#relationshipanarchy — Public Fediverse posts
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from @_glassmuseum on insta
#monogamy #mononormativity #nonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy -
The LGBTQIA+ Wiki lists a flag and one of the symbols I have as a button, which is interesting as I had never seen the flag before.
Wikipedia lists another symbol (which I also have as a button), but no flag.
I need consistency here! But hey, having flags is always cool. 😁
https://lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Relationship_Anarchy
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relationship_anarchy
More relationship anarchy info:
https://www.therelationshipanarchist.com/relationship-anarchy-guide -
The LGBTQIA+ Wiki lists a flag and one of the symbols I have as a button, which is interesting as I had never seen the flag before.
Wikipedia lists another symbol (which I also have as a button), but no flag.
I need consistency here! But hey, having flags is always cool. 😁
https://lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Relationship_Anarchy
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relationship_anarchy
More relationship anarchy info:
https://www.therelationshipanarchist.com/relationship-anarchy-guide -
The LGBTQIA+ Wiki lists a flag and one of the symbols I have as a button, which is interesting as I had never seen the flag before.
Wikipedia lists another symbol (which I also have as a button), but no flag.
I need consistency here! But hey, having flags is always cool. 😁
https://lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Relationship_Anarchy
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relationship_anarchy
More relationship anarchy info:
https://www.therelationshipanarchist.com/relationship-anarchy-guide -
The LGBTQIA+ Wiki lists a flag and one of the symbols I have as a button, which is interesting as I had never seen the flag before.
Wikipedia lists another symbol (which I also have as a button), but no flag.
I need consistency here! But hey, having flags is always cool. 😁
https://lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Relationship_Anarchy
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relationship_anarchy
More relationship anarchy info:
https://www.therelationshipanarchist.com/relationship-anarchy-guide -
RE: https://namtao.com/@noboilerplate/116619243274398265
I love when creative people make something that is at the same time totally unexpected and also utterly on-brand. What a terrific video @tris
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RE: https://namtao.com/@noboilerplate/116619243274398265
I love when creative people make something that is at the same time totally unexpected and also utterly on-brand. What a terrific video @tris
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RE: https://namtao.com/@noboilerplate/116619243274398265
I love when creative people make something that is at the same time totally unexpected and also utterly on-brand. What a terrific video @tris
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RE: https://namtao.com/@noboilerplate/116619243274398265
I love when creative people make something that is at the same time totally unexpected and also utterly on-brand. What a terrific video @tris
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RE: https://namtao.com/@noboilerplate/116619243274398265
I love when creative people make something that is at the same time totally unexpected and also utterly on-brand. What a terrific video @tris
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i penned a piece on Relationship Anarchy for Harbour, the lovely collection of essays, short stories and poetry put together by @scrappy_capy_distro
https://en.scrappycapydistro.info/harbour
@Hex and @clockwooork have their own contributions in this issue
"It was never about time. Scheduling can never be equal. Nor should it. Desire can’t be measured in seconds. Or centimeters. Longing doesn’t care about your calendar."
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i penned a piece on Relationship Anarchy for Harbour, the lovely collection of essays, short stories and poetry put together by @scrappy_capy_distro
https://en.scrappycapydistro.info/harbour
@Hex and @clockwooork have their own contributions in this issue
"It was never about time. Scheduling can never be equal. Nor should it. Desire can’t be measured in seconds. Or centimeters. Longing doesn’t care about your calendar."
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i penned a piece on Relationship Anarchy for Harbour, the lovely collection of essays, short stories and poetry put together by @scrappy_capy_distro
https://en.scrappycapydistro.info/harbour
@Hex and @clockwooork have their own contributions in this issue
"It was never about time. Scheduling can never be equal. Nor should it. Desire can’t be measured in seconds. Or centimeters. Longing doesn’t care about your calendar."
