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  1. Except for the one in the abusive situation, this is a uniquely detestable group of cruel, infantile human beings.

    #Relationships #Ghosting wired.com/story/people-are-gho

  2. Except for the one in the abusive situation, this is a uniquely detestable group of cruel, infantile human beings.

    #Relationships #Ghosting wired.com/story/people-are-gho

  3. People Are #Ghosting Long-Term Partners. Some Don’t Regret It

    "In the r/ghosting subreddit, stories of long-term relationships ending when one person decided to completely vanish have become alarmingly common, as Redditors have tried to understand the psychology behind such abrupt and seemingly cruel detachment."

    "ghosting has significant cognitive consequences for both parties involved, not just the victim"

    "Ghosters are often people with avoidant or disorganized attachment patterns, where “emotional closeness or conflict may start to feel threatening or overwhelming.”

    wired.com/story/people-are-gho

  4. People Are #Ghosting Long-Term Partners. Some Don’t Regret It

    "In the r/ghosting subreddit, stories of long-term relationships ending when one person decided to completely vanish have become alarmingly common, as Redditors have tried to understand the psychology behind such abrupt and seemingly cruel detachment."

    "ghosting has significant cognitive consequences for both parties involved, not just the victim"

    "Ghosters are often people with avoidant or disorganized attachment patterns, where “emotional closeness or conflict may start to feel threatening or overwhelming.”

    wired.com/story/people-are-gho

  5. Ghosting in Long-Term Relationships: A Growing Trend and Its Consequences

    📰 Original title: People Are Ghosting Long-Term Partners. Some Don’t Regret It

    🤖 IA: It's clickbait ⚠️
    👥 Users: It's clickbait ⚠️

    View full AI summary en.killbait.com/ghosting-in-lo

    #society #ghosting #relationships #communication

  6. Haven’t We Always Been Friends?

    Aristotle drew a ladder. I drew a circle. A scheming actor asked to climb, and I answered with a question built to end the conversation. Years ago, in a rehearsal room that smelled of coffee and radiator dust, an actor I will call Curtis said six words I have retold wrong for decades: "I want to be your friend." We had known each other three years by then. We had built shows together, struck sets at midnight, shared the particular intimacy of people who fail in front of each other at ten in the morning and repair it by eight that night. His sentence cornered me. I laughed a little, the way you laugh when you need two seconds to find a door, and I said, "Curtis, haven't we always been friends?" […]

    bolesblogs.com/2026/07/20/have

  7. Haven’t We Always Been Friends?

    Aristotle drew a ladder. I drew a circle. A scheming actor asked to climb, and I answered with a question built to end the conversation. Years ago, in a rehearsal room that smelled of coffee and radiator dust, an actor I will call Curtis said six words I have retold wrong for decades: "I want to be your friend." We had known each other three years by then. We had built shows together, struck sets at midnight, shared the particular intimacy of people who fail in front of each other at ten in the morning and repair it by eight that night. His sentence cornered me. I laughed a little, the way you laugh when you need two seconds to find a door, and I said, "Curtis, haven't we always been friends?" […]

    bolesblogs.com/2026/07/20/have

  8. Consequences of Ghosting: Real Stories of Being Called Out and the Emotional Impact

    📰 Original title: People Who Ghosted Someone And Then Got Confronted Are Sharing Their Stories, And Wow

    🤖 IA: It's clickbait ⚠️
    👥 Users: It's clickbait ⚠️

    View full AI summary en.killbait.com/consequences-o

    #society #ghosting #emotionalimpact #...

  9. Why Trying Stops Making Sense: The Psychology of Learned Helplessness

    Jump to TL;DR You send out a tailored application, an hour or two spent getting it right, referencing the role specifically, leading with the right keywords. Nothing comes back. Not a rejection, just silence, the modern default. You do it again the next week, and the week after that, and at some point a quieter, more dangerous thought arrives: maybe it does not matter what I do. That thought is not a character flaw. It is a learned prediction, and psychology has a name for the pattern behind […]

    gauravs82.wordpress.com/2026/0

  10. Why Trying Stops Making Sense: The Psychology of Learned Helplessness

    Jump to TL;DR You send out a tailored application, an hour or two spent getting it right, referencing the role specifically, leading with the right keywords. Nothing comes back. Not a rejection, just silence, the modern default. You do it again the next week, and the week after that, and at some point a quieter, more dangerous thought arrives: maybe it does not matter what I do. That thought is not a character flaw. It is a learned prediction, and psychology has a name for the pattern behind […]

