#heteronormativity — Public Fediverse posts
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Next up in my book pile -- "#NoSpiritualSurrender - Indigenous #Anarchy" by #KleeBenally, (2023) "#PrairieFire - The Politics of Revolutionary #AntiImperialism" by #TheWeatherUnderground (1974), and "#Antifa - The #AntiFascist Handbook" by #MarkBray (2017).
I've posted excerpts from Klee's book in the past (which I will re-boost). Both Klee and Mark Bray are in agreement as to who the real enemy is -- the forces of #Colonialism and #WhiteSupremacy.
Bray writes, "The only long-term solution to the fascist menace is to undermine its pillar of strength in society grounded not only in white supremacy, but also in #ableism, #heteronormativity, #patriarchy, #nationalism, #transphobia, #ClassRule, and many others," (Antifa, page 209), and offers up #Socialism, which is #Antiauthoritarian and #NonHierarchical as a solution.
And indeed, 1974's Prairie Fire, paints a similar picture, offering up a map of North America before and after #Colonization. (And yes, I would love to scan in all the illustrations and tables, but unfortunately, the 1974 copy is well-read and very delicate. It belonged to a coven-mate and fellow activist friend, who left it to me when they passed away -- along with a slew of other radical and pagan books). I did find some archived versions, sans illustrations, online.
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Hype for the Future 83/284: Life beyond Heteronormativity, Iceland 🇮🇸 Edition
Introduction Though Iceland has largely maintained a relatively plural culture for over a millennium, the term “heteronormativity” as utilized in the modern day has not existed as of yet. However, the Icelandic culture has largely avoided romantic and sexual centralization as with many European cultures elsewhere. History Much of what is today Iceland is largely determined by the Viking settlers, largely associated with a region that has traditionally spanned the island, the Faroe […] -
Speciesism, racism, sexism, ableism, ageism, queermisia etc are all part of the same ideology of domination and supremacy and exploitation "they are objectively below us and it is our natural right to exploit and discard them and they have no right to fight back"
When you look at carnism through this lens it becomes obvious why anarchism and veganism are part of the same ideology that exists in opposition to domination in opposition to supremacy and in opposition to exploitation
#Speciesism #Racism #Sexism #Ableism #Ageism #Cisnormativity #Heteronormativity #Mononormativity #Carnism #Anarchism #Veganism #Veganarchism #QueerAnarchim #AnarchaFeminism #Queermisia
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Hype for the Future 53E: Ideas for Queer Social Reform
Modern Issues Unfortunately, capitalism is a crisis, resulting in privatization, the race to the bottom, profit maximization, and forced extraction, also all of which are crises. With each and every crisis comes the crisis of marketing, since marketing often demands on the end goal of a monopoly, very similar to the idea that monogamy is somehow “natural” for everyone. Unfortunately, racism, sexism, classism, ableism, and other discriminatory practices are just natural results of this […]https://novatopflex.wordpress.com/2025/12/23/hype-for-the-future-53e-ideas-for-queer-social-reform/
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Hype for the Future 51H: The novaTop Policy on Heteronormativity
Preamble novaTopFlex maintains political influences that often conflict with the dominant narrative of heteronormativity. Unfortunately, significant attacks on the novaTop Identities are often a direct result of heteronormativity, so the best approach is to simply use captions under images and videos that may be most judged. Fear of judgment has been a particular fear at more formal social events, including the more formal dances, as well as more prestigious institutions with a performative […] -
Notable Places of Interest for Social Roles
The novaTop Experience with Social Roles novaTopFlex is largely renowned across all three identities—novaTop, geoTop, and futoTop—for celebrating found/chosen family and other nontraditional family values, with a modern take on social roles and significantly more flexible social norms than society often acknowledges. For the aforementioned reason, novaTopFlex recommends consulting with the populations of the following communities for more related information, since the following places […]https://novatopflex.wordpress.com/2025/11/03/notable-places-of-interest-for-social-roles/
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The persistence of heteronormativity is not only due to the weight of social conventions and norms, but also to material conditions of existence: being in a couple means having more resources. Sophie Lewis asserts that the conditions of heterosexuality are inseparable from economic realities: ‘Most women are too overworked, too exhausted by the demands of capitalism and its culture of compulsory enjoyment to even have the opportunity to learn to love.’
