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  1. @dcarlberg @riffreporter @MagdalenaBerlin Faszinierend. Was hier als Phänomen in der Mainstream-Gesellschaft beschrieben wird, ist wohl eine der besten Beschreibungen des Lebensgefühls vieler trans und nichtbinärer Personen vor Coming out und Transition.

    —— Zitat
    Stellen Sie sich jemanden vor, der nach der Arbeit am Küchentisch sitzt – nicht nur zu müde, um zu kochen oder Nachrichten zu beantworten, sondern unfähig zu erkennen, warum diese ganze Routine morgen wieder von vorn beginnen soll. Es ist nicht einfach körperliche Müdigkeit. Es ist das Gefühl, dass die Welt selbst zu schwer geworden ist, um wieder in sie einzutreten. Man will nicht – oder besser: man kann nicht die Energie aufbringen –, dieses Leben weiterzuleben.

    Das Leben wird zur Last, aber nicht nur in einem suizidalen Sinn. Es bedeutet keineswegs zwangsläufig, dass jemand sterben oder gar nicht mehr leben will. Diese Person will leben, nur nicht auf diese Weise, nicht in dieser bestimmten Lebensform. Doch diese Erschöpfung weitet sich auf das Sein im Allgemeinen aus: Wenn das Sein so beschaffen ist, dann macht es mich zu müde, dann ist es zu ermüdend. […]

    Being-Tired bedeutet: Ich bin müde, und ich brauche Schlaf, Ruhe, Hilfe oder eine Pause.

    Tired-of-Being bedeutet: Ich bin müde davon, diese Person sein zu müssen, in dieser Welt, mit diesen Anforderungen, mit diesem besonderen Leben, auf diese bestimmte Weise zu sein – und damit auch vom Sein im Allgemeinen, wenn das Sein genau daraus besteht. Es ist nicht nur Müdigkeit im Leben, sondern Müdigkeit am Leben oder am Sein überhaupt.
    —— Ende

    #trans #enby #nonbinary #nichtbinär

  2. Ich möchte jetzt wirklich gelbe Karten verteilen an Leute, die mich immer noch binär gendern, obwohl sie vorgeblich „sich Mühe geben, aber das ist so ungewohnt [seit 2 Jahren immer noch] und sie sind ja auch schon älter [5 Jahre jünger als ich] bla bla bla“.

    Jedes Mal die gleiche Zwei-Minuten-Leier.

    Also was würdet ihr auf so eine gelbe Karte schreiben? Ich würde mir davon etliche drucken lassen und bei jedem Mal der Person eine rüberwerfen. Gibt's vielleicht nen generellen Spruch, nicht zu heftig, der für Misgendern jeglicher Art verwendbar wäre?

    #nichtbinär #enby #trans ♻️❣️

  3. Heute, am 14. Juli, ist der Tag der Nichtbinären Menschen. An nichtbinären Personen zeigt sich besonders stark, wie problematisch sein kann, Annahmen über das Geschlecht des Gegenübers zu machen. Denn praktisch jede Person, ganz gleich wie sie aussieht und welche gesellschaftliche Rolle sie spielt, könnte nichtbinär sein!

    #nonbinary #nichtbinär #queer #enby

  4. Disponer de datos que muestren realidades puede ser un primer paso para conseguir mejorarlas. Por eso, si eres una persona trans y no binaria, te invitamos a colaborar en este estudio. Es una encuestra que lleva 15-20 minutos: es.surveymonkey.com/r/spainIDG

    #enebe #enby #nobinaries #queer #lgtbiq #lgtbiqa #lgtb #nobinarie

  5. Let's have our #transcrowdfund #MutualAidRequest for the #Vulpibus really take off please.

    We need to raise $2000 for immediate bills and needs. So far we are on about $90.

    The plan is to make a home, #lab, #hackerspace and #rescue vehicle all in one.

    Then there is a Nissan Leaf as runabout.

    Every #donation makes a difference.
    I have seen their progress.

