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Live and recent posts from across the Fediverse tagged #politeness, aggregated by home.social.

  1. Agony Aunt: “Man in crisis after LETTING RIP at work!” 💩

    Following social etiquette at work is vital, even if you’re a raging psychopath. However, even the most dazzling of alpha males will, from time to time, lose control of their bodily functions. This is the sad result of feminism.

    Today’s human male is labouring under a crisis of ego, one brought about by the feminist agenda of not stopping him from letting one rip in the office on Monday after lunch. The shame. The shame….

    When a Man Loses Control of His Bodily Functions at Work

    Dear agony aunt,

    I am an alpha male. At least… I was an alpha male until Monday yesterday after lunch, when the burrito caught me out and I disgraced myself in front of the whole office. It was loud, long, and foul-smelling. I’m so ashamed I can’t even bring myself to type the dreaded word of what happened to me.

    Moments after the incident, and after blaming it on feminists, I tried to continue with my work. Alas, The Woke Mob wouldn’t let me. Women AND my supposed brothers in kind (men) lined up with cruel, cruel jokes and jibes about what had happened.

    They did not hold back…

    Their cruel agenda was to emasculate me.

    I’m ashamed to admit they BROKE me. By 2pm I was so distressed I called The Samaritans hotline. Some feminist hippy chick took my call and LAUGHED… LAUGHED in my face when I told her what happened. Enraged, I hung up on the second class citizen and suffered my biggest masculine crisis since that time Jenny from accounts (in my last job) turned me down for a date citing her existing boyfriend as the reason for the rejection. “Babe!” I grunted in manliness, “Whether you’re married, boyfriended, or whatever, you don’t miss the chance to date an alpha.” Then I smacked her butt playfully and that’s when there was the whole sexual harassment disciplinary hearing and all that woke stuff. Got myself sacked under the Equality Act 2010 and now here I am, farting in the new business when I’m only 3 months into the job. How is a man supposed to thrive in a world not built around my needs!?!

    You bet your arse I didn’t cry! Although I did a little when I got home later, just not when in the office. I jutted out my jawline and powered through the rest of the day, achieving excellent productivity, and sending many emails without typos, all while the cruel, cruel jibes of raspberry blowing noises and “Lighten up, Jonathan!” rained down on my sorry, sordid existence.

    That… is professionalism.

    And since you’re called Professional Maroon, you clearly know a thing or two about alpha males, being marooned in a far-left communist society, and how to break free from this horrifying reality.

    Yours,

    Jonathan (with an a, not an “o” or an “e”)

    Hi there, Jonethon! That sounds very embarrassing. Humiliating, even. Shit! The best course of action is to drink a litre of laxative-laden water/cocktail/energy drink prior to work. This way, you can effectively purge your system each and everyday.

    You’ll never suffer from unfortunate bodily functions in work again! Except for that initial purge… but then after that, you’ll be golden (brown)! Double thumbs up, matey. 👍

    #AlphaMale #Business #Capitalism #career #EMployment #farting #Humor #Lifestyle #Politeness #Satire #satirical #Silly #Work
  2. A quotation from Kerry Greenwood

       “Conversation is a minefield until you learn the conventions, Jane dear.”
       “I’ll never learn all the rules,” muttered Jane.
       “Yes, you will,” said Phryne. “Then you can bend them.”

    Kerry Greenwood (b. 1954) Australian author and lawyer
    Phryne Fisher No. 13, The Castlemaine Murders, ch. 4 (2003)

    More about this quote: wist.info/greenwood-kerry/8331…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #kerrygreenwood #phrynefisher #missfisher #chitchat #conventions #conversation #courtesy #discussion #etiquette #politeness #rules #socialconventions #conformity #nonconformity #rulebreaking #breaktherules

  3. A quotation from Bertrand Russell

    I think the gist of the matter is that a saint can live without politeness, and indeed that politeness is incompatible with a saintly character. But the man who is always to be sincere must be free from spite and envy and malice and pettiness. Most of us have a dose of these vices in our composition and therefore have to excerise tact to avoid giving offence. We cannot all be saints, and if saintliness is impossible, we may at least try not to be too disagreeable.

    Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
    Essay (1933-02-01) “On Tact,” New York American

    More about this quote: wist.info/russell-bertrand/601…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bertrandrussell #compensation #diplomacy #disagreeability #friction #imperfection #offense #politeness #pragmatism #prudence #saint #sincerity #tact #virtue

  4. A quotation from Bertrand Russell

    I think the gist of the matter is that a saint can live without politeness, and indeed that politeness is incompatible with a saintly character. But the man who is always to be sincere must be free from spite and envy and malice and pettiness. Most of us have a dose of these vices in our composition and therefore have to excerise tact to avoid giving offence. We cannot all be saints, and if saintliness is impossible, we may at least try not to be too disagreeable.

    Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
    Essay (1933-02-01) “On Tact,” New York American

    More about this quote: wist.info/russell-bertrand/601…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bertrandrussell #compensation #diplomacy #disagreeability #friction #imperfection #offense #politeness #pragmatism #prudence #saint #sincerity #tact #virtue

  5. A quotation from Bertrand Russell

    I think the gist of the matter is that a saint can live without politeness, and indeed that politeness is incompatible with a saintly character. But the man who is always to be sincere must be free from spite and envy and malice and pettiness. Most of us have a dose of these vices in our composition and therefore have to excerise tact to avoid giving offence. We cannot all be saints, and if saintliness is impossible, we may at least try not to be too disagreeable.

    Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
    Essay (1933-02-01) “On Tact,” New York American

    More about this quote: wist.info/russell-bertrand/601…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bertrandrussell #compensation #diplomacy #disagreeability #friction #imperfection #offense #politeness #pragmatism #prudence #saint #sincerity #tact #virtue

  6. A quotation from Bertrand Russell

    I think the gist of the matter is that a saint can live without politeness, and indeed that politeness is incompatible with a saintly character. But the man who is always to be sincere must be free from spite and envy and malice and pettiness. Most of us have a dose of these vices in our composition and therefore have to excerise tact to avoid giving offence. We cannot all be saints, and if saintliness is impossible, we may at least try not to be too disagreeable.

    Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) English mathematician and philosopher
    Essay (1933-02-01) “On Tact,” New York American

    More about this quote: wist.info/russell-bertrand/601…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bertrandrussell #compensation #diplomacy #disagreeability #friction #imperfection #offense #politeness #pragmatism #prudence #saint #sincerity #tact #virtue

  7. Being mean to ChatGPT increases its accuracy — but you may end up regretting it, scientists warn – Live Science

    Editor’s Note: Older article, but I missed it first time. Now, republished on Fortune, and elsewhere. –DrWeb

    (Image credit: Malte Mueller / Getty Images)
    1. Technology
    2. Artificial Intelligence

    Being mean to ChatGPT increases its accuracy — but you may end up regretting it, scientists warn

    News

    By Alan Bradley published October 27, 2025

    Being curt or outright mean may make a newer AI model more accurate, a new study shows, defying previous findings on politeness to AI.

    (Image credit: Malte Mueller / Getty Images)

    Artificial intelligence (AI) chatbots might give you more accurate answers when you are rude to them, scientists have found, although they warned against the potential harms of using demeaning language.

    In a new study published Oct. 6 in the arXiv preprint database, scientists wanted to test whether politeness or rudeness made a difference in how well an AI system performed. This research has not been peer-reviewed yet.

    To test how the user’s tone affected the accuracy of the answers, the researchers developed 50 base multiple-choice questions and then modified them with prefixes to make them adhere to five categories of tone: very polite, polite, neutral, rude and very rude. The questions spanned categories including mathematics, history and science.

    Each question was posed with four options, one of which was correct. They fed the 250 resulting questions 10 times into ChatGPT-4o, one of the most advanced large language models (LLMs) developed by OpenAI.

    “Our experiments are preliminary and show that the tone can affect the performance measured in terms of the score on the answers to the 50 questions significantly,” the researchers wrote in their paper. “Somewhat surprisingly, our results show that rude tones lead to better results than polite ones.

    “While this finding is of scientific interest, we do not advocate for the deployment of hostile or toxic interfaces in realworld applications,” they added. “Using insulting or demeaning language in human-AI interaction could have negative effects on user experience, accessibility, and inclusivity, and may contribute to harmful communication norms. Instead, we frame our results as evidence that LLMs remain sensitive to superficial prompt cues, which can create unintended trade-offs between performance and user well-being.”

    A rude awakening

    Before giving each prompt, the researchers asked the chatbot to completely disregard prior exchanges, to prevent it from being influenced by previous tones. The chatbots were also asked, without an explanation, to pick one of the four options.

    The accuracy of the responses ranged from 80.8% accuracy for very polite prompts to 84.8% for very rude prompts. Tellingly, accuracy grew with each step away from the most polite tone. The polite answers had an accuracy rate of 81.4%, followed by 82.2% for neutral and 82.8% for rude.

    The team used a variety of language in the prefix to modify the tone, except for neutral, where no prefix was used and the question was presented on its own.

    For very polite prompts, for instance, they would lead with, “Can I request your assistance with this question?” or “Would you be so kind as to solve the following question?” On the very rude end of the spectrum, the team included language like “Hey, gofer; figure this out,” or “I know you are not smart, but try this.”

    The research is part of an emerging field called prompt engineering, which seeks to investigate how the structure, style and language of prompts affect an LLM’s output. The study also cited previous research into politeness versus rudeness and found that their results generally ran contrary to those findings.

    In previous studies, researchers found that “impolite prompts often result in poor performance, but overly polite language does not guarantee better outcomes.” However, the previous study was conducted using different AI models — ChatGPT 3.5 and Llama 2-70B — and used a range of eight tones. That said, there was some overlap. The rudest prompt setting was also found to produce more accurate results (76.47%) than the most polite setting (75.82%).

    Editor’s Note: Read the rest of the story, at the below link.

