#heteronormativity — Public Fediverse posts

… #Unmarried couples in which one #parent stays at home would not qualify under the draft. Single #parents who do not work would not be eligible for the subsidy.

Some department lawyers working on the plan have questioned the legality of requiring recipients to be married, acc/to the people familiar with the matter.

#Trump #law #FarRight #AltRight #conservative #MaleSupremacy #TradWives #heterosexism #heteronormativity #sexism #misogyny #plutocracy #aristocracy

… #Unmarried couples in which one #parent stays at home would not qualify under the draft. Single #parents who do not work would not be eligible for the subsidy.

Some department lawyers working on the plan have questioned the legality of requiring recipients to be married, acc/to the people familiar with the matter.

#Trump #law #FarRight #AltRight #conservative #MaleSupremacy #TradWives #heterosexism #heteronormativity #sexism #misogyny #plutocracy #aristocracy

… #Unmarried couples in which one #parent stays at home would not qualify under the draft. Single #parents who do not work would not be eligible for the subsidy.

Some department lawyers working on the plan have questioned the legality of requiring recipients to be married, acc/to the people familiar with the matter.

#Trump #law #FarRight #AltRight #conservative #MaleSupremacy #TradWives #heterosexism #heteronormativity #sexism #misogyny #plutocracy #aristocracy

… #Unmarried couples in which one #parent stays at home would not qualify under the draft. Single #parents who do not work would not be eligible for the subsidy.

Some department lawyers working on the plan have questioned the legality of requiring recipients to be married, acc/to the people familiar with the matter.

#Trump #law #FarRight #AltRight #conservative #MaleSupremacy #TradWives #heterosexism #heteronormativity #sexism #misogyny #plutocracy #aristocracy

… #Unmarried couples in which one #parent stays at home would not qualify under the draft. Single #parents who do not work would not be eligible for the subsidy.

Some department lawyers working on the plan have questioned the legality of requiring recipients to be married, acc/to the people familiar with the matter.

#Trump #law #FarRight #AltRight #conservative #MaleSupremacy #TradWives #heterosexism #heteronormativity #sexism #misogyny #plutocracy #aristocracy

The new rule being drafted would allow #married couples with one stay-at-home parent in certain income brackets to collect a subsidy, according to the people, who spoke on the condition of anonymity to describe the plan before it is finalized. The change could be made WITHOUT approval from #Congress.

#Trump #law #FarRight #AltRight #conservative #MaleSupremacy #TradWives #heterosexism #heteronormativity #sexism #misogyny #plutocracy #aristocracy

The new rule being drafted would allow #married couples with one stay-at-home parent in certain income brackets to collect a subsidy, according to the people, who spoke on the condition of anonymity to describe the plan before it is finalized. The change could be made WITHOUT approval from #Congress.

#Trump #law #FarRight #AltRight #conservative #MaleSupremacy #TradWives #heterosexism #heteronormativity #sexism #misogyny #plutocracy #aristocracy

The new rule being drafted would allow #married couples with one stay-at-home parent in certain income brackets to collect a subsidy, according to the people, who spoke on the condition of anonymity to describe the plan before it is finalized. The change could be made WITHOUT approval from #Congress.

#Trump #law #FarRight #AltRight #conservative #MaleSupremacy #TradWives #heterosexism #heteronormativity #sexism #misogyny #plutocracy #aristocracy

The new rule being drafted would allow #married couples with one stay-at-home parent in certain income brackets to collect a subsidy, according to the people, who spoke on the condition of anonymity to describe the plan before it is finalized. The change could be made WITHOUT approval from #Congress.

#Trump #law #FarRight #AltRight #conservative #MaleSupremacy #TradWives #heterosexism #heteronormativity #sexism #misogyny #plutocracy #aristocracy

The new rule being drafted would allow #married couples with one stay-at-home parent in certain income brackets to collect a subsidy, according to the people, who spoke on the condition of anonymity to describe the plan before it is finalized. The change could be made WITHOUT approval from #Congress.