    I direct you to Athamanatha's pages and accounts:

    Cashapp: $Athamanatha
    PayPal.me/athamanatha
    liberapay.com/athamanatha
    ko-fi.com/athakitsune
    patreon.com/vulpinedesigns
    Venmo: ask
    IBAN: ask
    Wise: ask
    Zelle: ask
    ACH: ask
    Throne: ask (needs a temporary delivery address)

    #buslife #rvliving #roadtrip #lifeontheroad #KeepUsOnline #food #helpfolkssurvive #survival #Tuckfrump #trans #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer #genderqueer #nonbinary #enby #nomoney #moneyhelp #homeless #lendahand #endhomelessness
    #sendhelpplease #mutualhelp #fedihelp

  6. You can now get a PDF of the Queer Coven RPG! It is a pay what you can model, because #queerjoy and charities. All money (minus the drivethru fees) is a direct donation to Table Top Gaymers. It was a blast to write a queer
    games with Adriel.

    drivethrurpg.com/en/product/53

    #queer #queerjoy #transjoy #ttrpg #rpg #nonbinary #enby #tabletopgaymers #gaymers #queergames #gaygames #gay #witches #queerwitches #witch #coven #queercoven

  7. Kolejny zjazd ekipy niebinarnosc.pl zorganizowaxśmy przy okazji Międzynarodowego Dnia Osób Niebinarnych we Wrocławiu! Do naszego zespołu dołączyły też osoby z Łodzi, Poznania i Warszawy!

    Rozmawiaxśmy czym dla nas jest niebinarnosc.pl i czym chcemy, by była oraz jakim kierunku zmierzamy jako organizacja. Zastanawiaxśmy się też, jakie kolejne działania chcemy podjąć.

    Na razie jeszcze nie chcemy nic zdradzać, ale będzie super ✨

    Masz chęć i energię, żeby razem z nami szerzyć wiedzę o niebinarności i działać dla społeczności? Masz umiejętności, które myślisz, że mogą się przydać w naszej wspólnej sprawie?

    Zachęcamy do kontaktu w DM lub mailowo ([email protected])! 💌

    _____________________

    Po więcej informacji zapraszamy na naszą stronę niebinarnosc.pl

    #niebinarkiforever #niebinarni #niebinarność #nonbinary #thefutureisnonbinary #trans #transfemme #transmasc #transrights #transrightsarehumanright #lgbtq #lgbtqrights #transisbeautiful #queer #lgbtqia #theythem #enby #nonbinarycuties #transpower #transpride #genderqueer #genderfluid #demigirl #demiboy #demigender #agender #pangender #xenogender

  8. Another polish experiment gone... gloriously chaotic 😍💅
    This time it’s neon orange as the base, sealed with black crackle lacquer—and honestly? It looks like a lava demon lost its temper on a nail tip 🔥🖤
    Love how the cracks turned out... unpredictable, wild, and weirdly seductive.
    Would I wear it? Hell yes. All ten.

    When it’s time to do the nails again, they’re getting this chaotic treatment—no doubt.
    Only catch? Drying time... it’s a beast.
    We’re talking 5–6 layers here:
    ☑️ 1 white base coat (because neon needs backup)
    ☑️ 2 coats of glowing orange
    ☑️ 1 layer of volatile black crackle
    ☑️ and 1–2 clear top coats to lock it down and gloss it up.

