#heteronormativity — Public Fediverse posts
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We know that #homonormativity is the opposite of #heteronormativity.
But what is the opposite of #homophobia? #homophelia? -
We know that #homonormativity is the opposite of #heteronormativity.
But what is the opposite of #homophobia? #homophelia? -
While the report doesn't say the #queerphobia of the AfD on its own might be enough to justify a ban, the key points are damning:
* Dogma of #heteronormativity, "2 genders only"
* Denial of #NonBinary ppl and a rejection of existing legal protections
* Delete #marriage equality
* Defamation of #LGBTQ ppl and #drag queens+kings as "#pedo" or "Satan’s spawn"
* Intentional deadnaming+misgendering
* Many AfD ppl ask LGBTQ ppl to STFU while saying "We're not homophobic"
* #Pride (#CSD) ban proposals -
While the report doesn't say the #queerphobia of the AfD on its own might be enough to justify a ban, the key points are damning:
* Dogma of #heteronormativity, "2 genders only"
* Denial of #NonBinary ppl and a rejection of existing legal protections
* Delete #marriage equality
* Defamation of #LGBTQ ppl and #drag queens+kings as "#pedo" or "Satan’s spawn"
* Intentional deadnaming+misgendering
* Many AfD ppl ask LGBTQ ppl to STFU while saying "We're not homophobic"
* #Pride (#CSD) ban proposals -
Next up in my book pile -- "#NoSpiritualSurrender - Indigenous #Anarchy" by #KleeBenally, (2023) "#PrairieFire - The Politics of Revolutionary #AntiImperialism" by #TheWeatherUnderground (1974), and "#Antifa - The #AntiFascist Handbook" by #MarkBray (2017).
I've posted excerpts from Klee's book in the past (which I will re-boost). Both Klee and Mark Bray are in agreement as to who the real enemy is -- the forces of #Colonialism and #WhiteSupremacy.
Bray writes, "The only long-term solution to the fascist menace is to undermine its pillar of strength in society grounded not only in white supremacy, but also in #ableism, #heteronormativity, #patriarchy, #nationalism, #transphobia, #ClassRule, and many others," (Antifa, page 209), and offers up #Socialism, which is #Antiauthoritarian and #NonHierarchical as a solution.
And indeed, 1974's Prairie Fire, paints a similar picture, offering up a map of North America before and after #Colonization. (And yes, I would love to scan in all the illustrations and tables, but unfortunately, the 1974 copy is well-read and very delicate. It belonged to a coven-mate and fellow activist friend, who left it to me when they passed away -- along with a slew of other radical and pagan books). I did find some archived versions, sans illustrations, online.
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Next up in my book pile -- "#NoSpiritualSurrender - Indigenous #Anarchy" by #KleeBenally, (2023) "#PrairieFire - The Politics of Revolutionary #AntiImperialism" by #TheWeatherUnderground (1974), and "#Antifa - The #AntiFascist Handbook" by #MarkBray (2017).
I've posted excerpts from Klee's book in the past (which I will re-boost). Both Klee and Mark Bray are in agreement as to who the real enemy is -- the forces of #Colonialism and #WhiteSupremacy.
Bray writes, "The only long-term solution to the fascist menace is to undermine its pillar of strength in society grounded not only in white supremacy, but also in #ableism, #heteronormativity, #patriarchy, #nationalism, #transphobia, #ClassRule, and many others," (Antifa, page 209), and offers up #Socialism, which is #Antiauthoritarian and #NonHierarchical as a solution.
And indeed, 1974's Prairie Fire, paints a similar picture, offering up a map of North America before and after #Colonization. (And yes, I would love to scan in all the illustrations and tables, but unfortunately, the 1974 copy is well-read and very delicate. It belonged to a coven-mate and fellow activist friend, who left it to me when they passed away -- along with a slew of other radical and pagan books). I did find some archived versions, sans illustrations, online.
