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  1. CW: Meds (ADHD/AuDHD) - switching split dose from 2 equal doses to 1 larger and 1 smaller dose

    We've been on a split dose of lisdexamfetamine (Elvanse) daily for a while now. This has involved 2 x 30 mg doses, typically between 90 to 120 mins apart.

    As of today, at our request, we're trialling a split dose where we start with 40 mg, then follow that with 20 mg within the same approximate time window.

    The hope is that this will help give us a little bit more of a quicker boost to focus in the morning, whilst giving us a bit more of a drop-off in the evening.

    We're also still on guanfacine prolonged release (Intuniv) nightly alongside the lisdexamfetamine, which has honestly been fantastic for us as an AuDHD entity with intense anxiety and RSD. We're currently on 4 mg of this night, but hoping to increase it to 5 mg soon.

    Based on our own research and experience, somewhere between 4 and 6 mg should be ideal. 5 or 6 mg will likely be the sweet spot.

    Per previous posts we've done, it took a lot of persuasion and self-advocation to convince our UK ADHD healthcare provider to even let us have a split dose of lisdexamfetamine, let alone convincing them to prescribe a combo of complementary meds, since both are unlicensed (aka off-label).

    If you want to do the same, we recommend preparing links to articles or resources showing:

    • The benefits of a split dose.
    • The benefits of a combo of meds.
    • The known interactions between such meds, such as via a drugs interaction checker.

    You should be prepared to:

    • Be advised that they may need to discuss this further, rather than agreeing immediately.
    • Be told that they can only make one change to your medication at a time.
    • Advise them in detail why you are making this request, from a neurodivergent and mental health / wellbeing point of view.

    If you're asking for a combination with guanfacine, you may need to traumadump / mental-health-dump (after asking for consent) in order to persuade them to trial the meds.

    It's not easy, and you'll need to be as kind as possible at all times to get them on your side, but it is possible to get what you need if you get an empathetic and caring clinician.

    The above might sound manipulative, but this is what self-advocation can look like sometimes. It's a mixture of letting the mask slip a bit to be emotionally honest, employing rhetorical techniques, and being kind and polite at all times.

    It's not easy, even if you're good at all of those things.

    You can always request permission for an advocate on any calls or appointments with you to help.

    #ADHD #AuDHD #lisdexamfetamine #guanfacine #Elvanse #Intuniv #neurodivergent #neurospicy #neurodivergence #neurospiciness #SplitDose #ComboMeds #MentalHealth #anxiety #RSD #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria

  2. CW: Meds (ADHD/AuDHD) - switching split dose from 2 equal doses to 1 larger and 1 smaller dose

    We've been on a split dose of lisdexamfetamine (Elvanse) daily for a while now. This has involved 2 x 30 mg doses, typically between 90 to 120 mins apart.

    As of today, at our request, we're trialling a split dose where we start with 40 mg, then follow that with 20 mg within the same approximate time window.

    The hope is that this will help give us a little bit more of a quicker boost to focus in the morning, whilst giving us a bit more of a drop-off in the evening.

    We're also still on guanfacine prolonged release (Intuniv) nightly alongside the lisdexamfetamine, which has honestly been fantastic for us as an AuDHD entity with intense anxiety and RSD. We're currently on 4 mg of this night, but hoping to increase it to 5 mg soon.

    Based on our own research and experience, somewhere between 4 and 6 mg should be ideal. 5 or 6 mg will likely be the sweet spot.

    Per previous posts we've done, it took a lot of persuasion and self-advocation to convince our UK ADHD healthcare provider to even let us have a split dose of lisdexamfetamine, let alone convincing them to prescribe a combo of complementary meds, since both are unlicensed (aka off-label).

    If you want to do the same, we recommend preparing links to articles or resources showing:

    • The benefits of a split dose.
    • The benefits of a combo of meds.
    • The known interactions between such meds, such as via a drugs interaction checker.

    You should be prepared to:

    • Be advised that they may need to discuss this further, rather than agreeing immediately.
    • Be told that they can only make one change to your medication at a time.
    • Advise them in detail why you are making this request, from a neurodivergent and mental health / wellbeing point of view.

    If you're asking for a combination with guanfacine, you may need to traumadump / mental-health-dump (after asking for consent) in order to persuade them to trial the meds.

    It's not easy, and you'll need to be as kind as possible at all times to get them on your side, but it is possible to get what you need if you get an empathetic and caring clinician.

    The above might sound manipulative, but this is what self-advocation can look like sometimes. It's a mixture of letting the mask slip a bit to be emotionally honest, employing rhetorical techniques, and being kind and polite at all times.

    It's not easy, even if you're good at all of those things.

    You can always request permission for an advocate on any calls or appointments with you to help.

