#emotionallabor — Public Fediverse posts

Anybody else play the game of getting a text / message from a guy, only glimpsing at the preview, and then thinking up the MOST UNDERWHELMING AND LOW EFFORT end to the message so you're not disappointed when you do read the whole thing? 👀

(Like geeze I don't even mean A GUY like "❤️" just a friend who is a dude but dude friends still suck at conversation so you gotta forcefully lower your expectations, no matter how desperate for human social connection you are. ESPECIALLY if you're desperate and lonely (for FRIENDS). Because you WILL be let down by their 'conversational skills.')

A Relationship Will Never Work When Only One Person Wants It To
https://wp.me/p84YjG-b0i
#RelationshipAdvice #OneSidedRelationship #EmotionalLabor #ModernDating #MenAndRelationships #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipTips #CommunicationMatters #SelfAwareness #KnowYourWorth #zsoltzsemba

RE: https://mstdn.social/@amydiehl/116653528570617485

Men rather go to starbucks to get a consolation cup than going to therapy

#MaleLonelinessEpidemic #CareWork #EmotionalLabor #Starbucks

RE: https://mstdn.social/@amydiehl/116653528570617485

Men rather go to starbucks to get a consolation cup than going to therapy

#MaleLonelinessEpidemic #CareWork #EmotionalLabor #Starbucks

RE: https://mstdn.social/@amydiehl/116653528570617485

Men rather go to starbucks to get a consolation cup than going to therapy

#MaleLonelinessEpidemic #CareWork #EmotionalLabor #Starbucks

RE: https://mstdn.social/@amydiehl/116653528570617485

Men rather go to starbucks to get a consolation cup than going to therapy

#MaleLonelinessEpidemic #CareWork #EmotionalLabor #Starbucks

RE: https://mstdn.social/@amydiehl/116653528570617485

Men rather go to starbucks to get a consolation cup than going to therapy

#MaleLonelinessEpidemic #CareWork #EmotionalLabor #Starbucks

@rheinze
truely regrett to inform you that it's not lol, but this: https://qz.com/emotional-labor-starbucks-baristas-green-apron-service-051926

#emotionalLabor

Overwhelmed new mother hears the perfect parenting advice from her mom on doorbell cam

https://fed.brid.gy/r/https://www.upworthy.com/doorbell-cam-mom-parenting-advice-ex1/

Anastasia Sierra Explores Motherhood, Aging, and Memory in 'The Witching Hour'

📰 Original title: The Witching Hour

🤖 IA: It's not clickbait ✅
👥 Users: It's not clickbait ✅

View full AI summary: https://en.killbait.com/anastasia-sierra-explores-motherhood-aging-and-memory-in-the-witching-hour.html?utm_source=mastodon_world&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=killbait.mastodon_world

#culture #motherhoodphotography #familydynamics #emotionallabor

Anastasia Sierra Explores Motherhood, Aging, and Memory in 'The Witching Hour'

📰 Original title: The Witching Hour

🤖 IA: It's not clickbait ✅
👥 Users: It's not clickbait ✅

View full AI summary: https://en.killbait.com/anastasia-sierra-explores-motherhood-aging-and-memory-in-the-witching-hour.html?utm_source=mastodon_world&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=killbait.mastodon_world

#culture #motherhoodphotography #familydynamics #emotionallabor

Anastasia Sierra Explores Motherhood, Aging, and Memory in 'The Witching Hour'

📰 Original title: The Witching Hour

🤖 IA: It's not clickbait ✅
👥 Users: It's not clickbait ✅

View full AI summary: https://en.killbait.com/anastasia-sierra-explores-motherhood-aging-and-memory-in-the-witching-hour.html?utm_source=mastodon_world&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=killbait.mastodon_world

#culture #motherhoodphotography #familydynamics #emotionallabor

Anastasia Sierra Explores Motherhood, Aging, and Memory in 'The Witching Hour'

📰 Original title: The Witching Hour

🤖 IA: It's not clickbait ✅
👥 Users: It's not clickbait ✅

View full AI summary: https://en.killbait.com/anastasia-sierra-explores-motherhood-aging-and-memory-in-the-witching-hour.html?utm_source=mastodon_social&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=killbait.mastodon_social

