#onlineinteraction — Public Fediverse posts

[Psychology log] So, I've detected two narcissists on TikTok now. The other one refused to acknowledge that they dislike me; the other one engaged (liking and replying) to others' comments and praises but not from me. It's important to remember that, since the information I get is very limited, I can only assume: they are controlling me to stop engaging with them. Their content always appears on my FYP.

#narcissism #tiktok #socialmedia #onlinebehaviour #selectiveengagement #controltactics #psychology #mentalhealth #boundaries #digitalwellbeing #frustration #ignored #validation #humantech #socialdynamics #onlineinteraction #fyp #narcissist

[Micro-weblog] My latest weblog post continues the reflection on human interaction: The person consistently rejected my genuine compliments because they reject external judgments entirely, seeking a high degree of self-sufficiency. This rejection of validation is a psychological defense that, while admirable in its independence, definitely hurts the giver.

https://weblog.kalvin.my/2-the-pain-of-rejected-compliments-a-study-in-external-validation/

#psychology #externalvalidation #selfsufficiency #rejectedcompliments #onlineinteraction #mentalhealth #neurodiversity #introspection #growth #emotions #boundaries #humane #reflection #socialdynamics #personalgrowth #validation #autism #weblog #thoughts

[Micro-weblog] My latest weblog post continues the reflection on human interaction: The person consistently rejected my genuine compliments because they reject external judgments entirely, seeking a high degree of self-sufficiency. This rejection of validation is a psychological defense that, while admirable in its independence, definitely hurts the giver.

https://weblog.kalvin.my/2-the-pain-of-rejected-compliments-a-study-in-external-validation/

#psychology #externalvalidation #selfsufficiency #rejectedcompliments #onlineinteraction #mentalhealth #neurodiversity #introspection #growth #emotions #boundaries #humane #reflection #socialdynamics #personalgrowth #validation #autism #weblog #thoughts

[Micro-weblog] My online psychology reflection: It hurts when genuine compliments are consistently rejected. If the person rejects both praise and insults, it suggests they reject *all* external judgment, seeking total self-sufficiency. I admire that high level of independence, even if my raw self still wishes for that tidy, dedicated house!

https://weblog.kalvin.my/the-pain-of-rejected-compliments-a-study-in-external-validation/

#psychology #reflection #mentalhealth #selfsufficiency #validation #compliments #socialdynamics #rejection #onlineinteraction #tiktok #emotions #personaldevelopment #neurodiversity #autism #housinggoals #honesty #introspection #therapy #growth

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I've made 10,000 posts on Mastodon since I joined just under two years ago.

Thanks and thoughts:

- I'm grateful to @admin for running this instance. I made a small contribution to the running costs, and you should do the same.

- Thank you to all who follow and interact with me.

- Thank you to the people I follow for providing so much thought provoking, entertaining, informative, and beautiful content.

- I wish more of the academics and journalists I followed on Xitter had migrated to Mastodon.

- There are times when I feel I am just talking to myself here.

- There are many topics on which I have opinions but which I do not discuss here, either because I am not sufficiently well informed to make a constructive contribution to a discussion, or because for some topics I do not think Mastodon is an appropriate forum for their discussion.

- Partly on account of its current rotten government and the appalling way in which it is currently waging war, Israel is an unpopular country on Mastodon, or at least in the parts of Mastodon that I see. Nevertheless and regardless of how many people here take offence, I will continue to defend the right of Israel to exist. A two state solution, Israel and Palestine recognized as two states living alongside each other, is not utopian and is the only way to ensure peace and dignity for all.

- I use hashtags and so should you!

- I boost a lot because I think it makes Mastodon more interesting. Am I right in this?

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