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#LimitePersonale #PeoplePleasing #Psihologie #AutonomieEmoțională #PaginaDePsihologie

People pleasing is a big part of my personality, for better or for worse. This has recently gotten in the way of my health.

With my spine surgeon, he wanted me to be using an external spine stimulator. He also wanted me to be doing regular physical therapy. For the former, I now have a gastric stimulator where it's no longer possible to use it. And for physical therapy, time and time again it has been proven it affects my ME/CFS post-exertional malaise as well as the whole-body-pain part of my Sjogren's for up to a week after one one-hour session.

Anyway, I was supposed to be getting regular monitoring every 6-8 weeks from the surgeon for a year. But I was so concerned in disappointing him in the above that I pulled away. I think some changes have happened to my spine that need to be watched and possibly addressed.

So I made peace that, although he's a fellow human with feelings, this is a professional relationship that is goal driven. I can't be concerned about disappointing him. Feels like some big personal growth here to understand boundaries better! 😀

@autistics #ActuallyAutistics #PeoplePleasing #PersonalBoundaries

People pleasing is a big part of my personality, for better or for worse. This has recently gotten in the way of my health.

With my spine surgeon, he wanted me to be using an external spine stimulator. He also wanted me to be doing regular physical therapy. For the former, I now have a gastric stimulator where it's no longer possible to use it. And for physical therapy, time and time again it has been proven it affects my ME/CFS post-exertional malaise as well as the whole-body-pain part of my Sjogren's for up to a week after one one-hour session.

Anyway, I was supposed to be getting regular monitoring every 6-8 weeks from the surgeon for a year. But I was so concerned in disappointing him in the above that I pulled away. I think some changes have happened to my spine that need to be watched and possibly addressed.

So I made peace that, although he's a fellow human with feelings, this is a professional relationship that is goal driven. I can't be concerned about disappointing him. Feels like some big personal growth here to understand boundaries better! 😀

@autistics #ActuallyAutistics #PeoplePleasing #PersonalBoundaries

People pleasing is a big part of my personality, for better or for worse. This has recently gotten in the way of my health.

With my spine surgeon, he wanted me to be using an external spine stimulator. He also wanted me to be doing regular physical therapy. For the former, I now have a gastric stimulator where it's no longer possible to use it. And for physical therapy, time and time again it has been proven it affects my ME/CFS post-exertional malaise as well as the whole-body-pain part of my Sjogren's for up to a week after one one-hour session.

Anyway, I was supposed to be getting regular monitoring every 6-8 weeks from the surgeon for a year. But I was so concerned in disappointing him in the above that I pulled away. I think some changes have happened to my spine that need to be watched and possibly addressed.

So I made peace that, although he's a fellow human with feelings, this is a professional relationship that is goal driven. I can't be concerned about disappointing him. Feels like some big personal growth here to understand boundaries better! 😀

@autistics #ActuallyAutistics #PeoplePleasing #PersonalBoundaries

People pleasing is a big part of my personality, for better or for worse. This has recently gotten in the way of my health.

With my spine surgeon, he wanted me to be using an external spine stimulator. He also wanted me to be doing regular physical therapy. For the former, I now have a gastric stimulator where it's no longer possible to use it. And for physical therapy, time and time again it has been proven it affects my ME/CFS post-exertional malaise as well as the whole-body-pain part of my Sjogren's for up to a week after one one-hour session.

Anyway, I was supposed to be getting regular monitoring every 6-8 weeks from the surgeon for a year. But I was so concerned in disappointing him in the above that I pulled away. I think some changes have happened to my spine that need to be watched and possibly addressed.

So I made peace that, although he's a fellow human with feelings, this is a professional relationship that is goal driven. I can't be concerned about disappointing him. Feels like some big personal growth here to understand boundaries better! 😀

@autistics #ActuallyAutistics #PeoplePleasing #PersonalBoundaries

People pleasing is a big part of my personality, for better or for worse. This has recently gotten in the way of my health.

With my spine surgeon, he wanted me to be using an external spine stimulator. He also wanted me to be doing regular physical therapy. For the former, I now have a gastric stimulator where it's no longer possible to use it. And for physical therapy, time and time again it has been proven it affects my ME/CFS post-exertional malaise as well as the whole-body-pain part of my Sjogren's for up to a week after one one-hour session.

Anyway, I was supposed to be getting regular monitoring every 6-8 weeks from the surgeon for a year. But I was so concerned in disappointing him in the above that I pulled away. I think some changes have happened to my spine that need to be watched and possibly addressed.