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Yeah Tomodachi Life previously never allowed you to be gay did it
#Heteronormativity #HeteroSupremacy #Queer #Nintendo #TomodachiLife
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Yeah Tomodachi Life previously never allowed you to be gay did it
#Heteronormativity #HeteroSupremacy #Queer #Nintendo #TomodachiLife
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Hype for the Future 83/284: Life beyond Heteronormativity, Iceland 🇮🇸 Edition
Introduction Though Iceland has largely maintained a relatively plural culture for over a millennium, the term “heteronormativity” as utilized in the modern day has not existed as of yet. However, the Icelandic culture has largely avoided romantic and sexual centralization as with many European cultures elsewhere. History Much of what is today Iceland is largely determined by the Viking settlers, largely associated with a region that has traditionally spanned the island, the Faroe […] -
Hype for the Future 83/284: Life beyond Heteronormativity, Iceland 🇮🇸 Edition
Introduction Though Iceland has largely maintained a relatively plural culture for over a millennium, the term “heteronormativity” as utilized in the modern day has not existed as of yet. However, the Icelandic culture has largely avoided romantic and sexual centralization as with many European cultures elsewhere. History Much of what is today Iceland is largely determined by the Viking settlers, largely associated with a region that has traditionally spanned the island, the Faroe […] -
Speciesism, racism, sexism, ableism, ageism, queermisia etc are all part of the same ideology of domination and supremacy and exploitation "they are objectively below us and it is our natural right to exploit and discard them and they have no right to fight back"
When you look at carnism through this lens it becomes obvious why anarchism and veganism are part of the same ideology that exists in opposition to domination in opposition to supremacy and in opposition to exploitation
#Speciesism #Racism #Sexism #Ableism #Ageism #Cisnormativity #Heteronormativity #Mononormativity #Carnism #Anarchism #Veganism #Veganarchism #QueerAnarchim #AnarchaFeminism #Queermisia
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Speciesism, racism, sexism, ableism, ageism, queermisia etc are all part of the same ideology of domination and supremacy and exploitation "they are objectively below us and it is our natural right to exploit and discard them and they have no right to fight back"
When you look at carnism through this lens it becomes obvious why anarchism and veganism are part of the same ideology that exists in opposition to domination in opposition to supremacy and in opposition to exploitation
#Speciesism #Racism #Sexism #Ableism #Ageism #Cisnormativity #Heteronormativity #Mononormativity #Carnism #Anarchism #Veganism #Veganarchism #QueerAnarchim #AnarchaFeminism #Queermisia
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Hype for the Future 53E: Ideas for Queer Social Reform
Modern Issues Unfortunately, capitalism is a crisis, resulting in privatization, the race to the bottom, profit maximization, and forced extraction, also all of which are crises. With each and every crisis comes the crisis of marketing, since marketing often demands on the end goal of a monopoly, very similar to the idea that monogamy is somehow “natural” for everyone. Unfortunately, racism, sexism, classism, ableism, and other discriminatory practices are just natural results of this […]https://novatopflex.wordpress.com/2025/12/23/hype-for-the-future-53e-ideas-for-queer-social-reform/
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Hype for the Future 53E: Ideas for Queer Social Reform
Modern Issues Unfortunately, capitalism is a crisis, resulting in privatization, the race to the bottom, profit maximization, and forced extraction, also all of which are crises. With each and every crisis comes the crisis of marketing, since marketing often demands on the end goal of a monopoly, very similar to the idea that monogamy is somehow “natural” for everyone. Unfortunately, racism, sexism, classism, ableism, and other discriminatory practices are just natural results of this […]https://novatopflex.wordpress.com/2025/12/23/hype-for-the-future-53e-ideas-for-queer-social-reform/
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Hype for the Future 51H: The novaTop Policy on Heteronormativity
Preamble novaTopFlex maintains political influences that often conflict with the dominant narrative of heteronormativity. Unfortunately, significant attacks on the novaTop Identities are often a direct result of heteronormativity, so the best approach is to simply use captions under images and videos that may be most judged. Fear of judgment has been a particular fear at more formal social events, including the more formal dances, as well as more prestigious institutions with a performative […] -
Hype for the Future 51H: The novaTop Policy on Heteronormativity