    Why the obsession with top coat?
    Because the crackle feels cracked—duh—and I need that glassy smooth finish.
    Otherwise... well, I start nibbling. Yes. I’m that person. Gremlin mode: activated 😏💅🧪

    #Nailpoish #crackle #experiment #fingernail #NailDesigns #enby #NonBinary

  9. Here's the media shareable version of lgbtqia.space/@MxVerda/1139320

    when in doubt, anything of mine most likely follows oql.avris.it/license and even if it doesn't, dw. I'll appreciate if you go by the queer license in any case.

    emoji spam incoming.
    :ablobcatbongo: :nonbinary_flag: :blobcat_thisisfine: :sparkles_nb: :neocat_thonk: :sparkles_bi: :neocat_glare_sob: :sparkles_trans: 👏 :neocat_cool: :_gaysparkle: :Blobhaj_Hug_Plushie:

    #OortArtCloud #poem #lyrics #song #idea #ideas #art #TW #CW #CN #heavyTopic #VeRamble #VeRantDa #VeyVemVer #trans #LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIA2S #queer #nonbinary #NonBinaryHRT #nonbinarity #NonbinaryArtist #enby #person #people #human #humans #Acceptance #SelfAcceptance #FullAcceptance #poetry #indiePoets #QueerVibes #queers #gender #GenderPolitics #vent

  10. Here's the abridged version, mostly the end. I feel like these stanzas are more widely applicable to most people or situations. Probably more accessible. too. (A little reworked to make it flow a bit better for most readers.)

    "Whom you want to be - Lyrics or poem

    All I want from you:
    Be more of yourself and choose
    whom you want to be.

    No one else will feel your feelings.
    No one else can cry your tears.
    No one else may think your viewpoints.
    No one else should stoke your fears.

    Trans people exist?
    Hello, I'm one!
    Nonbinary just means "person".
    What a kind idea we won.

    Is it nice to meet you?
    I'm not really sure.
    Had you considered being trans, too?
    Did I ever know you, anymore?

    To be real is not to repeat
    the last thing you have read.
    To be "biased" means
    you've opinions in your head.

    I can no longer make myself care.
    Maybe if you loved yourself more,
    while you will not see me there,
    you'd have more chance to tone down the scorn.

    Do I deserve to have kids?
    What if I turn into you?
    Oh, dear god(s), no! I can't risk that.
    The core idea rips me in two.

    I love them too much in advance
    to avoid asking of ourselves:
    "May we bring into existence
    people whose time may never tell?"

    How do I avoid that?
    I'm terrified to be you.
    A child is not a cat,
    but fully-formed human, new.

    All I want from you:
    Be more of yourself and choose
    whom you want to be.

    Ban fossil lobbying; and act!
    Long-term, more extreme weather?
    Climate change patterns collapse.
    We've plenty solutions clever.

    Problems from hierarchy
    ingress beneath our skin.
    Set aside your worries;
    Become your strength within.

    You cannot redo high school.
    Become yourself, a real adult.
    What can you do; who are you?
    Feel emotions, more than sulk.

    HRT may have advantages
    for who you want to be.
    Think past the many challenges.
    Imagine yourself free. "

    meow.social/@oddtail/113924688
    (but also that
    Lily Alexandre video about DIY HRT
    you can find on youtube, nebula, and archival places for as long as possibly, hopefully.)

    [Also, the bias / opinion bit is about e.g. hearing the phrase "filter bubble", then immediately testing everyone you know whether they are less that you for succumbing to our shared systems.]

    #OortArtCloud #poem #lyrics #song #idea #ideas #art #TW #CW #CN #heavyTopic #VeRamble #VeRantDa #VeyVemVer #trans #LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIA2S #queer #nonbinary #NonBinaryHRT #nonbinarity #NonbinaryArtist #enby #person #people #human #humans #Acceptance #SelfAcceptance #FullAcceptance #advocacy #LetPeopleLive #therapy #counselling #therapist #ArtTherapy #interest #BuyIntoArt #poetry #indiePoets #QueerVibes #queers #gender #GenderPolitics #vent #VentArt

  11. CW: long poem / lyrics, CN abusive parent, "Whom You Want to Be", feel free to adapt change etc queer license here

    "Whom you want to be - Lyrics or poem

    How do I avoid that?
    I'm terrified to be you.
    A child is not a cat,
    but fully-formed human, new.

    I know some of what you've been through.
    Beyond any kid's breaking point,
    No one should ever have had to
    in that hell themselves annoint.