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i penned a piece on Relationship Anarchy for Harbour, the lovely collection of essays, short stories and poetry put together by @scrappy_capy_distro
https://en.scrappycapydistro.info/harbour
@Hex and @clockwooork have their own contributions in this issue
"It was never about time. Scheduling can never be equal. Nor should it. Desire can’t be measured in seconds. Or centimeters. Longing doesn’t care about your calendar."
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i penned a piece on Relationship Anarchy for Harbour, the lovely collection of essays, short stories and poetry put together by @scrappy_capy_distro
https://en.scrappycapydistro.info/harbour
@Hex and @clockwooork have their own contributions in this issue
"It was never about time. Scheduling can never be equal. Nor should it. Desire can’t be measured in seconds. Or centimeters. Longing doesn’t care about your calendar."
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i'll be in #prague for a few days next week, giving a talk on relationship anarchy
are there fedi folx who would like to meet up?
as always, i will bring stickers with me
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i'll be in #prague for a few days next week, giving a talk on relationship anarchy
are there fedi folx who would like to meet up?
as always, i will bring stickers with me
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i'll be in #prague for a few days next week, giving a talk on relationship anarchy
are there fedi folx who would like to meet up?
as always, i will bring stickers with me
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i'll be in #prague for a few days next week, giving a talk on relationship anarchy
are there fedi folx who would like to meet up?
as always, i will bring stickers with me
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i'll be in #prague for a few days next week, giving a talk on relationship anarchy
are there fedi folx who would like to meet up?
as always, i will bring stickers with me
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https://thistlenfern.org/@wendythedruid/116530892882294571
I rattled this off last night pissed off, but if anyone has insight, please share.
#Polyamory #ThroupleLife #QueerRelationships #PolyCommunity #AutonomyInLove #NonMonogamy #LGBTQLove #PolyAwareness #RelationshipAnarchy #ChosenFamily #TransJoy #QueerJoy #PolyValid #Interdependence #LoveWithoutRules
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https://thistlenfern.org/@wendythedruid/116530892882294571
I rattled this off last night pissed off, but if anyone has insight, please share.
#Polyamory #ThroupleLife #QueerRelationships #PolyCommunity #AutonomyInLove #NonMonogamy #LGBTQLove #PolyAwareness #RelationshipAnarchy #ChosenFamily #TransJoy #QueerJoy #PolyValid #Interdependence #LoveWithoutRules
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https://thistlenfern.org/@wendythedruid/116530892882294571
I rattled this off last night pissed off, but if anyone has insight, please share.
#Polyamory #ThroupleLife #QueerRelationships #PolyCommunity #AutonomyInLove #NonMonogamy #LGBTQLove #PolyAwareness #RelationshipAnarchy #ChosenFamily #TransJoy #QueerJoy #PolyValid #Interdependence #LoveWithoutRules
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https://thistlenfern.org/@wendythedruid/116530892882294571
I rattled this off last night pissed off, but if anyone has insight, please share.
#Polyamory #ThroupleLife #QueerRelationships #PolyCommunity #AutonomyInLove #NonMonogamy #LGBTQLove #PolyAwareness #RelationshipAnarchy #ChosenFamily #TransJoy #QueerJoy #PolyValid #Interdependence #LoveWithoutRules
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https://thistlenfern.org/@wendythedruid/116530892882294571
I rattled this off last night pissed off, but if anyone has insight, please share.
#Polyamory #ThroupleLife #QueerRelationships #PolyCommunity #AutonomyInLove #NonMonogamy #LGBTQLove #PolyAwareness #RelationshipAnarchy #ChosenFamily #TransJoy #QueerJoy #PolyValid #Interdependence #LoveWithoutRules
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Hello everyone! This is my #introduction ...
I'm Nyx, an attentive entity with intent living in a highly dimensional universe with at least one pocket of apparent temporal cohesion where everything seems to follow very simple rules.