Preamble novaTopFlex maintains political influences that often conflict with the dominant narrative of heteronormativity. Unfortunately, significant attacks on the novaTop Identities are often a direct result of heteronormativity, so the best approach is to simply use captions under images and videos that may be most judged. Fear of judgment has been a particular fear at more formal social events, including the more formal dances, as well as more prestigious institutions with a performative […] -
Notable Places of Interest for Social Roles
The novaTop Experience with Social Roles novaTopFlex is largely renowned across all three identities—novaTop, geoTop, and futoTop—for celebrating found/chosen family and other nontraditional family values, with a modern take on social roles and significantly more flexible social norms than society often acknowledges. For the aforementioned reason, novaTopFlex recommends consulting with the populations of the following communities for more related information, since the following places […]https://novatopflex.wordpress.com/2025/11/03/notable-places-of-interest-for-social-roles/
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Notable Places of Interest for Social Roles
The novaTop Experience with Social Roles novaTopFlex is largely renowned across all three identities—novaTop, geoTop, and futoTop—for celebrating found/chosen family and other nontraditional family values, with a modern take on social roles and significantly more flexible social norms than society often acknowledges. For the aforementioned reason, novaTopFlex recommends consulting with the populations of the following communities for more related information, since the following places […]https://novatopflex.wordpress.com/2025/11/03/notable-places-of-interest-for-social-roles/
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Peer Pressure is a Capitalist Construct
The idea that all individuals must eventually find someone at all is a capitalist construct that literally underscores the importance of diversity, equity, and inclusion in society. Even in cases where additional freedom is permitted, the idea that singlehood is somehow “taboo” is more or less also a capitalist construct. Again, because “traditional values” are inherently social constructs, while human diversity is extremely important for societal acceptance, development, progress, […]https://novatopflex.wordpress.com/2025/10/25/peer-pressure-is-a-capitalist-construct/
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Peer Pressure is a Capitalist Construct
The idea that all individuals must eventually find someone at all is a capitalist construct that literally underscores the importance of diversity, equity, and inclusion in society. Even in cases where additional freedom is permitted, the idea that singlehood is somehow “taboo” is more or less also a capitalist construct. Again, because “traditional values” are inherently social constructs, while human diversity is extremely important for societal acceptance, development, progress, […]https://novatopflex.wordpress.com/2025/10/25/peer-pressure-is-a-capitalist-construct/
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The persistence of heteronormativity is not only due to the weight of social conventions and norms, but also to material conditions of existence: being in a couple means having more resources. Sophie Lewis asserts that the conditions of heterosexuality are inseparable from economic realities: ‘Most women are too overworked, too exhausted by the demands of capitalism and its culture of compulsory enjoyment to even have the opportunity to learn to love.’
Sophie Lewis wrote ‘Abolish the Family: A Manifesto for Care and Liberation’
#relationships #domesticWork #sociology #heteroNormativity #materialistFeminism #feminism #love #subjugation #appropriation #sexism #heteroSexuality #patriarchy #subalternStudies #family
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The persistence of heteronormativity is not only due to the weight of social conventions and norms, but also to material conditions of existence: being in a couple means having more resources. Sophie Lewis asserts that the conditions of heterosexuality are inseparable from economic realities: ‘Most women are too overworked, too exhausted by the demands of capitalism and its culture of compulsory enjoyment to even have the opportunity to learn to love.’
Sophie Lewis wrote ‘Abolish the Family: A Manifesto for Care and Liberation’
#relationships #domesticWork #sociology #heteroNormativity #materialistFeminism #feminism #love #subjugation #appropriation #sexism #heteroSexuality #patriarchy #subalternStudies #family
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“I simply do not see why the nation has to have an official sexuality, especially one that authorizes the norm of a violent gentility; that narrows the field of legitimate political action; that supports the amputation of personal complexity into categories of simple identity; that uses cruel and mundane strategies both to promote shame for non-normative populations and to deny them state, federal, and juridical supports because they are deemed morally incompetent to their own citizenship. This is the heterosexuality I repudiate.”
