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  1. Are there any non-binary folks out there who went through testosterone puberty and are doing low-dose fHRT?

    I'm considering adjusting my current regimen (oral estradiol and spiro), but I'm curious where other folks in my situation may have landed. Insights on introducing progesterone into an endocrine system with a lot of T still floating around are especially welcome.

    Boosts/tag-ins are definitely appreciated if appropriate, and direct replies are totally fine if you're not comfortable sharing this stuff publicly.

    #nonbinary #amab #hrt

  2. Pour les personnes trans, non-binaire, genderfluid, agenre,...AMAB
    La boutique effeuillantine va fermer ses portes à la fin du mois et soldes ses derniers articles, si vous êtes à la recherche de culottes ou strings gaff :

    effeuillantine.com

    #LGBTQIA #queer #trans #MtF #non-binary #tucking #gaff #amab

  3. CW: Mental Health | Plural | DID

    #plurality #plural #did

    Being a System is so fascinating but also weird
    I wanna behave like a silly little person just doing silly things but am stuck in an big 21 year old #AMAB body...
    Like the realisation sometimes about the body
    or just being called by the Bodies name is so weird.

    But this is where i wanna real quick say thank you to the #fediverse like everyone that is reading the post rn.
    The possibility of this selfexpression makes is so much better <3

  4. Dans les DMs Insta de @eliot.astree on discute de comment « amab/afab » ou « personne à vulve / personne à pénis » ne sont pas les indicateurs de progressisme et d'inclusion que les gens qui les utilisent pensent qu'ils sont, mais qu'en fait ce sont des révélateurs des biais inconscients qui prouvent comment les gens qui les utilisent perçoivent les femmes trans et les hommes trans : « au fond, je vois cette personne comme un mec, mais je dis elle pour lui faire plaisir » et « au fond, je vois cette personne comme une meuf, mais je dis il pour lui faire plaisir. »

    Par exemple, si tu dis que les personnes autistes afab ont une expression de l'autisme différent de celui des personnes amab, tu es en train de naturaliser un fait social.

    Si tu dis que dans un rapport sexuel, les personnes à pénis sont celles qui mettent la pression aux personnes à vulves, tu es en train d'essentialiser le patriarcat.

    Ça n'est pas du tout inclusif et c'est même plutôt très conservateur, car ça entretient l'illusion que la domination genrée est liée à des attributs physiques et donc qu'elle est « naturelle » quelque part.

    La vérité à se mettre dans la tête au-delà de « les femmes trans sont des femmes » et « les hommes trans sont des hommes » c'est pas qu'on est des femmes ou des hommes juste parce qu'on le dit. C'est qu'on est des femmes parce qu'on a des vies de femmes et qu'ils sont des hommes parce qu'ils ont des vies d'hommes. Que ces expériences sont à moduler selon les différentes situations de discriminations qu'on peut subir avec (de base la transphobie, vu qu'on est trans, mais il peut y avoir évidemment d'autres trucs.) Et aussi, mais ça tu vas avoir du mal à l'admettre, que ça ne dépend pas du passing.

    #Féminisme #Transidentité #Amab #Afab #Transféminisme

  5. @dave @aud

    She called herself "Executive transexual" for a long while.

    I highly respect her gender choice and example. Izzard is one of the reasons I still publicly identify as #NB even though I no longer present feminine (#AMAB)

    One of her best lines, IMHO is;
    "These are not womens clothes...
    ... These are MY clothes! "

    #EddieIzzard #suzyizzard #LGBTQ #trans

  6. Worst thing, oddly, about my cancer diagnosis is knowing I can no longer give blood. The cancer is (for the moment) manageable so not too stressed (doc says I'll probably die with it, not of it) but the blood donation thing is the most immediate symptom and change. #FuckCancer those assigned male at birth (#amab) don't skip checking your PSA score and keep an eye (figuratively) on your prostate.

  7. Scottish men wearing #skirts: So manly and cool!

    Arabic men wearing #dresses: Good way to shield yourself from the heat and from sin or something!

    #Queer #amab people wearing "Women's clothes":
    Why Don't You Die !!!!!!

    Honestly, what's this obsession with clothes people have?

  8. Does anyone have recommendations for places to find clothing options for someone #amab but looking for something less masc?

    I’ve tried skirts and they went far too #femme for me

    Things like biddell.shop/collections/all feel more right, in that secret third option that isn’t dressing like a man or a woman and is comfortable and like I’m not wearing a costume.

    Do I just need to get jumpsuits and overalls from Free People, TomboyX, and WildFang?

  9. The irony that the month of #Movember, which in part deals with #prostatecancer awareness, is also the month for #NoNutNovember. Just a reminder there's evidence that ejaculating regularly lowers the risk of prostate cancer.

    #sexualhealth #men #amab

  10. CW: candid talk about polyamory and the difference between having sex with AFABs and AMABs

    (Before someone gets annoyed. Yes, I'm simplifying. I'm not considering the effects of HRT for instance, but I'm not writing a treatise about everything, okay?)

    Baby boy and I had a mild tiff yesterday.

    He's gay. I'm pansexual. We're polyamorous. Maybe some of you already see where this is going. I'm sure I'm not the only pansexual guy getting it on with a gay guy. :headache:

    I was mentioning the baby girl I plan to bed on Sunday. He said I sounded *excited*. To tell you the truth, I don't think I was especially excited. Yes, I think if our date goes well, we're going to have sex. What can I say. This is the *usual* pattern for me. I'm sex positive. Baby boy benefited from this himself. We had our date. It went well. Then we had sex. 🤷

    This led to a short discussion. In this discussion, I pointed out that AFABs are biologically made to have orgasm after orgasm. I'm very sorry, but us, AMABs, have a refractory period after we have an orgasm. It felt to me like I was reminding him of something he heard once in sex ed. This difference, on the other hand, is very current for me, seeing as I bed AFABs and AMABs.

