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  1. Healing from Dysfunctional Family Wounds: You have carried these heavy stories for long enough, often alone. If you’re feeling tired of the same old cycles and you’re ready to create a life that finally feels like yours, I warmly invite you to reach out. Link in profile.

    Read this article now:
    🌿
    #FamilyDynamics #FamilyRelationships #Relationships #Family #FamilyHealing #GenerationalTrauma #ToxicFamily #FamilyConflict #mentalhealth

    linkedin.com/pulse/healing-fro

  2. New blog post
    Growing up in a dysfunctional family can teach you that “family first” means your needs come last. This post unpacks the toxic use of phrases like “blood is thicker than water,” gender expectations, and boundary-shaming.
    Healing starts with truth.
    diaryofafloppingfish.com/2025/
    #MentalHealth #CPTSD #EmotionalAbuse #Boundaries #ToxicFamily #Blog

  3. I responded to my mom saying I wasn’t yet ready to pursue a relationship with her or my family. I made it clear they’ve hurt me and continue to do so and I can’t do that to myself anymore. I can’t heal from a place of pain.

    The response from my mom was classic gaslighting and codependency. All expected.

    I’m proud of myself for getting out of this toxicity but truly sad it came to this. Both are true at the same time. No regrets about my decision.

    #ToxicFamily #Gaslighting #MentalHealth

  4. I responded to my mom saying I wasn’t yet ready to pursue a relationship with her or my family. I made it clear they’ve hurt me and continue to do so and I can’t do that to myself anymore. I can’t heal from a place of pain.

    The response from my mom was classic gaslighting and codependency. All expected.

    I’m proud of myself for getting out of this toxicity but truly sad it came to this. Both are true at the same time. No regrets about my decision.

    #ToxicFamily #Gaslighting #MentalHealth

  5. I responded to my mom saying I wasn’t yet ready to pursue a relationship with her or my family. I made it clear they’ve hurt me and continue to do so and I can’t do that to myself anymore. I can’t heal from a place of pain.

    The response from my mom was classic gaslighting and codependency. All expected.

    I’m proud of myself for getting out of this toxicity but truly sad it came to this. Both are true at the same time. No regrets about my decision.

    #ToxicFamily #Gaslighting #MentalHealth

  6. I responded to my mom saying I wasn’t yet ready to pursue a relationship with her or my family. I made it clear they’ve hurt me and continue to do so and I can’t do that to myself anymore. I can’t heal from a place of pain.

    The response from my mom was classic gaslighting and codependency. All expected.

    I’m proud of myself for getting out of this toxicity but truly sad it came to this. Both are true at the same time. No regrets about my decision.

    #ToxicFamily #Gaslighting #MentalHealth

  7. I responded to my mom saying I wasn’t yet ready to pursue a relationship with her or my family. I made it clear they’ve hurt me and continue to do so and I can’t do that to myself anymore. I can’t heal from a place of pain.

    The response from my mom was classic gaslighting and codependency. All expected.

    I’m proud of myself for getting out of this toxicity but truly sad it came to this. Both are true at the same time. No regrets about my decision.

    #ToxicFamily #Gaslighting #MentalHealth

  8. Gestern wurde die #OFFspace Sendung für #VirusMusik mit Nico Ruhm aka #Grille von der #ToxicFamily auf radio x 91.8 FM ausgestrahlt. Es gibt von der Show eine "Extended Version" mit mehr Musik und zusätzlichen Interviewteilen, die ihr ab sofort auf #Mixcloud hören könnt! (Die 60-minütige Fassung ist auch noch 6 Tage in der #radiox +7 Audiothek verfügbar)

    📻 mixcloud.com/marcrodrigues/vir

    #frankfurt #techno #house #techhouse #tofa #localscene #szenezeigen

  9. Gestern wurde die #OFFspace Sendung für #VirusMusik mit Nico Ruhm aka #Grille von der #ToxicFamily auf radio x 91.8 FM ausgestrahlt. Es gibt von der Show eine "Extended Version" mit mehr Musik und zusätzlichen Interviewteilen, die ihr ab sofort auf #Mixcloud hören könnt! (Die 60-minütige Fassung ist auch noch 6 Tage in der #radiox +7 Audiothek verfügbar)

