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  1. Let out your anger and let fly

    Dear motorists (or anyone) you can now rent a rage room to vent your frustration. In shining protective armour with a crow bar in hand you can smash breakable objects (for a fee).This new recreational activity might improve your anger management.

    No need to let out your aggression on other living beings any more.

    Hundreds of rage rooms are operating in cities across the United States already >>
    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rage_room
    #violence #frustration #anger #rage #RoadRage #MaleRage #ImpulseControl #entitlement #powerlessness #control #status #cars #FossilFuel #traffic #DV #recreation #RageRoom

  2. Let out your anger and let fly

    Dear motorists (or anyone) you can now rent a rage room to vent your frustration. In shining protective armour with a crow bar in hand you can smash breakable objects (for a fee).This new recreational activity might improve your anger management.

    No need to let out your aggression on other living beings any more.

    Hundreds of rage rooms are operating in cities across the United States already >>
    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rage_room
    #violence #frustration #anger #rage #RoadRage #MaleRage #ImpulseControl #entitlement #powerlessness #control #status #cars #FossilFuel #traffic #DV #recreation #RageRoom

  3. Let out your anger and let fly

    Dear motorists (or anyone) you can now rent a rage room to vent your frustration. In shining protective armour with a crow bar in hand you can smash breakable objects (for a fee).This new recreational activity might improve your anger management.

    No need to let out your aggression on other living beings any more.

    Hundreds of rage rooms are operating in cities across the United States already >>
    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rage_room
    #violence #frustration #anger #rage #RoadRage #MaleRage #ImpulseControl #entitlement #powerlessness #control #status #cars #FossilFuel #traffic #DV #recreation #RageRoom

  4. Let out your anger and let fly

    Dear motorists (or anyone) you can now rent a rage room to vent your frustration. In shining protective armour with a crow bar in hand you can smash breakable objects (for a fee).This new recreational activity might improve your anger management.

    No need to let out your aggression on other living beings any more.

    Hundreds of rage rooms are operating in cities across the United States already >>
    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rage_room
    #violence #frustration #anger #rage #RoadRage #MaleRage #ImpulseControl #entitlement #powerlessness #control #status #cars #FossilFuel #traffic #DV #recreation #RageRoom

  5. Let out your anger and let fly

    Dear motorists (or anyone) you can now rent a rage room to vent your frustration. In shining protective armour with a crow bar in hand you can smash breakable objects (for a fee).This new recreational activity might improve your anger management.

    No need to let out your aggression on other living beings any more.

    Hundreds of rage rooms are operating in cities across the United States already >>
    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rage_room
    #violence #frustration #anger #rage #RoadRage #MaleRage #ImpulseControl #entitlement #powerlessness #control #status #cars #FossilFuel #traffic #DV #recreation #RageRoom

  6. Faith Over Fear: Daily Steps to Trust God in Tough Times

    744 words, 4 minutes read time.

    The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid? (Psalm 27:1, NIV)

    Introduction

    When tough times come, it’s easy to get caught up in fear and uncertainty. But as Christians, we have a greater option available to us: trusting God in the midst of chaos.

    In Psalm 27, David expresses his trust in God as his light, salvation, and stronghold. He asks who he should fear with such confidence in our Lord. As believers, we can do the same.

    Insights into Fear

    Fear is a natural human response to uncertainty and danger. However, when we let fear take hold, it can lead us down a path of doubt and despair. In 1 John 4:18, we’re reminded that God does not give us evil things to suffer, but rather gives us strength and hope in the midst of trial.

    When we focus on our fears rather than our faith, we open ourselves up to feelings of inadequacy and powerlessness. But when we fix our eyes on Jesus, we discover a different narrative – one of courage, resilience, and victory over fear.

    Practical Applications

    So how can we cultivate trust in God when the world around us seems dark and uncertain? Here are a few practical steps to consider:

    1. Practice Spiritual Discernment

    As believers, we have access to spiritual discernment through the Holy Spirit. When faced with fear or uncertainty, take time to pray and seek God’s guidance. Ask Him to reveal His truth in your situation, and trust that He is working everything out for your good (Romans 8:28).

