#toxicpositivity — Public Fediverse posts
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What toxic positivity looks like... "It could be worse..." "Stay positive!" "Happiness is a choice" "It happens for a reason" "Good vibes only!" "You will get over it"
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What toxic positivity looks like... "It could be worse..." "Stay positive!" "Happiness is a choice" "It happens for a reason" "Good vibes only!" "You will get over it"
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What toxic positivity looks like... "It could be worse..." "Stay positive!" "Happiness is a choice" "It happens for a reason" "Good vibes only!" "You will get over it"
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What toxic positivity looks like... "It could be worse..." "Stay positive!" "Happiness is a choice" "It happens for a reason" "Good vibes only!" "You will get over it"
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What toxic positivity looks like... "It could be worse..." "Stay positive!" "Happiness is a choice" "It happens for a reason" "Good vibes only!" "You will get over it"
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Things that can be equally true
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Things that can be equally true
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Things that can be equally true
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Things that can be equally true
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Things that can be equally true
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Saying someone can't be sad because someone else may have it worse is like saying someone can't be happy because someone else may have it better.
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Saying someone can't be sad because someone else may have it worse is like saying someone can't be happy because someone else may have it better.
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Saying someone can't be sad because someone else may have it worse is like saying someone can't be happy because someone else may have it better.
#healthyhabits #boundaries #toxicpositivity #healthypositivity #emotions #feelings #mentalhealth #ymhc -
Saying someone can't be sad because someone else may have it worse is like saying someone can't be happy because someone else may have it better.
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Tired of pretending everything’s “fine”?
https://de320.isrefer.com/go/LUYDFREE/Stuartn/
#toxicpositivity #authenticity #healing #selfawareness #emotionalhealth #ThinkandGrowEducation #RayBehan #Mindset #Meditation -
Nobody was going to do it for me, I had to figure it out for myself.
I thought that maybe if I got it just right, I could be loveable. I had to have the right mindset, and it was going to be POSITIVE dammit. #toxicpositivity #manipulation #scripttheory #survivor #writer
https://survivorliteracy.com/2026/04/28/90-weaponization-of-the-benign-and-beneficial-5/
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I had an idea to make a photobook with some of my landscape photos ... many of them are ideal for the kind of motivational/spiritual posters you see 🤮, so I wanted to make a kind of 'spiritual parody' book.
Would love some feedback on my first 3 examples ....
#photography #toxicpositivity #spiritualparody #landscapephotography
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While positivity can be a good thing, going too far can create a toxic environment where other's feelings are not taken into consideration. As with all things, balance is key. #toxicpositivity #feelings #balance #environnement #life
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I think there is pressure on people to turn every negative into a positive, but we should be allowed to say, 'I went through something really strange and awful and it has altered me forever.' By Marian Keyes
#healthyhabits #toxicpositivity #healthypositivity #emotions #feelings #mentalhealth #mentalwellness #ymhc
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When I was actively traumatized for over a decade and was constantly in fight-flight-freeze-mode, all my teachers called me lazy.
When I had a 4 year long depression with anhedonia, my mom called that tiredness.
When I had a PAIS two times for 3 months with fatique syndrome, my mom called that tiredness.
Now I have a burnout my mom tells me "just make sure you don't fall back into that tiredness".
All my life I am an extrovert with social phobia and people keep telling me to get out of my comfort zone.
How do I get out of something that doesn't exist?#mh #ph #ToxicPositivity #NotJustSad #NotJustTired #NotJustShy
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In month three you'll start by taking on toxic positivity in the form of Love Bombing in Week 9. In week 10, you'll pick up two more DBT tools GIVE and FAST. In week 11, you'll focus on emotional regulation. #emotionalregulation #lovebombing #toxicpositivity
https://survivorliteracy.com/2026/03/13/toxicity-toolkit-14-the-third-month-3/
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So hast du mehr vom Wochenende.
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Nobody was going to do it for me, I had to figure it out for myself.
I thought that maybe if I got it just right, I could be loveable. I had to have the right mindset, and it was going to be POSITIVE dammit. #toxicpositivity #manipulation #scripttheory #survivor #writer
https://survivorliteracy.com/2026/02/27/90-weaponization-of-the-benign-and-beneficial-3/
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Nobody was going to do it for me, I had to figure it out for myself.