    📻 mixcloud.com/marcrodrigues/vir

    #frankfurt #techno #house #techhouse #tofa #localscene #szenezeigen

  10. Gestern wurde die #OFFspace Sendung für #VirusMusik mit Nico Ruhm aka #Grille von der #ToxicFamily auf radio x 91.8 FM ausgestrahlt. Es gibt von der Show eine "Extended Version" mit mehr Musik und zusätzlichen Interviewteilen, die ihr ab sofort auf #Mixcloud hören könnt! (Die 60-minütige Fassung ist auch noch 6 Tage in der #radiox +7 Audiothek verfügbar)

    📻 mixcloud.com/marcrodrigues/vir

    #frankfurt #techno #house #techhouse #tofa #localscene #szenezeigen

  11. Gestern wurde die #OFFspace Sendung für #VirusMusik mit Nico Ruhm aka #Grille von der #ToxicFamily auf radio x 91.8 FM ausgestrahlt. Es gibt von der Show eine "Extended Version" mit mehr Musik und zusätzlichen Interviewteilen, die ihr ab sofort auf #Mixcloud hören könnt! (Die 60-minütige Fassung ist auch noch 6 Tage in der #radiox +7 Audiothek verfügbar)

    📻 mixcloud.com/marcrodrigues/vir

    #frankfurt #techno #house #techhouse #tofa #localscene #szenezeigen

  12. Gestern wurde die #OFFspace Sendung für #VirusMusik mit Nico Ruhm aka #Grille von der #ToxicFamily auf radio x 91.8 FM ausgestrahlt. Es gibt von der Show eine "Extended Version" mit mehr Musik und zusätzlichen Interviewteilen, die ihr ab sofort auf #Mixcloud hören könnt! (Die 60-minütige Fassung ist auch noch 6 Tage in der #radiox +7 Audiothek verfügbar)

    📻 mixcloud.com/marcrodrigues/vir

    #frankfurt #techno #house #techhouse #tofa #localscene #szenezeigen

  13. Diesen Samstag, 19. Oktober, 17 h, ist Nico Ruhm aka #Grille mein Gast bei #OFFspace für #VirusMusik auf #radiox.

    Er ist Gründer der #ToxicFamily einer Gruppe von #Techno-Aktivisten, die eine Community für die lokale Szene für elektronische Musik in #Frankfurt und #RheinMain geschaffen haben – mit eigenem Label und #ToFaNightshift bei der #xfade. Gerade feiern sie ihr 25-jähriges! Tune in! #house

    Sa. 19.10. 17:00 Uhr – VirusMusik OFFspace mit Grille #ToxicFamily, radiox.de/live

  14. Diesen Samstag, 19. Oktober, 17 h, ist Nico Ruhm aka #Grille mein Gast bei #OFFspace für #VirusMusik auf #radiox.

    Er ist Gründer der #ToxicFamily einer Gruppe von #Techno-Aktivisten, die eine Community für die lokale Szene für elektronische Musik in #Frankfurt und #RheinMain geschaffen haben – mit eigenem Label und #ToFaNightshift bei der #xfade. Gerade feiern sie ihr 25-jähriges! Tune in! #house

    Sa. 19.10. 17:00 Uhr – VirusMusik OFFspace mit Grille #ToxicFamily, radiox.de/live

  15. Diesen Samstag, 19. Oktober, 17 h, ist Nico Ruhm aka #Grille mein Gast bei #OFFspace für #VirusMusik auf #radiox.

    Er ist Gründer der #ToxicFamily einer Gruppe von #Techno-Aktivisten, die eine Community für die lokale Szene für elektronische Musik in #Frankfurt und #RheinMain geschaffen haben – mit eigenem Label und #ToFaNightshift bei der #xfade. Gerade feiern sie ihr 25-jähriges! Tune in! #house