― Lauren Berlant, in "The Queen of America Goes to Washington City: Essays on Sex and Citizenship"
#heteroNormativity #beliefs #subjugation #radicality #appropriation #sexism #heteroSexuality #queer #Berlant #LaurenBerlant #literature #fluidity #patriarchy #subalternStudies
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“I simply do not see why the nation has to have an official sexuality, especially one that authorizes the norm of a violent gentility; that narrows the field of legitimate political action; that supports the amputation of personal complexity into categories of simple identity; that uses cruel and mundane strategies both to promote shame for non-normative populations and to deny them state, federal, and juridical supports because they are deemed morally incompetent to their own citizenship. This is the heterosexuality I repudiate.”
― Lauren Berlant, in "The Queen of America Goes to Washington City: Essays on Sex and Citizenship"
#heteroNormativity #beliefs #subjugation #radicality #appropriation #sexism #heteroSexuality #queer #Berlant #LaurenBerlant #literature #fluidity #patriarchy #subalternStudies
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"Our invisibility perpetuates a cycle where parenting and family norms remain unchallenged, leaving services without a reason to build their capability for inclusive practice at a systemic level through, for example, inclusive data collection systems and the provision of rainbow inclusion education to providers."
#QueerRights #QueerIssues #QueerParenting #lgbtqia #heteronormativity #society #Aotearoa
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“The subaltern as female cannot be heard or read.”
– Gayatri Spivak#relationships #subalternStudies #exploitation #patriarchy #couples #emotions #domination #sociology #women #femininity #fragility #heteroNormativity #quotes #citation #GayatriSpivak #Spivak
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“The subaltern as female cannot be heard or read.”
– Gayatri Spivak#relationships #subalternStudies #exploitation #patriarchy #couples #emotions #domination #sociology #women #femininity #fragility #heteroNormativity #quotes #citation #GayatriSpivak #Spivak
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'What distinguishes Wittig's theoretical, political and literary project, and makes it an unavoidable pole of intellectual attraction today, is its radical anti-essentialism. It's the radical anti-essentialism that Wittig applies to the most credible of beliefs, because of the strength of its naturalization: the idea that men and women are naturally complementary "natural groups".'
Sara Garbagnoli explained in 2023: https://www.moniquewittig.com/wp-content/uploads/Sara-in-AOC-english.pdf 🧶
#revolution #reciprocity #radicality #reversibility #materialistFeminism #materialism #beliefs #subjugation #naturalism #essentialism #sexism #heteroSexism #heteroNormativity #feminisms #MoniqueWittig #Wittig #literature #homosexuality #lesbianism #feminism #internationalism #patriarchy #minorityStudies #queer #nonBinary #culturalHistory #lesbians #otherness #linguistics
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'What distinguishes Wittig's theoretical, political and literary project, and makes it an unavoidable pole of intellectual attraction today, is its radical anti-essentialism. It's the radical anti-essentialism that Wittig applies to the most credible of beliefs, because of the strength of its naturalization: the idea that men and women are naturally complementary "natural groups".'
Sara Garbagnoli explained in 2023: https://www.moniquewittig.com/wp-content/uploads/Sara-in-AOC-english.pdf 🧶
#revolution #reciprocity #radicality #reversibility #materialistFeminism #materialism #beliefs #subjugation #naturalism #essentialism #sexism #heteroSexism #heteroNormativity #feminisms #MoniqueWittig #Wittig #literature #homosexuality #lesbianism #feminism #internationalism #patriarchy #minorityStudies #queer #nonBinary #culturalHistory #lesbians #otherness #linguistics
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Heterosexuality is a regime of political oppression 🧶
"Just as racism produces race and not the other way round, sexism produces sex through the relationship of domination that reduces the dominated to things or natural objects."
… said Natacha Chetcuti-Osorovitz summarizing Monique Wittig#materialism #beliefs #subjugation #radicality #EstelleSays #materialistFeminism #naturalism #appropriation #sexism #heteroSexuality #saphism #heteroNormativity #feminisms #history #MoniqueWittig #Wittig #literature #homosexuality #lesbianism #feminism #internationalism #patriarchy #linguistics #writing #minorityStudies #universalism #queer #constructivism #antagonism #culturalHistory #lesbians
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Heterosexuality is a regime of political oppression 🧶
"Just as racism produces race and not the other way round, sexism produces sex through the relationship of domination that reduces the dominated to things or natural objects."
