#allonormativity — Public Fediverse posts
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CW: Mentions rape and sex
Who's ready to talk about how using "Fuck" and "Screw" and the middle finger as insults or negative adjectives/adverb forms is actually sex negative and perpetuates both the marginalization of sex workers, queer people etc as well as, in a lot of cases where specific reference is made to penetration by the penis, the centering of phallocentric allosexual sex
Being fucked or masturbating (fucking yourself) isn't something that is inherently to be ashamed of or scared of, unless the connotation of the insult "fuck you"(etc) is meant to invoke rape in which case I'd ask you to think about if you really wish that on anyone or if you would ever find it appropriate to say "you should be raped" in place of "get fucked"
#SexPositive #SexWork #Allonormativity #Phallocentric #Language
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Yearly reminder that:
⚫ it’s OKAY to not want #sex, not desire sex and/or not feel sexual attraction, feel it only rarely or under certain circumstances.
⚪ it’s OKAY to be #ace, #aspec, #asexual, #demisexual, #graysexual, #aceflux, #fraysexual or just generally defy the broken #sexuality norms in whatever way.
🟣 assumptions like "Everyone likes sex!" (#allonormativity) are #bullshit and go into the dumpster of history.
Happy #AceWeek!
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Yearly reminder that:
⚫ it’s OKAY to not want #sex, not desire sex and/or not feel sexual attraction, feel it only rarely or under certain circumstances.
⚪ it’s OKAY to be #ace, #aspec, #asexual, #demisexual, #graysexual, #aceflux, #fraysexual or just generally defy the broken #sexuality norms in whatever way.
🟣 assumptions like "Everyone likes sex!" (#allonormativity) are #bullshit and go into the dumpster of history.
Happy #AceWeek!
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Yearly reminder that:
⚫ it’s OKAY to not want #sex, not desire sex and/or not feel sexual attraction, feel it only rarely or under certain circumstances.
⚪ it’s OKAY to be #ace, #aspec, #asexual, #demisexual, #graysexual, #aceflux, #fraysexual or just generally defy the broken #sexuality norms in whatever way.
🟣 assumptions like "Everyone likes sex!" (#allonormativity) are #bullshit and go into the dumpster of history.
Happy #AceWeek!
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Yearly reminder that:
⚫ it’s OKAY to not want #sex, not desire sex and/or not feel sexual attraction, feel it only rarely or under certain circumstances.
⚪ it’s OKAY to be #ace, #aspec, #asexual, #demisexual, #graysexual, #aceflux, #fraysexual or just generally defy the broken #sexuality norms in whatever way.
🟣 assumptions like "Everyone likes sex!" (#allonormativity) are #bullshit and go into the dumpster of history.
Happy #AceWeek!
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Yearly reminder that:
⚫ it’s OKAY to not want #sex, not desire sex and/or not feel sexual attraction, feel it only rarely or under certain circumstances.
⚪ it’s OKAY to be #ace, #aspec, #asexual, #demisexual, #graysexual, #aceflux, #fraysexual or just generally defy the broken #sexuality norms in whatever way.
🟣 assumptions like "Everyone likes sex!" (#allonormativity) are #bullshit and go into the dumpster of history.
Happy #AceWeek!
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Hey,
I'd like to start a collection of books, that are great eye-openers against normative concepts.I have read 2 books so far, that I think fit:
#Ace by #AngelaChen: Maybe the standard work on asexuality and a great book to understand and question allo-normativity (allo(sexual) being the opposite of ace/asexual)
#Platonic by #MarisaGFranco: An homage to platonic partnerships and against romantic normativity or also allo normativity (allo(romantic) being the opposite of aromantic here)
I'm next looking for a book on #RelationshipAnarchy to add to the list. Is there like a go-to book or must read? Please let me know.
Also do you know of any other books, that fit into the collection? It can be about/against any kind of normativity, not just related to gender, relationships and identity.
#BooksTodon #BookRecommendation #normativity #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #RelationshipAnarchism #QueerFeminism #HeteroNormativity #AlloNormativity #polyamory #monogamy #patriarchy
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Hey,
I'd like to start a collection of books, that are great eye-openers against normative concepts.I have read 2 books so far, that I think fit:
#Ace by #AngelaChen: Maybe the standard work on asexuality and a great book to understand and question allo-normativity (allo(sexual) being the opposite of ace/asexual)
#Platonic by #MarisaGFranco: An homage to platonic partnerships and against romantic normativity or also allo normativity (allo(romantic) being the opposite of aromantic here)
I'm next looking for a book on #RelationshipAnarchy to add to the list. Is there like a go-to book or must read? Please let me know.
