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  1. L'enfant connaît le nom (et un peu de trivia) de toutes les lunes des planètes telluriques du système solaires (naines ou pas), les noms des lunes plus grandes des planètes gazeuses (lunes galiléennes, par exemple).
    On est à donf, elle les récite pour s'endormir 🥰
    #neuroSpicyKid

  2. L'enfant vient de passer une demi-heure à pleurer car elle avait un bruit horrible dans sa tête qui revenait en boucle. Ce n'est pas la première fois qu'elle me dit ça. Je me demande si ce n'est pas des sortes d'écholalies internes 🤔 Qu'est-ce qui aide à gérer ça ?
    #actuallyAutisticFR #NeuroSpicyKid

  3. Vendredi, l'enfant a passé la journée à la maison car elle était très fatiguée. Le weekend n'a rien arrangé car on avait une cousinade. Donc beaucoup de sociabilisation, des repas non calibrés, de nombreuses remarques jugeantes concernant ses particularités... Bref, ça n'a pas été facile pour elle. Ce soir, elle grelotait d'épuisement, le visage livide avec des cernes violettes. Je pense qu'elle fait un shutdown 😢
    #ActuallyAutisticFR #NeuroSpicyKid

  4. Suite à la crise compliquée d'hier (eldritch.cafe/@qana_sucre/1139), j'ai eu une idée. Ce matin, j'ai montré sa CMI à l'enfant et je lui ai demandé ce que c'était :
    _ Une carte pour dire qu'on est handicapé.
    _ A qui elle appartient ?
    _ A moi.
    _ Ce qui veut dire que ?
    _ Je suis autiste ?
    _ Ça veut surtout dire que des gens se sont réunis pour décider que tu étais handicapée. Donc il y a certaines choses qui sont beaucoup plus difficiles pour toi que pour les autres.
    _ Ah... Je vais y réfléchir.
    Quelques minutes plus tard, elle est venue me voir pour me dire :
    _ En fait, je veux bien me reposer aujourd'hui
    #ActuallyAutisticFR #NeuroSpicyKid

  5. Neurospicy Elder Millennial advice to those dealing with RSD, justice sensitivity, and/or anxiety right now:
    Go get that My Chemical Romance, Fall Out Boy, or Rise Against album out. We made it this far. We will persevere. #crankit #warpedtour #beingiton

  6. Sometimes, Non NeuroSpicy people can be teeth gnashingly, amazingly, ~ InFuriAting ~ with their

    ' Well Actually's '.

    Oh this long list of everyday traits and life experiences has *one thing* on it, that you experience rarely - once in a blue moon, in a Leap Year?

    Please, Shut Up and Go Away.

    (Gah!)

    #Autisim #Autistic #ADHD #AuDHD #NeuroSpicy

  7. Sometimes, Non NeuroSpicy people can be teeth gnashingly, amazingly, ~ InFuriAting ~ with their

    ' Well Actually's '.

    Oh this long list of everyday traits and life experiences has *one thing* on it, that you experience rarely - once in a blue moon, in a Leap Year?

    Please, Shut Up and Go Away.

    (Gah!)

    #Autisim #Autistic #ADHD #AuDHD #NeuroSpicy

  8. My biggest struggle as a #neurodivergent adult due to #sensory sensitivities and #taskoverwhelm is #showering.

    THERE ARE SO MANY TASKS. It's a full-on project. I always feel better once I'm clean but the path to get there takes like half my spoons for the day (even though I shower at night).

    I have many #routines around showering that I have a hard time skipping to lessen the task burden.

    #audhd #autistic #actuallyautistic #adhd #neurospicy

  9. Going to be at BSides Austin this Thursday/Friday? Hit me up for some new stickers! I'll also spread them around at various booths if allowed.

    If you're not attending, I'll have some in my bag at all events I am at. Come find me for freebies!

