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Dr Megan Anna Neff, in a recent newsletter blog on https://neurodivergentinsights.com, just did an interesting thought exercise about "Not Everything Needs an Upside: Neurodivergent Reflections on AuDHD and Mental Health".
I can relate to it quite a bit. But not trying to look at the upsides all the time seem a bit defeatist (if realistic).
I also related to bipolar often being stigmatized, based on when I was (mis-)diagnosed that way for decades.
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Being misunderstood is a huge trigger for me, perhaps tied to the fight against human injustice part of neurodivergence. Stimming isn't even re-regulating me right now.
I asked my GP/PCP to complete a form so that I could have a preferred medical transportation provider. First, even though I use and *need* a cane, they said I did not on the form. And then they completed the form without specifying the preferred provider.
I'm really triggered right now. Trying my best to calm down and not burn down the bridge of the relationship.
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Being misunderstood is a huge trigger for me, perhaps tied to the fight against human injustice part of neurodivergence. Stimming isn't even re-regulating me right now.
I asked my GP/PCP to complete a form so that I could have a preferred medical transportation provider. First, even though I use and *need* a cane, they said I did not on the form. And then they completed the form without specifying the preferred provider.
I'm really triggered right now. Trying my best to calm down and not burn down the bridge of the relationship.
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Being misunderstood is a huge trigger for me, perhaps tied to the fight against human injustice part of neurodivergence. Stimming isn't even re-regulating me right now.
I asked my GP/PCP to complete a form so that I could have a preferred medical transportation provider. First, even though I use and *need* a cane, they said I did not on the form. And then they completed the form without specifying the preferred provider.
I'm really triggered right now. Trying my best to calm down and not burn down the bridge of the relationship.
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Being misunderstood is a huge trigger for me, perhaps tied to the fight against human injustice part of neurodivergence. Stimming isn't even re-regulating me right now.
I asked my GP/PCP to complete a form so that I could have a preferred medical transportation provider. First, even though I use and *need* a cane, they said I did not on the form. And then they completed the form without specifying the preferred provider.
I'm really triggered right now. Trying my best to calm down and not burn down the bridge of the relationship.
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Being misunderstood is a huge trigger for me, perhaps tied to the fight against human injustice part of neurodivergence. Stimming isn't even re-regulating me right now.
I asked my GP/PCP to complete a form so that I could have a preferred medical transportation provider. First, even though I use and *need* a cane, they said I did not on the form. And then they completed the form without specifying the preferred provider.
I'm really triggered right now. Trying my best to calm down and not burn down the bridge of the relationship.
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People pleasing is a big part of my personality, for better or for worse. This has recently gotten in the way of my health.
With my spine surgeon, he wanted me to be using an external spine stimulator. He also wanted me to be doing regular physical therapy. For the former, I now have a gastric stimulator where it's no longer possible to use it. And for physical therapy, time and time again it has been proven it affects my ME/CFS post-exertional malaise as well as the whole-body-pain part of my Sjogren's for up to a week after one one-hour session.
Anyway, I was supposed to be getting regular monitoring every 6-8 weeks from the surgeon for a year. But I was so concerned in disappointing him in the above that I pulled away. I think some changes have happened to my spine that need to be watched and possibly addressed.
So I made peace that, although he's a fellow human with feelings, this is a professional relationship that is goal driven. I can't be concerned about disappointing him. Feels like some big personal growth here to understand boundaries better! 😀
@autistics #ActuallyAutistics #PeoplePleasing #PersonalBoundaries
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People pleasing is a big part of my personality, for better or for worse. This has recently gotten in the way of my health.
With my spine surgeon, he wanted me to be using an external spine stimulator. He also wanted me to be doing regular physical therapy. For the former, I now have a gastric stimulator where it's no longer possible to use it. And for physical therapy, time and time again it has been proven it affects my ME/CFS post-exertional malaise as well as the whole-body-pain part of my Sjogren's for up to a week after one one-hour session.
Anyway, I was supposed to be getting regular monitoring every 6-8 weeks from the surgeon for a year. But I was so concerned in disappointing him in the above that I pulled away. I think some changes have happened to my spine that need to be watched and possibly addressed.
So I made peace that, although he's a fellow human with feelings, this is a professional relationship that is goal driven. I can't be concerned about disappointing him. Feels like some big personal growth here to understand boundaries better! 😀
@autistics #ActuallyAutistics #PeoplePleasing #PersonalBoundaries
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People pleasing is a big part of my personality, for better or for worse. This has recently gotten in the way of my health.
