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  1. @canderson #Quote + comment after:

    "...like Joan Westenberg said, in the end it comes down to two things:

    keep optimizing for reach, or start optimizing for resonance."

    #Mastodon could do this:

    1/ more personally #cultivate from it's own #team.

    2/ #Add voice messages / #WebRTC / #Jitsi live voice rooms (with slightly anonymizing voice mask option to deter recording) BUT still allow the #human #contact and practices to balance out our #principles & practices in 2-way #voice #conversations.

  2. @canderson #Quote + comment after:

    "...like Joan Westenberg said, in the end it comes down to two things:

    keep optimizing for reach, or start optimizing for resonance."

    #Mastodon could do this:

    1/ more personally #cultivate from it's own #team.

    2/ #Add voice messages / #WebRTC / #Jitsi live voice rooms (with slightly anonymizing voice mask option to deter recording) BUT still allow the #human #contact and practices to balance out our #principles & practices in 2-way #voice #conversations.

  3. Assume other people are intelligent: Constant beating yourself up and self-loathing for "not getting it."

    Assume other people are stupid (*more likely accurate): CONSTANT RIGHTEOUS INDIGNATION and getting smacked down for daring to challenge "authority."


    #autism #autistic #adhd #add #audhd #audd
  4. Assume other people are intelligent: Constant beating yourself up and self-loathing for "not getting it."

    Assume other people are stupid (*more likely accurate): CONSTANT RIGHTEOUS INDIGNATION and getting smacked down for daring to challenge "authority."


    #autism #autistic #adhd #add #audhd #audd
  5. @davidgerard from my notes

    #Linux NetworkManager create br0 bridge
    sudo nmcli con add type bridge ifname br0
    sudo nmcli add type bridge-slave ifname enp41s0 master brprint0
    sudo nmcli con modify br0 bridge.stp no
    sudo nmcli con modify br0 ethernet.cloned-mac-address a8:a1:59:a0:45:11
    sudo nmcli con down "Wired connection 1"
    sudo nmcli con up br0
    #see if all went well
    sudo nmcli con show
    sudo nmcli con show --active

    #Add br0 bridge to KVM/QEMU
    create file /tmp/br0.xml with content:

    <network>
    <name>br0</name>
    <forward mode="bridge"/>
    <bridge name="br0" />
    </network>

    #let's use virsh
    sudo virsh net-define /tmp/br0.xml
    sudo virsh net-start br0
    sudo virsh net-autostart br0
    #check if all went well
    sudo virsh net-list --all

    If you don#t run NetworkManager you just have to replace that part with what you have to do for your setup

  6. @davidgerard from my notes

    #Linux NetworkManager create br0 bridge
    sudo nmcli con add type bridge ifname br0
    sudo nmcli add type bridge-slave ifname enp41s0 master brprint0
    sudo nmcli con modify br0 bridge.stp no
    sudo nmcli con modify br0 ethernet.cloned-mac-address a8:a1:59:a0:45:11
    sudo nmcli con down "Wired connection 1"
    sudo nmcli con up br0
    #see if all went well
    sudo nmcli con show
    sudo nmcli con show --active

    #Add br0 bridge to KVM/QEMU
    create file /tmp/br0.xml with content:

    <network>
    <name>br0</name>
    <forward mode="bridge"/>
    <bridge name="br0" />
    </network>

    #let's use virsh
    sudo virsh net-define /tmp/br0.xml
    sudo virsh net-start br0
    sudo virsh net-autostart br0
    #check if all went well
    sudo virsh net-list --all

    If you don#t run NetworkManager you just have to replace that part with what you have to do for your setup

  7. Gang, help. How do you have energy to DO stuff? Like-

    I have a solid 3 or 4, could be more, "projects" I'd like to devote regular time to. On top of work, I can do about one "extra" thing a day. And even on weekends I'm RECOVERING to my energy to available time ratio is technically even lower.

    Just… maybe I wouldn't hate my stupid miserable life so much if I could ACCOMPLISH some of these GOALS and DREAMS. Like music - I could be recording and releasing but - physical energy, emotional energy, SUSTAINED AND SUSTAINABLE energy, I have none.


    #autistic #autism #adhd #add #audhd #audd #musicians #musician-problems #chronic-illness #chronic-fatigue #cfs #burnout
  8. Gang, help. How do you have energy to DO stuff? Like-

    I have a solid 3 or 4, could be more, "projects" I'd like to devote regular time to. On top of work, I can do about one "extra" thing a day. And even on weekends I'm RECOVERING to my energy to available time ratio is technically even lower.

    Just… maybe I wouldn't hate my stupid miserable life so much if I could ACCOMPLISH some of these GOALS and DREAMS. Like music - I could be recording and releasing but - physical energy, emotional energy, SUSTAINED AND SUSTAINABLE energy, I have none.


