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  1. A quotation from Robert Louis Stevenson

    Never allow your mind to dwell on your own misconduct: that is ruin. The conscience has morbid sensibilities; it must be employed but not indulged, like the imagination or the stomach.

    Robert Louis Stevenson (1850–1894) Scottish essayist, novelist, poet
    Essay (1880-01/02?), “Reflections and Remarks on Human Life,” § 7.1 “Discipline of Conscience”

    More about this quote: wist.info/stevenson-robert-lou…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #robertlouisstevenson #conscience #despondency #error #failure #misconduct #morbidity #obsession #selfblame #selfcondemnation #selfcriticism #selfdeprecation #selfdoubt #selfhatred #selfjudgment #selfloathing #selfreproach #shortcomings #sins

  2. A quotation from Robert Louis Stevenson

    Never allow your mind to dwell on your own misconduct: that is ruin. The conscience has morbid sensibilities; it must be employed but not indulged, like the imagination or the stomach.

    Robert Louis Stevenson (1850–1894) Scottish essayist, novelist, poet
    Essay (1880-01/02?), “Reflections and Remarks on Human Life,” § 7.1 “Discipline of Conscience”

    More about this quote: wist.info/stevenson-robert-lou…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #robertlouisstevenson #conscience #despondency #error #failure #misconduct #morbidity #obsession #selfblame #selfcondemnation #selfcriticism #selfdeprecation #selfdoubt #selfhatred #selfjudgment #selfloathing #selfreproach #shortcomings #sins

  3. A quotation from Robert Louis Stevenson

    Never allow your mind to dwell on your own misconduct: that is ruin. The conscience has morbid sensibilities; it must be employed but not indulged, like the imagination or the stomach.

    Robert Louis Stevenson (1850–1894) Scottish essayist, novelist, poet
    Essay (1880-01/02?), “Reflections and Remarks on Human Life,” § 7.1 “Discipline of Conscience”

    More about this quote: wist.info/stevenson-robert-lou…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #robertlouisstevenson #conscience #despondency #error #failure #misconduct #morbidity #obsession #selfblame #selfcondemnation #selfcriticism #selfdeprecation #selfdoubt #selfhatred #selfjudgment #selfloathing #selfreproach #shortcomings #sins

  4. A quotation from Robert Louis Stevenson

    Never allow your mind to dwell on your own misconduct: that is ruin. The conscience has morbid sensibilities; it must be employed but not indulged, like the imagination or the stomach.

    Robert Louis Stevenson (1850–1894) Scottish essayist, novelist, poet
    Essay (1880-01/02?), “Reflections and Remarks on Human Life,” § 7.1 “Discipline of Conscience”

    More about this quote: wist.info/stevenson-robert-lou…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #robertlouisstevenson #conscience #despondency #error #failure #misconduct #morbidity #obsession #selfblame #selfcondemnation #selfcriticism #selfdeprecation #selfdoubt #selfhatred #selfjudgment #selfloathing #selfreproach #shortcomings #sins

  5. A quotation from Eric Hoffer

    They who clamor loudest for freedom are often the ones least likely to be happy in a free society. The frustrated, oppressed by their shortcomings, blame their failure on existing restraints. Actually, their innermost desire is for an end to the “free for all.” They want to eliminate free competition and the ruthless testing to which the individual is continually subjected in a free society.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    True Believer: Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements, Part 2, ch. 5, § 28 (1951)

    More about this quote: wist.info/hoffer-eric/10928/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #erichoffer #competition #failure #freesociety #freedom #frustrated #happiness #inferiority #liberty #selfhatred #selfloathing #truebeliever #unsuccessful

  6. A quotation from Eric Hoffer

    They who clamor loudest for freedom are often the ones least likely to be happy in a free society. The frustrated, oppressed by their shortcomings, blame their failure on existing restraints. Actually, their innermost desire is for an end to the “free for all.” They want to eliminate free competition and the ruthless testing to which the individual is continually subjected in a free society.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    True Believer: Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements, Part 2, ch. 5, § 28 (1951)

    More about this quote: wist.info/hoffer-eric/10928/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #erichoffer #competition #failure #freesociety #freedom #frustrated #happiness #inferiority #liberty #selfhatred #selfloathing #truebeliever #unsuccessful