    2. Focus on God’s Presence

    When we focus on our fears rather than our faith, we can lose sight of God’s presence in our lives. Take time to reflect on the promises of Scripture and remember that you are never alone. God is with you, even when it feels like He’s not (Deuteronomy 31:6).

    3. Surround Yourself with Believers

    When we surround ourselves with people who share our faith, we’re reminded that we’re not alone in this journey. Seek out community and connection with fellow believers – it can be a powerful antidote to fear and uncertainty.

    Reflection / Challenge

    • What are some specific fears or uncertainties you’re facing right now? Take time to pray for God’s strength and guidance in these areas.
    • Reflect on times when you’ve trusted God in the midst of tough times. What did you learn from those experiences, and how can you apply those lessons today?
    • Write down three things you trust God with today – no matter how small they may seem. Remember that our faith is not based on what we have or accomplish, but on who He is.

    Prayer / Closing

    Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for being my light and salvation in the darkest of times. Help me to trust You more deeply today, even when fear tries to creep in. Surround me with Your presence and remind me that I am never alone. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

    Call to Action

    If this devotional encouraged you, don’t just scroll on. Subscribe for more devotionals, share a comment about what God is teaching you, or reach out and tell me what you’re reflecting on today. Let’s grow in faith together.

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    Disclaimer:

    The views and opinions expressed in this post are solely those of the author. The information provided is based on personal research, experience, and understanding of the subject matter at the time of writing. Readers should consult relevant experts or authorities for specific guidance related to their unique situations.

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  7. Faith Over Fear: Daily Steps to Trust God in Tough Times

    744 words, 4 minutes read time.

    The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid? (Psalm 27:1, NIV)

    Introduction

    When tough times come, it’s easy to get caught up in fear and uncertainty. But as Christians, we have a greater option available to us: trusting God in the midst of chaos.

    In Psalm 27, David expresses his trust in God as his light, salvation, and stronghold. He asks who he should fear with such confidence in our Lord. As believers, we can do the same.

    Insights into Fear

    Fear is a natural human response to uncertainty and danger. However, when we let fear take hold, it can lead us down a path of doubt and despair. In 1 John 4:18, we’re reminded that God does not give us evil things to suffer, but rather gives us strength and hope in the midst of trial.

    When we focus on our fears rather than our faith, we open ourselves up to feelings of inadequacy and powerlessness. But when we fix our eyes on Jesus, we discover a different narrative – one of courage, resilience, and victory over fear.

    Practical Applications

    So how can we cultivate trust in God when the world around us seems dark and uncertain? Here are a few practical steps to consider:

    1. Practice Spiritual Discernment

    As believers, we have access to spiritual discernment through the Holy Spirit. When faced with fear or uncertainty, take time to pray and seek God’s guidance. Ask Him to reveal His truth in your situation, and trust that He is working everything out for your good (Romans 8:28).

    2. Focus on God’s Presence

    When we focus on our fears rather than our faith, we can lose sight of God’s presence in our lives. Take time to reflect on the promises of Scripture and remember that you are never alone. God is with you, even when it feels like He’s not (Deuteronomy 31:6).

    3. Surround Yourself with Believers

    When we surround ourselves with people who share our faith, we’re reminded that we’re not alone in this journey. Seek out community and connection with fellow believers – it can be a powerful antidote to fear and uncertainty.

    Reflection / Challenge

    • What are some specific fears or uncertainties you’re facing right now? Take time to pray for God’s strength and guidance in these areas.
    • Reflect on times when you’ve trusted God in the midst of tough times. What did you learn from those experiences, and how can you apply those lessons today?
    • Write down three things you trust God with today – no matter how small they may seem. Remember that our faith is not based on what we have or accomplish, but on who He is.

    Prayer / Closing

    Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for being my light and salvation in the darkest of times. Help me to trust You more deeply today, even when fear tries to creep in. Surround me with Your presence and remind me that I am never alone. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

    Call to Action

    If this devotional encouraged you, don’t just scroll on. Subscribe for more devotionals, share a comment about what God is teaching you, or reach out and tell me what you’re reflecting on today. Let’s grow in faith together.