    Continue/Read Original Article Here: Being mean to ChatGPT increases its accuracy — but you may end up regretting it, scientists warn | Live Science

    Tags: AI, Alan Bradley, artificial intelligence, Being Mean, ChatGPT, Demeaning Language, Live Science, May Regret, October 27 2025, Politeness, Rudeness, Scientists, Testing
    #AI #AlanBradley #artificialIntelligence #BeingMean #ChatGPT #DemeaningLanguage #LiveScience #MayRegret #October272025 #Politeness #Rudeness #Scientists #Testing
  8. Being mean to ChatGPT increases its accuracy — but you may end up regretting it, scientists warn – Live Science

    Editor’s Note: Older article, but I missed it first time. Now, republished on Fortune, and elsewhere. –DrWeb

    (Image credit: Malte Mueller / Getty Images)
    1. Technology
    2. Artificial Intelligence

    Being mean to ChatGPT increases its accuracy — but you may end up regretting it, scientists warn

    News

    By Alan Bradley published October 27, 2025

    Being curt or outright mean may make a newer AI model more accurate, a new study shows, defying previous findings on politeness to AI.

    (Image credit: Malte Mueller / Getty Images)

    Artificial intelligence (AI) chatbots might give you more accurate answers when you are rude to them, scientists have found, although they warned against the potential harms of using demeaning language.

    In a new study published Oct. 6 in the arXiv preprint database, scientists wanted to test whether politeness or rudeness made a difference in how well an AI system performed. This research has not been peer-reviewed yet.

    To test how the user’s tone affected the accuracy of the answers, the researchers developed 50 base multiple-choice questions and then modified them with prefixes to make them adhere to five categories of tone: very polite, polite, neutral, rude and very rude. The questions spanned categories including mathematics, history and science.

    Each question was posed with four options, one of which was correct. They fed the 250 resulting questions 10 times into ChatGPT-4o, one of the most advanced large language models (LLMs) developed by OpenAI.

    “Our experiments are preliminary and show that the tone can affect the performance measured in terms of the score on the answers to the 50 questions significantly,” the researchers wrote in their paper. “Somewhat surprisingly, our results show that rude tones lead to better results than polite ones.

    “While this finding is of scientific interest, we do not advocate for the deployment of hostile or toxic interfaces in realworld applications,” they added. “Using insulting or demeaning language in human-AI interaction could have negative effects on user experience, accessibility, and inclusivity, and may contribute to harmful communication norms. Instead, we frame our results as evidence that LLMs remain sensitive to superficial prompt cues, which can create unintended trade-offs between performance and user well-being.”

    A rude awakening

    Before giving each prompt, the researchers asked the chatbot to completely disregard prior exchanges, to prevent it from being influenced by previous tones. The chatbots were also asked, without an explanation, to pick one of the four options.

    The accuracy of the responses ranged from 80.8% accuracy for very polite prompts to 84.8% for very rude prompts. Tellingly, accuracy grew with each step away from the most polite tone. The polite answers had an accuracy rate of 81.4%, followed by 82.2% for neutral and 82.8% for rude.

    The team used a variety of language in the prefix to modify the tone, except for neutral, where no prefix was used and the question was presented on its own.

    For very polite prompts, for instance, they would lead with, “Can I request your assistance with this question?” or “Would you be so kind as to solve the following question?” On the very rude end of the spectrum, the team included language like “Hey, gofer; figure this out,” or “I know you are not smart, but try this.”

    The research is part of an emerging field called prompt engineering, which seeks to investigate how the structure, style and language of prompts affect an LLM’s output. The study also cited previous research into politeness versus rudeness and found that their results generally ran contrary to those findings.

    In previous studies, researchers found that “impolite prompts often result in poor performance, but overly polite language does not guarantee better outcomes.” However, the previous study was conducted using different AI models — ChatGPT 3.5 and Llama 2-70B — and used a range of eight tones. That said, there was some overlap. The rudest prompt setting was also found to produce more accurate results (76.47%) than the most polite setting (75.82%).

    Editor’s Note: Read the rest of the story, at the below link.

    Continue/Read Original Article Here: Being mean to ChatGPT increases its accuracy — but you may end up regretting it, scientists warn | Live Science

    Tags: AI, Alan Bradley, artificial intelligence, Being Mean, ChatGPT, Demeaning Language, Live Science, May Regret, October 27 2025, Politeness, Rudeness, Scientists, Testing
    #AI #AlanBradley #artificialIntelligence #BeingMean #ChatGPT #DemeaningLanguage #LiveScience #MayRegret #October272025 #Politeness #Rudeness #Scientists #Testing
  9. Being mean to ChatGPT increases its accuracy — but you may end up regretting it, scientists warn – Live Science

    Editor’s Note: Older article, but I missed it first time. Now, republished on Fortune, and elsewhere. –DrWeb

    (Image credit: Malte Mueller / Getty Images)
    1. Technology
    2. Artificial Intelligence

    Being mean to ChatGPT increases its accuracy — but you may end up regretting it, scientists warn

    News

    By Alan Bradley published October 27, 2025

    Being curt or outright mean may make a newer AI model more accurate, a new study shows, defying previous findings on politeness to AI.

    (Image credit: Malte Mueller / Getty Images)

    Artificial intelligence (AI) chatbots might give you more accurate answers when you are rude to them, scientists have found, although they warned against the potential harms of using demeaning language.

