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Anastasia Sierra Explores Motherhood, Aging, and Memory in 'The Witching Hour'

📰 Original title: The Witching Hour

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#culture #motherhoodphotography #familydynamics #emotionallabor

https://www.europesays.com/uk/957279/ Beyond the Script: Why One Service Worker’s Mental Health Spiraled After Customers Started Using Her as an Emotional Punching Bag #anxiety #CustomerService #Customers #EmotionalLabor #Health #MentalHealth #picture #Reddit #top #trigger #UK #UnitedKingdom

https://www.europesays.com/ie/482727/ Beyond the Script: Why One Service Worker’s Mental Health Spiraled After Customers Started Using Her as an Emotional Punching Bag #anxiety #CustomerService #customers #Éire #EmotionalLabor #Health #IE #Ireland #MentalHealth #MentalHealth #picture #Reddit #Top #trigger

What's a patriarch's favorite paradox?
Women are too emotional to lead, but also responsible for managing everyone's emotions

#Feminism #Patriarchy #EverydaySexism #EmotionalLabor

If any of you #men following me missed my mutuals' post - expressing gratitude for men who stepped up & helped take on some of the emotional labour than women have shouldered - please read it, first:

https://disabled.social/@vlrny/116325171044986558

Then - make your own decision on whether to be a silent enabler of misogyny or a comrade to women who have to deal with misogynist wankerbutternoodles here.
You also can choose to support anti-ableism by speaking out against it, in public (like many women already have!) or keep on silently enabling it by choosing to be friendly to ableists who are also misogynistic.

Many women & disabled folks are watching. We notice who steps up & who does not. You can do better than stay silent about misogynists - as men - that call has to come, loudly, from within the mens' arena. You can do better than silently enable ableism - that call has to come from non-disabled folks.

Stop being OK with letting women & disabled folks take more hits - because you lack courage to take some of the emotional labour off our overburdened backs.

*You're supposed to feel some discomfort reading this - if you've failed to use your privileges as men to do better than be silent enablers of your fellow men.*

#AllMen #PeopleWithDisabilities #StopMisogyny
#StopAbleism #BraveUp #GrowSomeCourage #EmotionalLabor #Intersectionality #DoBetterMen #Patriarchy #Enablers

If any of you #men following me missed my mutuals' post - expressing gratitude for men who stepped up & helped take on some of the emotional labour than women have shouldered - please read it, first:

https://disabled.social/@vlrny/116325171044986558

Then - make your own decision on whether to be a silent enabler of misogyny or a comrade to women who have to deal with misogynist wankerbutternoodles here.
You also can choose to support anti-ableism by speaking out against it, in public (like many women already have!) or keep on silently enabling it by choosing to be friendly to ableists who are also misogynistic.

Many women & disabled folks are watching. We notice who steps up & who does not. You can do better than stay silent about misogynists - as men - that call has to come, loudly, from within the mens' arena. You can do better than silently enable ableism - that call has to come from non-disabled folks.

Stop being OK with letting women & disabled folks take more hits - because you lack courage to take some of the emotional labour off our overburdened backs.

*You're supposed to feel some discomfort reading this - if you've failed to use your privileges as men to do better than be silent enablers of your fellow men.*

#AllMen #PeopleWithDisabilities #StopMisogyny
#StopAbleism #BraveUp #GrowSomeCourage #EmotionalLabor #Intersectionality #DoBetterMen #Patriarchy #Enablers

If any of you #men following me missed my mutuals' post - expressing gratitude for men who stepped up & helped take on some of the emotional labour than women have shouldered - please read it, first:

https://disabled.social/@vlrny/116325171044986558

Then - make your own decision on whether to be a silent enabler of misogyny or a comrade to women who have to deal with misogynist wankerbutternoodles here.
You also can choose to support anti-ableism by speaking out against it, in public (like many women already have!) or keep on silently enabling it by choosing to be friendly to ableists who are also misogynistic.

Many women & disabled folks are watching. We notice who steps up & who does not. You can do better than stay silent about misogynists - as men - that call has to come, loudly, from within the mens' arena. You can do better than silently enable ableism - that call has to come from non-disabled folks.

