#self-compassion — Public Fediverse posts
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Acceptance lead me to accepting myself and eventually loving myself.
I honestly felt like I was never going to get there. I’m beyond grateful to my past self for starting the journey. Thank you to everyone who helped me along the way.
16/
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Acceptance lead me to accepting myself and eventually loving myself.
I honestly felt like I was never going to get there. I’m beyond grateful to my past self for starting the journey. Thank you to everyone who helped me along the way.
16/
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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Coming back to myself brought such peace, calm, and so much energy.
I missed myself. I remember looking at myself in the mirror and saying to myself: “There you are. I’ve missed you!”
People began telling me I was radiant and that they wanted to be around my energy. My first therapy session after that day felt like I had graduated to the next level of life.
Acceptance has improved my life in so many ways.
15/
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Coming back to myself brought such peace, calm, and so much energy.
I missed myself. I remember looking at myself in the mirror and saying to myself: “There you are. I’ve missed you!”
People began telling me I was radiant and that they wanted to be around my energy. My first therapy session after that day felt like I had graduated to the next level of life.
Acceptance has improved my life in so many ways.
15/
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I listened to Maggie Sterling’s podcast episode 22 “The Missing Step in Nervous System Work” that was released on the same day and I eventually came back to myself. Not just from that one fight or flight moment but I eventually felt like myself again.
My literal thinking had me believing that I could not accept something I did not like. So I spent most of my life fighting against reality.
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Always bracing myself for the next terrible thing to happen.
That podcast let me know that I did not have to like what was happening, but I needed to accept it. Because fighting against it was signaling danger to my nervous system.
I stopped feeling like myself almost a decade ago and did not know why. I now know that when I lost a job in 2016 for the first time in my life that I ended up in survival mode.
14/
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I listened to Maggie Sterling’s podcast episode 22 “The Missing Step in Nervous System Work” that was released on the same day and I eventually came back to myself. Not just from that one fight or flight moment but I eventually felt like myself again.
My literal thinking had me believing that I could not accept something I did not like. So I spent most of my life fighting against reality.
13/
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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Always bracing myself for the next terrible thing to happen.
That podcast let me know that I did not have to like what was happening, but I needed to accept it. Because fighting against it was signaling danger to my nervous system.
I stopped feeling like myself almost a decade ago and did not know why. I now know that when I lost a job in 2016 for the first time in my life that I ended up in survival mode.
14/
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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I discovered Maggie Sterling on TikTok and started listening to her podcast a few weeks earlier.
Her podcast on January 12, 2026 saved my life that day. That’s not hyperbole. As I was shaking with what I thought was anxiety, I googled it and discovered I was in fight or flight so tried breathing exercises to recover but no amount of breathing exercises helped. What finally worked was splashing cold water on my face.
12/
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I’m grateful for the work of Kristin Neff in this area and so glad that I stumbled upon her books. Providing myself the same care and compassion I would provide a friend was a great way to continue my journey towards self-love.
The last step before I finally started to love myself was acceptance. Radical self acceptance.
Another storm had me in fight or flight on January 12, 2026.
I was reborn that day.
11/
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I’m grateful for the work of Kristin Neff in this area and so glad that I stumbled upon her books. Providing myself the same care and compassion I would provide a friend was a great way to continue my journey towards self-love.
The last step before I finally started to love myself was acceptance. Radical self acceptance.
Another storm had me in fight or flight on January 12, 2026.
I was reborn that day.
11/
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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I discovered Maggie Sterling on TikTok and started listening to her podcast a few weeks earlier.
Her podcast on January 12, 2026 saved my life that day. That’s not hyperbole. As I was shaking with what I thought was anxiety, I googled it and discovered I was in fight or flight so tried breathing exercises to recover but no amount of breathing exercises helped. What finally worked was splashing cold water on my face.
12/
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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I have spent my life feeling like I was wrong. Too sensitive. Not enough. But also too much. My needs did not matter. So I became the good girl. Always shapeshifting into what I thought others wanted me to be.
I never once thought to ask myself what I wanted. I hated myself my whole life.
It took a while to go from being my own worst enemy to becoming my own best friend. That’s where self-compassion came in.
10/
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While I do not have an assessment, the more I learn about neurodivergence in high masking women, I realize that is likely me. My struggles are mostly internal.
