seen or interacted with a soul in fourteen hours or more, and haven’t shifted into Oxytocin Mode yet, which is necessary for human bonding, so I’m like,

“uh. What year is it again?”

Stay tuned for more (brainhole) magic, gremlins.

-Lazarus

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#actuallyADHD #actuallyAuDHD #ActuallyAutistic #aroace #aromantic #asexuality #attachment #AuDHD #brainThings #brainhole #demiAce #demiAro #demiAsexual #demiRomantic #introspection #lackOfObjectPermanence #neurodivergence #nonlinearTime #polyamory #specialInterests #strokeSurvivor #timeBlindness #whereTheFuckIsMyInternalScreamingTag

Label experimenting period unlocked: something on the aromantic spectrum. Not quite there, not quite allo

#aromantic #greyromantic #demiromantic

Label experimenting period unlocked: something on the aromantic spectrum. Not quite there, not quite allo

#aromantic #greyromantic #demiromantic

Label experimenting period unlocked: something on the aromantic spectrum. Not quite there, not quite allo

#aromantic #greyromantic #demiromantic

Label experimenting period unlocked: something on the aromantic spectrum. Not quite there, not quite allo

#aromantic #greyromantic #demiromantic

Label experimenting period unlocked: something on the aromantic spectrum. Not quite there, not quite allo

#aromantic #greyromantic #demiromantic

Critiques welcomed and wanted! For the anatomy especially! Feel free to redline
#furry #furryart #fursona #pride #asexual #polyamorous #demiromantic

Critiques welcomed and wanted! For the anatomy especially! Feel free to redline
#furry #furryart #fursona #pride #asexual #polyamorous #demiromantic

Critiques welcomed and wanted! For the anatomy especially! Feel free to redline
#furry #furryart #fursona #pride #asexual #polyamorous #demiromantic

Critiques welcomed and wanted! For the anatomy especially! Feel free to redline
#furry #furryart #fursona #pride #asexual #polyamorous #demiromantic

It's time to make my #introduction

I'm Pallas. I'm #Aplatonic #aromantic (#demiromantic) and #genderqueer. I consider myself #Omnigender, because I have at least one gender of any quality, but I don't necessarily experience every gender.

I'm technically #asexual and #asensual, but as I experience other types of #PhysicalAttraction strongly, I just say I'm a #grayce #MspecGay

I love retro/vintage things, including but not limited to:#CLassicTV, #OldHollywood #OldSchoolVisualKei, #ClassicalMusic (Mostly from the Galant/classical and romantic periods), #ClassicLiterature, #VintageFashion and more; and I'm particularly interested in the intersection between queerness and those things, like queer artists of the pass and queer rep on old media.

As you can see for my profile picture, my favourite composer is Beethoven

I'm #neurodivergent (#Autistic and #epileptic) and, beside vintage/retro stuff, my special Interest are #Space related things and #linguistics.

I'm #disabled and require the use of #AltText as my vision often doesn't work properly due to nerve-related issues.

I'm not new to either the #fediverse, I've been in and out of it since 2018 (Not because I didn't like it, I just pass from times where I don't use #SocialMedia), nor fully to #Calckey or #Misskey, I've tried them in the past without good results; the places I was in either died or I didn't felt at home in. So here I'm trying to give this side of the fediverse another try!

It's time to make my #introduction

I'm Pallas. I'm #Aplatonic #aromantic (#demiromantic) and #genderqueer. I consider myself #Omnigender, because I have at least one gender of any quality, but I don't necessarily experience every gender.

I'm technically #asexual and #asensual, but as I experience other types of #PhysicalAttraction strongly, I just say I'm a #grayce #MspecGay

I love retro/vintage things, including but not limited to:#CLassicTV, #OldHollywood #OldSchoolVisualKei, #ClassicalMusic (Mostly from the Galant/classical and romantic periods), #ClassicLiterature, #VintageFashion and more; and I'm particularly interested in the intersection between queerness and those things, like queer artists of the pass and queer rep on old media.

As you can see for my profile picture, my favourite composer is Beethoven

I'm #neurodivergent (#Autistic and #epileptic) and, beside vintage/retro stuff, my special Interest are #Space related things and #linguistics.

I'm #disabled and require the use of #AltText as my vision often doesn't work properly due to nerve-related issues.