    #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwareness #StopTheStima #HackersForMentalHealth #FreeStickers #Neurospicy

  10. Hier, l’enfant est revenu de son cours de natation en pleurs en disant que c’était la pire journée de sa vie.
    Sa relation avec l’eau a toujours été compliqué à cause de ses hypersensibilités (poke le TSA). Du coup, on lui a acheté des lunettes et un pince-nez pour limiter l’intrusion de l’eau et depuis, ça l’a aidé à se sentir mieux.
    Sauf que hier, le maître nageur a changé (troisième fois en quatre séances alors qu’on m’avait assuré que ça serait toujours la même personne 😬) et il lui a dit qu’elle devait enlever le pince-nez et apprendre à gérer sa respiration.
    Bon, vous imaginez bien que, pour une ptite louloute autiste qui doit déjà se concentrer sur les mouvements pour les reproduire, ça a été la cata. Elle a bu souvent la tasse et est ressortie totalement découragée.
    Heureusement, son père et moi avons été là pour la soutenir, lui rappeler qu’elle est très courageuse et qu’on est fière d’elle. Le mari a même pris la décision d’aller voir le maître nageur la semaine prochaine pour lui parler du handicap de l’enfant et lui demander de la laisser utiliser le pince-nez.
    #NeuroSpicyKid #ActuallyAutisticFR

  11. Ça fait un mois que l’enfant est sur sa (toute petite) broderie sans réussir à la finir. Pendant le même temps sa copine en a déjà fait 6. Je crois qu’elle a hérité de mes fonctions exécutives complètement aux fraises 😔
    Elle a beaucoup de mal à terminer ses coloriages, ses bricolages, c’est déprimant.
    #NeuroSpicyKid

  12. Après-midi très neurospicy, on m'a offert un livre d'histoires en italien pour m'encourager à ne pas abandonner l'apprentissage de cette langue qui fait partie de mes souvenirs d'enfance.
    J'ai fait du vélo, j'ai fait la grande roue, des roulades et des combats de sumo*.

    On parlait 6 langues à table, des fois il fallait sous-titrer un peu, c'était juste parfait, stimulant.

    * j'ai gagné de ouf. Tu peux pas contre ce corps avec les proportions idéales.
    #neuroSpicyLife

  13. "Perfect is the enemy of done" I mumble to myself over and over as I resist the urge to reread an email for the 5th time before I send it.

    #neurospicy #WTFbrain

  14. Nous sommes en vacances chez ma belle sœur. L’enfant se couche dans le lit et râle après la couette qui a "des picots" (en vrai, elle a juste des bouloches).
    Elle me dit :
    _ Nan mais y a vraiment dans la vie des gens qui aiment ce genre de choses ?
    Ça m’a fait trop rire car c’est typiquement une réflexion d’autiste 😂
    #NeuroSpicyKid #ActuallyAutisticFR

  15. Je lis le GEVASCO de l'enfant et je vois :

    Si la consigne ou l'activité n'a pas de sens pour elle, elle l'effectue tout de même mais commente et questionne sur l'utilité de celle-ci.

    Pourquoi ça ne m'étonne même pas 😂

    #NeuroSpicyKid

  16. I've been thinking about Skze's post on "abnormal" circadian rhythms (toot.cat/@skye/113180364317401), and someone called that in the replies "chronospicy" based on the term "neurospicy" and it just occurred to me that this actually *is* a neurodivergency! It's not just a similar word, it's an example of it!

    #neurospicy #neurodivergency #chronospicy #chronodivergency

  17. L’enfant aime beaucoup la pizza. La plupart du temps, on les fait nous même ou on les achète au supermarché (donc qualité bof).
    Hier, pour la première fois, nous avons mangé dans une pizzeria qui faisait de vraies pizzas au feu de bois.
    Remarque de l’enfant quand son repas est arrivée :
    _ Mais c’est brûlé 🤬
    On a beau lui avoir expliqué que c’était normal, que ça venait du mode de cuisson et que ça se mangeait comme ça, elle n’a pas aimé 😬
    #NeuroSpicyKid

  18. Vacances à Center Parcs - le Domaine des Trois Forêts

    Point #NeuroSpicyKid : pour l’instant, l’enfant s’adapte bien. Elle a réussi à dormir sans moi, avec la fille de la compagne de mon frère et c’est un gros effort de sa part 🥳 Le logement lui plaît et elle a adoré la piscine.