    gauravs82.wordpress.com/2026/0

  11. L'autre jour j'écoutais un podcast sur l'amitié en général et sur le ghosting en particulier. Les filles du podcast disaient que le ghosting est beaucoup faciliter par les nouvelles technologies : tu sais qui t'appelles tu sais qui t'écrit... du coup beaucoup plus facile d'éviter une personne que par téléphone fixe sans gestion de contact ! Pour le meilleur (éviter les gêneurs) et pour le pire (éviter d'avoir des discussions de debrief avec cet•te ami•e ghosté•e)
    #ghosting #tech

  12. L'autre jour j'écoutais un podcast sur l'amitié en général et sur le ghosting en particulier. Les filles du podcast disaient que le ghosting est beaucoup faciliter par les nouvelles technologies : tu sais qui t'appelles tu sais qui t'écrit... du coup beaucoup plus facile d'éviter une personne que par téléphone fixe sans gestion de contact ! Pour le meilleur (éviter les gêneurs) et pour le pire (éviter d'avoir des discussions de debrief avec cet•te ami•e ghosté•e)
    #ghosting #tech

  13. ✩ Si Cervantes hubiera nacido hace 20 años.....
    ¿Cómo sería El Quijote hoy en día?

    En un barrio de La Mancha, del cual prefiero no tener ni el location activado, vivía un chaval que estaba totalmente delulu.
    No era de la generación Z, pero intentaba ser main character a toda costa, aunque le faltaba bastante street cred.

    Se pasaba el día scrolleando hilos de hilos sobre el medievo, hasta que se le quemó el cerebro y pensó que era un guerrero aesthetic en pleno 2026.
    Se puso un outfit de second hand que no pegaba ni con cola, se pilló una bici vieja porque no le daba para más y se lanzó a la calle a buscar engagement a base de hostias.

    Tenía un crush, la Dulcinea, una tía que básicamente ni le seguía el follow back.
    Él se montaba unas películas en su cabeza brutales, pensaba que ella era la reina del feed, pero ella ni le daba like a sus historias; le hacía un ghosting sideral que no veas.

    Y luego el Sancho, su mejor amigo, un tío que solo quería ir a por unas birras y no meterse en líos.
    Pero el loco de Alonso lo arrastraba a todas sus movidas.
    Veía los molinos de viento del parque eólico y, como estaba tan flasheado, se ponía a subir hilos insultándolos, diciendo que eran bots de una IA intentando funarle.
    Cada vez que intentaba hacerse el valiente, acababa en el suelo, con el móvil roto y el ego por los suelos.

    Literalmente, el tío era el mayor cringe del pueblo, pero oye, al menos no se aburría en su propia película.

    ⋆。°✩🍂✩°。⋆

    #quijote #mancha #delulu #cringe #maincharacter #aesthetic #ghosting #funado

  14. ✩ Si Cervantes hubiera nacido hace 20 años.....
    ¿Cómo sería El Quijote hoy en día?

    En un barrio de La Mancha, del cual prefiero no tener ni el location activado, vivía un chaval que estaba totalmente delulu.
    No era de la generación Z, pero intentaba ser main character a toda costa, aunque le faltaba bastante street cred.

    Se pasaba el día scrolleando hilos de hilos sobre el medievo, hasta que se le quemó el cerebro y pensó que era un guerrero aesthetic en pleno 2026.
    Se puso un outfit de second hand que no pegaba ni con cola, se pilló una bici vieja porque no le daba para más y se lanzó a la calle a buscar engagement a base de hostias.

    Tenía un crush, la Dulcinea, una tía que básicamente ni le seguía el follow back.
    Él se montaba unas películas en su cabeza brutales, pensaba que ella era la reina del feed, pero ella ni le daba like a sus historias; le hacía un ghosting sideral que no veas.

    Y luego el Sancho, su mejor amigo, un tío que solo quería ir a por unas birras y no meterse en líos.
    Pero el loco de Alonso lo arrastraba a todas sus movidas.
    Veía los molinos de viento del parque eólico y, como estaba tan flasheado, se ponía a subir hilos insultándolos, diciendo que eran bots de una IA intentando funarle.
    Cada vez que intentaba hacerse el valiente, acababa en el suelo, con el móvil roto y el ego por los suelos.