I'm not new to either the #fediverse, I've been in and out of it since 2018 (Not because I didn't like it, I just pass from times where I don't use #SocialMedia), nor fully to #Calckey or #Misskey, I've tried them in the past without good results; the places I was in either died or I didn't felt at home in. So here I'm trying to give this side of the fediverse another try!

It's time to make my #introduction

I'm Pallas. I'm #Aplatonic #aromantic (#demiromantic) and #genderqueer. I consider myself #Omnigender, because I have at least one gender of any quality, but I don't necessarily experience every gender.

I'm technically #asexual and #asensual, but as I experience other types of #PhysicalAttraction strongly, I just say I'm a #grayce #MspecGay

I love retro/vintage things, including but not limited to:#CLassicTV, #OldHollywood #OldSchoolVisualKei, #ClassicalMusic (Mostly from the Galant/classical and romantic periods), #ClassicLiterature, #VintageFashion and more; and I'm particularly interested in the intersection between queerness and those things, like queer artists of the pass and queer rep on old media.

As you can see for my profile picture, my favourite composer is Beethoven

I'm #neurodivergent (#Autistic and #epileptic) and, beside vintage/retro stuff, my special Interest are #Space related things and #linguistics.

I'm #disabled and require the use of #AltText as my vision often doesn't work properly due to nerve-related issues.

I'm not new to either the #fediverse, I've been in and out of it since 2018 (Not because I didn't like it, I just pass from times where I don't use #SocialMedia), nor fully to #Calckey or #Misskey, I've tried them in the past without good results; the places I was in either died or I didn't felt at home in. So here I'm trying to give this side of the fediverse another try!

It's time to make my #introduction

I'm Pallas. I'm #Aplatonic #aromantic (#demiromantic) and #genderqueer. I consider myself #Omnigender, because I have at least one gender of any quality, but I don't necessarily experience every gender.

I'm technically #asexual and #asensual, but as I experience other types of #PhysicalAttraction strongly, I just say I'm a #grayce #MspecGay

I love retro/vintage things, including but not limited to:#CLassicTV, #OldHollywood #OldSchoolVisualKei, #ClassicalMusic (Mostly from the Galant/classical and romantic periods), #ClassicLiterature, #VintageFashion and more; and I'm particularly interested in the intersection between queerness and those things, like queer artists of the pass and queer rep on old media.

As you can see for my profile picture, my favourite composer is Beethoven

I'm #neurodivergent (#Autistic and #epileptic) and, beside vintage/retro stuff, my special Interest are #Space related things and #linguistics.

I'm #disabled and require the use of #AltText as my vision often doesn't work properly due to nerve-related issues.

I'm not new to either the #fediverse, I've been in and out of it since 2018 (Not because I didn't like it, I just pass from times where I don't use #SocialMedia), nor fully to #Calckey or #Misskey, I've tried them in the past without good results; the places I was in either died or I didn't felt at home in. So here I'm trying to give this side of the fediverse another try!

It's time to make my #introduction

I'm Pallas. I'm #Aplatonic #aromantic (#demiromantic) and #genderqueer. I consider myself #Omnigender, because I have at least one gender of any quality, but I don't necessarily experience every gender.

I'm technically #asexual and #asensual, but as I experience other types of #PhysicalAttraction strongly, I just say I'm a #grayce #MspecGay

I love retro/vintage things, including but not limited to:#CLassicTV, #OldHollywood #OldSchoolVisualKei, #ClassicalMusic (Mostly from the Galant/classical and romantic periods), #ClassicLiterature, #VintageFashion and more; and I'm particularly interested in the intersection between queerness and those things, like queer artists of the pass and queer rep on old media.

As you can see for my profile picture, my favourite composer is Beethoven

I'm #neurodivergent (#Autistic and #epileptic) and, beside vintage/retro stuff, my special Interest are #Space related things and #linguistics.

I'm #disabled and require the use of #AltText as my vision often doesn't work properly due to nerve-related issues.

I'm not new to either the #fediverse, I've been in and out of it since 2018 (Not because I didn't like it, I just pass from times where I don't use #SocialMedia), nor fully to #Calckey or #Misskey, I've tried them in the past without good results; the places I was in either died or I didn't felt at home in. So here I'm trying to give this side of the fediverse another try!