    It is likely that baby girl on Sunday is going to experience orgasm after orgasm. This is my goal. Why? Again, because this is usually how it goes when I have an encounter with an AFAB, and I'm not a jerk.

    I think he was mildly jealous, and I find myself in uncharted territory. I *did* tell him before we even were intimate that I have much less experience with AMABs (like 2 years with AMABs, compared to 28 years with AFABs). He decided to be patient with me, but now I feel the patience running out.

    Then there's the fact that comparing the relationship between you and your lover, with those relationships that your lover has with his other lovers, this is a corrosive agent. If he starts "keeping score" by counting how many orgasms everybody got, he's always going to be losing to the AFABs that I have sex with.

    I have a plan, but I'm worried that his concern over the quality of my relationship with AFABs will recur, over and over, and in the end it will kill our relationship.

    (I do welcome constructive observations.)

    #polyamory #AFAB #AMAB #pansexual

  11. I have a pretty high voice for an #amab. Anything with a mic makes that even more pronounced. Recent convo I had on a #discord voice channel:
    Them: I'm confused, are you male or female.
    Me: you can use any #pronouns you like. It doesn't matter to me.
    Them: ehr... alright. I don't get it ... are you a man or a woman?
    Me: I'm born with a penis, if that matters to you in the context of playing an #mmorpg together.
    Them: *absolute silence*

    To their credit: they haven't changed how they treat me.

  12. If #amab stands for assigned male at birth and #afab stands for assigned female at birth then what does #acab stand for. Wrong answers only.

  13. Okay what is the secret to eating/drinking literally anything while wearing lipstick/gloss?

    Also I got this lip-plumping stuff but the applicator doesn't work for crap. Used a q tip and think I got too much on, lil redness around the lips but they're def plumper. Wish this stuff lasted multiple days, I'd pay more for it if it did too, daily/many times a day is ughf

    #fashion #lipstick #trans #amab #transgirl #queer #lgbt

  14. Anyone here come out at work? Dunno what steps to even take. We're a blue city but in a red state, no idea the average sentiment but there's definitely republicans here, bleh

    Was just going to wait for my name change and see what happens but they're really dragging their feet on my deed which I need to finish it, might need to sue IDK

    #trans #queer #amab #lgbt

  15. CW: Sex, mild drugs, very personal/TMI

    Okay so like embarrassing but, a few weeks ago I was so high on this stuff that makes me horny I think I had a "girl" orgasm, like 3 actually?? All basically touchless, 'squirted' one time, not cum not pee IDK even

    Wanna do that again but haven't quite cracked the code. I think the pot helped 'unlock' it but I doubt it was a requirement

    edit: I'm AMAB btw obvs my dick can cum but this was almost totally different?

    #sex #kink #nsfw #pot #amab #trans #transgirl

  16. CW: Hey everyone! I welcome you to my #Introduction post. Post 1 of 7.

    I go by Rusco or Ruscobrog on much of the internet. It’s elvish for foxbear (it’s a mix of two sects but it sounds great). Asher is my chosen name and what I usually go by. It means blessed and I truly feel that way with my chosen family.

    I am #trans #amab. My pronouns are They/Them and He/Him. I identify best as #nonbinary, #demisexual, and #biromantic. Although you’ll mostly just see me refer to myself as #queer. 💜

  17. CW: Hey everyone! I welcome you to my #Introduction post. Post 1 of 7.

    I go by Rusco or Ruscobrog on much of the internet. It’s elvish for foxbear (it’s a mix of two sects but it sounds great). Asher is my chosen name and what I usually go by. It means blessed and I truly feel that way with my chosen family.

    I am #trans #amab. My pronouns are They/Them and He/Him. I identify best as #nonbinary, #demisexual, and #biromantic. Although you’ll mostly just see me refer to myself as #queer. 💜

  18. CW: Hey everyone! I welcome you to my #Introduction post. Post 1 of 7.

    I go by Rusco or Ruscobrog on much of the internet. It’s elvish for foxbear (it’s a mix of two sects but it sounds great). Asher is my chosen name and what I usually go by. It means blessed and I truly feel that way with my chosen family.

    I am #trans #amab. My pronouns are They/Them and He/Him. I identify best as #nonbinary, #demisexual, and #biromantic. Although you’ll mostly just see me refer to myself as #queer. 💜

  19. CW: Hey everyone! I welcome you to my #Introduction post. Post 1 of 7.

    I go by Rusco or Ruscobrog on much of the internet. It’s elvish for foxbear (it’s a mix of two sects but it sounds great). Asher is my chosen name and what I usually go by. It means blessed and I truly feel that way with my chosen family.

    I am #trans #amab. My pronouns are They/Them and He/Him. I identify best as #nonbinary, #demisexual, and #biromantic. Although you’ll mostly just see me refer to myself as #queer. 💜

  20. CW: Hey everyone! I welcome you to my #Introduction post. Post 1 of 7.

    I go by Rusco or Ruscobrog on much of the internet. It’s elvish for foxbear (it’s a mix of two sects but it sounds great). Asher is my chosen name and what I usually go by. It means blessed and I truly feel that way with my chosen family.

    I am #trans #amab. My pronouns are They/Them and He/Him. I identify best as #nonbinary, #demisexual, and #biromantic. Although you’ll mostly just see me refer to myself as #queer. 💜