    #autistic #autism #adhd #add #audhd #audd #musicians #musician-problems #chronic-illness #chronic-fatigue #cfs #burnout
  9. your mind wanders cause it wants to do something other than what you're forcing yourself to do.

    don't make a fucking disease out of it. #ADD

    #TruthWarriors#AttentionDeficitDisorder

    make a revolution out of it

    #WWResistance 🌍🧑‍🤝‍🧑 #WWRevolution 🌍🦋 #RainbowWarriors 🦋

    #justsayin

  10. your mind wanders cause it wants to do something other than what you're forcing yourself to do.

    don't make a fucking disease out of it. #ADD

    #TruthWarriors#AttentionDeficitDisorder

    make a revolution out of it

    #WWResistance 🌍🧑‍🤝‍🧑 #WWRevolution 🌍🦋 #RainbowWarriors 🦋

    #justsayin

  11. Why am I having a FREEZE panic attack about following through on a huge and extremely impulsive project that will require major amounts of time and money - but IF I pull it off, it could drastically make my life better?? And it's not like I LOSE anything by taking at least the first few steps, as far as I can until I hit a wall. Things won't get worse, they just won't change yet. I only really hurt myself by AVOIDING THE PAPERWORK LIKE A BIG OL' SCAREDY-CAT.

    But seriously, these types of hairbrained schemes are usually the ones that fire up my ADHD "new and novel challenge accepted" super mode where I can accomplish the impossible if I really just throw myself into an all-out sprint of willpower. Can't pace these things out. Gotta grab the bull by the horns and hang on for the ride. Don't slow down enough to doubt yourself. JUST DO THE PAPERWORK, CON. Geeze.


    #executive-dysfunction #task-initiation #add #audhd #anxiety
  12. Why am I having a FREEZE panic attack about following through on a huge and extremely impulsive project that will require major amounts of time and money - but IF I pull it off, it could drastically make my life better?? And it's not like I LOSE anything by taking at least the first few steps, as far as I can until I hit a wall. Things won't get worse, they just won't change yet. I only really hurt myself by AVOIDING THE PAPERWORK LIKE A BIG OL' SCAREDY-CAT.

    But seriously, these types of hairbrained schemes are usually the ones that fire up my ADHD "new and novel challenge accepted" super mode where I can accomplish the impossible if I really just throw myself into an all-out sprint of willpower. Can't pace these things out. Gotta grab the bull by the horns and hang on for the ride. Don't slow down enough to doubt yourself. JUST DO THE PAPERWORK, CON. Geeze.


    #executive-dysfunction #task-initiation #add #audhd #anxiety
  13. Seriously, why do people keep saying that?! Building better telescopes enabled us to discover more and more stars. Better screening methods and more awareness lead to more people being diagnosed. It's not rocket science.

    #neurodiversity #misinformation #autism #ADHD #ADD

  14. Seriously, why do people keep saying that?! Building better telescopes enabled us to discover more and more stars. Better screening methods and more awareness lead to more people being diagnosed. It's not rocket science.

    #neurodiversity #misinformation #autism #ADHD #ADD

  15. You know, not all of us have ADHD.

    Some of us have plain old ADD. 🥲

    #ADHD #ADD

  16. You know, not all of us have ADHD.

    Some of us have plain old ADD. 🥲

    #ADHD #ADD

  17. This article goes over the problems that are faced by girls and women with ADHD. Our presentation is different than that of boys and men, and it often goes overlooked and undiagnosed. As a woman who only received an ADHD diagnosis two weeks ago at the age of 56, this really strikes home for me.

    [Edit]
    To clairfy something someone mentioned elsewhere, boys can present with inattentive type, and girls can present with hyperactive type, but typically boys have the hyperactive type much more often than girls, and the "hyperactive boy" is the stereotype that often dominates, both in the general culture and among clinicians, which leads to inattentive type being underdiagnosed, something that affects girls a lot.

    additudemag.com/adhd-in-women-

    #ADHD #ADD #Neurodivergent

  18. This article goes over the problems that are faced by girls and women with ADHD. Our presentation is different than that of boys and men, and it often goes overlooked and undiagnosed. As a woman who only received an ADHD diagnosis two weeks ago at the age of 56, this really strikes home for me.

    [Edit]
    To clairfy something someone mentioned elsewhere, boys can present with inattentive type, and girls can present with hyperactive type, but typically boys have the hyperactive type much more often than girls, and the "hyperactive boy" is the stereotype that often dominates, both in the general culture and among clinicians, which leads to inattentive type being underdiagnosed, something that affects girls a lot.

    additudemag.com/adhd-in-women-

    #ADHD #ADD #Neurodivergent

  19. "Being a woman with ADHD is like walking around with a false beard that you're not aware of."