Stop being OK with letting women & disabled folks take more hits - because you lack courage to take some of the emotional labour off our overburdened backs.

*You're supposed to feel some discomfort reading this - if you've failed to use your privileges as men to do better than be silent enablers of your fellow men.*

#AllMen #PeopleWithDisabilities #StopMisogyny
#StopAbleism #BraveUp #GrowSomeCourage #EmotionalLabor #Intersectionality #DoBetterMen #Patriarchy #Enablers

If any of you #men following me missed my mutuals' post - expressing gratitude for men who stepped up & helped take on some of the emotional labour than women have shouldered - please read it, first:

https://disabled.social/@vlrny/116325171044986558

Then - make your own decision on whether to be a silent enabler of misogyny or a comrade to women who have to deal with misogynist wankerbutternoodles here.
You also can choose to support anti-ableism by speaking out against it, in public (like many women already have!) or keep on silently enabling it by choosing to be friendly to ableists who are also misogynistic.

Many women & disabled folks are watching. We notice who steps up & who does not. You can do better than stay silent about misogynists - as men - that call has to come, loudly, from within the mens' arena. You can do better than silently enable ableism - that call has to come from non-disabled folks.

Stop being OK with letting women & disabled folks take more hits - because you lack courage to take some of the emotional labour off our overburdened backs.

*You're supposed to feel some discomfort reading this - if you've failed to use your privileges as men to do better than be silent enablers of your fellow men.*

#AllMen #PeopleWithDisabilities #StopMisogyny
#StopAbleism #BraveUp #GrowSomeCourage #EmotionalLabor #Intersectionality #DoBetterMen #Patriarchy #Enablers

If any of you #men following me missed my mutuals' post - expressing gratitude for men who stepped up & helped take on some of the emotional labour than women have shouldered - please read it, first:

https://disabled.social/@vlrny/116325171044986558

Then - make your own decision on whether to be a silent enabler of misogyny or a comrade to women who have to deal with misogynist wankerbutternoodles here.
You also can choose to support anti-ableism by speaking out against it, in public (like many women already have!) or keep on silently enabling it by choosing to be friendly to ableists who are also misogynistic.

Many women & disabled folks are watching. We notice who steps up & who does not. You can do better than stay silent about misogynists - as men - that call has to come, loudly, from within the mens' arena. You can do better than silently enable ableism - that call has to come from non-disabled folks.

Stop being OK with letting women & disabled folks take more hits - because you lack courage to take some of the emotional labour off our overburdened backs.

*You're supposed to feel some discomfort reading this - if you've failed to use your privileges as men to do better than be silent enablers of your fellow men.*

#AllMen #PeopleWithDisabilities #StopMisogyny
#StopAbleism #BraveUp #GrowSomeCourage #EmotionalLabor #Intersectionality #DoBetterMen #Patriarchy #Enablers

We call it strength.

But it doesn’t land the same on everyone.

Some people are allowed to break.
Others are expected to carry on.

This piece follows that difference, and what it reveals about care, power, and who gets to be human in public.

https://associationredefine.substack.com/p/the-world-runs-on-other-peoples-strength?r=6l8ed8

#CivicIntelligence
#CarePolitics
#SocialJustice
#Inequality
#EmotionalLabor
#Resilience
#SystemsThinking
#Democracy

We call it strength.

But it doesn’t land the same on everyone.

Some people are allowed to break.
Others are expected to carry on.

This piece follows that difference, and what it reveals about care, power, and who gets to be human in public.

https://associationredefine.substack.com/p/the-world-runs-on-other-peoples-strength?r=6l8ed8

#CivicIntelligence
#CarePolitics
#SocialJustice
#Inequality
#EmotionalLabor
#Resilience
#SystemsThinking
#Democracy

We call it strength.

But it doesn’t land the same on everyone.

Some people are allowed to break.
Others are expected to carry on.

This piece follows that difference, and what it reveals about care, power, and who gets to be human in public.

https://associationredefine.substack.com/p/the-world-runs-on-other-peoples-strength?r=6l8ed8

#CivicIntelligence
#CarePolitics
#SocialJustice
#Inequality
#EmotionalLabor
#Resilience
#SystemsThinking
#Democracy

We call it strength.