Sophie Lewis wrote ‘Abolish the Family: A Manifesto for Care and Liberation’
#relationships #domesticWork #sociology #heteroNormativity #materialistFeminism #feminism #love #subjugation #appropriation #sexism #heteroSexuality #patriarchy #subalternStudies #family
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“I simply do not see why the nation has to have an official sexuality, especially one that authorizes the norm of a violent gentility; that narrows the field of legitimate political action; that supports the amputation of personal complexity into categories of simple identity; that uses cruel and mundane strategies both to promote shame for non-normative populations and to deny them state, federal, and juridical supports because they are deemed morally incompetent to their own citizenship. This is the heterosexuality I repudiate.”
― Lauren Berlant, in "The Queen of America Goes to Washington City: Essays on Sex and Citizenship"
#heteroNormativity #beliefs #subjugation #radicality #appropriation #sexism #heteroSexuality #queer #Berlant #LaurenBerlant #literature #fluidity #patriarchy #subalternStudies
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"Our invisibility perpetuates a cycle where parenting and family norms remain unchallenged, leaving services without a reason to build their capability for inclusive practice at a systemic level through, for example, inclusive data collection systems and the provision of rainbow inclusion education to providers."
#QueerRights #QueerIssues #QueerParenting #lgbtqia #heteronormativity #society #Aotearoa
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“The subaltern as female cannot be heard or read.”
– Gayatri Spivak#relationships #subalternStudies #exploitation #patriarchy #couples #emotions #domination #sociology #women #femininity #fragility #heteroNormativity #quotes #citation #GayatriSpivak #Spivak
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'What distinguishes Wittig's theoretical, political and literary project, and makes it an unavoidable pole of intellectual attraction today, is its radical anti-essentialism. It's the radical anti-essentialism that Wittig applies to the most credible of beliefs, because of the strength of its naturalization: the idea that men and women are naturally complementary "natural groups".'
Sara Garbagnoli explained in 2023: https://www.moniquewittig.com/wp-content/uploads/Sara-in-AOC-english.pdf 🧶
#revolution #reciprocity #radicality #reversibility #materialistFeminism #materialism #beliefs #subjugation #naturalism #essentialism #sexism #heteroSexism #heteroNormativity #feminisms #MoniqueWittig #Wittig #literature #homosexuality #lesbianism #feminism #internationalism #patriarchy #minorityStudies #queer #nonBinary #culturalHistory #lesbians #otherness #linguistics
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Heterosexuality is a regime of political oppression 🧶
"Just as racism produces race and not the other way round, sexism produces sex through the relationship of domination that reduces the dominated to things or natural objects."
… said Natacha Chetcuti-Osorovitz summarizing Monique Wittig#materialism #beliefs #subjugation #radicality #EstelleSays #materialistFeminism #naturalism #appropriation #sexism #heteroSexuality #saphism #heteroNormativity #feminisms #history #MoniqueWittig #Wittig #literature #homosexuality #lesbianism #feminism #internationalism #patriarchy #linguistics #writing #minorityStudies #universalism #queer #constructivism #antagonism #culturalHistory #lesbians
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Hey,
I'd like to start a collection of books, that are great eye-openers against normative concepts.I have read 2 books so far, that I think fit:
#Ace by #AngelaChen: Maybe the standard work on asexuality and a great book to understand and question allo-normativity (allo(sexual) being the opposite of ace/asexual)
#Platonic by #MarisaGFranco: An homage to platonic partnerships and against romantic normativity or also allo normativity (allo(romantic) being the opposite of aromantic here)
I'm next looking for a book on #RelationshipAnarchy to add to the list. Is there like a go-to book or must read? Please let me know.
