#phallocentric — Public Fediverse posts

Who's ready to talk about how using "Fuck" and "Screw" and the middle finger as insults or negative adjectives/adverb forms is actually sex negative and perpetuates both the marginalization of sex workers, queer people etc as well as, in a lot of cases where specific reference is made to penetration by the penis, the centering of phallocentric allosexual sex

Being fucked or masturbating (fucking yourself) isn't something that is inherently to be ashamed of or scared of, unless the connotation of the insult "fuck you"(etc) is meant to invoke rape in which case I'd ask you to think about if you really wish that on anyone or if you would ever find it appropriate to say "you should be raped" in place of "get fucked"

#SexPositive #SexWork #Allonormativity #Phallocentric #Language