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Transforming trauma is exhausting but needed. So much trauma has poured down my face today as I wrote about it.

#Trauma #Healing #SoulHealing #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #StacieBee #LoveStacieBee

Breaking My Own Heart

I have spent my life
Breaking my own heart.
Looking forward to (hopefully)
Doing the opposite
For the rest of my life.

💟🌟💟

#Poetry #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #Acceptance #RadicalAcceptance #StacieBee #LoveStacieBee

Inner Peace (continued)

I just did not know
It was there as
The path was hidden.
The signs were destroyed
By the darkness
And severe depression.
I am grateful to have
Survived the darkness
Of the excruciating pain.
And now I see tremendous light
As well as ease, calm, + peace.
I have always been awesome;
I just could not see it.
Go out + find
Your own awesomeness.
I promise you won’t regret it.

💟🌟💟

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#Poetry #InnerPeace #Acceptance #SelfLove #SelfCompassion #StacieBee #LoveStacieBee

Inner Peace

I’m not certain that
I ever considered that
Inner peace was achievable.
I’m used to inner hate,
Inner dread + doubt,
Inner chaos + demons,
Inner worry + anxiety,
Inner turmoil + uncertainty.
This newfound
Inner peace brings
New hope to my life.
I’m happy to have traded
My internal unrest
For internal peace.
What a relief to have
Arrived at this place.
It was within me
This whole time.

💟🌟💟

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#Poetry #InnerPeace #Acceptance #SelfLove #SelfCompassion #StacieBee #LoveStacieBee

☮️😌💟

Peace + calm

Breathe

☮️😌💟

Peace + calm

Breathe

☮️😌💟

Peace + calm

Breathe

☮️😌💟

Peace + calm

Breathe

☮️😌💟

Peace + calm

Breathe

☮️😌💟

Peace + calm

Breathe

☮️😌💟

#Peace #Calm #Breathe #SelfCare #SelfLove #SelfCompassion #StacieBee #LoveStacieBee

I’ve been saying this to help my mood + increase my self-compassion:

I’m awesome, always have been

It makes me feel awesome saying it out loud as well as in my head. Trying to reprogram decades of negative self-talk takes time.

As I was trying to pull myself out of a funk, I accidentally said this:

I’m always awesome

It made me smile.

🤩

You’re awesome!

Always have been!

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LoveStacieBee #SelfCompassion #KindnessMatters #LeadWithKindness #SelfLove #SelfCare

Note to self:

Treat yourself with loving kindness.

💟🌟💟

Kindness is always in fashion.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #Acceptance #SelfAcceptance #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #SelfCare #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

Note to self:

Treat yourself with loving kindness.

💟🌟💟

Kindness is always in fashion.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #Acceptance #SelfAcceptance #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #SelfCare #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

Note to self:

Treat yourself with loving kindness.

💟🌟💟

Kindness is always in fashion.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #Acceptance #SelfAcceptance #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #SelfCare #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

Note to self:

Treat yourself with loving kindness.

💟🌟💟

Kindness is always in fashion.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #Acceptance #SelfAcceptance #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #SelfCare #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

Note to self:

Treat yourself with loving kindness.

💟🌟💟

Kindness is always in fashion.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #Acceptance #SelfAcceptance #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #SelfCare #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

Your reminder that you do not have to be perfect.

In fact, perfection is *not* attainable.

I think that’s one of the biggest lies I told myself; that perfection was attainable.

Do your best, which will vary from time to time.

Be your perfectly imperfect self.

Accept yourself and offer yourself loving kindness.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #Acceptance #SelfAcceptance #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #SelfCare #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

Your reminder that you do not have to be perfect.

In fact, perfection is *not* attainable.

I think that’s one of the biggest lies I told myself; that perfection was attainable.

Do your best, which will vary from time to time.

Be your perfectly imperfect self.

Accept yourself and offer yourself loving kindness.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #Acceptance #SelfAcceptance #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #SelfCare #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

Your reminder that you do not have to be perfect.

In fact, perfection is *not* attainable.

I think that’s one of the biggest lies I told myself; that perfection was attainable.

Do your best, which will vary from time to time.

Be your perfectly imperfect self.