But it doesn’t land the same on everyone.

Some people are allowed to break.
Others are expected to carry on.

This piece follows that difference, and what it reveals about care, power, and who gets to be human in public.

https://associationredefine.substack.com/p/the-world-runs-on-other-peoples-strength?r=6l8ed8

#CivicIntelligence
#CarePolitics
#SocialJustice
#Inequality
#EmotionalLabor
#Resilience
#SystemsThinking
#Democracy

We call it strength.

But it doesn’t land the same on everyone.

Some people are allowed to break.
Others are expected to carry on.

This piece follows that difference, and what it reveals about care, power, and who gets to be human in public.

https://associationredefine.substack.com/p/the-world-runs-on-other-peoples-strength?r=6l8ed8

#CivicIntelligence
#CarePolitics
#SocialJustice
#Inequality
#EmotionalLabor
#Resilience
#SystemsThinking
#Democracy

The price of doing it all: Women and the myth of total independence https://english.mathrubhumi.com/lifestyle/women/strong-woman-paradox-hyper-independence-burnout-shtoyucf?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=mastodon #StrongWomen #Independence #Burnout #EmotionalLabor

This is worth a read: AI filling the function of "wife". It goes in several interesting directions that I can't comment on because I haven't used and compared the various LLMs. Thought-provoking.

https://abiawomosu.substack.com/p/they-built-stepford-ai-and-called

#AI #LLMs #AgenticAI #EmotionalLabor #Stepford

Dating can be tiring for anyone. For disabled daters, it often means repeating the same explanations, managing others’ discomfort, and pushing through fatigue just to stay present. This piece reflects on dating burnout, the need for rest, and why slowing down is not failure—but care.
#Disability #DatingFatigue #EmotionalLabor
https://includate.com/dating-fatigue-why-disabled-dating-feels-so-exhausting/

Always explaining yourself can be exhausting—especially in disabled dating, where curiosity often comes before connection. This piece reflects on emotional labor, boundaries, and the quiet strength of choosing not to justify your existence just to be seen.#Disability #DatingWithDisabilities #EmotionalLabor
https://includate.com/im-tired-of-explaining-myself-in-disabled-dating/

Some neurotypical person may have to explain to me why the socially acceptable thing to do when someone calls you pretentious is to checks notes say thank you and lick their boot.

I'm autistic, so as we all know, I struggle to understand "common sense" things like that and am eager to learn so that I can be included in this delusionally toxic society of ours.

Some of that was likely sarcasm.

Things to keep in mind:

• If you're a woman, and someone calls you manipulative, they're afraid of the only power they've allowed you to keep.
• If you're an autist, and someone calls you pretentious, they are forcing you to do emotional labor to protect them, your attacker, from their own insecurity.

Never accept as feedback what is intended as abuse.

#SocialEngineering #BoundarySetting #EmotionalLabor #Sociology #Ontology #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity #AutisticJoy #DoubleEmpathyProblem #Masking #IntersectionalFeminism #PowerDynamics #Assertiveness #InternalizedMisogyny

Some neurotypical person may have to explain to me why the socially acceptable thing to do when someone calls you pretentious is to checks notes say thank you and lick their boot.

I'm autistic, so as we all know, I struggle to understand "common sense" things like that and am eager to learn so that I can be included in this delusionally toxic society of ours.

Some of that was likely sarcasm.

Things to keep in mind:

• If you're a woman, and someone calls you manipulative, they're afraid of the only power they've allowed you to keep.
• If you're an autist, and someone calls you pretentious, they are forcing you to do emotional labor to protect them, your attacker, from their own insecurity.

Never accept as feedback what is intended as abuse.

#SocialEngineering #BoundarySetting #EmotionalLabor #Sociology #Ontology #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity #AutisticJoy #DoubleEmpathyProblem #Masking #IntersectionalFeminism #PowerDynamics #Assertiveness #InternalizedMisogyny

Some neurotypical person may have to explain to me why the socially acceptable thing to do when someone calls you pretentious is to checks notes say thank you and lick their boot.