    Fi Lindström

    #add #adhd

  20. "Being a woman with ADHD is like walking around with a false beard that you're not aware of."

    Fi Lindström

    #add #adhd

  21. Why don't we have a "handkerchief code" for neurodivergents/gence?

    Like I, for one, would WELCOME a non-verbal visual clue because I didn't inherit ANY of the -DARS. Except fellow former fundie / trad homeschooled kid radar. Can smell it through a photo.


    #Autisc #add #neurodivergent #audd #adhd #neurodivergence #handkerchief-code #flagging #community #unity
  22. There are certain tiny things that feel HUGELY disrespectful and even literally triggering to my PTSD but they are so small and NOBODY ELSE HAS A PROBLEM so I can't even explain to someone else why they make me feel so sick and despicable let alone get them to STOP DOING IT.


    #autistic #audd #audhd #add #adhd #autism #ptsd #cptsd #KEEP-MY-NAME-OUT-OF-YOUR-MOUTH
  23. There are certain tiny things that feel HUGELY disrespectful and even literally triggering to my PTSD but they are so small and NOBODY ELSE HAS A PROBLEM so I can't even explain to someone else why they make me feel so sick and despicable let alone get them to STOP DOING IT.


    #autistic #audd #audhd #add #adhd #autism #ptsd #cptsd #KEEP-MY-NAME-OUT-OF-YOUR-MOUTH
  24. No one is going to give me a fucking serious answer because I'm a weak minded piece of shit according to the majority of the internet…

    But do any other autistic people have this relationship with spice where it's like… I'm not a super champ but I do REALLY REALLY enjoy certain foods like tonight I got a street truck paneer dosa and I'm SO hungry and my mouth thinks it wants more?? But also a few bites is enough and I don't feel capable of eating more even though I'm HUNGRY and it TASTES REALLY GOOD? But I just… can't… eat… more…

    Like my "flavor" intake is maxed out EVEN THOUGH IT'S DELICIOUS I just can't tolerate a lot AND EVEN THOUGH I'm still ravenous…


    #Autism #autistic #audd #audhd #adhd #add #arfid #low-appetite #taste #sensory-issues
  25. No one is going to give me a fucking serious answer because I'm a weak minded piece of shit according to the majority of the internet…

    But do any other autistic people have this relationship with spice where it's like… I'm not a super champ but I do REALLY REALLY enjoy certain foods like tonight I got a street truck paneer dosa and I'm SO hungry and my mouth thinks it wants more?? But also a few bites is enough and I don't feel capable of eating more even though I'm HUNGRY and it TASTES REALLY GOOD? But I just… can't… eat… more…

    Like my "flavor" intake is maxed out EVEN THOUGH IT'S DELICIOUS I just can't tolerate a lot AND EVEN THOUGH I'm still ravenous…


    #Autism #autistic #audd #audhd #adhd #add #arfid #low-appetite #taste #sensory-issues
  26. #KBS:
    "
    Satellite flaw raises concerns
    "
    ".. the fifth satellite, launched last year, completes its operational deployment within this month ..
    .. major flaw has been discovered ahead of the full operational deployment of these military reconnaissance satellites ..
    .. one CMG has failed on each of two satellites. .."

    news.kbs.co.kr/news/pc/view/vi

    30.4.2026

    #425SAT #ADD #EO #Erdbeobachtung #KAI #Korea #KORSAT #Radar #Raumfahrt #ROK #SAR #Satelliten #SpaceFlight #Südkorea

  27. #KBS:
    "
    Satellite flaw raises concerns
    "
    ".. the fifth satellite, launched last year, completes its operational deployment within this month ..
    .. major flaw has been discovered ahead of the full operational deployment of these military reconnaissance satellites ..
    .. one CMG has failed on each of two satellites. .."

    news.kbs.co.kr/news/pc/view/vi

    30.4.2026

    #425SAT #ADD #EO #Erdbeobachtung #KAI #Korea #KORSAT #Radar #Raumfahrt #ROK #SAR #Satelliten #SpaceFlight #Südkorea

  28. Plan fejler → selvbebrejdelse → ny plan, strengere denne gang → fejler hurtigere.
    For hver gentagelse bliver planen mere rigid. Hvert fejltrin rammer hårdere. Det der skulle hjælpe, bliver kilden til skam.
    KOMPAS tager en anden tilgang: systemet lærer dine faktiske mønstre og arbejder derfra. Ingen bundlinje at falde under. Ingen streak at miste.
    Er der andre der tænker over eksekutive funktioner og selvledelse?
    #ADHD #AuDHD #ADD #KOMPAS #Selvledelse #Obsidian