I didn’t even know I was masking my whole life until I learned what that meant. So I’m likely autistic.
I asked my doctor yesterday about getting assessed for autism.
Hoping I can access it as I’ve heard it can be quite expensive.
9/
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While I do not have an assessment, the more I learn about neurodivergence in high masking women, I realize that is likely me. My struggles are mostly internal.
I didn’t even know I was masking my whole life until I learned what that meant. So I’m likely autistic.
I asked my doctor yesterday about getting assessed for autism.
Hoping I can access it as I’ve heard it can be quite expensive.
9/
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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I have spent my life feeling like I was wrong. Too sensitive. Not enough. But also too much. My needs did not matter. So I became the good girl. Always shapeshifting into what I thought others wanted me to be.
I never once thought to ask myself what I wanted. I hated myself my whole life.
It took a while to go from being my own worst enemy to becoming my own best friend. That’s where self-compassion came in.
10/
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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I didn’t believe the panic attacks would not come back so it took months before I believed they were in the past.
The next step was learning about my neurodivergence because of one question my friend asked me when she reached out to me to offer her help with my panic attacks.
She asked me if I was neurodivergent or questioning.
Yes, yes I was questioning! I had even brought it up with my therapist before.
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I already knew I was a highly sensitive person (HSP) but there was more.
Her offering me to be a part of her neurodivergent community helped me see myself as not broken. I finally felt seen for the first time in my life. All my quirks I thought were my personality were more likely my neurodivergence. I no longer felt like an outsider. This was the greatest gift I had ever received. Knowing myself. Truly knowing myself.
8/
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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I didn’t believe the panic attacks would not come back so it took months before I believed they were in the past.
The next step was learning about my neurodivergence because of one question my friend asked me when she reached out to me to offer her help with my panic attacks.
She asked me if I was neurodivergent or questioning.
Yes, yes I was questioning! I had even brought it up with my therapist before.
7/
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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I already knew I was a highly sensitive person (HSP) but there was more.
Her offering me to be a part of her neurodivergent community helped me see myself as not broken. I finally felt seen for the first time in my life. All my quirks I thought were my personality were more likely my neurodivergence. I no longer felt like an outsider. This was the greatest gift I had ever received. Knowing myself. Truly knowing myself.
8/
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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I posted about my PTSD on Facebook. Several people reached out but one friend’s message really spoke to me.
She offered to speak with me about what helped her and I eventually stopped having panic attacks. I was beyond grateful.
The magic ingredient for me was providing evidence that I was safe.
My therapist told me to tell myself I was safe after he diagnosed me in 2024 with medical PTSD but I never believed it.
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I posted about my PTSD on Facebook. Several people reached out but one friend’s message really spoke to me.
She offered to speak with me about what helped her and I eventually stopped having panic attacks. I was beyond grateful.
The magic ingredient for me was providing evidence that I was safe.
My therapist told me to tell myself I was safe after he diagnosed me in 2024 with medical PTSD but I never believed it.
6/
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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I started stepping into my authenticity. It was not easy. Little things like sharing an unpopular opinion. Or completely owning the things I loved instead of hiding.
Sharing parts of myself I previously hid. That included sharing my struggles with PTSD and panic attacks.
Shame had me trying to hide since I was having daily panic attacks for almost 3 months. I decided to reach out to my HR department at work in 2025.
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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I started stepping into my authenticity. It was not easy. Little things like sharing an unpopular opinion. Or completely owning the things I loved instead of hiding.
Sharing parts of myself I previously hid. That included sharing my struggles with PTSD and panic attacks.
Shame had me trying to hide since I was having daily panic attacks for almost 3 months. I decided to reach out to my HR department at work in 2025.
5/
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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He has been a steady presence for me during my darkest times.
He helped me learn how to be with my feelings instead of pushing them down. He was a safe space for me to be my authentic self.
He helped me identify what brings me joy and planning to bring more of that into my life.
Learning that how I talk to myself matters. Switching from listening to my inner critic to challenging it. Thoughts are not facts.
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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He has been a steady presence for me during my darkest times.
He helped me learn how to be with my feelings instead of pushing them down. He was a safe space for me to be my authentic self.
He helped me identify what brings me joy and planning to bring more of that into my life.
Learning that how I talk to myself matters. Switching from listening to my inner critic to challenging it. Thoughts are not facts.
