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  1. A Word for Small Church Pastors

    “You don’t have a competitive bone in your body, and you’ll labor in the same vineyard as others,” a stranger once told me, having sensed the Holy Spirit wanted them to pass along this word.

    This is fairly true of me. I am happy to work alongside other churches, organizations, and city officials wherever we overlap in mission. Anything that is a win for the Kingdom of Heaven is a win for all of us.

    But like many pastors, I struggle with church jealousy. I have a strange habit of torturing myself by opening YouTube on Sunday nights to watch live streams from large churches in my city. What does that pastor have that I don’t? I think to myself. What is that church doing that we’re not? If I do what they’re doing, will more people show up?

    Comparison is something that all pastors have to face. There will always be a church somewhere doing something better than you or that has more people than you. You need to be faithful to what God is doing in your church—not to what he is doing in someone else’s. Surrender any jealousy that you have to Jesus as quickly as possible. It is not healthy for your soul or your ministry. If you are a true church, then you are a force to be reckoned with in the spiritual realm, regardless of size. Stand firm.

    Once, during a chaotic deliverance session, the manifested demon kept reminding me of how small our church was. A strange thing happened in that moment. Rather than feel defeated by its statements, I recognized that the demon was really annoyed by our small church. Why did it care so much about ripping apart our church if it was so small and pointless? Why did it want me to feel like a failed pastor?

    As I often say, figure out what a demon wants and do the opposite. If the demon wanted me out of ministry, then I was right where I was supposed to be. If the demon wanted me to feel deflated and hoped to shut down my tiny church, then I needed to continue to invest in it.

    Jesus has built his church, and the gates of hell will not stand against it. That word is for you, too, small church pastors. Stand strong.

    #churchGrowth #churchHealth #churchLeadership #comparison #deliveranceMinistry #demons #encouragement #faithfulness #jealousy #Jesus #kingdomOfGod #leadership #Matthew16 #ministry #pastoralLife #pastors #smallChurch #smallChurchPastors #spiritualWarfare
  2. A quotation from Montesquieu

    If we only wanted to be happy, it would be easy; but we want to be happier than other people, which is almost always difficult, since we think them happier than they are.
     
    [Si on ne vouloit qu’être heureux, cela seroit bientôt fait; mais on veut être plus heureux que les autres; et cela est presque toujours difficile, parce que nous croyons les autres plus heureux qu’ils ne sont.]

    Charles-Lewis de Secondat, Baron de Montesquieu (1689-1755) French political philosopher
    Pensées Diverses [Assorted Thoughts], # 978 / 1003 (1720-1755)

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/montesquieu/2896/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #montesquieu #comparison #competition #ego #envy #happiness #jealousy #others #perspective #selfaggrandizement #selfsabotage #selfishness

  3. A quotation from Montesquieu

    If we only wanted to be happy, it would be easy; but we want to be happier than other people, which is almost always difficult, since we think them happier than they are.
     
    [Si on ne vouloit qu’être heureux, cela seroit bientôt fait; mais on veut être plus heureux que les autres; et cela est presque toujours difficile, parce que nous croyons les autres plus heureux qu’ils ne sont.]

    Charles-Lewis de Secondat, Baron de Montesquieu (1689-1755) French political philosopher
    Pensées Diverses [Assorted Thoughts], # 978 / 1003 (1720-1755)

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/montesquieu/2896/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #montesquieu #comparison #competition #ego #envy #happiness #jealousy #others #perspective #selfaggrandizement #selfsabotage #selfishness

  4. A quotation from Montesquieu

    If we only wanted to be happy, it would be easy; but we want to be happier than other people, which is almost always difficult, since we think them happier than they are.
     
    [Si on ne vouloit qu’être heureux, cela seroit bientôt fait; mais on veut être plus heureux que les autres; et cela est presque toujours difficile, parce que nous croyons les autres plus heureux qu’ils ne sont.]