    Point #ChroniquesDeLaFatigue : l’accessibilité est très moyenne. À l’accueil, la personne ne sait pas trop répondre à mes questions. Il y a des logements spécifiques PMR mais ce n’est pas ce que j’ai. Les places PMR sont assez loin de l’AquaMundo alors que perso, je peine à faire plus d’une centaine de mètres à pied. Ça donne vraiment l’impression que c’est pour forcer la location de voiturettes électriques. Le domaine est très vallonné donc avec mon fauteuil roulant manuel #FRM impossible d’être autonome dans les côtes. Bref, pour le coup, je me sens bien handicapée.

  19. #TIL that #ADHD affects similar areas of the brain that get affected when a person experiences trauma. So at varying levels, those of us who have ADHD *can* be walking around with a form of #PTSD as well.

    #DAVE
    #DopamineAttentionVariabilityExecutivedysfunction
    #Hyperkinetic
    #HyperkineticDisorder
    #TheMoreYouKnow
    #ÞeMoreYouKnow
    #neurosparkly
    #neurospicy🌶️

  20. Query for queer and/or neurodivergent and/or disabled Minecrafters playing Minecraft Java

    What mods / plugins do you consider essential, both server side and client side? :minecraft_grass_dirt: :minecraft_heart: :minecraft_bee: :minecraft_diamond: :minecraft_sword:

    #Minecraft #MinecraftJava #ModdedMinecraft #ForgeMC #FabricMC #QuiltMC #PaperMC #SpigotMC #queer #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #disabled #disability #accessibility #neurodivergent #neurodivergence #neurospicy

  21. :bear_love: Ello sweet and lovely Friendos 💜 and #NeuroSpicy 🌶 friends :neuro:

    We're out for the splash 💦 walkies again. Arwen gets more sniffs in and an occasional water splashing may happen... 🐾

    My mind is still quite busy. It is like it's wilder than usual, even though they did slightly up my #ADHD meds last week... Maybe I need to get adjusted to the new dosage?

    While my mind is going fast, I do find that I can take some more moments to relax. As the move is coming closer, and more things are being crossed off the list, I can sometimes feel a wee bit at ease...

    Until the anxiety kicks in again with all the worries that it's been stalking me with. As is moving to a new town wasn't hectic enough, let's throw in a dosage of #AuDHD to make it even more interesting/challenging.

    But I've made it through all that life has thrown at me up till now... I admit, I didn't handle it all too well at times, but hey, I made it and I didn't give up!

    :dancingbanana:

    So, let's do this! 💪🏼 Day by day, until we made it to August... On July 31st I have to hand in the keys of the apartment and I'll close the door one last time... From that moment, it's hopefully time for me to find a new routine, take things a little easier and continue making my new house a home. (in case you missed it, 😉 I'm getting the keys July 1st at 12:30).

    :bear_nuzzle:

    Fankoos 🫶🏻 for your kindness and support! Your replies, boosts and likea really help to keep me more sane (as far as that's possible haha).

    🧚🏼‍♀️ 🍀 💜 🐾

    #PixysJourney #Moving #AllNew #ActuallyAutistic

    @weirdfolks

  22. :bear_love: Ello sweet and lovely Friendos 💜 and #NeuroSpicy 🌶 friends :neurodiversity:

    The closer we're getting to July 1st, the more my brain seems to struggle.
    For new friends here, that's the date I'm getting the keys to our new small house...

    We're moving to a whole new area! The house should *definitely* mean an improvement over our current apartment...
    But it's just me and Arwen, so most of the organizing and arrangements (well, all of it actually) is on me.

    I've known this way in advance. And while it definitely helped me to prepare more leisurely, it doesn't take away the stress, anxiety and feelings of being overwhelmed...

    I try to write about this a lot on my blog, cynnisblog.wordpress.com and I'm getting support from my parents and some really sweet friends. Online, I've been receiving kindness as well, which really helps too!

    :bear_nuzzle:

    But I am struggling, more than I dare to admit. I'm gonna miss oud current town and the ability to walk to many places. I'm gonna miss my routines, that seem to help me get through my days better. I'll have to rebuild, adapt, try out... And I wonder if I'll have enough energy left to do all that...

