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  1. [P] I'm looking at Hasbro-fare as mire the neurotypical-hiverarchian mecca of tabletop. Still deeply sexist, still kinda racist, very corporate, not very imaginative... But tribal? Oh boy, you bet. When worlds like Savage Rifts, Pathfinder 2E, and others are out there waiting for creatively unhinged stories with compassionate, clever heroes? "I hit orc with warmace!" doesn't have much appeal at all.

    #lsychology #actuallyautistic #dnd #pathfinder #savagerifts #roleplaying #ttrpg

  2. As you're recovering from burnout, if you're doing it in a way that's trying to deconstruct the reasons that you got into burnout in the first place, and form new patterns for the future, you might find that you'll still sometimes recognize that you've kind of reached your limit, that you're tired, you need to rest, but you're gonna push on anyway. 1/2

    #AutisticBurnout #BurnoutRecovery #Burnout #ActuallyAutistic

  3. Diary of an AuDHD Squirrel. Day 1050 , Saturday 12/09/2026

    A fairly normal Saturday it has to be said.

    Final Thoughts.

    Nope nothing - my brain is emptier than a Dallas RNC convention!

    Thank you to all those who are helping me on this journey, in a myriad different ways. I am thankful to each & every one of you! 🫂 🫶🐿️🖖

    @autistics
    #TimsASDjourney #ActuallyAutistic #Neurospicy #TheMammutMoves

  4. ESSAYS WANTED! Epona Muse Publishing seeks #OwnVoices essays from #ActuallyAutistic and #Neurodivergent people about how animals enrich their lives. Nonfiction. Royalty paying.

    More details: publishing.eponaauthorsolution

    #AuDHD #Pets

  5. RE: mastodon.social/@filmfreak75/1

    @autistics #ActuallyAutistic the hardest thing i am running into right now is finding a pic for a pride bowling league that is fair use

    maybe i need to convince my co-worker (who has serious artists chops) to help out going forward

  6. @autistics #ActuallyAutistic it’s newsletter day again...

    ...after one of the most tense board meetings i’ve experienced in ages…

    …and the quality of the content let for me to edit shows a new level of passive aggressiveness i didn’t think a particular individual was capable of…

    #ICantStopYet

  7. [P] I'm going to finish up this with a treat as a starting point for younger gamers

    randomeower.com/random-game-ge

    I love that thing. Just put in '06 as the end year, and give it a spin! If you get a PC game, don't forget to drop by PC Gaming Wiki.

    #psychology #actuallyautistic #videogames #gamedev #gamedesign #writing

    -9

  8. [P] The choice for a modern kid is obvious. "A three-course meal for free? Or access to the slop lever for $80?" And why '06 as a cut-off? Thaf was the birthplace of ensloppificatoon. Devs play by the same rulebook today with only slight alterations. DLC, Mtx, preorder content, brolen console games that need patches from now-dead servers. Ensloppification began in '06 and only got worse. So, yes, easy choice.

    #psychology #actuallyautistic #videogames #gamedev #gamedesign #writing

    -8

  9. [P] And being so few? They're *very* hard to find amidst the slop-factory of modern gamedev. Sfeam is a better bet than most, but even there it's a hunt. A hunt that takes time and energy. Or, one could go year-by-year on MobyGames, from the late '70s of UK home computers to the death knell of the sixth gen in '06. That's a lifetime's worth of games, and it's what modern devs are competing with, and failing.

    #psychology #actuallyautistic #videogames #gamedev #gamedesign #writing

    -7

  10. [P] So when younger people learn about these older games? It's an introduction to a vast, diverse menu of three-course meals. If they use emulation and/or opt for abandinware, these meals are free! If they opt for PC gems from GOG, they can get a bucket of classics for a pittance. It isn't that there aren't any great games anymore. I've named some, prior. Omno, Little Gator Game, Neurodiver, but they're too few.