    #ADHD #AuDHD #lisdexamfetamine #guanfacine #Elvanse #Intuniv #neurodivergent #neurospicy #neurodivergence #neurospiciness #SplitDose #ComboMeds #MentalHealth #anxiety #RSD #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria

  3. CW: Meds (ADHD/AuDHD) - switching split dose from 2 equal doses to 1 larger and 1 smaller dose

    We've been on a split dose of lisdexamfetamine (Elvanse) daily for a while now. This has involved 2 x 30 mg doses, typically between 90 to 120 mins apart.

    As of today, at our request, we're trialling a split dose where we start with 40 mg, then follow that with 20 mg within the same approximate time window.

    The hope is that this will help give us a little bit more of a quicker boost to focus in the morning, whilst giving us a bit more of a drop-off in the evening.

    We're also still on guanfacine prolonged release (Intuniv) nightly alongside the lisdexamfetamine, which has honestly been fantastic for us as an AuDHD entity with intense anxiety and RSD. We're currently on 4 mg of this night, but hoping to increase it to 5 mg soon.

    Based on our own research and experience, somewhere between 4 and 6 mg should be ideal. 5 or 6 mg will likely be the sweet spot.

    Per previous posts we've done, it took a lot of persuasion and self-advocation to convince our UK ADHD healthcare provider to even let us have a split dose of lisdexamfetamine, let alone convincing them to prescribe a combo of complementary meds, since both are unlicensed (aka off-label).

    If you want to do the same, we recommend preparing links to articles or resources showing:

    • The benefits of a split dose.
    • The benefits of a combo of meds.
    • The known interactions between such meds, such as via a drugs interaction checker.

    You should be prepared to:

    • Be advised that they may need to discuss this further, rather than agreeing immediately.
    • Be told that they can only make one change to your medication at a time.
    • Advise them in detail why you are making this request, from a neurodivergent and mental health / wellbeing point of view.

    If you're asking for a combination with guanfacine, you may need to traumadump / mental-health-dump (after asking for consent) in order to persuade them to trial the meds.

    It's not easy, and you'll need to be as kind as possible at all times to get them on your side, but it is possible to get what you need if you get an empathetic and caring clinician.

    The above might sound manipulative, but this is what self-advocation can look like sometimes. It's a mixture of letting the mask slip a bit to be emotionally honest, employing rhetorical techniques, and being kind and polite at all times.

    It's not easy, even if you're good at all of those things.

    You can always request permission for an advocate on any calls or appointments with you to help.

    #ADHD #AuDHD #lisdexamfetamine #guanfacine #Elvanse #Intuniv #neurodivergent #neurospicy #neurodivergence #neurospiciness #SplitDose #ComboMeds #MentalHealth #anxiety #RSD #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria

  4. CW: Meds (ADHD/AuDHD) - switching split dose from 2 equal doses to 1 larger and 1 smaller dose

    We've been on a split dose of lisdexamfetamine (Elvanse) daily for a while now. This has involved 2 x 30 mg doses, typically between 90 to 120 mins apart.

    As of today, at our request, we're trialling a split dose where we start with 40 mg, then follow that with 20 mg within the same approximate time window.

    The hope is that this will help give us a little bit more of a quicker boost to focus in the morning, whilst giving us a bit more of a drop-off in the evening.

    We're also still on guanfacine prolonged release (Intuniv) nightly alongside the lisdexamfetamine, which has honestly been fantastic for us as an AuDHD entity with intense anxiety and RSD. We're currently on 4 mg of this night, but hoping to increase it to 5 mg soon.

    Based on our own research and experience, somewhere between 4 and 6 mg should be ideal. 5 or 6 mg will likely be the sweet spot.

    Per previous posts we've done, it took a lot of persuasion and self-advocation to convince our UK ADHD healthcare provider to even let us have a split dose of lisdexamfetamine, let alone convincing them to prescribe a combo of complementary meds, since both are unlicensed (aka off-label).

    If you want to do the same, we recommend preparing links to articles or resources showing:

    • The benefits of a split dose.
    • The benefits of a combo of meds.
    • The known interactions between such meds, such as via a drugs interaction checker.

    You should be prepared to:

    • Be advised that they may need to discuss this further, rather than agreeing immediately.
    • Be told that they can only make one change to your medication at a time.
    • Advise them in detail why you are making this request, from a neurodivergent and mental health / wellbeing point of view.

    If you're asking for a combination with guanfacine, you may need to traumadump / mental-health-dump (after asking for consent) in order to persuade them to trial the meds.

    It's not easy, and you'll need to be as kind as possible at all times to get them on your side, but it is possible to get what you need if you get an empathetic and caring clinician.

    The above might sound manipulative, but this is what self-advocation can look like sometimes. It's a mixture of letting the mask slip a bit to be emotionally honest, employing rhetorical techniques, and being kind and polite at all times.

