#graysexual — Public Fediverse posts

Yearly reminder that:

⚫ it’s OKAY to not want #sex, not desire sex and/or not feel sexual attraction, feel it only rarely or under certain circumstances.

⚪ it’s OKAY to be #ace, #aspec, #asexual, #demisexual, #graysexual, #aceflux, #fraysexual or just generally defy the broken #sexuality norms in whatever way.

🟣 assumptions like "Everyone likes sex!" (#allonormativity) are #bullshit and go into the dumpster of history.

Happy #AceWeek!

#LGBTQIA+

I discussed demisexual and other asexual spectrum identities in my article on Sexual and Romantic Orientations.

https://jasonbeets.blogspot.com/2023/09/sexual-and-romantic-orientations.html

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#Gay #Lesbian #Bisexual #Pansexual #Transgender #Nonbinary #Asexual #Demisexual #Graysexual #Aromantic #Panromantic #AroAce #LGBT #Queer

Happy International Asexuality Day fellow aces! :QueerCatHeart_Ace: #Asexuality #InternationalAsexualityDay #IAD #GreySexual #GraySexual :greysexual:

Sorry, not a kinky stuff

PSA: if you ever used Feeld dating app, you need to know that all your data was available for virtually anyone for *very long time*.

This includes messages, photos, one-time messages, dating profile, likes and etc. But not just that, it was possible to impersonate you and send messages to anyone

This issue was found two times by two independent parties so most likely malicious/state actors knew about this. If someone manages to scrape this data, it might pop up somewhere for sale.

Worst part is that Feeld is silent about this.

Please, be safe and prepared as this data can be used for sextortion or worse.

It would help a lot if you’ll share this with people who might’ve been using Feeld. I’m posting about this because Feeld is popular in some places among the LGBTQA+.

https://fortbridge.co.uk/research/feeld-dating-app-nudes-data-publicly-available/

https://mjg59.dreamwidth.org/70061.html

#lesbian #gay #bisexual #pansexual #trans #queer #intersex #asexual #genderqueer #agender #genderquestioning #graysexual

Your child may not feel any form of attraction to other people now or ever. Your child may never feel romantic or sexual attraction to others as they grow up. Your child may fluctuate in their attraction to others, if they feel attracted at all. Your child may feel attraction to others, but in a very limited or restricted way.

This is okay. This is normal. Not everyone grows up to be what society expects us to be. Do not assume that your child will feel attraction, and make sure they understand that not feeling attracted to others is a valid option, despite the heteronormative pressure of society that says otherwise.

#Asexual #Graysexual #ASpec #LGBTQ #Queer

Hey lovely folks of fedi who are anywhere on the asexual spectrum :AsexualButterfly:

A friend of ours¹ thinks they might be asexual, but they're doing the doubting questioning thing :AsexualHeart: (i.e., the thing we mostly all do with sexuality, gender, romanticity, neurodivergence etc.)

Please may we call upon your collective knowledge and experiences to share what asexuality means for you and help us bust some myths for others who might be questioning too? :BlahajWavingAsexualFlag:

Thank you kindly in advance :catgirl_grin:

Boosts appreciated :BoostsOKPrideSymbol:

#asexual #demisexual #greysexual #graysexual #queer #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #AskFedi

¹ Yes: we genuinely are asking for a friend! We are very much allosexual ourselves 😅😳

Edit: Changed the link, per a recommendation for a better wiki page 🥰

Edit 2: Thank you to all your varied answers so far! Please keep them coming! Hopefully this will help our friend and others who are questioning. But anyone wondering about us, your experiences very much confirm how allosexual we are 😅😳

OMG!! The guy who made David Tennant's trans Tardis pin has preorders open for an Asexual version. Want!!!!
:tardis: :QueerCatHeart_Ace:
#Asexual #Greysexual #Graysexual #Tardis #DavidTennant

Liebe aspec-Menschen, in der Online-Umfrage „Unheilbar queer" geht es auch um unsere Erfahrungen.
Bitte macht bei genug Spoons mit, damit auch die Daten von ace & aro Menschen mit erhoben & berücksichtigt werden!
Und wenn genug Menschen aus dem asexuellen und aromantischen Spektrum, teilnehmen, dann ist es den Forschenden unter Umständen möglich eine Gruppenspezifische Auswertung zu machen!

Also an alle, die noch nicht an der Umfrage teilgenommen noch mal die Bitte und Aufforderung das nachzuholen, selbst wenn ihr vielleicht denkt ihr habt noch nie ein "Konversionsangebot" bekommen. Auch solche Informationen sind wichtig für Studien.

Die Befragung richtet sich an Menschen, die sich als lesbisch, schwul, bisexuell, trans*, inter*, queer, nicht-binär, aromantisch, asexuell oder als Teil dieser Community verstehen, die in Deutschland leben oder sich regelmäßig hier aufhalten und mindestens 18 Jahre alt sind.

Mehr Informationen zum Forschungsprojekt auch auf der Homepage: www.befragung-unheilbar-queer.de/

@unheilbar.queer.befragung @mosaikdeutschland #Aktivista #Asexualität #AsexuellesSpektrum #demisexuell #grauasexuell #aceflux #aspec #acespec #asexual #asexuality #demisexual #greysexual #graysexual #grayace #greyace #AceCommunity #AspecCommunity #AceVisibility

Happy #AsexualAwarenessWeek ! I drew my Asexual dragon design, who had been designed back during my very first #inktober in 2016. This year though she is joined by #demisexual and #graysexual baby dragons.

💜🖤💜🖤

#asexualawarenessweek2019 #inktober2019 #asexual #asexuality #dragons