So I made peace that, although he's a fellow human with feelings, this is a professional relationship that is goal driven. I can't be concerned about disappointing him. Feels like some big personal growth here to understand boundaries better! 😀

@autistics #ActuallyAutistics #PeoplePleasing #PersonalBoundaries

Eingesperrt in den goldenen Käfig der eigenen Erwartungen? Als People Pleaser fühlen Sie sich oft überfordert, die Bedürfnisse anderer zu erfüllen. Doch wie lernen Sie, auch für sich selbst einzustehen und https://bit.ly/4hkgLR0 #Achtsamkeit #Entscheidung #Glück #Mut #PeoplePleaser #PeoplePleasing #psychotHHerapie

Eingesperrt in den goldenen Käfig der eigenen Erwartungen? Als People Pleaser fühlen Sie sich oft überfordert, die Bedürfnisse anderer zu erfüllen. Doch wie lernen Sie, auch für sich selbst einzustehen und https://bit.ly/4hkgLR0 #Achtsamkeit #Entscheidung #Glück #Mut #PeoplePleaser #PeoplePleasing #psychotHHerapie

Eingesperrt in den goldenen Käfig der eigenen Erwartungen? Als People Pleaser fühlen Sie sich oft überfordert, die Bedürfnisse anderer zu erfüllen. Doch wie lernen Sie, auch für sich selbst einzustehen und https://bit.ly/4hkgLR0 #Achtsamkeit #Entscheidung #Glück #Mut #PeoplePleaser #PeoplePleasing #psychotHHerapie

Eingesperrt in den goldenen Käfig der eigenen Erwartungen? Als People Pleaser fühlen Sie sich oft überfordert, die Bedürfnisse anderer zu erfüllen. Doch wie lernen Sie, auch für sich selbst einzustehen und https://bit.ly/4hkgLR0 #Achtsamkeit #Entscheidung #Glück #Mut #PeoplePleaser #PeoplePleasing #psychotHHerapie

Eingesperrt in den goldenen Käfig der eigenen Erwartungen? Als People Pleaser fühlen Sie sich oft überfordert, die Bedürfnisse anderer zu erfüllen. Doch wie lernen Sie, auch für sich selbst einzustehen und https://bit.ly/4hkgLR0 #Achtsamkeit #Entscheidung #Glück #Mut #PeoplePleaser #PeoplePleasing #psychotHHerapie

Ever worry someone’s mad at you… when they’re not? 🙈 Are You Mad at Me? by Meg Josephson unpacks the fawn response—the people-pleasing trap so many of us live in. I listened, cried, and learned how to come home to myself. #BookReview #Nonfiction #PeoplePleasing

https://viewsshewrites.com/are-you-mad-at-me/

Ever worry someone’s mad at you… when they’re not? 🙈 Are You Mad at Me? by Meg Josephson unpacks the fawn response—the people-pleasing trap so many of us live in. I listened, cried, and learned how to come home to myself. #BookReview #Nonfiction #PeoplePleasing

https://viewsshewrites.com/are-you-mad-at-me/

Ever worry someone’s mad at you… when they’re not? 🙈 Are You Mad at Me? by Meg Josephson unpacks the fawn response—the people-pleasing trap so many of us live in. I listened, cried, and learned how to come home to myself. #BookReview #Nonfiction #PeoplePleasing

https://viewsshewrites.com/are-you-mad-at-me/

Ever worry someone’s mad at you… when they’re not? 🙈 Are You Mad at Me? by Meg Josephson unpacks the fawn response—the people-pleasing trap so many of us live in. I listened, cried, and learned how to come home to myself. #BookReview #Nonfiction #PeoplePleasing

https://viewsshewrites.com/are-you-mad-at-me/

Ever worry someone’s mad at you… when they’re not? 🙈 Are You Mad at Me? by Meg Josephson unpacks the fawn response—the people-pleasing trap so many of us live in. I listened, cried, and learned how to come home to myself. #BookReview #Nonfiction #PeoplePleasing

https://viewsshewrites.com/are-you-mad-at-me/

If you’re a people pleaser, “let me think about that” is one of your best allies.
Because your impulse is to go along with the other, often at your expense, remind yourself that you don’t need to give a response on the spot.
Take your time to ensure your choices match your values

By @DrLeahKatz

#healthyboundaries #selfcare #selfcompassion #mentalwellness #peoplepleasing #ymhc

