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  1. Why more singles are looking for love in real life than online

    Swiping fatigue is real and it's one of the reasons why new research says more singles are trying to make connections face-to-face rather than online. An ASU professor said one big issue online is quantity over quality. But she explained why ditching dating apps altogether might be a bad idea. Karina Rubio has more. #DatingAppBurnout #SinglesEvent #SpeedDating #ModernDating #DatingAdvice #GenZDating

    fllics.com/en/video/why-more-s

  2. I watched a video of Byron Katie* doing #TheWork with a lady who was deeply sad about being alone.

    She cries in the video and my heart goes out to her. She reminds me of some people I've met who have the opposite reaction: they have been disappointed by #ModernDating that they openly say they've given up on love!"

    Deeper Teaching and profound insight: "Be the person you love living with the most."

    Key Learning /Wisdom:
    When you're disconnected from yourself, life feels lonely regardless of relationship status.

    The loneliness isn't solved by finding someone else - it's resolved by coming home to yourself.

    My Takeaway/the Ultimate Truth:
    "You are the beloved. You're the one you want. You're the one you need. You're the one who is always there for you."

    The question becomes: How can you be the beloved to yourself 1st so whoever comes along expands your joy?

    youtu.be/Om35C9abRls?si=QQe5M5

    *Will post something about 4 Questions and what The Work is about

    #RomanticPartnership #LoveLife #intimacy

  3. I find it hilarious (sarcasm) that people must use "code words" for videos so they don't get banned on YouTube.

    Friend sent me this video from this man's channel. Here, he explains to women "what men consider (as) great sex."

    Code words used in the video as he talks (to avoid censorship) so he can freely teach about male mindset in relationship dynamics

    OG word: replacement word (0:31 onward)
    1. sex/intimacy: pineapple
    2. kinks: links
    3. fetish: relish
    4. cat/pussy: squirtle (yes, the water pokemon)

    youtu.be/4MoEsS23BO4?si=XuOaUG

    #AdultEducation #ModernDating #RelationshipPsychology #SexEd #DatingAdvice