I'm autistic, so as we all know, I struggle to understand "common sense" things like that and am eager to learn so that I can be included in this delusionally toxic society of ours.

Some of that was likely sarcasm.

Things to keep in mind:

• If you're a woman, and someone calls you manipulative, they're afraid of the only power they've allowed you to keep.
• If you're an autist, and someone calls you pretentious, they are forcing you to do emotional labor to protect them, your attacker, from their own insecurity.

Never accept as feedback what is intended as abuse.

#SocialEngineering #BoundarySetting #EmotionalLabor #Sociology #Ontology #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity #AutisticJoy #DoubleEmpathyProblem #Masking #IntersectionalFeminism #PowerDynamics #Assertiveness #InternalizedMisogyny

Some neurotypical person may have to explain to me why the socially acceptable thing to do when someone calls you pretentious is to checks notes say thank you and lick their boot.

I'm autistic, so as we all know, I struggle to understand "common sense" things like that and am eager to learn so that I can be included in this delusionally toxic society of ours.

Some of that was likely sarcasm.

Things to keep in mind:

• If you're a woman, and someone calls you manipulative, they're afraid of the only power they've allowed you to keep.
• If you're an autist, and someone calls you pretentious, they are forcing you to do emotional labor to protect them, your attacker, from their own insecurity.

Never accept as feedback what is intended as abuse.

#SocialEngineering #BoundarySetting #EmotionalLabor #Sociology #Ontology #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity #AutisticJoy #DoubleEmpathyProblem #Masking #IntersectionalFeminism #PowerDynamics #Assertiveness #InternalizedMisogyny

Some neurotypical person may have to explain to me why the socially acceptable thing to do when someone calls you pretentious is to checks notes say thank you and lick their boot.

I'm autistic, so as we all know, I struggle to understand "common sense" things like that and am eager to learn so that I can be included in this delusionally toxic society of ours.

Some of that was likely sarcasm.

Things to keep in mind:

• If you're a woman, and someone calls you manipulative, they're afraid of the only power they've allowed you to keep.
• If you're an autist, and someone calls you pretentious, they are forcing you to do emotional labor to protect them, your attacker, from their own insecurity.

Never accept as feedback what is intended as abuse.

#SocialEngineering #BoundarySetting #EmotionalLabor #Sociology #Ontology #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity #AutisticJoy #DoubleEmpathyProblem #Masking #IntersectionalFeminism #PowerDynamics #Assertiveness #InternalizedMisogyny

Distressed friend demands help: Even support systems need clear boundaries. Demanding emotional labour without consent violates the Principle of Reciprocity and drains energy. We move from Corrupted Code (Force) to Clean Code (Power).

Scenario: A friend is in crisis and demands immediate emotional support late at night, despite repeated hints the recipient is busy. The friend replies:

❌ Corrupted Code (Force):
"I need to talk right now, I'm having a crisis. Just drop what you're doing, I can't handle this alone." (Demands immediate, non-consensual labor, ignoring the recipient's boundaries.)

✅ Clean Code (Power):
"I'm having a crisis and need support. Are you in a good space to talk for a few minutes now? If not, please let me know when might work for you tomorrow." (Asks for consent; respects the recipient's agency and energy.)

The difference? The second message respects the recipient’s energy system. What boundary can you clearly state today?

#SystemsLeadership #EmotionalLabor #Reciprocity #CleanCode

"She’d been dating Max for a few months when it struck her — mid-conversation with a friend — that she had no idea what he felt about her or their future.
"So she stopped asking."

As Pepper puts it, it’s “fine to give boys and men some homework.” This homework begins with fostering self-awareness, emotional literacy and responsibility for your actions.