#Trump #law #FarRight #AltRight #conservative #MaleSupremacy #TradWives #heterosexism #heteronormativity #sexism #misogyny #plutocracy #aristocracy

#Trump Officials Plan to Pay At-Home #Parents, Using Funds for Working Ones

The proposed benefit, a top policy priority for #JDVance, would apply only to #married couples & tap a fund intended to provide federal #childcare subsidies to #WorkingParents.

#law #FarRight #AltRight #conservative #MaleSupremacy #TradWives #heterosexism #heteronormativity #sexism #misogyny #plutocracy #aristocracy
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/05/us/politics/stay-at-home-parents-subsidies.html?unlocked_article_code=1._FA.FRjY.ZCWLQiS1gk4E&smid=nytcore-ios-share

#Trump Officials Plan to Pay At-Home #Parents, Using Funds for Working Ones

The proposed benefit, a top policy priority for #JDVance, would apply only to #married couples & tap a fund intended to provide federal #childcare subsidies to #WorkingParents.

#law #FarRight #AltRight #conservative #MaleSupremacy #TradWives #heterosexism #heteronormativity #sexism #misogyny #plutocracy #aristocracy
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/05/us/politics/stay-at-home-parents-subsidies.html?unlocked_article_code=1._FA.FRjY.ZCWLQiS1gk4E&smid=nytcore-ios-share

#Trump Officials Plan to Pay At-Home #Parents, Using Funds for Working Ones

The proposed benefit, a top policy priority for #JDVance, would apply only to #married couples & tap a fund intended to provide federal #childcare subsidies to #WorkingParents.

#law #FarRight #AltRight #conservative #MaleSupremacy #TradWives #heterosexism #heteronormativity #sexism #misogyny #plutocracy #aristocracy
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/05/us/politics/stay-at-home-parents-subsidies.html?unlocked_article_code=1._FA.FRjY.ZCWLQiS1gk4E&smid=nytcore-ios-share

#Trump Officials Plan to Pay At-Home #Parents, Using Funds for Working Ones

The proposed benefit, a top policy priority for #JDVance, would apply only to #married couples & tap a fund intended to provide federal #childcare subsidies to #WorkingParents.

#law #FarRight #AltRight #conservative #MaleSupremacy #TradWives #heterosexism #heteronormativity #sexism #misogyny #plutocracy #aristocracy
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/05/us/politics/stay-at-home-parents-subsidies.html?unlocked_article_code=1._FA.FRjY.ZCWLQiS1gk4E&smid=nytcore-ios-share

#Trump Officials Plan to Pay At-Home #Parents, Using Funds for Working Ones

The proposed benefit, a top policy priority for #JDVance, would apply only to #married couples & tap a fund intended to provide federal #childcare subsidies to #WorkingParents.

#law #FarRight #AltRight #conservative #MaleSupremacy #TradWives #heterosexism #heteronormativity #sexism #misogyny #plutocracy #aristocracy
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/05/us/politics/stay-at-home-parents-subsidies.html?unlocked_article_code=1._FA.FRjY.ZCWLQiS1gk4E&smid=nytcore-ios-share

Next up in my book pile -- " #NoSpiritualSurrender - Indigenous #Anarchy" by #KleeBenally, (2023) " #PrairieFire - The Politics of Revolutionary #AntiImperialism" by #TheWeatherUnderground (1974), and " #Antifa - The #AntiFascist Handbook" by #MarkBray (2017).

I've posted excerpts from Klee's book in the past (which I will re-boost). Both Klee and Mark Bray are in agreement as to who the real enemy is -- the forces of #Colonialism and #WhiteSupremacy.

Bray writes, "The only long-term solution to the fascist menace is to undermine its pillar of strength in society grounded not only in white supremacy, but also in #ableism, #heteronormativity, #patriarchy, #nationalism, #transphobia, #ClassRule, and many others," (Antifa, page 209), and offers up #Socialism, which is #Antiauthoritarian and #NonHierarchical as a solution.

