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  1. This Sunday is #MothersDay in the US & Germany. Here's a 🧵 on books celebrating #womanhood across all ages - beyond #motherhood
    - starting w #Girlhood by Melissa Febos - a collection of texts at the intersection of #essay & #memoir about growing up as a girl under patriarchy

    #AmericanLiterature

  2. This Sunday is #MothersDay in the US & Germany. Here's a 🧵 on books celebrating #womanhood across all ages - beyond #motherhood
    - starting w #Girlhood by Melissa Febos - a collection of texts at the intersection of #essay & #memoir about growing up as a girl under patriarchy

    #AmericanLiterature

  3. This Sunday is #MothersDay in the US & Germany. Here's a 🧵 on books celebrating #womanhood across all ages - beyond #motherhood
    - starting w #Girlhood by Melissa Febos - a collection of texts at the intersection of #essay & #memoir about growing up as a girl under patriarchy

    #AmericanLiterature

  4. Ile lat mają dziewczyny,
    kiedy opuszcza je błękit? Kiedy

    ich czułość staje się ciepła
    ich czułość staje się ciężka

    zakładają domy, stanowią z ziemią
    domknięty okrąg, tłuką filiżanki,

    przestają pisać listy w kosmos/łączyć
    czerwone róże z deszczami meteorów/znikać w internecie/
    przygarniać czarne koty/uciekać do lasu/zbierać porcelanę/
    szukać odpowiedzi na zapytaj.onet/straszyć na rozdrożach

    #jeszczeżywaalternatywa #fedinterest #coquette #morute #ethereal #girlhood #wiersz #girl

  5. Third and last node of tactics&practice#16 is wrapped! 🥹

    Thanks to all the iconic artists and participants who made this experience so magical. Almost forgot that #girlhood is the whole point ♥︎⸜(。˃ ᵕ ˂)⸝♡

    aksioma.org/ayasu/

  6. A moving short essay by Emily Wilson about #girlhood, 2.500 years ago and now. I'm always impressed by the way writers like Wilson, Alice Stallings (who shows up in this essay) and Anne Carson really breath life into classical Greek literature and make it relevant to us.
    #ancientliterature #greekmythology #womenwriters
    lrb.co.uk/the-paper/v44/n15/em

  7. "The experience of girlhood is that there is no correct way to be, and if there was you'd fuck it up anyway.... The essence of it is nobody knowing what to do with you." —Sarah Marshall from the You Are Good podcast with a message to us trans women who came out as adults.
    #YouAreGoodPodcast #girlhood #TransWomen #SarahMarshall

  8. this beatles music is also forcing me to once again face girlhood (an ongoing theme of this trip home so far...with photos of my girl-self all around, some disturbing "little girl" art i saw at a museum, and a book i'm reading called "why be happy when you could be normal?"

    this album ("rubber soul") is filled with song after song devoted to "girl" after "girl". and then a line like "you better run for your life if you can, little girl... hide your head in the sand, little girl...catch you with another man, it's the end, little girl."

    i know every word & note of these songs. i loved them as a kid. as a *girl*. i was definitely carried away with the desire dripping from all these songs. one of them is literally called "girl".

    (not on "rubber soul" but on a different album, there's a whole song devoted to the girls of the USSR! i knew it was meant to be funny, but as a little kid who actually *was* from that place, i loved that he was dedicating a whole song to his love of girls from where i was from! *i* was one of those girls! :flan_excite:​)

    but mixed with all this love and longing for these various "girls", is that underlying jealous threat. and the fact that all these "girls" are actually adult women. they are objects of pursuit, then girlfriends, then "difficult girlfriends", then "wistful memories", and "jilted anger". i was like, "oh ok...so i guess that's who i am in these stories."

    as a kid, i wondered "who is the weird "norwegian wood" girl?" or "why is "michelle" so mean?" but also, "why does he still want the mean michelle girl?" and "what the hell is the moral of the "norwegian wood" story?"

    all these various pop culture stories about "girls" (who are actually adult women, although sometimes they are literal girls, because there are some extremely gross dudes out there), really affected me growing up. i knew that *i* was a girl, & i knew that being a "woman" was in my future. so i was very interested in learning all i could about what this future would have in store for me. i knew that for my mom & all the generations before her (in the part of the world that we're from), a woman's future was hella bleak. at least i would hopefully not have to endure forced pregnancy (most women in the past had little choice about whether they would have children. it was pretty much the only way to earn your keep, right? you couldn't work, couldn't own land, couldn't have a bank account...). but i felt lucky to have been born when i was & to live in a country where i could "be anything i wanted to be" (<insert 90s hillary clinton image here>).

    but girls are very vulnerable. and i was very vulnerable as a girl. i literally didn't know anything about anything, except to not trust strangers! and adult men gave me many reasons to not trust them, starting from age 13, when i probably felt the worst about myself & my awkward teen appearance, but apparently for creepy adult men, i looked like a juicy little treat!

    so in conclusion, i have no conclusion. the society i grew up in (mostly "america in the 90s") was filled with contradictions. men who devoted songs to women called "girls", while talking about "ending" them in the next song... a society that says you can "be anything you want to be", while never actually protecting you... and we're still living in that world today. the end.

    #patriarchy #girlhood #culture #CPTSD #family #CulturalAnthropology #CulturalStudies

  9. #introduction Hello! I’m mainly over at @[email protected] right now, trying to figure this all out. I am a #book #editor at University of North Carolina Press (@uncpress). I work with #scholars writing books on #history (hi #histodons 👋🏼), #BlackStudies, #AfricanAmericanHistory, #BlackFeminist studies, #girlhood studies, #socialjustice issues, and #carceral studies. I acquire three series in collaboration with series editors: Justice, Power, and Politics; Boundless South; and Black Women’s History. I have broad acquisitions interests in the #humanities and #socialsciences!

  10. #introduction Hello! I’m a #book #editor at University of North Carolina Press (@uncpress). I work with #scholars writing books on #history (hi #histodons 👋🏼), #BlackStudies, #AfricanAmericanHistory, #BlackFeminist studies, #girlhood studies, #socialjustice issues, and #carceral studies. I acquire three series in collaboration with series editors: Justice, Power, and Politics; Boundless South; and Black Women’s History. I have broad acquisitions interests in the #humanities and #socialsciences!