#transjourney — Public Fediverse posts

The past year has been fun as I have found my style and embraced my expression. However, in 2026 I need to get a bit more stability especially if I am going to continue to progress in my transition journey and grow my relationship. #Trans #Transfem #Transjourney #2026 #newyear #mtf #Transgender

https://narrativecuriosity.co/2026-is-going-to-be-about-finding-some-stability/

Getting back from New Zealand I have been reflecting on how much has changed since my last overseas trip which helped me have such a more positive experience. #Trans #Transjoy #Tgirl #Transjourney #Translife #Transgendertravel

https://narrativecuriosity.co/a-much-better-travelling-experience/

I've been meaning to start a manga-style webcomic for years. I got inspired by @[email protected] and many other artists, and like them, I also want to share a little bit of me and my life.

Unfortunately, although I wanted to hand-draw every illustration, I no longer have the time, energy, or ability (or money...) to commit. Hence, I will rely on AI for now. The last time I was serious about drawing and art was 20 years ago! I would like to pick up drawing again, yet my ADHD brain needs to see quick results to stay motivated.

Anyway, like many trans people, I came to a point in my life when I finally cracked my egg, though this happened much later in life for many reasons. Raised Catholic (#recoveringcatholic), in a very misogynistic and patriarchal society, my real self had to hide very deep, so much so that I lost her for many, many years. Unfortunately, I did not have the vocabulary to describe what I was feeling and experiencing throughout my childhood and into adulthood. Yet, I have been in therapy for almost a decade now, which helped me begin to let go of guilt and shame and accept my feelings.

I am an avid anime fan, and for some reason I did not fully comprehend at the time, I especially enjoyed watching gender-bend series, which at one point felt like a guilty pleasure.

It all began when I went to visit my folks during summer break, in a small town where there is not much to do except binge-watch anime the whole time.

This is where it all began...

#eggcracked #transjourney #webcomic

Starting a new relationship is terrifying and as a transwoman it really can be a leap of faith. However, a year on I have defiantly found a new source of joy and support which has me looking to the future.

#trans #tramsfem #transjourney #relationships #dating #mtf #transgender #transwoman

https://narrativecuriosity.co/finding-joy-in-something-different-starting-a-new-relationship/

A few years down the road...

This was one of the first dresses I ever had the courage to try on instore back in 2022. I remember having one of the biggest hits of euphoria in that dressing room that I just had to buy it. It took me another 4 months or so to work up the courage to wear it.

It's been a few years now, and I have a wardrobe full of cute dresses, but this one still has special meaning for me and is a good reminder of how far I've come.

#trans #transjoy #transition #tgirl #dollsofınstagram #transfem #lgbtqia #lgbtqiafriendly #transjourney #Transisbeautiful #glowup #transglowup #mtf #mtftransgender #transwoman

It's getting close to my birthday, and I can't help looking back at some old photos. While some may find this triggering and I admit there are definitely those that cause me a bit of pain looking back shows not only my progress on this journey but also the things that don't change, the things that are always going to be part of my identity. #Trans #transgender #Transjourney #transition #transfem #mtf #transglowup #glowup #transexperiences #transjoy #change #identity

https://narrativecuriosity.co/?p=2568

Give yourself a break: the ongoing challenge of showing myself compassion.

I have been stuggling to show myself compassion. Instead, I tend to blame myself when things don't go well and have unreasonable expectations. It's a mindset I need to break by taking some small steps, and part of that is talking about it.

#trans #transition #transjourney #hardtimes #self-esteem #mentalhealth #bekindtoyourself #mtf

https://narrativecuriosity.co/give-yourself-a-break-the-ongoing-challenge-of-showing-myself-compassion/

I used to be way too serious...

It used to be an effort to smile for the camera. Most of the time, it just looked fake, so I just had to perfect a cool stare.

Nowadays, it is hard to wipe the smile from my face. My whole mindset is different. Just looking at myself in the mirror sometimes leaves me on a high.