    Sa. 19.10. 17:00 Uhr – VirusMusik OFFspace mit Grille #ToxicFamily, radiox.de/live

  16. Diesen Samstag, 19. Oktober, 17 h, ist Nico Ruhm aka #Grille mein Gast bei #OFFspace für #VirusMusik auf #radiox.

    Er ist Gründer der #ToxicFamily einer Gruppe von #Techno-Aktivisten, die eine Community für die lokale Szene für elektronische Musik in #Frankfurt und #RheinMain geschaffen haben – mit eigenem Label und #ToFaNightshift bei der #xfade. Gerade feiern sie ihr 25-jähriges! Tune in! #house

    Sa. 19.10. 17:00 Uhr – VirusMusik OFFspace mit Grille #ToxicFamily, radiox.de/live

  17. Diesen Samstag, 19. Oktober, 17 h, ist Nico Ruhm aka #Grille mein Gast bei #OFFspace für #VirusMusik auf #radiox.

    Er ist Gründer der #ToxicFamily einer Gruppe von #Techno-Aktivisten, die eine Community für die lokale Szene für elektronische Musik in #Frankfurt und #RheinMain geschaffen haben – mit eigenem Label und #ToFaNightshift bei der #xfade. Gerade feiern sie ihr 25-jähriges! Tune in! #house

    Sa. 19.10. 17:00 Uhr – VirusMusik OFFspace mit Grille #ToxicFamily, radiox.de/live

  18. I found myself thinking about my now ex mother and sister, I try to give them no headspace, time to dig out the most suitable play list

    NWFW play list.

    music.youtube.com/playlist?lis

    #ToxicFamily

  19. I found myself thinking about my now ex mother and sister, I try to give them no headspace, time to dig out the most suitable play list

    NWFW play list.

    music.youtube.com/playlist?lis

    #ToxicFamily

  20. I found myself thinking about my now ex mother and sister, I try to give them no headspace, time to dig out the most suitable play list

    NWFW play list.

    music.youtube.com/playlist?lis

    #ToxicFamily

  21. I am looking for resources or information on domestic abuse from family members that aren't your siblings or parents. Does anyone have anything? If it is your personal experience that helps too #domesticviolence #toxicfamily #PTSD

  22. Happy #MothersDay. It's a day of celebration for some, and a day of difficult & often complicated feelings for others, so be gentle with yourselves & each other.

    I wrote about my relationship with my own Mom here:

    patreon.com/posts/relearning-m

    It's one of the most raw, vulnerable, and honest things I've ever written. Four years later, I still think it's well worth reading - especially if you have a difficult or abusive relationship with a parent or family member.

    I have a much happier story to tell now than I did when I wrote this post, but it marks an important beginning. I feel so much wonder, to reread this and note how differently I feel about my #family now. There's a lot of pain between us that's hard to heal. But what I've learned is that, at least sometimes, even the people you know well will surprise you. Somehow, even with #dementia, my relationship with my #Mom is the best it's ever been. It's a gift I'd long since given up hoping for, and yet here we are. I'm grateful for this and for her - and also deeply mindful of what it felt like before this unexpected change in our relationship. So often, in so many parental relationships, that positive change never comes - and that is hard, hard, hard. So if this is you, I'm sending you extra love today.

    #MothersDay2024 #healing #ToxicFamily #trauma #abuse #CPTSD #PTSD #FamilyRelationships #AgingParents #portrait #SpeedSketching #ink

  23. Happy #MothersDay. It's a day of celebration for some, and a day of difficult & often complicated feelings for others, so be gentle with yourselves & each other.

    I wrote about my relationship with my own Mom here:

    patreon.com/posts/relearning-m

    It's one of the most raw, vulnerable, and honest things I've ever written. Four years later, I still think it's well worth reading - especially if you have a difficult or abusive relationship with a parent or family member.