By Alice Lassman: https://www.buzzfeed.com/alicelassman/mankeeping-dating-emotional-labor-research-sc

#single #incel #relationship #relationships #emotionalLabor #emotionalLabour #emotions #masculinity

5 Hidden Resentments Long-Term Partners Carry, By A Psychologist

Preventing resentment is often better than dealing with it when it comes up, as it stays silent until…
#NewsBeep #News #US #USA #UnitedStates #UnitedStatesOfAmerica #Technology #apology #Emotionallabor #Forgiveness #Growthgap #Long-termpartners #love #MarkTravers #Misunderstood #relationship #Unevenaccomodation
https://www.newsbeep.com/us/296234/

5 Hidden Resentments Long-Term Partners Carry, By A Psychologist

Preventing resentment is often better than dealing with it when it comes up, as it stays silent until…
#NewsBeep #News #US #USA #UnitedStates #UnitedStatesOfAmerica #Technology #apology #Emotionallabor #Forgiveness #Growthgap #Long-termpartners #love #MarkTravers #Misunderstood #relationship #Unevenaccomodation
https://www.newsbeep.com/us/296234/

Feeling like everyone’s unpaid therapist? Listen to our latest: ‘Closed for Maintenance: Emotional Labor Isn’t Free’ 🎧 https://apocalypseandavocados.transistor.fm/s1/16 #EmotionalLabor #PodcastRecommendation #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #QueerVoices #ApocalypseAndAvocados

Dear People who hold the most power in a household.

You can't expect the other people in your household to simultaneously:

a) give precedence to your needs and feelings about things all the time,

b) be happier when you're around than when you're not there.

Those two things just don't go together. 🤷‍♀️

#Household #DomesticWork #Parenting #Bullying #EmotionalLabor #WomensRights #ChildrensRights #UnpaidCarer #NuclearFamily

Dear People who hold the most power in a household.

You can't expect the other people in your household to simultaneously:

a) give precedence to your needs and feelings about things all the time,

b) be happier when you're around than when you're not there.

Those two things just don't go together. 🤷‍♀️

#Household #DomesticWork #Parenting #Bullying #EmotionalLabor #WomensRights #ChildrensRights #UnpaidCarer #NuclearFamily

Dear People who hold the most power in a household.

You can't expect the other people in your household to simultaneously:

a) give precedence to your needs and feelings about things all the time,

b) be happier when you're around than when you're not there.

Those two things just don't go together. 🤷‍♀️

#Household #DomesticWork #Parenting #Bullying #EmotionalLabor #WomensRights #ChildrensRights #UnpaidCarer #NuclearFamily

Dear People who hold the most power in a household.

You can't expect the other people in your household to simultaneously:

a) give precedence to your needs and feelings about things all the time,

b) be happier when you're around than when you're not there.

Those two things just don't go together. 🤷‍♀️

#Household #DomesticWork #Parenting #Bullying #EmotionalLabor #WomensRights #ChildrensRights #UnpaidCarer #NuclearFamily

Dear People who hold the most power in a household.

You can't expect the other people in your household to simultaneously:

a) give precedence to your needs and feelings about things all the time,

b) be happier when you're around than when you're not there.

Those two things just don't go together. 🤷‍♀️

#Household #DomesticWork #Parenting #Bullying #EmotionalLabor #WomensRights #ChildrensRights #UnpaidCarer #NuclearFamily

This week’s podcast episode is for anyone who’s emotionally burnt to a crisp.
“Closed for Maintenance: Emotional Labor Isn’t Free”
We talk people-pleasing, emotional ghosting, and why we’re all done being the group chat glue.
🎧 Available now https://apocalypseandavocados.transistor.fm/s1/16
#Podcast #ApocalypseAndAvocados #EmotionalLabor #Burnout #ApocalypseAndAvocados #QueerVoices #PodcastDrop #PodcastLife #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA

#comedy #emotions #EmotionalProcessing #EmotionalLabor #trust #honesty #relationships

AI's impact on jobs highlights growing value of emotional labor, with service roles less threatened by technology advancements, experts predict human-AI collaboration in future workplaces
#YonhapInfomax #ArtificialIntelligence #EmotionalLabor #JobMarket #TechnologicalAdvancements #WorkforceTransformation #Economics #FinancialMarkets #Banking #Securities #Bonds #StockMarket
https://en.infomaxai.com/news/articleView.html?idxno=53886