If you’re a people pleaser, “let me think about that” is one of your best allies.
Because your impulse is to go along with the other, often at your expense, remind yourself that you don’t need to give a response on the spot.
Take your time to ensure your choices match your values

By @DrLeahKatz

#healthyboundaries #selfcare #selfcompassion #mentalwellness #peoplepleasing #ymhc

If you’re a people pleaser, “let me think about that” is one of your best allies.
Because your impulse is to go along with the other, often at your expense, remind yourself that you don’t need to give a response on the spot.
Take your time to ensure your choices match your values

By @DrLeahKatz

#healthyboundaries #selfcare #selfcompassion #mentalwellness #peoplepleasing #ymhc

If you’re a people pleaser, “let me think about that” is one of your best allies.
Because your impulse is to go along with the other, often at your expense, remind yourself that you don’t need to give a response on the spot.
Take your time to ensure your choices match your values

By @DrLeahKatz

#healthyboundaries #selfcare #selfcompassion #mentalwellness #peoplepleasing #ymhc

If you’re a people pleaser, “let me think about that” is one of your best allies.
Because your impulse is to go along with the other, often at your expense, remind yourself that you don’t need to give a response on the spot.
Take your time to ensure your choices match your values

By @DrLeahKatz

#healthyboundaries #selfcare #selfcompassion #mentalwellness #peoplepleasing #ymhc

I tried to share this on other socmeds, but maybe the fediverse sees my vision.

Official theme song of Therapists for people pleasers:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ndt_iQ5EGZ4

(funny enough this is also the theme song of one of my OCs who uses those skills to get people into drugs and worse. I like that this song can be interpreted in completely different ways)

I tried to share this on other socmeds, but maybe the fediverse sees my vision.

Official theme song of Therapists for people pleasers:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ndt_iQ5EGZ4

(funny enough this is also the theme song of one of my OCs who uses those skills to get people into drugs and worse. I like that this song can be interpreted in completely different ways)

I tried to share this on other socmeds, but maybe the fediverse sees my vision.

Official theme song of Therapists for people pleasers:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ndt_iQ5EGZ4

(funny enough this is also the theme song of one of my OCs who uses those skills to get people into drugs and worse. I like that this song can be interpreted in completely different ways)

I tried to share this on other socmeds, but maybe the fediverse sees my vision.

Official theme song of Therapists for people pleasers:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ndt_iQ5EGZ4

(funny enough this is also the theme song of one of my OCs who uses those skills to get people into drugs and worse. I like that this song can be interpreted in completely different ways)

I tried to share this on other socmeds, but maybe the fediverse sees my vision.

Official theme song of Therapists for people pleasers:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ndt_iQ5EGZ4

(funny enough this is also the theme song of one of my OCs who uses those skills to get people into drugs and worse. I like that this song can be interpreted in completely different ways)

Wisdom
#adhd #comic #adhdcomic #abuse #selfcare #peoplepleasing #anxiety

Wisdom
#adhd #comic #adhdcomic #abuse #selfcare #peoplepleasing #anxiety

Wisdom
#adhd #comic #adhdcomic #abuse #selfcare #peoplepleasing #anxiety

Wisdom
#adhd #comic #adhdcomic #abuse #selfcare #peoplepleasing #anxiety

Wisdom
#adhd #comic #adhdcomic #abuse #selfcare #peoplepleasing #anxiety

If Nobody Was Watching, Would You Still Make the Same Choices?
https://wp.me/p84YjG-acw
#SelfAwareness #choices
#PeoplePleasing #awareness
#PersonalIdentity
#LivingForYourself
#MentalClarity
#LifeChoices
#HumanBehavior #zsoltzsemba

https://zsoltzsemba.com/if-nobody-was-watching-would-you-still-make-the-same-choices/

Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power "You can’t set boundaries with others until you believe you’re worthy of more than the bare minimum." Sale: $19.99 to $1.99 by Hailey Magee Rating: 4.8/5 (195 Reviews) #SelfHelp #Boundaries #PeoplePleasing #MentalHealth #Wellness #PersonalGrowth #BookSky

Stop People Pleasing: And Find...

Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power "You can’t set boundaries with others until you believe you’re worthy of more than the bare minimum." Sale: $19.99 to $1.99 by Hailey Magee Rating: 4.8/5 (195 Reviews) #SelfHelp #Boundaries #PeoplePleasing #MentalHealth #Wellness #PersonalGrowth #BookSky

Stop People Pleasing: And Find...

Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power "You can’t set boundaries with others until you believe you’re worthy of more than the bare minimum." Sale: $19.99 to $1.99 by Hailey Magee Rating: 4.8/5 (195 Reviews) #SelfHelp #Boundaries #PeoplePleasing #MentalHealth #Wellness #PersonalGrowth #BookSky

Stop People Pleasing: And Find...

Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power "You can’t set boundaries with others until you believe you’re worthy of more than the bare minimum." Sale: $19.99 to $1.99 by Hailey Magee Rating: 4.8/5 (195 Reviews) #SelfHelp #Boundaries #PeoplePleasing #MentalHealth #Wellness #PersonalGrowth #BookSky

Stop People Pleasing: And Find...

Eingesperrt in den goldenen Käfig der eigenen Erwartungen? Als People Pleaser fühlen Sie sich oft überfordert, die Bedürfnisse anderer zu erfüllen. Doch wie lernen Sie, auch für sich selbst einzustehen und https://bit.ly/4hkgLR0 #Achtsamkeit #Entscheidung #Glück #Mut #PeoplePleaser #PeoplePleasing #psychotHHerapie

Shut Down Your Inner Critic: Build Real Confidence Without Caring What “They” Think
https://wp.me/p84YjG-9ZY
#QuietConfidence #Overthinking #SelfGaslighting #InnerCritic #zsoltzsemba #Anxiety #Confidence #PeoplePleasing #MindsetShift # #SocialAnxietyFix #AuthenticLiving

https://zsoltzsemba.com/build-real-confidence-without-caring-what-they-think/

Shut Down Your Inner Critic: Build Real Confidence Without Caring What “They” Think
https://wp.me/p84YjG-9ZY
#QuietConfidence #Overthinking #SelfGaslighting #InnerCritic #zsoltzsemba #Anxiety #Confidence #PeoplePleasing #MindsetShift # #SocialAnxietyFix #AuthenticLiving

https://zsoltzsemba.com/build-real-confidence-without-caring-what-they-think/

Shut Down Your Inner Critic: Build Real Confidence Without Caring What “They” Think
https://wp.me/p84YjG-9ZY
#QuietConfidence #Overthinking #SelfGaslighting #InnerCritic #zsoltzsemba #Anxiety #Confidence #PeoplePleasing #MindsetShift # #SocialAnxietyFix #AuthenticLiving

https://zsoltzsemba.com/build-real-confidence-without-caring-what-they-think/

Shut Down Your Inner Critic: Build Real Confidence Without Caring What “They” Think
https://wp.me/p84YjG-9ZY
#QuietConfidence #Overthinking #SelfGaslighting #InnerCritic #zsoltzsemba #Anxiety #Confidence #PeoplePleasing #MindsetShift # #SocialAnxietyFix #AuthenticLiving

https://zsoltzsemba.com/build-real-confidence-without-caring-what-they-think/

Shut Down Your Inner Critic: Build Real Confidence Without Caring What “They” Think
https://wp.me/p84YjG-9ZY
#QuietConfidence #Overthinking #SelfGaslighting #InnerCritic #zsoltzsemba #Anxiety #Confidence #PeoplePleasing #MindsetShift # #SocialAnxietyFix #AuthenticLiving

https://zsoltzsemba.com/build-real-confidence-without-caring-what-they-think/

Child counselor shares the one 'sweet' habit in kids that's a potential red flag

https://fed.brid.gy/r/https://www.upworthy.com/cheer-up-mommy-red-flag

Child counselor shares the one 'sweet' habit in kids that's a potential red flag

https://web.brid.gy/r/https://www.upworthy.com/cheer-up-mommy-red-flag

Child counselor shares the one 'sweet' habit in kids that's a potential red flag

https://web.brid.gy/r/https://www.upworthy.com/cheer-up-mommy-red-flag

Child counselor shares the one 'sweet' habit in kids that's a potential red flag

https://web.brid.gy/r/https://www.upworthy.com/cheer-up-mommy-red-flag

#ADHS kann sein: #Masking und #Peoplepleasing in Beziehungen …

https://taz.de/ADHS-Masking-und-Beziehung/!6126263/

#ADHS kann sein: #Masking und #Peoplepleasing in Beziehungen …

https://taz.de/ADHS-Masking-und-Beziehung/!6126263/

#ADHS kann sein: #Masking und #Peoplepleasing in Beziehungen …

https://taz.de/ADHS-Masking-und-Beziehung/!6126263/

#ADHS kann sein: #Masking und #Peoplepleasing in Beziehungen …

https://taz.de/ADHS-Masking-und-Beziehung/!6126263/