    Charles-Lewis de Secondat, Baron de Montesquieu (1689-1755) French political philosopher
    Pensées Diverses [Assorted Thoughts], # 978 / 1003 (1720-1755)

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/montesquieu/2896/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #montesquieu #comparison #competition #ego #envy #happiness #jealousy #others #perspective #selfaggrandizement #selfsabotage #selfishness

  5. A quotation from Montesquieu

    If we only wanted to be happy, it would be easy; but we want to be happier than other people, which is almost always difficult, since we think them happier than they are.
     
    [Si on ne vouloit qu’être heureux, cela seroit bientôt fait; mais on veut être plus heureux que les autres; et cela est presque toujours difficile, parce que nous croyons les autres plus heureux qu’ils ne sont.]

    Charles-Lewis de Secondat, Baron de Montesquieu (1689-1755) French political philosopher
    Pensées Diverses [Assorted Thoughts], # 978 / 1003 (1720-1755)

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/montesquieu/2896/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #montesquieu #comparison #competition #ego #envy #happiness #jealousy #others #perspective #selfaggrandizement #selfsabotage #selfishness

  6. A quotation from Montesquieu

    If we only wanted to be happy, it would be easy; but we want to be happier than other people, which is almost always difficult, since we think them happier than they are.
     
    [Si on ne vouloit qu’être heureux, cela seroit bientôt fait; mais on veut être plus heureux que les autres; et cela est presque toujours difficile, parce que nous croyons les autres plus heureux qu’ils ne sont.]

    Charles-Lewis de Secondat, Baron de Montesquieu (1689-1755) French political philosopher
    Pensées Diverses [Assorted Thoughts], # 978 / 1003 (1720-1755)

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/montesquieu/2896/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #montesquieu #comparison #competition #ego #envy #happiness #jealousy #others #perspective #selfaggrandizement #selfsabotage #selfishness

  7. Dirty Red "Manipulation. Lies. Backstabbing. Just your typical obsessively toxic love triangle" Sale: $16.44 to $2.99 by Tarryn Fisher Rating: 4.5/5 (3,678 Reviews) #romance #thriller #obsession #jealousy #secrets #lovetriangle #books #booksky #familylife #marriage #divorce #fiction #contromance

    Dirty Red

  8. Dirty Red "Manipulation. Lies. Backstabbing. Just your typical obsessively toxic love triangle" Sale: $16.44 to $2.99 by Tarryn Fisher Rating: 4.5/5 (3,678 Reviews) #romance #thriller #obsession #jealousy #secrets #lovetriangle #books #booksky #familylife #marriage #divorce #fiction #contromance

    Dirty Red

  9. 儚く尊い花 Скороминуща і дорогоцінна квітка
    妾、ポイズン雷花が告げる!
    Я, Poison_Raika, заявляю про це!

    note.com/poison_raika/n/nd622e

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    #declare #peace #dialogue #goodwill #alone #moment #greed #jealousy #fangs #disappears #wild #beast #human #ferocious #cruel #creature #never #forget

  10. 儚く尊い花 Скороминуща і дорогоцінна квітка
    妾、ポイズン雷花が告げる!
    Я, Poison_Raika, заявляю про це!

    note.com/poison_raika/n/nd622e

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    #declare #peace #dialogue #goodwill #alone #moment #greed #jealousy #fangs #disappears #wild #beast #human #ferocious #cruel #creature #never #forget

  11. 儚く尊い花 Скороминуща і дорогоцінна квітка
    妾、ポイズン雷花が告げる!
    Я, Poison_Raika, заявляю про це!

    note.com/poison_raika/n/nd622e

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    #declare #peace #dialogue #goodwill #alone #moment #greed #jealousy #fangs #disappears #wild #beast #human #ferocious #cruel #creature #never #forget

  12. Paul defended his "little foolishness" by appealing to his "godly #jealousy" for the Corinthian Christians. 

    He was concerned they were being led astray from the faith, and he absolutely did not to see that happen.