Also do you know of any other books, that fit into the collection? It can be about/against any kind of normativity, not just related to gender, relationships and identity.
#BooksTodon #BookRecommendation #normativity #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #RelationshipAnarchism #QueerFeminism #HeteroNormativity #AlloNormativity #polyamory #monogamy #patriarchy
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Hey,
I'd like to start a collection of books, that are great eye-openers against normative concepts.I have read 2 books so far, that I think fit:
#Ace by #AngelaChen: Maybe the standard work on asexuality and a great book to understand and question allo-normativity (allo(sexual) being the opposite of ace/asexual)
#Platonic by #MarisaGFranco: An homage to platonic partnerships and against romantic normativity or also allo normativity (allo(romantic) being the opposite of aromantic here)
I'm next looking for a book on #RelationshipAnarchy to add to the list. Is there like a go-to book or must read? Please let me know.
Also do you know of any other books, that fit into the collection? It can be about/against any kind of normativity, not just related to gender, relationships and identity.
#BooksTodon #BookRecommendation #normativity #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #RelationshipAnarchism #QueerFeminism #HeteroNormativity #AlloNormativity #polyamory #monogamy #patriarchy
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Hey,
I'd like to start a collection of books, that are great eye-openers against normative concepts.I have read 2 books so far, that I think fit:
#Ace by #AngelaChen: Maybe the standard work on asexuality and a great book to understand and question allo-normativity (allo(sexual) being the opposite of ace/asexual)
#Platonic by #MarisaGFranco: An homage to platonic partnerships and against romantic normativity or also allo normativity (allo(romantic) being the opposite of aromantic here)
I'm next looking for a book on #RelationshipAnarchy to add to the list. Is there like a go-to book or must read? Please let me know.
Also do you know of any other books, that fit into the collection? It can be about/against any kind of normativity, not just related to gender, relationships and identity.
#BooksTodon #BookRecommendation #normativity #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #RelationshipAnarchism #QueerFeminism #HeteroNormativity #AlloNormativity #polyamory #monogamy #patriarchy
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Hey,
I'd like to start a collection of books, that are great eye-openers against normative concepts.I have read 2 books so far, that I think fit:
#Ace by #AngelaChen: Maybe the standard work on asexuality and a great book to understand and question allo-normativity (allo(sexual) being the opposite of ace/asexual)
#Platonic by #MarisaGFranco: An homage to platonic partnerships and against romantic normativity or also allo normativity (allo(romantic) being the opposite of aromantic here)
I'm next looking for a book on #RelationshipAnarchy to add to the list. Is there like a go-to book or must read? Please let me know.
Also do you know of any other books, that fit into the collection? It can be about/against any kind of normativity, not just related to gender, relationships and identity.
#BooksTodon #BookRecommendation #normativity #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #RelationshipAnarchism #QueerFeminism #HeteroNormativity #AlloNormativity #polyamory #monogamy #patriarchy
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Hey,
I'd like to start a collection of books, that are great eye-openers against normative concepts.I have read 2 books so far, that I think fit:
#Ace by #AngelaChen: Maybe the standard work on asexuality and a great book to understand and question allo-normativity (allo(sexual) being the opposite of ace/asexual)
#Platonic by #MarisaGFranco: An homage to platonic partnerships and against romantic normativity or also allo normativity (allo(romantic) being the opposite of aromantic here)
I'm next looking for a book on #RelationshipAnarchy to add to the list. Is there like a go-to book or must read? Please let me know.
Also do you know of any other books, that fit into the collection? It can be about/against any kind of normativity, not just related to gender, relationships and identity.