… said Natacha Chetcuti-Osorovitz summarizing Monique Wittig#materialism #beliefs #subjugation #radicality #EstelleSays #materialistFeminism #naturalism #appropriation #sexism #heteroSexuality #saphism #heteroNormativity #feminisms #history #MoniqueWittig #Wittig #literature #homosexuality #lesbianism #feminism #internationalism #patriarchy #linguistics #writing #minorityStudies #universalism #queer #constructivism #antagonism #culturalHistory #lesbians
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Hey,
I'd like to start a collection of books, that are great eye-openers against normative concepts.I have read 2 books so far, that I think fit:
#Ace by #AngelaChen: Maybe the standard work on asexuality and a great book to understand and question allo-normativity (allo(sexual) being the opposite of ace/asexual)
#Platonic by #MarisaGFranco: An homage to platonic partnerships and against romantic normativity or also allo normativity (allo(romantic) being the opposite of aromantic here)
I'm next looking for a book on #RelationshipAnarchy to add to the list. Is there like a go-to book or must read? Please let me know.
Also do you know of any other books, that fit into the collection? It can be about/against any kind of normativity, not just related to gender, relationships and identity.
#BooksTodon #BookRecommendation #normativity #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #RelationshipAnarchism #QueerFeminism #HeteroNormativity #AlloNormativity #polyamory #monogamy #patriarchy
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Hey,
I'd like to start a collection of books, that are great eye-openers against normative concepts.I have read 2 books so far, that I think fit:
#Ace by #AngelaChen: Maybe the standard work on asexuality and a great book to understand and question allo-normativity (allo(sexual) being the opposite of ace/asexual)
#Platonic by #MarisaGFranco: An homage to platonic partnerships and against romantic normativity or also allo normativity (allo(romantic) being the opposite of aromantic here)
I'm next looking for a book on #RelationshipAnarchy to add to the list. Is there like a go-to book or must read? Please let me know.
Also do you know of any other books, that fit into the collection? It can be about/against any kind of normativity, not just related to gender, relationships and identity.
#BooksTodon #BookRecommendation #normativity #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #RelationshipAnarchism #QueerFeminism #HeteroNormativity #AlloNormativity #polyamory #monogamy #patriarchy
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In light of this legal ruling, I hope every #Mennonite and #Quaker family with kids in public schools objects to compulsory patriotic indoctorination.
I also recommend that families with objections to #heteronormativity raise their objections, on religious grounds.
Why not? It's only fair.
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In light of this legal ruling, I hope every #Mennonite and #Quaker family with kids in public schools objects to compulsory patriotic indoctorination.
I also recommend that families with objections to #heteronormativity raise their objections, on religious grounds.
Why not? It's only fair.
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CW: NSFW, GenAI
“Moon Witch Chapter 61-64 - Goldstar”
Table of Content: https://t.co/3gQIQwSC59
#bigboobs #bigbreasts #boobs #breasts #caption #cleavage #witch #enodia #latex #lesbian #queer #lesbiancouple #lesbianromance #latexstockings #latexcorset #corset #turtlenecksweater #turtleneck #bikini #swimmingpool #swimming #seethrough #comingout #miniskirt #legscrossed #redhair #gingerhair #redhead #anxiety #heteronormativity
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The monotheistic religions made it normal to squash people: "I think there is something really special about the Bible [...] which is precisely this idea that the revelation of truth comes through the suffering of the weak." (Matthieu Poupart)
Then the Renaissance made it easier to blame the victim: With modernity, "it is the person who takes no initiative who is seen as responsible for the emergence of sexual promiscuity." (Matthieu Poupart)
#truth #revelation #believe #beliefs #empathy #feminism #quotes #blameTheVictim #maleSupremacy #manliness #patriarchy #misogyny #relationships #sociology #religion #catholic #christianity #jewishness #jewish #squash #flatten #crush #agressions #agressive #agressivity #supremacy #rapeCulture #brutalization #modernity #Renaissance #history #intellectualHistory #historyOfHumanThought #historyOfPhilosophy #normal #normality #heteronormativity #weak #weakness #incest #incestCulture
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The monotheistic religions made it normal to squash people: "I think there is something really special about the Bible [...] which is precisely this idea that the revelation of truth comes through the suffering of the weak." (Matthieu Poupart)