I thought that maybe if I got it just right, I could be loveable. I had to have the right mindset, and it was going to be POSITIVE dammit. #toxicpositivity #manipulation #scripttheory #survivor #writer
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Self-help articles be like:
"Friends who are currently struggling are a drain on your personal peace. Cut them off entirely! Ideally after you've taught them you're dependable. That'll really show those toxic, suffering friends."
Their comfort > your basic needs
That's the lesson. I guess I'm learning it now.
#Sarcasm #Satire #WellnessCulture #ToxicPositivity #DisabilityJustice #CommunityCare #MentalHealth #Loneliness #Friendship #LateStageCapitalism
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The only people who have tried giving me unrequested, unwanted advice about how I should be cheerier & more positive - are hella privileged white folks with #ToxicPositivity & who don't really know me well at all.
If they knew me better - they'd not be trying to shove their toxic positivity crap towards me whatsoever. They'd understand that I'm a pretty happy person, despite all my ongoing life struggles. They'd know I've already lived through multiple living nightmares, survived to still smile & find pockets of simple joys, daily. They'd realize that I can deal with harsh realities & still find/hold rays of hope. They'd recognize that they're in need of realistic grounding help & to cease pushing their toxic, unrealistic, 24-7 positivity shit on others around them.
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Warum machen Menschen Dinge, die sie eigentlich nicht wollen oder im Nachhinein zutiefst bereuen? Wie funktioniert dieser Mechanismus der Manipulation? Wie agieren Sekten und toxische Gemeinschaften? Diese Fragen werden von der neuen Folge von #Wiewirticken beantwortet:
👉 https://www.ardaudiothek.de/episode/urn:ard:episode:409b16e5aee1b015/
#ARD #ARDAudiothek #Podcast #Deutschland #Sekte #Sekten #Seelenfänger #Yoga #Psychologie #Manipulation #gaslightning #Scientology #Lovebombing #Kult #spiritualbypassing #ToxicPositivity #coercivecontrol -
Insisting vegans "agree to disagree" with, excuse, ignore or even facilitate carnists and their behavior is I feel a poignant example of toxic positivity
Treating all disagreement as harassment or all criticism as an attack is not healthy, conflict is messy but it is not inherently bad conflict is an inevitable part of life and dealing with it healthily creates personal growth
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When Gratitude Doesn’t Erase the Drowning
I’ve been thinking a lot about survival mode lately; that state where you’re technically functioning, but everything feels like walking through heavy water. You wake up, you move, you smile when needed, but underneath, you’re just trying to keep your head above the current.
And the thing is… we know we’re not the only ones struggling.
We know someone out there has it worse: the single mom working three jobs, the friend grieving someone they can’t bring back, the family facing eviction. So we tell ourselves, I should be grateful.But gratitude doesn’t make the drowning stop. It just means you’re aware you’re lucky to still have air, even if you’re gasping for it.
Survival Mode Is Still a State of Emergency
In psychology, survival mode happens when your body and brain shift into constant stress response. Cortisol stays high, focus narrows, and emotions flatten. You’re not lazy or dramatic. You’re literally wired for crisis.
That means even “small” problems — like bills piling up, unstable Wi-Fi, or family tension — can feel like tidal waves when your nervous system is already fried. Your body doesn’t rank problems by global importance. It only knows that you’re overwhelmed.
When people say, “Well, at least you have food on the table,” what they often mean is “I don’t know how to hold your pain, so I’ll minimize it.” It’s not cruelty; it’s discomfort. But it still invalidates the very real emotional weight you’re carrying.
The Trap of Comparative Suffering
Researcher Brené Brown calls it comparative suffering: the idea that pain must be measured, ranked, and justified.
- “I shouldn’t complain, others have it worse.”
- “At least I’m not homeless.”
- “It’s just stress; people go through worse.”
But emotions don’t operate on a hierarchy. There’s no prize for “Most Deserving of Sadness.”
When we compare pain, we disconnect — from ourselves and from others. We silence empathy instead of expanding it. Brown says the antidote is emotional generosity — acknowledging that my pain and your pain can coexist without comparison.
Gratitude and Struggle Can Coexist
Gratitude doesn’t mean gaslighting yourself into silence. It means holding both truths: I am thankful and I am struggling.
You can love your life and still feel tired of fighting for balance.
You can appreciate your home and still feel crushed by instability.
You can be aware of your blessings and still feel like you’re drowning.That duality is what makes you human, not ungrateful.
What Helps Me When I’m in Survival Mode
- Naming the truth. I literally say it out loud: “I’m overwhelmed, and that’s okay.”
