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  1. I might write this, as a gift to all attachment #Codependent volunteers—just to help others save their time/money/effort:
    "How to Avoid Dummies for Dummies"

  2. I might write this, as a gift to all attachment #Codependent volunteers—just to help others save their time/money/effort:
    "How to Avoid Dummies for Dummies"

  3. I might write this, as a gift to all attachment #Codependent volunteers—just to help others save their time/money/effort:
    "How to Avoid Dummies for Dummies"

  4. I might write this, as a gift to all attachment #Codependent volunteers—just to help others save their time/money/effort:
    "How to Avoid Dummies for Dummies"

  5. I might write this, as a gift to all attachment #Codependent volunteers—just to help others save their time/money/effort:
    "How to Avoid Dummies for Dummies"

  6. Founder nhận ra mối quan hệ với công ty là codependent sau khi tham gia liệu pháp. Dấu hiệu bao gồm: tự tôn chỉ dựa vào hiệu suất công ty, không thể tách biệt danh tính khỏi công ty, hy sinh nhu cầu cá nhân, không thể thiết lập ranh giới và tìm kiếm sự xác nhận từ bên ngoài. #codependent #liệu_pháp #sức_khỏe_tâm_thần #mentalhealth #wellness

    reddit.com/r/SaaS/comments/1qr

  7. I share this because if you come from a manipulative family or a codependent family, the grief can be mistaken for guilt or shame. Do not fall into that trap.

    Do not put yourself back into a gaslit echo chamber unless you’re in a safe state of mind to do so. Do not compromise your morals and values for anyone. You don’t owe anyone anything.

    #codepency #codependent #mentalhealth #healing

  8. I share this because if you come from a manipulative family or a codependent family, the grief can be mistaken for guilt or shame. Do not fall into that trap.

    Do not put yourself back into a gaslit echo chamber unless you’re in a safe state of mind to do so. Do not compromise your morals and values for anyone. You don’t owe anyone anything.

    #codepency #codependent #mentalhealth #healing

  9. I share this because if you come from a manipulative family or a codependent family, the grief can be mistaken for guilt or shame. Do not fall into that trap.

    Do not put yourself back into a gaslit echo chamber unless you’re in a safe state of mind to do so. Do not compromise your morals and values for anyone. You don’t owe anyone anything.

    #codepency #codependent #mentalhealth #healing

  10. I share this because if you come from a manipulative family or a codependent family, the grief can be mistaken for guilt or shame. Do not fall into that trap.

    Do not put yourself back into a gaslit echo chamber unless you’re in a safe state of mind to do so. Do not compromise your morals and values for anyone. You don’t owe anyone anything.

    #codepency #codependent #mentalhealth #healing

  11. I share this because if you come from a manipulative family or a codependent family, the grief can be mistaken for guilt or shame. Do not fall into that trap.

    Do not put yourself back into a gaslit echo chamber unless you’re in a safe state of mind to do so. Do not compromise your morals and values for anyone. You don’t owe anyone anything.

    #codepency #codependent #mentalhealth #healing

  12. Witnessing #codependent friends go into one relationship after another & never spending much time, truly doing self introspection - has never resulted in anything good or great.

    It's resulted in witnessing more folks that I care about, harming themselves. There's very little I can do about that when people I care about, refuse to learn to do better for themselves & keep getting into new relationships before dealing with their past relationship traumas.

  13. Witnessing #codependent friends go into one relationship after another & never spending much time, truly doing self introspection - has never resulted in anything good or great.

    It's resulted in witnessing more folks that I care about, harming themselves. There's very little I can do about that when people I care about, refuse to learn to do better for themselves & keep getting into new relationships before dealing with their past relationship traumas.

  14. Witnessing #codependent friends go into one relationship after another & never spending much time, truly doing self introspection - has never resulted in anything good or great.

    It's resulted in witnessing more folks that I care about, harming themselves. There's very little I can do about that when people I care about, refuse to learn to do better for themselves & keep getting into new relationships before dealing with their past relationship traumas.

  15. Witnessing #codependent friends go into one relationship after another & never spending much time, truly doing self introspection - has never resulted in anything good or great.

    It's resulted in witnessing more folks that I care about, harming themselves. There's very little I can do about that when people I care about, refuse to learn to do better for themselves & keep getting into new relationships before dealing with their past relationship traumas.

  16. Witnessing #codependent friends go into one relationship after another & never spending much time, truly doing self introspection - has never resulted in anything good or great.