#culture #motherhoodphotography #familydynamics #emotionallabor

https://www.europesays.com/uk/957279/ Beyond the Script: Why One Service Worker’s Mental Health Spiraled After Customers Started Using Her as an Emotional Punching Bag #anxiety #CustomerService #Customers #EmotionalLabor #Health #MentalHealth #picture #Reddit #top #trigger #UK #UnitedKingdom

https://www.europesays.com/ie/482727/ Beyond the Script: Why One Service Worker’s Mental Health Spiraled After Customers Started Using Her as an Emotional Punching Bag #anxiety #CustomerService #customers #Éire #EmotionalLabor #Health #IE #Ireland #MentalHealth #MentalHealth #picture #Reddit #Top #trigger

What's a patriarch's favorite paradox?
Women are too emotional to lead, but also responsible for managing everyone's emotions

#Feminism #Patriarchy #EverydaySexism #EmotionalLabor

What's a patriarch's favorite paradox?
Women are too emotional to lead, but also responsible for managing everyone's emotions

#Feminism #Patriarchy #EverydaySexism #EmotionalLabor

What's a patriarch's favorite paradox?
Women are too emotional to lead, but also responsible for managing everyone's emotions

#Feminism #Patriarchy #EverydaySexism #EmotionalLabor

What's a patriarch's favorite paradox?
Women are too emotional to lead, but also responsible for managing everyone's emotions

#Feminism #Patriarchy #EverydaySexism #EmotionalLabor

What's a patriarch's favorite paradox?
Women are too emotional to lead, but also responsible for managing everyone's emotions

#Feminism #Patriarchy #EverydaySexism #EmotionalLabor

If any of you #men following me missed my mutuals' post - expressing gratitude for men who stepped up & helped take on some of the emotional labour than women have shouldered - please read it, first:

https://disabled.social/@vlrny/116325171044986558

Then - make your own decision on whether to be a silent enabler of misogyny or a comrade to women who have to deal with misogynist wankerbutternoodles here.
You also can choose to support anti-ableism by speaking out against it, in public (like many women already have!) or keep on silently enabling it by choosing to be friendly to ableists who are also misogynistic.

Many women & disabled folks are watching. We notice who steps up & who does not. You can do better than stay silent about misogynists - as men - that call has to come, loudly, from within the mens' arena. You can do better than silently enable ableism - that call has to come from non-disabled folks.

Stop being OK with letting women & disabled folks take more hits - because you lack courage to take some of the emotional labour off our overburdened backs.

*You're supposed to feel some discomfort reading this - if you've failed to use your privileges as men to do better than be silent enablers of your fellow men.*

#AllMen #PeopleWithDisabilities #StopMisogyny
#StopAbleism #BraveUp #GrowSomeCourage #EmotionalLabor #Intersectionality #DoBetterMen #Patriarchy #Enablers

If any of you #men following me missed my mutuals' post - expressing gratitude for men who stepped up & helped take on some of the emotional labour than women have shouldered - please read it, first:

https://disabled.social/@vlrny/116325171044986558

Then - make your own decision on whether to be a silent enabler of misogyny or a comrade to women who have to deal with misogynist wankerbutternoodles here.
You also can choose to support anti-ableism by speaking out against it, in public (like many women already have!) or keep on silently enabling it by choosing to be friendly to ableists who are also misogynistic.

Many women & disabled folks are watching. We notice who steps up & who does not. You can do better than stay silent about misogynists - as men - that call has to come, loudly, from within the mens' arena. You can do better than silently enable ableism - that call has to come from non-disabled folks.

Stop being OK with letting women & disabled folks take more hits - because you lack courage to take some of the emotional labour off our overburdened backs.

*You're supposed to feel some discomfort reading this - if you've failed to use your privileges as men to do better than be silent enablers of your fellow men.*

#AllMen #PeopleWithDisabilities #StopMisogyny
#StopAbleism #BraveUp #GrowSomeCourage #EmotionalLabor #Intersectionality #DoBetterMen #Patriarchy #Enablers

If any of you #men following me missed my mutuals' post - expressing gratitude for men who stepped up & helped take on some of the emotional labour than women have shouldered - please read it, first:

https://disabled.social/@vlrny/116325171044986558

Then - make your own decision on whether to be a silent enabler of misogyny or a comrade to women who have to deal with misogynist wankerbutternoodles here.
You also can choose to support anti-ableism by speaking out against it, in public (like many women already have!) or keep on silently enabling it by choosing to be friendly to ableists who are also misogynistic.

Many women & disabled folks are watching. We notice who steps up & who does not. You can do better than stay silent about misogynists - as men - that call has to come, loudly, from within the mens' arena. You can do better than silently enable ableism - that call has to come from non-disabled folks.