    Sources

    Disclaimer:

    The views and opinions expressed in this post are solely those of the author. The information provided is based on personal research, experience, and understanding of the subject matter at the time of writing. Readers should consult relevant experts or authorities for specific guidance related to their unique situations.

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  8. Faith Over Fear: Daily Steps to Trust God in Tough Times

    744 words, 4 minutes read time.

    The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid? (Psalm 27:1, NIV)

    Introduction

    When tough times come, it’s easy to get caught up in fear and uncertainty. But as Christians, we have a greater option available to us: trusting God in the midst of chaos.

    In Psalm 27, David expresses his trust in God as his light, salvation, and stronghold. He asks who he should fear with such confidence in our Lord. As believers, we can do the same.

    Insights into Fear

    Fear is a natural human response to uncertainty and danger. However, when we let fear take hold, it can lead us down a path of doubt and despair. In 1 John 4:18, we’re reminded that God does not give us evil things to suffer, but rather gives us strength and hope in the midst of trial.

    When we focus on our fears rather than our faith, we open ourselves up to feelings of inadequacy and powerlessness. But when we fix our eyes on Jesus, we discover a different narrative – one of courage, resilience, and victory over fear.

    Practical Applications

    So how can we cultivate trust in God when the world around us seems dark and uncertain? Here are a few practical steps to consider:

    1. Practice Spiritual Discernment

    As believers, we have access to spiritual discernment through the Holy Spirit. When faced with fear or uncertainty, take time to pray and seek God’s guidance. Ask Him to reveal His truth in your situation, and trust that He is working everything out for your good (Romans 8:28).

    2. Focus on God’s Presence

    When we focus on our fears rather than our faith, we can lose sight of God’s presence in our lives. Take time to reflect on the promises of Scripture and remember that you are never alone. God is with you, even when it feels like He’s not (Deuteronomy 31:6).

    3. Surround Yourself with Believers

    When we surround ourselves with people who share our faith, we’re reminded that we’re not alone in this journey. Seek out community and connection with fellow believers – it can be a powerful antidote to fear and uncertainty.

    Reflection / Challenge

    • What are some specific fears or uncertainties you’re facing right now? Take time to pray for God’s strength and guidance in these areas.
    • Reflect on times when you’ve trusted God in the midst of tough times. What did you learn from those experiences, and how can you apply those lessons today?
    • Write down three things you trust God with today – no matter how small they may seem. Remember that our faith is not based on what we have or accomplish, but on who He is.

    Prayer / Closing

    Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for being my light and salvation in the darkest of times. Help me to trust You more deeply today, even when fear tries to creep in. Surround me with Your presence and remind me that I am never alone. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

    Call to Action

    If this devotional encouraged you, don’t just scroll on. Subscribe for more devotionals, share a comment about what God is teaching you, or reach out and tell me what you’re reflecting on today. Let’s grow in faith together.

    Sources

    Disclaimer:

    The views and opinions expressed in this post are solely those of the author. The information provided is based on personal research, experience, and understanding of the subject matter at the time of writing. Readers should consult relevant experts or authorities for specific guidance related to their unique situations.

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  9. Faith Over Fear: Daily Steps to Trust God in Tough Times

    744 words, 4 minutes read time.

    The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid? (Psalm 27:1, NIV)

    Introduction

    When tough times come, it’s easy to get caught up in fear and uncertainty. But as Christians, we have a greater option available to us: trusting God in the midst of chaos.

    In Psalm 27, David expresses his trust in God as his light, salvation, and stronghold. He asks who he should fear with such confidence in our Lord. As believers, we can do the same.

    Insights into Fear

    Fear is a natural human response to uncertainty and danger. However, when we let fear take hold, it can lead us down a path of doubt and despair. In 1 John 4:18, we’re reminded that God does not give us evil things to suffer, but rather gives us strength and hope in the midst of trial.

    When we focus on our fears rather than our faith, we open ourselves up to feelings of inadequacy and powerlessness. But when we fix our eyes on Jesus, we discover a different narrative – one of courage, resilience, and victory over fear.