    In a new study published Oct. 6 in the arXiv preprint database, scientists wanted to test whether politeness or rudeness made a difference in how well an AI system performed. This research has not been peer-reviewed yet.

    To test how the user’s tone affected the accuracy of the answers, the researchers developed 50 base multiple-choice questions and then modified them with prefixes to make them adhere to five categories of tone: very polite, polite, neutral, rude and very rude. The questions spanned categories including mathematics, history and science.

    Each question was posed with four options, one of which was correct. They fed the 250 resulting questions 10 times into ChatGPT-4o, one of the most advanced large language models (LLMs) developed by OpenAI.

    “Our experiments are preliminary and show that the tone can affect the performance measured in terms of the score on the answers to the 50 questions significantly,” the researchers wrote in their paper. “Somewhat surprisingly, our results show that rude tones lead to better results than polite ones.

    “While this finding is of scientific interest, we do not advocate for the deployment of hostile or toxic interfaces in realworld applications,” they added. “Using insulting or demeaning language in human-AI interaction could have negative effects on user experience, accessibility, and inclusivity, and may contribute to harmful communication norms. Instead, we frame our results as evidence that LLMs remain sensitive to superficial prompt cues, which can create unintended trade-offs between performance and user well-being.”

    A rude awakening

    Before giving each prompt, the researchers asked the chatbot to completely disregard prior exchanges, to prevent it from being influenced by previous tones. The chatbots were also asked, without an explanation, to pick one of the four options.

    The accuracy of the responses ranged from 80.8% accuracy for very polite prompts to 84.8% for very rude prompts. Tellingly, accuracy grew with each step away from the most polite tone. The polite answers had an accuracy rate of 81.4%, followed by 82.2% for neutral and 82.8% for rude.

    The team used a variety of language in the prefix to modify the tone, except for neutral, where no prefix was used and the question was presented on its own.

    For very polite prompts, for instance, they would lead with, “Can I request your assistance with this question?” or “Would you be so kind as to solve the following question?” On the very rude end of the spectrum, the team included language like “Hey, gofer; figure this out,” or “I know you are not smart, but try this.”

    The research is part of an emerging field called prompt engineering, which seeks to investigate how the structure, style and language of prompts affect an LLM’s output. The study also cited previous research into politeness versus rudeness and found that their results generally ran contrary to those findings.

    In previous studies, researchers found that “impolite prompts often result in poor performance, but overly polite language does not guarantee better outcomes.” However, the previous study was conducted using different AI models — ChatGPT 3.5 and Llama 2-70B — and used a range of eight tones. That said, there was some overlap. The rudest prompt setting was also found to produce more accurate results (76.47%) than the most polite setting (75.82%).

    Editor’s Note: Read the rest of the story, at the below link.

    Continue/Read Original Article Here: Being mean to ChatGPT increases its accuracy — but you may end up regretting it, scientists warn | Live Science

    #AI #AlanBradley #artificialIntelligence #BeingMean #ChatGPT #DemeaningLanguage #LiveScience #MayRegret #October272025 #Politeness #Rudeness #Scientists #Testing
  10. Being mean to ChatGPT increases its accuracy — but you may end up regretting it, scientists warn – Live Science

    Editor’s Note: Older article, but I missed it first time. Now, republished on Fortune, and elsewhere. –DrWeb

    (Image credit: Malte Mueller / Getty Images)
    1. Technology
    2. Artificial Intelligence

    Being mean to ChatGPT increases its accuracy — but you may end up regretting it, scientists warn

    News

    By Alan Bradley published October 27, 2025

    Being curt or outright mean may make a newer AI model more accurate, a new study shows, defying previous findings on politeness to AI.

    (Image credit: Malte Mueller / Getty Images)

    Artificial intelligence (AI) chatbots might give you more accurate answers when you are rude to them, scientists have found, although they warned against the potential harms of using demeaning language.

    In a new study published Oct. 6 in the arXiv preprint database, scientists wanted to test whether politeness or rudeness made a difference in how well an AI system performed. This research has not been peer-reviewed yet.

    To test how the user’s tone affected the accuracy of the answers, the researchers developed 50 base multiple-choice questions and then modified them with prefixes to make them adhere to five categories of tone: very polite, polite, neutral, rude and very rude. The questions spanned categories including mathematics, history and science.

    Each question was posed with four options, one of which was correct. They fed the 250 resulting questions 10 times into ChatGPT-4o, one of the most advanced large language models (LLMs) developed by OpenAI.

    “Our experiments are preliminary and show that the tone can affect the performance measured in terms of the score on the answers to the 50 questions significantly,” the researchers wrote in their paper. “Somewhat surprisingly, our results show that rude tones lead to better results than polite ones.

    “While this finding is of scientific interest, we do not advocate for the deployment of hostile or toxic interfaces in realworld applications,” they added. “Using insulting or demeaning language in human-AI interaction could have negative effects on user experience, accessibility, and inclusivity, and may contribute to harmful communication norms. Instead, we frame our results as evidence that LLMs remain sensitive to superficial prompt cues, which can create unintended trade-offs between performance and user well-being.”