Stop being OK with letting women & disabled folks take more hits - because you lack courage to take some of the emotional labour off our overburdened backs.

*You're supposed to feel some discomfort reading this - if you've failed to use your privileges as men to do better than be silent enablers of your fellow men.*

#AllMen #PeopleWithDisabilities #StopMisogyny
#StopAbleism #BraveUp #GrowSomeCourage #EmotionalLabor #Intersectionality #DoBetterMen #Patriarchy #Enablers

If any of you #men following me missed my mutuals' post - expressing gratitude for men who stepped up & helped take on some of the emotional labour than women have shouldered - please read it, first:

https://disabled.social/@vlrny/116325171044986558

Then - make your own decision on whether to be a silent enabler of misogyny or a comrade to women who have to deal with misogynist wankerbutternoodles here.
You also can choose to support anti-ableism by speaking out against it, in public (like many women already have!) or keep on silently enabling it by choosing to be friendly to ableists who are also misogynistic.

Many women & disabled folks are watching. We notice who steps up & who does not. You can do better than stay silent about misogynists - as men - that call has to come, loudly, from within the mens' arena. You can do better than silently enable ableism - that call has to come from non-disabled folks.

Stop being OK with letting women & disabled folks take more hits - because you lack courage to take some of the emotional labour off our overburdened backs.

*You're supposed to feel some discomfort reading this - if you've failed to use your privileges as men to do better than be silent enablers of your fellow men.*

#AllMen #PeopleWithDisabilities #StopMisogyny
#StopAbleism #BraveUp #GrowSomeCourage #EmotionalLabor #Intersectionality #DoBetterMen #Patriarchy #Enablers

If any of you #men following me missed my mutuals' post - expressing gratitude for men who stepped up & helped take on some of the emotional labour than women have shouldered - please read it, first:

https://disabled.social/@vlrny/116325171044986558

Then - make your own decision on whether to be a silent enabler of misogyny or a comrade to women who have to deal with misogynist wankerbutternoodles here.
You also can choose to support anti-ableism by speaking out against it, in public (like many women already have!) or keep on silently enabling it by choosing to be friendly to ableists who are also misogynistic.

Many women & disabled folks are watching. We notice who steps up & who does not. You can do better than stay silent about misogynists - as men - that call has to come, loudly, from within the mens' arena. You can do better than silently enable ableism - that call has to come from non-disabled folks.

Stop being OK with letting women & disabled folks take more hits - because you lack courage to take some of the emotional labour off our overburdened backs.

*You're supposed to feel some discomfort reading this - if you've failed to use your privileges as men to do better than be silent enablers of your fellow men.*

#AllMen #PeopleWithDisabilities #StopMisogyny
#StopAbleism #BraveUp #GrowSomeCourage #EmotionalLabor #Intersectionality #DoBetterMen #Patriarchy #Enablers

We call it strength.

But it doesn’t land the same on everyone.

Some people are allowed to break.
Others are expected to carry on.

This piece follows that difference, and what it reveals about care, power, and who gets to be human in public.

https://associationredefine.substack.com/p/the-world-runs-on-other-peoples-strength?r=6l8ed8

#CivicIntelligence
#CarePolitics
#SocialJustice
#Inequality
#EmotionalLabor
#Resilience
#SystemsThinking
#Democracy

We call it strength.

But it doesn’t land the same on everyone.

Some people are allowed to break.
Others are expected to carry on.

This piece follows that difference, and what it reveals about care, power, and who gets to be human in public.

https://associationredefine.substack.com/p/the-world-runs-on-other-peoples-strength?r=6l8ed8

#CivicIntelligence
#CarePolitics
#SocialJustice
#Inequality
#EmotionalLabor
#Resilience
#SystemsThinking
#Democracy

We call it strength.

But it doesn’t land the same on everyone.

Some people are allowed to break.
Others are expected to carry on.

This piece follows that difference, and what it reveals about care, power, and who gets to be human in public.

https://associationredefine.substack.com/p/the-world-runs-on-other-peoples-strength?r=6l8ed8

#CivicIntelligence
#CarePolitics
#SocialJustice
#Inequality
#EmotionalLabor
#Resilience
#SystemsThinking
#Democracy

We call it strength.

But it doesn’t land the same on everyone.

Some people are allowed to break.
Others are expected to carry on.

