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#emotionallabour — Public Fediverse posts

Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #emotionallabour, aggregated by home.social.

  1. "She’d been dating Max for a few months when it struck her — mid-conversation with a friend — that she had no idea what he felt about her or their future.
    "So she stopped asking."

    As Pepper puts it, it’s “fine to give boys and men some homework.” This homework begins with fostering self-awareness, emotional literacy and responsibility for your actions.

    By Alice Lassman: buzzfeed.com/alicelassman/mank

    #single #incel #relationship #relationships #emotionalLabor #emotionalLabour #emotions #masculinity

  2. As expected, no empathy or compassion was shown in response to my "deep" introductory post—only an expectation and a request for me to provide additional work and #EmotionalLabour for the unit coordinator (which, I had already completed).

    So yes, while I appreciate that there was no #InspirationPorn, it would be nice to hear that they acknowledge it and are happy to support if needed.

    #Disability #Equity #Inclusion #Accessibility

  3. CW: neurodivergence/burnout 4/n

    And every time I have to go through that, I can feel how much it wipes me out.

    Now of course that one is exacerbated by the high stakes, i.e. knowing how much another round of covid would probably mess me up. It's scary.

    But I do think that part of it is the effort of presenting a diplomatic front. Emotional labour to not be angry with them, cognitive labour for how to explain it so they'll understand.

    #masking #EmotionalLabour #burnout

  4. So far, in my experience I have disproven unilateral social reciprocity and relational inequity.

    Two out of three tenets. Would be all three, but I keep holding up the last one.

    #ActuallyAutistic #AuDHD #cPTSD #EmotionalLabour #Enby #Queer #SocialCohesionTheory

  5. Links to Pret A Manger issues incl ongoing mislabelling, mouldy food, systemic workplace bullying, £800,000 fine after staff in freezer, wage theft, hiked prices for lower quality, bad press, £700 million debt etc. etc.

    linktr.ee/expret.org <

    #pret #pretamanger #expretDOTorg #foodsafety #foodallergies #foodallergy #emotionallabour #emotionallabor

  6. @APBBlue @rockmastermike
    Perfect! The females of the species tend to do an enormous amount of #EmotionalLabour and it's perfectly fine to get reimbursed from time to time.

  7. Gefühlt,ist es fast leichter,wenn es um Medikamente gehe,weil ich da eh beschränkte Freiheit habe viel zu entscheiden.Aber zB Mobilisation,Wundbehandlung,Diabetesmanagement,Trinkmengerestriktion.Das sind wirklich jeden Tag Minenfelder.
    Ich habe das Gefühl,dass die Anerkennung für #EmotionalLabour fehlt.
    Sie laugt aus.

  8. Good morning! Today from Lund, Sweden, where I will talk about my work with #ResearchSupportPartnershipUiO between the University of Oslo Library & the Dept. of Archeology, Conservation and History.
    I will give a talk at the research seminar series for mediated culture and information: kultur.lu.se/en/research/semin
    I will also talk about #EmotionalLabour #CompetitionForResources, Norwegian academic peculiarities and how (or not) the library deals with these.
    Will write it up in a blog post later!

  9. Finally warm enough to get into bee hives. One hive is lost. After doing the post mortem, I think this hive had lost the queen possibly last fall. Top box completely full of honey, bottom box with empty brood frames surrounded by honey. Dead bees mostly just on the bottom. There had been a couple of huge die-offs when there was still snow on the ground. Still some were alive 4 weeks ago but soon after were done. It sucks but they were never a strong hive right from the beginning. In retrospect, I should have re-queened last summer.

    Strong hive is 2 boxes full of bees. They still have honey but they had eaten all the candy board and all the pollen pattie I gave them a couple of weeks ago. Very active and healthy. Still not warm enough to do a full inspection. I think this one needs to be split as soon as weather and resources permit. The nice thing was that even though it was quite an intrusion to them and they got pretty excited, they were not aggressive to me. I am happy how these genetics are playing out.

    Have a new nuc from the same place as the strong box coming in 4 weeks so they will get full frames of honey to start them off. Hail to the Wee Girls.

    #beekeeping #bees #homesteading #EmotionalLabour #Learning

  10. CW: CW: reporting anti-Black racism in the fediverse

    Some may say that we have an obligation to then teach anti-racism to these other groups of users on certain instances. That is probably true. But it is important to realize that this means extra #emotionallabour for Black and minoritized folk who want to join the #fediverse, if we white people are not willing to do the labor.