4/
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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I believe that making my mental health a priority was the first step years ago.
The grief I experienced after losing my first parent (my dad) in 2020 caused me to seek therapy.
I’ve had my therapist for many years now. I originally had limited sessions with a counsellor through my work benefits and she helped me through the initial grief. When I was still struggling months later, I sought out a therapist.
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Our sessions are virtual since he is in Toronto. He helped me see how I was not caring for myself.
He worked with me to incorporate self-care into my days. Things like preparing healthy meals for myself and getting myself into nature.
His words to me in 2023 inspired me to reach out to others and finally accept help. He told me my self-isolation was harming me and that I needed others.
I’m so grateful for him.
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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Our sessions are virtual since he is in Toronto. He helped me see how I was not caring for myself.
He worked with me to incorporate self-care into my days. Things like preparing healthy meals for myself and getting myself into nature.
His words to me in 2023 inspired me to reach out to others and finally accept help. He told me my self-isolation was harming me and that I needed others.
I’m so grateful for him.
3/
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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I believe that making my mental health a priority was the first step years ago.
The grief I experienced after losing my first parent (my dad) in 2020 caused me to seek therapy.
I’ve had my therapist for many years now. I originally had limited sessions with a counsellor through my work benefits and she helped me through the initial grief. When I was still struggling months later, I sought out a therapist.
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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I am so grateful to be alive.
The many storms that I’ve been through have changed me. But now I feel compelled to help others.
Yesterday a colleague asked me if I could be her therapist. 😃 I’m not a therapist but even my therapist told me in my last session that I could be a therapist. That’s not something I’m interested in but I do want to share what has helped me.
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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I am so grateful to be alive.
The many storms that I’ve been through have changed me. But now I feel compelled to help others.
Yesterday a colleague asked me if I could be her therapist. 😃 I’m not a therapist but even my therapist told me in my last session that I could be a therapist. That’s not something I’m interested in but I do want to share what has helped me.
1/
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#SelfCare #SelfCompassion #MentalHealth #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee
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I've been writing this month's newsletter this morning, which is going to focus on #SelfCompassion, why it can be difficult, but so worthwhile.
I publish it just once a month, so if you'd like an occasional dose of wellbeing in your in-box, you can sign up below:
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I've been writing this month's newsletter this morning, which is going to focus on #SelfCompassion, why it can be difficult, but so worthwhile.
I publish it just once a month, so if you'd like an occasional dose of wellbeing in your in-box, you can sign up below:
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Following on from yesterday's #SelfCompassion podcast episode, here's a blog post on why it makes such a difference:
https://www.worklifepsych.com/self-compassion-the-missing-ingredient/
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Following on from yesterday's #SelfCompassion podcast episode, here's a blog post on why it makes such a difference:
https://www.worklifepsych.com/self-compassion-the-missing-ingredient/
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Morning all!
🎧 It's #podcast publication day, and the latest episode features an interview with an expert in #SelfCompassion. We explore why it's hard to be kind to ourselves, why it matters to our wellbeing and performance at work, and what we can do to bring self-compassion to life in our everyday routines.
You can find Ep 218 of #MyPocketPsych wherever you get your podcasts, or direct from my website:
https://www.worklifepsych.com/podcast/218/ -
Morning all!
🎧 It's #podcast publication day, and the latest episode features an interview with an expert in #SelfCompassion. We explore why it's hard to be kind to ourselves, why it matters to our wellbeing and performance at work, and what we can do to bring self-compassion to life in our everyday routines.
You can find Ep 218 of #MyPocketPsych wherever you get your podcasts, or direct from my website:
https://www.worklifepsych.com/podcast/218/ -
“Everything that is done in the world is done by hope.” Martin Luther
What if today we replaced just one worry with one hope?
We may not have all the answers, but hope reminds us that possibilities still exist.
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#hope #belief #SelfCompassion
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You would never say to a friend half the things you say to yourself.
Karuna is compassion, and it is owed to you too. Start treating that inner voice like it is talking to someone worth protecting. Because it is.
#SelfLove #SelfCompassion #Mindfulness #Buddhism -
You would never say to a friend half the things you say to yourself.
Karuna is compassion, and it is owed to you too. Start treating that inner voice like it is talking to someone worth protecting. Because it is.