    Why carry it forward though?
    Your life will never heal this way.
    What more pain are we all owed?
    Self-respect, you can replace.

    Self-respect, you may replace.

    Self-love, please seek, "Your Grace".

    All I want from you:
    Be more of yourself and choose
    whom you want to be.

    No one else will feel your feelings.
    No one else can cry your tears.
    No one else may think your viewpoints.
    No one else should stoke your fears.

    Trans people exist?
    Hello, I'm one!
    Nonbinary just means "person".
    What a kind idea we've won.

    Is it nice to meet you?
    I'm not really sure.
    Had you considered being trans, too?
    Did I ever know you, anymore?

    To be real is not to repeat
    the last thing you just read.
    To be "biased" means
    you've an opinion in your head.

    You're allowed to disagree with me,
    on things outside of human rights.
    Otherwise which mom used to teach
    fairness, about which we now fight?

    All I want from you:
    Be more of yourself and choose
    whom you want to be.

    I'll be honest: I gave up on you.
    I can't stand you in my life.
    "Your" "mini-me" was never "You ver. 2".
    You do not deserve my time.

    My pronouns are vey, vem, ver.
    I wish you saw me as a person.
    (Quite simple to make them square.)
    Without help, you'll only worsen.

    You deserve forgiveness,
    as all do, but not from me.
    No risk from counselling,
    or not necessarily.

    There is no way around it.
    Other parents I've found;
    these other people love me,
    if I am, or not, around.

    Why couldn't you do the same?
    Was being separate truly hard?
    You said you valued my brain.
    Why force me constantly on guard?

    All I want from you:
    Be more of yourself and choose
    whom you want to be.

    No one else supports your comments.
    Everyone I asked has been confused.
    "That's weird. Are you okay? Honest?"
    "Did she tell you how not to use boobs?"

    "When she said 'What happens here, stays'?"
    "Who says that to a child?"
    Did you think I would organ-replace
    to extend your time a while?

    I can no longer make myself care.
    Maybe if you loved yourself more,
    while you will not see me there,
    you'd have more chance to tone down the scorn.

    Do I deserve to have kids?
    What if I turn into you?
    Oh, dear god(s), no! I can't risk that.
    The core idea rips me in two.

    I love them too much in advance
    to avoid asking of ourselves:
    "May we bring into existence
    people whose time may never tell?"

    All I want from you:
    Be more of yourself and choose
    whom you want to be.

    Ban fossil lobbying; and act!
    Long-term, more extreme weather?
    Climate change patterns collapse.
    We've plenty solutions clever.

    Problems from hierarchy
    ingress beneath our skin.
    Set aside your worries;
    Become your strength within.

    You cannot redo high school.
    Become yourself, a real adult.
    What can you do; who are you?
    Feel emotions, not just sulk.

    HRT may have advantages
    for who you want to be.
    Think past the many challenges.
    Imagine yourself free. "

    #OortArtCloud #poem #lyrics #song #idea #ideas #TW #CW #CN #heavyTopic #VeRamble #VeRantDa #VeyVemVer #trans #LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIA2S #queer #nonbinary #NonBinaryHRT #nonbinarity #NonbinaryArtist #enby #person #people #human #humans #Acceptance #SelfAcceptance #FullAcceptance #advocacy #LetPeopleLive #therapy #counselling #therapist #ArtTherapy #interest

  12. Finally it´s getting colder :o) .. lol. It was 27.5°C yesterday, today it is 13° less.

    Time to get out the knit leggings .. i love them so much. Also went full black again, including matt black nails :o)

    Todays outfit is a black skater skirt, black knit leggings, black knit legwarmers and a black cropped hoodie .. badass :D

    I definitely would date myself :o)

    #barefeets #barefootlife #barefooting #barefoot #nonbinary #feet #barefeet #knitleggings #legwarmers #leggings #knit #feetlover #ootd #office #atWork #officeoutfit #chubby #thunderthighs #barefootlifestyle #thickthighssavelives #enby