And indeed, 1974's Prairie Fire, paints a similar picture, offering up a map of North America before and after #Colonization. (And yes, I would love to scan in all the illustrations and tables, but unfortunately, the 1974 copy is well-read and very delicate. It belonged to a coven-mate and fellow activist friend, who left it to me when they passed away -- along with a slew of other radical and pagan books). I did find some archived versions, sans illustrations, online.

#AmReading #Bookstodon #RadicalBooks #PowerStructures

Next up in my book pile -- " #NoSpiritualSurrender - Indigenous #Anarchy" by #KleeBenally, (2023) " #PrairieFire - The Politics of Revolutionary #AntiImperialism" by #TheWeatherUnderground (1974), and " #Antifa - The #AntiFascist Handbook" by #MarkBray (2017).

I've posted excerpts from Klee's book in the past (which I will re-boost). Both Klee and Mark Bray are in agreement as to who the real enemy is -- the forces of #Colonialism and #WhiteSupremacy.

Bray writes, "The only long-term solution to the fascist menace is to undermine its pillar of strength in society grounded not only in white supremacy, but also in #ableism, #heteronormativity, #patriarchy, #nationalism, #transphobia, #ClassRule, and many others," (Antifa, page 209), and offers up #Socialism, which is #Antiauthoritarian and #NonHierarchical as a solution.

And indeed, 1974's Prairie Fire, paints a similar picture, offering up a map of North America before and after #Colonization. (And yes, I would love to scan in all the illustrations and tables, but unfortunately, the 1974 copy is well-read and very delicate. It belonged to a coven-mate and fellow activist friend, who left it to me when they passed away -- along with a slew of other radical and pagan books). I did find some archived versions, sans illustrations, online.

#AmReading #Bookstodon #RadicalBooks #PowerStructures

Next up in my book pile -- " #NoSpiritualSurrender - Indigenous #Anarchy" by #KleeBenally, (2023) " #PrairieFire - The Politics of Revolutionary #AntiImperialism" by #TheWeatherUnderground (1974), and " #Antifa - The #AntiFascist Handbook" by #MarkBray (2017).

I've posted excerpts from Klee's book in the past (which I will re-boost). Both Klee and Mark Bray are in agreement as to who the real enemy is -- the forces of #Colonialism and #WhiteSupremacy.

Bray writes, "The only long-term solution to the fascist menace is to undermine its pillar of strength in society grounded not only in white supremacy, but also in #ableism, #heteronormativity, #patriarchy, #nationalism, #transphobia, #ClassRule, and many others," (Antifa, page 209), and offers up #Socialism, which is #Antiauthoritarian and #NonHierarchical as a solution.

And indeed, 1974's Prairie Fire, paints a similar picture, offering up a map of North America before and after #Colonization. (And yes, I would love to scan in all the illustrations and tables, but unfortunately, the 1974 copy is well-read and very delicate. It belonged to a coven-mate and fellow activist friend, who left it to me when they passed away -- along with a slew of other radical and pagan books). I did find some archived versions, sans illustrations, online.

#AmReading #Bookstodon #RadicalBooks #PowerStructures

Next up in my book pile -- " #NoSpiritualSurrender - Indigenous #Anarchy" by #KleeBenally, (2023) " #PrairieFire - The Politics of Revolutionary #AntiImperialism" by #TheWeatherUnderground (1974), and " #Antifa - The #AntiFascist Handbook" by #MarkBray (2017).

I've posted excerpts from Klee's book in the past (which I will re-boost). Both Klee and Mark Bray are in agreement as to who the real enemy is -- the forces of #Colonialism and #WhiteSupremacy.

Bray writes, "The only long-term solution to the fascist menace is to undermine its pillar of strength in society grounded not only in white supremacy, but also in #ableism, #heteronormativity, #patriarchy, #nationalism, #transphobia, #ClassRule, and many others," (Antifa, page 209), and offers up #Socialism, which is #Antiauthoritarian and #NonHierarchical as a solution.