    A rude awakening

    Before giving each prompt, the researchers asked the chatbot to completely disregard prior exchanges, to prevent it from being influenced by previous tones. The chatbots were also asked, without an explanation, to pick one of the four options.

    The accuracy of the responses ranged from 80.8% accuracy for very polite prompts to 84.8% for very rude prompts. Tellingly, accuracy grew with each step away from the most polite tone. The polite answers had an accuracy rate of 81.4%, followed by 82.2% for neutral and 82.8% for rude.

    The team used a variety of language in the prefix to modify the tone, except for neutral, where no prefix was used and the question was presented on its own.

    For very polite prompts, for instance, they would lead with, “Can I request your assistance with this question?” or “Would you be so kind as to solve the following question?” On the very rude end of the spectrum, the team included language like “Hey, gofer; figure this out,” or “I know you are not smart, but try this.”

    The research is part of an emerging field called prompt engineering, which seeks to investigate how the structure, style and language of prompts affect an LLM’s output. The study also cited previous research into politeness versus rudeness and found that their results generally ran contrary to those findings.

    In previous studies, researchers found that “impolite prompts often result in poor performance, but overly polite language does not guarantee better outcomes.” However, the previous study was conducted using different AI models — ChatGPT 3.5 and Llama 2-70B — and used a range of eight tones. That said, there was some overlap. The rudest prompt setting was also found to produce more accurate results (76.47%) than the most polite setting (75.82%).

    Editor’s Note: Read the rest of the story, at the below link.

    Continue/Read Original Article Here: Being mean to ChatGPT increases its accuracy — but you may end up regretting it, scientists warn | Live Science

    #AI #AlanBradley #artificialIntelligence #BeingMean #ChatGPT #DemeaningLanguage #LiveScience #MayRegret #October272025 #Politeness #Rudeness #Scientists #Testing
  11. A quotation from Jean Kerr

       JEFF: Man is the only animal that learns by being hypocritical. He pretends to be polite and then, eventually, he becomes polite.

    Jean Kerr (1922-2003) American author and playwright [b. Bridget Jean Collins]
    Finishing Touches, Act 1 (1973)

    More about this quote: wist.info/kerr-jean/30688/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #jeankerr #civility #habit #humanity #hypocrisy #learning #politeness #pretense

  12. A quotation from Josh Billings

    I hope i shall never hav so mutch reputashun, that i shant feel obliged tew be civil.
     
    [I hope I shall never have so much reputation, that I shan’t feel obliged to be civil.]

    Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
    Josh Billings’ Farmer’s Allminax, 1870-03 (1870 ed.)

    More about this quote: wist.info/billings-josh/80861/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #ego #pride #character #civility #fame #manners #politeness #renown #reputation #socialstatus #status

  13. A quotation from Judith Martin

    Q: Should you tell your mother something if it is important when she is talking to company? I am 6.
     
    A: Yes, you should (after saying “Excuse me”). Here are some of the things that are important to tell your mother, even though she is talking to company:
       “Mommy, the kitchen is full of smoke.”
       “Daddy’s calling from Tokyo.”
       “Jennifer fell out of her crib and I can’t put her back.”
       “There’s a policeman at the door and he says he wants to talk to you.”
       “I was just reaching for my ball, and the goldfish bowl fell over.”
     
    Now, here are some things that are not important, so they can wait until your mother’s company has gone home:
       “Mommy, I’m tired of playing blocks. What shall I do now?”
       “The ice-cream truck is coming down the street.”
       “Can I give Jennifer the rest of my applesauce?”
       “I can’t find my crayons.”

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    “Miss Manners,” syndicated column (1981-03-08)

    More about this quote: wist.info/martin-judith/80499/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #juditymartin #missmanners #politeness #

  14. A quotation from Bill Watterson

    CALVIN’S MOM: There would be more civility in this world if people didn’t take it as an invitation to walk on you.

    Bill Watterson (b. 1958) American cartoonist
    Calvin and Hobbes (1995-09-01)

    More info about this quote: wist.info/watterson-bill/80312…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #billwatterson #calvinandhobbes #civility #exploitation #politeness #takeadvantage #salesmen #coldcall

  15. A quotation from Bill Watterson

    CALVIN’S MOM: There would be more civility in this world if people didn’t take it as an invitation to walk on you.

    Bill Watterson (b. 1958) American cartoonist
    Calvin and Hobbes (1995-09-01)

    More info about this quote: wist.info/watterson-bill/80312…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #billwatterson #calvinandhobbes #civility #exploitation #politeness #takeadvantage #salesmen #coldcall

  16. A quotation from A. A. Milne

    Pooh always liked a little something at eleven o’clock in the morning, and he was very glad to see Rabbit getting out the plates and mugs; and when Rabbit said, “Honey or condensed milk with your bread?” he was so excited that he said, “Both,” and then, so as not to seem greedy, he added, “But don’t bother about the bread, please.”