AI's impact on jobs highlights growing value of emotional labor, with service roles less threatened by technology advancements, experts predict human-AI collaboration in future workplaces
#YonhapInfomax #ArtificialIntelligence #EmotionalLabor #JobMarket #TechnologicalAdvancements #WorkforceTransformation #Economics #FinancialMarkets #Banking #Securities #Bonds #StockMarket
https://en.infomaxai.com/news/articleView.html?idxno=53886

AI's impact on jobs highlights growing value of emotional labor, with service roles less threatened by technology advancements, experts predict human-AI collaboration in future workplaces
#YonhapInfomax #ArtificialIntelligence #EmotionalLabor #JobMarket #TechnologicalAdvancements #WorkforceTransformation #Economics #FinancialMarkets #Banking #Securities #Bonds #StockMarket
https://en.infomaxai.com/news/articleView.html?idxno=53886

AI's impact on jobs highlights growing value of emotional labor, with service roles less threatened by technology advancements, experts predict human-AI collaboration in future workplaces
#YonhapInfomax #ArtificialIntelligence #EmotionalLabor #JobMarket #TechnologicalAdvancements #WorkforceTransformation #Economics #FinancialMarkets #Banking #Securities #Bonds #StockMarket
https://en.infomaxai.com/news/articleView.html?idxno=53886

AI's impact on jobs highlights growing value of emotional labor, with service roles less threatened by technology advancements, experts predict human-AI collaboration in future workplaces
#YonhapInfomax #ArtificialIntelligence #EmotionalLabor #JobMarket #TechnologicalAdvancements #WorkforceTransformation #Economics #FinancialMarkets #Banking #Securities #Bonds #StockMarket
https://en.infomaxai.com/news/articleView.html?idxno=53886

What is work?

I just read an article on Callaci’s book, ‘Wages for Housework’.

It is a great article (link at the end of the thread), but…

At one point she describes how, for a time, her son needed her to sit with him with one hand on his stomach for him to go to sleep. She later wondered, “Was that work?” And decided it felt wrong to call it such.

#Work #Housework #UnpaidLabor #UnpaidCarers #EmotionalLabor #Economics

#Pflege ist #EmotionalLabor und darum #mdrza #mdrnh #TeilnehmerID579293 um runter zu kommen.
Weil körperliche Anstrengungen nur einen kleinen Teil ausmachen

Pret A Manger Year 2023 in Review:
https://vimeo.com/865201095

#pret #pretamanger #NatashasLaw #panochristou #cliveschlee #jeffreyhyman #jeffreyepstein #julianmetcalfe #sinclairbeecham #workplacebullying #vegan #veganrecipe #veganrecipes #vegetarian #glutenfree #gf #emotionallabour #emotionallabor #expret #expretDOTorg #expretamanger

Funny how other people get 'paid', while those who do no-money jobs like care work, domestic work, and/or parenting get 'given' money 🤔

E.g. by an ex, or the state.

Words like this serve to dismantle you and take away your dignity.

#EmotionalLabor #UnpaidCarers

Funny how other people get 'paid', while those who do no-money jobs like care work, domestic work, and/or parenting get 'given' money 🤔

E.g. by an ex, or the state.

Words like this serve to dismantle you and take away your dignity.

#EmotionalLabor #UnpaidCarers

Links to Pret A Manger issues incl ongoing mislabelling, mouldy food, systemic workplace bullying, £800,000 fine after staff in freezer, wage theft, hiked prices for lower quality, bad press, £700 million debt etc. etc.

https://linktr.ee/expret.org <

#pret #pretamanger #expretDOTorg #foodsafety #foodallergies #foodallergy #emotionallabour #emotionallabor

Why I'm asking #WhitePeople to understand how #BIPOC have to deal with relentless requests for more #EmotionalLabor on almost a daily basis in almost every area of our lives.

We're really exhausted from this. We need more white folks who will take ongoing heavy burdens off our backs. Start having those difficult #conversations with your fellow white folks & understand genuine #AntiRacism work requires #courage to talk to & #educate the white folks in your circles.

https://www.r2hub.org/library/emotional-labor-and-antiracism-work

What, exactly, are we doing here

http://inaniludibrio.com/2024/02/21/what-exactly-are-we-doing-here/

#AI #SyntheticMachines #EmotionalLabor