  13. Paul defended his "little foolishness" by appealing to his "godly #jealousy" for the Corinthian Christians. 

    He was concerned they were being led astray from the faith, and he absolutely did not to see that happen.

  14. A quotation from The Bible

    Set me as a seal upon thine heart,
       as a seal upon thine arm:
       for love is strong as death;
       jealousy is cruel as the grave:
       the coals thereof are coals of fire,
       which hath a most vehement flame.
    Many waters cannot quench love,
       neither can the floods drown it:
       if a man would give all the substance of his house for love,
       it would utterly be contemned.
     
    שִׂימֵ֨נִי כַֽחוֹתָ֜ם עַל־לִבֶּ֗ךָ כַּֽחוֹתָם֙ עַל־זְרוֹעֶ֔ךָ כִּֽי־עַזָּ֤ה כַמָּ֙וֶת֙ אַהֲבָ֔ה קָשָׁ֥ה כִשְׁא֖וֹל קִנְאָ֑ה רְשָׁפֶ֕יהָ רִשְׁפֵּ֕י אֵ֖שׁ שַׁלְהֶ֥בֶתְיָֽה׃
    מַ֣יִם רַבִּ֗ים לֹ֤א יֽוּכְלוּ֙ לְכַבּ֣וֹת אֶת־הָֽאַהֲבָ֔ה וּנְהָר֖וֹת לֹ֣א יִשְׁטְפ֑וּהָ אִם־יִתֵּ֨ן אִ֜ישׁ אֶת־כׇּל־ה֤וֹן בֵּיתוֹ֙ בָּאַהֲבָ֔ה בּ֖וֹז יָב֥וּזוּ לֽוֹ׃ {ס}

    The Bible (The Old Testament) (14th - 2nd C BC) Judeo-Christian sacred scripture [Tanakh, Hebrew Bible], incl. the Apocrypha (Deuterocanonicals)
    Book 22. Song of Songs (of Solomon; Canticles) 8: 6ff, Poem 6 (Song (Cant) 8:6-7) [tr. KJV (1611)]

    More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/bible-ot/83987/

    #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #bible #oldtestament #songofsongs #songofsolomon #jealousy #love #passion #price #value

  15. Took my dog to the vet. She was being her usual mellow elder lady self.

    And then I couldn’t resist patting an absolute doofus of a golden retriever.

    She growled at him, then she growled at him for walking past and then she growled at him for sitting over on the other side of the waiting room.

    And after seeing the vet, she growled at two new dogs in the waiting room for good measure.

    Message VERY received, girl 😂

    today.ucsd.edu/story/dog_jealo

    #dogsOfMastodon #jealousy

  16. Took my dog to the vet. She was being her usual mellow elder lady self.

    And then I couldn’t resist patting an absolute doofus of a golden retriever.

    She growled at him, then she growled at him for walking past and then she growled at him for sitting over on the other side of the waiting room.

    And after seeing the vet, she growled at two new dogs in the waiting room for good measure.

    Message VERY received, girl 😂

    today.ucsd.edu/story/dog_jealo

    #dogsOfMastodon #jealousy

  17. 儚く尊い花 Скороминуща і дорогоцінна квітка
    妾、ポイズン雷花が告げる!
    Я, Poison_Raika, заявляю про це!

    note.com/poison_raika/n/nd622e

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    #declare #peace #dialogue #goodwill #alone #moment #greed #jealousy #fangs #disappears #wild #beast #human #ferocious #cruel #creature #never #forget

  18. #PennedPossibilities 974 — Does your MC become jealous? If so, to what degree? How does their jealousy manifest?

    Jealousy is something taught in our society.

    Read that again.

    Nobody ever teaches that jealousy is in any wise good in Bolt's society. It's mentioned as a pathology in Men's Studies, and men taught to recognize that pathology will send people to Health Services if they recognize it.