    Practical Applications

    So how can we cultivate trust in God when the world around us seems dark and uncertain? Here are a few practical steps to consider:

    1. Practice Spiritual Discernment

    As believers, we have access to spiritual discernment through the Holy Spirit. When faced with fear or uncertainty, take time to pray and seek God’s guidance. Ask Him to reveal His truth in your situation, and trust that He is working everything out for your good (Romans 8:28).

    2. Focus on God’s Presence

    When we focus on our fears rather than our faith, we can lose sight of God’s presence in our lives. Take time to reflect on the promises of Scripture and remember that you are never alone. God is with you, even when it feels like He’s not (Deuteronomy 31:6).

    3. Surround Yourself with Believers

    When we surround ourselves with people who share our faith, we’re reminded that we’re not alone in this journey. Seek out community and connection with fellow believers – it can be a powerful antidote to fear and uncertainty.

    Reflection / Challenge

    • What are some specific fears or uncertainties you’re facing right now? Take time to pray for God’s strength and guidance in these areas.
    • Reflect on times when you’ve trusted God in the midst of tough times. What did you learn from those experiences, and how can you apply those lessons today?
    • Write down three things you trust God with today – no matter how small they may seem. Remember that our faith is not based on what we have or accomplish, but on who He is.

    Prayer / Closing

    Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for being my light and salvation in the darkest of times. Help me to trust You more deeply today, even when fear tries to creep in. Surround me with Your presence and remind me that I am never alone. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

    Call to Action

    If this devotional encouraged you, don’t just scroll on. Subscribe for more devotionals, share a comment about what God is teaching you, or reach out and tell me what you’re reflecting on today. Let’s grow in faith together.

    Sources

    Disclaimer:

    The views and opinions expressed in this post are solely those of the author. The information provided is based on personal research, experience, and understanding of the subject matter at the time of writing. Readers should consult relevant experts or authorities for specific guidance related to their unique situations.

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  10. Faith Over Fear: Daily Steps to Trust God in Tough Times

    744 words, 4 minutes read time.

    The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid? (Psalm 27:1, NIV)

    Introduction

    When tough times come, it’s easy to get caught up in fear and uncertainty. But as Christians, we have a greater option available to us: trusting God in the midst of chaos.

    In Psalm 27, David expresses his trust in God as his light, salvation, and stronghold. He asks who he should fear with such confidence in our Lord. As believers, we can do the same.

    Insights into Fear

    Fear is a natural human response to uncertainty and danger. However, when we let fear take hold, it can lead us down a path of doubt and despair. In 1 John 4:18, we’re reminded that God does not give us evil things to suffer, but rather gives us strength and hope in the midst of trial.

    When we focus on our fears rather than our faith, we open ourselves up to feelings of inadequacy and powerlessness. But when we fix our eyes on Jesus, we discover a different narrative – one of courage, resilience, and victory over fear.

    Practical Applications

    So how can we cultivate trust in God when the world around us seems dark and uncertain? Here are a few practical steps to consider:

    Practice Spiritual Discernment

    As believers, we have access to spiritual discernment through the Holy Spirit. When faced with fear or uncertainty, take time to pray and seek God’s guidance. Ask Him to reveal His truth in your situation, and trust that He is working everything out for your good (Romans 8:28).

    Focus on God’s Presence

    When we focus on our fears rather than our faith, we can lose sight of God’s presence in our lives. Take time to reflect on the promises of Scripture and remember that you are never alone. God is with you, even when it feels like He’s not (Deuteronomy 31:6).

    Surround Yourself with Believers

    When we surround ourselves with people who share our faith, we’re reminded that we’re not alone in this journey. Seek out community and connection with fellow believers – it can be a powerful antidote to fear and uncertainty.

    Reflection / Challenge

    • What are some specific fears or uncertainties you’re facing right now? Take time to pray for God’s strength and guidance in these areas.
    • Reflect on times when you’ve trusted God in the midst of tough times. What did you learn from those experiences, and how can you apply those lessons today?
    • Write down three things you trust God with today – no matter how small they may seem. Remember that our faith is not based on what we have or accomplish, but on who He is.