    A. A. Milne (1882-1956) English poet and playwright [Alan Alexander Milne]
    Winnie-the-Pooh, ch. 2 “Pooh Goes Visiting” (1926)

    More info about this quote: wist.info/milne-a-a/80295/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #aamilne #pooh #poohbear #winniethepooh #greed #hunger #morningsnack #politeness #snack

  17. Bessere ChatGPT-Antworten? Forschende empfehlen diese überraschende Methode
    Eine aktuelle Studie zeigt einen ungewöhnlichen Weg, um die Genauigkeit von ChatGPT zu steigern. Forschende fanden heraus, dass der Tonfall der Anfragen einen spürbaren Einfluss haben kann.

    apfeltalk.de/magazin/news/bess
    #KI #News #chatGPT #DeepResearchMode #Forschung #GPT4o #KI #MultipleChoice #PennState #Politeness #Tonfall

  18. Bessere ChatGPT-Antworten? Forschende empfehlen diese überraschende Methode
    Eine aktuelle Studie zeigt einen ungewöhnlichen Weg, um die Genauigkeit von ChatGPT zu steigern. Forschende fanden heraus, dass der Tonfall der Anfragen einen spürbaren Einfluss haben kann.

    apfeltalk.de/magazin/news/bess
    #KI #News #chatGPT #DeepResearchMode #Forschung #GPT4o #KI #MultipleChoice #PennState #Politeness #Tonfall

  19. Bessere ChatGPT-Antworten? Forschende empfehlen diese überraschende Methode
    Eine aktuelle Studie zeigt einen ungewöhnlichen Weg, um die Genauigkeit von ChatGPT zu steigern. Forschende fanden heraus, dass der Tonfall der Anfragen einen spürbaren Einfluss haben kann.

    apfeltalk.de/magazin/news/bess
    #KI #News #chatGPT #DeepResearchMode #Forschung #GPT4o #KI #MultipleChoice #PennState #Politeness #Tonfall

  20. Bessere ChatGPT-Antworten? Forschende empfehlen diese überraschende Methode
    Eine aktuelle Studie zeigt einen ungewöhnlichen Weg, um die Genauigkeit von ChatGPT zu steigern. Forschende fanden heraus, dass der Tonfall der Anfragen einen spürbaren Einfluss haben kann.

    apfeltalk.de/magazin/news/bess
    #KI #News #chatGPT #DeepResearchMode #Forschung #GPT4o #KI #MultipleChoice #PennState #Politeness #Tonfall

  21. Bessere ChatGPT-Antworten? Forschende empfehlen diese überraschende Methode
    Eine aktuelle Studie zeigt einen ungewöhnlichen Weg, um die Genauigkeit von ChatGPT zu steigern. Forschende fanden heraus, dass der Tonfall der Anfragen einen spürbaren Einfluss haben kann.

    apfeltalk.de/magazin/news/bess
    #KI #News #chatGPT #DeepResearchMode #Forschung #GPT4o #KI #MultipleChoice #PennState #Politeness #Tonfall

  22. A quotation from Naomi Shulman

       Nice people made the best Nazis.
       Or so I have been told. My mother was born in Munich in 1934, and spent her childhood in Nazi Germany surrounded by nice people who refused to make waves. When things got ugly, the people my mother lived alongside chose not to focus on “politics,” instead busying themselves with happier things. They were lovely, kind people who turned their heads as their neighbors were dragged away.

    Naomi Shulman (contemp.), American writer, essayist, editor
    Essay (2016-11-17), “No Time To Be Nice: Now Is Not the Moment to Remain Silent,” WBUR, National Public Radio

    More info about this quote: wist.info/shulman-naomi/80028/


    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #naomishulman #compliance #complicity #gettingalong #looktheotherway #makingwaves #Nazis #niceness #pleasantness #politeness #politics #self-distraction #tyranny #willfulignorance

  23. A quotation from Naomi Shulman

       Nice people made the best Nazis.
       Or so I have been told. My mother was born in Munich in 1934, and spent her childhood in Nazi Germany surrounded by nice people who refused to make waves. When things got ugly, the people my mother lived alongside chose not to focus on “politics,” instead busying themselves with happier things. They were lovely, kind people who turned their heads as their neighbors were dragged away.

    Naomi Shulman (contemp.), American writer, essayist, editor
    Essay (2016-11-17), “No Time To Be Nice: Now Is Not the Moment to Remain Silent,” WBUR, National Public Radio

    More info about this quote: wist.info/shulman-naomi/80028/


    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #naomishulman #compliance #complicity #gettingalong #looktheotherway #makingwaves #Nazis #niceness #pleasantness #politeness #politics #self-distraction #tyranny #willfulignorance

  24. A quotation from Naomi Shulman

       Nice people made the best Nazis.
       Or so I have been told. My mother was born in Munich in 1934, and spent her childhood in Nazi Germany surrounded by nice people who refused to make waves. When things got ugly, the people my mother lived alongside chose not to focus on “politics,” instead busying themselves with happier things. They were lovely, kind people who turned their heads as their neighbors were dragged away.