Accept yourself and offer yourself loving kindness.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
xxx 1/3

#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #Acceptance #SelfAcceptance #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #SelfCare #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

Your reminder that you do not have to be perfect.

In fact, perfection is *not* attainable.

I think that’s one of the biggest lies I told myself; that perfection was attainable.

Do your best, which will vary from time to time.

Be your perfectly imperfect self.

Accept yourself and offer yourself loving kindness.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
xxx 1/3

#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #Acceptance #SelfAcceptance #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #SelfCare #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

Your reminder that you do not have to be perfect.

In fact, perfection is *not* attainable.

I think that’s one of the biggest lies I told myself; that perfection was attainable.

Do your best, which will vary from time to time.

Be your perfectly imperfect self.

Accept yourself and offer yourself loving kindness.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
xxx 1/3

#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #Acceptance #SelfAcceptance #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #SelfCare #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

Give yourself some grace. You are not a machine. Sometimes you need to rest. Rest does not need to be earned. It is required!

Treat yourself with loving kindness. Give yourself the same compassion you give to others.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #SelfCare #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

Give yourself some grace. You are not a machine. Sometimes you need to rest. Rest does not need to be earned. It is required!

Treat yourself with loving kindness. Give yourself the same compassion you give to others.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #SelfCare #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

Give yourself some grace. You are not a machine. Sometimes you need to rest. Rest does not need to be earned. It is required!

Treat yourself with loving kindness. Give yourself the same compassion you give to others.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #SelfCare #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

Give yourself some grace. You are not a machine. Sometimes you need to rest. Rest does not need to be earned. It is required!

Treat yourself with loving kindness. Give yourself the same compassion you give to others.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
xxx 1/3

#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #SelfCare #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

Give yourself some grace. You are not a machine. Sometimes you need to rest. Rest does not need to be earned. It is required!

Treat yourself with loving kindness. Give yourself the same compassion you give to others.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
xxx 1/3

#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #SelfCompassion #SelfLove #SelfCare #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

I don’t know about you, but I could use a kinder, gentler world.

💟🌟💟

Sending loving kindness out into the universe.

💟🌟💟

Take some and pass it on.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

I don’t know about you, but I could use a kinder, gentler world.

💟🌟💟

Sending loving kindness out into the universe.

💟🌟💟

Take some and pass it on.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
xxx 1/3

#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

I don’t know about you, but I could use a kinder, gentler world.

💟🌟💟

Sending loving kindness out into the universe.

💟🌟💟

Take some and pass it on.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

I don’t know about you, but I could use a kinder, gentler world.

💟🌟💟

Sending loving kindness out into the universe.

💟🌟💟

Take some and pass it on.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LovingKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #LoveStacieBee #StacieBee

Go out into the world and be your awesome self!

Be your perfectly imperfect self!

The world needs your authenticity.

Do stuff and be awesome!

🤩

For myself, I’ll *bee* awesome.

🐝

Put your unique spin on all that you do.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#Awesome #LoveStacieBee #YouAreAwesome #Authenticity #SelfLove #SelfCare #SelfCompassion #SelfKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #StacieBee

I previously used love from others as a bandage for the love I was not providing to myself. Their love made me feel good…until it didn’t.

Then I was scrambling not having any love. Now that I know I can provide myself with my own support, compassion, and love, I’m no longer desperate to be loved by someone else.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LoveStacieBee #SelfLove #SelfCare #SelfCompassion #SelfKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #StacieBee

Learning to accept myself as well as my circumstances has been transformative.

I have lost so much. Fuck cancer!

But I am still here.

No longer hating myself. Finally! It’s refreshing to now befriend myself + show myself care + compassion.

You matter!

You are enough!

Be your unique self!

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LoveStacieBee #Acceptance #RadicalAcceptance #SelfCompassion #SelfCare #SelfKindness #YouAreEnough #YouMatter #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #FuckCancer #StacieBee

Learning to accept myself as well as my circumstances has been transformative.

I have lost so much. Fuck cancer!

But I am still here.

No longer hating myself. Finally! It’s refreshing to now befriend myself + show myself care + compassion.

You matter!

You are enough!

Be your unique self!