Also do you know of any other books, that fit into the collection? It can be about/against any kind of normativity, not just related to gender, relationships and identity.
#BooksTodon #BookRecommendation #normativity #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #RelationshipAnarchism #QueerFeminism #HeteroNormativity #AlloNormativity #polyamory #monogamy #patriarchy
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Hey,
I'd like to start a collection of books, that are great eye-openers against normative concepts.I have read 2 books so far, that I think fit:
#Ace by #AngelaChen: Maybe the standard work on asexuality and a great book to understand and question allo-normativity (allo(sexual) being the opposite of ace/asexual)
#Platonic by #MarisaGFranco: An homage to platonic partnerships and against romantic normativity or also allo normativity (allo(romantic) being the opposite of aromantic here)
I'm next looking for a book on #RelationshipAnarchy to add to the list. Is there like a go-to book or must read? Please let me know.
Also do you know of any other books, that fit into the collection? It can be about/against any kind of normativity, not just related to gender, relationships and identity.
#BooksTodon #BookRecommendation #normativity #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #RelationshipAnarchism #QueerFeminism #HeteroNormativity #AlloNormativity #polyamory #monogamy #patriarchy
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Hey,
I'd like to start a collection of books, that are great eye-openers against normative concepts.I have read 2 books so far, that I think fit:
#Ace by #AngelaChen: Maybe the standard work on asexuality and a great book to understand and question allo-normativity (allo(sexual) being the opposite of ace/asexual)
#Platonic by #MarisaGFranco: An homage to platonic partnerships and against romantic normativity or also allo normativity (allo(romantic) being the opposite of aromantic here)
I'm next looking for a book on #RelationshipAnarchy to add to the list. Is there like a go-to book or must read? Please let me know.
Also do you know of any other books, that fit into the collection? It can be about/against any kind of normativity, not just related to gender, relationships and identity.
#BooksTodon #BookRecommendation #normativity #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #RelationshipAnarchism #QueerFeminism #HeteroNormativity #AlloNormativity #polyamory #monogamy #patriarchy
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Hey,
I'd like to start a collection of books, that are great eye-openers against normative concepts.I have read 2 books so far, that I think fit:
#Ace by #AngelaChen: Maybe the standard work on asexuality and a great book to understand and question allo-normativity (allo(sexual) being the opposite of ace/asexual)
#Platonic by #MarisaGFranco: An homage to platonic partnerships and against romantic normativity or also allo normativity (allo(romantic) being the opposite of aromantic here)
I'm next looking for a book on #RelationshipAnarchy to add to the list. Is there like a go-to book or must read? Please let me know.
Also do you know of any other books, that fit into the collection? It can be about/against any kind of normativity, not just related to gender, relationships and identity.
#BooksTodon #BookRecommendation #normativity #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #RelationshipAnarchism #QueerFeminism #HeteroNormativity #AlloNormativity #polyamory #monogamy #patriarchy
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:AromanticFlag: It's aromantic spectrum awareness week!
Did you know that the law discriminates against aromantic people?
If two people marry (you know, that thing where they promise somewhat long lasting romantic love to each other) they get a lot of benefits* that e.g. queerplatonic partners often can't get.*in most countries
#aro #allo #aromantic #AromanticSpectrumAwarenessWeek #AroWeek #QueerPlatonic #QueerPlatonicPartnership #qpp #AlloNormativity
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https://youtu.be/h2a_gWgtw3w?si=nt7qGWnjw-fQ4lTP
Happy #AceWeek folks! I’m still so proud of this essay. #Asexual #AceWeek2024 #AcePride #allonormativity #SheHulk #MCU #GenLock #RoosterTeeth #JessicaJones #Sex #SexScenes #Intimacy #Youtube #VideoEssay
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https://youtu.be/h2a_gWgtw3w?si=nt7qGWnjw-fQ4lTP
Happy #AceWeek folks! I’m still so proud of this essay. #Asexual #AceWeek2024 #AcePride #allonormativity #SheHulk #MCU #GenLock #RoosterTeeth #JessicaJones #Sex #SexScenes #Intimacy #Youtube #VideoEssay
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#WritersCoffeeClub APR-04 Do you feature real-world political and social issues in your work?
Social issues play a huge part in most of my story. Since a good part of my stories has #queer topics, my characters deal with #homophobia (including internalized one)/ #transphobia, #heteronormativity/ #cisnormativity/ #allonormativity, you name it.
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#amWriting #ZuriStories #WritingDiscussion #WritersChat #LGBT #queerpobia