Professionally I am a self taught #programmer from the geographic south living in southern #Germany nowadays. I'm in my last steps of getting a bachelor in #physics and I like #science in general. I intend to study #genetics afterwards.
In my free time I like #writing as I want to become an author. Other than that I also like leaving permanent marks so I am an amateur #tattooartist and I am recently getting into other kinds of #bodymod and I feel curious about #biohacking and plan to keep tinkering with my body.Irl this is a big secret but oh well... I am a #plural system. I plan to do a big coming out to my family/friends with the publishing of my first book. I hope that doesn't take too long.
I publicly came out as #trans in 2020, but internally it is much more nuanced, so I'd better describe it as #multigender #nonbinary #genderfluid or something like that.
I'm into #kink as #switch usually playing as #Dom ... and I don't really mind your gender, I am #pansexual or #bisexual or just #queer . I'm NOT into monogamy, my preferred way to organize interpersonal interactions is through #relationshipanarchy
And I'm not very up to date with politics, but I'm heavily bent towards the #left
I hope I can find people here to share interests, some internet shenanigans, exchange some encouragement messages, memes, maybe if I'm lucky finding a play partner ☺️
If you vibe with any of this don't be a stranger and hit me up.
That's it for now.
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Hello everyone! This is my #introduction ...
I'm Nyx, an attentive entity with intent living in a highly dimensional universe with at least one pocket of apparent temporal cohesion where everything seems to follow very simple rules.
Professionally I am a self taught #programmer from the geographic south living in southern #Germany nowadays. I'm in my last steps of getting a bachelor in #physics and I like #science in general. I intend to study #genetics afterwards.
In my free time I like #writing as I want to become an author. Other than that I also like leaving permanent marks so I am an amateur #tattooartist and I am recently getting into other kinds of #bodymod and I feel curious about #biohacking and plan to keep tinkering with my body.Irl this is a big secret but oh well... I am a #plural system. I plan to do a big coming out to my family/friends with the publishing of my first book. I hope that doesn't take too long.
I publicly came out as #trans in 2020, but internally it is much more nuanced, so I'd better describe it as #multigender #nonbinary #genderfluid or something like that.
I'm into #kink as #switch usually playing as #Dom ... and I don't really mind your gender, I am #pansexual or #bisexual or just #queer . I'm NOT into monogamy, my preferred way to organize interpersonal interactions is through #relationshipanarchy
And I'm not very up to date with politics, but I'm heavily bent towards the #left
I hope I can find people here to share interests, some internet shenanigans, exchange some encouragement messages, memes, maybe if I'm lucky finding a play partner ☺️
If you vibe with any of this don't be a stranger and hit me up.
That's it for now.
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Hello everyone! This is my #introduction ...
I'm Nyx, an attentive entity with intent living in a highly dimensional universe with at least one pocket of apparent temporal cohesion where everything seems to follow very simple rules.
Professionally I am a self taught #programmer from the geographic south living in southern #Germany nowadays. I'm in my last steps of getting a bachelor in #physics and I like #science in general. I intend to study #genetics afterwards.
In my free time I like #writing as I want to become an author. Other than that I also like leaving permanent marks so I am an amateur #tattooartist and I am recently getting into other kinds of #bodymod and I feel curious about #biohacking and plan to keep tinkering with my body.Irl this is a big secret but oh well... I am a #plural system. I plan to do a big coming out to my family/friends with the publishing of my first book. I hope that doesn't take too long.
I publicly came out as #trans in 2020, but internally it is much more nuanced, so I'd better describe it as #multigender #nonbinary #genderfluid or something like that.
I'm into #kink as #switch usually playing as #Dom ... and I don't really mind your gender, I am #pansexual or #bisexual or just #queer . I'm NOT into monogamy, my preferred way to organize interpersonal interactions is through #relationshipanarchy
And I'm not very up to date with politics, but I'm heavily bent towards the #left
I hope I can find people here to share interests, some internet shenanigans, exchange some encouragement messages, memes, maybe if I'm lucky finding a play partner ☺️
If you vibe with any of this don't be a stranger and hit me up.