  7. A quotation from Eric Hoffer

    They who clamor loudest for freedom are often the ones least likely to be happy in a free society. The frustrated, oppressed by their shortcomings, blame their failure on existing restraints. Actually, their innermost desire is for an end to the “free for all.” They want to eliminate free competition and the ruthless testing to which the individual is continually subjected in a free society.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    True Believer: Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements, Part 2, ch. 5, § 28 (1951)

    More about this quote: wist.info/hoffer-eric/10928/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #erichoffer #competition #failure #freesociety #freedom #frustrated #happiness #inferiority #liberty #selfhatred #selfloathing #truebeliever #unsuccessful

  8. A quotation from Eric Hoffer

    They who clamor loudest for freedom are often the ones least likely to be happy in a free society. The frustrated, oppressed by their shortcomings, blame their failure on existing restraints. Actually, their innermost desire is for an end to the “free for all.” They want to eliminate free competition and the ruthless testing to which the individual is continually subjected in a free society.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    True Believer: Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements, Part 2, ch. 5, § 28 (1951)

    More about this quote: wist.info/hoffer-eric/10928/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #erichoffer #competition #failure #freesociety #freedom #frustrated #happiness #inferiority #liberty #selfhatred #selfloathing #truebeliever #unsuccessful

  9. A quotation from Eric Hoffer

    They who clamor loudest for freedom are often the ones least likely to be happy in a free society. The frustrated, oppressed by their shortcomings, blame their failure on existing restraints. Actually, their innermost desire is for an end to the “free for all.” They want to eliminate free competition and the ruthless testing to which the individual is continually subjected in a free society.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    True Believer: Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements, Part 2, ch. 5, § 28 (1951)

    More about this quote: wist.info/hoffer-eric/10928/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #erichoffer #competition #failure #freesociety #freedom #frustrated #happiness #inferiority #liberty #selfhatred #selfloathing #truebeliever #unsuccessful

  10. Having a wee #crush on someone is lovely. Having one on someone taken kinda sucks arse but is safe as all fuck. But fer the love o' wee green apples, never make it known! #romance #unrequited #shy #SelfHatred #SufferingInSilence

  11. CW: mh-

    I really envy people who have a comfort zone.

    I just left, because group dynamics were too stressful, only to be more stressed by leaving, lonelyness, feeling of being excluded or rather excluding myself and ultimately self-hatred and doubting any progress that I ever made, because the biggest question still seems unsolvable.
    The question of how to leave a comfort zone that doesn't exist looks easy in comparison to this: "If I have to love myself before anyone else can love me, and the reason I hate myself is because nobody ever loved me, does that mean I should just give up?"

    #mh #GroupDynamics #FeelingLeftOut #SocialAnxiety #SocialPhobia #NotJustShy #NotJustLonely #SelfHatred

  12. A quotation from Josh Billings

    He who don’t luv himself vents hiz spleen bi hating everyboddy else.
     
    [He who doesn’t love himself vents his spleen by hating everybody else.]

    Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
    Everybody’s Friend, Or; Josh Billing’s Encyclopedia and Proverbial Philosophy of Wit and Humor, ch. 281 “Variety: Bred and Butter” (1874)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/billings-josh/77758/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #hatred #loveyourneighbor #selfhatred #selfloathing #selflove

  13. A quotation from Eric Hoffer

       The remarkable thing is that we really love our neighbor as ourselves: we do unto others as we do unto ourselves. We hate others when we hate ourselves. We are tolerant toward others when we tolerate ourselves. We forgive others when we forgive ourselves. We are prone to sacrifice others when we are ready to sacrifice ourselves.
       It is not love of self but hatred of self which is at the root of the troubles that afflict our world.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    Passionate State of Mind, Aphorism 100 (1955)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/hoffer-eric/23442/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #erichoffer #dountoothers #goldenrule #loveyourneighbor #selfhatred #selflove

  14. “The world according to Stephen Miller is a cruel and callous one, in which America is strictly for unhyphenated Americans and those here “illegally” must be forcibly returned to the “failed states” where they were born.”
    #Nosferatu #Twisted #Racism #SelfHatred

    thenation.com/article/politics

  15. #Capitalism doesn't seek to change the subversion of #men for the better, but to further #exploit men - at the cost of men's physical health, mental health, spiritual health, social status and even men's economies.