    It's not easy, even if you're good at all of those things.

    You can always request permission for an advocate on any calls or appointments with you to help.

    #ADHD #AuDHD #lisdexamfetamine #guanfacine #Elvanse #Intuniv #neurodivergent #neurospicy #neurodivergence #neurospiciness #SplitDose #ComboMeds #MentalHealth #anxiety #RSD #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria

  5. CW: Meds (ADHD/AuDHD) - switching split dose from 2 equal doses to 1 larger and 1 smaller dose

    We've been on a split dose of lisdexamfetamine (Elvanse) daily for a while now. This has involved 2 x 30 mg doses, typically between 90 to 120 mins apart.

    As of today, at our request, we're trialling a split dose where we start with 40 mg, then follow that with 20 mg within the same approximate time window.

    The hope is that this will help give us a little bit more of a quicker boost to focus in the morning, whilst giving us a bit more of a drop-off in the evening.

    We're also still on guanfacine prolonged release (Intuniv) nightly alongside the lisdexamfetamine, which has honestly been fantastic for us as an AuDHD entity with intense anxiety and RSD. We're currently on 4 mg of this night, but hoping to increase it to 5 mg soon.

    Based on our own research and experience, somewhere between 4 and 6 mg should be ideal. 5 or 6 mg will likely be the sweet spot.

    Per previous posts we've done, it took a lot of persuasion and self-advocation to convince our UK ADHD healthcare provider to even let us have a split dose of lisdexamfetamine, let alone convincing them to prescribe a combo of complementary meds, since both are unlicensed (aka off-label).

    If you want to do the same, we recommend preparing links to articles or resources showing:

    • The benefits of a split dose.
    • The benefits of a combo of meds.
    • The known interactions between such meds, such as via a drugs interaction checker.

    You should be prepared to:

    • Be advised that they may need to discuss this further, rather than agreeing immediately.
    • Be told that they can only make one change to your medication at a time.
    • Advise them in detail why you are making this request, from a neurodivergent and mental health / wellbeing point of view.

    If you're asking for a combination with guanfacine, you may need to traumadump / mental-health-dump (after asking for consent) in order to persuade them to trial the meds.

    It's not easy, and you'll need to be as kind as possible at all times to get them on your side, but it is possible to get what you need if you get an empathetic and caring clinician.

    The above might sound manipulative, but this is what self-advocation can look like sometimes. It's a mixture of letting the mask slip a bit to be emotionally honest, employing rhetorical techniques, and being kind and polite at all times.

    It's not easy, even if you're good at all of those things.

    You can always request permission for an advocate on any calls or appointments with you to help.

    #ADHD #AuDHD #lisdexamfetamine #guanfacine #Elvanse #Intuniv #neurodivergent #neurospicy #neurodivergence #neurospiciness #SplitDose #ComboMeds #MentalHealth #anxiety #RSD #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria

  6. Does your brain’s default setting tell you that everyone secretly hates you? That was my reality for years before I understood Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). It’s not about being ‘too sensitive’; it's a genuine neurological response common in neurodivergent brains.

    #NeurodivergentWomen, #ADHDCommunity, #AutisticAdults, #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria, #RSD, #EmotionalRegulation, #NeurodivergentStruggles, #MentalHealthAwareness, #SelfAcceptance

  7. CW: ADHD meds - positive

    New prescription arrived this morning 🥰

    We'll be starting the guanfacine Monday night, as Monday is the beginning of a week in the UK and -- for highly-neurospicy reasons -- we need to start any regular medications on a Monday (the start of the week).

    We're aware that the order of the days of the week don't make any logical sense, but we live in a country that follows the ISO 8601 weekday order, which means weeks starts with the moon and end with the sun.

    Also, yes: we're aware we're likely OCD too, but we can't really do anything about that right now 😅

    Someone should really redo the weekday, as well as the entire Gregorian calendar, to make them make actual sense.

    #ADHD #AuDHD #guanfacine #lisdexamfetamine #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria #RSD #anxiety #EmotionalDysregulation #ExecutiveDysfunction #neurodivergent #neurospicy #ProbablyOCDTooTBPH

  8. Why must people lie? Socially ahv been turnt doon more than the bedding at the Luxor in Vegas. WHY must people ghost me instead of just saying "get tae fuck!" or something tae that effect? My #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria and #OCPD responds better tae truth. #dating #polyamory #relationships #old #ExpiredWarranty #fat #boring #MyBrainIsSeriouslyBroken #MajorDepressiveDisorder #Dysthymia

  9. My explanation for MANY of mah reactions are #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria and severe #SelfHatred. I hate this but I also cannae escape it. My #MentalHealth team helps me cope, but mah monsters hae the upper hand as it were. #ImVeryBroken #ImSorry