    I feel I'm going through some autistic burnout. Many things feel harder than they normally would...

    Many people praise me. And I love them for that! But it also makes me feel like a fraud...

    I don't feel like I've got it all worked out so well. I don't feel like I'm handling it so perfectly. I don't feel brave and strong and adventurous...... I feel anxious, overwhelmed and scared...

    I want to feel excited, as this could be such a good part of my journey. I want to feel full of energy and motivation. I want to feel happy and relaxed.

    But... Those aren't always feelings associated with moving, or so I've been told 😉. And doing this on my own, most of it, is also harder than when you have a partner to share it with...

    I want to thank you all for following me on my journey!!!

    :heart_rainbow:

    Your support, your kindness, your understanding... It helps me more than I could express with words (or the many beautiful emojis this instance offers!). And I can't say it enough.

    You're all awesome 💜 and you help me to keep me sane (as much as that's possible).

    Fankoos 🫶🏻

    🧚🏼‍♀️ 🍀 💜 🐾

    #PixysJourney #NewHouse #Moving #AllNew #AuDHD #ActuallyAutistic

  23. :bear_love: Ello sweet and lovely Friendos 💜 and #NeuroSpicy 🌶 friends :neurodiversity:

    Even though I struggle with social things, I do enjoy being online. I've had a few blogs throughout the years, the current one has been quite active since I started on December 14th 2019... I've been sharing a post every day for almost 4 years now! It's kind of an addiction :ablobcatangel:

    I share many toots here. I love sharing pictures and AI stuffs to the Pixelfed site as well.

    The thing I do struggle with a lot is: being active towards others.

    I can share my things. I can answer people's replies to my posts and toots. I can like toots and posts by others. But...

    As I previously mentioned here, I struggle with replying to other's posts/toots and with boosting their content. Somehow, a like feels less "intrusive". I can do it more from a lurking position... If that makes any sense... 🤔

    There is no real wrong way to be on Masto, is you're kind and all... You can Toot, like, boost, mute and block as you see fit. And that's wonderful! :dancingbanana:

    But some days I feel I should be more active towards toots by my friends. And I am trying. :blobcatblush2:

    Maybe you've seen more boosts by me. If I boost too much, just visit my profile and turn off the visibility of the things I boost (another cool Masto option!). I try to engage more. But I'm often scared I may type "the wrong thing" or get misunderstood. As that's happend many times before... :blobcatsadpleading:

    If you ever see me boost/reply something that I "could have done better", please send me a kind DM. 😊 I'm trying to learn and some things I guess I'll never fully be able to master... But I love to learn!
    Fankoos 🫶🏻

    🧚🏼‍♀️ 🍀 💜 🐾

    #PixysJourney #SociallyAwkward #AuDHD #ActuallyAutistic

  24. Ello sweet and lovely Friendos 💜 and #NeuroSpicy 🌶 friends :neurodiversity:

    Ugh... I had a bad and a short night. Silly dreams. So restless. Too much in my head. Not even the melatonin could help me 😔.

    Today at 9 I'll get a small inspection of the building coop. It's scheduled for 1:30 (way too long for my liking...) and they'll check the apartment for things that will need to be done.
    This is *not* about the new renters, they can later add work towards it as well... 😔

    It might all be OK enough and it may mean I get loads to do... I feel rather insecure about it, to be honest... Wish I wasn't alone for this...

    So yeah, my brain is all over the place and it already was scrambled much... So much to do, so much to remember and arrange...

    I mentioned it before and will definitely mention it again... I'll be glad when it's August. The apartment will be gone then. The move should be all done then 😉 (probably still unpacking, but I can do that at my own pace then). I *should* have stuff sorted then and *hopefully* I can start getting used to the new routine...

    I'm excited to move, to a new part of the journey through life. 🌸 Just hate that it means there's so many changes!

    Hope you'll all have a great day. 🌈 And thank you for your support, it really helps me!

    🧚🏼‍♀️ 🍀 💜 🐾

    #PixysJourney #NewHouse #Moving #AllNew