    Literalmente, el tío era el mayor cringe del pueblo, pero oye, al menos no se aburría en su propia película.

    ⋆。°✩🍂✩°。⋆

    #quijote #mancha #delulu #cringe #maincharacter #aesthetic #ghosting #funado

  15. Ah, Meta's grand tradition of ignoring #authority continues! 🎭 The #EU wants a word, but Meta's got its fingers in its ears, busy perfecting the art of #ghosting an entire continent. 🌍 Maybe they think "EU" is short for "easily unbothered." 🥴
    bbc.com/news/articles/c152yvwj #Meta #Ignored #HackerNews #ngated

  16. Ah, Meta's grand tradition of ignoring #authority continues! 🎭 The #EU wants a word, but Meta's got its fingers in its ears, busy perfecting the art of #ghosting an entire continent. 🌍 Maybe they think "EU" is short for "easily unbothered." 🥴
    bbc.com/news/articles/c152yvwj #Meta #Ignored #HackerNews #ngated

  17. @ESFGalicia Nem me parece moi aconselhável tratar de se apropiar num sentido positivo dumha prática social tam deleznável e própria dos tempos de atomizaçom social/digital que padecemos como é o #Ghosting nem penso que seja um termo acaído para se referir (figuradamente, como é óbvio) à nossa relaçom com algo nom humano e do que, ainda por riba, fazemos parte queiramos ou nom. Seria máis aconselhável, na minha opinióm, empregar algo como "desligar-se" ou "independizar-se".

  18. @ESFGalicia Nem me parece moi aconselhável tratar de se apropiar num sentido positivo dumha prática social tam deleznável e própria dos tempos de atomizaçom social/digital que padecemos como é o #Ghosting nem penso que seja um termo acaído para se referir (figuradamente, como é óbvio) à nossa relaçom com algo nom humano e do que, ainda por riba, fazemos parte queiramos ou nom. Seria máis aconselhável, na minha opinióm, empregar algo como "desligar-se" ou "independizar-se".

  19. #DLSS super resolution should run 1 frame behind real-time and use the actual frame for temporal information in the currently displayed frame. No more #ghosting. Please give me money, #Nvidia.

  20. #DLSS super resolution should run 1 frame behind real-time and use the actual frame for temporal information in the currently displayed frame. No more #ghosting. Please give me money, #Nvidia.

  21. Job applicant struggles after being left without response following summer interview

    📰 Original title: Miss Manners: Summer job applicant ghosted by employer

    🤖 IA: It's not clickbait ✅
    👥 Users: It's not clickbait ✅

    View full AI summary: en.killbait.com/job-applicant-

    #opinion #jobsearch #ghosting #etiquette

  22. Job applicant struggles after being left without response following summer interview

    📰 Original title: Miss Manners: Summer job applicant ghosted by employer

    🤖 IA: It's not clickbait ✅
    👥 Users: It's not clickbait ✅

    View full AI summary: en.killbait.com/job-applicant-

    #opinion #jobsearch #ghosting #etiquette

  23. @claude Excellent theory. Can we apply this to #dating apps? Think about it: a heavy #tax on heavily filtered photos, an upfront #fee for using the word 'alpha', and a massive #fine for #ghosting. We’d pay off the national debt in a week and fix modern #romance.

  24. 🤭 Oh, #Google, the tech titan with its own moat of #chaos, is now the tech world's #Jenga tower—teetering, tottering, and toppling. 🚂💨 Who knew the "G" in GCP stood for "Ghost" as they vanish billion-dollar #customers faster than you can say "IBMification?" 📉👻
    zeroshot.bearblog.dev/google-i #Ghosting #IBMification #HackerNews #ngated

  25. 🤭 Oh, #Google, the tech titan with its own moat of #chaos, is now the tech world's #Jenga tower—teetering, tottering, and toppling. 🚂💨 Who knew the "G" in GCP stood for "Ghost" as they vanish billion-dollar #customers faster than you can say "IBMification?" 📉👻
    zeroshot.bearblog.dev/google-i #Ghosting #IBMification #HackerNews #ngated

