#unsolicitedadvice — Public Fediverse posts
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https://www.europesays.com/people/41989/ Trump’s daughter-in-law takes jab at Ivanka #IvankaTrump #KatieMiller #LaraTrump #MelaniaTrump #SisterInLaw #StephenMiller #Trump #UnsolicitedAdvice
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https://www.europesays.com/people/39125/ Lara Trump Admits She and Husband Eric Are the ‘Absolute Worst Gift Givers’ of the Family: ‘I Always Fail’ #EricTrump #GiftGivers #HusbandEric #Ivanka #LaraTrump #POTUS #PresidentOfTheUnitedStates #UnsolicitedAdvice
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https://www.europesays.com/people/37939/ Lara Trump Shades Sister-in-Law Ivanka, Says She ‘Gives’ the Family ‘the Most Unsolicited Advice’ #BarronTrump #EricTrump #Ivanka #LaraTrump #Trump #UnsolicitedAdvice
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Homeowner frustrated with neighbor repeatedly crossing yard boundary, unsolicited gardening https://www.allforgardening.com/1703712/homeowner-frustrated-with-neighbor-repeatedly-crossing-yard-boundary-unsolicited-gardening-2/ #garden #neighbor #UnsolicitedAdvice
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Homeowner frustrated with neighbor repeatedly crossing yard boundary, unsolicited gardening https://www.allforgardening.com/1703712/homeowner-frustrated-with-neighbor-repeatedly-crossing-yard-boundary-unsolicited-gardening-2/ #garden #neighbor #UnsolicitedAdvice
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@taseroth welcome to pickle hell ✨
Nicht sicher ob noch relevant, aber schau maybe mal Richtung joblib als Alternative. #unsolicitedadvice -
A man tried to fix a female golfer's swing. He didn't know she was a PGA pro.
https://fed.brid.gy/r/https://www.upworthy.com/mansplaining-golfer-ex1
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If during the first act a mutable datum is constructed,
by the last act it should be duly modified.
(Following Chekhov out of context.)Seriously: use immutable data as much as you can.
#ComputerProgramming
#Paraphrases
#QuasiFunctionalStyle
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Why unsolicited advice is often unwelcome:
1. feels like criticism:
The advice often implies the recipient is incapable of handling the situation or lacks the necessary knowledge.2. undermines autonomy:
Giving advice without being asked can suggest a lack of faith in the person's ability to make their own choices.3 intrusive:
It can feel like someone is "butting into your business".4. may stem from the giver's discomfort:
The person giving advice might be trying to relieve their own stress or a desire to feel needed, rather than focusing on the recipient's actual needs.
5. bypasses active listening:
Advice-givers might not fully understand the situation because they are busy formulating their own solutions. -
Some people can't help giving "advice" IRL or online. Know anyone like that? Imagine walking up to someone at work (you don't know them and vice versa but you're giving UA / Unsolicited Advice).
IMHO: CRINGE.
ICYMI
Unsolicited advice is advice, feedback, or suggestions that were not requested by the recipient. It can often feel critical, judgmental, or intrusive and may undermine a person's sense of competence and autonomy.While often given with good intentions, #unsolicitedadvice can damage relationships, cause stress, and hinder a person's ability to solve their own problems.
A more supportive approach involves active listening, expressing empathy, and asking for permission before offering input.
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Please, no unsolicited advice on my page. It makes me spiral.
#ActuallyAutistic #ActuallyOwltistic #AutismAcceptance #Autistic #Autism #Neurodivergent #InvisibleDisability #webcomics #UnsolicitedAdvice #RSD #ADHD #AuDHD #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria
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Please, no unsolicited advice on my page. It makes me spiral.
#ActuallyAutistic #ActuallyOwltistic #AutismAcceptance #Autistic #Autism #Neurodivergent #InvisibleDisability #webcomics #UnsolicitedAdvice #RSD #ADHD #AuDHD #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria
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Please, no unsolicited advice on my page. It makes me spiral.
#ActuallyAutistic #ActuallyOwltistic #AutismAcceptance #Autistic #Autism #Neurodivergent #InvisibleDisability #webcomics #UnsolicitedAdvice #RSD #ADHD #AuDHD #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria
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Please, no unsolicited advice on my page. It makes me spiral.
#ActuallyAutistic #ActuallyOwltistic #AutismAcceptance #Autistic #Autism #Neurodivergent #InvisibleDisability #webcomics #UnsolicitedAdvice #RSD #ADHD #AuDHD #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria
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Please, no unsolicited advice on my page. It makes me spiral.
#ActuallyAutistic #ActuallyOwltistic #AutismAcceptance #Autistic #Autism #Neurodivergent #InvisibleDisability #webcomics #UnsolicitedAdvice #RSD #ADHD #AuDHD #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria
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@daniel With that amount of RAM you might consider changing the zram algorithm to zstd and/or increasing the swap size. #unsolicitedadvice
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CW: Selfie ec
@scattapilla I can't do eyeliner either, and I've been trying for 30 years. I use an angled eyeliner brush and apply eyeshadow directly to the lash line. Looks more subtle but also more forgiving with wonky application, no smudges and streaks, and you can get some great colors that way. A moist brush will give a deeper color with more staying power. #UnsolicitedAdvice
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@redsad
"In my vat of gravy" has better scansion, I think. #UnsolicitedAdvice -
Advice can get you into more trouble than a gun can.