With my spine surgeon, he wanted me to be using an external spine stimulator. He also wanted me to be doing regular physical therapy. For the former, I now have a gastric stimulator where it's no longer possible to use it. And for physical therapy, time and time again it has been proven it affects my ME/CFS post-exertional malaise as well as the whole-body-pain part of my Sjogren's for up to a week after one one-hour session.
Anyway, I was supposed to be getting regular monitoring every 6-8 weeks from the surgeon for a year. But I was so concerned in disappointing him in the above that I pulled away. I think some changes have happened to my spine that need to be watched and possibly addressed.
So I made peace that, although he's a fellow human with feelings, this is a professional relationship that is goal driven. I can't be concerned about disappointing him. Feels like some big personal growth here to understand boundaries better! 😀
@autistics #ActuallyAutistics #PeoplePleasing #PersonalBoundaries
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People pleasing is a big part of my personality, for better or for worse. This has recently gotten in the way of my health.
With my spine surgeon, he wanted me to be using an external spine stimulator. He also wanted me to be doing regular physical therapy. For the former, I now have a gastric stimulator where it's no longer possible to use it. And for physical therapy, time and time again it has been proven it affects my ME/CFS post-exertional malaise as well as the whole-body-pain part of my Sjogren's for up to a week after one one-hour session.
Anyway, I was supposed to be getting regular monitoring every 6-8 weeks from the surgeon for a year. But I was so concerned in disappointing him in the above that I pulled away. I think some changes have happened to my spine that need to be watched and possibly addressed.
So I made peace that, although he's a fellow human with feelings, this is a professional relationship that is goal driven. I can't be concerned about disappointing him. Feels like some big personal growth here to understand boundaries better! 😀
@autistics #ActuallyAutistics #PeoplePleasing #PersonalBoundaries
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People pleasing is a big part of my personality, for better or for worse. This has recently gotten in the way of my health.
With my spine surgeon, he wanted me to be using an external spine stimulator. He also wanted me to be doing regular physical therapy. For the former, I now have a gastric stimulator where it's no longer possible to use it. And for physical therapy, time and time again it has been proven it affects my ME/CFS post-exertional malaise as well as the whole-body-pain part of my Sjogren's for up to a week after one one-hour session.
Anyway, I was supposed to be getting regular monitoring every 6-8 weeks from the surgeon for a year. But I was so concerned in disappointing him in the above that I pulled away. I think some changes have happened to my spine that need to be watched and possibly addressed.
So I made peace that, although he's a fellow human with feelings, this is a professional relationship that is goal driven. I can't be concerned about disappointing him. Feels like some big personal growth here to understand boundaries better! 😀
@autistics #ActuallyAutistics #PeoplePleasing #PersonalBoundaries
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Wow that was fun, enlightening, and reassuring. I just redid the standard autism online quizzes as part of preparing for a formal diagnosis of the autism in 6-12 months. I had first done these a couple years ago, when I was trying to decide if I might be neurodivergent.
Very high likelihood of autism, *extremely high* alexithymia, high burnout, *extremely* high monotropism.
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I've been deep diving into this YouTube channel. It has great non-binary and neurodivergent (especially autistic) content.
The one thing that keeps catching me off guard is that they are framing neurodivergence as a disability. Is that a cultural thing that I missed (they are in the UK)? Or is it the perception of this YouTuber? I've always framed it as a different type of brain and way of looking at the world.
I'll still keep watching and supporting their content, but it's something that keeps niggling me.
https://www.youtube.com/@AdelaideAlchemist
@autistics #ActuallyAutistics #NonBinary #YouTube #Disability
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This is fascinating and I'm glad research continues to happen into autism.
I just hope there wouldn't be unintended consequences where a less-enlightened parent would give up their newborn child if they thought they were different, should this prove to be viable research.
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My browser favorites are a window into my current special interests or concerns, which can vary from day to day. I am constantly reorganizing them into relevant categories, and shunting some to a "More" subfolder per category that are important but less relevant.
@autistics #ActuallyAutistics #SpecialInterests #BrowserFavorites
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Any fellow Autistics on here have a good recommendation for truly seamless socks?
So far, everything I've found that is labeled "seamless" is straight up lying.