#BooksTodon #BookRecommendation #normativity #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #RelationshipAnarchism #QueerFeminism #HeteroNormativity #AlloNormativity #polyamory #monogamy #patriarchy
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In light of this legal ruling, I hope every #Mennonite and #Quaker family with kids in public schools objects to compulsory patriotic indoctorination.
I also recommend that families with objections to #heteronormativity raise their objections, on religious grounds.
Why not? It's only fair.
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The monotheistic religions made it normal to squash people: "I think there is something really special about the Bible [...] which is precisely this idea that the revelation of truth comes through the suffering of the weak." (Matthieu Poupart)
Then the Renaissance made it easier to blame the victim: With modernity, "it is the person who takes no initiative who is seen as responsible for the emergence of sexual promiscuity." (Matthieu Poupart)
#truth #revelation #believe #beliefs #empathy #feminism #quotes #blameTheVictim #maleSupremacy #manliness #patriarchy #misogyny #relationships #sociology #religion #catholic #christianity #jewishness #jewish #squash #flatten #crush #agressions #agressive #agressivity #supremacy #rapeCulture #brutalization #modernity #Renaissance #history #intellectualHistory #historyOfHumanThought #historyOfPhilosophy #normal #normality #heteronormativity #weak #weakness #incest #incestCulture
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The monotheistic religions made it normal to squash people: "I think there is something really special about the Bible [...] which is precisely this idea that the revelation of truth comes through the suffering of the weak." (Matthieu Poupart)
Then the Renaissance made it easier to blame the victim: With modernity, "it is the person who takes no initiative who is seen as responsible for the emergence of sexual promiscuity." (Matthieu Poupart)
#truth #revelation #believe #beliefs #empathy #feminism #quotes #blameTheVictim #maleSupremacy #manliness #patriarchy #misogyny #relationships #sociology #religion #catholic #christianity #jewishness #jewish #squash #flatten #crush #agressions #agressive #agressivity #supremacy #rapeCulture #brutalization #modernity #Renaissance #history #intellectualHistory #historyOfHumanThought #historyOfPhilosophy #normal #normality #heteronormativity #weak #weakness #incest #incestCulture
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The monotheistic religions made it normal to squash people: "I think there is something really special about the Bible [...] which is precisely this idea that the revelation of truth comes through the suffering of the weak." (Matthieu Poupart)
Then the Renaissance made it easier to blame the victim: With modernity, "it is the person who takes no initiative who is seen as responsible for the emergence of sexual promiscuity." (Matthieu Poupart)
#truth #revelation #believe #beliefs #empathy #feminism #quotes #blameTheVictim #maleSupremacy #manliness #patriarchy #misogyny #relationships #sociology #religion #catholic #christianity #jewishness #jewish #squash #flatten #crush #agressions #agressive #agressivity #supremacy #rapeCulture #brutalization #modernity #Renaissance #history #intellectualHistory #historyOfHumanThought #historyOfPhilosophy #normal #normality #heteronormativity #weak #weakness #incest #incestCulture
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The monotheistic religions made it normal to squash people: "I think there is something really special about the Bible [...] which is precisely this idea that the revelation of truth comes through the suffering of the weak." (Matthieu Poupart)
Then the Renaissance made it easier to blame the victim: With modernity, "it is the person who takes no initiative who is seen as responsible for the emergence of sexual promiscuity." (Matthieu Poupart)
#truth #revelation #believe #beliefs #empathy #feminism #quotes #blameTheVictim #maleSupremacy #manliness #patriarchy #misogyny #relationships #sociology #religion #catholic #christianity #jewishness #jewish #squash #flatten #crush #agressions #agressive #agressivity #supremacy #rapeCulture #brutalization #modernity #Renaissance #history #intellectualHistory #historyOfHumanThought #historyOfPhilosophy #normal #normality #heteronormativity #weak #weakness #incest #incestCulture
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The monotheistic religions made it normal to squash people: "I think there is something really special about the Bible [...] which is precisely this idea that the revelation of truth comes through the suffering of the weak." (Matthieu Poupart)
Then the Renaissance made it easier to blame the victim: With modernity, "it is the person who takes no initiative who is seen as responsible for the emergence of sexual promiscuity." (Matthieu Poupart)
#truth #revelation #believe #beliefs #empathy #feminism #quotes #blameTheVictim #maleSupremacy #manliness #patriarchy #misogyny #relationships #sociology #religion #catholic #christianity #jewishness #jewish #squash #flatten #crush #agressions #agressive #agressivity #supremacy #rapeCulture #brutalization #modernity #Renaissance #history #intellectualHistory #historyOfHumanThought #historyOfPhilosophy #normal #normality #heteronormativity #weak #weakness #incest #incestCulture
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"Even as queer and trans Iranian asylum seekers and Afghan refugees who left Iran for Turkey do not fall under the same category according to the UNHCR’s criteria, they have something in common: they are economic refugees. Yet the UNHCR does not recognize economic marginalization as grounds for granting asylum. If it did, a large number of people in the world (including in the United States) who are affected by global capitalism’s economic violence (such as lack of access to universal health care in the United States) would be eligible for asylum."