- Radical rest. Even ten minutes of stillness helps remind my nervous system that I’m safe.
- Connection over comparison. Reaching out to someone who listens without fixing.
- Journaling without judgment. Letting the thoughts be messy and unfiltered.
When we stop ranking pain, we create room for collective healing. We move from “At least you—” to “I hear you.” And that one shift can feel like coming up for air.
Closing Thought
You’re not weak for struggling when others have it worse.
You’re human for feeling the weight of your own life.
We don’t have to win the pain Olympics.
We just have to survive it — together.#comparativeSuffering #emotionalHealth #gratitudeAndStruggle #healingJourney #mentalWellness #selfCompassion #survivalMode #toxicPositivity
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I don't really bring up this with the students, it will panic them, because they all expect me to make it - easily.
Other #postdocs are equally stressed out, so the prevailing strategy is #toxicpositivity #mentalhealth. And it's surprising how many days a man can go without being asked "How are you?" That said, I am still happy when underrepresented folks get the jobs ... there are some great people out there. #AcademicChatter #Astrodon -
After accidentally #doomscrolling for 3 hours:
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That's what I call #ToxicPositivity #Strava
Positive feedback no matter how good your effort was. -
Toxic Positivity - While pessimism and negativity are frowned upon, too much positivity can be just as bad. #toxicpositivity #pessimism #negativity #life #relationships
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@dweb @internetarchive This is how the #FarRight are recruiting in #Beatnik #hippie communities built on #ToxicPositivity. Communities like #Holochain. Communities like, for the most part, DWeb.
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OMG #LinkedIn is exploding with people “building a greener future”!
I’ve always wondered if they believe the present is already “green” (whatever that means) and the future can thus be “greener”… 🧐
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I wouId argue that toxic positivity has its roots both in Anglo-Saxon liberal capitalism and in the New Thought movement: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Thought
Distinguishing between optimism and hope is a useful exercise in this context. I think Barbara Ehrenreich wrote about this in a book I have yet to read, "Bright-sided: How Positive Thinking Is Undermining America".What makes ‘toxic positivity’ different from a healthy attitude | Psyche Ideas
#ToxicPositivity #Psychology #PopularPsychology #PositivePsychology #NewThought #BarbaraEhrenreich #Optimism #Hope
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@LALegault @angiebaby right?! Every #SystemsChange space I have ever encountered still replicates these patterns today.
(related: some hashtags what should be connected) #ToxicPositivity #RespectabilityPolitics #BeatnikComforts #ModelMinority #ComplacentWhiteness #WhitePrivilege #MalePrivilege #SettlerInnocence #PermacultureMeToo #Permaculture #Web3 #ReFi #SilenceIsViolence #Decolonization
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This is why I can't just quit Facebook entirely. There's a Facebook group called "Just Say No to Toxic Positivity," and people share items like this one.
@whimsy
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#Water
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"In a world full of toxic positivity, be authentic chaos."
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#SincerityAndAuthenticity
#ConductOfLife
#Chaos
#FreeSpirit
#Id
#GratuitousAdvice
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"In a world full of toxic positivity, be authentic chaos."
@philosophy
@ethics
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@whimsy#ToxicPositivity
#SincerityAndAuthenticity
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"In a world full of toxic positivity, be authentic chaos."
@philosophy
@ethics
@psychology
@whimsy#ToxicPositivity
#SincerityAndAuthenticity
#ConductOfLife
#Chaos
#FreeSpirit
#Id
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Hi, I'm a linguist, affiliated with #TheUniversityOfSydney and #MacquarieUniversity (Australia)
My main research interests include #CDS, #SFL, #semantics #AppraisalTheory #corpuslinguistics
I recently published a paper on the #grammar of #toxicpositivity on Facebook and am currently working on an #appraisalanalysis of negation in #Reddit discourse surrounding the Australian #climate election
My research assistant is called Mr Magz #cats
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Hi, I'm a linguist, affiliated with #TheUniversityOfSydney and #MacquarieUniversity (Australia)
My main research interests include #CDS, #SFL, #semantics #AppraisalTheory #corpuslinguistics
I recently published a paper on the #grammar of #toxicpositivity on Facebook and am currently working on an #appraisalanalysis of negation in #Reddit discourse surrounding the Australian #climate election
My research assistant is called Mr Magz #cats
#linguistics #CorpusAnalysis