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🐬🐋🐳 Have a fruitful & wonderful #Autism Acceptance Month to all of us! #AutisticActually
🎊🍾🎆🎇🍹🎶👑
IMG: Autistic/Autism symbol by MissLunaRose12 under CC-By-SA 4.0 International License. (https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Autism_Symbol_Proposed_2.png)
#Autistic #Neuroatypical #ActuallyAutistic #Autist #Autistics #ActuallyAutistics #Autists #Neurodivergent #Neurodivergents
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🐬🐋🐳 Have a fruitful & wonderful #Autism Acceptance Month to all of us! #AutisticActually
🎊🍾🎆🎇🍹🎶👑
IMG: Autistic/Autism symbol by MissLunaRose12 under CC-By-SA 4.0 International License. (https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Autism_Symbol_Proposed_2.png)
#Autistic #Neuroatypical #ActuallyAutistic #Autist #Autistics #ActuallyAutistics #Autists #Neurodivergent #Neurodivergents
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🐬🐋🐳 Have a fruitful & wonderful #Autism Acceptance Month to all of us! #AutisticActually
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IMG: Autistic/Autism symbol by MissLunaRose12 under CC-By-SA 4.0 International License. (https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Autism_Symbol_Proposed_2.png)
#Autistic #Neuroatypical #ActuallyAutistic #Autist #Autistics #ActuallyAutistics #Autists #Neurodivergent #Neurodivergents
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🐬🐋🐳 Have a fruitful & wonderful #Autism Acceptance Month to all of us! #AutisticActually
🎊🍾🎆🎇🍹🎶👑
IMG: Autistic/Autism symbol by MissLunaRose12 under CC-By-SA 4.0 International License. (https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Autism_Symbol_Proposed_2.png)
#Autistic #Neuroatypical #ActuallyAutistic #Autist #Autistics #ActuallyAutistics #Autists #Neurodivergent #Neurodivergents
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🐬🐋🐳 Have a fruitful & wonderful #Autism Acceptance Month to all of us! #AutisticActually
🎊🍾🎆🎇🍹🎶👑
IMG: Autistic/Autism symbol by MissLunaRose12 under CC-By-SA 4.0 International License. (https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Autism_Symbol_Proposed_2.png)
#Autistic #Neuroatypical #ActuallyAutistic #Autist #Autistics #ActuallyAutistics #Autists #Neurodivergent #Neurodivergents
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🐬🐋🐳 Have a fruitful & wonderful #Autism Acceptance Month to all of us! #AutisticActually 🎊🍾🎆🎇🍹🎶👑 Like & pin today! ♾️ bsky.app/profile/did:... #Autistic #Neuroatypical #ActuallyAutistic #Autist #Autistics #ActuallyAutistics #Autists #Neurodivergent #Neurodivergents
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What do you like & hate related to senses?
Mine:
❌ grease on my fingers
❌ ticking clocks; dripping water
✅ sweets
❌ bitter; sour
✅ lots of pillows@autistics @actuallyautistic @youronlyone @youronly.one
#AskingAutistics #AutisticActually #ActuallyAutistics #Autism -
What do you like & hate related to senses?
Mine:
❌ grease on my fingers
❌ ticking clocks; dripping water
✅ sweets
❌ bitter; sour
✅ lots of pillows@autistics @actuallyautistic @youronlyone @youronly.one
#AskingAutistics #AutisticActually #ActuallyAutistics #Autism -
What do you like & hate related to senses?
Mine:
❌ grease on my fingers
❌ ticking clocks; dripping water
✅ sweets
❌ bitter; sour
✅ lots of pillows@autistics @actuallyautistic @youronlyone @youronly.one
#AskingAutistics #AutisticActually #ActuallyAutistics #Autism -
What do you like & hate related to senses?
Mine:
❌ grease on my fingers
❌ ticking clocks; dripping water
✅ sweets
❌ bitter; sour
✅ lots of pillows@autistics @actuallyautistic @youronlyone @youronly.one
#AskingAutistics #AutisticActually #ActuallyAutistics #Autism -
What do you like & hate related to senses?
Mine:
❌ grease on my fingers
❌ ticking clocks; dripping water
✅ sweets
❌ bitter; sour
✅ lots of pillows@autistics @actuallyautistic @youronlyone @youronly.one
#AskingAutistics #AutisticActually #ActuallyAutistics #Autism -
CW: A question for autistic writers
Are there any writers here who are autistic? How do you handle something that you don't understand or can't relate to?