Then the Renaissance made it easier to blame the victim: With modernity, "it is the person who takes no initiative who is seen as responsible for the emergence of sexual promiscuity." (Matthieu Poupart)
#truth #revelation #believe #beliefs #empathy #feminism #quotes #blameTheVictim #maleSupremacy #manliness #patriarchy #misogyny #relationships #sociology #religion #catholic #christianity #jewishness #jewish #squash #flatten #crush #agressions #agressive #agressivity #supremacy #rapeCulture #brutalization #modernity #Renaissance #history #intellectualHistory #historyOfHumanThought #historyOfPhilosophy #normal #normality #heteronormativity #weak #weakness #incest #incestCulture
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"Even as queer and trans Iranian asylum seekers and Afghan refugees who left Iran for Turkey do not fall under the same category according to the UNHCR’s criteria, they have something in common: they are economic refugees. Yet the UNHCR does not recognize economic marginalization as grounds for granting asylum. If it did, a large number of people in the world (including in the United States) who are affected by global capitalism’s economic violence (such as lack of access to universal health care in the United States) would be eligible for asylum."
― Sima Shakhsari in her article "What counts at violence?" in https://www.dukeupress.edu/the-cunning-of-gender-violence
h/t @danahilliot
#book #quotes #NGO #NGOs #humanRights #transRights #Iran #refugees #queer #Türkiye #asylum #heteronormativity #Shakhsari #stateViolence #gender #feminisms
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"Even as queer and trans Iranian asylum seekers and Afghan refugees who left Iran for Turkey do not fall under the same category according to the UNHCR’s criteria, they have something in common: they are economic refugees. Yet the UNHCR does not recognize economic marginalization as grounds for granting asylum. If it did, a large number of people in the world (including in the United States) who are affected by global capitalism’s economic violence (such as lack of access to universal health care in the United States) would be eligible for asylum."
― Sima Shakhsari in her article "What counts at violence?" in https://www.dukeupress.edu/the-cunning-of-gender-violence
h/t @danahilliot
#book #quotes #NGO #NGOs #humanRights #transRights #Iran #refugees #queer #Türkiye #asylum #heteronormativity #Shakhsari #stateViolence #gender #feminisms
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#introduction post
hello my name is ivie! i’m #trans, #lesbian, and #demisexual. i’m kinda quiet when i don’t know you, but i’m a big yapper otherwise. this account is to let that occasional yap out without restricting me to #socialnorms and #heteronormativity. i tend to feel a lot of feelings :blushlove:
my interests include: #music #bass #friends #movies #videogames #pcgaming #photography #sewing #wlw #design
i hope everyone seeing this has a lovely day🥰💕💕
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#introduction post
hello my name is ivie! i’m #trans, #lesbian, and #demisexual. i’m kinda quiet when i don’t know you, but i’m a big yapper otherwise. this account is to let that occasional yap out without restricting me to #socialnorms and #heteronormativity. i tend to feel a lot of feelings :blushlove:
my interests include: #music #bass #friends #movies #videogames #pcgaming #photography #sewing #wlw #design
i hope everyone seeing this has a lovely day🥰💕💕
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"Male street harassers seem to view and treat women as though we are public spectacles."
@juliaserano wrote: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/may/16/street-harassment-women-public via @Akki
#entitlement #status #men #spectacle #street #uninvited #attention #fragility #maleFragility #manliness #masculinity #virility #quotes #sluts #norms #heteronormativity #normation #patriarchy #maleViolence #maleGaze #boys #gender #harassment #streetHarassment #invitations #sociology #publicHarassment #woke #feminism #JuliaSerano
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"Male street harassers seem to view and treat women as though we are public spectacles."
@juliaserano wrote: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/may/16/street-harassment-women-public via @Akki
#entitlement #status #men #spectacle #street #uninvited #attention #fragility #maleFragility #manliness #masculinity #virility #quotes #sluts #norms #heteronormativity #normation #patriarchy #maleViolence #maleGaze #boys #gender #harassment #streetHarassment #invitations #sociology #publicHarassment #woke #feminism #JuliaSerano
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"If a young woman does not follow the social injunction to have feelings in a sexual relationship, she knows that she risks being called to order, being punished. Or to feel shame or guilt. This burden of the social norm is primarily internalised."