That's it for now.
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Hello everyone! This is my #introduction ...
I'm Nyx, an attentive entity with intent living in a highly dimensional universe with at least one pocket of apparent temporal cohesion where everything seems to follow very simple rules.
Professionally I am a self taught #programmer from the geographic south living in southern #Germany nowadays. I'm in my last steps of getting a bachelor in #physics and I like #science in general. I intend to study #genetics afterwards.
In my free time I like #writing as I want to become an author. Other than that I also like leaving permanent marks so I am an amateur #tattooartist and I am recently getting into other kinds of #bodymod and I feel curious about #biohacking and plan to keep tinkering with my body.Irl this is a big secret but oh well... I am a #plural system. I plan to do a big coming out to my family/friends with the publishing of my first book. I hope that doesn't take too long.
I publicly came out as #trans in 2020, but internally it is much more nuanced, so I'd better describe it as #multigender #nonbinary #genderfluid or something like that.
I'm into #kink as #switch usually playing as #Dom ... and I don't really mind your gender, I am #pansexual or #bisexual or just #queer . I'm NOT into monogamy, my preferred way to organize interpersonal interactions is through #relationshipanarchy
And I'm not very up to date with politics, but I'm heavily bent towards the #left
I hope I can find people here to share interests, some internet shenanigans, exchange some encouragement messages, memes, maybe if I'm lucky finding a play partner ☺️
If you vibe with any of this don't be a stranger and hit me up.
That's it for now.
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Hello everyone! This is my #introduction ...
I'm Nyx, an attentive entity with intent living in a highly dimensional universe with at least one pocket of apparent temporal cohesion where everything seems to follow very simple rules.
Professionally I am a self taught #programmer from the geographic south living in southern #Germany nowadays. I'm in my last steps of getting a bachelor in #physics and I like #science in general. I intend to study #genetics afterwards.
In my free time I like #writing as I want to become an author. Other than that I also like leaving permanent marks so I am an amateur #tattooartist and I am recently getting into other kinds of #bodymod and I feel curious about #biohacking and plan to keep tinkering with my body.Irl this is a big secret but oh well... I am a #plural system. I plan to do a big coming out to my family/friends with the publishing of my first book. I hope that doesn't take too long.
I publicly came out as #trans in 2020, but internally it is much more nuanced, so I'd better describe it as #multigender #nonbinary #genderfluid or something like that.
I'm into #kink as #switch usually playing as #Dom ... and I don't really mind your gender, I am #pansexual or #bisexual or just #queer . I'm NOT into monogamy, my preferred way to organize interpersonal interactions is through #relationshipanarchy
And I'm not very up to date with politics, but I'm heavily bent towards the #left
I hope I can find people here to share interests, some internet shenanigans, exchange some encouragement messages, memes, maybe if I'm lucky finding a play partner ☺️
If you vibe with any of this don't be a stranger and hit me up.
That's it for now.
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having multiple "partners" (which are literally just friends that show up and support each other and maybe or maybe not have sex, but at least cuddle and be cozy in the bed) is one of the coolest things bc u get to have so many different minds and hearts in your life and it brings so much joy,,,, like, i feel ecstatic every week bc i get to see cute and hot women who have each their own cool things going on in life and i get to cuddle and have headpats and sit on the couch and watch movies or go on adventures!
#polyamory #relationships #relationshipanarchy #transJoy #joy #queer #queerjoy #sexpositive
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having multiple "partners" (which are literally just friends that show up and support each other and maybe or maybe not have sex, but at least cuddle and be cozy in the bed) is one of the coolest things bc u get to have so many different minds and hearts in your life and it brings so much joy,,,, like, i feel ecstatic every week bc i get to see cute and hot women who have each their own cool things going on in life and i get to cuddle and have headpats and sit on the couch and watch movies or go on adventures!