My challenge is, there are so many things I can't grasp because of the way my brain works. For example, I see in novels and TV series/drama that a person loses focus when they hear a very bad news (like their health).
However, in my case, at least from my experiences of hearing bad news, I never once lost focus; instead, I am more focus on listening to the expert (like a doctor). I'm more attentive because in my mind, that's the only way forward.
So, if I want to write a character, I end up with something monotone or too generic. It is not realistic for most people, but it is for me.
Or say, a character who obviously shouldn't do something but they still do it anyway. I'm trying to understand why so I can develop the character, but I'm failing in it.
How do you handle it? Do you have a collection of examples, or watch something and put what you've watched into words?
Thank you!
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A very important reminder for Neurotypical (who call themselves “normal”) people.
Source: https://x.com/NoNonsenseND/status/1815908289059652000
#Neurodivergent #ADHD #Autism #Autistic #AuDHD #ActuallyAutistic #ActuallyAutistics #Autistics #ASD #PWD
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“Japan anime studio draws on talent of autistic artists”
https://www.eaglenews.ph/japan-anime-studio-draws-on-talent-of-autistic-artists
Tags: #ADHD #AuDHD #Autism #AutismSpectrum #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic #Autistics #ActuallyAutistics #AutismAcceptance #AutismAcceptanceMonth #Japan #Neurodivergent
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‘Neural noise’ could be a hidden advantage of the autistic mind
But some research, including our own study, has explored specific advantages in autism. Studies have shown that in some cognitive tasks, autistic people perform better than allistic people.
Autistic people face ignorance, prejudice and discrimination that can harm wellbeing. Poor mental and physical health, reduced social connections and increased “camouflaging” of autistic traits are some of the negative impacts that autistic people face.
So, research underlining and investigating the strengths inherent in autism can help reduce stigma, allow autistic people to be themselves and acknowledge autistic people do not require “fixing”.
The autistic brain is different. It comes with limitations, but it also has its strengths.
https://www.psypost.org/neural-noise-could-be-a-hidden-advantage-of-the-autistic-mind/
#AutismAcceptance #Autism #AutismSpectrum #Autistics #ActuallyAutistics #ActuallyAutistic #Autistic #Neurodivergent @autistics @actuallyautistic
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How do you define the term, “Openly Autistic”?
- Is it an autistic person who rarely masks?
- Or, an autistic who isn’t afraid and/or shy to share that they are actually autistic?
- Or, an autistic person who is active in the autism acceptance “movement” (if we can call it that)?
- Or, perhaps, an autistic who were interviewed and disclosed they’re autistic?
Maybe you have other considerations or criteria that defines “openly autistic” for you?
NOTE: Being openly autistic is a choice and is not for everyone. I think it is safe to say that we all face discrimination, stereotyping, and prejudice for being actually autistics, thus, most choose not to be open about it.
However, recently, there has been a slow growth in numbers of openly autistics, and like with most things in life, we have different criteria, definitions, and cultural considerations.
Thus, I am curious what you think, personally or maybe your immediate environment or organisation, is an openly autistic person. Or, when do you consider one as openly autistic.
Again, this is not about if an autistic person should be openly autistic or not. ^_^
Thank you for your interesting insights!
- Autism symbol by: MissLunaRose12
- License: CC By-SA 4.0 International
- Source: https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Autism_Symbol_Proposed_2.png
https://youronlyoneofcl.wordpress.com/2024/04/09/how-do-you-define-openly-autistic/
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How do you define the term, “Openly Autistic”?
* Is it an autistic person who rarely masks?
* Or, an autistic who isn't afraid and/or shy to share that they are actually autistic?
* Or, an autistic person who is active in the autism acceptance “movement” (if we can call it that)?
* Or, perhaps, an autistic who were interviewed and disclosed they're autistic?Maybe you have other considerations or criteria that defines “openly autistic” for you?
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NOTE: Being openly autistic is a choice and is _not_ for everyone. I think it is safe to say that we all face discrimination, stereotyping, and prejudice for being actually autistics, thus, most choose not to be open about it.
However, recently, there has been a slow growth in numbers of openly autistics, and like with most things in life, we have different criteria, definitions, and cultural considerations.