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
xxx 1/3

#LoveStacieBee #Acceptance #RadicalAcceptance #SelfCompassion #SelfCare #SelfKindness #YouAreEnough #YouMatter #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #FuckCancer #StacieBee

Learning to accept myself as well as my circumstances has been transformative.

I have lost so much. Fuck cancer!

But I am still here.

No longer hating myself. Finally! It’s refreshing to now befriend myself + show myself care + compassion.

You matter!

You are enough!

Be your unique self!

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
xxx 1/3

#LoveStacieBee #Acceptance #RadicalAcceptance #SelfCompassion #SelfCare #SelfKindness #YouAreEnough #YouMatter #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #FuckCancer #StacieBee

Learning to accept myself as well as my circumstances has been transformative.

I have lost so much. Fuck cancer!

But I am still here.

No longer hating myself. Finally! It’s refreshing to now befriend myself + show myself care + compassion.

You matter!

You are enough!

Be your unique self!

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
xxx 1/3

#LoveStacieBee #Acceptance #RadicalAcceptance #SelfCompassion #SelfCare #SelfKindness #YouAreEnough #YouMatter #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #FuckCancer #StacieBee

Learning to accept myself as well as my circumstances has been transformative.

I have lost so much. Fuck cancer!

But I am still here.

No longer hating myself. Finally! It’s refreshing to now befriend myself + show myself care + compassion.

You matter!

You are enough!

Be your unique self!

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
xxx 1/3

#LoveStacieBee #Acceptance #RadicalAcceptance #SelfCompassion #SelfCare #SelfKindness #YouAreEnough #YouMatter #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #FuckCancer #StacieBee

Hugs!

💟🤗💟

Unless you’re a racist fascist. Fuck you!

Back to the kind people. Those who think of + help others. Big hugs + thank you for being a light in a time of *great* darkness.

💟🌟💟

Lead with kindness + compassion for both yourself + others.

Your needs matter. Be true to yourself. Help others however you can. Be awesome!

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#LoveStacieBee #YouAreAwesome #SelfLove #SelfCare #SelfCompassion #SelfKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #StacieBee

Happy Sunday you powerful people!

Do stuff and bee awesome! 🐝 🤩

Honour your body with nourishment, movement, rest, or whatever your body needs. 💟

Your needs matter.

💟🌟💟

You are enough.

💟🌟💟

Show yourself kindness and compassion.

💟🌟💟

Go be your awesome self.

💟🌟💟

The world needs more you.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#Awesome #LoveStacieBee #YouAreAwesome #SelfLove #SelfCare #SelfCompassion #SelfKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #StacieBee

You deserve 💟

Try switching from judgement to being open to what is. So much of my suffering has been from resisting reality, as I did not want what the current moment was giving me.

Accept what is.

Try treating yourself like someone you are responsible for taking care of. Give yourself the same kindness you would have for a loved one.

Love,

Stacie Bee
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💟🌟💟

#LoveStacieBee #Authenticity #SelfLove #SelfCare #SelfCompassion #SelfKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #StacieBee

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but the world needs more of your authentic self.

The world kept putting me in a box. I will not stay!

Be your weird self!

Be your own best friend!

Challenge your inner critic!

Do not believe all your critical thoughts. They are not facts.

Love yourself.

You are enough.

Love,

Stacie Bee
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💟🌟💟

#LoveStacieBee #Authenticity #SelfLove #SelfCare #SelfCompassion #SelfKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #StacieBee

My self-love journey feels long but really, I hated myself for almost 40 years before deciding I needed to love myself. Seriously.

I remember asking a friend about 15 years ago how to love myself + she said “just do it” but I had no clue how.

So grateful to have stumbled upon Kristin Neff’s work on self-compassion. Check it out. You won’t regret it.

Love,

Stacie Bee
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💟🌟💟

#LoveStacieBee #SelfLove #SelfCare #SelfCompassion #SelfKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #StacieBee

*You* are awesome.

🤩

Always have been.

💟🌟💟

Really *feel* it as you say it to yourself:

I am awesome.

🤩

Always have been.

💟🌟💟

Repeat as needed.

💟🌟💟

Love,

Stacie Bee
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#Awesome #LoveStacieBee #YouAreAwesome #SelfLove #SelfCare #SelfCompassion #SelfKindness #LeadWithKindness #KindnessMatters #StacieBee