― Sima Shakhsari in her article "What counts at violence?" in https://www.dukeupress.edu/the-cunning-of-gender-violence
h/t @danahilliot
#book #quotes #NGO #NGOs #humanRights #transRights #Iran #refugees #queer #Türkiye #asylum #heteronormativity #Shakhsari #stateViolence #gender #feminisms
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"Male street harassers seem to view and treat women as though we are public spectacles."
@juliaserano wrote: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/may/16/street-harassment-women-public via @Akki
#entitlement #status #men #spectacle #street #uninvited #attention #fragility #maleFragility #manliness #masculinity #virility #quotes #sluts #norms #heteronormativity #normation #patriarchy #maleViolence #maleGaze #boys #gender #harassment #streetHarassment #invitations #sociology #publicHarassment #woke #feminism #JuliaSerano
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"Male street harassers seem to view and treat women as though we are public spectacles."
@juliaserano wrote: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/may/16/street-harassment-women-public via @Akki
#entitlement #status #men #spectacle #street #uninvited #attention #fragility #maleFragility #manliness #masculinity #virility #quotes #sluts #norms #heteronormativity #normation #patriarchy #maleViolence #maleGaze #boys #gender #harassment #streetHarassment #invitations #sociology #publicHarassment #woke #feminism #JuliaSerano
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"Male street harassers seem to view and treat women as though we are public spectacles."
@juliaserano wrote: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/may/16/street-harassment-women-public via @Akki
#entitlement #status #men #spectacle #street #uninvited #attention #fragility #maleFragility #manliness #masculinity #virility #quotes #sluts #norms #heteronormativity #normation #patriarchy #maleViolence #maleGaze #boys #gender #harassment #streetHarassment #invitations #sociology #publicHarassment #woke #feminism #JuliaSerano
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"If a young woman does not follow the social injunction to have feelings in a sexual relationship, she knows that she risks being called to order, being punished. Or to feel shame or guilt. This burden of the social norm is primarily internalised."
"There is, in all circles, the threatening 'spectre of the faggot'. The determination to appear as 'a man, a real man' and secure one's masculinity, while escaping suspicion of homosexuality, which is considered demeaning and dangerous. Some gay boys from privileged backgrounds have told me that they were in a relationship with a girl at school to give the impression, to cover their tracks."