Thus, I am curious what _you_ think, personally or maybe your immediate environment or organisation, is an openly autistic person. Or, when do you consider one as openly autistic.
Again, this is not about if an autistic person should be openly autistic or not. ^_^
Thank you for your interesting insights!
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* Autism symbol by: MissLunaRose12
* License: CC By-SA 4.0 International
* Source: https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Autism_Symbol_Proposed_2.png---
Tags: #OpenlyAutistic #OpenlyAutistics #ActuallyAutistic #ActuallyAutistics #AskingAutistics #Autistic #Autistics #Autism #AutismSpectrum #AutismAwareness #AutismAcceptance
Groups: @autistics @actuallyautistic
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CW: Don't be overprotective, instead encourage and guide.
Do you have an #autistic child?
As an autistic myself, there are some things I should have tried but did not have the courage to do so.
Thus, my personal advice, is to _encourage_ your autistic (and NT) children to give it a try. Don't shield them because you “love them a lot”. Once they grow up, like in my experience, they will secretly always think, “I should've done this and that and see what happened, and maybe my life would be better”.
Here are some in my case:
* Voice acting. Our teachers, my classmates, and later work colleagues, have always said I can do well in reading. They feel the emotions and get immersed in the story.That's how far I did it. Today, I'm thinking, I should've taken a voice acting lesson, and maybe work as a voice actor.
* Physical labour. I'm not choosy when it comes to job, especially at my current age, a job is a job. (As long as it isn't a crime and immoral, of course.) Sadly, I was shielded from it because they “love me so much and don't want me to go through what they went through in life”.
The result of that wasn't good at all. I got stuck in office and BPO for a long time, and now it is so hard to move careers. My heart is in service and “people watching”, and to this day, it is so hard to get into a hotel-type of work. They either want you to have graduated in Business Administration or Hotel & Restaurant Management courses; or can carry a 30 kg baggage. Both of which I don't have.
I had to take B.S. Mathematics and Computer Science because, well, that's what they told me… office work.
You see, your “love” and not wanting your children to go through what you went through, can be detrimental for your children. It's fine to shield them, but it is also very easy for that shielding to limit your children's future.
This is especially important for us autistics who are already experiencing discrimination at work, and prejudice against hiring an autistic.
Instead of overprotecting your children, work with them. Identify what they want and see what can be done with it. If what they want would lead to “disaster” then nudge them gently to better options. Options, plural, not “what you want”.
There are autistics who can join the workforce, and in various capacities. Encourage us and guide us, but don't be overprotective and showing only one path. It might look good at that point in time, but how about the future?
#Autistics #ActuallyAutistics #ActuallyAutistic #OpenlyAutistic #Autism #AutismSpectrum #AutismAcceptanceMonth #WorldAutismAcceptance #AutismAcceptance
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Ms. #KimSeJeong #김세정 received the "2024 Autism Friendly Award (Individual)" at the 17th Annual World Autism Awareness Day in #Korea.
https://m.blog.naver.com/love_autism/223404620513
As a big fan of hers, I'm glad to know she's an ally!
#Autism #AutismSpectrum #ActuallyAutistics #Autistics #Kpop @autistics @[email protected] @actuallyautistic @[email protected]
* Translation image source: https://twitter.com/_sejeongdays/status/1776729309203595624?s=19
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Today, April 2nd, is also “World Autism Day”. But here in the #Philippines, the entire month of April is “World Autism Acceptance Month”.
#OpenlyAutistic #Autism #AutismSpectrum #Autistc #ActuallyAutistic #Autistics #ActuallyAutistics #Neurodivergent @autistics @actuallyautistic
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CW: Long reply, re: EAW
@nddev @benjamincox @EVDHmn @Shufei @actuallyautistic
Watch it first, don't skip nor drop.
You mentioned, you've only watched the first episode? In Episode 3, IIRC, it was a case about another #Autistic, and she explained to her co-workers that #Autism is a spectrum.
If you judge it by its cover, you'll miss the objective of the show. They cannot possibly pack everything in a single episode. 😉
Secondly. An autistic like her does exist. It is not exaggerated. You are just different from her. 🙂 Saying she's exaggerated is indirectly telling those like her as "you're exaggerating". Think about it.
Third. Many #ActuallyAutistics approved of that show far more than most other shows (#TV and #Movies) about autism.