    #psychology #actuallyautistic #videogames #gamedev #gamedesign #writing

    -6

  11. [P] And most devs prefer this, they provide access to the slop lever. Just look at how many soulless tidy-up games exist. I keep coming back to Edens Last Sunrise because it's a masterclass, it's a great complete experience, an intentionally finite, delicious, and nutritious three course meal. A tiny dev team did the best with what they had, and built a slop-free experience. But that kind of game is vanishingly rare.

    #psychology #actuallyautistic #videogames #gamedev #gamedesign #writing

    -5

  12. [P] But BGIII was the closest thing to a completr experience in years, it was heralded. It had af least half of a meal from that three-course meal there, so they gobbled it down hungrily, even if the rest was utter slop. The issie with modern games is that devs—even indies—have locked themselves into incomplete experiences. And most now even believe that it's what they want to create. Fill the gap with slop.

    #psychology #actuallyautistic #videogames #gamedev #gamedesign #writing

    -4

  13. [P] We need variety and complete experiences, this is especially true for neurodivergents. I remember seeing the reaction to BGIII and thinking "oh, you poor bastards." Only Act I was even half complete, and thanks to a last minute rewrite, the characters were one-dimensional yes-men and the narrative was a spaghetti-junction joke, with hundreds of threads that went nowhere. The second and third acts wrre ephemeral.

    #psychology #actuallyautistic #videogames #gamedev #gamedesign #writing

    -3

  14. [P] If one puts an impoverished younger person in front of a three course meal, delicious, nutritious, and quite intentionally finite, then offer them an empty bowl and access to a lever for an infinite slop machine that pumps out infinite-yet-flavourless mulch, barely palatable gruel? Even the most impoverished teen would take the three-course meal. We all know, instinctively, that we can't live on slop.

    #psychology #actuallyautistic #videogames #gamedev #gamedesign #writing

    -2

  15. [P] I've seen critics loosely ruminate on why Gen Alpha is obsessed with retro games from '06 and earlier. This one's been on my mind too, I think I have the answer. Astoundingly rare indie games aside (looking at you, Eden's Last Sunrise), how many games provide a complete experience? Almost none. Even most indies don't. This is the age of slop. I have a food analogy for this! Let's talk about actual slop.

    #psychology #actuallyautistic #videogames #gamedev #gamedesign #writing

    -1

  16. @autistics #ActuallyAutistic i was pretty traumatized after the board meeting and was in a funk until just before bed…

    …what reset me was doing a scavenge of new @RandomMovieTVQuotes…

    …in a single 21 minute episode of a sitcom i was able to extract 9 new quotes...

    …and also discovered i have to update 30 prior quotes since i wrote down the wrong last name for a bunch of characters

  17. Genuine recovery for autistic burnout requires two things happening at once: 1) unlearning the old messaging and 2) building new ways of operating designed for an 𝙖𝙪𝙩𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙘 nervous system, instead of borrowed from a world that wasn’t built for you.

    #AutisticBurnout #BurnoutRecovery #Burnout #ActuallyAutistic

  18. [P] Hiverarchian shallowness drives me up the wall and around the bend, sometimes.

    "Dawrrr... it am bee-steal-itty if da centawr duz da row-manz wit' da 'oomun wummun."
    "So, it isn't if a centaur has sex with a horse?"
    "S'raight!"

    The lack of understood, informed consent between conscious minds is the basis of bestiality, you diopey simian!

    I'm beginning to wonder if romance with hiverarchians constitutes bestiality...

    #psychology #actuallyautistic #writing #hiverarchiansaredumb #dumb #dumb

  19. Just throwing this out there for the folks who rightly want nothing to do with the new #HarryPotter that’s coming in December or really anything that #JKRowling has touched. “Dead End: Paranormal Park” on Netflix is a fantastic show, has multiple #trans main characters, multiple non-straight main characters, an #ActuallyAutistic main character who is actually portrayed well and not just as the target of every Autistic trope you can throw at them. They have a brilliantly done episode that shows the kind of harm that dead naming inflicts. It’s just really well written and well executed. The only thing that I dislike is that it got canceled before they got to finish the story. Anyway, go watch it, it’s pretty great.