#SelfLove #SelfCompassion #Mindfulness #Buddhism -
DATE: July 6, 2026 at 08:00PM
SOURCE: PSYPOST.ORG** Research quality varies widely from fantastic to small exploratory studies. Please check research methods when conclusions are very important to you. **
-------------------------------------------------TITLE: How a single mindful moment improves mental health for days
URL: https://www.psypost.org/how-a-single-mindful-moment-improves-mental-health-for-days/
A new study published in Mindfulness demonstrates how daily habits of mental awareness translate into better psychological health. Researchers found that distinct aspects of mindfulness improve well-being by reducing intrusive worries and boosting supportive emotions like self-compassion. By tracking participants day by day, the study establishes an ongoing chain of events where a focused mental state feeds directly into lasting emotional improvements.
Many psychologists define mindfulness as the practice of maintaining explicit awareness of the present moment with a curious and accepting attitude. Previous studies routinely measured participants before and after a weeks-long training program. This approach missed the daily fluctuations in mood and failed to capture the specific steps that convert a brief mindful state into lasting psychological benefits.
Instead of viewing mindfulness as a permanent personality habit, the researchers wanted to understand it as a temporary state of being. Traditional psychology research often focuses on group differences, asking whether generally mindful individuals are happier than distracted individuals. While informative, this approach does not capture how therapeutic changes actually take hold within an individual mind over time.
The research team wanted to map the exact sequence of events connecting an instance of awareness to feeling better a day or two later. Paul Verhaeghen from the Georgia Institute of Technology, Shelley Aikman from the University of North Georgia, and Nilam Ram from Stanford University conducted the research.
To track these daily changes, the researchers recruited 264 college students. Roughly half the participants enrolled in an eight-week mindfulness program tailored for young adults. The remaining students served as a waitlist control group.
The training involved small daily doses of meditation and mindful routines. Students practiced techniques like body scan meditation, breath-focused exercises, and mindful eating. They were instructed to practice these routines for ten to twenty minutes a day, and they also chose one ordinary daily activity to perform with deliberate attention.
Rather than relying on retrospective questionnaires, the researchers used a smartphone application to prompt participants four times a day. When the alert sounded, participants had a short window to answer questions about their current state of mind. These regular check-ins assessed their immediate level of mindfulness, mental health indicators like depression and stress, and potential intermediary factors predicting mood changes.
The researchers focused on four specific intermediary factors to explain how mindfulness functionally works. The first was rumination, which involves getting stuck in repetitive negative thoughts about oneself. The second factor was cognitive interference, defined as distracting or intrusive worries that disrupt focus.
The final two factors focused on positive emotions. Self-compassion involves treating oneself with kindness and understanding during moments of difficulty. Self-transcendence describes the experience of connecting to something larger than oneself, often characterized by bursts of joy, awe, or a sense of closeness to others.
Using statistical models that look at delayed effects across consecutive days, the researchers established a temporal sequence. They found that heightened mindfulness on one day directly reduced rumination and cognitive interference on the following day. These reductions then improved overall mental health and general wellness on the third day. Because the study tracked symptoms as they happened over time, the researchers concluded that this represents a causal flow of influence.
Different elements of mindfulness sparked different internal pathways. The psychological concept of mindfulness can be split into two main facets. One facet is simply observing experiences, and the other is actively accepting them without judgment. The smartphone data showed that these two mental habits operate differently in the brain.
Actively accepting experiences without judgment primarily functioned by quieting the mind. When participants practiced nonjudgment, they experienced lower levels of rumination and mental distraction the next day. This quieted state then paved the way for lower anxiety and depression.
Conversely, merely observing one’s thoughts without reacting led to a separate set of benefits. Increased observation was linked to higher levels of self-compassion and more frequent feelings of awe or joy. These positive emotional states fully explained the subsequent improvements in mental health and flourishing.
Of all the intermediary factors, cognitive interference emerged as the strongest mechanism for positive change. When mindfulness reduced the number of distracting, intrusive thoughts, it accounted for nearly all the subsequent improvements in mental well-being. By freeing the mind from excessive self-preoccupation, participants found a reliable route to lower stress and elevated mood.
The study also revealed that these beneficial factors influence each other continuously. Reducing negative thoughts made it easier for a participant to feel self-compassion later on. A single day of focused mindfulness ignited an ongoing feedback loop of psychological benefits, with positive effects rippling through a person’s mood for up to four days.