Fourth. The show also exposed and brought to the surface, the many discrimination, stereotypes, and prejudice, the autistic community faces daily. Even in the realm of romance.
The thing about EAW is that, the audience reaction during its run compliments the show.
For example, when EAW touched on romance, there were audiences who showed their true colours with comments like "people with mental disability should not enter into a relationship nor have kids, they'll only spread their disease", etc.
That kind of people were the target of the show, and the show made them reveal their true colours.
Fifth. The show changed lives. Not everyone, obviously, but it did. Like mine.
I used to mask a lot. I used to hide that I am autistic. But because of EAW, it gave me courage to stand against discrimination, stereotypes, and prejudices; as well as, to be #OpenlyAutistic. It was helpful for my mental health and identity.
I am NOT saying that those who chose to still mask are not doing anything to fight the prejudice. NO. It is a personal matter, and it depends on where you are and your culture. For me, the reason I was masking a lot was because I'm tired of the discrimination. I grew up thinking "something is wrong with me" and "this is the way to do things to be accepted by society".
So, me going open is a fight against the wrong things I personally experienced. It is deeply personal.
Conclusion: Was EAW perfect?
Of course it isn't. However, based on the number of productions I've seen "about autistics" and where "autistic characters were included just for the sake of including", EAW was the best so far.
The actress herself was a psychology graduate. She initially did not want to take on the role because she's fully aware how important it is to get it right, and it is impossible to appeal to autistics, after all, autism is a spectrum. There will always be "that's not how I am" or "that's not how my relative is".
They made her character a mix of various autistic characteristics. In the latter episodes, they even depicted a meltdown and shutdown, and she did a very good job. I highly applauded her for that scene.
Anyway. 😉
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To quote two:
“If your workplace is dominated by extroverts who criticize those who prefer to work alone — or skip after-work cocktails — as “not team players,” it may inadvertently alienate gifted people.”“there is no difference in conforming responses given to high- and low-pressure levels by introverts.”
It feels like they described #autistic me. Then again, I'm an #INFP ( / #Introvert) type of autistic, so it fits.
In addition, I experienced that “not team players” from some managers from a certain company years ago. I don't join after-work cocktails, or any party, and was branded as “not a team player” by some of those in position. I was actually very glad I did not because I later found out they force people to drink, and I can't because I have #gout (other than the fact, you can't make me drink if I don't want to).
Anyway. What about you, my fellow #ActuallyAutistics? Or, are you an extrovert autistic yet still find similarities from the article and studies mentioned in it?
=> Source and originally shared by: https://boing.world/@denny/112009527257501232
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Re: HB9787 or the “Neurodivergent People's Rights Act”
Copy: https://hrep-website.s3.ap-southeast-1.amazonaws.com/legisdocs/basic_19/HB09787.pdf
> For this reason, autistic communities prefer the use of identity-first language.
I'll be surprised if #Autism NGOs doesn't lobby against that.
The “person-first” language is strong in many members of autism NGOs in the country.
Majority of it are a “go” for me. I'm just 50-50 on the database part. While I understand why, it lacks requirement on ensuring the privacy and security of such a database; and a bulleted list and details on what that data will be used for. It should be specific, not broad. Otherwise, I think it is best not to build that database.
We've already seen how useless the #SIMregistration is. They pushed for it simply to collect data. They used scams and spams as a reason, and though people were warned against the uselessness of #SIMreg, the majority fell for it. (We're getting 100% more scams and spams after it was implemented.)
^_^
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Additional tags; #Neurodiversity #Neurodivergent #ADHD #AuDHD #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic #Autistics #ActuallyAutistics
Shared with the groups: @autistics @actuallyautistic @pinoy @[email protected] @[email protected]
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To my fellow #ActuallyAutistics who are also into programming. Can you handle #RegEx / #RegExp?
Up to how much complexity?
When I was younger, it was easy. Today, I have to use a test tool! ^_^;;
#Autistics #Autism #ActuallyAutistic #Autistic #AutismSpectrum #AskingAutistics
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@obrerx @actuallyautistic In my case, I would definitely say it's more disorder than not. That said, I have seen that not all #ActuallyAutistics have found it to be so. So I'd say that the use of disorder really depends on each person's individual situation, and how being #ActuallyAutistic impacts a persons life. I guess I'd sum my perspective on it up as saying, not all autistics have ASD, but some of us do.