    Prayer / Closing

    Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for being my light and salvation in the darkest of times. Help me to trust You more deeply today, even when fear tries to creep in. Surround me with Your presence and remind me that I am never alone. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

    Call to Action

    If this devotional encouraged you, don’t just scroll on. Subscribe for more devotionals, share a comment about what God is teaching you, or reach out and tell me what you’re reflecting on today. Let’s grow in faith together.

    Sources

    Disclaimer:

    The views and opinions expressed in this post are solely those of the author. The information provided is based on personal research, experience, and understanding of the subject matter at the time of writing. Readers should consult relevant experts or authorities for specific guidance related to their unique situations.

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    Rate this:

    #1John418 #anxiety #anxietyRelief #believers #BibleStudy #biblicalStudies #challenge #ChristianHope #ChristianLiving #ChristianStrength #comfort #community #copingStrategies #courage #DavidSTrust #depressionSupport #Despair #Deuteronomy316 #devotion #Discernment #doubts #emotionalHealth #emotionalWellness #evilThings #Faith #faithInGod #FaithOverFear #fear #GodSPresence #guidance #HolySpirit #Hope #inadequacy #Jesus #journaling #light #mentalHealth #mentalHealthResources #NIV #peace #powerlessness #praisingGod #prayer #prayerForFear #prayerForGuidance #promisesOfScripture #psalm27 #Psalm271 #reassurance #reflection #resilience #Romans828 #salvation #SatanSTactics #spiritualDiscernment #SpiritualGrowth #spiritualWarfare #strength #stressManagement #stronghold #thankingGod #TheLordIsMyLightAndSalvation #theology #trial #trustInGod #trustingGodInChaos #TrustInGod #uncertainty #Victory #Worship #writingDownPrayers

  11. A quotation from Cicero

    What juster reason is there for the waging of war than to repel slavery? a condition in which, though your master may not be oppressive, yet it is a wretched thing he should have the power to be so if he will.
     
    [Quae causa iustior est belli gerendi quam servitutis depulsio? in qua etiamsi not sit molestus dominus, tamen est miserrimum posse, se velit.]

    Marcus Tullius Cicero (106-43 BC) Roman orator, statesman, philosopher
    Philippics [Philippicae; Antonian Orations], No. 8, ch. 4 / sec. 12 (8.4/8.12) (43-02-03 BC) [tr. Ker (Loeb) (1926)]

    More info about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/cicero-marcus-tulliu…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #cicero #philippic #benignity #freedom #justice #justification #liberty #master #oppression #power #powerlessness #slavery #tyranny #war #tyrant

  12. A quotation from Eric Hoffer

    There is a powerful craving in most of us to see ourselves as instruments in the hands of others and thus free ourselves from the responsibility for acts which are prompted by our own questionable inclinations and impulses. Both the strong and the weak grasp at this alibi. The latter hide their malevolence under the virtue of obedience: they acted dishonorably because they had to obey orders. The strong, too, claim absolution by proclaiming themselves the chosen instrument of a higher power — God, history, fate, nation or humanity.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    Passionate State of Mind, Aphorism 85 (1955)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/hoffer-eric/17587/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #destiny #excuse #instrument #justification #selfjustification #obedience #responsibility #powerlessness

  13. A quotation from Eric Hoffer

    There is a powerful craving in most of us to see ourselves as instruments in the hands of others and thus free ourselves from the responsibility for acts which are prompted by our own questionable inclinations and impulses. Both the strong and the weak grasp at this alibi. The latter hide their malevolence under the virtue of obedience: they acted dishonorably because they had to obey orders. The strong, too, claim absolution by proclaiming themselves the chosen instrument of a higher power — God, history, fate, nation or humanity.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    Passionate State of Mind, Aphorism 85 (1955)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/hoffer-eric/17587/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #destiny #excuse #instrument #justification #selfjustification #obedience #responsibility #powerlessness

  14. A quotation from Eric Hoffer

    There is a powerful craving in most of us to see ourselves as instruments in the hands of others and thus free ourselves from the responsibility for acts which are prompted by our own questionable inclinations and impulses. Both the strong and the weak grasp at this alibi. The latter hide their malevolence under the virtue of obedience: they acted dishonorably because they had to obey orders. The strong, too, claim absolution by proclaiming themselves the chosen instrument of a higher power — God, history, fate, nation or humanity.

    Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
    Passionate State of Mind, Aphorism 85 (1955)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/hoffer-eric/17587/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #destiny #excuse #instrument #justification #selfjustification #obedience #responsibility #powerlessness

  15. holy land warzone pumping up oil prices but theey are just dabbling for the most part in middle east - we have yet to see a full scale conflict that escalates to nuclear armegeddon involving all countries with nuke arsenals; ultimately they have to negotiate and find middle ground but it is up to them and can't be brokered or imposed #powerlessness

  16. Anger, This Unwanted And Useless Guest

    I don’t know if anger is ever useful, but it definitely is useless right now.

    I’m in a bind. I’ve had a wonderful one-night stand with a girl almost a month ago. We had a great time together. However, I’ve not heard from her since our encounter. This saddens me immensely. Now, one of the options before me would be to give in to anger. Should I do this? I don’t think so. I’m going to explain why.

    I’ve written about my meeting with this girl here. That article is restricted reading. Subscribe if you want to read it.

    I’ve said it before, and I’m going to say it again, the relationships I’ve had after my divorce have been challenging, but they also have been opportunities for growth. I’ve discussed it a bit in this piece:

    On Silver Linings And Cancer

    I find myself now again in a situation that, much against my will, is an opportunity for growth. This time around, the focus of my growth is anger.

    As I mentioned above, I’ve had a wonderful encounter with a girl, and then… nothing. Here’s what I know. She hasn’t blocked me. I would know. On some platforms, it is impossible to know whether someone blocked you, but here, I am able to know. She hasn’t been active on the dating apps. Again, I would know if she had. She just hasn’t responded to my messages.

    This girl is autistic. She also has some mental conditions, other than autism. She’s had a difficult past. All par for the course.

    So what happened?

    At the end of our encounter, a crisis surfaced at home. I’ll note here that “home” is several states away. So… what happened?

    Did the crisis turn to tragedy?

    Did she travel to be with her family?

    Did she start having suicidal ideations?

    Did she start self-harming?

    Did she start abusing substances?

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    Lest you think I’m being dramatic here with my last few points, I’ve had experience with these happening in partners. My approach when someone reports those issues is not to shame, but to listen patiently. Unfortunately, my girl knows nothing of this attitude of mine. She could have easily assumed that, like most people in this world, I’d get angry at her, and berate her if she reported suicidal ideations and the like.

    Our relationship had just begun…

    What is the impact of this on me? I am definitely sad, but I don’t think I should let anger grip me. I am convinced that in this case, anger would be useless, and most likely counterproductive. What would happen if I got angry at her? It would not make her want to be back with me. Even if, by some miracle, it would make her want to be back with me, I do not want someone who wants to be with me just out of fear.

    I’d be a liar if I said that anger did not strut her stuff right in front of me, enticing me to follow her. Still, I did not give in. I can clearly feel that giving in would feel good. “After I gave her everything! How dare she?” It would feel good to wallow in self-righteousness. Anger could even put on a little play in my head. In this play, I’d be the hero, she’d be the villain, and I’d be getting sweet revenge. It would feel so good.

    As seductive as anger can be, I cannot follow her. There is literally nothing to gain from it. It will not bring my girl back, or bring her back faster. Actually, there is very little I can do that would prompt her to come back. I cannot send her flowers, but even if I could, there’s no guarantee that those flowers would be well received.

    If she does come back to me, we will have to have a heart-to-heart. I am patient. I am kind. However, I’m no saint. There’s only so much I can take.

    From the case at hand here, I infer that anger, generally speaking, is a useless emotion. Anger is a reaction that appears in the face of powerlessness. Something happened that one is unable to easily rectify. So anger comes in, seeking revenge.

    Can anger ever be useful? I’m not sure. Maybe there is a certain type of anger that can serve as a signpost. For instance, if someone feels anger at social injustice, this anger can be an indicator that this person should be more active at countering this injustice.

    Perhaps, it can be useful, but only as a sign post. Notice it, and then let it go. Holding onto our anger is not fruitful.

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