The cascading nature of these effects helps explain why mindfulness exercises seem to improve so many loosely related aspects of life simultaneously. No single mechanism handles every psychological benefit. Reducing rumination does not directly create joy, but it clears the path for awe and self-compassion, which in turn lift a person’s overall spirits.
The researchers examined whether participating in the formal eight-week training altered these internal pathways. They found that group membership did not modify the mechanical sequence of psychological events. The students in the experimental group experienced the exact same internal cascade as the control group.
This suggests that the formal training program did not invent a new way for the brain to process stress. Instead, the daily meditation simply increased the participants’ baseline volume of mindfulness. This elevated awareness then fed more energy into a natural healing sequence that all people inherently share.
The specific demographic of the participants presents a limitation to the study. The researchers studied college students taking remote classes during the pandemic. The remote nature of the training and the distinct stresses of being a university student might limit how broadly the results apply to the general public or to in-person clinical settings.
The demanding survey schedule also resulted in a relatively low response rate. Participants answered about 46 percent of the daily smartphone prompts. The research team deliberately chose frequent check-ins to gather detailed data on short-lived emotions, trading perfect attendance for a highly granular view of daily psychological changes.
Future investigations will need to identify the minimum dose of meditation required to sustain these beneficial feedback loops. The researchers suggest that alternative therapeutic approaches, such as cognitive behavioral therapy, might activate these same internal pathways without requiring formal meditation. Treating mental health might ultimately rely on finding multiple ways to quiet self-preoccupation and foster self-compassion.
The study, “Free Your Mind and Mental Health and Wellbeing Will Follow: Evidence from Across-Day Within-Person Mediation in an Eight-Week Mindfulness RCT,” was authored by Paul Verhaeghen, Shelley Aikman, and Nilam Ram.
URL: https://www.psypost.org/how-a-single-mindful-moment-improves-mental-health-for-days/
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DATE: July 6, 2026 at 08:00PM
SOURCE: PSYPOST.ORG** Research quality varies widely from fantastic to small exploratory studies. Please check research methods when conclusions are very important to you. **
-------------------------------------------------TITLE: How a single mindful moment improves mental health for days
URL: https://www.psypost.org/how-a-single-mindful-moment-improves-mental-health-for-days/
A new study published in Mindfulness demonstrates how daily habits of mental awareness translate into better psychological health. Researchers found that distinct aspects of mindfulness improve well-being by reducing intrusive worries and boosting supportive emotions like self-compassion. By tracking participants day by day, the study establishes an ongoing chain of events where a focused mental state feeds directly into lasting emotional improvements.
Many psychologists define mindfulness as the practice of maintaining explicit awareness of the present moment with a curious and accepting attitude. Previous studies routinely measured participants before and after a weeks-long training program. This approach missed the daily fluctuations in mood and failed to capture the specific steps that convert a brief mindful state into lasting psychological benefits.
Instead of viewing mindfulness as a permanent personality habit, the researchers wanted to understand it as a temporary state of being. Traditional psychology research often focuses on group differences, asking whether generally mindful individuals are happier than distracted individuals. While informative, this approach does not capture how therapeutic changes actually take hold within an individual mind over time.
The research team wanted to map the exact sequence of events connecting an instance of awareness to feeling better a day or two later. Paul Verhaeghen from the Georgia Institute of Technology, Shelley Aikman from the University of North Georgia, and Nilam Ram from Stanford University conducted the research.
To track these daily changes, the researchers recruited 264 college students. Roughly half the participants enrolled in an eight-week mindfulness program tailored for young adults. The remaining students served as a waitlist control group.
The training involved small daily doses of meditation and mindful routines. Students practiced techniques like body scan meditation, breath-focused exercises, and mindful eating. They were instructed to practice these routines for ten to twenty minutes a day, and they also chose one ordinary daily activity to perform with deliberate attention.
Rather than relying on retrospective questionnaires, the researchers used a smartphone application to prompt participants four times a day. When the alert sounded, participants had a short window to answer questions about their current state of mind. These regular check-ins assessed their immediate level of mindfulness, mental health indicators like depression and stress, and potential intermediary factors predicting mood changes.