    A healthy and happy man wants for nothing, and that's a problem in the eyes of an #exploiter, because without that #SelfHatred, without that uncertainty and without that feeling of inferiority, men wouldn't be buying into any of the #manosphere bullshit.

  16. So let's talk the #MaleLonelinessPandemic and why it's the fault of #Capitalism LET'S GOOOO

    #SelfHatred is an #Industry. You've got an entire #BeautyIndustry which speaks to that, but also the testosterone #MLM bullshit that's like the "bro" version of #MaryKay. The idea that "you're never enough" is implanted into the brains of everyone.

    In #men, this makes them even less #manly, because the most manly thing is to be calm, to be tranquil, to speak softly and to carry a big stick.

  17. I doubt that people are born hating themselves for being nonbinary (or any number of other qualities). It's more likely that self-loathing is given and then cultivated by others.

    It's time to let that particular "gift" go.

    It's alright to love yourself (in case you want permission).

    #nonbinarypositivity #nonbinarypride #nonbinary #exorsexism #selflove #selfhatred

  18. Well today’s a #depression day I guess… between #genderdysphoria, getting a strike on my #instacart account for violating a rule I didn’t violate (aka for being #trans) and getting a 1 star review which hurts my ability to make money at my primary job that already pays so low I’m working 7 days a week, and just general #selfhatred and #loneliness, today is gonna be rough. Time to take my government subsidized amphetamines and try to function

  19. For all the c*nts what keep telling me that ah'd be more attractive if I smiled moar. Art by Shawn Coss. #Depression #SelfHatred

  20. My explanation for MANY of mah reactions are #RejectionSensitiveDysphoria and severe #SelfHatred. I hate this but I also cannae escape it. My #MentalHealth team helps me cope, but mah monsters hae the upper hand as it were. #ImVeryBroken #ImSorry

  21. Ok, I've decided tae share this as I see nae need not tae. I suffer frae #ED due tae the unfortunate combinations of medications I MUST take. I also suffer frae #PeyroniesDisease what makes my ED inoperable. Because of this, I havnae had penetrative sex for 17 year and my severe #MDD and #SelfHatred cause me tae nae have any other form of sex. A week ago, I received an inflatable #PenileImplant. This may change my life a wee bit. Questions welcome.

  22. I think I finally got it thru mah #Psychiatrist heid that my #SuicidalIDeations and extreme #SelfHatred innae gaen anywhere, hence untreatable. I want tae attempt tae enjoy life whatever that means, but I will always want suicide as an option. I think she finally gets it. #MajorDepressiveDisorderRecurrent, #Dysthymia #OCPD #PTSD #Neurodivergent #IAmVeryBroken #YouShouldReallyRun

  23. I want a partner. I want tae #date. I suffer frae #SelfHatred so even if there WAS an attraction, I would sabotage it. My monsters do this tae protect the other person. This is the joys of #MDD and #Dysthemia with a lovely dose of crippling #OCPD. #IAmVeryBroken. The saving grace is that with my lack of desirability, none of the above is likely tae happen lol. #Depression #MentalHealth

  24. I donnae #follow people tae be followed back. I'm fine if ye donnae follow back, this saves meh frae wondering just what the fuck is wrong wi ye. #SelfHatred

  25. @Ten Sometimes boring can mean "Long sought after" Suffering frae severe #selfhatred, I get it.

  26. #MajorDepressiveDisorderRecurrent with extreme #selfhatred is: "Hi, I hae a friend that would love tae meet ye."
    "I wudnae recommend that love, I am a poor life decision."
    An the solitude continues.

  27. CW: dysphoria, internalized fatphobia, sadposting

    I feel like an ogre a troll a creature who belongs under a bridge in a cave in a swamp in the dark a big lumbering THING with a giant gut dragging its hairy knuckles across the ground that shakes with every step.

    #sadposting #genderdysphoria #dysphoria #internalizedfatphobia #mentalillness #selfhate #selfhatred #selfloathing

  28. CW: dysphoria, internalized fatphobia, sadposting

    I've never been small and I never will be small and I hate it I hate it so much I never wanted this I never wanted to be this I'll never have a body I don't hate even if I ever look feminine in other ways it'll always be undermined and overshadowed by how fucking huge I am.