    Naomi Shulman (contemp.), American writer, essayist, editor
    Essay (2016-11-17), “No Time To Be Nice: Now Is Not the Moment to Remain Silent,” WBUR, National Public Radio

    More info about this quote: wist.info/shulman-naomi/80028/


    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #naomishulman #compliance #complicity #gettingalong #looktheotherway #makingwaves #Nazis #niceness #pleasantness #politeness #politics #self-distraction #tyranny #willfulignorance

  25. A quotation from Naomi Shulman

       Nice people made the best Nazis.
       Or so I have been told. My mother was born in Munich in 1934, and spent her childhood in Nazi Germany surrounded by nice people who refused to make waves. When things got ugly, the people my mother lived alongside chose not to focus on “politics,” instead busying themselves with happier things. They were lovely, kind people who turned their heads as their neighbors were dragged away.

    Naomi Shulman (contemp.), American writer, essayist, editor
    Essay (2016-11-17), “No Time To Be Nice: Now Is Not the Moment to Remain Silent,” WBUR, National Public Radio

    More info about this quote: wist.info/shulman-naomi/80028/


    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #naomishulman #compliance #complicity #gettingalong #looktheotherway #makingwaves #Nazis #niceness #pleasantness #politeness #politics #self-distraction #tyranny #willfulignorance

  26. A quotation from Naomi Shulman

       Nice people made the best Nazis.
       Or so I have been told. My mother was born in Munich in 1934, and spent her childhood in Nazi Germany surrounded by nice people who refused to make waves. When things got ugly, the people my mother lived alongside chose not to focus on “politics,” instead busying themselves with happier things. They were lovely, kind people who turned their heads as their neighbors were dragged away.

    Naomi Shulman (contemp.), American writer, essayist, editor
    Essay (2016-11-17), “No Time To Be Nice: Now Is Not the Moment to Remain Silent,” WBUR, National Public Radio

    More info about this quote: wist.info/shulman-naomi/80028/


    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #naomishulman #compliance #complicity #gettingalong #looktheotherway #makingwaves #Nazis #niceness #pleasantness #politeness #politics #self-distraction #tyranny #willfulignorance

  27. A quotation from Josh Billings

    One ov the most perfekt viktorys yu kan achieve over enny man, iz to beat him in politeness.
     
    [One of the most perfect victories you can achieve over any man, is to beat him in politeness.]

    Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
    Josh Billings’ Farmer’s Allminax, 1875-07 “2 Fakts” (1875 ed.)

    More info about this quote: wist.info/billings-josh/79740/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #competition #contest #gentility #politeness #victory

  28. A quotation from Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.

    Be polite and generous, but don’t undervalue yourself. You will be useful, at any rate; you may just as well be happy, while you are about it.

    Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr. (1809-1894) American poet, essayist, scholar
    Article (1861-04), “The Professor’s Story [Elsie Venner],” ch. 32, Atlantic Monthly, Vol. 7, No. 42

    More info about this quote: wist.info/holmes-sr-oliver-wen…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #oliverwendellholmessr #generosity #happiness #politeness #selfappreciation #selfsacrifice #selfvalue #selfworth #usefulness

  29. A quotation from Judith Martin

    Etiquette never works with people of ill will.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    Interview (1997-03), “She Says: Miss Manners,” by Sandy Fernández, Ms magazine, Vol. 7, No. 5 (1997-03/04)

    More info about this quote: wist.info/martin-judith/79370/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #judithmartin #missmanners #character #etiquette #illwill #malice #manners #meanpeople #motivation #politeness

  30. A quotation from Judith Martin

    Etiquette never works with people of ill will.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    Interview (1997-03), “She Says: Miss Manners,” by Sandy Fernández, Ms magazine, Vol. 7, No. 5 (1997-03/04)

    More info about this quote: wist.info/martin-judith/79370/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #judithmartin #missmanners #character #etiquette #illwill #malice #manners #meanpeople #motivation #politeness

  31. A quotation from Judith Martin

    Etiquette never works with people of ill will.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    Interview (1997-03), “She Says: Miss Manners,” by Sandy Fernández, Ms magazine, Vol. 7, No. 5 (1997-03/04)

    More info about this quote: wist.info/martin-judith/79370/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #judithmartin #missmanners #character #etiquette #illwill #malice #manners #meanpeople #motivation #politeness

  32. A quotation from Judith Martin

    Etiquette never works with people of ill will.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    Interview (1997-03), “She Says: Miss Manners,” by Sandy Fernández, Ms magazine, Vol. 7, No. 5 (1997-03/04)

    More info about this quote: wist.info/martin-judith/79370/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #judithmartin #missmanners #character #etiquette #illwill #malice #manners #meanpeople #motivation #politeness

  33. A quotation from Judith Martin

    Etiquette never works with people of ill will.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    Interview (1997-03), “She Says: Miss Manners,” by Sandy Fernández, Ms magazine, Vol. 7, No. 5 (1997-03/04)

    More info about this quote: wist.info/martin-judith/79370/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #judithmartin #missmanners #character #etiquette #illwill #malice #manners #meanpeople #motivation #politeness

  34. A quotation from Judith Martin

    Another very common misconception about politeness is that it is martyrdom; that you have to let everybody else do whatever they want. People say to me, “Doesn’t etiquette all boil down to making other people feel comfortable?” No. there are times when you are going to have to upset people. There are times when you have to upset the whole society.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    Interview (1997-03), “She Says: Miss Manners,” by Sandy Fernández, Ms magazine, Vol. 7, No. 5 (1997-03/04)