The researchers focused on four specific intermediary factors to explain how mindfulness functionally works. The first was rumination, which involves getting stuck in repetitive negative thoughts about oneself. The second factor was cognitive interference, defined as distracting or intrusive worries that disrupt focus.
The final two factors focused on positive emotions. Self-compassion involves treating oneself with kindness and understanding during moments of difficulty. Self-transcendence describes the experience of connecting to something larger than oneself, often characterized by bursts of joy, awe, or a sense of closeness to others.
Using statistical models that look at delayed effects across consecutive days, the researchers established a temporal sequence. They found that heightened mindfulness on one day directly reduced rumination and cognitive interference on the following day. These reductions then improved overall mental health and general wellness on the third day. Because the study tracked symptoms as they happened over time, the researchers concluded that this represents a causal flow of influence.
Different elements of mindfulness sparked different internal pathways. The psychological concept of mindfulness can be split into two main facets. One facet is simply observing experiences, and the other is actively accepting them without judgment. The smartphone data showed that these two mental habits operate differently in the brain.
Actively accepting experiences without judgment primarily functioned by quieting the mind. When participants practiced nonjudgment, they experienced lower levels of rumination and mental distraction the next day. This quieted state then paved the way for lower anxiety and depression.
Conversely, merely observing one’s thoughts without reacting led to a separate set of benefits. Increased observation was linked to higher levels of self-compassion and more frequent feelings of awe or joy. These positive emotional states fully explained the subsequent improvements in mental health and flourishing.
Of all the intermediary factors, cognitive interference emerged as the strongest mechanism for positive change. When mindfulness reduced the number of distracting, intrusive thoughts, it accounted for nearly all the subsequent improvements in mental well-being. By freeing the mind from excessive self-preoccupation, participants found a reliable route to lower stress and elevated mood.
The study also revealed that these beneficial factors influence each other continuously. Reducing negative thoughts made it easier for a participant to feel self-compassion later on. A single day of focused mindfulness ignited an ongoing feedback loop of psychological benefits, with positive effects rippling through a person’s mood for up to four days.
The cascading nature of these effects helps explain why mindfulness exercises seem to improve so many loosely related aspects of life simultaneously. No single mechanism handles every psychological benefit. Reducing rumination does not directly create joy, but it clears the path for awe and self-compassion, which in turn lift a person’s overall spirits.
The researchers examined whether participating in the formal eight-week training altered these internal pathways. They found that group membership did not modify the mechanical sequence of psychological events. The students in the experimental group experienced the exact same internal cascade as the control group.
This suggests that the formal training program did not invent a new way for the brain to process stress. Instead, the daily meditation simply increased the participants’ baseline volume of mindfulness. This elevated awareness then fed more energy into a natural healing sequence that all people inherently share.
The specific demographic of the participants presents a limitation to the study. The researchers studied college students taking remote classes during the pandemic. The remote nature of the training and the distinct stresses of being a university student might limit how broadly the results apply to the general public or to in-person clinical settings.
The demanding survey schedule also resulted in a relatively low response rate. Participants answered about 46 percent of the daily smartphone prompts. The research team deliberately chose frequent check-ins to gather detailed data on short-lived emotions, trading perfect attendance for a highly granular view of daily psychological changes.
Future investigations will need to identify the minimum dose of meditation required to sustain these beneficial feedback loops. The researchers suggest that alternative therapeutic approaches, such as cognitive behavioral therapy, might activate these same internal pathways without requiring formal meditation. Treating mental health might ultimately rely on finding multiple ways to quiet self-preoccupation and foster self-compassion.
The study, “Free Your Mind and Mental Health and Wellbeing Will Follow: Evidence from Across-Day Within-Person Mediation in an Eight-Week Mindfulness RCT,” was authored by Paul Verhaeghen, Shelley Aikman, and Nilam Ram.
URL: https://www.psypost.org/how-a-single-mindful-moment-improves-mental-health-for-days/
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Summer self-care. By Blessing Manifesting
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The first time I ate cheese after ten years of being vegan, I cried.
Not from guilt, but relief. A deep thank-you I'd spent a decade trying not to hear.
Have you ever felt your body asking for something your mind wasn't ready to give?