    It's resulted in witnessing more folks that I care about, harming themselves. There's very little I can do about that when people I care about, refuse to learn to do better for themselves & keep getting into new relationships before dealing with their past relationship traumas.

  17. Nottingham based artist Juga-Naut brings us another track from his outstanding self-produced album Bem II. The video for Codependent features a collage of images, words and sounds. Juga-Naut explains, " kind of how my brain works".

    #BemII #Codependent #JugaNaut

    britishhiphop.co.uk/downloads/

  18. If you are still on #Twitter after everything #ElonMusk has done to make it a punishing experience, you don't have stamina. You're just #codependent, in the lamest possible way.
    #quittwitter

  19. If you are still on #Twitter after everything #ElonMusk has done to make it a punishing experience, you don't have stamina. You're just #codependent, in the lamest possible way.
    #quittwitter

  20. If you are still on #Twitter after everything #ElonMusk has done to make it a punishing experience, you don't have stamina. You're just #codependent, in the lamest possible way.
    #quittwitter

  21. If you are still on #Twitter after everything #ElonMusk has done to make it a punishing experience, you don't have stamina. You're just #codependent, in the lamest possible way.
    #quittwitter

  22. "To honor the self is to be willing to think independently, to live by our own mind, and to have the courage of our own perceptions and judgments.

    To honor the self is to be willing to know not only what we think but also what we feel, what we want, need, desire, suffer over, are frightened or angered by—and to accept our right to experience such feelings. The opposite of this attitude is denial, disowning, repression—self-repudiation.

    To honor the self is to preserve an attitude of self-acceptance—which means to accept what we are, without self-oppression or self-castigation, without any pretense about the truth of our own being, pretense aimed at deceiving either ourselves or anyone else.

    To honor the self is to live authentically, to speak and act from our innermost convictions and feelings.

    To honor the self is to refuse to accept unearned guilt, and to do our best to correct such guilt as we may have earned.

    To honor the self is to be committed to our right to exist which proceeds from the knowledge that our life does not belong to others and that we are not here on earth to live up to someone else’s expectations. To many people, this is a terrifying responsibility.

    To honor the self is to be in love with our own life, in love with our possibilities for growth and for experiencing joy, in love with the process of discovery and exploring our distinctively human potentialities.

    Thus we can begin to see that to honor the self is to practice selfishness in the highest, noblest, and least understood sense of that word. And this, I shall argue, requires enormous independence, courage, and integrity.

    We need to love ourselves and make a commitment to ourselves. We need to give ourselves some of the boundless loyalty that so many codependents are willing to give others. Out of high self-esteem will come true acts of kindness and charity, not selfishness.

    The love we give and receive will be enhanced by the love we give ourselves."

    -- Melody Beattie: #Codependent No More

  23. "To honor the self is to be willing to think independently, to live by our own mind, and to have the courage of our own perceptions and judgments.

    To honor the self is to be willing to know not only what we think but also what we feel, what we want, need, desire, suffer over, are frightened or angered by—and to accept our right to experience such feelings. The opposite of this attitude is denial, disowning, repression—self-repudiation.

    To honor the self is to preserve an attitude of self-acceptance—which means to accept what we are, without self-oppression or self-castigation, without any pretense about the truth of our own being, pretense aimed at deceiving either ourselves or anyone else.

    To honor the self is to live authentically, to speak and act from our innermost convictions and feelings.

    To honor the self is to refuse to accept unearned guilt, and to do our best to correct such guilt as we may have earned.

    To honor the self is to be committed to our right to exist which proceeds from the knowledge that our life does not belong to others and that we are not here on earth to live up to someone else’s expectations. To many people, this is a terrifying responsibility.

    To honor the self is to be in love with our own life, in love with our possibilities for growth and for experiencing joy, in love with the process of discovery and exploring our distinctively human potentialities.

    Thus we can begin to see that to honor the self is to practice selfishness in the highest, noblest, and least understood sense of that word. And this, I shall argue, requires enormous independence, courage, and integrity.

    We need to love ourselves and make a commitment to ourselves. We need to give ourselves some of the boundless loyalty that so many codependents are willing to give others. Out of high self-esteem will come true acts of kindness and charity, not selfishness.

    The love we give and receive will be enhanced by the love we give ourselves."

    -- Melody Beattie: #Codependent No More

  24. "To honor the self is to be willing to think independently, to live by our own mind, and to have the courage of our own perceptions and judgments.

    To honor the self is to be willing to know not only what we think but also what we feel, what we want, need, desire, suffer over, are frightened or angered by—and to accept our right to experience such feelings. The opposite of this attitude is denial, disowning, repression—self-repudiation.