And indeed, 1974's Prairie Fire, paints a similar picture, offering up a map of North America before and after #Colonization. (And yes, I would love to scan in all the illustrations and tables, but unfortunately, the 1974 copy is well-read and very delicate. It belonged to a coven-mate and fellow activist friend, who left it to me when they passed away -- along with a slew of other radical and pagan books). I did find some archived versions, sans illustrations, online.

#AmReading #Bookstodon #RadicalBooks #PowerStructures

Next up in my book pile -- " #NoSpiritualSurrender - Indigenous #Anarchy" by #KleeBenally, (2023) " #PrairieFire - The Politics of Revolutionary #AntiImperialism" by #TheWeatherUnderground (1974), and " #Antifa - The #AntiFascist Handbook" by #MarkBray (2017).

I've posted excerpts from Klee's book in the past (which I will re-boost). Both Klee and Mark Bray are in agreement as to who the real enemy is -- the forces of #Colonialism and #WhiteSupremacy.

Bray writes, "The only long-term solution to the fascist menace is to undermine its pillar of strength in society grounded not only in white supremacy, but also in #ableism, #heteronormativity, #patriarchy, #nationalism, #transphobia, #ClassRule, and many others," (Antifa, page 209), and offers up #Socialism, which is #Antiauthoritarian and #NonHierarchical as a solution.

And indeed, 1974's Prairie Fire, paints a similar picture, offering up a map of North America before and after #Colonization. (And yes, I would love to scan in all the illustrations and tables, but unfortunately, the 1974 copy is well-read and very delicate. It belonged to a coven-mate and fellow activist friend, who left it to me when they passed away -- along with a slew of other radical and pagan books). I did find some archived versions, sans illustrations, online.

#AmReading #Bookstodon #RadicalBooks #PowerStructures

Notable Places of Interest for Social Roles

https://novatopflex.wordpress.com/2025/11/03/notable-places-of-interest-for-social-roles/

#BooksAgainstNormativity

Hey,
I'd like to start a collection of books, that are great eye-openers against normative concepts.

I have read 2 books so far, that I think fit:

#Ace by #AngelaChen: Maybe the standard work on asexuality and a great book to understand and question allo-normativity (allo(sexual) being the opposite of ace/asexual)

#Platonic by #MarisaGFranco: An homage to platonic partnerships and against romantic normativity or also allo normativity (allo(romantic) being the opposite of aromantic here)

I'm next looking for a book on #RelationshipAnarchy to add to the list. Is there like a go-to book or must read? Please let me know.

Also do you know of any other books, that fit into the collection? It can be about/against any kind of normativity, not just related to gender, relationships and identity.

#BooksTodon #BookRecommendation #normativity #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #RelationshipAnarchism #QueerFeminism #HeteroNormativity #AlloNormativity #polyamory #monogamy #patriarchy

Every time I meet someone who's "unsuccessfully" #poly (can't find anyone to #date, can't find anyone interested in more than hookups and one-night-stands, #relationships always fizzle as soon as the #NRE dies, or only ever winds up in bad/abusive relationships that end messily), it's the same few basic problems.

Toxic #mononormativity.

Toxic #masculinity.

Toxic #heteronormativity.

#Sexism.

People who find #polyamory "easy" are the ones who have already faced these problems and named them. They might not have properly *solved* all those issues yet (goodness knows even I sometimes hide for safety behind some #passing-privilege and let people make #heteromononormative #assumptions about me, and I've been out-and-proud #non-monogamous for decades). But if you're finding #EthicalNonMonogamy difficult, it's probably one (or a combination) of those issues. And if more seasoned poly-folk roll their eyes at you and don't take the time to explain it, it's because we've heard it literally hundreds of times before.

Which doesn't make you bad, or stupid, or even unsuited to being non-monogamous. It just means you're still early in the journey, and can't progress until you do some work.