Read the full story
https://medium.com/@clarainsweden/the-vegetarian-middle-path-after-years-of-being-vegan-9dcfbd0a4d17
#veganism #bodylistening #ahimsa
#plantbased #intuitiveeating #yogaphilosophy
#mindfulness #selfcompassion #wellness -
The first time I ate cheese after ten years of being vegan, I cried.
Not from guilt, but relief. A deep thank-you I'd spent a decade trying not to hear.
Have you ever felt your body asking for something your mind wasn't ready to give?
Read the full story
https://medium.com/@clarainsweden/the-vegetarian-middle-path-after-years-of-being-vegan-9dcfbd0a4d17
#veganism #bodylistening #ahimsa
#plantbased #intuitiveeating #yogaphilosophy
#mindfulness #selfcompassion #wellness -
Rebellion
Loving yourself
Is rebellion.
This world tries
To keep you small
And hating your flaws.
Loving yourself
Is rebellion.
Step into your
Authenticity;
Take up space.
Loving yourself
Is rebellion.
Be unapologetically you.
Show the world
Your unique sparkle.
Loving yourself
Is rebellion.
Polish your crown;
Step into your light;
You are unstoppable!💟🌟💟
Love,
Stacie Bee
xxx 1/3#Poetry #Rebellion #SelfLove #SelfCompassion #StacieBee #LoveStacieBee
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Rebellion
Loving yourself
Is rebellion.
This world tries
To keep you small
And hating your flaws.
Loving yourself
Is rebellion.
Step into your
Authenticity;
Take up space.
Loving yourself
Is rebellion.
Be unapologetically you.
Show the world
Your unique sparkle.
Loving yourself
Is rebellion.
Polish your crown;
Step into your light;
You are unstoppable!💟🌟💟
Love,
Stacie Bee
xxx 1/3#Poetry #Rebellion #SelfLove #SelfCompassion #StacieBee #LoveStacieBee
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The Dance of Dissonance
Sometimes
#brainFog #circleOfLove #danceOfRelationship #dissonance #dock #emotionalBoundaries #emotionalReflection #empathy #GriefAndGrace #healingJourney #humanRelationships #hypervigilance #innerHealing #invisibleStrings #June2026 #labyrinth #marionette #Masks #MentalHealth #pastoralReflection #photorealisticIllustration #relationshipAnxiety #selfCompassion #SelfDoubt #SpiritualReflection #stage #surrealArt #surrealism #symbolicArt #unraveling #vulnerability
I find myself lost
at the end of
a confusing day
trying to decipher labyrinthian relations
and coming up short,
suddenly wondering
how a day I thought good
was not for another,
caught up in
opposing realities
where mine is suspect
and empathy is a struggle.
The brain fog
of past illness
has left its trailing
fingers over my head
like the cigarette smoke
of the man I see one morning standing with his back to me on the dock outside the store where I used to work
and I wonder why he is there.
I am suspicious, feeling responsible for what is no longer mine to care about, so I observe, yet remain at a distance and leave without really discovering if his presence is innocent.
Such is the dance of dissonance.
I am close enough to see your back but too far to see your face clearly,
afraid that if I look too closely I will not like what I see or that I will recognize some ugly part of me.
I want to hear
that which runs
counter to my experience
but I must be honest and say that my capacity to understand the complexities of human behavior is diminishing.
I long for circles that are completely safe,
where the people I pass on the walk home illicit in me feelings other than fear,
lust, guilt, or judgement,
all of which mirror
the overwhelming sense
of dislike
I feel from the
world, and from myself perhaps.
It is my inability to not receive everything personally, this overwhelming sadness, unprotected by my hypervigilance, where I still seem to miss what is most important, and no matter how much I try to hold everything together, I cannot keep things from unraveling.
How do I continue to remain caring and yet not take on burdens that are not mine to carry?
This then is the strange choreography of relationship, the stumbling herky-jerky movements of a marionette pulled by invisible strings, revealed in the bright lights of another angry stage.
Yet we dance.
Through the pain of revelation.
The occasional stepping on of toes.
In the percieved exposure of audience eyes.
Shedding these inadequate masks and costumes one by one.
Finding our own rhythm in the strange movings of this particular
circle of love.
