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The panic of searching for something lost is visceral—but are you really losing an object, or are you losing yourself? Decode the hidden anxieties about control and identity that your mind is acting out while you sleep.
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The Journey of a Glass Child: Embracing Uniqueness

https://dreamspacestudio.net/the-journey-of-a-glass-child-embracing-uniqueness/

Understanding Tantra

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Understanding Tantra

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Do we open a way for real knowledge with Guruji's guidance?

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AWARE - Videos That Alter Your World View
Dancing with Enlightenment, video edition. Information that might take you outside of your comfort zone and social mores. PROCEED WITH CAUTION
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✮ The Garden We Were Meant to Shine ✮

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A matéria é o laboratório onde o espírito prova sua capacidade de permanecer íntegro, mesmo sob a pressão das sensações mais densas. #Spirituality ✨
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✮ The Person I Could Become ✮

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You Are Not Alone. If you are seeking a deeper spiritual path to inner peace and loving compassion, or if you are walking through a difficult time, I am here for you.
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Learning My Size in Someone Else’s Love Story

I have felt worried that Funiculosus’ partner might feel jealous or threatened by me. I don’t want him to feel that. Therefore, I want to really focus on the dynamics of the polycule that I talked about in today’s counselling.

Richard tried various ways to help me think it through. Things like “how would you feel if you were Funiculosus’ partner and the situation was reversed?”

I didn’t get it, at least not until after the counselling session.

Then I remembered how reassuring he was when I met up with a guy a few weeks ago – Funiculosus reassured me that everything was still ok. When we met up the following weekend, he looked into my eyes and held my hands and told me that he wanted me to have fun and that it changed nothing between us.

Richard managed to get me to understand that Funiculosus knew what he was doing and was probably at least as reassuring towards the love of his life as he was with me.

It wasn’t until after the session that my brain said “just who do you think you are?!”

Whoa!

“Funiculosus and his partner have been open since day one – that’s over twenty years! His partner must know that Funiculosus will always come home and loves him absolutely by now!”

That was it. I am a Johnny-come-lately and one of an unknown series. Funiculosus has had many subs – he still has other subs (although he says that he doesn’t feel towards them in the same way as he does towards me). Even if Funiculosus and I do have a connection that is unusually strong for one of his playmates, it’s still a drop in the ocean of how they feel about each other.

And I am glad.

I want them to be happy and I love that they include me from time to time.

I feels reassuring to know where I am in this funny little triad – at this point in my life, as the final act in my marriage plays out – I don’t have the headspace for anything bigger.

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Did you know there’s more than one way to experience an orgasm? This guide breaks down the many types of pleasure your body is capable of—and how to explore them confidently.

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Polysecure 4: Pulling It Together

Final part of a 4 part in a short series reflecting on Polysecure by Jessica Fern

After sitting with this book for a while, I’ve realised that I wasn’t really reading it as a guide to polyamory.

I was using it as a lens to re-examine my relationships – past and present.

There were moments that resonated strongly, and others that raised more questions than they answered. But in working through them, something shifted.

I began by trying to understand attachment theory.

I ended up questioning whether I even trust the frameworks I’m using to understand myself – especially where neurodivergence overlaps with ideas of “security” and “insecurity”.

I started to notice the role of the nervous system.

What it feels like to be calm with someone. To feel safe. And how unfamiliar that sometimes is.

I found myself reinterpreting my marriage – not just as monogamous, but as emotionally closed. Possibly codependent. Possibly something else entirely.

And I’ve started to see my current relationships differently too.

Not in terms of labels – primary, secondary, poly or not – but in terms of how they feel. Whether there is openness. Whether there is safety. Whether there is space for me to exist as I am.

The book also touches on the idea of having a secure attachment to oneself.

There’s a common phrase: that you can’t love others until you love yourself. I don’t think that’s quite true. I think you can love others without self-love – but it’s more likely to become entangled, or dependent.

What feels more accurate is this:

It’s much harder to form secure, stable attachments with others if your relationship with yourself is unstable.

And that extends beyond attachment theory.

It touches gender. Sexuality. Identity.

If parts of ourselves are hidden, suppressed, or rejected… then any connection we build with others rests on unstable ground.

So perhaps this is what I’m left with.

Not answers.

But better questions.

What does safety actually feel like?
What am I still misreading about myself?
And what would it mean to build relationships – with others, and with myself – that don’t require me to disappear in order to belong?

Other posts in this series:

• Polysecure 1: Attachment vs Neurodivergence – Am I Misreading Myself?
• Polysecure 2: What Does It Feel Like to Be Safe With Someone?
• Polysecure 3: Was My Marriage Codependent, or Just Closed?

Polysecure 3: Was My Marriage Codependent, or Just Closed?

Part 3 of 4 in a short series reflecting on Polysecure by Jessica Fern

One section of the book introduces a way of thinking about relationships along two axes:
sexual openness and emotional openness.

“Take what helps and dismiss the rest.”
(p.110)

That line reminded me of an Al-Anon slogan, and I liked it immediately. It feels like permission to think, rather than instruction to conform.

But the model itself led me somewhere uncomfortable.

I realised that my marriage was closed – not just sexually, but emotionally.

And perhaps what I am experiencing now is not just sexual freedom, but the recovery of emotional freedom.

“In monogamous couples… sharing deep or romantic emotions with others can be considered cheating.”
(p.111)

That was a revelation.

Emotional monogamy wasn’t something I had ever really understood.

Looking back, I think my mother may have been similar. Faithful in a sexual sense, but emotionally open with others, without clear boundaries.

I recognise that in myself.

I have shared deep emotions with friends. My husband found that more upsetting than anything sexual – and I never really understood why.

Now I think I do.

“A considerable amount of the mono-romantic ideal can actually be codependency in disguise.”
(p.118)

That lands.

Years ago, I read Codependent No More by Melody Beattie and began to understand how entangled I was in my marriage. I’ve described it as feeling like a planet orbiting a volatile star – buffeted by solar storms, trapped in gravity, unable to escape.

But my husband once said something that surprised me.

He felt it was a binary star system. Two bodies pulling on each other. Draining each other. Both trapped.

That… also fits.

“True intimacy does not come from enmeshment, but from two differentiated individuals sharing themselves.”
(p.133)

I lost a large part of myself in my marriage.

Things I loved – reading, writing, piano, even something as simple as enjoying Star Wars or Star Trek – were gradually squeezed out. They weren’t shared, so they became unwelcome.

My interests didn’t belong in the home.

My body didn’t quite belong either.

My gismos, gadgets, and books weren’t welcome… so in many ways, I wasn’t welcome.

Now that I live alone, there is space again. Space for those parts of me to exist.

So I’m left with a question I can’t quite resolve:

Was my marriage codependent?

Or was it simply… small?

Closed in ways I didn’t even recognise at the time.

And if I didn’t recognise it then…

What else might I still be misreading now?

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