An interview with Isabelle Clair, in 2023 (fr) https://www.ouest-france.fr/societe/sexualite/entretien-des-lage-de-15-ans-on-reve-detre-en-couple-explique-cette-sociologue-2fee21ae-cc7e-11ed-8144-e74efc02d2d3 @sociology @edutooters 🧶
#status #reputation #fragility #maleFragility #manliness #masculinity #virility #homophobia #quotes #bitches #whores #teenagers #norms #heteronormativity #normation #patriarchy #maleViolence #badBoy #boys #gender #highSchool #SecondarySchool #sociology
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#Aphobia may come even from the #LGBTQ+ community: There's this idea that #asexual and #aromantic people do not belong to the LGBTQ+. A common excuse is we're not "oppressed enough". 🤡
Here's the thing: ALL #aces and #aros violate #heteronormativity. No matter how you twist and turn it, it's impossible to be ace/aro AND fully comply with heteronormativity.
Excluding people who violate heteronormtivity is patently absurd.
I'm aro-ace, and therefore LGBTQIA+.
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#WritersCoffeeClub APR-04 Do you feature real-world political and social issues in your work?
Social issues play a huge part in most of my story. Since a good part of my stories has #queer topics, my characters deal with #homophobia (including internalized one)/ #transphobia, #heteronormativity/ #cisnormativity/ #allonormativity, you name it.
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#amWriting #ZuriStories #WritingDiscussion #WritersChat #LGBT #queerpobia
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Margot Déage: "A girl who does not belong to a boy or a man can fall into the category of whore at any time, whatever her clothes or sexual practices."
Margot Déage: "Being in a position to say who’s a whore and who’s a good girl is a power in itself within the girls’ group, a power that is strongly mobilised by certain girls. The ones who can fall, in general, are the hardest on the matter."
#reputation #SAAM #assault #sexualViolence #rapeCulture #sluts #whores #adolescence #violence #HappySlapping #film #norms #bioPower #heteronormativity #normalization #subdue #subjugation #patriarchy #brutalization #moralPanic #responsibility #maleViolence #empathy #masculinity #truth #evidence #parenting #rumours #gender #SecondarySchool #HighSchool #harassment #targeting #school #sociology #education
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Margot Déage: "A girl who does not belong to a boy or a man can fall into the category of whore at any time, whatever her clothes or sexual practices."
Margot Déage: "Being in a position to say who’s a whore and who’s a good girl is a power in itself within the girls’ group, a power that is strongly mobilised by certain girls. The ones who can fall, in general, are the hardest on the matter."
#reputation #SAAM #assault #sexualViolence #rapeCulture #sluts #whores #adolescence #violence #HappySlapping #film #norms #bioPower #heteronormativity #normalization #subdue #subjugation #patriarchy #brutalization #moralPanic #responsibility #maleViolence #empathy #masculinity #truth #evidence #parenting #rumours #gender #SecondarySchool #HighSchool #harassment #targeting #school #sociology #education
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Margot Déage: "A girl who does not belong to a boy or a man can fall into the category of whore at any time, whatever her clothes or sexual practices."
Margot Déage: "Being in a position to say who’s a whore and who’s a good girl is a power in itself within the girls’ group, a power that is strongly mobilised by certain girls. The ones who can fall, in general, are the hardest on the matter."
#reputation #SAAM #assault #sexualViolence #rapeCulture #sluts #whores #adolescence #violence #HappySlapping #film #norms #bioPower #heteronormativity #normalization #subdue #subjugation #patriarchy #brutalization #moralPanic #responsibility #maleViolence #empathy #masculinity #truth #evidence #parenting #rumours #gender #SecondarySchool #HighSchool #harassment #targeting #school #sociology #education
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Margot Déage: "A girl who does not belong to a boy or a man can fall into the category of whore at any time, whatever her clothes or sexual practices."
Margot Déage: "Being in a position to say who’s a whore and who’s a good girl is a power in itself within the girls’ group, a power that is strongly mobilised by certain girls. The ones who can fall, in general, are the hardest on the matter."
#reputation #SAAM #assault #sexualViolence #rapeCulture #sluts #whores #adolescence #violence #HappySlapping #film #norms #bioPower #heteronormativity #normalization #subdue #subjugation #patriarchy #brutalization #moralPanic #responsibility #maleViolence #empathy #masculinity #truth #evidence #parenting #rumours #gender #SecondarySchool #HighSchool #harassment #targeting #school #sociology #education
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Margot Déage: "A girl who does not belong to a boy or a man can fall into the category of whore at any time, whatever her clothes or sexual practices."