Beg: June 5, 2026
Fin: June 30, 2026 -
The Dance of Dissonance
Sometimes
#brainFog #circleOfLove #danceOfRelationship #dissonance #dock #emotionalBoundaries #emotionalReflection #empathy #GriefAndGrace #healingJourney #humanRelationships #hypervigilance #innerHealing #invisibleStrings #June2026 #labyrinth #marionette #Masks #MentalHealth #pastoralReflection #photorealisticIllustration #relationshipAnxiety #selfCompassion #SelfDoubt #SpiritualReflection #stage #surrealArt #surrealism #symbolicArt #unraveling #vulnerability
I find myself lost
at the end of
a confusing day
trying to decipher labyrinthian relations
and coming up short,
suddenly wondering
how a day I thought good
was not for another,
caught up in
opposing realities
where mine is suspect
and empathy is a struggle.
The brain fog
of past illness
has left its trailing
fingers over my head
like the cigarette smoke
of the man I see one morning standing with his back to me on the dock outside the store where I used to work
and I wonder why he is there.
I am suspicious, feeling responsible for what is no longer mine to care about, so I observe, yet remain at a distance and leave without really discovering if his presence is innocent.
Such is the dance of dissonance.
I am close enough to see your back but too far to see your face clearly,
afraid that if I look too closely I will not like what I see or that I will recognize some ugly part of me.
I want to hear
that which runs
counter to my experience
but I must be honest and say that my capacity to understand the complexities of human behavior is diminishing.
I long for circles that are completely safe,
where the people I pass on the walk home illicit in me feelings other than fear,
lust, guilt, or judgement,
all of which mirror
the overwhelming sense
of dislike
I feel from the
world, and from myself perhaps.
It is my inability to not receive everything personally, this overwhelming sadness, unprotected by my hypervigilance, where I still seem to miss what is most important, and no matter how much I try to hold everything together, I cannot keep things from unraveling.
How do I continue to remain caring and yet not take on burdens that are not mine to carry?
This then is the strange choreography of relationship, the stumbling herky-jerky movements of a marionette pulled by invisible strings, revealed in the bright lights of another angry stage.
Yet we dance.
Through the pain of revelation.
The occasional stepping on of toes.
In the percieved exposure of audience eyes.
Shedding these inadequate masks and costumes one by one.
Finding our own rhythm in the strange movings of this particular
circle of love.
Beg: June 5, 2026
Fin: June 30, 2026 -
Psychologist says socially awkward people have thrived throughout history because of this hidden trait
https://web.brid.gy/r/https://www.upworthy.com/socially-awkward-survived-evolution-ex1/
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Psychologist says socially awkward people have thrived throughout history because of this hidden trait
https://web.brid.gy/r/https://www.upworthy.com/socially-awkward-survived-evolution-ex1/
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Name It to Tame It: A Simple Shift for Handling Hard Emotions
Suppressing or rushing to fix difficult emotions often backfires. Naming a feeling, 'I'm noticing anxiety', creates space to respond rather than react. Here's why it works and how to use it.Explore more calm, evidence-based tools.
https://www.thewellnessvoyage.com/posts/mindful-living/breathwork-and-stress -
Name It to Tame It: A Simple Shift for Handling Hard Emotions
Suppressing or rushing to fix difficult emotions often backfires. Naming a feeling, 'I'm noticing anxiety', creates space to respond rather than react. Here's why it works and how to use it.Explore more calm, evidence-based tools.
https://www.thewellnessvoyage.com/posts/mindful-living/breathwork-and-stress -
Good afternoon! It’s no longer morning on the west coast but I only recently got out of bed.
Bed gravity was extremely strong this morning so I lounged in bed for hours.
Five more minutes, please! I'm a grown adult woman who sleeps with a stuffed animal and I'm good with that. Do stuff and bee awesome! Have a beautiful day!
💟🌟💟
Love,
Stacie Bee
xxx 1/3
#GoodMorning #GoodAfternoon #BedGravity #SelfCompassion #StacieBee #LoveStacieBee -
Good afternoon! It’s no longer morning on the west coast but I only recently got out of bed.
Bed gravity was extremely strong this morning so I lounged in bed for hours.
Five more minutes, please! I'm a grown adult woman who sleeps with a stuffed animal and I'm good with that. Do stuff and bee awesome! Have a beautiful day!
💟🌟💟
Love,
Stacie Bee
xxx 1/3
#GoodMorning #GoodAfternoon #BedGravity #SelfCompassion #StacieBee #LoveStacieBee