#tgirl #trans #transfem #transgender #transwoman #transjourney #lgbtfriendly #glowup #transisbeautiful #transjoy #mtf #mtftransgender
https://www.instagram.com/p/DPGXxc_EqPk/?igsh=bnBodHVsem5zZmoz

I started a new insta as I feel like there might be something going on @jeanieb_nc as it is just so stagnant. At least this one doesn't have my ex-wife checking on me or family members who can message me about stories they find insulting because she thinks they have all been amazing. Means I might have a bit more freedom. So help me build some followers and encourage me to keep sharing.

#trans #transisbeautiful #transjourney #socialmedia #transgender #mtf #mtftransgender #transroghts #transexperiences

https://www.instagram.com/curiousjeanieb?igsh=MWppeHpkcDkxejRhdw==

As a teacher, I get a yearly school photo and have found they are a good marker of my journey.

Top left 2018: 4 yrs before coming out
Top right 2023: 9 out but still boymoding at work
Bottom left 2024: new job completely out & 2mths hrt
Bottom right 2025: 1.2 yrs hrt & I like what I see. #trans #transisbeautiful #transjoy #transjourney #mtf

Deciding to date was a dauting and terrifying decision but a necessary step in rebuilding my life and moving on. Filled with nerves and being overly cautious, I found myself exploring the online #LGBTQIA dating scene. Thankfully, it has worked out for the best. #Trans #Transjourney #dating #LGBT

https://narrativecuriosity.co/venturing-in-the-scary-unknown-deciding-to-enter-the-dating-game/

The ability to express myself and explore different parts of my identity without caring so much about what people think has been a huge part of my journey and continual work in progress. Currently, I love the chance to show a bit of attitude on the weekends, especially if it means testing out something new. #trans #transjoy #transisbeautiful #transjourney #transexperince #mtf

It's been 3 years since I came out as trans, and it continues to be a challenging journey. The last 12 months especially I have seen some new lows but hopefully it has put me on a more positive trajectory for the future. #Trans #transjourney #Translife #Seperation #transexperience #movingon

https://narrativecuriosity.co/my-transition-journey-the-hardest-year-so-far/

So far 2025 has been filled with firsts where I am constantly adapting to life. It has broaght pletny of challenges and some amazing positives but I find I need to remind myself that some things take time. #Trans #Translife #parenting #Life #Transjourney #Changes #LGBTQIA #thingstaketime

https://narrativecuriosity.co/it-takes-time-to-adjust/

After the year I have had, it seemed at times hard to think about getting to Christmas, but here we are. It's great to be able to have a laugh and celebrate with family today. Hopefully, anyone else struggling at the moment can also find a little joy. #trans #transjourney #transjoy #transisbeautiful #christmas #christmas2024

It has been two years of sleeping on a temporary / 'fold out' bed before 6 months living with my parents and working through a separation. It's been a rough journey, but I feel like I am starting to move on and build something new. Moving into my own place with a proper bed this week has been a massive step forward. #trans #movingon #relationships #separation #transjourney #transexperiences #lgbtqia

I'm breaking in another new skirt tonight for my new annual transversery celebration with a couple of friends. #trans #Transgender #transjoy #transisbeautiful #transjourney

Celebrating 1 year on HRT 🎉. A little over 2 years ago, this was the first dress I wore out in public, all self-conscious and full of nervous energy. Now, I'm definitely rocking a lot more confidence and feel so much more comfortable in my own skin. #transjoy #trans #transjourney #transisbeautiful #Transgender #mtf #hrt