#polyamory #relationships #relationshipanarchy #transJoy #joy #queer #queerjoy #sexpositive
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having multiple "partners" (which are literally just friends that show up and support each other and maybe or maybe not have sex, but at least cuddle and be cozy in the bed) is one of the coolest things bc u get to have so many different minds and hearts in your life and it brings so much joy,,,, like, i feel ecstatic every week bc i get to see cute and hot women who have each their own cool things going on in life and i get to cuddle and have headpats and sit on the couch and watch movies or go on adventures!
#polyamory #relationships #relationshipanarchy #transJoy #joy #queer #queerjoy #sexpositive
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having multiple "partners" (which are literally just friends that show up and support each other and maybe or maybe not have sex, but at least cuddle and be cozy in the bed) is one of the coolest things bc u get to have so many different minds and hearts in your life and it brings so much joy,,,, like, i feel ecstatic every week bc i get to see cute and hot women who have each their own cool things going on in life and i get to cuddle and have headpats and sit on the couch and watch movies or go on adventures!
#polyamory #relationships #relationshipanarchy #transJoy #joy #queer #queerjoy #sexpositive
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having multiple "partners" (which are literally just friends that show up and support each other and maybe or maybe not have sex, but at least cuddle and be cozy in the bed) is one of the coolest things bc u get to have so many different minds and hearts in your life and it brings so much joy,,,, like, i feel ecstatic every week bc i get to see cute and hot women who have each their own cool things going on in life and i get to cuddle and have headpats and sit on the couch and watch movies or go on adventures!
#polyamory #relationships #relationshipanarchy #transJoy #joy #queer #queerjoy #sexpositive
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"The freedom to love anyone, and express it in any way that makes sense to us, is another gap from which something essential has been torn away. This freedom is rooted in the neo-liberal freedom to chose between a high number of options - of products, of relationships - where we nonetheless can not refuse to chose. When we can see that we don't option to say "no" to the freedom of choice, the illusion dispels. We are not truly free."
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"The freedom to love anyone, and express it in any way that makes sense to us, is another gap from which something essential has been torn away. This freedom is rooted in the neo-liberal freedom to chose between a high number of options - of products, of relationships - where we nonetheless can not refuse to chose. When we can see that we don't option to say "no" to the freedom of choice, the illusion dispels. We are not truly free."
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"The freedom to love anyone, and express it in any way that makes sense to us, is another gap from which something essential has been torn away. This freedom is rooted in the neo-liberal freedom to chose between a high number of options - of products, of relationships - where we nonetheless can not refuse to chose. When we can see that we don't option to say "no" to the freedom of choice, the illusion dispels. We are not truly free."
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"The freedom to love anyone, and express it in any way that makes sense to us, is another gap from which something essential has been torn away. This freedom is rooted in the neo-liberal freedom to chose between a high number of options - of products, of relationships - where we nonetheless can not refuse to chose. When we can see that we don't option to say "no" to the freedom of choice, the illusion dispels. We are not truly free."
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"The freedom to love anyone, and express it in any way that makes sense to us, is another gap from which something essential has been torn away. This freedom is rooted in the neo-liberal freedom to chose between a high number of options - of products, of relationships - where we nonetheless can not refuse to chose. When we can see that we don't option to say "no" to the freedom of choice, the illusion dispels. We are not truly free."
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Cuddling with strangers made me realize that our society is really bad at encouraging intimacy.
I wrote about it, why it's a problem, and what I think we can do about it (hint: it's not just polyamory).
🔗 https://teunvanson.eu/cuddles/
#intimacy #RelationshipAnarchy #nonmonogamy #cuddling #love #polyamory #BearBlog #blog #BlogPost
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Cuddling with strangers made me realize that our society is really bad at encouraging intimacy.