    To honor the self is to preserve an attitude of self-acceptance—which means to accept what we are, without self-oppression or self-castigation, without any pretense about the truth of our own being, pretense aimed at deceiving either ourselves or anyone else.

    To honor the self is to live authentically, to speak and act from our innermost convictions and feelings.

    To honor the self is to refuse to accept unearned guilt, and to do our best to correct such guilt as we may have earned.

    To honor the self is to be committed to our right to exist which proceeds from the knowledge that our life does not belong to others and that we are not here on earth to live up to someone else’s expectations. To many people, this is a terrifying responsibility.

    To honor the self is to be in love with our own life, in love with our possibilities for growth and for experiencing joy, in love with the process of discovery and exploring our distinctively human potentialities.

    Thus we can begin to see that to honor the self is to practice selfishness in the highest, noblest, and least understood sense of that word. And this, I shall argue, requires enormous independence, courage, and integrity.

    We need to love ourselves and make a commitment to ourselves. We need to give ourselves some of the boundless loyalty that so many codependents are willing to give others. Out of high self-esteem will come true acts of kindness and charity, not selfishness.

    The love we give and receive will be enhanced by the love we give ourselves."

    -- Melody Beattie: #Codependent No More

  25. "To honor the self is to be willing to think independently, to live by our own mind, and to have the courage of our own perceptions and judgments.

    To honor the self is to be willing to know not only what we think but also what we feel, what we want, need, desire, suffer over, are frightened or angered by—and to accept our right to experience such feelings. The opposite of this attitude is denial, disowning, repression—self-repudiation.

    To honor the self is to preserve an attitude of self-acceptance—which means to accept what we are, without self-oppression or self-castigation, without any pretense about the truth of our own being, pretense aimed at deceiving either ourselves or anyone else.

    To honor the self is to live authentically, to speak and act from our innermost convictions and feelings.

    To honor the self is to refuse to accept unearned guilt, and to do our best to correct such guilt as we may have earned.

    To honor the self is to be committed to our right to exist which proceeds from the knowledge that our life does not belong to others and that we are not here on earth to live up to someone else’s expectations. To many people, this is a terrifying responsibility.

    To honor the self is to be in love with our own life, in love with our possibilities for growth and for experiencing joy, in love with the process of discovery and exploring our distinctively human potentialities.

    Thus we can begin to see that to honor the self is to practice selfishness in the highest, noblest, and least understood sense of that word. And this, I shall argue, requires enormous independence, courage, and integrity.

    We need to love ourselves and make a commitment to ourselves. We need to give ourselves some of the boundless loyalty that so many codependents are willing to give others. Out of high self-esteem will come true acts of kindness and charity, not selfishness.

    The love we give and receive will be enhanced by the love we give ourselves."

    -- Melody Beattie: #Codependent No More

  26. Something I leaned in #therapy many years ago is that I don't have to give a reason why I am unable to do something. Like respond to emails right away. It was a completely eye opening moment in therapy. I can just do things when I have time and not even mention being late. I still often feel like I should have an excuse but I quickly qwash that feeling! #response #MentalHealth #codependent #EyeOpening #LightBulbMoment

  27. Something I leaned in #therapy many years ago is that I don't have to give a reason why I am unable to do something. Like respond to emails right away. It was a completely eye opening moment in therapy. I can just do things when I have time and not even mention being late. I still often feel like I should have an excuse but I quickly qwash that feeling! #response #MentalHealth #codependent #EyeOpening #LightBulbMoment

  28. Something I leaned in #therapy many years ago is that I don't have to give a reason why I am unable to do something. Like respond to emails right away. It was a completely eye opening moment in therapy. I can just do things when I have time and not even mention being late. I still often feel like I should have an excuse but I quickly qwash that feeling! #response #MentalHealth #codependent #EyeOpening #LightBulbMoment

  29. Something I leaned in #therapy many years ago is that I don't have to give a reason why I am unable to do something. Like respond to emails right away. It was a completely eye opening moment in therapy. I can just do things when I have time and not even mention being late. I still often feel like I should have an excuse but I quickly qwash that feeling! #response #MentalHealth #codependent #EyeOpening #LightBulbMoment

  30. Something I leaned in #therapy many years ago is that I don't have to give a reason why I am unable to do something. Like respond to emails right away. It was a completely eye opening moment in therapy. I can just do things when I have time and not even mention being late. I still often feel like I should have an excuse but I quickly qwash that feeling! #response #MentalHealth #codependent #EyeOpening #LightBulbMoment