After discussing dysphoria, it was only right that my next video, this #TransAwarenessWeek, was focusing on something positive, like exploring the Gender Euphoria and the impact these positive moments can have. #trans #transjourney #gendereuphoria #lgbtqia

https://youtu.be/GfYesVWcLmE

It's #transawareness week, so I am sharing more of my experiences and discussing some big topics over on YouTube. First, let's talk #genderdysphoria, everything from triggers, and how things change to strategies I use to get through the bad times. #trans #transisbeautyful #Transjourney #transexperiences

https://youtu.be/cuCxAiHB0R8?si=HlwK2LwKNVwkY-Ja

Today marks one year on HRT, and what a wild ride it’s been! 🏳️‍⚧️

From walking into my PCP’s office expecting to be placed on a long waiting list, to navigating moments of frustration and uncertainty, it’s incredible to think about how far I’ve come. I started this journey thinking it would take months just to get started, but fate had other plans. A last-minute consultation, my therapist’s support, and a gender dysphoria diagnosis all aligned, allowing me to take my first steps toward becoming my true self.

Starting HRT wasn’t without its challenges. Every dosage change brought migraines, and my emotions were all over the place, but it also opened up a part of myself I’d kept hidden. Crying over the smallest things has become more common, but it’s a reminder that I’m feeling everything more deeply, more honestly. My therapist has been my guide, but at the end of the day, I’ve had to walk this path myself—breaking free from gender norms and expectations one step at a time.

Sharing my journey with friends and family has been mostly welcomed, though not without its bumps. Still, those who truly matter have shown me such love and support, and that’s what I hold onto. 🥰

Dysphoria is tough—it’s brutal, really. But HRT has helped me manage it. I’ve had to mourn the female childhood I never got to live, but I’m learning to embrace my inner girl and listen to her needs. This is just the beginning. My body and mind are evolving, and there’s still so much ahead.

Here’s to many more years of becoming who I’ve always been inside, and finally seeing the real me in the mirror. The core of me hasn’t changed—just freed from layers that never belonged. ✨

#TransJourney #HRTAnniversary #LivingMyTruth #QueerAndProud #AuthenticSelf

Visiting my bestie at the pub yesterday, I wore the same shirt I used when I first posed the question to myself over two years ago: "Will I feel better about myself if I see myself as a woman?" Inspired me to compare these two photos, taken two and a half years apart (March 2022 vs. September 2024).

What a difference. In these two and a half years I've started my transition, got officially diagnosed, began lasering my facial and body hair, started biomods and body mods, faced my inner demons and dealt with them, and found an incredible community of people, especially trans folks, who support each other. Most importantly, I finally found happiness - and with it a newly found depth of love for my Tigress, best friend, lover, partner in crime, mom to our son, and wife.

Only regret is that I didn't find the strength inside to begin earlier.

#transgender #transjourney #TransJoy

Exciting news: I finally got my SRS consultation scheduled! 🎉 It's set for December 2025, so it's a bit over a year away, but I’m one step closer to where I want to be. Feeling hopeful and ready for what’s to come. 😊

#MilestoneMoment #TransJourney #FeelingHopeful #StepByStep

That moment when you get hit with dysphoria and start deleting every photo of your pre-transition self on social media... because apparently, pretending it never happened is the way to go.

#Dysphoria #Trans #transjourney

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Neo's journey in The Matrix is a powerful allegory for the transgender experience, illustrating the transformative power of self-realization, the importance of supportive relationships, and the challenges of facing denial and betrayal. My own journey parallels Neo's in many ways, with the unwavering support of my wife, the guidance of my therapist, the acceptance of my chosen family, and the emotional challenges posed by unsupportive individuals. Together, these experiences highlight the resilience and empowerment that come from embracing one's true identity and finding strength in supportive communities.

Youtube video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KGzSGkmV5e8

#TransJourney #MatrixMetaphor #TransAllegory #SupportiveCommunity

(please make sure to begin reading from the first post of this thread)

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Neo and Myself: The Initial Realization

Just like Neo, who senses something fundamentally wrong in his life, I experienced a deep sense of unease and disconnection from the gender roles assigned to me at birth. This feeling was compounded by societal expectations and traditional upbringing, much like the artificial reality imposed by the Matrix. The realization of being transgender was akin to Neo's awakening from the Matrix, a moment of clarity that set the stage for a transformative journey.