    Bolt has felt envy, when she's seen a woman get a man she was eying.

    She's not entirely happy in one scene in Reluctant Courier (for the Mob) when she finds her friend Blue entertaining a pair of women. It's too hard to explain the nuances here, but it's a normal occurrence related to what people in their world call a "man's duty." Calling Blue a part-time geisha hints at the situation, but is not really close. He, however, recognizes that's Bolt has had a bad day (she has them fairly often, working for the mob) and really needs friendly (and also intimate) consoling. She's not up to sharing right then. Blue pawns off the two women on another guy in the association he lives at.

    Bolt isn't jealous. That's not the emotion. There is no anger, simply disappointment. Bolt and Blue are completely human, but the society is subtly, but sometimes in your face, alien in ways we can't grasp thanks to our enculturation and gender roles.

    [Author retains copyright (c)2026 R.S.]

    #BoostingIsSharing

    #gender #fiction #writer #author
    #cozy #mystery #sf #sff #sciencefiction
    #writing #writingcommunity #writersOfMastodon #writers
    #RSdiscussion
    #RSstory #RSReluctanceStory
    #jealous #jealousy #envy

  19. #PennedPossibilities 974 — Does your MC become jealous? If so, to what degree? How does their jealousy manifest?

    Jealousy is something taught in our society.

    Read that again.

    Nobody ever teaches that jealousy is in any wise good in Bolt's society. It's mentioned as a pathology in Men's Studies, and men taught to recognize that pathology will send people to Health Services if they recognize it.

    Bolt has felt envy, when she's seen a woman get a man she was eying.

    She's not entirely happy in one scene in Reluctant Courier (for the Mob) when she finds her friend Blue entertaining a pair of women. It's too hard to explain the nuances here, but it's a normal occurrence related to what people in their world call a "man's duty." Calling Blue a part-time geisha hints at the situation, but is not really close. He, however, recognizes that's Bolt has had a bad day (she has them fairly often, working for the mob) and really needs friendly (and also intimate) consoling. She's not up to sharing right then. Blue pawns off the two women on another guy in the association he lives at.

    Bolt isn't jealous. That's not the emotion. There is no anger, simply disappointment. Bolt and Blue are completely human, but the society is subtly, but sometimes in your face, alien in ways we can't grasp thanks to our enculturation and gender roles.

    [Author retains copyright (c)2026 R.S.]

    #BoostingIsSharing

    #gender #fiction #writer #author
    #cozy #mystery #sf #sff #sciencefiction
    #writing #writingcommunity #writersOfMastodon #writers
    #RSdiscussion
    #RSstory #RSReluctanceStory
    #jealous #jealousy #envy

  20. 𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐖𝐚𝐲𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬: "𝐎𝐟 𝐊𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬" -

    When writing children's verse, it's hard to see where sincerity ends and parody begins . . . .

    waywordsstudio.com/verse/of-ki

    #poetry #originalpoetry #childrensverse #parody #fairytale #fable #jealousy #greed #materialism #cautionarytale #politics

  21. And the first shall be last
    Cause: Whithin as outside,
    When parallels cross in infinity,
    So that the stingiest people
    Give you the richest gifts.

    #envy #jealousy #fear #transgression #sacrifice #superficialty #carefulnesslessness

  22. 儚く尊い花 Скороминуща і дорогоцінна квітка
    妾、ポイズン雷花が告げる!
    Я, Poison_Raika, заявляю про це!

    note.com/poison_raika/n/nd622e

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    #declare #peace #dialogue #goodwill #alone #moment #greed #jealousy #fangs #disappears #wild #beast #human #ferocious #cruel #creature #never #forget

  23. There is too much criticism and cynicism in the world, especially on social media, either from jealousy, ignorance, boredom, all the above or something else. The world would be a better place without it, certainly less of it. #critisicm #jealousy #boredom #ignorance