This piece follows that difference, and what it reveals about care, power, and who gets to be human in public.

https://associationredefine.substack.com/p/the-world-runs-on-other-peoples-strength?r=6l8ed8

#CivicIntelligence
#CarePolitics
#SocialJustice
#Inequality
#EmotionalLabor
#Resilience
#SystemsThinking
#Democracy

We call it strength.

But it doesn’t land the same on everyone.

Some people are allowed to break.
Others are expected to carry on.

This piece follows that difference, and what it reveals about care, power, and who gets to be human in public.

https://associationredefine.substack.com/p/the-world-runs-on-other-peoples-strength?r=6l8ed8

#CivicIntelligence
#CarePolitics
#SocialJustice
#Inequality
#EmotionalLabor
#Resilience
#SystemsThinking
#Democracy

The price of doing it all: Women and the myth of total independence https://english.mathrubhumi.com/lifestyle/women/strong-woman-paradox-hyper-independence-burnout-shtoyucf?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=mastodon #StrongWomen #Independence #Burnout #EmotionalLabor

The price of doing it all: Women and the myth of total independence https://english.mathrubhumi.com/lifestyle/women/strong-woman-paradox-hyper-independence-burnout-shtoyucf?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=mastodon #StrongWomen #Independence #Burnout #EmotionalLabor

The price of doing it all: Women and the myth of total independence https://english.mathrubhumi.com/lifestyle/women/strong-woman-paradox-hyper-independence-burnout-shtoyucf?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=mastodon #StrongWomen #Independence #Burnout #EmotionalLabor

This is worth a read: AI filling the function of "wife". It goes in several interesting directions that I can't comment on because I haven't used and compared the various LLMs. Thought-provoking.

https://abiawomosu.substack.com/p/they-built-stepford-ai-and-called

#AI #LLMs #AgenticAI #EmotionalLabor #Stepford

This is worth a read: AI filling the function of "wife". It goes in several interesting directions that I can't comment on because I haven't used and compared the various LLMs. Thought-provoking.

https://abiawomosu.substack.com/p/they-built-stepford-ai-and-called

#AI #LLMs #AgenticAI #EmotionalLabor #Stepford

This is worth a read: AI filling the function of "wife". It goes in several interesting directions that I can't comment on because I haven't used and compared the various LLMs. Thought-provoking.

https://abiawomosu.substack.com/p/they-built-stepford-ai-and-called

#AI #LLMs #AgenticAI #EmotionalLabor #Stepford

This is worth a read: AI filling the function of "wife". It goes in several interesting directions that I can't comment on because I haven't used and compared the various LLMs. Thought-provoking.

https://abiawomosu.substack.com/p/they-built-stepford-ai-and-called

#AI #LLMs #AgenticAI #EmotionalLabor #Stepford

This is worth a read: AI filling the function of "wife". It goes in several interesting directions that I can't comment on because I haven't used and compared the various LLMs. Thought-provoking.

https://abiawomosu.substack.com/p/they-built-stepford-ai-and-called

#AI #LLMs #AgenticAI #EmotionalLabor #Stepford

‘I Am Begging You to Listen’ A Nurse Exposes Systemic Healthcare Failure

This response amplifies a nurse’s plea for change as healthcare workers face trauma, abuse, and systemic neglect across America.

‘I Am Begging You to Listen’ A Nurse Exposes Systemic Healthcare Failure

This response amplifies a nurse’s plea for change as healthcare workers face trauma, abuse, and systemic neglect across America.

‘I Am Begging You to Listen’ A Nurse Exposes Systemic Healthcare Failure

This response amplifies a nurse’s plea for change as healthcare workers face trauma, abuse, and systemic neglect across America.

‘I Am Begging You to Listen’ A Nurse Exposes Systemic Healthcare Failure

This response amplifies a nurse’s plea for change as healthcare workers face trauma, abuse, and systemic neglect across America.

#MentalHealth #Gaslighting #ToxicParents #FamilyDynamics #Meme #NPCMeme #EmotionalLabor #Relatable #Boundaries #Healing

Active Constructive Responding 4/10
The usual response is polite endurance: nodding, half-smiling, quietly counting minutes until dessert arrives. Survival mode activated. 🍰
#PoliteEndurance #EmotionalLabor #HolidaySurvival

Dating can be tiring for anyone. For disabled daters, it often means repeating the same explanations, managing others’ discomfort, and pushing through fatigue just to stay present. This piece reflects on dating burnout, the need for rest, and why slowing down is not failure—but care.
#Disability #DatingFatigue #EmotionalLabor
https://includate.com/dating-fatigue-why-disabled-dating-feels-so-exhausting/