Will Rogers (1879-1935) American humorist
Column (1933-08-20), “Weekly Article: Don’t Get Excited,” No. 556Sourcing, notes: wist.info/rogers-will/76269/
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #willrogers #advice #counsel #helping #meddling #patronization #trouble #unsolicitedadvice
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Advice can get you into more trouble than a gun can.
Will Rogers (1879-1935) American humorist
Column (1933-08-20), “Weekly Article: Don’t Get Excited,” No. 556Sourcing, notes: wist.info/rogers-will/76269/
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #willrogers #advice #counsel #helping #meddling #patronization #trouble #unsolicitedadvice
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Advice can get you into more trouble than a gun can.
Will Rogers (1879-1935) American humorist
Column (1933-08-20), “Weekly Article: Don’t Get Excited,” No. 556Sourcing, notes: wist.info/rogers-will/76269/
#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #willrogers #advice #counsel #helping #meddling #patronization #trouble #unsolicitedadvice
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I wish something like #UnsolicitedAdvice would take off for a hashtag, for those "not enjoying the rise of fascism? Do <bunch of things a bunch of people would love to have the ability to do>" toots which people love to make.
I would just like to be able to stick them behind a CW and choose when to see them. -
unsolicited advice: memorize phone numbers of a few people (with good contacts) who will actually help you if something unusual happens to you (usually that ain't your momma) #resist #safetyfirst #unsolicitedadvice #uspol #SorryMom
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@jcrabapple @austincnunn I wish Vans (and Chucks) fit me. I’ve got oddly square feet lol.
I did find these a few years ago and love them. Not quite a skate shoe but they look good and wear great. https://xeroshoes.com/shop/shoes/dillon-canvas-men/
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In this, as in many other situations,
I see a lot of people imply that there are universal rules, or universal ethics
(which end up just as universal as they get inside a specific subculture or city etc)..
The abhorrance on unsolicited advice sp. if done by individuals a special combination of gender identity and sex, became a thing and a cultural mark in difference instances of queer culture. And a lot of people consider it an "obvious ethic rule".
But not.
It is individual as pronouns, gender, implicit consent preference. Not obvious by the person moving in certain contexts. Don't assume.
Diversity exists also about the methods + tools used to navigate the world + build our safety and happiness.
starting fire wars if a cis dude gives unsolicited advice but not with other people signalizes that some ppl can get away with breaking etikete and rules and it was never about the rule anyway.
A mindfuck.
Think about it.
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VERY COOL #unsolicitedAdvice from @mehdihasan for Kamala Harris and the Democrats on getting the job done -- that being, at least as I see it, the conquest of overt Fascism and Feudalism, rather than ushering them in, meekly or grandly, at every F'ing opportunity to do anything at all.
I love this guy.
#journo #press #defeatFascism #defeatTrump #press #uspol #brushAsideModeration #liberalDemsBuiltToLose #endDemocratSubservience
https://zeteo.com/p/my-advice-to-kamala-harris-on-how -
Do you use fabric softener sheets? They can leave a coating on the dryness sensors. Hit 'em with an alcohol wipe and the "3" setting might work again
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#UnsolicitedAdvice
#Parenting
#Yelling
#AngerBeing retired I get more time with friends of all stripes. Something has recently really stood out to me.
All of my male buddies adulate their fathers, but the ones who had fathers that shouted or otherwise bullied them all have issues because of it.
College guys I know, blue collar guys I know.
Try to not yell at children. It harms them. Parenting lasts your child’s full lifetime. Everything you do counts.
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#CookingTip
#MoneySavingTip
#UnsolicitedAdvice
#FreeMoney
#CookingI keep three 64oz jars of stock in the fridge. They’re great for making soups or for use in anything that has a liquid base. I use it nearly every time I cook.
The problem is stock is expensive – three dollars or more for a quart.
#Tip: Purchase a rotisserie chicken, bone and skin it, and then divide the drippings, carcass and skin into three freezer bags. Set the meat aside for anything you want to make with chicken.
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#unsolicitedAdvice In this world you can get a lot more done if your ego isn't attached to what people think of you or your actions.
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CW: re: my wish for year 2024
@uncomfyhalomacro So, as someone who does a lot of interviews for devs, I have some advice if you want it.
Start doing some volunteer code work in a FOSS project, and maintain a public github/bitbucket with your code projects.
The very FIRST thing I do when looking at a resume is look to see if the person has anything they wrote up in github, I can tell a LOT from looking at their code. I can guage ability, dedication, and rough adherence to good code practices, I can tell about how good of a learning base you have as a programmer, etc.
Most other people in my position will do the same, and TBH, we are the folks you'd be working with because we are the team leads and the system engineers running the various groups in IT. You want a coding position? Start there, make it easy for us. It will also lead into some interesting interview questions like "What started you working for FOSS Project?"
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Oh jeez this is a brilliant and hilarious poem by Solmaz Sharif.
Self care - a poem about unsolicited health advice.
#UnsolicitedAdvice #SelfCare #Poetry #PoetryUnbound #SolmazSharif #MECFS
