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  1. At 43, going on 44, I’m trying to put some order to the chaos. 14 years of marriage is my foundation with my husband, but I’ve realized I’m poly and demisexual. I’m not looking for "casual"—I’m looking for someone to love and be a part of my life as an equal.

    The reality? Demisexuality means my "spark" is a slow-burn. In 18 months, only 1 or 2 guys have actually triggered those deep feelings. It’s a high bar to clear.

    The exhausting part is when that rare connection finally happens, only to find they aren't okay with polyamory. It’s annoying and, honestly, just sad to invest that much only to hit a wall.

    I know exactly who I am and how I love. Finding that same alignment in someone else is just the challenge right now. That’s where I’m at. 🏳️‍🌈✨

    Now, it's finding the right one to join in this next adventure with us.

    #Polyamory #Demisexual #GayPoly #gay #bear #gaybear #lgbt #queer #ottawa

  2. At 43, going on 44, I’m trying to put some order to the chaos. 14 years of marriage is my foundation with my husband, but I’ve realized I’m poly and demisexual. I’m not looking for "casual"—I’m looking for someone to love and be a part of my life as an equal.

    The reality? Demisexuality means my "spark" is a slow-burn. In 18 months, only 1 or 2 guys have actually triggered those deep feelings. It’s a high bar to clear.

    The exhausting part is when that rare connection finally happens, only to find they aren't okay with polyamory. It’s annoying and, honestly, just sad to invest that much only to hit a wall.

    I know exactly who I am and how I love. Finding that same alignment in someone else is just the challenge right now. That’s where I’m at. 🏳️‍🌈✨

    Now, it's finding the right one to join in this next adventure with us.

    #Polyamory #Demisexual #GayPoly #gay #bear #gaybear #lgbt #queer #ottawa

  3. At 43, going on 44, I’m trying to put some order to the chaos. 14 years of marriage is my foundation with my husband, but I’ve realized I’m poly and demisexual. I’m not looking for "casual"—I’m looking for someone to love and be a part of my life as an equal.

    The reality? Demisexuality means my "spark" is a slow-burn. In 18 months, only 1 or 2 guys have actually triggered those deep feelings. It’s a high bar to clear.

    The exhausting part is when that rare connection finally happens, only to find they aren't okay with polyamory. It’s annoying and, honestly, just sad to invest that much only to hit a wall.

    I know exactly who I am and how I love. Finding that same alignment in someone else is just the challenge right now. That’s where I’m at. 🏳️‍🌈✨

    Now, it's finding the right one to join in this next adventure with us.

    #Polyamory #Demisexual #GayPoly #gay #bear #gaybear #lgbt #queer #ottawa

  4. Why I am #switching #sides lol not really. I am just using the #bisexual label rather than #pansexual . The #pan #flag is #ugly as fuck!!!! Excuse the look. We are going #live onyxrose9.substack.com with cohost EggieSalad.

    onyxrose.net is where I have all my #writing come thru and #subscribe

    4:20 today Saturday EST . We will be discussing #interracial #marriage and #dating. Fun!
    #queer #lgbtqia #lgbt #lgbt #bisexual #demisexual #trans #nonbinary #transgender #

  5. So a lot of people don't really seem to know much about what being Demisexual was. So I made a video talking about what it means and how it impacts my life a little bit. Come check it out if you'd like~ ​:demisexual_flag:​ ​:menhera_admire:​

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OmPl75IIZF0

    #demisexual #demisexuality #demi #ace #asexual #asexuality #youtube #vtuber

  6. Happy Pride Y'all~

    The flag is: Demisexual, Panromantic, Polyamorous
    I made it mahself cuz I couldn't find one with all 3 of those xD

    Also I just REALLY like how I drew my face in this piece.

    #furryart #pride #flag #demisexual #panromantic #polyamorous #cat #trpc #flatcolor #personalart

  7. I wrote an article about the rare pride flags I observed at the 2023 Kansas City Pride Festival.

    I discussed the Queer, Gay Man, Bear, Agender, Asexual, Demisexual, Omnisexual, Polyamorous, Leather, and Pony pride flags.

    jasonbeets.blogspot.com/2023/0

    23/x

    #LGBT #Queer #Gay #Bear #Agender #Asexual #Demisexual #Omnisexual #Polyamorous #Leather #Pony #Nonbinary #Fetish

  8. New account, so new #introduction. Let's do it again!

    I have a
    #MastersDegree in #ComputerScience and #ComputerEngineering. I went to #NMU for undergrad and #MSU for my graduate degree. I currently work at #UChicago for the #TMWCenter, which focuses on helping young children acquire language (and therefore other learning skills) faster.

    In my spare time, I develop
    #OpenSourceSoftware such as
    - a
    #SphinxDoc extension that embed #Fediverse comments on your page
    - a library to talk to
    #ManifoldMarkets from native #Python
    - a
    #PredictionMarket manager using the above
    - a
    #transpiler from a subset of Python to #OpenStreetMaps's #OverpassQL
    - bug fixes to many other projects, including
    #mypy, #base58, #attrs, #CPython, & more

    I spend a fair bit of my time these days on
    #MathResearch, specifically into the #ThueMorse Sequence and its extensions.

    I'm also a hobbyist editor on OpenStreetMap.

    #Demisexual, #transfem, and happily engaged to my #enby sweetheart.

    We have two cats:
    #OpheTheLoaf and #MayalaranTheCat (yes, from #StormlightArchive) See here for more on them!

    I speak English fluently, Spanish haltingly, and am trying to learn Chinese

    #queer #Chicago

  9. Oh dang, my #introduction post is waaay out of date now. Let's do it again!

    I have a #MastersDegree in #ComputerScience and #ComputerEngineering. I went to #NMU for undergrad and #MSU for my graduate degree. I currently work at #UChicago for the #TMWCenter, which focuses on helping young children acquire language (and therefore other learning skills) faster.

    In my spare time, I develop #OpenSourceSoftware such as

    I spend a fair bit of my time these days on #MathResearch, specifically into the #ThueMorse Sequence and its extensions.

    I'm also a hobbyist editor on OpenStreetMap.

    #Demisexual, #transfem, and happily engaged to my #enby sweetheart.

    We have two cats: #OpheTheLoaf and #MayalaranTheCat (yes, from #StormlightArchive)

    #queer #Chicago