Trinity and My Wife: Unwavering Support and Recognition

In The Matrix, Trinity sees Neo's true potential long before he does. Similarly, my wife recognized my true self well before I fully understood my identity. Her unwavering support and love were crucial, much like Trinity's belief in Neo. My wife belongs to the queer community, and her understanding and acceptance provided a safe space for me to explore my identity. During my most difficult moments, her steadfast presence mirrored Trinity's role in Neo's journey, offering encouragement and affirmation that empowered me to embrace my true self.

Morpheus and My Therapist: Guiding Towards Self-Realization

Morpheus serves as a mentor to Neo, guiding him toward self-realization and encouraging him to "free his mind." My therapist played a similar role in my journey. As an expert with extensive experience with transgender patients and a member of the queer community, she motivated me to break free from traditional gender roles and explore my true identity. Her encouragement and guidance were instrumental in helping me navigate the complexities of my transition, much like Morpheus's role in helping Neo understand and accept his destiny.

The Crew of the Nebuchadnezzar and My Chosen Family: Unconditional Acceptance and Support

The crew of the Nebuchadnezzar, with their immediate and unconditional acceptance of Neo, represents the supportive network that is crucial for transgender individuals. My chosen family provided similar support, offering words of encouragement and recognizing my struggles. Their acceptance and love were pivotal, much like the crew's support for Neo, guiding me through my journey and reinforcing my sense of belonging and identity.

Cypher and My Unsupportive Friend: Denial and Betrayal

Cypher's betrayal in The Matrix represents the antagonistic forces that deny and invalidate one's true identity. My experience with an unsupportive friend closely mirrors this betrayal. Despite pretending to be a true friend, she invalidated my feelings, filled me with self-doubt, and caused emotional distress. Her refusal to accept my identity and preference for maintaining the status quo over my emotional and mental health was akin to Cypher's preference for the comfortable illusion of the Matrix over the harsh reality. This betrayal underscored the challenges of facing invalidation from those who are supposed to be supportive. --continues

#TransJourney #MatrixMetaphor #TransAllegory #SupportiveCommunity

Unraveling the Matrix: Parallels Between Neo's Journey and My Transgender Experience

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I had already seen many videos describing how The Matrix is a reference to the transgender experience. Out of curiosity, I decided to watch the movie again to see how many references I could find, and I was surprised to discover so many. However, it wasn’t until I watched the YouTube video "The Matrix Is Intrinsically Trans," which is an hour and a half long, that I realized I had only scratched the surface. This video delved deeply into the transgender metaphors embedded in the film, providing a thorough analysis that illuminated new insights.

The video explores The Matrix as a profound metaphor for the transgender experience, a perspective confirmed by the Wachowski sisters, who directed the film. The narrative of Neo's journey from a sense of wrongness to self-realization, supported by characters who represent various facets of the transgender journey, offers a compelling allegory. Trinity, Morpheus, and the crew of the Nebuchadnezzar symbolize the supportive roles of allies and mentors, while Cypher represents the antagonistic forces of denial and betrayal. The video delves into these symbolic representations, highlighting how Neo's transformation parallels the struggles and triumphs of transgender individuals.

Parallels Between Neo’s Transgender Experiences and My Own. --continues

#TransJourney #MatrixMetaphor #TransAllegory #SupportiveCommunity

I normally don't like having my hair tied back. It tends to emphasise certain things, but it is too windy in Melbourne, so it's a necessity. Seems a bit better than usual. #trans #transexperience #transjourney #mtf

Another Wordpress daily prompt that I couldn't really leave alone since coming out is terrifying. It forces us to face numerous fears that often we are pushed to overcome. Read my refections on facing some of these fears. #Trans #Transjourney #Comingout

https://narrativecuriosity.co/pushed-to-overcome-the-fear-of-family-breakdown-and-so-much-more/