I wrote about it, why it's a problem, and what I think we can do about it (hint: it's not just polyamory).
🔗 https://teunvanson.eu/cuddles/
#intimacy #RelationshipAnarchy #nonmonogamy #cuddling #love #polyamory #BearBlog #blog #BlogPost
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Cuddling with strangers made me realize that our society is really bad at encouraging intimacy.
I wrote about it, why it's a problem, and what I think we can do about it (hint: it's not just polyamory).
🔗 https://teunvanson.eu/cuddles/
#intimacy #RelationshipAnarchy #nonmonogamy #cuddling #love #polyamory #BearBlog #blog #BlogPost
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Cuddling with strangers made me realize that our society is really bad at encouraging intimacy.
I wrote about it, why it's a problem, and what I think we can do about it (hint: it's not just polyamory).
🔗 https://teunvanson.eu/cuddles/
#intimacy #RelationshipAnarchy #nonmonogamy #cuddling #love #polyamory #BearBlog #blog #BlogPost
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Cuddling with strangers made me realize that our society is really bad at encouraging intimacy.
I wrote about it, why it's a problem, and what I think we can do about it (hint: it's not just polyamory).
🔗 https://teunvanson.eu/cuddles/
#intimacy #RelationshipAnarchy #nonmonogamy #cuddling #love #polyamory #BearBlog #blog #BlogPost
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When listening to the Modern Anarchy podcast about #RelationshipAnarchy (wholy dedicated to that!) by Dr. Nicole (https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/podcast)
there is an episode with Evita LaVitaloca who rightfully says that #RA can live perfectly with hierarchical #polyamory with nesting partners., primary partners etc. It is about refusing recognition to he state in these (and other affairs).
Nevertheless I cannot imagine the anarchy also trickles through to the love relationships. It all depends a bit on how you define "primary" then. And would a situation with a nested partner by definition be hierarchical? I think many gays prove the contrary. -
When listening to the Modern Anarchy podcast about #RelationshipAnarchy (wholy dedicated to that!) by Dr. Nicole (https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/podcast)
there is an episode with Evita LaVitaloca who rightfully says that #RA can live perfectly with hierarchical #polyamory with nesting partners., primary partners etc. It is about refusing recognition to he state in these (and other affairs).
Nevertheless I cannot imagine the anarchy also trickles through to the love relationships. It all depends a bit on how you define "primary" then. And would a situation with a nested partner by definition be hierarchical? I think many gays prove the contrary. -
When listening to the Modern Anarchy podcast about #RelationshipAnarchy (wholy dedicated to that!) by Dr. Nicole (https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/podcast)
there is an episode with Evita LaVitaloca who rightfully says that #RA can live perfectly with hierarchical #polyamory with nesting partners., primary partners etc. It is about refusing recognition to he state in these (and other affairs).
Nevertheless I cannot imagine the anarchy also trickles through to the love relationships. It all depends a bit on how you define "primary" then. And would a situation with a nested partner by definition be hierarchical? I think many gays prove the contrary. -
"Love is abundant, and every relationship is unique.
Relationship anarchy questions the idea that love is a limited resource that can only be real if restricted to a couple. You have capacity to love more than one person, and one relationship and the love felt for that person does not diminish love felt for another. Don’t rank and compare people and relationships — cherish the individual and your connection to them. One person in your life does not need to be named primary for the relationship to be real. Each relationship is independent, and a relationship between autonomous individuals."
- Andie Nordgren, originally in Swedish
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"Love is abundant, and every relationship is unique.
Relationship anarchy questions the idea that love is a limited resource that can only be real if restricted to a couple. You have capacity to love more than one person, and one relationship and the love felt for that person does not diminish love felt for another. Don’t rank and compare people and relationships — cherish the individual and your connection to them. One person in your life does not need to be named primary for the relationship to be real. Each relationship is independent, and a relationship between autonomous individuals."
- Andie Nordgren, originally in Swedish