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Two stereotypes about us #Autistics is we like #PrimeNumbers and #EvenNumbers. I'm a “yes” and a “no”.
I do like Prime numbers and Odd numbers:
* 17
* 13
* 717 is very special.
* 17 is the 7th Prime
* 1 is an odd number
* 7 is an odd number
* 17 is an odd number
* 1 + 7 = 8, although an even number, it symbolises infinity and eternity, and us #ActuallyAutistics13 is also special.
* A Prime
* An Odd
* A Fibonacci numberAnd depending on whom you ask:
* The 8th Fibonacci number
* The 7th Fibonacci numberIronically:
* The anniversary of my first romantic relationship was on: 1997-07-17. It was my first love who picked that, and she had no idea what my favourite numbers are.
* My height is 175 cm or 5'7.5" to 5'8.5" (depending on whom you ask).
* Favourite time of the day: 07:00 and 19:00 (7pm). 19 is the 8th Prime. (There's 8 again.)And I'm #OpenlyAutistic. ^_^
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How about you? What two #Autism stereotypes is you and not you?
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“Autistic Masking Is A Survival Mechanism Until It’s A Threat To Survival”
“It’s the environments we move in that need to change urgently”
A good read.
https://justinel999.medium.com/people-dont-know-i-m-autistic-but-i-m-not-masking-aa84a6c7c07a
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So, this is what's happening to me: #AutisticBurnout
It describes it as:
“Autistic burnout is a syndrome conceptualized as resulting from chronic life stress and a mismatch of expectations and abilities without adequate supports. It is characterized by pervasive, long-term (typically 3+ months) exhaustion, loss of function, and reduced tolerance to stimulus.” ~Raymaker et al, 2020Typically the Autistic person in question will still have multiple demands in their life that require cognitive resources, despite having little to no resources left to give. Life goes on, as they say.
Read the rest here: https://emergentdivergence.com/2023/05/12/creating-autistic-suffering-what-is-atypical-burnout/
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Hat tip to: @emergentdivergence.bsky.social from the #ATprotocol network.
What do you think? Anyone else?
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10 things you should know about #Autistic people and #Autism
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZXjJVrm1Jw
(note: I am now #OpenlyAutistic thanks to the #Kdrama #ExtraordinaryAttorneyWoo )
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63 common #Autistic traits you never realised were signs of #Autism
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FyoGpebQGYE
A very good list.
That's 48 out of 63 for me. ^_^
How about you?
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Season 04 Episode 11 of Fringe featured the meeting of the two Agent Astrid Farnsworth, one an autistic and the other neurotypical.
This episode aired on 2012-02-04 and entitled “Making Angels”.
The autistic Agent Astrid Farnsworth came from the “Amber World” (the parallel world), and the NT Astrid is from the “Prime World” (our world basically).
The character is, I would say “basic” as far as portrayal of an autistic person. Some would say it's a stereotype. But I like her nonetheless because it was not exaggerated, and the focus was not on her autism instead it was about her many skills.
And in this episode, we saw through her that autistic people are humans too. That we have our own struggles, we do cry and feel emotions (contrary to the claims that we lack it), and we just want to live like everyone else.
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The autistic Astrid was introduced in season 2 (2009–2010). The actress, Jasika Nicole, was praised for her performance of both the neurotypical and the autistic Agent Astrid.
How about you, what do you think of her character? How was the performance (specifically with autistic Astrid)?
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This is a very good read for everyone, autistics and non-autistics, alike: “Why does masking autism contribute to burnout?” By Eloise Stark, an Autistic Ph.D. candidate from the University of Oxford, who was diagnosed at age 27.
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“I am who I am, I’m autistic and proud, I’m different, and for the first time in my life, I’m okay with that.”
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“Following the attack, I developed a recurrence of mental-health problems from my youth. I grew more and more unwell. I was anxious, obsessive, depressed, and began to have suicidal feelings. I was overwhelmed by the world, by just being, and didn’t know how to cope with it.”
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“Masking autism wasn’t a sustainable or safe option. I was admitted to the hospital, yet every clinician disagreed on my diagnosis. Most remarked that they felt they were ‘missing something’.”
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“‘All your life you have been masking autism.’”
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(me: Yep, that's me.)
Read her journey: https://www.urevolution.com/en-eu/blogs/magazine/masking-autism-nearly-killed-her
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