Margot Déage: "Being in a position to say who’s a whore and who’s a good girl is a power in itself within the girls’ group, a power that is strongly mobilised by certain girls. The ones who can fall, in general, are the hardest on the matter."
#reputation #SAAM #assault #sexualViolence #rapeCulture #sluts #whores #adolescence #violence #HappySlapping #film #norms #bioPower #heteronormativity #normalization #subdue #subjugation #patriarchy #brutalization #moralPanic #responsibility #maleViolence #empathy #masculinity #truth #evidence #parenting #rumours #gender #SecondarySchool #HighSchool #harassment #targeting #school #sociology #education
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Rough contact and impact peak around the age of seven. This is gradually replaced by peer monitoring in the years that follow.
Isabelle Clair: "Adolescence is a very normative age. At middle school, "there's a very tough relationship to what's the right thing to do".
Margot Déage: "Physical violence is much more prevalent in elementary/primary school, then decreases in middle school, and progressively through high school."
#France #reputation #adolescence #violence #norms #bioPower #heteronormativity #normalisation #normation #subdue #subjugation #patriarchy #brutalisation #responsibility #masculinity #truth #evidence #parenting #rumours #gender #SecondarySchool #HighSchool #harassment #targeting #school #psychology #education #SAAM2024 #SAAM #childhood #children
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Every time I meet someone who's "unsuccessfully" #poly (can't find anyone to #date, can't find anyone interested in more than hookups and one-night-stands, #relationships always fizzle as soon as the #NRE dies, or only ever winds up in bad/abusive relationships that end messily), it's the same few basic problems.
Toxic #mononormativity.
Toxic #masculinity.
Toxic #heteronormativity.
People who find #polyamory "easy" are the ones who have already faced these problems and named them. They might not have properly *solved* all those issues yet (goodness knows even I sometimes hide for safety behind some #passing-privilege and let people make #heteromononormative #assumptions about me, and I've been out-and-proud #non-monogamous for decades). But if you're finding #EthicalNonMonogamy difficult, it's probably one (or a combination) of those issues. And if more seasoned poly-folk roll their eyes at you and don't take the time to explain it, it's because we've heard it literally hundreds of times before.
Which doesn't make you bad, or stupid, or even unsuited to being non-monogamous. It just means you're still early in the journey, and can't progress until you do some work.
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Dear Cuckoos,
I'm talking about those cuckoos who like to espouse extreme position, and oftentimes also like to tell other how to live their lives. I've not tossed away the shackles of heteronormativity, mononormativity, and neuronormativity, only to start entertaining other dogmas.
If I see too much dogma spewed at me, it hurts my mental health. Self-care in this case means muting you, or blocking you.
Sincerely,
Your Autistic Life
#cuckoos #dogma #heteronormativity #mononormativity #neuronormativity #MentalHealth #ActuallyAutistic -
Dear Cuckoos,
I'm talking about those cuckoos who like to espouse extreme position, and oftentimes also like to tell other how to live their lives. I've not tossed away the shackles of heteronormativity, mononormativity, and neuronormativity, only to start entertaining other dogmas.
If I see too much dogma spewed at me, it hurts my mental health. Self-care in this case means muting you, or blocking you.
Sincerely,
Your Autistic Life
#cuckoos #dogma #heteronormativity #mononormativity #neuronormativity #MentalHealth #ActuallyAutistic -
Dear Cuckoos,
I'm talking about those cuckoos who like to espouse extreme position, and oftentimes also like to tell other how to live their lives. I've not tossed away the shackles of heteronormativity, mononormativity, and neuronormativity, only to start entertaining other dogmas.