    #sadposting #genderdysphoria #dysphoria #internalizedfatphobia #mentalillness #selfhate #selfhatred #selfloathing

  29. CW: dysphoria, internalized fatphobia, sadposting

    I'm seriously like if two Tolkien elves gave birth to a Tolkien dwarf and it's worse than it sounds because I'd much rather be an elf! Being so stocky and big and broad and thick and hairy all over makes me feel so overwhelmingly dysphoric.

    #sadposting #genderdysphoria #dysphoria #internalizedfatphobia #mentalillness #selfhate #selfhatred #selfloathing

  30. CW: dysphoria, internalized fatphobia, sadposting

    Apparently my father once went to a Halloween party in drag and thanks in part to his slender build and long legs he passed and even got hit on but no of course he didn't give me any of those traits just his bad eyesight yayyy. 😑

    #sadposting #genderdysphoria #dysphoria #internalizedfatphobia #mentalillness #selfhate #selfhatred #selfloathing

  31. CW: dysphoria, internalized fatphobia, sadposting

    Mom was a leggy blonde with big tits who looked like Meryl Streep but did she give me any of those genes? Nope! Just the ADHD and BPD. 😒 Instead I inherited her dad's Mr. Potatohead body and Charlie Brown head. My father's contribution was equally worthless.

    #sadposting #genderdysphoria #dysphoria #internalizedfatphobia #mentalillness #selfhate #selfhatred #selfloathing

  32. Harley Quinn, Season 3, Episode 8, "Batman Begins Forever".

    🤦‍♀️ 😅 🎯 No moment in fiction has ever so forcefully held a mirror up to my face.

    I guess there are reasons why this character has resonated with me so hard since I was a small child...

    #harleyquinn #batman #brucewayne #animatedseries #animation #cartoon #cartoons #superhero #superheroes #trauma #guilt #shame #selfhate #selfhatred #selfloathing

  33. A quotation from Josh Billings

    He who don’t luv himself vents hiz spleen bi hating everyboddy else.
     
    [He who doesn’t love himself vents his spleen by hating everybody else.]

    Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
    Everybody’s Friend, Or; Josh Billing’s Encyclopedia and Proverbial Philosophy of Wit and Humor, ch. 281 “Variety: Bred and Butter” (1874)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/billings-josh/77758/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #hatred #loveyourneighbor #selfhatred #selfloathing #selflove

  34. A quotation from Josh Billings

    He who don’t luv himself vents hiz spleen bi hating everyboddy else.
     
    [He who doesn’t love himself vents his spleen by hating everybody else.]

    Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
    Everybody’s Friend, Or; Josh Billing’s Encyclopedia and Proverbial Philosophy of Wit and Humor, ch. 281 “Variety: Bred and Butter” (1874)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/billings-josh/77758/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #hatred #loveyourneighbor #selfhatred #selfloathing #selflove

  35. A quotation from Josh Billings

    He who don’t luv himself vents hiz spleen bi hating everyboddy else.
     
    [He who doesn’t love himself vents his spleen by hating everybody else.]

    Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
    Everybody’s Friend, Or; Josh Billing’s Encyclopedia and Proverbial Philosophy of Wit and Humor, ch. 281 “Variety: Bred and Butter” (1874)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/billings-josh/77758/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #hatred #loveyourneighbor #selfhatred #selfloathing #selflove

  36. A quotation from Josh Billings

    He who don’t luv himself vents hiz spleen bi hating everyboddy else.
     
    [He who doesn’t love himself vents his spleen by hating everybody else.]

    Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
    Everybody’s Friend, Or; Josh Billing’s Encyclopedia and Proverbial Philosophy of Wit and Humor, ch. 281 “Variety: Bred and Butter” (1874)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/billings-josh/77758/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #hatred #loveyourneighbor #selfhatred #selfloathing #selflove

  37. Having a wee on someone is lovely. Having one on someone taken kinda sucks arse but is safe as all fuck. But fer the love o' wee green apples, never make it known!

  38. Having a wee #crush on someone is lovely. Having one on someone taken kinda sucks arse but is safe as all fuck. But fer the love o' wee green apples, never make it known! #romance #unrequited #shy #SelfHatred #SufferingInSilence

  39. Having a wee #crush on someone is lovely. Having one on someone taken kinda sucks arse but is safe as all fuck. But fer the love o' wee green apples, never make it known! #romance #unrequited #shy #SelfHatred #SufferingInSilence