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  1. CW: Mentions of politics

    Would anyone be interested if I ever made a Substack account for my writing? It'd be for shits and giggles basically, I don't wanna feel obligated to write articles all the time. I'd probably write about politics and possibly esotericism. All of my articles would be free unless I get good traction on there.

    For more background into my politics, I'm an independent from the US with a slight left lean. I'm also a bi AuDHD woman, so I'm able to bring a healthy dose of diversity into what I do! I think universal healthcare, inflation and privacy are the biggest issues in the US currently. That said, I'm also very passionate about neurodivergent advocacy and acceptance. I think neurodivergence is the biggest DEI issue that few talk about.

    #writing #WritingCommunity #politics #uspol #uspolitics #substack #substackwriters #substackpolitics #writer #writers #writersofmastodon #writerscommunity #writings #article #articles #articlewriting #independent #independentmedia #IndieMedia #indiewriter #indiewriters #indiewriting #indiewritersofmastodon #indiewritingcommunity #left_politics #left #LGBTQ #lgbtqia #bi #bisexual #AuDHD #audhdwriters #audhder #audhders #AuDHDAdvocate #adhd #ActuallyAutistic #autistic #autism #neurodivergent #neurodivergence #neurodivergency #AutismAcceptance #neurodivergentwriter #neurodiversity #dei #deipolicies #deiprograms #womenwriters #diversity

  2. 🌟 Introduction Post 🌟

    Hi everyone! 👋 I'm Lanie Molinar Carmelo (she/her), and I'm thrilled to join the amazing community here on allovertheplace.ca! Here's a little about me:

    🧑‍💻 Who I Am

    I'm a #UsabilityTester and an aspiring #AccessibilityConsultant, working to make technology better for everyone, especially those of us with disabilities. I'm most passionate about helping those with multiple disabilities, as it's an area that doesn't get enough attention.

    🐾 Meet Squeaker!

    I'm also the proud human to my 10-year-old Miniature Pinscher, Squeaker, who is the best little companion anyone could ask for. 🐕💖 He drives me nuts sometimes, but I don't know what I'd do without him. My profile picture features me with Squeaker, and my header shows him wrapped in a blanket with just his adorable face peeking out!

    📚 What I’m Studying

    I'm currently learning:

    • Digital Accessibility through the BIT Accessibility Analyst Course
    • Literary Braille Proofreading via the NLS
    • Programming on platforms like freeCodeCamp and Codecademy

    My goal is to develop accessible apps that empower people with disabilities, contribute to open-source projects that promote inclusion, and just do what I can to make the world more accessible.

    💡 What I Do

    I run or co-lead several online support groups for people with multiple disabilities. These groups provide safe spaces to connect, share resources, and talk with others who "get it." You can find them here:

    • Facebook: Multiple Disabilities Peer to Peer Support Group
    • Discord/Mailing List: MultAbilities
    • Clubhouse: People with Multiple Disabilities

    Right now, my focus is on growing these groups and making connections with others who are passionate about supporting multiply disabled individuals. If you're interested in joining or collaborating, feel free to reach out or check out my website at laniecarmelo.tech, where you'll find links to all the groups!

    🎮📖🍴 My Interests

    When I’m not advocating or studying, you can find me:

    I also love swimming 🏊‍♀️ when my health allows it.

    🛠️ My Goals

    One day, I hope to found a nonprofit organization to support multiply disabled individuals. The nonprofit would:

    • Provide peer support groups
    • Help fund assistive technology
    • Advocate for education and employment opportunities
    • Collaborate with disability-focused organizations to improve accessibility

    For now, I'm focused on running my support groups and building connections that could help make this dream a reality. If you have ideas or resources—or just want to chat—let me know! 🤝

    🤝 Let’s Connect!

    I’m always happy to chat about:

    • Accessibility in #tech or tech in general
    • Disability advocacy
    • Programming (#HTML, #JavaScript)
    • Braille
    • Books
    • Or just life in general!

    Feel free to follow me here or check out my website at laniecarmelo.tech.

    #Introduction #DisabilityCommunity #AccessibilityMatters #Blindness #AutismAcceptance #ChronicIllnessWarrior #TechForGood #DisabilityAdvocate #OpenSourceProjects #BrailleLiteracy #GamingWithDisabilities #InclusiveDesign

  3. CW: Don't be overprotective, instead encourage and guide.

    Do you have an #autistic child?

    As an autistic myself, there are some things I should have tried but did not have the courage to do so.

    Thus, my personal advice, is to _encourage_ your autistic (and NT) children to give it a try. Don't shield them because you “love them a lot”. Once they grow up, like in my experience, they will secretly always think, “I should've done this and that and see what happened, and maybe my life would be better”.

    Here are some in my case:
    * Voice acting. Our teachers, my classmates, and later work colleagues, have always said I can do well in reading. They feel the emotions and get immersed in the story.

    That's how far I did it. Today, I'm thinking, I should've taken a voice acting lesson, and maybe work as a voice actor.

    * Physical labour. I'm not choosy when it comes to job, especially at my current age, a job is a job. (As long as it isn't a crime and immoral, of course.) Sadly, I was shielded from it because they “love me so much and don't want me to go through what they went through in life”.

    The result of that wasn't good at all. I got stuck in office and BPO for a long time, and now it is so hard to move careers. My heart is in service and “people watching”, and to this day, it is so hard to get into a hotel-type of work. They either want you to have graduated in Business Administration or Hotel & Restaurant Management courses; or can carry a 30 kg baggage. Both of which I don't have.

    I had to take B.S. Mathematics and Computer Science because, well, that's what they told me… office work.

    You see, your “love” and not wanting your children to go through what you went through, can be detrimental for your children. It's fine to shield them, but it is also very easy for that shielding to limit your children's future.

    This is especially important for us autistics who are already experiencing discrimination at work, and prejudice against hiring an autistic.

    Instead of overprotecting your children, work with them. Identify what they want and see what can be done with it. If what they want would lead to “disaster” then nudge them gently to better options. Options, plural, not “what you want”.

    There are autistics who can join the workforce, and in various capacities. Encourage us and guide us, but don't be overprotective and showing only one path. It might look good at that point in time, but how about the future?

    #Autistics #ActuallyAutistics #ActuallyAutistic #OpenlyAutistic #Autism #AutismSpectrum #AutismAcceptanceMonth #WorldAutismAcceptance #AutismAcceptance

    @autistics @actuallyautistic