If I see too much dogma spewed at me, it hurts my mental health. Self-care in this case means muting you, or blocking you.
Sincerely,
Your Autistic Life
#cuckoos #dogma #heteronormativity #mononormativity #neuronormativity #MentalHealth #ActuallyAutistic -
Dear Cuckoos,
I'm talking about those cuckoos who like to espouse extreme position, and oftentimes also like to tell other how to live their lives. I've not tossed away the shackles of heteronormativity, mononormativity, and neuronormativity, only to start entertaining other dogmas.
If I see too much dogma spewed at me, it hurts my mental health. Self-care in this case means muting you, or blocking you.
Sincerely,
Your Autistic Life
#cuckoos #dogma #heteronormativity #mononormativity #neuronormativity #MentalHealth #ActuallyAutistic -
Dear Cuckoos,
I'm talking about those cuckoos who like to espouse extreme position, and oftentimes also like to tell other how to live their lives. I've not tossed away the shackles of heteronormativity, mononormativity, and neuronormativity, only to start entertaining other dogmas.
If I see too much dogma spewed at me, it hurts my mental health. Self-care in this case means muting you, or blocking you.
Sincerely,
Your Autistic Life
#cuckoos #dogma #heteronormativity #mononormativity #neuronormativity #MentalHealth #ActuallyAutistic -
Not a Lie if They Make You Do It
"Lie. It's not lying if they make you lie, if the only truth they can accept is their own."
https://sharonmurphy.net/personal/notalie/
#personal #choice #ComingOut #CompulsoryHeterosexuality #heteronormativity #lgbtqia #obligated #transgender
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#MarkLatham calls the thought of #gay #sex “puke worthy”… so we’re pretty sure he wants to have #gay #sex
When expresses such #passionate #views against our community, it makes a person question why someone such as Latham is so #preoccupied with this particular #topic, and, how, ahem, fiercely he responds to it.
#LGBTQIA #Australia #Politics #Hate #Bigotry #Homophobia #heteronormativity
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#MarkLatham calls the thought of #gay #sex “puke worthy”… so we’re pretty sure he wants to have #gay #sex
When expresses such #passionate #views against our community, it makes a person question why someone such as Latham is so #preoccupied with this particular #topic, and, how, ahem, fiercely he responds to it.
#LGBTQIA #Australia #Politics #Hate #Bigotry #Homophobia #heteronormativity
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#MarkLatham calls the thought of #gay #sex “puke worthy”… so we’re pretty sure he wants to have #gay #sex
When expresses such #passionate #views against our community, it makes a person question why someone such as Latham is so #preoccupied with this particular #topic, and, how, ahem, fiercely he responds to it.
#LGBTQIA #Australia #Politics #Hate #Bigotry #Homophobia #heteronormativity
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#MarkLatham calls the thought of #gay #sex “puke worthy”… so we’re pretty sure he wants to have #gay #sex
When expresses such #passionate #views against our community, it makes a person question why someone such as Latham is so #preoccupied with this particular #topic, and, how, ahem, fiercely he responds to it.
#LGBTQIA #Australia #Politics #Hate #Bigotry #Homophobia #heteronormativity
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#MarkLatham calls the thought of #gay #sex “puke worthy”… so we’re pretty sure he wants to have #gay #sex
When expresses such #passionate #views against our community, it makes a person question why someone such as Latham is so #preoccupied with this particular #topic, and, how, ahem, fiercely he responds to it.
#LGBTQIA #Australia #Politics #Hate #Bigotry #Homophobia #heteronormativity
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Being individually #cis and/or #het is not the problem. The problem is #Cisheteronormativity: The idea that being #cishet is inherently superior and more desirable than other states of being, that being cishet is the default and the norm from which other states of being deviate, that those other states of being should be cured or prevented.
#queerliberation #transliberation #heteronormativity #cisnormativity #transfeminism #anarchaqueer #queernanarchism