"There is, in all circles, the threatening 'spectre of the faggot'. The determination to appear as 'a man, a real man' and secure one's masculinity, while escaping suspicion of homosexuality, which is considered demeaning and dangerous. Some gay boys from privileged backgrounds have told me that they were in a relationship with a girl at school to give the impression, to cover their tracks."
An interview with Isabelle Clair, in 2023 (fr) https://www.ouest-france.fr/societe/sexualite/entretien-des-lage-de-15-ans-on-reve-detre-en-couple-explique-cette-sociologue-2fee21ae-cc7e-11ed-8144-e74efc02d2d3 @sociology @edutooters 🧶
#status #reputation #fragility #maleFragility #manliness #masculinity #virility #homophobia #quotes #bitches #whores #teenagers #norms #heteronormativity #normation #patriarchy #maleViolence #badBoy #boys #gender #highSchool #SecondarySchool #sociology
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"If a young woman does not follow the social injunction to have feelings in a sexual relationship, she knows that she risks being called to order, being punished. Or to feel shame or guilt. This burden of the social norm is primarily internalised."
"There is, in all circles, the threatening 'spectre of the faggot'. The determination to appear as 'a man, a real man' and secure one's masculinity, while escaping suspicion of homosexuality, which is considered demeaning and dangerous. Some gay boys from privileged backgrounds have told me that they were in a relationship with a girl at school to give the impression, to cover their tracks."
An interview with Isabelle Clair, in 2023 (fr) https://www.ouest-france.fr/societe/sexualite/entretien-des-lage-de-15-ans-on-reve-detre-en-couple-explique-cette-sociologue-2fee21ae-cc7e-11ed-8144-e74efc02d2d3 @sociology @edutooters 🧶
#status #reputation #fragility #maleFragility #manliness #masculinity #virility #homophobia #quotes #bitches #whores #teenagers #norms #heteronormativity #normation #patriarchy #maleViolence #badBoy #boys #gender #highSchool #SecondarySchool #sociology
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We all know #Heteronormativity by now, and last year Ian Walker (i think) introduced #Motonormativity - how we all have a pro-car cognitive bias in our thinking.
Well there is also an #Israelnormativity in MSM - whatever Israel does is fine and normal.
Like every Saturday morning I am at our little Eastbourne protest, doing our tiny bit to disrupt this normativity. #Gaza #FreePalestine #Lebanon
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We all know #Heteronormativity by now, and last year Ian Walker (i think) introduced #Motonormativity - how we all have a pro-car cognitive bias in our thinking.
Well there is also an #Israelnormativity in MSM - whatever Israel does is fine and normal.
Like every Saturday morning I am at our little Eastbourne protest, doing our tiny bit to disrupt this normativity. #Gaza #FreePalestine #Lebanon
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Yeah, I'm watching Dating Naked, the original US version.
It's hilarious.
"I'm very romantic. I want the whole package, the white picket fence, the dog, some kids.... oh... yeah.... I'm ridiculously heteronormative too. 😁"
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Yeah, I'm watching Dating Naked, the original US version.
It's hilarious.
"I'm very romantic. I want the whole package, the white picket fence, the dog, some kids.... oh... yeah.... I'm ridiculously heteronormative too. 😁"
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Great essay on food, fragile masculinity and how pink drinks make you gay. #food #culture #lgbtqia #queer #pridemonth #heterosexuality #heteronormativity
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#Aphobia may come even from the #LGBTQ+ community: There's this idea that #asexual and #aromantic people do not belong to the LGBTQ+. A common excuse is we're not "oppressed enough". 🤡
Here's the thing: ALL #aces and #aros violate #heteronormativity. No matter how you twist and turn it, it's impossible to be ace/aro AND fully comply with heteronormativity.
Excluding people who violate heteronormtivity is patently absurd.
I'm aro-ace, and therefore LGBTQIA+.