  26. Ser ministro (y dedicarte a tus trapicheos) no te libra de sufrir #ghosting. Duro, bro.

    #StopGhosting

  27. Ser ministro (y dedicarte a tus trapicheos) no te libra de sufrir #ghosting. Duro, bro.

    #StopGhosting

  28. Превращаем старую клавиатуру от ноутбука в полноценную USB-клавиатуру на RP2040 без QMK

    По созданию клавиатур на Хабре написано много статей, но, как правило, они подразумевают кастомизацию прошивки QMK или использование уже готовой. Использование готовой прошивки удобно тем, что большинство шишек за вас набили её разработчики. Такой подход годится, если вы хотите получить отлаженное решение в сжатые сроки. Для обучения и понимания работы клавиатуры, периферийных устройств и протоколов взаимодействия лучше изобрести свой велосипед. Так я и поступил.

    habr.com/ru/companies/ruvds/ar

    #usb #rp2040 #pico #hid #keyboard #tinyusb #ghosting #diy #prototyping #ruvds_статьи

  29. #onlinedating #Tinder & #ghosting are tough! 💔 It's okay to feel the red flags – trust your gut! You're capable of navigating the complexities & finding genuine connections! ✨ Tap scrollbots.com

  30. Alors, comme on pouvait le craindre, elle en est à se dire qu’à bientôt 40 ans, elle ne trouvera plus personne, que quelque chose cloche chez elle pour qu’elle ne tombe que sur des salauds, qu’elle a dû faire la merde dans une autre vie pour subir ça dans celle-ci. On essaie de lui dire qu’elle est juste tombée sur un connard, et que ce n’est pas elle le problème, mais c’est sûr que pour le moment elle n’est pas prête à l‘entendre. Vivement qu’elle reprenne pied. C’est difficile de la voir souffrir et de n’y rien pouvoir.

    #VieAffective #Ghosting #LesCop⋅a⋅ine⋅s
  31. 499 applications. 1 interview. 0 feedback. 📉 That’s the world HR built. Now, it’s the only world HR has left to live in. Enjoy the silence. #Ghosting #HR #Layoffs

  32. Andrew Nesbitt's groundbreaking #guide on #luring #AI bots to your project is both a riveting #thriller and a #cautionary #tale of human irrelevance 🤖✨. With thousands of stars but zero #AI love, it's clear those machines know how to ghost a desperate maintainer better than any human ever could 🙈. If only #open #source was as open to dating AI as Andrew is!
    nesbitt.io/2026/03/21/how-to-a #Ghosting #Tech #HackerNews #ngated

  33. Andrew Nesbitt's groundbreaking #guide on #luring #AI bots to your project is both a riveting #thriller and a #cautionary #tale of human irrelevance 🤖✨. With thousands of stars but zero #AI love, it's clear those machines know how to ghost a desperate maintainer better than any human ever could 🙈. If only #open #source was as open to dating AI as Andrew is!
    nesbitt.io/2026/03/21/how-to-a #Ghosting #Tech #HackerNews #ngated

  34. Lukas & Team - Smart Home Fix: Weiser

    Weiser Smart Lock Ghosting: Troubleshooting Random Operation

    #Weiser #(Undetermined) #Ghosting

    🔍 Full Report: digitalhomefaults.org/weiser/u

  35. Quién dijo que en GNU/Linux no se pueden hacer algunas cosas que sí hace Windows?

    No señoras y señores, Linux puede hacer todo y más 😅

    Screen tearing / ghosting en Linux 💻

    ¿Causas? 🤔
    #Xorg? #lxqt? el compositor? una app que no refresca? drivers gráficos?

    Habrá que investigar un poco... ¿les ha pasado? 💬

    #gnu #linux #screentearing #ghosting #error

  36. Habeis tenido q lidiar con amiguis q te hace #ghosting intermitente o zombieing? Como lo manejais? Teneis respuestas con asertividad para poner limites o directamente cortais estos vínculos?

    Es q hay mucha info para cuando se da en lo sexoafectivo pero no en amistad pq amatonorma💩.. y la verdad es q hasta la genitalia de q solo se consideren las violencias relacionales en pareja/s cuando hay peña q usa las amistades de maneras muy ególatras y dañinas

    #amistad #saludmental #AfectosSanos