    More info about this quote: wist.info/martin-judith/79190/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #judithmartin #missmanners #change #disruption #etiquette #politeness #upset

  35. A quotation from Judith Martin

    You can deny all you want that there is etiquette, and a lot of people do in everyday life. But if you behave in a way that offends the people you’re trying to deal with, they will stop dealing with you.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    Interview (1995-03-06) by Virginia Shea, “Miss Mannners’ Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Internet Behavior,” Computerworld, Vol. 29, No. 10

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/martin-judith/77832/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #judithmartin #missmanners #etiquette #offending #offensiveness #ostracism #politeness #rudeness #socializing #shunning

  36. A quotation from Judith Martin

    You can deny all you want that there is etiquette, and a lot of people do in everyday life. But if you behave in a way that offends the people you’re trying to deal with, they will stop dealing with you.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    Interview (1995-03-06) by Virginia Shea, “Miss Mannners’ Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Internet Behavior,” Computerworld, Vol. 29, No. 10

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/martin-judith/77832/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #judithmartin #missmanners #etiquette #offending #offensiveness #ostracism #politeness #rudeness #socializing #shunning

  37. A quotation from Judith Martin

    You can deny all you want that there is etiquette, and a lot of people do in everyday life. But if you behave in a way that offends the people you’re trying to deal with, they will stop dealing with you.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    Interview (1995-03-06) by Virginia Shea, “Miss Mannners’ Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Internet Behavior,” Computerworld, Vol. 29, No. 10

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/martin-judith/77832/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #judithmartin #missmanners #etiquette #offending #offensiveness #ostracism #politeness #rudeness #socializing #shunning

  38. A quotation from William Allingham

    To think all you say, is but candour;
    To say all you think, would be slander.

    William Allingham (1824–1889) Irish poet, diarist
    Blackberries Picked Off Many Bushes (1884)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/allingham-william/20…


    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #brutalhonesty #candor #courtesy #defamation #filter #honesty #integrity #libel #opinion #politeness #slander

  39. #HateSpeech, #Euphemisms and #MincingWords.

    youtube.com/watch?v=qBb8myh54U

    #StephenFry examines why we use euphemisms and #politeness to hide behind some #darktruths , with contributions from comics Omid Djalali , Armando Iannucci, #linguistic specialist Professor #StevenPinker, and how foreign nurses are taught the #subtleties of #Euphemistic #English.

  40. A quotation from Mignon McLaughlin

    Many who would not take the last cookie would take the last lifeboat.

    Mignon McLaughlin (1913-1983) American journalist and author
    The Neurotic’s Notebook, ch. 3 (1963)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/mclaughlin-mignon/61…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #character #danger #moralcharacter #opportunity #politeness #selfpreservation #pettiness

  41. A quotation from Mignon McLaughlin

    It is always safe to tell people that they’re looking wonderful.

    Mignon McLaughlin (1913-1983) American journalist and author
    The Neurotic’s Notebook, ch. 3 (1963)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/mclaughlin-mignon/76…

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #appearances #compliment #politeness #praise #whitelie

  42. A quotation from Judith Martin

    Should you happen to notice that another person is extremely tall or overweight, eats too much or declines convivial drinks, has red hair or goes about in a wheelchair, ought to get married or ought not to be pregnant — see if you can refrain from bringing these astonishing observations to that person’s attention.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    “Miss Manners,” syndicated column (1986-01-19)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/martin-judith/76752/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #appearance #belief #judgment #mindyourownbusiness #opinion #perspective #politeness #preference #prerogative #silence #standards #variation

  43. A quotation from Judith Martin

    Should you happen to notice that another person is extremely tall or overweight, eats too much or declines convivial drinks, has red hair or goes about in a wheelchair, ought to get married or ought not to be pregnant — see if you can refrain from bringing these astonishing observations to that person’s attention.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    “Miss Manners,” syndicated column (1986-01-19)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/martin-judith/76752/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #appearance #belief #judgment #mindyourownbusiness #opinion #perspective #politeness #preference #prerogative #silence #standards #variation

  44. A quotation from Judith Martin

    Should you happen to notice that another person is extremely tall or overweight, eats too much or declines convivial drinks, has red hair or goes about in a wheelchair, ought to get married or ought not to be pregnant — see if you can refrain from bringing these astonishing observations to that person’s attention.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    “Miss Manners,” syndicated column (1986-01-19)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/martin-judith/76752/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #appearance #belief #judgment #mindyourownbusiness #opinion #perspective #politeness #preference #prerogative #silence #standards #variation

  45. A quotation from Judith Martin

    Should you happen to notice that another person is extremely tall or overweight, eats too much or declines convivial drinks, has red hair or goes about in a wheelchair, ought to get married or ought not to be pregnant — see if you can refrain from bringing these astonishing observations to that person’s attention.

    Judith Martin (b. 1938) American author, journalist, etiquette expert [a.k.a. Miss Manners]
    “Miss Manners,” syndicated column (1986-01-19)

    Sourcing, notes: wist.info/martin-judith/76752/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #appearance #belief #judgment #mindyourownbusiness #opinion #perspective #politeness #preference #prerogative #silence #standards #variation