    I have a much happier story to tell now than I did when I wrote this post, but it marks an important beginning. I feel so much wonder, to reread this and note how differently I feel about my #family now. There's a lot of pain between us that's hard to heal. But what I've learned is that, at least sometimes, even the people you know well will surprise you. Somehow, even with #dementia, my relationship with my #Mom is the best it's ever been. It's a gift I'd long since given up hoping for, and yet here we are. I'm grateful for this and for her - and also deeply mindful of what it felt like before this unexpected change in our relationship. So often, in so many parental relationships, that positive change never comes - and that is hard, hard, hard. So if this is you, I'm sending you extra love today.

    #MothersDay2024 #healing #ToxicFamily #trauma #abuse #CPTSD #PTSD #FamilyRelationships #AgingParents #portrait #SpeedSketching #ink

  24. What was the first book you ever read that helped you realize you had Toxic Parents? For me it was 👇👇👇
    #toxicparents #toxicfamily

  25. Ich werde zukünftig unter #toxicfamily immer mal wieder Dinge posten die mir geholfen haben, die Auswirkungen von vorgelebtem Narzissmus und allgemein toxischem Verhalten zu verstehen.

    So kann das jeder stumm schalten den das belastet/nicht interessiert.

  26. Ich werde zukünftig unter #toxicfamily immer mal wieder Dinge posten die mir geholfen haben, die Auswirkungen von vorgelebtem Narzissmus und allgemein toxischem Verhalten zu verstehen.

    So kann das jeder stumm schalten den das belastet/nicht interessiert.

  27. Ich werde zukünftig unter #toxicfamily immer mal wieder Dinge posten die mir geholfen haben, die Auswirkungen von vorgelebtem Narzissmus und allgemein toxischem Verhalten zu verstehen.

    So kann das jeder stumm schalten den das belastet/nicht interessiert.

  28. Ich werde zukünftig unter #toxicfamily immer mal wieder Dinge posten die mir geholfen haben, die Auswirkungen von vorgelebtem Narzissmus und allgemein toxischem Verhalten zu verstehen.

    So kann das jeder stumm schalten den das belastet/nicht interessiert.

  29. I do not trust words. I even question actions. But I never doubt patterns.

    This is why I'm not accepting any apologies that are not changed behaviour. Long term changed behaviour.

    #AVeryToxicNewYear #ToxicPeople #ToxicFamily

  30. I do not trust words. I even question actions. But I never doubt patterns.

    This is why I'm not accepting any apologies that are not changed behaviour. Long term changed behaviour.

    #AVeryToxicNewYear #ToxicPeople #ToxicFamily

  31. I do not trust words. I even question actions. But I never doubt patterns.

    This is why I'm not accepting any apologies that are not changed behaviour. Long term changed behaviour.

    #AVeryToxicNewYear #ToxicPeople #ToxicFamily

  32. I do not trust words. I even question actions. But I never doubt patterns.

    This is why I'm not accepting any apologies that are not changed behaviour. Long term changed behaviour.

    #AVeryToxicNewYear #ToxicPeople #ToxicFamily

  33. CW: Brief Abuse Talk

    I saw something today that stuck with me.

    Abusers care about appearances more than anything. Silence is their tool. Don’t be silent.

    Silence comes at too high a cost.

    #AVeryToxicNewYear #ToxicFamily #ToxicPeople #ToxicFriends

  34. CW: Brief Abuse Talk

    I saw something today that stuck with me.

    Abusers care about appearances more than anything. Silence is their tool. Don’t be silent.

    Silence comes at too high a cost.

    #AVeryToxicNewYear #ToxicFamily #ToxicPeople #ToxicFriends

  35. CW: Brief Abuse Talk

    I saw something today that stuck with me.

    Abusers care about appearances more than anything. Silence is their tool. Don’t be silent.

    Silence comes at too high a cost.

    #AVeryToxicNewYear #ToxicFamily #ToxicPeople #ToxicFriends

  36. CW: Brief Abuse Talk

    I saw something today that stuck with me.

    Abusers care about appearances more than anything. Silence is their tool. Don’t be silent.

    Silence comes at too high a cost.

    #AVeryToxicNewYear #ToxicFamily #ToxicPeople #ToxicFriends